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  • @IceCreamSandwich
    @IceCreamSandwich  Год назад +4251

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  • @garbagecrow9886
    @garbagecrow9886 Год назад +19224

    I actually pretty recently told my mom I wanted to take an ADHD test because I kept relating a lot to stuff claimed as ADHD, like stuff stated in this video. Then she told me that I already took one years ago and was officially diagnosed with it and I had just…..forgotten that.

    • @citrus2769
      @citrus2769 Год назад +2390

      LMAO THAT SOUNDS LIKE A MEME

    • @Garglesnarf
      @Garglesnarf Год назад +920

      I forgot about mine too! For about 20 years! 😂

    • @ZaHandle
      @ZaHandle Год назад +818

      he forgor 💀

    • @liviwaslost
      @liviwaslost Год назад +439

      I feel you lol. That’s how I got my autism diagnosis fixed.

    • @Ardorstorm
      @Ardorstorm Год назад +56

      lmao

  • @Atellas
    @Atellas Год назад +16157

    My sister has ADHD. Media SUCKS at depicting ADHD. It’s not just one thing. It’s so stupid seeing ADHD treated like it’s a singular thing and that there’s not so many different ways that people with it handle things. I’ll have to show this video to her. Awesome job, Andy!

    • @fool4343
      @fool4343 Год назад +391

      the way neurodivergency depicted overall is so bad. for some reason the best depictions are those which it isnt confirmed in the show? but some writers say "oh yea it seems i did write a nd character" or "yea they are neurodivergent" (eg: luz from the owl house for first and the purple turtle from new tmnt cartoon)

    • @Google_remote
      @Google_remote Год назад +254

      yessssss im so tired of people saying “well this person can do this with adhd why cant you do the same?” but they dont know everyone has different types and varying degrees of adhd and i HATE IT when people use other people as an excuse to call you lazy

    • @cheeseCuts
      @cheeseCuts Год назад +106

      I have ADHD and sometimes when I’m with my friends they get annoyed because I accidentally get hyper and I apologize even though I barely have any control over it. Media thinks a lot of the time that ADHD is just a thing that people have and I gets me annoyed because of it. I’ve recently been trying to control it better and I completely agree that everybody handles it differently.

    • @GWAHGWAHGWAHGWAHGWAHGWAHGWAHGW
      @GWAHGWAHGWAHGWAHGWAHGWAHGWAHGW Год назад +66

      I watched the sick video, and when he said “I move around a lot, I haven’t quite looked into why” I just said “Oh no that’s ADHD”

    • @Aurora_Animates
      @Aurora_Animates Год назад +8

      YOOO HEY SHINY ! How r ya bud

  • @quendelf
    @quendelf Месяц назад +252

    Them: “Stay still for 30 minutes”
    Me: “But I can fidget right?”

    • @johnmcwick1
      @johnmcwick1 26 дней назад +14

      Them: no
      Me:*whispers “ah shhhhhhhhhhhiitake mushrooms… hehe”

    • @fishbowlliz
      @fishbowlliz 2 дня назад

      “Can I at least watch a RUclips video? My brain craves stimulation.”

  • @TheClintonio
    @TheClintonio Месяц назад +102

    Walking in circles talking to myself is literally a daily activity. I too have ADHD and if I'm alone I NEED to do it occasionally.

    • @themisfitowl2595
      @themisfitowl2595 29 дней назад +2

      100% same. Often I do this in the bathroom in front of the mirror, so it's like I'm talking to myself in the mirror. I've done it ever since I was a kid and nobody thought to get me tested.

    • @teasonm3617
      @teasonm3617 26 дней назад +2

      I was literally talking to myself as I read this, and just caught myself doing it lol.

    • @Rubiktor012
      @Rubiktor012 5 дней назад

      I have a weird version of this where I do twitch streamer commentary whenever I do anything.

  • @iamcre8ive
    @iamcre8ive Год назад +7219

    As a fellow inattentive ADHDer I felt so represented by the walking in circles talking to yourself thing.

    • @doggofriends9346
      @doggofriends9346 Год назад +145

      i have left a skinless body atop my nearest cellular tower

    • @MetaTomato
      @MetaTomato Год назад +360

      Yeah i will just walk in circles in my room talking to myself for like half an hour xD it's really comforting but I've never known anyone else who does it

    • @iamcre8ive
      @iamcre8ive Год назад +167

      @@MetaTomato I swear, it's walking in circles and talking to myself that I peak

    • @ZstrawberryX
      @ZstrawberryX Год назад +348

      I have legit spent hours just walking around my house talking to myself, either pretending to be a youtuber or a celebrity in an interview.

    • @iamcre8ive
      @iamcre8ive Год назад +92

      @@ZstrawberryX THIS

  • @toganium4175
    @toganium4175 Год назад +2218

    As a person with ADHD, if I can get one thing done in a day, that is an accomplishment in of itself.

  • @Paul_Michael
    @Paul_Michael 23 дня назад +119

    I got diagnosed with ADHD 23 years ago as a teenage. Spent my whole life fighting ADHD. I suffered severe depression and mental disorder. Not until my wife recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment saved my life honestly. 8 years totally clean. Never thought I would be saying this about mushrooms.

    • @DassHibionada
      @DassHibionada 23 дня назад +1

      Congrats on your recovery. Most persons never realizes psilocybin can be used as a miracle medication to save lives. Years back i wrote an entire essay about psychedelics. they saved you from death bud, lets be honest here.

    • @JanetRichardson-mq5es
      @JanetRichardson-mq5es 23 дня назад

      Can you help me with the reliable source 🙏. I'm 56 and have suffered for years with addiction, anxiety and severe ptsd, I got my panic attacks under control myself years ago and they have come back with a vengeance, I'm constantly trying to take full breaths but can't get the full satisfying breath out, it's absolutely crippling me, i live in Australia. I don't know much about these mushrooms. Really need a reliable source!! Can't wait to get them

    • @SusanaGomez-mp8sk
      @SusanaGomez-mp8sk 23 дня назад +4

      YES very sure of Dr.benfungi. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

    • @Mcdogmom288
      @Mcdogmom288 23 дня назад

      100% agree I used to have Psychosis and paranoid thoughts like "people thinking about me talking about me etc. Very odd behavior after getting off Adderall from 7-16. Antidepressants at 18-29. 31 now. I took way to much, but took about 20g of Gold caps (Psilocybin containing mushroom) I analyzed my entire life. The emotions that came out helped me understand behavior etc more. Wont ever need to do it again because I'm happy and contempt forever, but I wish more people did this to alter their perception of reality. Would help with healing much trauma

    • @Thomas-kl2ft
      @Thomas-kl2ft 23 дня назад

      How do I reach out to him? Is he on insta

  • @mud_puddles
    @mud_puddles 4 месяца назад +58

    I was diagnosed with ADHD last year and this was the first person talking about their ADHD that I could relate to. I wasn't finding myself relating to other people's experiences, and I was afraid that I was misdiagnosed, or that I was faking it without even knowing. this video gave me so much relief seeing someone else go through basically the exact same thing as me.
    for anyone wondering, I tried Adderall and it worked while I was in school but I'm graduated now and it didn't help with anything, so now I'm just kinda here

    • @ChillnLearn-pm4yn
      @ChillnLearn-pm4yn 2 месяца назад +2

      I don't know if i should test myself because there are so many things that are 180° not ADHD, but I still relate to so many different things.
      Reading paragraphs 10x or more? yes.
      Placing my phone somewhere and then wonder where I put it? always.
      Procrastination? I don't even know anymore if I have any motivation for shit because I postpone everything until last minute (thats where motivation kicks in and i go brrt)
      But on the other hand:
      Meditation and because of that doing nothing? nice.
      hyperfocus? idfk, i atleast dont forget to drink and notice when people call me
      10 thoughts at the same time? I dont think so

  • @gurglenurgle6539
    @gurglenurgle6539 Год назад +1128

    I think the "walking in circles talking out loud" thing is partially based on the fact that it makes it easier to reflect on issues and form more coherent strings of thought than if you were to do it just in your mind where things quickly get muddled and confusing. At least that's what it's like for me, even though I don't think I have ADHD. I like talking out loud to myself about things a lot because it's just easier to stay on topic.

    • @truckersquirrel
      @truckersquirrel Год назад +46

      ADHD patient here, this exactly. If my voice is drowning out the ideas, thoughts, plans, other nonsense, and that dang song in the back of my head, I can focus a little better at the task at hand.

    • @aurora_boketto7746
      @aurora_boketto7746 Год назад +14

      Ah, same. I will walk back and force or do something constantly like: foot bobbing,popping noises, or taping my fingers in a pattern while talking. I like that one :) It rlly rlly helps me focus 😵

    • @yuk1_a0i
      @yuk1_a0i Год назад +4

      Wait
      Okay
      Finally
      An explanation and a reason
      YES
      Its much more easier to just.... Stay on track
      I do not know what else to say
      Why is this difficult to explain

    • @hedera1332
      @hedera1332 Год назад +1

      This is what I do when I can't go for walks (usually late a t night).

    • @EVERYWHEREinc
      @EVERYWHEREinc Год назад +10

      It's worth noting as well that physical movement stimulates the brain, and physical movement that equally engaged both sides of the body (like walking or swimming) stimulates both sides of the brain at once, and it sounds stupidly simple and im sure that there's a lot of complex science that goes into this but basically, whole brain getting stimulated means it is working better and can process stuff or work through issues more effectively

  • @MK-ui8ew
    @MK-ui8ew Год назад +858

    As someone with ADHD, the walking around in circles and talking to myself is the most relatable thing I have heard about ADHD

    • @hkexe
      @hkexe Год назад +7

      I dont really talk to myself but i also do that XD especially if im waiting

    • @literalpain_2514
      @literalpain_2514 Год назад +6

      Lol true. I pretty much do this daily.

    • @ava-tk8ic
      @ava-tk8ic Год назад +8

      I don’t think I have adhd but I do that a lot

    • @sarahbunny0618
      @sarahbunny0618 Год назад +9

      Wait that's an ADHD thing? oh,,,,oh no,,,

    • @Kuma_kuma_bae
      @Kuma_kuma_bae Год назад +17

      Wait what?😭😭 i didnt know that was adhd.. I've been doing that my whole life..walking in circles in my room and Over thinking.. My mother thinks im crazy🤣

  • @dragonballlover9913
    @dragonballlover9913 5 месяцев назад +64

    Oh wow, I thought all those things you mentioned were normal, and I’ve experienced all of them a lot. Even while watching this video, I had my phone in hand and was walking in circles around my couch. I’ve been wanting to take a test for years, but because of my dad’s resentment to his own ADD (inattentive ADHD), I think that won’t be possible until I move out. Overall though, I enjoyed the video, your animations are funny, you have a great art style, your a great story teller, and you truly know how to get information out the best way possible. Good luck to you Andy!

    • @mr.mariogamer5403
      @mr.mariogamer5403 19 дней назад

      Dude my dad's the same way, except I'm not 100% sure if he has it, all ik is that anytime it is brought up he tells me I don't have it and that alot of the things I do are more normal then I think, which I have started to theorize that he thinks these things are normal because he does some of them to because he has adhd and never got officially tested, ik my mom has adhd, and I finally convinced her to take me to a doctor to get tested but I have no clue when that's gonna happen

  • @Person32124
    @Person32124 Месяц назад +8

    As a fellow inattentive adhd person, it took me 20 minutes to watch the entire video bc I got distracted

  • @bennybyeboo976
    @bennybyeboo976 Год назад +740

    Although I was technically diagnosed with adhd at the age of 8 or 9, I somehow just forgot my mom telling me about it so I proceeded to go 7-8 years questioning why the hell my 30 min hw assignments took me 5 hours to do and why I would get excited to pull up songs I like, only to immediately forget the name of it as I was typing it into the search bar. It was only during an annual where my doctor just off handly mentioned that "oh yeah hormones and the adhd are what's probably causing the mood changes" to which I'm just sitting there like, "....I have adhd?" and my mother just looks at me like I'm the dumbest mf on the planet. She insists she told me repeatedly, on both the day I was diagnosed and multiple times after my therapy sessions, but all I remember from that early on was playing with blue sand with my therapist and organizing the plushies on her shelf. Thank you for coming to my TEDTALK.

    • @soothingstationW
      @soothingstationW Год назад +30

      Bro that happens to me all the time. I'm always typing the name of a song i love and boom i forget the name of the song. Hell sometimes I'm running errands and just forget midway what I was asked to get. I'm not diagnosed but these symptoms say otherwise. Although I am pretty attentive in classes so i don't think I have adhd

    • @contranym4902
      @contranym4902 Год назад +13

      same, except i managed to gaslight myself into thinking that i was misdiagnosed with adhd, then my parents were like: no? you've had it all your life???

    • @lulu111_the_cool
      @lulu111_the_cool Год назад +1

      Wait so maybe it was traumatic for you so your brain decided to forget it.

    • @04SlhS
      @04SlhS Год назад

      nowadays every1 has adhd, autism and depression cuz attention lol

    • @trikwashere2608
      @trikwashere2608 Год назад +2

      i love this comment sm lmao

  • @arliorellanadamas9261
    @arliorellanadamas9261 Год назад +867

    I’m currently under the process of being diagnosed for ADHD. Coming from hispanic parents, I’ve always been told that i tend to be lazy or too scared to do things when in reality my brain just doesn’t cooperate with me unless it’s super urgent or art related. It’s funny that I intended to watch this video moments after it got posted but i immediately forgot and put it off for later x)

    • @monojitchatterjee3185
      @monojitchatterjee3185 Год назад +37

      My brain also absolutely refuses to do things that I don't want to do. That's why I get perfect marks in subjects I like, and near the lowest marks in subjects I don't.

    • @duckmercy11
      @duckmercy11 Год назад +1

      ADHD isn't a brain disease.

    • @anxious_nerd3399
      @anxious_nerd3399 Год назад +13

      Girl, I feel you on the Hispanic parent thing because I have anxiety and I’m being tested for autism and I’ve always been told I’m lazy or what you are doing is weird and your crazy or you’re weird feeling that

    • @opossumontheinternet9864
      @opossumontheinternet9864 Год назад +2

      @@duckmercy11 No one said it was though.

    • @dudeidrk
      @dudeidrk Год назад +8

      same, I'm not sure if I have ADHD but i do present many symptoms and my whole life my hispanic parents have told me I'm just lazy, because I want to do so much stuff and I ultimately end up doing none of it, even when it comes to important stuff I will unintentionally forget and everyone makes me feel very shitty about it

  • @creechieuihana
    @creechieuihana 6 месяцев назад +8

    I imagine my ADHD like a shitty radio. I constantly have to tune in on the signal to keep the thought there, while also avoiding the LIGHT SPEED mental connections going on and all the processing as WELL as any outside forces stopping me from listening in on the signal. And I can’t even transcribe it! I have to jot down the thought physically!

  • @darwindoe3318
    @darwindoe3318 6 месяцев назад +18

    dude i’m so glad i found this video I can’t believe you described everything i did so accurately to the walking around and talking to yourself to relocking things thank you 😭

  • @RyanMaddison56
    @RyanMaddison56 Год назад +1573

    I love how I went into this video wondering how it feels to have adhd and he goes on to list things out of my day to day life 💀

    • @baldaquin
      @baldaquin Год назад +143

      The same here... The thing about walking in circles really brought me to tears, I never found anyone who also did it

    • @windydj55555
      @windydj55555 Год назад +17

      Same! I just took an adhd quiz from some official website, and it said I Moderate Indication of It! ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

    • @blank-6222
      @blank-6222 Год назад

      @@windydj55555which website though? I’d like to give a try as well

    • @BruceNJeffAreMyFlies
      @BruceNJeffAreMyFlies Год назад +49

      Everyone experiences these things, and almost all of the other symptoms as well.
      Whether these experiences are the result of a clinical condition is determined by a lot more than whether you've had the symptoms.
      Chances are, if these things aren't consistently causing problems for your 'day to day life' then you likely don't have adhd.
      Everyone has to reread a paragraph sometimes, but most people can also read a paragraph, sometimes, withOUT having to go through it for a second, third, and fourth time. Everyone forgets to drink sometimes, but most people don't experience debilitating migraines as a result of dehydration simply because they forgot to drink water.

    • @meg_2087
      @meg_2087 Год назад +39

      @@baldaquin I do it tooo! wait do you also run thru fake scenarios while you walk ?

  • @mcleslieplayz4921
    @mcleslieplayz4921 Год назад +861

    As someone with the hyperactive type of adhd, this is mostly relatable, for me, there is always something on my mind, and I daydream a lot. I always thought it was normal until I learned about adhd in class, I can’t even imagine what it would be like to NOT think about something. Because of my adhd, I’ll stare at a wall for as long as possible until someone tells me to do something or I remember that I need to be a helpful member of society

    • @nill4910
      @nill4910 Год назад +4

      Same!

    • @enimintsay5110
      @enimintsay5110 Год назад +38

      hold on you're telling me that there are people who really can not think about something constantly (serious question)

    • @demp11
      @demp11 Год назад +28

      @@enimintsay5110 when you meditate enough you can focus on how your body feels and behaves without thinking about anything just being aware of the present and things around you. I manage that state sometimes but only for a couple seconds it's pretty hard not to start thinking about something.

    • @ghstbites
      @ghstbites Год назад

      real ALSO LIAM HFJONE PFP

    • @mcleslieplayz4921
      @mcleslieplayz4921 Год назад +1

      @@ghstbites YES REAL
      I’m definitely not a Liam simp hehe
      Clover pfp real

  • @voidcamel5981
    @voidcamel5981 4 месяца назад +9

    The stat still for thirty minute thing triggered the ever loving truck cab out of me.

  • @chaostria
    @chaostria 24 дня назад +2

    i just found your videos the other day and now im playing them in the background while im on my phone. i have adhd combined type and ironically your videos have been perfect for stimulating my adhd brain

  • @lindseyandres1647
    @lindseyandres1647 Год назад +409

    this is the most accurate description of people diagnosed with adhd in the past 10 years. it’s just like “..oh!” after years and years of probably crying yourself to sleep sometimes cause you couldn’t understand why you couldn’t do everything other people could. it’s really awesome to hear about this again! it reminds me of all the people out there who get it too! stay frosty, ice cream

    • @ZenFr0g
      @ZenFr0g Год назад +7

      Are deep pits of feelings of inadequacy part of that?
      Cause
      Uhhh

    • @tripleaawesome
      @tripleaawesome Год назад +4

      I'm sorry, but the 'stay frosty, ice cream' was amazing

    • @sav2823
      @sav2823 Год назад +1

      Yep. When I was first diagnosed with ADHD I actually went into a fit of rage because it took SEVENTEEN YEARS for people to realize I WASN'T BEING AN ASSHOLE I WAS JUST LIKE THIS. And then I cried myself to sleep realizing how mistreated I was over things I couldn't control growing up 👍

    • @sav2823
      @sav2823 Год назад

      @@ZenFr0g Oh absolutely! 😍
      😭😭😭

  • @DaveTheGreat48
    @DaveTheGreat48 Год назад +119

    4:47 THIS IS PURE TORTURE AND AGONY I CANT EVER DO THIS NO WAY IN HELL

    • @haileydebruin5000
      @haileydebruin5000 Год назад +9

      SAME. I was supposed to have an MRI one time but I COULDN'T stay still SO THEY HAD TO SEDATE ME 😭

    • @P0TAT0_229
      @P0TAT0_229 8 месяцев назад +3

      SAME😭😭😭

    • @Astrozyva_VR
      @Astrozyva_VR 3 месяца назад +1

      BUT IM TESTING IN A FEW WEEKS 😫

  • @user-of4fy1nb9y
    @user-of4fy1nb9y 2 месяца назад +4

    The descriptions of what you do with ADHD match me (already diagnosed) PERFECTLY!

  • @zertoil
    @zertoil 5 месяцев назад +4

    I was diagnosed as a kid as the inattentive type. Was getting help then my mom stopped getting me help. Then I spent 20+ years in denial, even being diagnosed multiple times. Then one day I say "Fck this, I'm going to actually get help and try some meds." This was my last semester of college and I went from struggling to understanding everything I was being taught. I went from being depressed cause I was mad cause I would get hung up on something or forget something. Then I started taking meds and I everything smoothed out. I still have issues with interpersonal relationships but that's cause I was raised by a mother who was only affectionate when I was injured enough to end up in a hospital, which was rare. "I love you." did not exist in her vocab.

  • @andrewhanson1180
    @andrewhanson1180 Год назад +1016

    I was diagnosed with ADHD 24 years ago and every subsequent doctors visit afterwards, it was always the same: “most severe case of ADHD I’d ever seen”. I’m 29, I got off the meds, they had a really bad side effect after taking them for 24 years, I am still hyper as hell. I just exercise and eat healthy and find hobbies to restrain all the energy.

    • @festivebear9946
      @festivebear9946 Год назад +40

      In between lectures I just sprinted for 10 minutes before going back to focus for another hour. It helps

    • @Irrespons
      @Irrespons Год назад +11

      Got diagnosed 32 years ago, and health, dietary and healthstyle is a huge part of many studies. I had a different life when I got innto a good rytm, did fall off and never got back on. "I wait til next week " I have said 20years now.

    • @jarnepysson3093
      @jarnepysson3093 Год назад +9

      I have that too and went fishing, i know its weird a hobby where you have to sit still dor a long period but it helps. Its just like the one thing that can calm my mind and act 'normal' maybe you should try it as well

    • @ShaXCwalk
      @ShaXCwalk Год назад +7

      Dude yes fk the side effects. I had to take the maximum dosis allowed in Germany because mine wore off already at half of the time it was supposed to work for. For example my Vyvanse should last 14 hours. It lasted 7/8. My Ritalin should last 8 hours, it lasted only 4.
      I'm off med now and I think it's better for me to do sports and learn to cope with ADHD better. I might try again though if I see it necessary. For now I'm really good with doing sports, getting to know my weaknesses and how to lessen the problems

    • @pedrom.8525
      @pedrom.8525 Год назад +2

      I am 25 and was diagnosed 20 years ago. Only took meds as a kid, today I know how to deal with my ADHD, I have many many hobbies but drawing is what helps me the most. I usually try to use my hyperfocus to my advantage haha

  • @midorisellers707
    @midorisellers707 Год назад +947

    I didn't get diagnosed until my mid 50's because ADHD wasn't a thing you could get diagnosed with when I was a kid. Every report card I got throughout elementary school commented about my absent mindedness and my daydreaming in class. Once I got into middle school it was all about my forgetfulness, tardiness, and how I wasn't living up to my potential. I grew up hearing how lazy and undisciplined I was and had no idea that my issues weren't character flaws. I'm so glad young people at least don't have to go through that particular brand of bullshit anymore.

    • @NobleLeader6
      @NobleLeader6 Год назад +70

      It still happens, but much less frequently. For example, myself. Diagnosed at 17, but until then it was basically the same. Report cards mentioning I wasn't applying myself, people telling me "Oh, you're so smart and you have so much potential, if only you would apply yourself." There's definitely a lot less stigma about it, but people suck at recognizing the signs, partly because common media doesn't show ADHD in a realistic way.

    • @tayar3797
      @tayar3797 Год назад +19

      Not judging, but you watch this channel and you're this old???... thats kinda cool

    • @Ash_NuggTato
      @Ash_NuggTato Год назад +1

      But that doesn't mean it's ADHD, everyone isn't going to get perfect grades, people daydream, people zone out if something is boring, people forget things, people get lazy, that just seems like there saying if someone isn't perfect they have adhd

    • @danialdunson
      @danialdunson Год назад +3

      sounds very boomer of that generation.

    • @Mr.BusinessGhost
      @Mr.BusinessGhost Год назад +11

      @@NobleLeader6 I’d have to agree with this sentiment, even going so far as to say it can be just as bad. Unfortunately, despite how ADHD is an actual diagnosis now, people still treat it and its symptoms as a myth or with general contempt. Many people simply do not understand and/or do not wish to understand it, leading to very much the same treatment as not having a diagnosis or the diagnosis not existing. I’ve been diagnosed for years, and all throughout high school I was treated as lazy, uncaring, rebellious, and stupid despite how hard I tried to be none of those things. I’m glad Andy (Ice cream) is talking about it/sharing his experience because the world could stand to get a little more educated.

  • @erics1219
    @erics1219 12 дней назад +1

    dude the "adhd things" you do, is LITERALLY me. Like every single one. Im going to get a test soon

  • @FennecTECH
    @FennecTECH 3 месяца назад +2

    ADHD + being thoughtful about things= apocalyptic results

  • @zinis
    @zinis Год назад +546

    I love how when a youtuber comes out with any kind of mental health issue the entire tribe of people with that issue come together and welcome them. I was diagnosed with ADHD at 7, but turns out it was just anxiety so I am glad they have a surefire way to properly diagnose people.

    • @neonice
      @neonice Год назад +9

      They definitely don't. ADHD is a trend diagnosis atm. Medical professionals are using it as easy work and many parents even push to have their child misdiagnosed when one refuses to diagnose it. It's always a subjective analysis. Not mention that the symptoms of it are experienced by normal people as well.

    • @Warlance001
      @Warlance001 Год назад +73

      @@neonice yes and no, ADHD is actually really common, and its not so much a 'condition' as just a different way that human brains work, scientists suspect ancient hunter gatherers had ADHD, because the symptoms inherently make you more observant, and for ancient hunters this would be very valuable when looking out for danger. While in ancient times it would have been a valuable tool, in the modern day it's more a nuisance. While normal people do occasionally experience the symptoms, there's quite a vast difference between that and experiencing them daily. It's not that it's a 'trend diagnosis' it's that it actually is that common, and we didn't understand it well enough until recent decades.

    • @zahx_010
      @zahx_010 Год назад +8

      @@Warlance001 exactly i have adhd and although some people do fake it most people dont because it is literally so common

    • @Karlusman
      @Karlusman Год назад +30

      Im pretty sure ADHD is not a mental illness. ADHD is just that your brain is built different, so it is a condition above all else.

    • @recitationtohear
      @recitationtohear Год назад +1

      Here is the full Clip : icecream sandwich face reveal
      ruclips.net/video/mCfYi7634rU/видео.html

  • @techno952
    @techno952 Год назад +252

    As someone who has really bad ADHD, I 100% get that feeling about being diagnosed. Like it was just a revelation where not everything was just because I was an idiot and did stuff without realizing (some of it was that) but now I knew why I just felt like I couldn’t focus on homework or just forgot things randomly that I shouldn’t have or just stopped paying attention. I was glad to have something that could tell me why those things were happening.

    • @recitationtohear
      @recitationtohear Год назад +1

      Here is the full Clip : icecream sandwich face reveal
      ruclips.net/video/mCfYi7634rU/видео.html

    • @thelemon2172
      @thelemon2172 Год назад +1

      same... except im trying to convince my parents to get the official diagnosis so i can get proper medication and be able to pay attention in school

    • @YTDariuS-my6dg
      @YTDariuS-my6dg Год назад

      @@thelemon2172 Good luck man, I always wanted to check but I know it'll be, like, a massive slight to my family if I do, so I just torture myself by watching these kinds of videos, seeing all that relatable shit and trying to hypnotize myself about how none of that applies to me, OBVIOUSLY. I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy, and I hate that mf

    • @splash5481
      @splash5481 Год назад

      oh wow this is relatable, oh wait...

  • @BestOffer-ii9ny
    @BestOffer-ii9ny 26 дней назад +4

    I suffered severe depression several years ago. I could remember several years ago after divorce with my wife which brought me into my disastrous journey on Alcohol and cigarettes. I suffered severe depression and mental disorder. Got diagnosed with cptsd.
    Not until a friend recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment saved my life honestly. 8 years totally clean. Much respect to mother nature the great magic shrooms.

    • @fakiriayoub8087
      @fakiriayoub8087 26 дней назад

      Microdosing helped me get out of the pit of my worst depressive episode, a three year long episodeenough to start working on my mental health

    • @AnneRodrigo-fz6ks
      @AnneRodrigo-fz6ks 26 дней назад

      Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Germany. Really need

    • @ToniMonteroroman
      @ToniMonteroroman 26 дней назад

      Yes, dr.porass. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

    • @HealthyPriestessSophie
      @HealthyPriestessSophie 26 дней назад

      The shroom experience stands as my most remarkable journey, an awe-inspiring encounter that left an indelible mark of amazement.

    • @FabioPioFersini
      @FabioPioFersini 26 дней назад

      Is he on instagram?

  • @Traffic_Cone_YT
    @Traffic_Cone_YT 2 месяца назад +2

    The whole walking around in circles and mindlessley talking to myself thing was VERY relatable. I do that way to often

  • @hayleyottesen3818
    @hayleyottesen3818 Год назад +424

    I got diagnosed with ADHD when I was 10, but there are so many "quirks" I have that I didn't know where due to the ADHD! Talking with other people who have ADHD and seeing people's experience has really helped me to realize a lot of the things I couldn't explain about myself. Glad to see you learning about yourself and getting your diagnosis. :)

    • @thewarriorreturns9179
      @thewarriorreturns9179 Год назад +1

      Leaving things until the deadline is a sign of adhd 💀. Yh so ppl just tryna seem like they are special now or what 😂

    • @corgoborgo
      @corgoborgo Год назад

      i got adhd diagnosed at a young age and some things are almost the exact same lol i walk in circles forget i locked the door prob a lot of other things, whats even worse is i also have *mild* autism

    • @yaboimiggle7883
      @yaboimiggle7883 Год назад +3

      dude honestly same i was told i have adhd and to take meds but no one ever told me what that entailed. It’s cool seeing others symptoms and realizing “oh hey i do that same stuff i thought it was just normal”

    • @duckmercy11
      @duckmercy11 Год назад

      Sad that so many people are brainwashed by these fake "disorders." Did your doctor do an MRI or bloodtest before they told you you have ADHD? If not, how do you know you have it?

  • @poofbomb-minecraftmore1883
    @poofbomb-minecraftmore1883 Год назад +432

    Once again ice cream’s animations encapsulate my life existence

    • @icecreamy420
      @icecreamy420 Год назад +1

      Wha beautiful wording

    • @redyspaghttei9618
      @redyspaghttei9618 Год назад

      Same

    • @redyspaghttei9618
      @redyspaghttei9618 Год назад

      Watching the video writeknow I saw the part were you read a paragraph over and over I do the same I practically can't read also I'm done now

    • @nininyoko13
      @nininyoko13 Год назад

      same

    • @pancakesareawesome3121
      @pancakesareawesome3121 Год назад

      @@redyspaghttei9618 Ironically, I read your comment multiple times. Truly, I’ve been out-maneuvered.

  • @arrowvanlanduyt6319
    @arrowvanlanduyt6319 3 месяца назад +2

    STOP THE WALKING IN CIRCLES AND TALKING TO MYSELF IS SO RELATABLE! WHY ARE YOU CALLING ME OUT LIKE THIS?!

  • @malikovajana
    @malikovajana Месяц назад +2

    thank you for making in 5 min video...that´s lifespan of my attention on good days :D

  • @chaihill1837
    @chaihill1837 Год назад +2031

    I was diagnosed with ADHD when I was very little and I just want to say two things:
    1. I’ve literally never watched a RUclips video that I’ve related to so much in this aspect. Like holy crap, I do that walking in circles and talking to myself thing like daily. It’s weird, but I’m so surprised that I’m not the only one how does that. Wow.
    2. To whoever might read this, You never have to let ADHD define you. You may act and think different than others, but you’re still a human person and you’re still you. You never should allow a diagnosis negatively affect way you feel about yourself. Stand tall, kings. Also, drink some water.

    • @raditz2737
      @raditz2737 Год назад +79

      How dare you call me out for not drinking water

    • @huddled_up
      @huddled_up Год назад +21

      i've drank half a bottle of water today and it;s now 11:30 PM

    • @patrickkirby6580
      @patrickkirby6580 Год назад +11

      Everything in this video is so relatable on spiritual level except for the water bit as I literally drink more than 10 glasses a day

    • @kalilak9701
      @kalilak9701 Год назад +28

      But also, don’t be afraid to blame the ADHD when it’s the problem. In my opinion, it’s ok to say, “I’m sorry I messed up, the ADHD and I still haven’t figured out an effective coping mechanism for that.”
      Yes, it’s more work to try to figure out how to explain ADHD in a way other people understand. However, (as someone with severe-to-the-point-of-bordering-on-autism levels of ADHD) it IS a huge part of who I am and why I struggle with daily life. It’s not all of me, but in my case it is so much of me that to ignore its often negative impact is to ignore me.
      (I’ve had well-meaning people tell me to stop blaming ADHD for why I’m struggling to get things done, and it feels about how I imagine it would feel for a paraplegic to be told to stop blaming their paralysis for their immobility.)

    • @picklepants4255
      @picklepants4255 Год назад +15

      I was also shocked to find I’m not the only one who does the walking thing and talks to myself, I actually thought I was insane for a while

  • @CheesyParmesan
    @CheesyParmesan 6 месяцев назад +399

    "Adhd test: dont move for 30 minutes" 😂😂😂😂 i felt that from the depth of my soul lol

    • @pleaseforgetme9186
      @pleaseforgetme9186 Месяц назад +5

      Ong like bro that’s already impossible 😭😭😭

    • @lului1456
      @lului1456 Месяц назад +3

      if i were asked to do that it would result in immediate (internal) screaming from my end

    • @AskosFlames
      @AskosFlames Месяц назад +2

      id lose on the first 3 seconds

    • @Brassinton_ace
      @Brassinton_ace Месяц назад

      I can sit for 7hr

    • @JHaru777
      @JHaru777 Месяц назад

      *hears the description of the test*
      .... *death grips the couch*

  • @likrecelineation
    @likrecelineation 5 дней назад

    I have adhd the hyperactive type. If I don’t get medication in the morning I start recreating random meme sound effects in class (I’m really good at impressions) and everyone just looks at me. I’m actually smart and I grew up loving math and science because the more you know, the more everything just fits together, and I love that feeling. Especially in math. Idc if finding the derivative of an equation is gonna affect my life but it’s fun when everything fits together and you arrive at the solution nicely.

  • @devinwilson5327
    @devinwilson5327 3 месяца назад +2

    welp I think I'm going to have to reach out to someone about this, I'm in my mid-30s and you're describing a ton of what I do and have been trying to manage all my life. What the hell

  • @vibewebyt2293
    @vibewebyt2293 Год назад +525

    As a fellow inattentive adhd, you keep either forgetting stuff or you can't focus or walking in circle while talking to yourself for it somehow entertains us.This is damn relatable

    • @cirkulx
      @cirkulx Год назад +16

      walking in a circle isn't normal?

    • @pov115
      @pov115 Год назад +5

      I can relate to most of the video but Im not diagnosed with ADHD

    • @makbran3627
      @makbran3627 Год назад +11

      I walk in the circle. I am content. Not forced to stay still. Allowed to think, examine my life choices. It makes me happy

    • @goombashoe2044
      @goombashoe2044 Год назад +3

      i have both inattentive and hyperactive. i also forget stuff and zone out but i also get hyperactive. the *w o r s t* ADHD.

    • @Hat-Kid
      @Hat-Kid Год назад +3

      i walk in a circle and talk to myself all the time. I dont have adhd but its fun cause i can make up scenarios of me doing random stuff and talk over the things that im making up.

  • @cerealleader23vods
    @cerealleader23vods Год назад +117

    As someone with adhd.
    I felt this in the kneecaps

  • @sonofnihility
    @sonofnihility 4 месяца назад +2

    I found i had adhd when i was in college and did snow. Felt completely 'normal' for the first time ever. Went to a doctor a few weeks later. I got diagnosed and got meds. And now i can function for the first time in my life.

  • @jackiechild9740
    @jackiechild9740 4 месяца назад +2

    This was fantastic! I was diagnosed as an adult, and it explained so much! I can relate so much to each of the things you mentioned in this video! ❤ I'm an inattentive adhd person with a generous sprinkle of the other type! Didn't have the tests, but after reading my report cards from school 😂 my doctor confirmed I had adhd!

  • @Mikania-vt5rq
    @Mikania-vt5rq Год назад +518

    As someone with obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD) it feels good how you talk about your experience with ADHD and how the media depicts it. Once in a while I see people selling ADHD, OCD etc. as a quirky trait which annoys me and distracts others of the issue.

    • @04SlhS
      @04SlhS Год назад +5

      nowadays every1 has adhd, autism and depression cuz attention lol

    • @raikreios
      @raikreios Год назад +12

      Yeah, a lot of people act like it’s some sort of aesthetic and they are unique for having it. Quite a few people in my family have it and it is not as fun as people may think.

    • @creka2897
      @creka2897 Год назад +3

      @@raikreios I have it too (what a surprise) and can confirm it just makes life more and more depressing over time

    • @friendsfilm6226
      @friendsfilm6226 Год назад +5

      "You have OCD? But your pencil case isn't perfectly organized though."

    • @aurora_boketto7746
      @aurora_boketto7746 Год назад +1

      Yea it makes me not wanna think I have it. I don't wanna think I have just cause a # ;-; but it's also like...what if I do tho.

  • @roemaantic
    @roemaantic Год назад +1205

    I’m actually oddly comforted knowing my favorite animator has adhd. I’ve been thinking about it a while now since I got to learn about it in the same means he did, fell down a spiral of binging adhd posts and videos and relating to almost every single one more or less. And it got to the point that it was frustrating that I couldn’t get it diagnosed because my parents don’t believe I’ve got adhd. Plus, when my father did pair me with some obscure therapist, he told I had ocd that I believe he pulled completely from his ass since I wasn’t able to speak to him normally and just answered his questions yes/no without elaboration. I still wish I could get it diagnosed so I would have that relief sense of feeling that I’m not just weird or lazy in a sense and actually have something that holds me back. Anyway, loved the video.

    • @weatherwolf335
      @weatherwolf335 Год назад +26

      I'm fairly sure that no matter what age you are you can still ask for a formal test for ADHD, May cost a decent amount of money I don't know, I mean I was tested back in 2002 when I was 4 years old in Minnesota, so I have no idea as to the price of getting tested for ADHD thing is every doctor I've been to since has said it's insane that they even tested me as every doctor since my test for ADHD has said it is blatantly obvious that I have ADHD

    • @4yinyang
      @4yinyang Год назад +24

      I personally know a guy who started having suspiscions that he had ADHD, so he went and tested himself and sure enough he has it. Luckily though he already had good habits and coping mechanisms and whatnot to keep it in check but he was still relieved to know for sure.
      That guy was 65 at the time. It is never too late to get tested.

    • @cookietiel2545
      @cookietiel2545 Год назад +6

      Omg my case is EXACTLY like yours!!! However, I am waiting on my screening appointment currently, despite my parents being against it. However im almost 22 now so they don’t really say it anymore or can’t prevent me.

    • @irfaansarwar6027
      @irfaansarwar6027 Год назад +1

      He did fell makes no sense u should've said he did fall

    • @4yinyang
      @4yinyang Год назад +3

      @@irfaansarwar6027 nono, his comment is grammatically correct. He has a comma, he was talking about himself after that.

  • @PassionateMyst
    @PassionateMyst 5 месяцев назад +1

    I am the inattentive type while my sister is the hyperactive type, we either don’t get along because I think about Fnaf lore while my sister was talking about something else and both get annoyed at each other or get along to a high degree.

  • @snowskul4103
    @snowskul4103 5 месяцев назад

    Having so many tabs open is so true bro 😂 or the locking the door thing. Walking in circles having funny conversations or planned arguments is so relatable too and everything else 😂

  • @cennamonzimt
    @cennamonzimt Год назад +687

    My older and younger siblings both have very notable ADHD, as it's the hyperactive variety that's more known. As a middle child you often get overlooked as is, but this caused me to be downright forgotten in the midst of my sisters. It wasn't until later that people realised I suffer from the same inattentiveness as my siblings, just minus the hyperactivity.
    Glad you're raising awareness that ADHD is also much like a spectrum.

    • @Lilly-hk6qn
      @Lilly-hk6qn Год назад +8

      Makes sense that you all have it since ADHD can be heritable

    • @DG_Toti
      @DG_Toti Год назад +4

      @@sammiller6631 that guys been spamming that comment everywhere to try to troll people, just ignore him or report the comment if you want

    • @BelindaShort
      @BelindaShort Год назад +1

      People mistake hyperactivity too cause it's usually in your brain. It's not how you act outwardly

    • @TheRamiii
      @TheRamiii Год назад +1

      ​@@BelindaShort Hey, is it possible to be very inactive and yet have adhd? I'm not active at all and always find a way to lie down, but I can't lie still, like sleep without sedatives or just not move my legs or thumb of my feet gently under the blanket while I use my phone or watch something.

    • @peridotthepear1115
      @peridotthepear1115 Год назад

      @@TheRamiii Hi there, I asked my psychiatrist the same question and the answer was yes, but be aware that ADHD symptoms are not exclusive to ADHD. On my part, I can't sleep and constantly move in bed thanks to PTSD, but people with anxiety, depression, ADHD and autistic people can experience similar things! That's why getting a professional diagnosis is very important. Hope I could help!

  • @L30_SRT
    @L30_SRT Год назад +596

    I walk in circles amd talk to myself about something that has absolutely no meaning and hit my hand on things like a lawyer fighting for my clients life

    • @Roxve
      @Roxve Год назад +11

      Same but I get pretty good grades won't say I focus well I might have ahdh

    • @sexydude253sexy
      @sexydude253sexy Год назад +1

      Beware of this link
      ruclips.net/video/R3iyrNoZ4cI/видео.html

    • @withoutahit7417
      @withoutahit7417 Год назад +2

      @@Roxve everything he said in me and a bad grades even with hours of studying and trying hard as can I still get 20-30/100

    • @Roxve
      @Roxve Год назад +2

      @@withoutahit7417 good luck I think you should go to a doctor

    • @withoutahit7417
      @withoutahit7417 Год назад

      @@Roxve yeah in Iraq there's no doctor for those kinda of things and my parents will say ur just a loser that can't be useful for anything and if I said my grades r jus' like shit bc of this they'll kick me out of the house

  • @THEchiQ
    @THEchiQ 3 месяца назад +1

    I’m in my 50s and just getting a handle on my neurofunkiness. Thanks for these videos. They rock.

  • @Hammssty
    @Hammssty Месяц назад

    Fun fact I saw this video and I also started to ask my self questions then I did research and turned out that I have a lot of symptoms and just got started the assessment process and have to wait 3 weeks and If I do get diagnosed than it was all thanks to you for even realizing that I might have this and potentially makeing my so much better than going on in my life thinking that I’m a faluire ❤

  • @cammywammy98
    @cammywammy98 Год назад +296

    The thing with the book, the door, simply forgetting everything almost immediately is entirely relatable and I'm just relieved it's not just me, because sometimes I feel ashamed about it. I should work on it, but it's hard when you have ADHD to focus on anything and I feel like I can't grow up sometimes. It sucks. Some people just brush it off because they say it's common, but it's not the same for everyone. It all depends on who you are and how you handle it. Sometimes working on ADHD has to be a group project, because it's hard to focus on it alone.

    • @micahhaveman7682
      @micahhaveman7682 Год назад +3

      its ok, working on anything is slow with ADHD, you got this! just keep going! don't feel ashamed. talk about it, and if you feel like someone is looking at you weird for nor focusing like a "normal" person just talk to them about it and they will understand.

    • @windybeach2184
      @windybeach2184 Год назад +5

      That’s similar to the people who say “we’re all on the spectrum”. They think that they’re making someone feel better or less alone. It comes across as misunderstanding or dismissing the actual struggles.
      Sure, humans all share some traits or experiences to a degree. But it’s not a disorder until it’s significantly affecting how you function in everyday life.

    • @cammywammy98
      @cammywammy98 Год назад +3

      @Windy Beach Yeah you're totally right. And I hat hearing that stuff too because I not only have ADHD, but I also got Autism, and both are spectrums and it's so hard to fit in sometimes. It gets scary.

    • @recitationtohear
      @recitationtohear Год назад +1

      Here is the full Clip : icecream sandwich face reveal
      ruclips.net/video/mCfYi7634rU/видео.html

  • @verysaltyperson
    @verysaltyperson Год назад +788

    I also have ADHD, and yeah, it's basically a nightmare. To everyone currently testing for a diagnosis, my prayers go out to you, and even if you have adhd, I hope you can get through the struggles :)

    • @alejochol9397
      @alejochol9397 Год назад +3

      how much long can a diagnosis take?

    • @benjaminwatson7868
      @benjaminwatson7868 Год назад +7

      Feels fine to me mind over matter you see

    • @gliiitched
      @gliiitched Год назад +6

      @@alejochol9397 Depends. I feel like if you’re a man or even AMAB in general it’d be a lot faster than if you were a woman or AFAB. If you don’t want medication though, I don’t see anything wrong with self-diagnosing, because professional diagnosis isn’t always available or effective for people who just want closure.
      note if you want medication though, yes, professional diagnosis is necessary.

    • @04SlhS
      @04SlhS Год назад +2

      nowadays every1 has adhd, autism and depression cuz attention lol

    • @mind_flayer1235
      @mind_flayer1235 Год назад

      As a person with adhd, I agree

  • @MrFahrenheit2k
    @MrFahrenheit2k 2 месяца назад

    The situation with the chocolate bar is so relatable. Stuff like this is often detremental to my relationships and it's so infuriating! It's very hard to explain to somebody that you didn't mean to screw up this basic task a child could do for no reason.

  • @nctsoftware5272
    @nctsoftware5272 4 месяца назад +1

    I didn’t get diagnosed with adhd until I was almost 40. It took treating so many other diagnoses because mental health is messy and often trial and error. It fucking sucks. But once we got it right so much changed for the better.

  • @Just_Some_Gal
    @Just_Some_Gal Год назад +589

    Dude, my brother was diagnosed with ADHD five years ago! I'm going to show him this video to prove to him that he is not alone, and should not be afraid of his condition!
    Thanks Ice Cream Sandwich, you have no idea how much of a great impact you're making on this community!

    • @pumpkii
      @pumpkii Год назад +2

      First reply on this comment

    • @shartted
      @shartted Год назад +2

      tell him this fact 1 out of every 3 boys in the world are diagnosed with ADHD. he is definitely not alone.

    • @misfitfarm3142
      @misfitfarm3142 Год назад +7

      bruh wth would he be scared

    • @elise.adamenko
      @elise.adamenko Год назад +3

      @@shartted where tf did you get that information

    • @walls171
      @walls171 Год назад +1

      This is one of the sweetest things I have seen

  • @raflamar4146
    @raflamar4146 Год назад +54

    As someone with ADHD, I relate hard to the “walking around in circles talking to myself” part. I find that whenever I’ve got the creativity flowing, and imagination turned on, that it’s the best way to brainstorming ideas. I’m hyperactive, so walking around gives me something to do, and saying it out loud keeps my thoughts straight

    • @airplanes_aren.t_real
      @airplanes_aren.t_real Год назад

      But Don't you get dizzy?

    • @raflamar4146
      @raflamar4146 Год назад +6

      Not really, I tend to pace all over the room, back and forth

    • @ivymothz
      @ivymothz Год назад +1

      thank god for this video i thought i was just insane
      i was diagnosed with ADHD at a very young age but never really learned a lot of the quirks about it so throughout my entire life ive just been learning that im not as crazy as i thought

  • @mr.x991
    @mr.x991 6 месяцев назад

    I feel called out by every single action you gave. The door locking, the tabs, the deadline stuff

  • @torak-vito7478
    @torak-vito7478 6 месяцев назад +3

    This is literally what I'm going through right, always felt there was something "off" about me in comparison to others. When I talk, i drift off and forget what I was talking about, deadline worker, and a lot of other stuff. But nobody even thought, hmmm let's diagnose this kid, he's getting good grades, so he's probably just quirky. On the other hand, my younger brother got diagnosed very early on, his grades were not very good, cause he had a hard time in school. So he got diagnosed with ADD (inattentive ADHD). Now I'm 19 and only when a friend with inattentive ADHD said that I probably have too, do I finally understand what is "wrong" with me. She has explained a lot of me and I feel a lot better about myself. I've felt lazy and useless a lot of the time, but knowing how to navigate it makes it easier. I'm thinking about getting myself tested, but idk. We'll see

  • @smaranathomas4556
    @smaranathomas4556 Год назад +353

    The part about you forgetting to drink water for a day really stuck with me cause that's happened to me a lot since I was very young and it's totally taken a physical toll on me.. I'm not diagnosed or anything, in fact I'm more scared of how my parents would react, everything you mentioned in the video is totally how I do my day to day activities and I really don't know how to even approach this situation..

    • @MMullan22
      @MMullan22 Год назад +13

      I was in a similar situation. What I did was I asked my mom (who I am a bit closer to) if she knew what ADHD was and then went from there. You can even stretch the process out over several days or however long. I would every now and again verbaly point out certain things I do and then let my parent subconsciously sit on things until I bring it up again.
      I only realized just now while typing this the mind game I was playing lol. I didn't have it all planned out at the time but that is basically how it went.
      Just be clear and honest about how you have some concerns and would like to explore some options. I hope this can help you somehow (I am NOT saying to manipulate people, just to be clear lol). Have a lovely day/night!

    • @auliamate
      @auliamate Год назад +12

      I used to drink no water daily. I remedied this by becoming practically addicted to water, and drinking so much water i dont want to or forget to eat.

    • @ThatDiamondFrog._.
      @ThatDiamondFrog._. Год назад +1

      I do this a lot and fainted twice cause of it

    • @YourFriendlyShapeShifterFriend
      @YourFriendlyShapeShifterFriend Год назад +8

      Me too,and since i have asian parents who believe this thing was just crazy people things..
      Its a hard life
      Hope ya can find a way to feel free soon tho,you deserve it

    • @ilyuyeon4755
      @ilyuyeon4755 Год назад +6

      Seriously, I really need to get diagnosed but coming from an Asian household, I wouldn’t want to think of the “consequences” of telling my parents. Always thought I was shy or simply stupid cus my attention span is so short

  • @Platinum_XYZ
    @Platinum_XYZ Год назад +427

    5:01 "There has been a lot of frustration in my life, because despite trying really hard to focus, I could only achieve half as much as other people..."
    this message felt so relatable to me! it's honestly so frustrating when everyone around you says "You're not trying hard enough!" but for you, even just thinking about doing something tires you out. ADHD feels like how a normal person feels when burned out, but that is just our default feeling. I hope that everyone else here that has ADHD can feel less alone after watching this video and reading these comments

    • @Topaz05
      @Topaz05 Год назад +2

      Bro, I agree, I feel that! 🫂

    • @dadleft8427
      @dadleft8427 Год назад +12

      For years my father would tell me I need to "apply myself". That I'm not trying hard enough. I remember thinking "I'm doing everything I can" and one day I said it and he replied "it isn't enough. Try harder. Why won't you just try harder?" And I didn't have an answer. It was so long ago and I was so young that I don't remember when exactly it happened. But those words, and all the times I would be berated for "not trying hard enough" have stuck with me ever since and I don't think it'll ever leave. Idk if I have ADHD bc my family's always been to poor to go to a doctor to find out, but they would vehemently protest any time a teacher suggested seeking a diagnosis and would argue that either the teachers weren't doing enough or that I was simply being lazy in class.

    • @sliqriq21
      @sliqriq21 Год назад

      OMG YES

    • @warri0r624
      @warri0r624 Год назад +11

      @@dadleft8427 that sounds terrible, i hope everything gets better soon

    • @pineapplequeen13
      @pineapplequeen13 Год назад +7

      God, its too true! School was a nightmare for me. Homework that most kids could complete on top of extracurriculars and a social life for me took the entire afternoon every day so i couldnt do anything!

  • @rasheeba9326
    @rasheeba9326 2 месяца назад +3

    Ice Cream: lists several things I do as signs of ADHD
    Me: Uh oh

  • @AWeekLastTuesday
    @AWeekLastTuesday Месяц назад +1

    omg, my friend send me this video last night, and where you say,"This video is goofy and relatable", that was my near thoughts on this video, as the humour in my drawings and "animations" is almost verbatim to mine, and that checklist, i never told anyone, other then had troubles in english class, cause have a learning disability, and I remember how I ended up reading the same paragraph over and over, and was so frustrating, and top of that, when the book is done, i remember almost nothing what i read, til i read it again. I also used to visualize a little man running on top of the words when the teacher or another student was reading the text and we were all following along. I still am just filled with thoughts and being an empath, i got that crap mixed in there. i draw my own comic and do animation, is small potatoes, because i just cant fous to keep it going, i got so may unfinished comics, some dont know what the joke was, same for animations,...i work on something, and partway, im like, oh, this is a good idea, and end up doing that. thanks for making this video, am 53, and been dealing with this for so long, when they just called it Hyperactive Disorder, and worse, I have Bipolar, so my ups and extreme, so are my downs. like when i go Manic, is like someone flicked a hyper speed switch, cause get all these ideas i want to do.
    so sorry for the length, but this video made me smile, not just the humour, but explained alot I didnt know, like the paragraph part, and especially the caffine...i would drink Jolt cola and still go to sleep, like other then the heart thing, it do nothing to me, and never thought either was a thing, for the paragraphs, i just thought i just was a dumb kid, cause of learning disability, reading out loud, i had so much troubles. even my talking voice, when not doing a silly voice, i stammer and slur my speech alot.
    BTW, is also why i subbed to your channel as well.

  • @mikaelli
    @mikaelli Год назад +384

    That's exactly how I started thinking that I may be autistic. Found some relatable videos, started watching THOUSANDS of those, did research, did tests and I am currently trying to find a professional for a official diagnosis, cause those really help you understand yourself better and why you do things the way you do. I'm really glad that your diagnosis helped you and I really hope that everyone questioning about themselves can get the information they want on this topics. Have a great day/afternoon/night mwah

    • @tabbitee
      @tabbitee Год назад +12

      ME TOO (well, maybe not *thousands* of vids, but similar vein). I actually managed to find a professional diagnostician in my country thanks to the *very first* vid which got me onto the topic (which is super lucky, and partly circumvented the difficulties I would face by being a. female, and b. over the age of, like, 5). Diagnosis is awesome! I seriously hope you're able to find someone to help you, and I gather a lot more of people like us are seeking out proper diagnosis lately. All power to us all haha!

    • @MisfitRia
      @MisfitRia Год назад +3

      OMG me too!

    • @hyejuwolff
      @hyejuwolff Год назад +4

      im actually going to also find a professional for a diagnosis!! im still kinda indenial about it but just like icecream here i would really like to know why i do these things and why i act the way i do cause its extremely frustrating to just do these things and not even know why i do them.... it makes me extremely stressed out sometimes and frustrated sometimes even sitting there crying cause i feel like something is wrong with me but i cant figure out why! 😭😭

    • @SharkieOttark
      @SharkieOttark Год назад

      Autism ≠ ADHD they are two different things

    • @Cuil
      @Cuil Год назад +6

      @@SharkieOttark OP wasn't saying they were the same, just making a comparison about their similar situations. There is a lot of overlap/comorbidity between the two, though, even if they're not the same it's still something to note.

  • @hawklegs6940
    @hawklegs6940 Год назад +229

    I got diagnosed a couple of years ago, and I feel this so hard. A lot of my experience was people telling me how lazy and inconsiderate I was when I knew I was trying my hardest, which made me think I actually wasn't trying my hardest, and that something must be inherently wrong with me because despite wanting to give it my all, I seemingly never did. It wasn't good for my self-esteem to say the least. Now that I'm diagnosed, I know this stuff isn't a moral failing on my part, it's just something I need to learn to work with rather than push against.

    • @sugarkane1571
      @sugarkane1571 Год назад +11

      I’ve had this exact feeling! The elementary to high school formula never worked for me besides giving me Depression. Understand that your motivation is a much more sensitive bar than other people. Even though I’ve been diagnosed for awhile, my family still doesn’t understand ADHD further than don’t listen in classes (absolutely ridiculous considering our entire family has ADHD). We all march to the beat of our own brainwaves. (Rest is broken up for ease of reading)
      I typically find making concrete plans hard with our daring nature to push deadlines. I usually work on as much as I can one day and think about the rest tomorrow, so I can make a plan I don’t need to abide to while giving time for errors.
      Shifting gears is usually hard, so change the subject by rewarding some time to yourself (with a timer, you will play for too long easily). Or just focus on one subject for the day, you can probably do this easier in college.
      If you struggle to get started with something, set a 5 minute timer to force yourself in the task. It’s easier to tell yourself “just work on this for 5 minutes” than “I have to work on this.” Usually you will get absorbed into it in the 5 minutes and keep going after the timer.
      Again, these are just tips I like to use. We all experience ADHD differently and you might find some things more easier to do than me.

    • @hawklegs6940
      @hawklegs6940 Год назад +5

      @@sugarkane1571 Thanks for the tips! Some of these I actually haven't tried yet, so I'll be sure to give them a shot! :D

    • @scribblecloud
      @scribblecloud Год назад +6

      omg yes lazy and inconsiderate, those are the words i remember hearing all throughout childhood 😭

    • @averytheaxolotl3162
      @averytheaxolotl3162 Год назад +2

      …and my parents still wonder why I don’t trust them

    • @lucasgenolini3767
      @lucasgenolini3767 Год назад +2

      @@sugarkane1571 Hello, i have no idea about me being ADHD or anything else but i do feel these uncomfort situations, how did you all got diagnosed?

  • @littleslaughters8037
    @littleslaughters8037 2 месяца назад +1

    this is the best video i have ever seen about ADHD

  • @ohkaygoplay
    @ohkaygoplay 6 месяцев назад +1

    I am so glad they didn't do the 'sit still' test with me. I'd have failed that inside of 5 seconds.
    Oh god, the level at which I relate to every single thing you said about ADHD is so painful I'm crying, my young adult self is crying, my teenage self is crying, and my little kid self is crying.

  • @EpicNerdsWithCameras
    @EpicNerdsWithCameras Год назад +112

    The "walking in circles and talking to yourself because you're bored" bit hits close to home, because that was probably one of my earliest ADHD signs. I write a lot of short stories, and the reason I started doing that was because I would walk around and think of stories in my head, but I eventually decided that was weird, so instead I began actually writing them down.

    • @leokhorn
      @leokhorn Год назад +2

      Pretty good way to channel the energy!

    • @artursudre5005
      @artursudre5005 Год назад +3

      Yo same, I transformed mines to RPG stories so my friends could play it, and it really works

    • @Glimare
      @Glimare Год назад +2

      Same thing! One-shot fanfics are a breeze because of this. Have trouble continuing series on paper though. Still pace though, but it's supplemented with biking for 2hrs round trip.

    • @dave_dsaf
      @dave_dsaf Год назад +1

      Ok i have adhd for sure 100%

    • @roryjm1578
      @roryjm1578 Год назад

      You might want to look up Maladaptive Daydreaming cos that sounds like what you are describing.

  • @TimTom
    @TimTom Год назад +376

    Hey! I have adhd too! The way I describe it is that it feels like wading through three feet of water. Everything is just way harder than it should be. But when I started meds, suddenly the water was gone, and for the first time in my life I didn’t feel that resistance. It was surprisingly emotional, like, is this what everyone else feels like? Is this what I’ve been missing this whole time!?
    Anyway, congrats on getting diagnosed! It’s always great when those puzzle pieces click together. :)

    • @julienpoulton4924
      @julienpoulton4924 Год назад +12

      medication helped me understand what my brain was doing differently all this time, helping me adapt. But i never take them cause they all give me terrible side effects :(

    • @robertadamsx2
      @robertadamsx2 Год назад +7

      I know that feeling perfectly well. Of feeling like I'm finally normal, and experiencing what it must be like for others.
      I take Concerta, but it doesn't fully do the job. But one day as a kid, as I was planning out how to distribute my pills for the next week, I accidentally took 4 instead 1. I was just lost in thought while my body was on auto pilot. But that day was the only day of my life where I could 100% focus. To feel normal and to finally be able to just DO stuff. I want to feel that way again.

    • @rowan3001
      @rowan3001 Год назад

      This medication is what i like to call study drugs :D

    • @rembo6438
      @rembo6438 Год назад

      i have the exact same feeling when i am not on my meds

    • @FreedomFighter-Halo
      @FreedomFighter-Halo Год назад

      Sup man

  • @theunschooledgirl
    @theunschooledgirl 5 месяцев назад

    this is literally my story of self diagnosis and i'm crying laughing.
    also i heard 'sit still' and i was like 'oh yeah i could probs do that' until you said 30 MINUTES and i went 0-0 how are you alive i would not survive it

  • @fautex47
    @fautex47 17 дней назад

    I feel so called out with having so many tabs open, it's literally my FIFO backlog. Nevermind everything you said also apply to me

  • @Orthgnl
    @Orthgnl 6 месяцев назад +542

    I got diagnosed with "ADD" now " Inattentive ADHD" about 1.5 years ago. This is the most relatable video for me, I experience literally every symptom he had said.

    • @bread-vf9gz
      @bread-vf9gz 6 месяцев назад +1

      i have ADHD and i agree

    • @user-rc5rp2rz8k
      @user-rc5rp2rz8k 3 месяца назад

      Me too@@bread-vf9gz

    • @UnsettlingNarrations
      @UnsettlingNarrations 3 месяца назад

      ADD isn't used anymore, it's all ADHD.

    • @KyleRitchey
      @KyleRitchey 3 месяца назад

      So they added da H to it 😂

    • @copperwrath
      @copperwrath 2 месяца назад +2

      i experience every sympton he had said too, but i am still in denial. i don't have adhd.

  • @identity5481
    @identity5481 Год назад +267

    I also got diagnosed like a year ago, and yeah, it's insane just HOW ADHD we can be without thinking we are because media tells us it's "ooh squirrel!!"

    • @cutiefruitytootiepie4093
      @cutiefruitytootiepie4093 Год назад +2

      I know man

    • @lLenn2
      @lLenn2 Год назад +1

      I mean, he literally ate the chocolate he was getting for somebody else. How is that not "Oh, chocolate!"?

    • @4yinyang
      @4yinyang Год назад +2

      @@lLenn2 Because it's not the chocolate itself that distracted him, he was distracted by something completely unrelated and his mind started wandering. When he eventually realised he had chocolate again his mind was so far off that the most logical conclusion he could come to at that moment was that he had gotten it for himself.
      Again, the difference here isn't that he went "Oh chocolate! Me eat!" It's more like; "Oh, what? Chocolate? Why am I holding chocolate? Aw well, might as well eat it."
      Am I making the distinction clear?

    • @lLenn2
      @lLenn2 Год назад

      @@4yinyang Yeah, the distinction is that you don't know the comedy. They're literally the same thing.

    • @4yinyang
      @4yinyang Год назад +1

      @@lLenn2 what comedy? Did I miss a joke you made or something? Because no they're not, that is exactly what I was trying to get across.
      One version of this is being so scatterbrained and lacking self-control to the point where seeing food makes you eat it immediately. This is the wrong way to understand ADHD.
      The other version is where you set out to complete a task, something takes up your focus momentarily and that small distraction is so destructive to your concentration that you literally don't even remember the original task you set out to do and then when you realise your mistake it all comes back and hits you like a truck. So even though the end result may be effectively the same, the cause and reaction is vastly different.
      Even though he makes this "oh, piece of candy" joke in the video here, he also mentions how ADHD is misrepresented in media and the chocolate story was meant to be a real world example of what living with ADHD is actually like. This is what the original commentor "Identity" was referring to.
      ADHD isn't just a dramatic reflexive reaction to stimuli, it is a hypersensitivity to distractions and difficulty gripping on to focus, among other things.

  • @aidenramberg9095
    @aidenramberg9095 2 месяца назад

    EVERY SINGLE POINT HE MADE I CAN RELATE TO, especially the "huh, i forgor what i was doing, oh hmm, free choclate"

  • @tearer.
    @tearer. 3 месяца назад

    MY GOD! The spinning in circles talking to myself part is an everyday thing for me, I don’t know what the hell I say in these stuff all I do is just talk about what happened years ago or some weird stuff and its always at 4AM but man it’s so dang fun.

  • @melissaheaney5777
    @melissaheaney5777 Год назад +271

    I don't have ADHD, but I do have autism. Some of the symptoms you listed also happen to me and I'm glad more people are talking about it.
    Edit: I just asked my parents, and it turns out I do have ADHD, along with autism!

    • @isabellas3167
      @isabellas3167 Год назад +30

      yeah there a lot of similarities between autism and adhd! I have adhd but I'm really interested in learning about autism

    • @-ellie._.horn-
      @-ellie._.horn- Год назад +6

      Whoop adhd gang!!

    • @gnomad28
      @gnomad28 Год назад

      yeah apparently it’s more common to have adhd and autism than just autism which is super interesting :0

    • @channel21505
      @channel21505 Год назад

      autism sucks but adhd sucks even more

    • @somuchtocook9159
      @somuchtocook9159 Год назад +1

      Welcome to the group hopefully you have handled it better than me

  • @thes0mething
    @thes0mething Год назад +417

    It's sad that it was necessary, but my Autism diagnosis made me so much more understanding and forgiving of myself. It helped me look at my old and current self with love rather than gross disappointment and criticism. It also helped me allow myself to finally relax a bit mentally (the overthinking and planning every social move I made was a total arse. The pressure immense).
    I totally get the relief in having a diagnosis and I'm very happy for you!

    • @bluebaron6811
      @bluebaron6811 Год назад +5

      I have autism, adhd, and (I think Asphurgers? I probably butchered that name.)

    • @MichaelHickey2003
      @MichaelHickey2003 Год назад +2

      I've never accepted that I might have something that sets me apart even by a little, I can't wrap my head around it.

    • @bluebaron6811
      @bluebaron6811 Год назад

      @subwooferz oh, thanks! I'm smart, but I can't words. 😂

    • @thes0mething
      @thes0mething Год назад +14

      @@iv6123 If you think I function "normally" as an adult you are gravely mistaken. I'm what used to be considered Asperger's Syndrome before it was changed and referred to ASD as a general term which encompasses the whole spectrum. Some people (myself included) just get very good at hiding their symptoms as they get older when others are around. It is not something you grow out of.

    • @thes0mething
      @thes0mething Год назад +7

      @@iv6123 you make a lot of assumption's about people whose lives you know very little about. Why the anger? Are you suffering?

  • @klara3625
    @klara3625 3 месяца назад

    I found your channel today and i am soooo happy about it

  • @Justafrog-yp6ro
    @Justafrog-yp6ro 2 месяца назад

    When watching your sponsorships the accusation of "You don't like watching sponsorships" does not apply! :D
    Thanks to you being funny and my respect for youtubers but mostly you being funny.

  • @lgeodes8376
    @lgeodes8376 Год назад +123

    I have ADHD and it was only when I was in my 20s did I get diagnosed. As my daughter grew I noticed a lot of her habits and behaviour were eerily similar to mine as a child. When I was discussing the symptoms with my husband and parents my mother said "oh that's normal and nothing. You did that and you were still an excellent student so no need to waste time going to the specialist" and my husband and I were silently staring at her as the little knobs in her brain clicked and realized that it was really obvious that I had ADHD growing up

    • @04SlhS
      @04SlhS Год назад

      nowadays every1 has adhd, autism and depression cuz attention lol

    • @enavincorporated
      @enavincorporated Год назад +14

      @@04SlhS nobody cares, you’ve copied & pasted this below nearly every comment

    • @uebbe5387
      @uebbe5387 Год назад +3

      ADHD doesnt come and go, you live forever with it

    • @barbarayang8523
      @barbarayang8523 Год назад

      Hi, I'm also 20 and I am VERY suspicious of my condition. But I don't know how and who to check this with. Do you just go to a authorized hospital and ask for a check?

    • @04SlhS
      @04SlhS Год назад

      @@enavincorporated nearly every comment was " OhoH i HaD mU aDhD IN wHen Blah blah blah"

  • @mmk82758
    @mmk82758 Год назад +1018

    Thank you for this! My 14-year-old has combined-type ADHD and has a hard time communicating to us what it feels like. He sent this video to me and asked me to watch it. He said “I really relate to this” ❤ I also remember when we took him to get tested … the dr came out and said, “ he’s having a really hard time focusing on the tests.” Um, yeah. That’s why we’re here.

    • @zeronothinghere9334
      @zeronothinghere9334 Год назад +95

      "Sir, I need you to focus on the test to test your inattitentiveness!"
      "If the plural of bee is bees, oh that rhymes with eevee, eevees? Wait, no, tree trees makes sense. Fits the pattern. Eevee. Hehe."

    • @K000H
      @K000H Год назад +30

      I was diagnosed with Inattentive ADHD at 19(am 26 now) and i can still remember my neurologist's face as she wrote down notes on how i was performing in her tests. "Yikes" and "Oof", is how i would describe her expression. It's funny because i was kinda nervous about what the results would be. It's not that i wanted to have ADHD, but having it confirmed would be better than not knowing why i was struggling as i was.
      There were supposed to be some waiting time for the results to come back after being checked by multiple specialists, but my mom was curious and asked my neurologist if she could tell by what she had observed that day, if there were anything she could positively see. And both my mom and me didn't expect much as the test had to be looked at further, but my neurologist barely let my mom finish asking. "Yes! She got ADD. There is no question about it!" 😂 Well then.

    • @snorkchop8134
      @snorkchop8134 Год назад +4

      Dr Berg says wild caught fish helps ADHD. I think unfortified nutritional yeast or grassfed freeze dried liver pills are great for B vitamins cause Berg said B vitamins AND wildcaught fish helps. Btw fish pills are rancid

    • @rpgcraftsman520
      @rpgcraftsman520 11 месяцев назад +4

      >the dr came out and said, “ he’s having a really hard time focusing on the tests.” Um, yeah. That’s why we’re here.
      >the dr came out and said, “ he’s having a really hard time focusing on the tests.”
      >“ he’s having a really hard time focusing on the tests.”
      EWE WOT M8R

    • @NatetheNintendofan
      @NatetheNintendofan 6 месяцев назад

      I have both and I also have autism high functioning

  • @LongDeadArtist
    @LongDeadArtist 5 месяцев назад +1

    I relate to a lot of these exact scenarios you point out! I did actually take a form and was diagnosed with Inattentive type like you while my brother has Hyperactivity type, but I personally don't believe that diagnosis since it was just taken off some forms without any other form of testing

  • @mrtowers8820
    @mrtowers8820 4 месяца назад

    Omg! I can relate to the symptoms that you explained here! I struggle every day to focus and do what I love. I’m a chef and lately everything I do in the kitchen feel awkward I don’t know how to explain it!

  • @thecrafthoard
    @thecrafthoard Год назад +2071

    Two takeaways from this: 1. there are actually *three* subtypes of ADHD - inattentive, hyperactive, and a combination of those two. I am also diagnosed as the inattentive type. 2. I'm glad the EEG helped you get a diagnosis. It did diddly squat for me, but that because I'm able to just chill out and switch my brain off and stare at the ceiling. Could be due to age or gender too, as that does affect how testing works.
    When I went back for a second diagnosis (5 years after the first one after learning that age/gender DO play a role and that I was given a test meant FOR KIDS the first time around) the psychotherapist sat me down and asked questions, did memory/cognition puzzles, and finally a computer test where I had to hit the spacebar every time the letter "x" appeared. The second round of testing took three hours and she was 100% certain in her ADHD-Inattentive diagnosis. I am now working with a psychiatrist for treatment, who specializes in women with ADHD and herself is diagnosed as ADHD-Combined. :)
    Overall, thank you for sharing your story and shedding more light on ADHD and the struggles we face with it. :)

    • @eyeslanderer
      @eyeslanderer Год назад +21

      i have combined, it sucks

    • @emmlua
      @emmlua Год назад +32

      thank you for explaining to other people that there is combined adhd! because that is what i have.

    • @meowkittymeowmeow2786
      @meowkittymeowmeow2786 Год назад +19

      For your second point, I think what you're doing is just hyperfixating on command, but at nothing in particular, I can do the same thing where I can literally force myself to zone out just by willing it

    • @J4_yd3n
      @J4_yd3n Год назад +2

      oooh so you CAN have a combination of these two??? that explains a lot of things about meeee..

    • @meowkittymeowmeow2786
      @meowkittymeowmeow2786 Год назад +3

      @@J4_yd3n It IS a spectrum after all

  • @nathanl7018
    @nathanl7018 Год назад +149

    As someone who was diagnosed with ADD (that’s what it was then) in the 80’s, this spoke to me. Really appreciate your talent and your candidness ice cream sandwich.

    • @recitationtohear
      @recitationtohear Год назад +1

      Here is the full Clip : icecream sandwich face reveal
      ruclips.net/video/mCfYi7634rU/видео.html

    • @ClAddict
      @ClAddict Год назад

      ADD team represent! But from the 00’s

  • @ramiroivancantu
    @ramiroivancantu Месяц назад +1

    I WALK IN CIRCLES AND TALK TO MYSELF FOR HOURS TOO, i had no idea that was a thing

  • @noahwatters1103
    @noahwatters1103 3 месяца назад +1

    I was lucky when i got tested. I never had to do sit still for 20 minutes, my test was a general examination of my brain in general which i was prompted to do after my friend said i might have ADHD. I had to do many different tasks like orienting a group of coloured blocks, writing down numbers that the psychologist repeated to me, etc. turns out I performed better than only 14% of my peers (other people that the psychologist has observed and tested). So i have slow processing speed as well as ADHD innatentive. But I apparently perform better than 99% of my peers in perceptual reasoning and working memory. It genuinely surprises me that to this day, my talents are being limited by distractions on social media due to ADHD.

  • @itstimeformarshmallows6576
    @itstimeformarshmallows6576 11 месяцев назад +1213

    As a fellow adhd-er, hearing about the sitting still for 30 minutes just now made me feel physical pain.😭
    When I was diagnosed I didn’t do an EEG but I did several screenings and tests and one of them included me doing the same boring task for 20 minutes and I was SO restless and I could’ve cried out from the understimulation.😂

    • @ihateentertainment
      @ihateentertainment 8 месяцев назад +3

      remove adhd

    • @sruthisathish5567
      @sruthisathish5567 7 месяцев назад +19

      I am not yet diagnosed but staying still for 30 minutes is a hellish NIGHTMARE😭 Also, he mentioned all the things I do everyday....so I might wanna go and get diagnosed😅

    • @shyryTsr2k
      @shyryTsr2k 7 месяцев назад +9

      @@ihateentertainment WOW!! YOU'RE SO SMART AND INSPIRATIONAL

    • @Testokonsument
      @Testokonsument 7 месяцев назад +6

      Bro this psychologist did a test with me too see if i had any other diagnosis’s it was literally 100 questions and she kept asking the same questions sometimes too see if i was even paying attention shit got me so mad

    • @tamoozbr
      @tamoozbr 6 месяцев назад +1

      I forgot I sat in the same place for more than 5 minutes and your comment reminded me of that I did (and that I need to get up because my brain just doesn't let me stay in 1 place for more that 1 minute)

  • @cannon_kat
    @cannon_kat Год назад +234

    Hey man, welcome to the ADHD club. We're so glad to have you here. Glad this kind of thing is getting more attention so more people can get the help they need and I know it can- oo a piece of candy

    • @lilkiki0038
      @lilkiki0038 Год назад +5

      AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH Oh pc of candy

    • @DaVlogAndGamer
      @DaVlogAndGamer Год назад

      Thanks i been in tgis club for 6 years now lol

  • @WindblumeLovesVenti
    @WindblumeLovesVenti 2 месяца назад

    I want the him walking in circles animation on loop and as a wallpaper just to then stare at it for a 𝘧𝘦𝘸 hours with the glorious ✨tappy tap tap✨ sounds.

  • @cyaneddsworld-2870
    @cyaneddsworld-2870 5 месяцев назад +3

    3:51 ok now I don’t have adhd but this actually reminded me of one time in primary school where a classmate was giving out sweets on the schoolyard cause it was her birthday and she gave me one and cause my best friend wasn’t there but she knew I was close with them she gave me one and told me to give it to them and on my way to search them I was just kinda talking with my other friend and then I just kinda bit off a piece of the candy because I like forgot it was for my best friend 💀 I then buried it because I was too embarrassed to admit it or eat the rest.

  • @canarywithbedhead
    @canarywithbedhead Год назад +203

    as someone with recently diagnosed adhd, and am in the progress of the mess that are meds, it’s really nice to see someone you respect talk about it! thank you for sharing your story and touching on the way media portrays the surface of adhd

    • @mckenziebate2949
      @mckenziebate2949 Год назад +3

      Ikr my pharmacy completely ran out of my medication for a couple weeks!

    • @justlina5091
      @justlina5091 Год назад

      Is the meds a necessary thing ?? (Asking out of curiosity)

    • @Skyeshadow3408
      @Skyeshadow3408 Год назад +2

      @@justlina5091 I have ADHD and I don't need them, but maybe that's just me.

    • @soop1711
      @soop1711 Год назад +1

      I 100% agree!

    • @sydneyharp1989
      @sydneyharp1989 Год назад +4

      @@justlina5091 no stimulant medication is the most effective way to treat it but you can see significant improvement with different changes or non-stimulant. The most important thing is treat it individually, it’s not the same person to person because you have different brains literally. Change your dose it matters. Caffeine is a stimulant also so I noticed I abused it significantly less after.

  • @mikeymartyr
    @mikeymartyr Год назад +471

    I got diagnosed with ADHD a few years ago in my senior year of hs and lemme tell you, I so understand the relief of just. Being able to put a name to what's going wrong. Like being able to identify what is happening and why it's happening was like exciting for me, and being able to look back at all my behaviours and being able to go oh that's why I do that! Even for like neutral or innocuous things, just knowing WHAT is going on up there and being able to identify how it affects my personality and my behaviour is really comforting for me. I'm excited for the next video, oh boy medication is a trip

    • @mikedonald2018
      @mikedonald2018 Год назад +2

      I don’t take medicine I don’t struggle with adhd but I feel all these things it’s very exciting

    • @dietcookies3141
      @dietcookies3141 Год назад +2

      Them withdrawal symptoms are crazy when you try to stop taking the meds, shit is a trip.

    • @anneke_yep2407
      @anneke_yep2407 Год назад +2

      I take meds but it’s because my ADHD (inattentive type) is co-morbid with severe anxiety (either generalized or social) and it helps lower my anxiety. I recently has to start a small dose of antidepressants tho as college was making my anxiety so bad. The side effects were bad but I’m glad I did because i would be struggling so bad rn hahaha

    • @NovaaZR
      @NovaaZR Год назад +2

      ikr no one gets that

  • @thehamtart9067
    @thehamtart9067 5 месяцев назад

    I was diagnosed early on, but neither me nor my mom really understood it at the time, and we both kind of didnt really believe it. Watching this video now and things are starting to make a little more sense. I can relate a lot.

  • @Burn2themall
    @Burn2themall Месяц назад

    the brain animation makes me laugh cause its hella relatable to having adhd it just feels like brain has other plans than body

  • @zekes.9777
    @zekes.9777 Год назад +647

    I was diagnosed with severe ADHD at a very young age (I'm 22 now and my mom tells me that it was so bad that they apparently thought I had Asperger's syndrome at first before getting me diagnosed) and I know how much of a struggle it can be. sometimes it takes me days to complete the smallest of tasks and honestly I've already lost focus five times writing this. Some of The best advice I can give is don't lose hope. Don't feel like you'll never get a good grade or finish a big task because of your struggle. It will be more challenging, but it will rarely be impossible. The next best advice is that ADHD doesn't have to be a stumbling block. If you can, find something you enjoy that uses the hidden strengths that ADHD provides such as spontaneity and creativity. I've found that if I can get myself in a mindset that uses my ADHD, I can often manage multiple smaller tasks at the same time. It might just be me, but I feel like I accomplish more under stress and I find myself handling situations that others might crack under because of how easily I can switch my focus.
    Edit: I know fully well that ADHD and ASD are both spectrums. My parents both grew up in rural America where their only exposure to ASD was what they saw in movies like Mercury Rising. They apparently saw me acting similarly to the child in the movie back when I was 3 or 4 and since it was called Asperger's Syndrome in the movie, that's what they thought I had. I'm not trying to say that me having "severe ADHD" is different from anyone else who has ADHD. I'm only saying that my symptoms were so severe that it was blatantly obvious that I was neurodivergent and my parents thought it was important enough to get me diagnosed. In fact, because it was so obvious, my younger sister didn't even get diagnosed with ADHD until the age of 9 because her symptoms were so much more mild. I'm only using the term "Asperger's" because I'm quoting my mother, who at the time of diagnosis didn't realize that the term was outdated (This would've been back in 2003 in rural Georgia, and my mom grew up in Vermont in an even smaller town). She knows better now, but still says they thought I had Asperger's back before they knew it was the same thing as ASD.

    • @Jubbinn_
      @Jubbinn_ Год назад +9

      Stress barely affects me but idk if its because of ADHD of that im just always stressed

    • @ClariNerd
      @ClariNerd Год назад +33

      As someone who has both ASD (formerly known as Asperger’s before the medical community decided not to name the condition after a literal Nazi) and ADHD, and I *wish* I only had one and not the other.

    • @malaksafa4074
      @malaksafa4074 Год назад +1

      @@Jubbinn_ man 😔

    • @lavi8090
      @lavi8090 Год назад +7

      there is no such thing as "severe adhd", adhd is a spectrum /nm

    • @lejaarmy
      @lejaarmy Год назад +1

      I’m the same as you, I had it so bad that they also thought I had Aspergers

  • @stevenbigfist1346
    @stevenbigfist1346 Год назад +202

    I have inattentive ADHD and this has been the most relatable thing I have ever watched, I do EVERY single thing he talks about here I didn't know some of these were even because ADHD but it's nice to know I am not alone, sometimes it feels like I am the only one struggling and every single other person is okay.

    • @OrangeXJam
      @OrangeXJam Год назад +7

      We here bruther . . . Did I lock the door

    • @marcusorta714
      @marcusorta714 Год назад +1

      I understand that completely! It’s hard not to think that other people don’t struggle as much as you do.
      The reality is everyone has struggles, but it’s true that much of struggles for adhd people can be unique to them and make things feel isolating.
      Know you aren’t alone, and you can overcome anything with enough time and work. It may take a lot of tricks and a lot of time to figure out which tricks work, but it’s all worth it in the end

    • @MossyMoht
      @MossyMoht Год назад +1

      Yeah, books are just…..

    • @yogeshvarrege7043
      @yogeshvarrege7043 Год назад +1

      I've been thinking I had ADHD for a while now, but since I haven't really been hyperactive since I was a kid I figured it might not be (didn't know about inattentive ADHD). I also never wanted to get checked out because me/my family didn't like the idea of getting medications that might affect me negatively. Now hearing him list out the those symptoms right now had completely SHOOK

    • @Llamu
      @Llamu Год назад

      yeah I do it all apart from the browser tabs. In fact I do the opposite. If I put down my phone without swiping up the apps, Its like I can just feel the app in the phone so I have to swipe it up

  • @abluerjay
    @abluerjay 2 месяца назад

    I'm 90% sure I have adhd even though I haven't been officially diagnosed, and most people say that I don't because I get good grades, but to me that isn't always a determining factor. The real thing that made me realize I had adhd was when I was musical theater, I finally felt like I didn't have to hold back or change myself to try and fit in with the rest of everyone else. I was appreciated for being different instead of being shunned for it.