Grey Hair Transition: Shocking Insight about Going Grey!!

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  • Опубликовано: 6 окт 2024
  • #greyhairmovement #greyhairtransition #2022style #greyhair #grayhairtransition
    Music: Secret Sauce
    Musician: Jeff Kaale

Комментарии • 192

  • @InfinitegardenbyBethK
    @InfinitegardenbyBethK 2 года назад +47

    100% agree about how alive undyed hair is! I resonate with everything you have said here, especially about being released from the “prison”

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  2 года назад +5

      ❤️ Right!?!? Now on the other side it feels like such a strange thing that we honestly feel we needed to do.. twilight zone… I’m glad you relate to the prison.. freedom baby ooo sweet freedom!! 🤗🥰😘🙏🏼❤️🦄

  • @silversun119
    @silversun119 Год назад +7

    Yes! To absolutely everything you said. For those who recoil - you are triggering in them what they cannot confront about their own hair! You look awesome

  • @prettypetty8792
    @prettypetty8792 2 года назад +8

    I am tuning 40...and I absolutely love my grey!! It's like new highlights every month!!!!! ❤️ All of you ladies!

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  2 года назад +2

      🔥❤️👊🏼New highlights..For free!!!! Welcome to the revolution Love! Thank you for watching and sharing a comment!

  • @beckigeiger2773
    @beckigeiger2773 3 месяца назад +1

    I loved this. It's a fun journey so far. I'm about 4 1/2 months in. I love the feeling of my new growth it's so soft.

  • @cattastroficka196
    @cattastroficka196 2 года назад +12

    I’ll be 60 in December. I’m so happy to hit this milestone! I started bleaching my hair to a level 10 to 12 blonde in 8th grade (am naturally a 7). My hair is fine so I could never grow it to even my shoulders because it would break off. I stopped bleaching in 2013. My hair is so full, luscious and long now! It’s halfway down my back! I still use a blow dryer and curling irons and a flat iron too. I love my gray hair. It’s gorgeous and have had people tell me that. I look younger now than with the fake color. My hair color goes with my coloring because it’s natural.
    Your hair is beautiful and it’s going to keep getting even more gorgeous as the dyed areas grow out. It’s very striking.
    I hope some ladies out there listen to us because it really is so freeing.

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  2 года назад +1

      Hello 👋🏼 Thank you so much for watching and sharing! I keep wishing I would have taking a measurement and a few photos of my ponytail when I started so o could show just how much thicker it is now! Thank you again!

  • @Pamela-hr9zi
    @Pamela-hr9zi 7 месяцев назад +3

    My face looks brighter now with my white hair which looks platinum. I never knew. 😅😅 Im 62 years old.

  • @TrinaGallo
    @TrinaGallo 29 дней назад

    Omg I know exactly what you mean by the hair being “alive” when it’s graying, not dyed. I ALMOST made an appointment with my colorist but it was that she was kismet that she was booked and I found THIS video! I love my hair! It’s shiny & healthy & the white hair sparkles.
    Thank you ❤

  • @galadriel511
    @galadriel511 2 года назад +8

    First of all, I would like to say you look sooooooooo beautiful!!! I am almost 70. I have been transitioning to silver for about 2 years- I regret that I didn't attempt to transition years ago. I have for the most part of my life had long hair. I cut my hair several times to remove the dyed sections and in the process went to a medium length. It is now at my shoulders and silver white in some areas and dark steel grey in the back.. It was a great relief to be rid of the dyed sections of hair and was in fact felt like a spiritual cleansing , but unfortunately now I feel naked without my long hair and can hardly wait to grow it back. Thank you for your input. I won't feel bad about having one cigarrette and a shot of tequila every day to celebrate this transition!!!!

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  2 года назад +1

      🔥🗣🔥🌵🧂YES!! I got the salt!! Love this soo much!! Haha Thank you for swinging by the grey hair revolution party and thank you for sharing!!🙏🏼❤️✨

  • @donagateway
    @donagateway 2 года назад +5

    You look beautiful with the gray. It makes your face brighter and youthful, much more than the dark did. I am 4 months in and its so awkward but I am determined to keep going. Thanks for your inspiration!!!!

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  2 года назад +2

      The struggle is real at the 5-6 month mark but after that is when you start feeling and seeing the magic! Thank you for the compliment and for sharing! Hang in there we got this Hair Revolution right where we want it! 🙏🏼✨❤️

    • @godblessed7
      @godblessed7 2 года назад +2

      6 months in and it's getting tough, but I'm not giving in. Hang in there huni, we are going to love the end result xxx

  • @micheles501
    @micheles501 2 года назад +6

    Freedom! Yup, feels so good and liberating! I love how each person has a different pattern and it’s so cool to see all the various possibilities. I love your dark and light combo. Keep going!

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  2 года назад

      Thank you and I totally agree! I love watching all these beautiful woman unfold if you will!! It is simply heaven! Thank for stopping by and sharing that Freedom Spirit! 🙏🏼❤️✨

  • @tigre9271
    @tigre9271 2 года назад +21

    The only person who told me not to go gray was a coworker who is obsessed with anti aging. She's always asking me what skincare I use. And always comes to me to ask about certain skincare she's considering trying because I'm pretty well informed about skincare. I recognize that she's projecting her fear of aging onto me. I'm 2 yrs into my transition, and so far, i have no regrets.

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  2 года назад +3

      ❤️ Love this and totally agree! No regrets sounds good to me!! That anti-aging group can be ferocious..how dare you ruin the illusion that we are human and age…Gracefully as possible is my goal! Thank you for stopping by and sharing! ✨🙏🏼❤️

    • @tigre9271
      @tigre9271 2 года назад +3

      @My So Called Reality You're welcome. She's given up on me already! The defiance, confidence, and determination are their own kind of beauty. A beauty that's Ageless.

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  2 года назад

      @@tigre9271 💯🔥🙌🏼🦄

    • @jenniferpletscher1640
      @jenniferpletscher1640 2 года назад +1

      @@mysocalledreality YES!!! that's exactly how it feels- like waking up from an illusion. I also agree with what you said in this video- that the dyed hair would look flat and dull after a little while, and sometimes in pictures it looked absolutely fake no matter HOW much you spent on it. I'm 3 months in (1.5 inches) and my hair just feels like it's breathing again, like it's alive-- cant wait till it's all done. You made me smile today, THANKS!!!!!!!!!

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  2 года назад

      ✨🤗Yay! Welcome to the Hair Revolution Party! Right?! It cannot be unseen ..once that light switch flipped on it was over ..with dark hair.. I didn’t even understand hair dimension till recently and now I could never afford to pay to get my natural hair pattern. I was just looking at pictures and videos from 2019 and am blown away at how terrible my hair looked.. I was loosing so much.. I only washed and styled when absolutely ‘needed’ for fear of more fallout. You nailed it ..It IS breathing again!.. and wait until you reach the 12 month mark and scalp is totally healed and there is finally no more itching! Only regret is that I didn’t do it sooner! Thank you for watching and sharing that smile and a comment.✨❤️🙏🏼

  • @my_moneypit
    @my_moneypit 2 года назад +2

    I am 66 and transitioning... you are beautiful and your advice has been so encouraging! Thank you darlin!

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  2 года назад

      🤗❤️🙌🏼Welcome to the Grey Hair Revolution! My pleasure! Thank you for swinging by and leaving a comment!

  • @Maximus-gp7td
    @Maximus-gp7td 2 года назад +2

    Thank you. You are so honest and natural. I am 44, also want to go grey but I am affraid of people's opinions.

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  2 года назад +1

      Hello and you are welcome.. I completely relate to that feeling. Especially if you have been coloring for a long time… I will tell you that I have no regrets so far and now ‘people’ want what I’m on.. Freedom Baby! Thank you for watching and sharing!🔥👊🏼❤️

  • @tennilledebysingh5819
    @tennilledebysingh5819 Год назад +7

    I'm 45 & have been dying my roots for over 10 years & getting real tired of it. Like you said, so much energy wasted around the timing of it to get the most out of it. My fear is that it will age me a bit and I even hate that thought, like looking older is a sin or something. I'm still me. And you're right,no one really cares & it's comical when they do!

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  Год назад +1

      Hello! Honestly, do it sooner versus later because if you’re 45 and you let it go gray, you literally are not gonna age for the next 50 years …that’s the thing I think when you wait too long and now your face is all old and then you let the gray hair go out then it’s like a double whammy you really do feel old… I think if you let your hair go first, then you’re kinda growing into it and staying the ‘same’ for a much longer you will not look like you aging.. because your hair was grey 15 years before all your friends.. and they will look and feel much older when/if they do it later… thank you watching and sharing it truly helps other women! ✨❤️🙏🏼

    • @tennilledebysingh5819
      @tennilledebysingh5819 Год назад +2

      @@mysocalledreality well, I changed my mind! I got a pixie and it does look great on me! Letting it go naturally grey & I have gotten more compliments about my hair since than I have in the last 10 years..

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  Год назад

      @@tennilledebysingh5819 yay!!! 🔥❤️🔥🙌🏼

  • @suebennett9347
    @suebennett9347 Год назад +3

    I have been free from coloring for close to fourteen years...now at 70 I still have my natural brown but my gray has been also natural looking almost like it's streaked purposely. I have more grey underneath than on top but I have embraced it and actually love my hair which I have been growing longer since 2020. Seventy or not I am not intimidated by my longer hair or my gray....I have been blessed and grateful for what I have🙏

  • @therachellhall
    @therachellhall 2 года назад +1

    You are cracking me up ... I a very real and organic and authentic way!

  • @immahulagirl
    @immahulagirl 2 года назад +1

    You are so right! Since going grey I have been trying to articulate this feeling of freedom or release that has somehow restored a wee bit of youthful joie du vivre. It's crazy and I'm loving it. Thank you and be well.

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  2 года назад +1

      💃🏻✨🔥Right! And we shall take as much of that as we can get! It IS a little crazy but I’m loving it too! Thank you for sharing that feeling with us! Be well Love ❤️🙏🏼✨

  • @godblessed7
    @godblessed7 2 года назад +4

    Wonderfully worded, let's do this silver sisters, we've got this, by the way you look amazing! Stay safe huni xx

  • @lighthunter1418
    @lighthunter1418 26 дней назад

    I get you,
    Great post, really great post

  • @irishflutegirl9022
    @irishflutegirl9022 Год назад +1

    You look so pretty 😊❤

  • @broomhilda23
    @broomhilda23 2 года назад +1

    omg!! your hair is freakin beautiful. i wish i could look that good. I love love love it.

  • @TD_427
    @TD_427 Год назад

    Your hair is beautiful and you look fantastic.
    I stopped dying my hair 10 years ago and love my silver hair.

  • @BiornBear
    @BiornBear 2 года назад +2

    I’m looking but it’s because your incredibly beautiful lol. Keep it going.

  • @CheriAlli
    @CheriAlli 2 года назад

    Omg! Sooo true! But now the right good haircut is a real stressor for me!!

  • @sinceresong9907
    @sinceresong9907 2 года назад +3

    I spent my early years trying to straighten out my coils. Later in life totally embraced my natural hair . Now Im going grey and been dying it ever 2 months, it's exhausting. I'm like to myself how long am I going to be escaping my natural state in some way. I agree with you 💯 about the damage dye does. I'm ready to surrender to it all! Let live, let life.

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  2 года назад +1

      Surrender.. Accept… and Evolve into a butterfly Love..There are so many other beautiful things we can spend that time on that will revitalize us rather than exhaust us right!?!..Welcome to our little hair revolution party..thank you for watching and for sharing.. Yes..Let Live, Let Life ✨❤️🙏🏼

  • @ThereIsSoulInArt
    @ThereIsSoulInArt 2 года назад +3

    Your hair is beautiful! I'm going to my hair stylist today & starting my transition. I've been coloring my hair for 40 years! I'm so excited but also a bit anxious. :D

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  2 года назад +1

      Yay! I love Hair Salon Day! I can completely relate to that little salty sweet moment.. Have fun enjoy the ride..the freedom and most importantly welcome to the Hair Revolution! Thank you for the watching and sharing your love a support ..🙏🏼❤️✨

    • @mitchhills4747
      @mitchhills4747 2 года назад +1

      How are you going to transition? It's a long haul if you let it go naturally - good luck!

    • @ThereIsSoulInArt
      @ThereIsSoulInArt 2 года назад

      @@mitchhills4747 I'm still not absolutely sure if I'm going to go naturally or have my hairdresser dye my hair a gray shade closest to the color of my roots & grow it from there. She put a gray toner on my hair & added some highlights, although I can't really see the highlights. I'm not sure I'm really impressed with the toner. I think it's just because I've dyed my hair for so many years a blonde shade. I do trust my hairdresser & she told me to not go & dye it. :D (She knows me. Lol)

  • @drrd4127
    @drrd4127 2 года назад +2

    I work in aged care and I help them was their hair, their hair is beautiful, lot of them have this pure white hair and it is thick, soft and shiny unlike my hair now at 32. Yeah, it is great! should totally embrace it!.

  • @jayjohnson9156
    @jayjohnson9156 2 года назад +1

    Your gray hair looks good!! 👍👍

  • @juliad2813
    @juliad2813 Год назад

    I want to. I want to. And I will at some point. Thanks for sharing. Just found you as I start to decide my plan. Hoping in the next 6 month. 🤞🏼

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  Год назад

      🔥❤️🙏🏼 You can do it! You are in the right spot! Just keep watching all the grey hair video channels you can (there are so many great ones!)…make it the norm and you will get there… and honestly it took me three times of trying before I actually did the jump …it so no beating yourself up if it takes a few tries!! The freedom on the other side is amazing! Welcome to our little grey hair revolution party! Thank you for watching and leaving a comment it really does help other women! ✨❤️🙏🏼

  • @amylolois
    @amylolois 2 года назад +4

    I'm sitting here drinking my morning coffee in another country and I just so happen to be transitioning to grey hair and your video made me laugh and smile and I want to thank you for that! I too want to become like 104 or even dare I say 110. I had a great aunt that lived until 108, so I think it is possible. She never married though, lol. I am like not even a full year in to the transition and so much of what you said has resonated with me, especially the part about being freed from jail lol. For so long I was prisoner of this damn dyeing and I never imagined how free I would feel. The roots were like a reminder of how I was trying to hold on to this image of a younger self. I am free of that younger self finally and like you said nobody cares. It is so liberating. The ones that do, like you said can be edited out or evaluated and keep a polite but safe distance. I just realised soon I will need to change my avatar to a salt and pepper gal. Thank you for making me smile and I do not know how the algorithm works but I am happy they decided to present me with your video this am. Best Wishes! A.M.

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  2 года назад +2

      👋🏼✨🤩 Hello! And thank you for proving my point!! 108 and not married! Haha. Awe but that Freedom is so sweet it’s hard to understand why we do some of the things we do. Especially when I could actually feel and see the damage it was doing .. it was making me feel and look older. Thank you so much for watching and sharing your thoughts! ✨🙏🏼❤️

    • @tennilledebysingh5819
      @tennilledebysingh5819 Год назад

      Good point about holding onto your younger self ! I feel that, yet I'm so happy to be getting older, I love it! I'm 45 & love my age, but still working through this grey thing!

    • @olamcd3269
      @olamcd3269 Год назад

      isn't it GREAT not to think about dyeing your hair?? Free, free at last! Congrats!

  • @theresa8893
    @theresa8893 2 года назад

    Appreciated this video🥰. It’s so true, NOBODY cares, and if they do, it DOESN’T MATTER.

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  2 года назад

      🔥🗣🔥Speak that truth!! I appreciate you watching and leaving a comment! Happy Friday and hope you have a great weekend!✨❤️🙏🏼

  • @ConnyGermangirl
    @ConnyGermangirl Год назад

    You look so beautiful. I'm really excited about my hair growing out the blond hair color and embracing my grey. ❤❤

  • @lightnessofbeing1884
    @lightnessofbeing1884 Год назад

    Love this! Beautiful hair, beautiful person, beautiful soul! ✨💖✨

  • @yosoykarito
    @yosoykarito 2 года назад +3

    I really enjoy your talking. Your hair looks so cool and it matches well with your attitude. I'm leaving my thumbs up!

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  2 года назад

      Ha! Well the force IS rather strong in the rambling and attitude department, therefore that alignment sounds about right! Always a pleasure seeing those thumbs up so I thank you again for the support and for stopping by! 🙏🏼✨❤️

  • @gillmiller5193
    @gillmiller5193 2 года назад

    Great points made - you look great and very ‘alive and free’. Thanks for sharing.

  • @Tigers_Eye_Lady
    @Tigers_Eye_Lady Год назад

    Avatar was about us connecting to source through our hair, that’s a good reason to be natural. Your hair is super in all it’s colours 😊🤗🥰

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  Год назад +1

      ✨❤️🙏🏼 Your name is great.. feels like Golden Girls .. thank you for stopping by

  • @Ishbilli
    @Ishbilli 2 года назад +1

    You look great...good decision!!😀

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  2 года назад +1

      Thank you and Welcome to the Hair Party!🤗🫒🍸

  • @trinhjones8700
    @trinhjones8700 Год назад

    You are beautiful and you are 100% correct.

  • @huttayamaple5251
    @huttayamaple5251 Год назад

    Your hair looked stunning and fitted you very well

  • @6431mastermind
    @6431mastermind 2 года назад

    Your hair is stunning - the contrast.

  • @lisawheeler4143
    @lisawheeler4143 Год назад

    You’re awesome 🎉thank you 🙂👍✨

  • @okamicookie
    @okamicookie Год назад +1

    I've received such terrible comments including people implying that I wasn't worth being loved - shocked that my then boyfriend (now husband) started dating me, and that he would dare propose! All because I was a young person with grey hair. I keep my distance now from those people as clearly, they're not truly happy for me!

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  Год назад +3

      ❤️ I love this so much…. Real always works…it truly is a fast filtering system because if my authentic hair is already bothering you ..odds are we aren’t going to align on many things… and at this point in life time is our most precious resource …spend it on the people and things that bring love and make you smile..thank you for being Love.. have an awesome day.. ✨❤️🙏🏼

  • @newday7504
    @newday7504 2 года назад

    I need freedom 🤗. Your hair looks amazing

  • @lisabroman3333
    @lisabroman3333 2 года назад +1

    I just watched a video of you from a year ago, you look soooooo much better with the grey hair!

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  2 года назад

      🙌🏼Thank you! I’m entitled to agree! I FEEL soooooo much better as well! Thank you for watching, stopping by and commenting! 🙏🏼✨❤️

  • @CatVio16
    @CatVio16 Год назад

    Funny but truth !! I totally agree with you... on my second month not colouring my hair

  • @selahjourney4460
    @selahjourney4460 10 месяцев назад +1

    I can't wait to feel the freedom of not having to color my hair. I realized as long as I'm coloring my hair, I'm not living my authentic life. I'm hiding my natural color.
    I'm almost 3 months into my grey hair journey.

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  10 месяцев назад

      Yay! Welcome to the Grey Hair Revolution Love! 🔥❤️💪🏻 you got this! Thank you for stopping by and sharing!

  • @margaretImhappy
    @margaretImhappy 2 года назад

    I love hearing others striving to live to over 100!! I always say my goal is 99, but my kids say I’ll be over 100 because I live a healthy lifestyle 🙌🏽

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  Год назад +1

      🙌🏼 cheers to healthy lifestyles and old lady goals!! Golden girls all the way! ✨🙏🏼❤️

  • @tamiweinert1007
    @tamiweinert1007 2 года назад

    Also transitioning to gray. You look beautiful!

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  2 года назад

      Yay! Happy Friday and welcome to our little grey hair revolution party! Thank you for being ✨🙏🏼❤️

  • @TheAmilcar111
    @TheAmilcar111 2 года назад

    Grey hair is so beautiful!!!

  • @jodimo
    @jodimo Год назад +1

    God's word says. Grayheadedness is a crown of beauty and wisdom

  • @kellypollet7130
    @kellypollet7130 Год назад

    You made me laugh this morning…no one really cares😄😁😄😁….so true👍 Love your attitude, keep it real❤️

  • @kellyburke7192
    @kellyburke7192 2 года назад +1

    Beautiful!

  • @Pamela-hr9zi
    @Pamela-hr9zi 7 месяцев назад

    You are so correct.

  • @mimiandthemuse
    @mimiandthemuse 2 года назад

    Love your hair. I transitioned to silver a couple of years ago and now have a long Bob with my natural highlights and love it. I died my hair for about 20 years but always knew one day I would flaunt my silver as did my mother and my aunts when I was a girl.

  • @festusdreamer333
    @festusdreamer333 2 года назад

    Thank you..really, THANK YOU ❣️❣️

  • @jm...b-greyt
    @jm...b-greyt 2 года назад +3

    New here! And, yes!! No one cares!😂 I don't know why we are so caught up in hair color. Loved your choice of words, dyeing my hair constantly was a prison sentences. Freedom feels good on my head! 😉

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  2 года назад +2

      Hello and Welcome to the Hair Revolution Party! Freedom ooo sweet freedom!! Hahah right it does feel like a strange obligation that came out of nowhere! And I was just saying last night how good my scalp feels.. no more itching… it is like the wound has finally healed and my hair is completely reflecting that with healthy new growth sticking out everywhere… it took me 18 months to get here … but after 20 years I’m so thankful I can see and feel the difference!! Thank you so much for stopping by and sharing a comment! Have an awesome day!! ✨🙏🏼❤️

    • @jm...b-greyt
      @jm...b-greyt 2 года назад

      @@mysocalledreality 💐

  • @DelbertaW
    @DelbertaW 2 года назад

    I love this video! Thank you for sharing.

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  2 года назад

      I’m so happy you found our little Hair Revolution Party! 🍸🫒✨ Thank you for popping by Love!

  • @Sonee777
    @Sonee777 2 года назад

    I am embracing my greys finally and I’m soon to be 51yrs but I decided to not wait for color to grow out I’m gonna go get one last color put in and it’s the silver grey color so when it grows out it’s all greyed out. I’m excited 😊

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  2 года назад +1

      Yay! I am excited for you! Welcome to the Grey Hair Revolution! Thank you for watching and sharing a comment. Have a great rest of your weekend! ✨❤️🙏🏼

    • @Sonee777
      @Sonee777 2 года назад

      @@mysocalledreality ty and you too happy Mother’s Day to you

  • @lizbethdane
    @lizbethdane 2 года назад

    "Auditing," love it :)

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  2 года назад

      Haha! Gotta do it sometimes if you wanna grow real!! Have an awesome day!✨🙏🏼❤️

  • @humadaud3575
    @humadaud3575 2 года назад

    Your hair is gorgeous! I am still sitting on the fence trying to decide to stop dying my hair .......

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  2 года назад +1

      Thank you and you just sit there as long as you want! Don’t even try if you aren’t ready! Thank you for watching and sharing your thoughts. You are definitely not alone! Thank you for being Love.✨❤️🙏🏼

  • @lr1732
    @lr1732 2 года назад +1

    I can totally relate. I used to use henna and I came to hate doing it. It was just one more thing I had to do. It takes time and it is messy. I feel so free. And I actually LOVE it. Funny on the 104. My grandmother lived to 104. She just passed in December.

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  2 года назад

      😃❤️🙏🏼That’s awesome! That’s my goal 104! And you nailed the word FREE…and how oh so sweet it feels… thank you for watching and sharing. Have an awesome week Love..RIP your grandma ✨❤️🙏🏼

    • @ruthier2699
      @ruthier2699 Год назад

      Cool! did you henna fade, making it easier to transition?

    • @lr1732
      @lr1732 Год назад +1

      @@ruthier2699 I hardly ever wash my hair (I would only wash it before putting the henna on so it would grab to my hair) so it took longer than most to fade out; but yes, eventually it did. And thank goodness my grey is coming in more like highlights so that is a good thing.🙂

  • @JenniferStormyWeather
    @JenniferStormyWeather Год назад

    Love this! Thank you

  • @Starlight41717
    @Starlight41717 6 месяцев назад

    Our hair is an antenna so makes sense when u say being grey it feels alive ,when we die our hair , we are destroying our hair very interesting ,i am a whoo whoo lol as a spiitual person makes so much sense to me . Any how at 53 i am just starting my transition journey with dark dyed brown hair and carmel honey highlites .I regret not starting last year when i first thgt of doing so ,hey ho now is the time a inch n abit of roots on display with very white silver and like u say my actually dark brown hair ( not black lol ) lifetime of saying that also lol . I am going cold turkey at mo may get some babylites of silver added at some point but maybe not ,each day as it comes i am loving the new total accepatance of all of me ✨ to why i believe the time is right when it is right ✨

  • @Pamela-hr9zi
    @Pamela-hr9zi 7 месяцев назад

    I love your hair too. You sound just like me.

  • @leonmcpherson330
    @leonmcpherson330 2 года назад

    Loved this ❤

  • @narcismebelgie
    @narcismebelgie 2 года назад +1

    Yes yes yes!

  • @lucythemanxcat4898
    @lucythemanxcat4898 2 года назад

    Your hair looks so darned good 😊!!!

  • @1960genius
    @1960genius 2 года назад

    Absolutely agree with all of this!! Thank you #goinggrey #nomoreprison

  • @chaya8122
    @chaya8122 Год назад

    I feel exactly the same!!!

  • @SarahLouiseBacchus
    @SarahLouiseBacchus 11 месяцев назад

    I’m a few months in and I can’t lie. I hate my hair. But I hate the dyed hair not the new regrowth. Looks stupid a bit but omg the new hair is beautiful!

  • @KPJPflorida
    @KPJPflorida 2 года назад

    Hey what you said is where I’m at, trying to time hair dyes, such a pain, I think your hair looks amazing and is the length of my hair and I think I’m gonna go for it, and wear hats maybe until it’s at a length I’m happy with to show it off, or maybe I’ll get to where you are and loving it 😊

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  2 года назад

      🔥👊🏼If you feel ready..Do it! The first 6 months is tough and a hat will work just perfectly.The struggle is real until you get to the point where it looks obvious that you are growing it out..the freedom on the other side is beautiful.. the water is awesome 😊😉♥️ .. thank you for the compliment and for stopping by and sharing your thoughts! ✨❤️🙏🏼

  • @olamcd3269
    @olamcd3269 Год назад

    on my way to grey...ppl say I'm letting myself gooooo lol

    • @olamcd3269
      @olamcd3269 Год назад

      I got full highlights put in my brown dyed hair...now, no demarcation line. I cut it to my chin, too. Grey hair is blended in the blond. Everyone was like WOW! Gotten tons of compliments. Women at work who are SCARED to let go of that ugly dark hair are now my biggest fans. I'm so excited about my new freedom..no more dye. All I focus on is good shampoos for toning.

  • @feridaguzan7124
    @feridaguzan7124 2 года назад

    U look beautiful

  • @pattibrown2939
    @pattibrown2939 2 года назад +1

    I just want to be me before I leave this world. True to me.

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  2 года назад

      So true! I’m feeling this in every part of my soul! Thank you for being Love 🙏🏼✨❤️

  • @louiselavoie2773
    @louiselavoie2773 2 года назад

    true freedom

  • @saffysaffy3239
    @saffysaffy3239 2 года назад +3

    I wish I could feel like you do. I decided to let my hair go grey and I hate it. Its so thin & fine and lost its curl. Its basicially white. Anyone I see tells me how much old I look. Im very pale & sallow. Also my eyebrows went white too! Its awful. Id dye it in a second but Im a long termer of Covid Still sick and now disabled. Sorry for the long self pity story. Felt I needed to vent but u look great

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  2 года назад +2

      Well, it is a bit like a box of chocolates in regards to the hair color patterns that reveal themselves and so I definitely understand your frustration. I didn’t really get a good idea of what was underneath for many months which can feel so long! You can always add in some pops of lowlights to give it dimension and fun..without having to color your whole head. but for you dear Love it is whatever makes you feel comfortable and feel good in your body… and if that is coloring it the second you are able then I say DO IT! One thing at a time and maybe just making sure we get that body back online is a better focus at the moment.. the hair can be next time around! I am sending love that you do feel better soon. I appreciate you watching and for leaving a comment! We all need a place to vent sometimes… thank you for being ✨❤️🙏🏼

    • @saffysaffy3239
      @saffysaffy3239 2 года назад

      @@mysocalledreality ❤Thnks u Ur very sweet

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  2 года назад

      @@saffysaffy3239 🙏🏼

    • @RachelGray33
      @RachelGray33 2 года назад +2

      Hello Saffy Saffy - I just read your comment and just wanted to send you some love!!! It sounds like you are going through a very challenging time. May the Lord bless you with healing mercies and comfort you as this time. God bless, Love Rachel (Radom comment reader)

    • @saffysaffy3239
      @saffysaffy3239 2 года назад

      @@RachelGray33 Thank you so much Rachel ❤

  • @hotmedic81401
    @hotmedic81401 2 года назад

    I came across your video while searching for how to transition to gray. I recently (3 months ago )decided to stop dying my hair. I’m 50 years young and I felt it was time for me to do it.
    I did feel a bit scared until I watched your video. I have very long hair pass my waist and I refuse to cut it for personal reasons. I do trim it though. I saw how beautiful your hair looks and it gave me the courage I needed. Thank you so much 😊

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  2 года назад +1

      🔥🤗🙏🏼Yay! Welcome to the Hair Revolution!! I know right!?! You totally can keep your hair and just enjoy the process. The hardest part is the beginning but once you get past the point of looking like ‘I just haven’t got to the salon’ to ‘I’m doing this’ you’re good! I have no regrets and even wish I would have done it a couple years ago so my hair would be done! Ha! It truly gets healthier and fuller everyday. Thank you so much for swinging by this little hair revolution party and sharing your inspiration!! 🙏🏼✨❤️

    • @hotmedic81401
      @hotmedic81401 2 года назад

      @@mysocalledreality I have a question. When should I start using a purple shampoo and which one do you recommend. I so excited to go through this process ☺️

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  2 года назад

      @@hotmedic81401✨ I use the Kerastase purple shampoo and I mix it in with my shampoo. I also did highlights in the front to start and would use it to manage them when they looked brassy. Overall all I have only bought one bottle a year ago and still have most of it.. it might be a little different this summer with the sun and having more grey on top and it might yellow a little more which I will use the purple more.. but we will see.. Beth at Infinite Garden just did an awesome video on purple shampoos on her channel.. if you want a great breakdown check her out!.. less is more at the beginning .. I would focus on a healthy scalp…with some apple cider vinegar soaks.. I have a video on that I think it’s called something like ‘Going grey now what #starthere’ super happy for you and sending you so much love love love..✨❤️🙏🏼

    • @hotmedic81401
      @hotmedic81401 2 года назад

      @@mysocalledreality You are awesome!!!! Thank You so so much ❤️

  • @PT-tw6kg
    @PT-tw6kg 2 года назад

    Just started letting my grey hair grow out have very long and thick, wavy hair. Already people are asking me why???? Lol

  • @sinceresong9907
    @sinceresong9907 2 года назад

    Your stunning

  • @realmaureenoyakhilome
    @realmaureenoyakhilome Год назад

    There’s a youtuber, Ingrid from Toronto , she’s your voice and speech (she talks the same way) doppelgänger. It’s unbelievable. 😅

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  Год назад

      Whoa.. I just looked her up.. watching her stuff now… wow.. I can see how you thought that… life is wild! Thank you for sharing! ✨❤️🙏🏼

  • @alexalord1874
    @alexalord1874 2 года назад

    I call my grey hair, happy hair. Lol. I am 3 months into this transition, and it is hard as hell. It’s having the 2 tone hair that is hard.

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  2 года назад +2

      ❤️🤗👋🏼Welcome to the Grey Hair Revolution Love!! Yep, mine is a cornucopia of multicolor flare 😃! The struggle is real until you get to the point where it definitely looks intentional …and not a few missed appointments to the hair salon! Hang in there …the freedom is so sweet…Think about that money and time you can use on something else that makes you feel good..thank you for watching and sharing a comment.. you are not alone! Thank you for being ✨❤️🙏🏼

  • @Purplenpinkk
    @Purplenpinkk 2 года назад

    Word!

  • @beckyobeck
    @beckyobeck 2 года назад

    I stopped putting bleach on my head. I have more pepper than salt but I loooove your hair. Did you hear that grey hair is actually clear? You might have told me that. Lol. I love your long gray hair and I'm excited to grow into it

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  2 года назад

      Ha! I don’t think that was me but I do remember reading that recently. I was a little hesitant about the long hair but that is really the only style I like on my body type.. and I actually got a few ‘goal’ pictures of long grey hair models that I keep to keep me motivated. It is your reality and no one really cares like you might assume. However they will see the blowup from your relief and it will be magnificently magnetic! I hope you join the Grey Hair Revolution … sending love.. thank you for the support and for stopping by ✨❤️🙏🏼

  • @barblalonde3824
    @barblalonde3824 2 года назад

    Agree 100%

  • @jessiesvids10
    @jessiesvids10 2 года назад

    I had one in my inner circle that doesn’t speak to me anymore because I let my hair natural.😒

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  2 года назад +1

      When the Inner Circle sign turns into the Do Not Enter sign! Those are the sacrifices of going natural and growing real. It was always there it was just revealed and accepted this time. And everyone is probably better off in the long run. That would probably be one of the biggest pieces of advice I would give my younger self… is to not be afraid to audit your circle of ‘friends’ and surround yourself with people who have their own shit going on and still know how to support you in a real way. Thank you for watching and sharing your experience. ✨❤️🙏🏼

  • @Notaavailable007
    @Notaavailable007 2 года назад

    Love your hair!! How often did you cut it? I just started 3 months ago and I want to keep my long hair.

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  2 года назад +1

      Hello 👋🏼 and Welcome to the Hair Revolution Party! I do a trim every 8-10 weeks.. but my hair grows super fast.. which was a total pain when I was dyeing it all the time and now it is a blessing! Thank you for swing bye and commenting!! Have a great weekend!🙏🏼❤️✨

  • @carmaela2689
    @carmaela2689 Год назад

    I'm 39. Only grey around my temples and a streak in the front and I'm letting it grow out. I just want to love on my natural hair....keep it trimmed at the ends, conditioned, let it whip in the wind like a mermaid while riding dolphins with my tits out. Whatever! I live me more than I ever did in my younger years. I'm not living for other people. I'm living for me.

  • @faceless5621
    @faceless5621 2 года назад

    Proverbs 16:31
    Gray hair is a crown of glory; it is gained in a righteous life

  • @newday7504
    @newday7504 2 года назад

    I need freedom 🤗

  • @JeSsiGTV
    @JeSsiGTV Год назад

    Your beautiful and your hai is beautiful too

  • @lifeisbeautiful881
    @lifeisbeautiful881 2 года назад +3

    So so so true nobody cares .FREEDOM 😜😜😜

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  2 года назад

      Yes! SWEET SWEET FREEDOM! Always a pleasure..🔥🔥😎🙏🏼

  • @jodimo
    @jodimo Год назад

    Dying you hair is just that, dieing. Killing. Destroying.

  • @patricialipscomb7513
    @patricialipscomb7513 2 года назад

    I love my gray hair. Dying your hair damages your hair follicles so i decided 4yrs ago to stop dying it. my family loves my gray hair. I am never dying it again.

  • @lovewillwinnn
    @lovewillwinnn 2 года назад

    LOL. 104. How about FOREVER. And growing young and vibrant along the way? It’s a promise and a prophecy!
    Job 33: 25-the old will return to youth
    Psalm 37: 29-people will live forever
    Isaiah 33: 24.-no more sickness
    Rev. 21: 4 -no more death
    Well, until then (soon!) I’m netherworld same gray boat with you! 👩🏻‍🦳👩🏻‍🦳🌷

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  2 года назад

      🌹Well then Love.. forever works too!.. as long as we get to pick our forever age!?!? Thank you for watching and sharing. ✨🙏🏼❤️

  • @messofaminimalist1077
    @messofaminimalist1077 2 года назад

    No one cares if youre ugly ether… but I care for myself how I Look. Thats what i think - the reason Not to do it until now

  • @paulicarr7158
    @paulicarr7158 2 года назад

    I get how not dyeing your hair gives you more freedom, and you do look beautiful because you are already beautiful, but most women that I have seen that go grey, do look older. Sorry

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  2 года назад +3

      Ha! What you watching grey hair channels for then?!? Are you trying to talk yourself off the high dive Love. I think a lot of woman wait too long to go grey because women have been conditioned to think that our youth is the only thing that matters…(tbh I don’t mind hiding a little in that notion .. it’s quiet when people underestimate you) but with a eminent recession on the horizon I think you are going to see a big change the grey hair landscape…we be moving past that Golden Girls style!! …thank you for watching and sharing your honesty..✨❤️🙏🏼

    • @Purplenpinkk
      @Purplenpinkk 2 года назад

      @@mysocalledreality This response was just too good.

  • @lisawells-baker3208
    @lisawells-baker3208 Год назад

    No one cares dead right, I've never had a compliment or critical
    Comment so all good, I'm 53 and 4 years in...

    • @mysocalledreality
      @mysocalledreality  Год назад +1

      But you have gotten some sweet sweet freedom! Thank you for stopping by and sharing!✨❤️🙏🏼

  • @johnnydhollywood1587
    @johnnydhollywood1587 5 месяцев назад

    your so beautiful

  • @newday7504
    @newday7504 2 года назад

    I need freedom 🤗. Your hair looks amazing

  • @gaylenballard4322
    @gaylenballard4322 Год назад

    Beautiful!!