Asking For What You Need Without Making Threats - Jayson Gaddis Smart Couple 133

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  • Опубликовано: 20 окт 2024

Комментарии • 16

  • @helloiamthechosenone
    @helloiamthechosenone 2 года назад +2

    Everyone has needs! So simple!

  • @Pinkenstein
    @Pinkenstein 6 лет назад +5

    Gosh, I'm so glad I found this channel when I did. These videos are exactly what I need right now. Thank you so much for doing what you do.

  • @ratherboutside2
    @ratherboutside2 2 года назад +2

    Wish I knew this before I got married and had children

  • @angelaped
    @angelaped 5 лет назад +1

    You make this so simple. THANK YOU!

  • @jmitch9251
    @jmitch9251 7 лет назад +2

    Hi Jayson, thanks for this advice. I'm definitely going to do the action steps you've suggested.

  • @siberian054kid
    @siberian054kid 7 лет назад +2

    Thank you!

  • @juliesparks1322
    @juliesparks1322 2 года назад +1

    So helpful!

  • @jeanellgarner5288
    @jeanellgarner5288 7 лет назад +1

    I have asked for my needs to be met,I have been so overwhelmed by my guy who is not trying at all,he's been dealing with ED , and low testosterone levels and a flattened pituitary gland and it's been hell for me for two years now. I'm going crazy with everything that has been happening.

    • @JaysonGaddis
      @JaysonGaddis  7 лет назад +4

      move on if he can't meet you

    • @iwishyouknew3413
      @iwishyouknew3413 7 лет назад

      Jeanell Garner don't you think that's you should be supportive about him going to see a endocrinologist and getting an opinion or second opinion or third because if he's low on testosterone then he's obviously depressed and cognitively impaired as well as low on energy and probably full of anxiety with the pressures of Life on top of a relationship. I'm just speaking from experience and I would not judge my partner for something that is medically challenging him. Not only does stress deplete the testosterone but hormones and general seem to be out of balance when you're talking about the pituitary and other issues. Maybe try asking if he needs you to do something differently B.C. obviously he is not receiving nor do you feel that you're needs are being met. I'm surprised that Jason Maids not comment about he's not meeting your needs to move on because he's talking about what I'm talking about right now and there's more to the story I'm sure. I think Jason got us is hot and I followed him since podcast number one and I know he knows what he's talking about so I hope that you don't give up bc it's a very big and fearful issue for guys when they are not able to function and lack motivation due to the lack of testosterone, sex and stress has to be there ON TOP. He probably is feeling less of a man and if you are being the masculine in the relationship is not allowing him to step up to be the man so back off and be there for him as a woman as Lightning the load in the air and energy and see if he comes around. I'm speaking from experience and it works trust me he needs support and encouragement and to be respected not to be attacked or criticized for not meeting your needs. Focus on meeting your own needs for a while and building your self-worth so that he sees that you're happy and that will change the energy with him to want to make some changes. Ask for what you need or want specifically with action steps and If ask him how you can make his life easier without being a doormat .

  • @NaomiTans
    @NaomiTans 7 лет назад +2

    One has to have communication, one has have to have a relationship, then you can talk so you can ask for what you need :-)

  • @meikerieger2899
    @meikerieger2899 7 лет назад

    Damn! American men are so cute. Are you into german women by any chance?