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Comment your best wife advice below that I might have missed! 💗💗 love you guys!!
Hey Leena, your my favourite RUclipsr!!
I get so excited when you upload a video!! 💖🥰💖
Salam aleykum Leena! Can you Tell us where we can buy the hijab you‘re wearing in this Video?😍❤️
MashaAllah Leena, amazing advices! I do them all myself and alhamdulillah 4th year of marriage going smooth:) One thing I think you forgot to mention but I know you do is to respect and love his family like yours. Making sure you give them enough of your attention and care..
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I think that the best advice to give to a wife is to be patient and always try to understand her man not to juge him …. Love you leena you are my best RUclipsr i adore you ♥️
Bravo!!!👏👏👏 you nailed each tip on the head! Went through all those things and still married 4 years later 😂one thing I took away from my marriage so far is always remember to put God first, your partner can never give you what God can, so don't put that pressure on them to "complete" you or be responsible for your happiness! Dont put anyone before your duty to Allah (swt) ❤
Wow 🤩 thank you for sharing!
May Allah bless you and reward you. I pray that Allah grants us all closeness to Him, always.
Masha'Allah ❤️
Great and such a true advice!
My husband and I just celebrated 21 years of marriage. We were HS sweethearts. Got married at 17 and next year we will be renewing our vows. These tips are on point. We have loved and hated each other. We have had our ups and downs and I feel people need to understand you will not always be IN LOVE with your partner. Sometimes your going to need to work on it and always fall in love again with your partner. I feel people are so quick to divorce when they feel their relationship got cold. A relationship is like a plant, of you don’t water it, show love and gratitude for it then little by little that plant will wilt. And that’s where it gets dangerous. Guys will look for what they don’t have in the street and vice-versa. It’s not easy but you can last forever with your sweetheart. Also, speak to those older people in your life that have been married forever. They are the best advice. Never take advice from that party friend who changes men like they change panties. You can love them but please don’t take relationship advice from them. Great tips Leena 👏🥂✨💗
Love this!!!
Thank you for this!
Amazing. Yes we hate and love our partner. Sometimes I don’t feel like even looking at his face but it does not mean that the moment will stay forever. Feelings will change and we always come back to each other, we stand by one another and we care for each other. plant imagery explains the relationship very well!! Loving your post !
I absolutely agree with you. I also married at 17 and married for 26 years!
Totally agree!! Totally feeling the same in mine♥️😊
These are great tips. I would also include how important it is to grow spiritually with your husband - take a class together, learn from the same teacher, read a book together, do acts of worship together. A shaykh once told us that you want “a partner who will drag you to Jannah (Paradise).” The implication being that Jannah isn’t easy to attain and sometimes we lag and get lazy and resistant, so we need partners who will encourage and motivate us on towards our religious goals. You won’t necessarily grow at the same pace (you’re two different souls after all), but you def want to grow in the same direction. As someone who will have been married 30 years in 2023, insha’Allah, it makes me soooo happy to see someone so young (Leena!) who already has this much wisdom and emotional intelligence 5 years in, masha’Allah. Tawfiq, insha’Allah!
Exactly this is the most important!!
I've been married for nine years and everything you said I agree with 100%! My husband is the same way about needing to be told to do everything, not taking initiative. This was difficult for me to get used to because I felt like I was nagging him, but he doesn't mind AT ALL. And you know, he gets stuff done! So it really is a win for both of us like you said. I just needed to accept that he needed to be reminded and all was well.
I’ve been married over 22 years, the one key thing is to communicate, respect each other, be transparent about finances and make time for each other. Remember, your children will eventually grow up and leave the nest. No marriage is prefect.
I’ll be married for 9 years in April and I can confirm that at least my limited experience all of this is very true and accurate. Especially the not talking bad about your husband. Ladies, I’ve been there and I wish I could take it back. Especially as Muslims we need to keep disagreements and negative things in our relationship private and work it out among ourselves. Respecting our husbands by not airing our dirty laundry is a virtue in Islam. Of course I am not talking about major issues that you may want to consult a sheikh or trusted family member about but for most things this is absolutely true. Also, yes RESPECT isn’t only for Aretha! Men crave respect just like women crave love. This is something that needs to be maintained and again that’s something there is plenty of advice for in Islam.
Loved this! I’ve been married for 3 years and all of this resonates along with my own personal lessons.
1) a man will mirror your emotion
2) “have fun” 😉 even when you don’t want to
3) it’s okay if you make more money than him. He’ll actually be relieved
4) communicate EVERYTHING
It's actually very interesting about comparing your marriage to your parents. My parents had a terrible marriage and got divorced when I was 15 so I always felt that I wasn't able to learn anything from them about marriage. But I realized from talking to a friend who's parents literally have a perfect marriage that she didn't feel she learned from them either because she never got to see compromise action or learn how to fight respectfully etc. So truly, you can't even compare to your own parents' marriage.
I love these little sit down talk makes me feel so comforted love them
I’ll be married for 8 years this coming March, and all these are spot on!!! Seriously can’t go wrong with any of these 👍🏽
Loved all the tips, on my 7th year now and learnt all of this along the way :). All of the points are very relatable and accurate! I think one other really important piece is pushing for your own personal space as a couple. If there's a lot of interference or social distractions from either the wife or husband's side it can become a problem over time, so prioritize your personal space and time as a couple.
I loved this video Leena, I’m just married for 6 months now so this was really helpful! What a lovely surprise, I love these sit down videos too! 💕
Also married for 6 months! 🥰
I’ve been married for 22 years, take number 4 to heart, Trust me!
Maa Shaa ALLAH🥰 Im also married for 10 months now Alhamdulillah.
You have given some of the most wise and mature advice despite being so young! Wish I had heard this advice years ago when I got married, haha! By the way, you are right about repeating the love language quiz time-to-time. Even after 23 years of marriage, we re-assess through the quiz. Our needs and priorities do change over time. ☺️
Fantastic tips for anyone of any age! The respect piece is huge, it shows that you’re a loving and caring friend when you make space for your partner to talk about they care about. I feel like society makes us want to challenge and argue and have strong opinions but sometimes it’s good just to relax and listen and let someone go off about what they’re passionate about. Showing that you care about the person first and foremost will build a strong bond
Married for about 2 years now Alhamdulillah. I agree with all of these tips. The one thing you mentioned about not comparing your marriage to other couples stood out the most for me. The first year of marriage, I struggled so much and went through mental disasters lol. I would always compare my marriage to other couples and felt like I was lacking and my marriage is falling apart. I had to stop comparing in order to move forward in the marriage. Once I focused on us and my husband, I stated seeing that my husband was the best for me and started to grow love towards him.
So true!!! 3 year anniversary coming up and the best advice I got is whenever there is conflict that you both cannot resolve you go to someone you both trust and respect, for me that's a religious leader that we both agreed upon prior to marriage. You go to them so that they can mediate as well as resolve any miscommunication while keeping your matters private
I’m not really at that age yet 😂 but it’s so good to be actually having that type of talk for example girl talk wife talk etc because I guess as a Muslim it’s like keep it all to yourself and is not talked about so much and to see a Muslim creator to be doing these types of things is really nice 😊 Leena and just watching these talks is so nice and interesting ☺️ so thx Leena 💗 btw is the hijab you have a beige color I can’t really tell 😂
Wife tip I would give : communication and no quick assumptions 😂
Love this advice! Such a good refreshing relationship reminder ❤
All of these tips are so relevant ! You’ve explained them so well. I have to add I love seeing you make such videos where you open up to us and are more vulnerable. After watching this I feel I connected to you in a much deeper way. Keep doing what you do.🥰
I needed this video! Especially the 3rd point of advice. Wow thank you!! Always love your content
Amazing. This was wonderful to hear. Anything in this vein you wanna continue to share - being a wife, working with your husband, etc…that you’re learning? Please do!
This was an amazing reminder🥰
I really needed to hear this!!!
Thank you so much Leena.❤️❤️
SO relatable and on point. Leena, you're such a vibe. I've been married for 4 years this coming June. It is definitely a transitional period, for sure. I will say, NO marriage is perfect, and it takes work, give and take, and a lot of patience.
I'm only 20 and nowhere near getting married but 'choose your battles' is something that I live by and amazing advice for absolutely anyone! It has helped me so many times
Just got married last November! So this video was really helpful for my own self reflection! Thank you so much Leena! ♥️♥️♥️
Great tips! 😊I appreciate how you took your time to make these important life advice tips…it’s very valued and I can relate to some of these points you made, it’s a good reminder to talk about to help anyone to take these points into consideration in case it doesn’t come to mind to some people. 🥰☺️
You hit them all, thank you for making this video! Love you and your content! 💕
Everything you said is just so true. Been together 3 years now and we (mainly I) grew so much in terms of communication, spending time apart and so on. I learned that time he sepnds with his buddys don't mean that he doesn't enjoy time with me. He just needs to have time alone, which is completely fine. Also love your tip about the love languages. We're still figuring out what ours are and how we can show each other the love we want to receive.
Thank you for the honesty! It would be great if you could do a “year 1 of marriage” video to highlight, with hindsight, the joys and challenges of that first year
Needed this! Thank you for sharing such valuable advice ❤️ Would love more videos like this 🙏🏼
Married for 3+ years. The "spell it out" is so on point! 😁
You're the absolute sweetest, Leena 🥺❤️ I love how you present your ideas and how thoughtful you are and I love listening to your perspective ❤️❤️
You are wise beyond your years. Bravo Leena this video was impressive and I’ll be sure to share it with all of the people who need it. 💗
I cannot tell enough how helpful this video has been to understand my own relationship! Watching this video was like doing counseling and it felt terrific! I need more
This is the second time I said that for you, but you literally changed my perspective in marriage..
God bless you and you are a "wise wife"..
God bless you my dear 🌸
Been married for 3 years and have been living together for 1. I so needed to hear what you said about men needing space. My father has also been like yours. Always hanging out with family and I expected the same from my husband. We had a number of arguments that could’ve been avoided.
Great reminders and advice! 💙💙💙
Girl I wish I had a husband. Almost 29 and still single. God bless you and Omar, you are beautiful together
Salaam Leena. Thank you for sharing. U have hit the nail on the head. I had a arrange d marriage to my dad's first cousin and I thought he would similar to my dad in traits and personality - he is way different and it took me years to figure out. Now 20 years later going strong and three kids Alhumdulliiah x
I love this! I’ve been married for going on 2 years next month, and a lot of these things, I just recently started picking up on. Especially the one about having to just tell my husband what to do. I keep getting annoyed because I feel like his mom, just like you said. But I guess it’s not just us! Lol. So glad to know this, I’ll definitely be more patient with him.
Love all these tips!
I love this video 🥰 your little advices are very great especially for me as I’m getting married soon and hearing these words are making me think seriously about them 💕
Elena seriously everything you said is on point. I just got married 3 months ago and this video is very helpful. Thanks for the wonderful advice
I’m only 6 minutes in and I had to leave a comment. I LOVE these tips you are sharing and relate to them so much I almost want to start laughing at how similar all the things you’ve mentioned are hitting home haha. Thank you so much for sharing for those that are beginning their journey or needed that reminder💙
It’s funny with the needing space. Between my husband and I; I definitely need space. That was super hard for my husband to learn to accept that when I needed time to myself it wasn’t because I was upset or didn’t love him, but because it’s something I intrinsically need to be mentally healthy.
Great advice! I've also been married 5 years now and i 100% agree with all of your points 👏
Hi I'm a non- muslim and I enjoy watching your channel. Your family, fashion and commentary I think, help viewers like me understand the muslim way of life.
Your family, you, Omar and the baby, are beautiful!! Keep up the great work and I'll keep watching!!!
Thank you🥳❤😊
i wish this was longer. love listening to you!
Sending you positive vibes from Birmingham, United Kingdom. My wife loves watching your content. Keep up the great work Leena and Omar.
Thank you so much, Leena.💞💞 You're really a role model to me and all your talk videos are really helpful and adds a lot.
Queen 👑That's so beneficial & interesting!! Please do more of those videos! Ahh I can't even find words to express how I good this video is! Now I'm gonna re-watch it by😘
Great advice, would love more of these wife videos!
Thanks so much for this. Already did a lot of this by instinct soo this is a great reinforcement. Love your videos. Keep up the good work.
The perfect Monday surprise video, thank you Leena 🥰
Really helpful thanks alot for this leena! ❤️ Your talks like these are so helpful and comforting ✨
Really great advice leena 👏🏻 I agreed with all your points and i truly feel all girls should watch this video and learn from the advice. Can you please do a similar video on the Mom Life, specifically mom guilt 🙈
OMG! I love this! Not married, still in 12th but, amazing advice. You inspire me to be better. Omar is so lucky to have you.
Love you so so much.♥♥
This video is so helpful. Thanks a mill!
Thank you so much for this video Leena. I really needed to hear some of these things. I was never told or knew what is normal to work on in relationships and what are red flags. This video really clearly explained these normal aspects of a long term, long lasting (inshallah) relationship. Thank you for providing examples from your own experiences too. it really helped to put things into perspective
The remote control part though🤣 but seriously #2 is extremely important.
I loveeee how you gave examples Leena
Love this calm sit down videos ❤️
We’re not married yet but I find this very helpful ✨
I love you 💜
Great tips, well done Leena 👍🏻 I would also add that you shouldn't decide or judge anything about your significant other during the first year (unless there's abuse or something really bad). Especially us Muslim's the first year is usually the first years for both parties moving out of their family homes so they're sort of 'off-balance' and not themselves at all. If your spouse seems grumpy or whatever, wait a year and see. I bet he'll be much better.
Yesss can totally relate to having ridiculously blown out arguments over tiny things and then looking back and thinking 🤦🏽♀️🤣🤣
I totally agree with every single piece of advice you gave Leena! I have been married for 7 years alhamdulilah and have learned a lot from this ☺️ first thing I'm going to do is ask my husband to take the love language test! I can't believe we haven't done that yet x
Wow, Leena! This video was so great 💗
I really enjoyed listening to all these amazing tips Leena👏 I think that most of them apply on friendships as well, I find this topic super interesting😊❤
I love how relatable and down to earth you are !
I haven't made it to a year yet in my marriage, but all these things you mentioned were so helpful some things i've been learning a long the way and some new tips thank you Leena 💗
I just love you for always always being genuine with your content and not blindly following trends to get views or to look up to date.
This makes me respect you and actually care to listen to what you have to say. It's not like casually watching a video. it's valuable. Because you know someone actually cares enough to think and prepare for the video to come out valuable and informative.
So thank you ❤️❤️
Literally every single tip was spot on!xx
I truly loved the video. All the tips r right on point
Absolutely true Leena to everything you have said. I'm in my 11th year of marriage with 3 little boys. Alhamdulillah. As time goes by marriage becomes more better and happier from my experience. Love for one another Increases. Yes respect is a huge thing. You should have great respect for one another. Tc lots of love from England UK
lol at the spell it out part. So true. My wife literally has to carry a banner around to let me know why shes pissed or else I'll never get it lmao
love this leena! 💖
Lol you throwing his game controller over the rug is so funny and reminded me of my self 😂😂😂 I guess I’m not the only one.
Thank you that was so informative and inspiring. Of course we want another videos like this one.
Such a good video, sharing your experiences and advice can really help us relate to it and benefit us. First year of marriage is the hardest, but then things get easier and the relationship grows. Will love 💕 to see more of these 😊
I've been married for a year now, this video was definitely a good reminder, thank you!
Amazing, amazing tips! They are all so true!
Love it, needed at this situation, want part 2 please. Thanks😍
Hey leena! First of all thank you for this amazing topic! I would looove to see a favourite product video! Like what do you use for cleaning, bath, shampoo, skincare etc 😍
Something is looking different and more beautiful today Lena. You are glowing more:-) your tips are amazing g, much needed to communicate to other newly wed girls or people who are planning to be married soon! I have come to almost these conclusions as well!
Leena... I must appreciate your wisdom, we already know almost everything what you mentioned but you actually gave words to the thoughts and you explained them very well. Previously you did same kind of video and literally I watched it for many times and stopped nagging around my hubby... Lol 😁
Anyway thanks for being an inspiration for us... Love u❤️
A Monday video! Yay! 😊🥰
Yes! Love this video and always kept these tips on my marriage ❤️
Loved loved loved this video. Everything is on point and in detail 👌
Thank you for sharing. Not married yet but these are things that I apply and will be applying to my relationship.
This was a really great video! Thank you for making it and thank you for the honesty. I look forward to seeing many more ‘advice’ videos like this and how to romanticize your day video. Love to hear more from a mum perspective too and any real life practical advise. Thanks. May Allah bless you
Fantastic video Leena. Thank you
Great video as always Leena 👍🏻
Love so much your videos❤️
You inspire me so much with your talks videos
What a great video loved it!!!
Very Good video! Much needed one. Sharing this video with my family and friends so that everybody watches and learns from it!!! ❤️
Totally agree with you and it was an amazing talk, please try to post videos related to mental health, how to handle life situations and focusing on relationships of any kind it's either friendship, family, love or anything as these are the main topics we don't really talk about anymore in our society for some reason it is thought that mental health or our environment doesn't play a role in our life.❤️❤️❤️
Such valuable realistic advice. Very much needed. I think alot of people have unrealistic expectations in marriage. Its not a romantic fairytale…its about patience, communication, give and take. There are amazing highs in marriage of course which make it all worth it.
Such informative and on point
Thanks leena💟
💯 literally sharing this video with everyone great job Leena 👏❤️
I loved this!!!