4:29 "I'd put you in my top 3, every time." "You put me 3rd, though." I remember this moment standing out to me during the podcast as a super real moment that put a statement to something I think a lot of people feel with their friends, from both Anthony and Aiden's perspectives. I've been where Slime is, seeing a friend of mine try so hard at something and trying to encourage them and coming off the wrong way, and I've been where Aiden is, trying so hard and knowing your friends don't think you can be as good as you want to be, as well-meaning as they are
Yeah dude. I'm fully aware of the fact that I get carried in most teams games. I'm not the best shooter or driver or anything out of the guys I play with, but when I'm the only one left and they just go "alright this is ggs" I'm like bro, maybe I'll get better faster if I feel like literally anybody believes in me and thinks I can pull it off. It sucks when you're in the spot Aiden is in there. The shows funniest when it's all poop and ass farts, but these are people, with feelings and whole ass lives and at the end of the day, they're the same as us.
I never wanted to hug a homie more than when Aiden said: "I can see that no one believes in me, but me." I shed a tear, because I've been there. I've been up in pools and immediately double-elim'd when the bracket gets cooking. I was at the headspace when I told everyone I was going to culinary school. The amount of times I've felt like that are nearly unquantifiable - but when you grind it out and get to a summit where you you can see all you've achieved, the peak seems to matter less.
Skill and abilities are quantifiable. They were also right about it. So does he continue to try and grow? Or does he stay at that level and cry about it? How does one respond?
Genuinely, seeing this made my existence so much more validated. The same week Aimen said this, my boxing team had cut me from the regional tryouts, and I couldn’t help but feel so worthless. Seeing Aimen get in front of thousands and airing those same feelings, without a shred of dishonesty or regret, it made me feel like I wasn’t a failure. Thank you Aimen gamin’.
Real little brother dreams of beating older brother, but then older brother moves away or retires energy. Touching and sweet to see the guys be so supportive. I don't play competitive pvp games all that much. But Ludwigs elden ring playthrough series really taught me how to better manage gamer rage. Sometimes , you have to step back and laugh at yourself and accept and know your own weaknesses. Not to say Aimen is wrong to focus on competitive play. I am impressed by and look up to all of their maturity in the gaming space, which is pretty rare.
When he talked about Nick constantly being better at him then all the games they play it really hit. It’s really just the disappointment in yourself that hurts so much that you want to get better
THIS is why video games are a valid form of expression and can be a source of passion. Seeing Aiden go through it here is so validating for others trying to progress in Melee (or in anything really).
I resonated with this so much, thanks for this. Its a lonely feeling- taking something a bit more seriously and not performing to your expectations. I also get when someone who you viewed as a benchmark stops taking it as seriously. You feel like you blew your shot, and i know, like you mentioned, in the long run it wont matter. But in the moment i do think it is something worth mourning.
We all feel intense passion for things and sometimes its hard when we fail cause it disappoints us we couldn't do better It's awesome to hear Aiden be this open about his loss and the emotions he's going through
This I’ve felt emotionally devastated in the past for not meeting expectations I set myself but it’s good to express how you feel because it’s ok to fail.
I went to a YGO tournament recently and despite having a good event I felt this wave of sadness hit me after and I remembered this moment from the pod, and what Aiden was describing going through mentally with Smash really resonated with me in that moment. Feels cringe leaving a YT comment about it but if Aiden ever does read this you're a real one and I'm thankful for you sharing this moment and giving me perspective on my own situation.
i've never related more to someone talking about competing than aiden here. n see that no one believes in me, but me" hit me so hard. competing in something you are so passionate about is a beautiful thing that takes so much out of you, it drains you, but ultimately i think it's worth it. constantly striving to improve and feel mastery in something is something i have always wanted.
This was the moment, even above all the hilarious comedic moments, that made this become my favorite podcast and it made me love Aimen McGamin' even more
im glad they let aiden process his vulnerability. i only hope people don’t diminish it because it’s in the context of melee. respect and love these guys 💜
Hopefully this clip deters anymore strange comments about the group being silly towards Aimen cause they easily could’ve just shut him down mid conversation and moved on with another topic but decided to let him speak thoroughly and give him advice. A very humble moment on The Yard!
Commenting on this feels weird bc it’s such a personal moment, but I think this is worth saying and is more directed towards people watching and not the yard boys. This is such a good moment of not only vulnerability and emotional maturity, but also a great example of genuine support between men. I think on the grand scale that this whole dialogue and level of openness and support between guys is still not that common, or at least not here in the states. So it’s really nice to not only see this kind of friendship but also that it is on a podcast that so many young people watch
I feel really bad for Nick. Nothing wrong at all with Aiden's feelings but it must have been difficult for Nick to hear that he's been indirectly having an effect on Aiden's self esteem
He also must have felt like a douche at that moment as well cause here's Aiden baring his heartache and here's Nick wearing a grandiose Crown and Cloak
I don't think nick took it personally because he's aiden's friend and aiden made it very clear that it's not nick's fault and that it's more about his own expectations about himself which are valid. i think he made it very clear that it wasn't ABOUT nick but just had to do with how he viewed his own progression in melee and his own feelings of self worth rather than being mad at nick for being able to improve quickly at a game
@@nickstopic7421 "indirectly had an effect" doesn't contradict what you've said imo. Even if nick made the conscious decision to not take it personally, no one would like hearing their friend talk about how sad they are that they'll never beat you and how depressed it makes them
Unreasonably long comment about similar feelings incoming, if anyone is interested: I think that I, to some small extent, can understand where Aiden's strong emotions were coming from. What I'm about to describe isn't supposed to imply that Aiden handled this like a child, AT ALL, it's just that over the last 20+ years I have become much more relaxed about competition and haven't been as invested in any competitive activities anymore. However, when I was like less than 10 years old I used to play table tennis at a club (Europe, where competitive sports are mostly organized through clubs, instead of school and college). Only mentioning table tennis because it is usually a 1v1 sport, not a team sport, just like Melee. According to my father (who used to be really good and often trained with me) and my trainers, I was quite talented and became pretty good for my age rather quickly. So, I put a lot of pressure on myself whenever I faced off against anyone. I thought that I should win, always. Back then I was fiercely competitive, if I cared about something and whenever I lost, I had no one to share the blame with. This meant that I had either played below the abilities I knew I had or that no matter what I did, my opponent was just better than me. Both scenarios made me so incredibly furious that I just couldn't handle it, because I had let myself down. Either because I had played below my potential or I was simply not good enough. What followed multiple times were tears of sheer frustration. Aiden's tears seemed to come from a place of sadness and frustration, while mine were more a mixture of uncontrolled anger and frustration, so it's not the same of course (not even taking age into account), but I remember all too well that helpless frustration about a negative outcome, where you feel like you really let yourself down and now you can't do anything about it anymore. Anyway, I love that he is so mature and genuinely confident that he can be vulnerable in public / around his friends (who also handled this situation like champs) and remains so open and honest, instead of brushing off how he really feels. The Yard is hilarious, but moments like these make them loveable on top of that. Love these guys, as much as a total stranger can. I'd be really surprised if anyone ever read all of this. Might as well have opened this comment with "Dear diary...". 😂
This video hits so hard. Me and my long time best friend have the same thing. I’m not terrible at any of the games and I can usually do pretty decent but he’s always just slightly better than me
Like they said. It's not about the tourney, it's not even really about the game. It's about the pain of not living up to your own expectations. Very relatable me thinks.
A very real moment of genuine vulnerability. I really appreciated that they kept this in given how ruthless the internet can be sometimes.
Love how ruthless slime was then became a soft bear
@@Dot2TheLock Slime went full empath. You can see in his face that he's shook by Aiden being distraught. Gotta support the homies.
it warms my heart to see a group of men give their friend the safe space to express their emotions and feel comfortable being vulnerable.
the subway surfer clip is crazy man 😭
Yeah that was really obnoxious
@@morganbush7775 they talked about it in the show
@@LucasTheF In which episode ?
The fact that nick is wearing what he is, while Aidan is bearing his soul is wild. It’s inappropriate, totally on brand, and hilarious haha
4:29
"I'd put you in my top 3, every time."
"You put me 3rd, though."
I remember this moment standing out to me during the podcast as a super real moment that put a statement to something I think a lot of people feel with their friends, from both Anthony and Aiden's perspectives. I've been where Slime is, seeing a friend of mine try so hard at something and trying to encourage them and coming off the wrong way, and I've been where Aiden is, trying so hard and knowing your friends don't think you can be as good as you want to be, as well-meaning as they are
Yeah dude. I'm fully aware of the fact that I get carried in most teams games. I'm not the best shooter or driver or anything out of the guys I play with, but when I'm the only one left and they just go "alright this is ggs" I'm like bro, maybe I'll get better faster if I feel like literally anybody believes in me and thinks I can pull it off.
It sucks when you're in the spot Aiden is in there.
The shows funniest when it's all poop and ass farts, but these are people, with feelings and whole ass lives and at the end of the day, they're the same as us.
This is proof. Aimen isn't cringe. Aimen's pog :)
Maybe a little cringe
@@jurb417only when he smokes weed
Just because he cried doesn't mean he's not cringe. Don't give sympathy points.
man that subway surfer gameplay was insane wtf
It really struck a chord with me when I heard this, I truly understand what Aimen was feeling here
Top moment in Yard history for sure
Really appreciate seeing how much Aiden cares, and how invested he is in proving himself
Bruh, he’s playing smash. They should be starting to quit and step back.
@@centra_syhr2395why
@@centra_syhr2395why
I never wanted to hug a homie more than when Aiden said: "I can see that no one believes in me, but me."
I shed a tear, because I've been there.
I've been up in pools and immediately double-elim'd when the bracket gets cooking.
I was at the headspace when I told everyone I was going to culinary school.
The amount of times I've felt like that are nearly unquantifiable - but when you grind it out and get to a summit where you you can see all you've achieved, the peak seems to matter less.
Skill and abilities are quantifiable. They were also right about it. So does he continue to try and grow? Or does he stay at that level and cry about it? How does one respond?
@@Jesusluvz does it not occur to you that someone can try and grow while also having emotions about things
Genuinely, seeing this made my existence so much more validated. The same week Aimen said this, my boxing team had cut me from the regional tryouts, and I couldn’t help but feel so worthless. Seeing Aimen get in front of thousands and airing those same feelings, without a shred of dishonesty or regret, it made me feel like I wasn’t a failure. Thank you Aimen gamin’.
He's really our best boy. Number 1 yard member who'd I'd actually love to meet irl someday.
Real little brother dreams of beating older brother, but then older brother moves away or retires energy. Touching and sweet to see the guys be so supportive. I don't play competitive pvp games all that much. But Ludwigs elden ring playthrough series really taught me how to better manage gamer rage. Sometimes , you have to step back and laugh at yourself and accept and know your own weaknesses. Not to say Aimen is wrong to focus on competitive play. I am impressed by and look up to all of their maturity in the gaming space, which is pretty rare.
I relate to the feeling of losing being so devestating, also loved the honesty and vulnerability being kept in. Normalizes this stuff a bit
The subway surfer addition at 8:02 sent my sides into orbit when i first wathed this
When he talked about Nick constantly being better at him then all the games they play it really hit. It’s really just the disappointment in yourself that hurts so much that you want to get better
THIS is why video games are a valid form of expression and can be a source of passion. Seeing Aiden go through it here is so validating for others trying to progress in Melee (or in anything really).
I resonated with this so much, thanks for this. Its a lonely feeling- taking something a bit more seriously and not performing to your expectations. I also get when someone who you viewed as a benchmark stops taking it as seriously. You feel like you blew your shot, and i know, like you mentioned, in the long run it wont matter. But in the moment i do think it is something worth mourning.
We all feel intense passion for things and sometimes its hard when we fail cause it disappoints us we couldn't do better
It's awesome to hear Aiden be this open about his loss and the emotions he's going through
This
I’ve felt emotionally devastated in the past for not meeting expectations I set myself but it’s good to express how you feel because it’s ok to fail.
It was amazing to see how caring and empathetic everyone is. And good on you guys for posting it.
i comeback to this every now and then to feel something
Inbetween all the laughs, bits, gags, and more, these moments really hit you like a tidal wave.
I went to a YGO tournament recently and despite having a good event I felt this wave of sadness hit me after and I remembered this moment from the pod, and what Aiden was describing going through mentally with Smash really resonated with me in that moment. Feels cringe leaving a YT comment about it but if Aiden ever does read this you're a real one and I'm thankful for you sharing this moment and giving me perspective on my own situation.
This is honestly one of my favourite the yard moments you can tell the boys are just such good friends and that’s so important to me!
i've never related more to someone talking about competing than aiden here. n see that no one believes in me, but me" hit me so hard. competing in something you are so passionate about is a beautiful thing that takes so much out of you, it drains you, but ultimately i think it's worth it. constantly striving to improve and feel mastery in something is something i have always wanted.
I fucking love Aiden
Emotion vulnerability in men is rare to see online and is so important to show that it is acceptable, thank you guys.
Thank you for being genuine.
This was the moment, even above all the hilarious comedic moments, that made this become my favorite podcast and it made me love Aimen McGamin' even more
im glad they let aiden process his vulnerability. i only hope people don’t diminish it because it’s in the context of melee.
respect and love these guys 💜
Hopefully this clip deters anymore strange comments about the group being silly towards Aimen cause they easily could’ve just shut him down mid conversation and moved on with another topic but decided to let him speak thoroughly and give him advice. A very humble moment on The Yard!
Fuck I need some friends man
You’re not alone in that, friend.
It's so lovely when boys are vulnerable!!! The world is healing
Aimen you’re my favourite yard ❤
Hope you’re okay, bud.
I lost it when the editor added subway surfers omg
I love how supportive they were when he got emotional and didn’t put him down especially when it’s a group of guys
Then the subway surfer clip and the csgo surfing clip made me laugh so hard
The csgo surf insert was insane
As someone who competed in Melee for a long time, to moderate but ultimately negligible local/statewide success, this really hits home
real homies let homies be emotionally vulnerable with each other.
I love how they just allow him to be emotional and let him speak his shit
Commenting on this feels weird bc it’s such a personal moment, but I think this is worth saying and is more directed towards people watching and not the yard boys. This is such a good moment of not only vulnerability and emotional maturity, but also a great example of genuine support between men. I think on the grand scale that this whole dialogue and level of openness and support between guys is still not that common, or at least not here in the states. So it’s really nice to not only see this kind of friendship but also that it is on a podcast that so many young people watch
Aimen Gamin 💜
Empathy got me emotional and stuff. U got this Aimen! o7
I feel really bad for Nick. Nothing wrong at all with Aiden's feelings but it must have been difficult for Nick to hear that he's been indirectly having an effect on Aiden's self esteem
He also must have felt like a douche at that moment as well cause here's Aiden baring his heartache and here's Nick wearing a grandiose Crown and Cloak
I don't think nick took it personally because he's aiden's friend and aiden made it very clear that it's not nick's fault and that it's more about his own expectations about himself which are valid. i think he made it very clear that it wasn't ABOUT nick but just had to do with how he viewed his own progression in melee and his own feelings of self worth rather than being mad at nick for being able to improve quickly at a game
@@nickstopic7421 "indirectly had an effect" doesn't contradict what you've said imo. Even if nick made the conscious decision to not take it personally, no one would like hearing their friend talk about how sad they are that they'll never beat you and how depressed it makes them
Love you big aimen
I love that you added your own video game play
Who came here after Lud told the story how it was his idea to add the Subway Surfer video to this LMAO
literally me
yep
I respect this so much for everyone involved
8:10 bros setting up the TikTok Clip
Thats based as fuck. I love Aimen Gamin
Im so sad for being late for this, but Aiden is so real for this!
hooooly the subway surfers and cs kitsune im gonna lose my mind
Unreasonably long comment about similar feelings incoming, if anyone is interested:
I think that I, to some small extent, can understand where Aiden's strong emotions were coming from. What I'm about to describe isn't supposed to imply that Aiden handled this like a child, AT ALL, it's just that over the last 20+ years I have become much more relaxed about competition and haven't been as invested in any competitive activities anymore. However, when I was like less than 10 years old I used to play table tennis at a club (Europe, where competitive sports are mostly organized through clubs, instead of school and college). Only mentioning table tennis because it is usually a 1v1 sport, not a team sport, just like Melee.
According to my father (who used to be really good and often trained with me) and my trainers, I was quite talented and became pretty good for my age rather quickly. So, I put a lot of pressure on myself whenever I faced off against anyone. I thought that I should win, always. Back then I was fiercely competitive, if I cared about something and whenever I lost, I had no one to share the blame with. This meant that I had either played below the abilities I knew I had or that no matter what I did, my opponent was just better than me. Both scenarios made me so incredibly furious that I just couldn't handle it, because I had let myself down. Either because I had played below my potential or I was simply not good enough. What followed multiple times were tears of sheer frustration. Aiden's tears seemed to come from a place of sadness and frustration, while mine were more a mixture of uncontrolled anger and frustration, so it's not the same of course (not even taking age into account), but I remember all too well that helpless frustration about a negative outcome, where you feel like you really let yourself down and now you can't do anything about it anymore.
Anyway, I love that he is so mature and genuinely confident that he can be vulnerable in public / around his friends (who also handled this situation like champs) and remains so open and honest, instead of brushing off how he really feels. The Yard is hilarious, but moments like these make them loveable on top of that. Love these guys, as much as a total stranger can.
I'd be really surprised if anyone ever read all of this. Might as well have opened this comment with "Dear diary...". 😂
Lmfao with the subway surfers and csgo surfing.
This is like the Sakuma vs Smile game from ping pong (except aiden and nick are close friends)
okay... 9:50 is the realest thing ive ever heard on this podcast. wow...
Honestly. I felt the same thing Aiden did but for Halo, only I just stopped trying to compete and went back to a prior halo I enjoy
This video hits so hard. Me and my long time best friend have the same thing. I’m not terrible at any of the games and I can usually do pretty decent but he’s always just slightly better than me
Loved the subway servers
I picked up Melee because of this clip.
Luds immediate response being to say i love you is really nice. These are good fellas man
I love this because he only needs to be understood and listened to.
Edit: aint no way you hit me with subway surfers and csgo
I read alien gets emotional at first...
mayhaps aimen is not so cringe after all
ayyy exexgirlfriend shoutout
8:10 good one💀
Maybe… aiden isn’t cringe
very cool!
i've never felt more parasocial
7:37
Aimen losing to stadium transformations twice is crazy LMAO
so confused at 8:21 with the random gameplay; reminds me of the adhd zoomer tiktoks
Dats da joooooooke
Ludwig mentions somewhere it was an idea he had
the link in the description doesn't seem to be the right VOD, is this from a premo?
episode 80
@@AdapGyou are a true blue hero
You linked the wrong Ep in the description
which episode is this clip from?
episode 80
What was that weird game on game split screen edit midway? Weird AF.
8:03
Parody of commentary videos with Subway surfers/surf maps in the background me thinks
Levity in a tough moment. Expert move from Archie.
from stweam (stream but dumbahh baby saying it)
Seek help
No one said he would win it, and he didn’t.
Bad take, you sound childish
@@Tonyboy8055 nah, childish is crying over a video game.
Like they said. It's not about the tourney, it's not even really about the game. It's about the pain of not living up to your own expectations. Very relatable me thinks.
My brother in Christ, watch Ping Pong the Animation.
@@noahmay7708 I’d assume it’s not even not winning, but it’s not showing that you have the capability to win in the set