Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay: Insecurity 101

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[@evandegenfelder4554]

I am third of four: 1st son, 1st daughter, ME, Baby son. I know the feelings of not being heard--that really REALLY resonates with me.
I wish I could hear your thoughts on enmeshment. My husband and I are--finally--getting to the bottom of the WHY of his betrayal. It is, without question, his enmeshment with his family, primarily his mom--first, but also with his father to a lesser extent. I saw it in the bizarre behaviors when I first met his family. It was 1983 and I knew something was badly wrong, I just didn't have the understanding nor verbiage to name it. He could not 'break away' from them and have an independent life and it caused havoc in our relationship from the very beginning. And by the time we were married 5 years (although I didn't know it) the betrayals began; subtle at first then full blown by 1993. I'm devastated at the loss of all those years and the love and intimacy we never really had.

[@BetrayalTraumaPractitioner]

Yeah, enmeshment is a whole other beast. At some point I will try and create a video :) - Mr. Jay