I have a Texas long distance relationship too Huntsville-Tyler. We differ in that I’m content with every other weekends and occasionally weekly. I do like waking up on the weekends and coffeee and date nights but I also enjoy my freedom during the week, my time to spend with friends as well as designated times for intimacy. He doesn’t have to wonder if I’m in the mood, the mood and expectation are preset and I like it that way.
Heather darling! Listen to your intuition, that little voice will never steer you wrong. I have experienced long distance relationships and in my personal/humble opinion they do not work, unless one of you is willing to move to be together. And lastly, have you prayed about it? Wishing you the best and I know God will bless you with the right partner for you darling! 💋❤🙏
ty for the dating updates! i love them. imo, your gut was right. long distance just doesn't work unless someone decides to move to the other and it's temporary. that is what my girl adrienne everhert says and i agree. meeting once every other week isn't enough for you (it wouldnt be for me or any other women i know either). your guy is still out there. i think he came into your life to show you how amazing a new love can feel. you're getting closer to your match dear
Love the long dresses, especially the light blue. They are so feminine! I can't speak to the long distance element of a relationship because I've never been there but if a deal breaker is already in play and a break up has already occurred because of that, then it might be time to move on before it becomes a pattern. Like you were saying, make room for what you know you want. "Settling" always catches up with people later on. Of course if this ISN'T a case of settling and you aren't keeping each other from pursuing what truly makes you both happy, then you're both very blessed to be together as is now. Either way, I pray for your happiness and wish you the best.
Heather I’ve recently experienced a long distance relationship in spite of my initial reluctance to it due to his insistence of the fact that we could find a way to make it work. Fast forward a year and HE broke it off bc HE wanted someone closer! I know now that unless one of you are willing to move your whole life to be with the other it just doesn’t work. I know you’re going to make the right choice here bc you’re listening to your higher self and heeding your own guidance which is exactly what I didn’t do. Good luck and many blessings to you 🙏❤️
Heather I like how this man continues to make you feel safe and comfortable. That's huge. I would give it some time and see. If you're still on the fence then I would go with your gut. Prayers always help- The Lord is in charge and he will direct you if you listen XXOO
Another great video Heather. I recently brought a pair of flat lace up sandals, and the lace ups keep falling down. Any suggestions for keeping the style laced up whether the shoes are flat or heeled. Thanks, my style has improved since finding your channel ❤
Heather I watched your video yesterday and pondered what I wanted to tell you about your Austin man. If he is the right one (which you can determine over the next few months) don't give up on love. YOu can do your job in Austin and let's face it- Austin and Dallas aren't too far away. You could also meet halfway in Fredericksberg or Waco or it's a simple 40 min sw flight! Your friends will stay your friends; but love is no guarantee. He really seems to care for you and your feelings. Plus- you'd always have Matthew if it didn't work out lmao!
Heather…Add the Marc Fisher Cairo Platform Sandal to your most comfortable shoe list. I purchased mine at Nordstrom. These shoes are stylish and beyond comfortable.
I think that you already know the answer deep down. When u waste your time with the wrong person, it will block the right one from coming along. I wish u the very best.
Hey there Heather. You know if you really missed him and regretted trying to separate from him, then that could be a sign that you are getting feelings for him. Distance doesn't have to hinder you. A 2.5 hour drive to see him is nothing to us folks up in Michigan. You can work the distance thing out if you really are right for each other. Give yourself a little more time to get to know him.
Hi Heather, I think if it is meant to be it will work out whether it’s long distance or not., but if him being in another city is a deal breaker then maybe you should end it so you can find the right guy. 🌷🌷
Heather, I have been married for twenty years. My husband works in Munich; I work in Vienna (that is about 300 miles apart). When we met, we had planned to move together. We both tried, but careerwise, it never worked out. Today, I can say that we have a strong marriage. We spent quality time together, and we also enjoy our time apart. Emotional commitment is not about the amount of time you spent together, but how you feel about each other- about the connection you build. We know that we are there for each other whenever necessary. When we met, I was 40 and finally wanted a "real" relationship. I wanted the traditional model. Alas, fate held something more precious in store for us. In short, I suggest you listen to your inner heart; not what you think you want. The two may be very different. That's my 2 cents worth. In any case, I hope you find your soul mate. All the very best to you.
I was so happy to hear you found someone special until I heard it was long distance. I don't believe in long distance relationship, especially when either party won't make a move. Don't waste your precious time. Move on. You will find Mr. Right in Dallas.
Guuuuuuurl you say you wear these everytime you workout when you have said something different before! Or you wear those shoes.....it's not just the shoes, but most of us shop at Walmart. Not a department store. Maybe come down to our level? Thanks❤
Heather is my go to girl! I shop at higher end for better quality. I’d much prefer to have only 1 really nice Item than a ton of junk. Just me. Heather hits all walks of life. If I don’t Want the cheaper I just scroll on 💗🇺🇸
You are getting way ahead of yourself with this guy! Take it slow and keep it going but start dating locally too! Get out there in Dallas! Don’t share with him what u r doing it’s called dating so go date ❤
The ideal partner may not be in YOUR city, since you can travel to see each other … can he not travel to see his family and friends? Idk. Tough spot. Wish you the best
Its not rocket science 1. Rounded toes 2. Low heels 3. Real leather no man made junk 4. Good arch support 5. Must fit at heel and toe 6. Must support your foot
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I have a Texas long distance relationship too Huntsville-Tyler. We differ in that I’m content with every other weekends and occasionally weekly. I do like waking up on the weekends and coffeee and date nights but I also enjoy my freedom during the week, my time to spend with friends as well as designated times for intimacy. He doesn’t have to wonder if I’m in the mood, the mood and expectation are preset and I like it that way.
Heather darling! Listen to your intuition, that little voice will never steer you wrong.
I have experienced long distance relationships and in my personal/humble opinion they do not work, unless one of you is willing to move to be together. And lastly, have you prayed about it? Wishing you the best and I know God will bless you with the right partner for you darling! 💋❤🙏
totally agree with you on the long distance!
Super helpful! I always struggle finding comfortable shoes for vacations.
ty for the dating updates! i love them. imo, your gut was right. long distance just doesn't work unless someone decides to move to the other and it's temporary. that is what my girl adrienne everhert says and i agree. meeting once every other week isn't enough for you (it wouldnt be for me or any other women i know either). your guy is still out there. i think he came into your life to show you how amazing a new love can feel. you're getting closer to your match dear
I totally agree.
Love the long dresses, especially the light blue. They are so feminine!
I can't speak to the long distance element of a relationship because I've never been there but if a deal breaker is already in play and a break up has already occurred because of that, then it might be time to move on before it becomes a pattern. Like you were saying, make room for what you know you want. "Settling" always catches up with people later on. Of course if this ISN'T a case of settling and you aren't keeping each other from pursuing what truly makes you both happy, then you're both very blessed to be together as is now. Either way, I pray for your happiness and wish you the best.
OMG! You look beautiful in Coral. It is definitely one of your colors.❤
Heather I’ve recently experienced a long distance relationship in spite of my initial reluctance to it due to his insistence of the fact that we could find a way to make it work. Fast forward a year and HE broke it off bc HE wanted someone closer! I know now that unless one of you are willing to move your whole life to be with the other it just doesn’t work. I know you’re going to make the right choice here bc you’re listening to your higher self and heeding your own guidance which is exactly what I didn’t do. Good luck and many blessings to you 🙏❤️
Thank you that is very wise advice!!
Love the coral dress and the metallic heels.
Heather I tried long distance and it never worked for me. I know you will figure it out and decide what is best for you. Love you ❤
Heather I like how this man continues to make you feel safe and comfortable. That's huge.
I would give it some time and see. If you're still on the fence then I would go with your gut.
Prayers always help- The Lord is in charge and he will direct you if you listen XXOO
Another great video Heather. I recently brought a pair of flat lace up sandals, and the lace ups keep falling down. Any suggestions for keeping the style laced up whether the shoes are flat or heeled.
Thanks, my style has improved since finding your channel ❤
Heather, the tennis necklace you often wear, you had it linked once to Nordstoms. Could you post the link again?
Love you… and please get a microphone so we can hear all your great advise clearly ❤
Yes! I was feeling like something was off in her videos. Your comment got me thinking it’s the audio. Sounds a bit echoey and far away.
I would love to see the lavender dress that you wore in the yellow on you. That lavender is so pretty.
Heather I watched your video yesterday and pondered what I wanted to tell you about your Austin man. If he is the right one (which you can determine over the next few months) don't give up on love. YOu can do your job in Austin and let's face it- Austin and Dallas aren't too far away. You could also meet halfway in Fredericksberg or Waco or it's a simple 40 min sw flight! Your friends will stay your friends; but love is no guarantee. He really seems to care for you and your feelings. Plus- you'd always have Matthew if it didn't work out lmao!
Heather…Add the Marc Fisher Cairo Platform Sandal to your most comfortable shoe list. I purchased mine at Nordstrom. These shoes are stylish and beyond comfortable.
Hey Heather would send me the link for that blue Steve Madden maxi dress please? It looks sooo good on you! Thanks! 🥰🥰
Sure here you go >> rstyle.me/+qlLWoc0schvVC3c5z8f0dg
💙💙
@@HeatherAndersonFashionOver40 thanks!! 🥰🥰
Heather where is the coral dress from?
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I think that you already know the answer deep down. When u waste your time with the wrong person, it will block the right one from coming along. I wish u the very best.
By they way, I love the coral lipstick you are wearing, but I don't see it listed below. Can you share the name/brand?
Thank you!
It this in the color
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Hey there Heather. You know if you really missed him and regretted trying to separate from him, then that could be a sign that you are getting feelings for him. Distance doesn't have to hinder you. A 2.5 hour drive to see him is nothing to us folks up in Michigan. You can work the distance thing out if you really are right for each other. Give yourself a little more time to get to know him.
Hi Heather, I think if it is meant to be it will work out whether it’s long distance or not., but if him being in another city is a deal breaker then maybe you should end it so you can find the right guy. 🌷🌷
Hykes Sport barefoot shoes, soooo comfy
You deserve what you want; listen to your gut and don't settle for less.
Heather, I have been married for twenty years. My husband works in Munich; I work in Vienna (that is about 300 miles apart). When we met, we had planned to move together. We both tried, but careerwise, it never worked out. Today, I can say that we have a strong marriage. We spent quality time together, and we also enjoy our time apart. Emotional commitment is not about the amount of time you spent together, but how you feel about each other- about the connection you build. We know that we are there for each other whenever necessary. When we met, I was 40 and finally wanted a "real" relationship. I wanted the traditional model. Alas, fate held something more precious in store for us. In short, I suggest you listen to your inner heart; not what you think you want. The two may be very different. That's my 2 cents worth. In any case, I hope you find your soul mate. All the very best to you.
Oh wow that is really profound advice! Thank you so much!!😊
I was so happy to hear you found someone special until I heard it was long distance. I don't believe in long distance relationship, especially when either party won't make a move. Don't waste your precious time. Move on. You will find Mr. Right in Dallas.
Guuuuuuurl you say you wear these everytime you workout when you have said something different before! Or you wear those shoes.....it's not just the shoes, but most of us shop at Walmart. Not a department store. Maybe come down to our level? Thanks❤
Heather is my go to girl! I shop at higher end for better quality. I’d much prefer to have only 1 really nice
Item than a ton of junk. Just me. Heather hits all walks of life. If I don’t
Want the cheaper I just scroll on 💗🇺🇸
Follow your heart sweetheart Long distance relationship is a west time. Trust me
You are getting way ahead of yourself with this guy! Take it slow and keep it going but start dating locally too! Get out there in Dallas! Don’t share with him what u r doing it’s called dating so go date ❤
You could speed up the pictures a bit…pleasee
If you ask from an Indian perspective, we can live in different countries and still love each other 😂❤
So interesting 💗
The ideal partner may not be in YOUR city, since you can travel to see each other … can he not travel to see his family and friends? Idk. Tough spot. Wish you the best
Its not rocket science
1. Rounded toes
2. Low heels
3. Real leather no man made junk
4. Good arch support
5. Must fit at heel and toe
6. Must support your foot
If you're not satisfied long distance don't do it and whatever you do don't move to Texas unless you are married to him
No way would any of those heels be comfortable with my 71 year old feet
New Balance now out of style