When you talked about how we should live life to please god and not others it really touched me because I feel like we get so caught up about other peoples opinions and trying to please and meet their standards that we ourselves will never find happiness and you really reminded me of that and i really appreciate and grateful for that Leena 💗
Lena, THANK YOU for mentioning how much help you get behind the scenes. As a Mum who has no family near to help, I get so demoralised about other mum influencers hiding the help they get and acting like they do it all with an immaculate house and looking great all the time. Love your videos and your honestly.
Leena! You said EXACTLY what I do with my kids. I cannot get my in-laws and sometimes my husband to stop using negative fear-mongering and brainwashing tactics instead of an educated approach just to get a quick reaction of submission with my kids. It is ongoing😣 my husband is getting better, but it’s a true mission
So glad you clarified that Texas is such a kind state. A lot of people think of negatively out of ignorance, but I have never experienced anything but friendly, lovely people!
That’s great that you’ve personally had a wonderful experience, but in reality it’s an unfriendly place for many minorities. Its reputation is quite deserved in some ways
It depends where you live in TX....TX is freaking huge!!! In the middle of nowhere places, TX is known to be a very scary place for many different people. You can’t live in a huge city like Houston or Dallas and say that oh TX is a kind state.
I read this on a poster one time...."When you play the game of comparisons, you will lose every time." And that has stayed with me because it is so true and social media has made it so much harder to NOT compare yourself to people online!
I was really touched by all the answers you gave, you knew how to find the right words. I am neither a mother nor a wife, but only a student who strangely knew how to identify herself with many of your words. thank you very much for this sincere and honest discussion. Love XOXO
I really needed this girl chat! There are so many topics you touch-based on that I completely relate. I had an interview the other day and the guy asked me what do I like to do for fun that doesn’t involve my daughter. I completely hesitated and felt so down that I didn’t have something exciting to say. I think most of us also can relate on the fact of trying to find other mom friends or what not. It does feel lonely sometimes and it is hard to find friends. 😩
Sending you love ❤️ our babies become our everything it's totally normal we don't have the most time as moms just wanted to let you know your not alone I am the same way
So I mostly agreed with all that you said and totally loved your perspective. But the last question was about being a good wife not necessarily by "cooking/looking after" the husband. Maybe the person meant being a good wife by supporting their partner and being fair/not lashing out at them for little things etc. You can ask your husband for validation for those things as part of being a good wife as well. I think it's good to ask for feedback from your partner but not beat yourself down for it because that won't do anyone good, just work on it consistently
I love these videos so much it’s like advice from a big sister! I love your videos so much there so inspiring and so much appreciated and words can’t even describe how much I love them 😂 best wishes to you and your family 💗
I love everything you discussed in this video! Literally lol If I ever have kids, there are so many things I would change about how I and my generation learned about Islam. The fear, the mentions of God's anger or hell, and honestly the not super accurate tales we were told as children. What's scary is that my own parents were amazing, and they never told me things like these.. I just ended up learning them anyway from other family members and other kids 😅
You're right it is human nature to criticise everything but we all know that only Allah is the best of judges leena you are an amazing mom wife sister content creator and friend love you girl keep on shining and making us all smile 😘😘
Your such a beautiful person inside and out mashAllah you radiate so much positivity the world needs so much more of people like you love these videos ..you speak so Eloquent sending you nothing but love may Allah always bless you and your beautiful family ♥️
Any advice for Muslim single women over 40 who have never been married and have no prospects. There is so much stigma from the Muslim community and society in general.
For the question asking for a logical reason to have children, (if that person is Muslim), there is a Hadith that encourages having children because it increases the numbers of the ummah so that the Prophet will be proud of our great numbers before the other nations. So from that perspective, it’s a great act of worship to have children and to raise them to be Muslim. But I agree with Leena, if you don’t want children there’s nothing wrong with that, and you shouldn’t feel like you have to have children if you don’t want any.
14:03 mins: Don’t listen to the haters, we are all here for you and we all love you and your content (and your sisters’ as well). Try not to let them get to you, there’s no need, they’re just frustrated in their own lives.
In Islam one of the core reason or the reason that encourages Muslims to have kids is that children will be sadaqa jariya (on-going charity) for the parents. Raising a pious Muslim child will benefit the parents in the Hereafter, in Sha Allah.
I love this so much !!. It was so relaxing . Leena you are such a beautiful person mashallah and i pray that Allah grants you Jannatul firdause and your family. Ameen.
Hello lena ......I just want to say I love these kinda of videos .I really like how honest u r with ur answers. Ur awesome . love from Dearborn Michigan
This video was amazing💓 , I really needed this it's truly like getting 😍advice from an older sister💗 I never had since I'm the oldest. Just ignore the negative comments , you are the best , there are millions of other people including me who love you😍🥰
I always love your videos. There is no video where I haven't learned something from you or felt comforting and like it's all oke. You feel like the sister I never got and I needed that so much. May Allah always bless you and your family with the best. Much love and thank you ❤
Hi, Leena! I really enjoyed this video ❤️ I love listening to you and your beliefs! Ps.: I'm not a religious person (or belive in god or a superior power), but I get very emotional when you talk about your God. If there's any, I would hope is yours 😊 (Sorry if the writing is confused 😅 Im not a English native)
Hi Leena! I wanted to ask a question but I don't know if I'll word this properly, so I'm sorry if it comes off as offensive in some way. I can clarify anything you need. But how do you balance mental health with religion? I live in a mostly christian country, Portugal, and I see that more religious people neglect mental health because they believe only God can completely cure us and there's no need to seek for help, because God should be the one to take care of you. How does that work with muslim people? Do you feel the same way, especially with older generations? Or do muslims have a healthy relationship with reaching for others other than God Himself? Thank you, you look beautiful
Muslims believe in a saying called “tie your camel first, then pray to god.” This implies that you do and try your best at every instance, and god will take care of the rest! This also is applied to health and Islam encouraged mental health therapy!
Iam so inspired by you and from your family you guyes are so amazing how you maintain your house daughter and all the things Love from Pakistan 🇵🇰 love you dear♥️♥️plz must visit Pakistan I really want to meet u
I feel like if you are Muslim then you have to have 1 child whether you want to or not unless you just cant have children However if your not muslim then it’s a upto you whether you want children or not 😅 I personally think that having a child/children is a blessing from Allah ❤️❤️
@@ha_limabeanz sheikh assim al hakim I’ve seen his RUclips on “if it’s allowed notwanting to have children” I wouldn’t have not mentioned it in the first place if I didn’t watch a video on it And he mentions that marriage isn’t just for doing things in a halal way it’s also to procreate it’s the cycle of life💁🏽♀️ If you don’t believe in this or don’t want to see the video by the sheikh then that’s a YOU problem, that’s your opinion The video by the sheikh is below and has loads of views on it 🙌🏼 I just feel like people whether they are RUclipsrs or not have opinions that should be dicussed by an aalim or someone who actually has Islamic knowledge ruclips.net/video/dZp1L6OFHu0/видео.html
@@safiyyahesmail7109 yeah it's true that marriage obviously comes with children and it's great to have children and raise them in the name of Allah but there is no ayah or Hadith that states that you must or it's a fardh, usually couples agree on that into the marriage, sometimes it takes a long time, but they usually have a child. But if you can give me one hadithbir ayah that states it's fardh then I'll rest my case gladly and accept I'm wrong
‼️Islam doesn’t allow forced children. If you don’t want kids, DONT get them. That Will just result in unhappy parents and soon abusive behaviors towards their children. ‼️
Hey guys! I filmed this video during Ramadan, but I haven't been able to post it until now. Love you all!
You are the best
I'm so happy you uploaded a video Leena!! 💖💖
Can u give a tutorial of the hijab style u wore in this vid?
Yay! Glad you did!
I love you leena 😍
When you talked about how we should live life to please god and not others it really touched me because I feel like we get so caught up about other peoples opinions and trying to please and meet their standards that we ourselves will never find happiness and you really reminded me of that and i really appreciate and grateful for that Leena 💗
Lena, THANK YOU for mentioning how much help you get behind the scenes. As a Mum who has no family near to help, I get so demoralised about other mum influencers hiding the help they get and acting like they do it all with an immaculate house and looking great all the time. Love your videos and your honestly.
I can’t even imagine why someone would say anything negative to you. You are such a kind soul masha’Allah and such a positive person
@@jellybeansies ignored black voices?
Leena! You said EXACTLY what I do with my kids. I cannot get my in-laws and sometimes my husband to stop using negative fear-mongering and brainwashing tactics instead of an educated approach just to get a quick reaction of submission with my kids. It is ongoing😣 my husband is getting better, but it’s a true mission
So glad you clarified that Texas is such a kind state. A lot of people think of negatively out of ignorance, but I have never experienced anything but friendly, lovely people!
That’s great that you’ve personally had a wonderful experience, but in reality it’s an unfriendly place for many minorities. Its reputation is quite deserved in some ways
It depends where you live in TX....TX is freaking huge!!! In the middle of nowhere places, TX is known to be a very scary place for many different people. You can’t live in a huge city like Houston or Dallas and say that oh TX is a kind state.
I read this on a poster one time...."When you play the game of comparisons, you will lose every time." And that has stayed with me because it is so true and social media has made it so much harder to NOT compare yourself to people online!
I was really touched by all the answers you gave, you knew how to find the right words. I am neither a mother nor a wife, but only a student who strangely knew how to identify herself with many of your words. thank you very much for this sincere and honest discussion. Love XOXO
The best way to make your dreams come true is to have great mindset. Always work on yourself. Positive women.
I really needed this girl chat! There are so many topics you touch-based on that I completely relate. I had an interview the other day and the guy asked me what do I like to do for fun that doesn’t involve my daughter. I completely hesitated and felt so down that I didn’t have something exciting to say. I think most of us also can relate on the fact of trying to find other mom friends or what not. It does feel lonely sometimes and it is hard to find friends. 😩
Sending you love ❤️ our babies become our everything it's totally normal we don't have the most time as moms just wanted to let you know your not alone I am the same way
Thank you - you’re so kind! Sending it right back to you. 😊
That’s rude of him to imply!
You answered my question about the line between privacy and support! Thank you!
Having faith is indeed the best advice 😊🤲🏾
When you said to compare yourself to how you were yesterday, that really hit me. 👌❤️❤️
Hey leena i love these types of sit down and talk vids can you do one with your parents ❤️
I live for these chats😍 you are gorgeous, Leena!
So I mostly agreed with all that you said and totally loved your perspective. But the last question was about being a good wife not necessarily by "cooking/looking after" the husband. Maybe the person meant being a good wife by supporting their partner and being fair/not lashing out at them for little things etc. You can ask your husband for validation for those things as part of being a good wife as well.
I think it's good to ask for feedback from your partner but not beat yourself down for it because that won't do anyone good, just work on it consistently
I love these videos so much it’s like advice from a big sister! I love your videos so much there so inspiring and so much appreciated and words can’t even describe how much I love them 😂 best wishes to you and your family 💗
You did a great service to mother's by explaining how to get help for PPD
In my family I'm the oldest but here I feel like I have a big sister 🥰
Same!
I love your girl chat videos!! They’re my fave🤍🤍
Love all the questions you chose and you have great advice. Love how you will teach GOD to your daughter and that firstly god always loves you.
I love everything you discussed in this video! Literally lol
If I ever have kids, there are so many things I would change about how I and my generation learned about Islam. The fear, the mentions of God's anger or hell, and honestly the not super accurate tales we were told as children. What's scary is that my own parents were amazing, and they never told me things like these.. I just ended up learning them anyway from other family members and other kids 😅
Love watching girls chat videos!! 💖💖
You're right it is human nature to criticise everything but we all know that only Allah is the best of judges leena you are an amazing mom wife sister content creator and friend love you girl keep on shining and making us all smile 😘😘
You’re a great role model. You have it together
LOVED THE VIDEO! i hope the negative comments never effect you or your family!
Your such a beautiful person inside and out mashAllah you radiate so much positivity the world needs so much more of people like you love these videos ..you speak so Eloquent sending you nothing but love may Allah always bless you and your beautiful family ♥️
Any advice for Muslim single women over 40 who have never been married and have no prospects. There is so much stigma from the Muslim community and society in general.
For the question asking for a logical reason to have children, (if that person is Muslim), there is a Hadith that encourages having children because it increases the numbers of the ummah so that the Prophet will be proud of our great numbers before the other nations. So from that perspective, it’s a great act of worship to have children and to raise them to be Muslim. But I agree with Leena, if you don’t want children there’s nothing wrong with that, and you shouldn’t feel like you have to have children if you don’t want any.
I loved it! Thank you for being your amazing self🌼🤍
14:03 mins: Don’t listen to the haters, we are all here for you and we all love you and your content (and your sisters’ as well). Try not to let them get to you, there’s no need, they’re just frustrated in their own lives.
Absolutely love love love this video!! Thank you Leena for this beautiful discussion ❤️❤️❤️❤️
In Islam one of the core reason or the reason that encourages Muslims to have kids is that children will be sadaqa jariya (on-going charity) for the parents. Raising a pious Muslim child will benefit the parents in the Hereafter, in Sha Allah.
Thats why I comment on all of you posts kindly because I saw your video on how you were talking about social media and negative comments
Love your vibe and videos! You are an inspiration to all of us 💙
We love you to congratulations on 90k
You came just in time Leena :)
I love this so much !!. It was so relaxing . Leena you are such a beautiful person mashallah and i pray that Allah grants you Jannatul firdause and your family. Ameen.
Hello lena ......I just want to say I love these kinda of videos .I really like how honest u r with ur answers. Ur awesome . love from Dearborn Michigan
I really enjoyed it 💕
Love you so much leena your video are amazing I will always support you forget the haters and
Isten to the people who love
We looove these women chat videos ! 🤍
I love so much your girl chat videos because I feel we get to now you even better ❤️🥰
Mashallah yu spoke well sis....do more sch vdios...felt as if i ws listening 2 my elder sis advice
This video was amazing💓 , I really needed this it's truly like getting 😍advice from an older sister💗 I never had since I'm the oldest. Just ignore the negative comments , you are the best , there are millions of other people including me who love you😍🥰
First 💗 waited so long for this so excited 😆
Thank you Leena, you are inspiration🥰🥰
I always love your videos. There is no video where I haven't learned something from you or felt comforting and like it's all oke. You feel like the sister I never got and I needed that so much. May Allah always bless you and your family with the best. Much love and thank you ❤
YES, LOVE THISS! love u soo much, Amazing advice live alwaysss.😘😘
I thought baby blues and post partum were the same thing. Thanks for clarifying. Such great content.
Hi, Leena! I really enjoyed this video ❤️ I love listening to you and your beliefs!
Ps.: I'm not a religious person (or belive in god or a superior power), but I get very emotional when you talk about your God. If there's any, I would hope is yours 😊
(Sorry if the writing is confused 😅 Im not a English native)
We love you ❤you're doing amazing girl❤
Jazak Allah khair so informative and a great chat. 💗🌸
Thank you Leena!
That white dress in the back is so pretty, where did you get it from? 🤗😍
Just watched this video. And it was really good one 👍
you are amazing leen, I love you so much 💗💗💖
Aaawww i love u so much ,that helps alot❤❤❤❤
Sending Love from Afghanistan🇦🇫♥️
Love your girl chat vids 😌💕
Hi Leena! I wanted to ask a question but I don't know if I'll word this properly, so I'm sorry if it comes off as offensive in some way. I can clarify anything you need. But how do you balance mental health with religion? I live in a mostly christian country, Portugal, and I see that more religious people neglect mental health because they believe only God can completely cure us and there's no need to seek for help, because God should be the one to take care of you. How does that work with muslim people? Do you feel the same way, especially with older generations? Or do muslims have a healthy relationship with reaching for others other than God Himself? Thank you, you look beautiful
Muslims believe in a saying called “tie your camel first, then pray to god.” This implies that you do and try your best at every instance, and god will take care of the rest! This also is applied to health and Islam encouraged mental health therapy!
These were good questions!
Thank you! Please make more of these videos
we love you sis💜
ur so close to 1M congrats
You are the best no matter what others ( minorities) says👍👍👍👍👍👍
please do your this hijab tutorial & using essentials for this hijab..its really amazing i loved this one 🥺🥺♥️
If you need to be convinced to have kids, DON'T HAVE KIDS!
Lovely video🤩
So happy that I subscribed to your channel 🙏❤️👏I love your content sooo good
Me rushing to download the video after seeing that its up from your Instagram stories
You look amazing as usual
I keep anticipating for house update 😢
Saame🤧
Ok I know this is really weird but anyone know what goes with wide fit jeans that is modest?
Love you Leena 💗 you're beautiful inside and out masha Allaah.
What happend to Leo, because i haven’t seen him anymore in youre vids?❤️
Favourite vlogger. 🥰🥰🥰🥰❤❤❤❤
i like how leena talks about thing that are little tabu
Thanks for all the advice they indeed were helpful and useful love you and your family ❤🥰😇😌
i hope u make lots of these videos😊❤
Iam so inspired by you and from your family you guyes are so amazing how you maintain your house daughter and all the things Love from Pakistan 🇵🇰 love you dear♥️♥️plz must visit Pakistan I really want to meet u
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Love girl chat videos🌺
You are just soooooo nice x
That is definitely a Texas stereotype. Houston is the most culturally diverse city in the US.
جزاک اللہ
Awesome advice
Love the lip colour x
Omgz you're lovely n beautiful
Don't be hard on yourself
Ignore haters
Love you 💞
Can you please provide an update on your new build!
Which scarf cloth do you wear?
Please reply
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What is telegram
I love your "girl chat" videos so so much! You're so inspiring Leena, keep up the great work👊🏻❤❤❤
Love you❤️
6:43. I can relate to this comment😭
I want to ask, do you use eyelash extensions? Are they allowed in Islam?
Thank you
Very best wishes
Thanks sis
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HIJAB TUTORIAL
I feel like if you are Muslim then you have to have 1 child whether you want to or not unless you just cant have children
However if your not muslim then it’s a upto you whether you want children or not 😅
I personally think that having a child/children is a blessing from Allah ❤️❤️
Having children isn't a wajeb/fardh, so Idk where u got that from
@@ha_limabeanz sheikh assim al hakim
I’ve seen his RUclips on “if it’s allowed notwanting to have children” I wouldn’t have not mentioned it in the first place if I didn’t watch a video on it
And he mentions that marriage isn’t just for doing things in a halal way it’s also to procreate it’s the cycle of life💁🏽♀️
If you don’t believe in this or don’t want to see the video by the sheikh then that’s a YOU problem, that’s your opinion
The video by the sheikh is below and has loads of views on it 🙌🏼
I just feel like people whether they are RUclipsrs or not have opinions that should be dicussed by an aalim or someone who actually has Islamic knowledge
ruclips.net/video/dZp1L6OFHu0/видео.html
@@safiyyahesmail7109 yeah it's true that marriage obviously comes with children and it's great to have children and raise them in the name of Allah but there is no ayah or Hadith that states that you must or it's a fardh, usually couples agree on that into the marriage, sometimes it takes a long time, but they usually have a child. But if you can give me one hadithbir ayah that states it's fardh then I'll rest my case gladly and accept I'm wrong
It’s not fard, but highly encouraged and one of the reasons to get married.
‼️Islam doesn’t allow forced children. If you don’t want kids, DONT get them. That Will just result in unhappy parents and soon abusive behaviors towards their children. ‼️
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Hii leena