UPDATE to SURPRISE "TWIN" ADOPTION REVEAL, Part 2:Baby #3-Kjar Adoption Story-11 years in the Making
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- Опубликовано: 6 сен 2024
- After years of trying naturally to start a family, Ben and LaCol, did 4 expensive rounds of IVF treatments that would lead to 2 miscarriages of a baby boy and girl.
Later, the Kjar family would suffer two failed adoptions that would almost tear them down emotionally.
After 10 years of marriage and hundreds of thousands of dollars invested in the future of their family, something magical happened....they got a call from the adoption agency to pick up a baby boy that was just born...only, by many miracles, they ended up coming home with TWO babies! They were able to surprise their families when they returned with both babies.
A year later, they received another call, telling them that Liam's Birth Mother was pregnant again and due any day. She wanted to know if Ben and LaCol would also take this baby.
This video depicts the background of how Ben and LaCol revealed the big news to their families: THREE babies 13 months and under!
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First my blood brother was adopted and not to long after I was also adopted by the same family. This is so special for me to watch
Imagine these children watching these videos when they are older and seeing how much love and joy they gave to everyone, just by becoming part of their family :)
I’m incredibly moved by your story. My first child…a boy I gave up for adoption at age 17. I later down the road got married and suffered countless miscarriages and a pregnancy loss at 26 weeks. I put my faith in something higher than myself and was then blessed with 3 biological children, and became a social worker and adopted 2 more❤️ My adopted child found me and we have a special relationship and is now due to have his second child with his wife. I knew adoption would be the best decision for him, but it was so hard. Just as hard as I’m sure my adopted kid’s biological parents decision. It’s come full circle for me and I’m so fortunate to have such a big family, which I always dreamed of having. My kids are 11,12,13,14,23 and adopted son is 30. Congratulations! It’s such a selfless act to allow someone to raise your child. It really hit me when we adopted ourselves, and I have no regrets. My son was raised with a brother(also adopted), and amazing parents. We are all so close now the grand babies are coming🫶. Best wishes to you all. Looks like lots of love❤️
Congrats on baby number 3!
And bless the birth mother for wanting to keep the two siblings together!
I was adopted when I was a baby almost 29 years ago. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU for being such amazing parents to these 3 little bundles of joy. Always tell them how you came to be a family. These children are so lucky. My birth "family" doesn't even know I exist. When I reached out to the woman that birthed me, she was not kind or compassionate. Did not want me contacting any of my blood relatives. I am SO grateful I have AMAZING parents.
?? NOT understanding ..comment below...by Being Adopted Sucks ???????? I was 'going' to say.... my child when I was found...has nothing to do with me........ It's OK cause I committed that life to God....an God Blessed my child with Godly parents.......
I found my dad he ghosted me...and as far as his family very few if any knew I existed. I know the feeling. But it will not effect me in a negative way. It hurt me some but I imagine it will hurt him more in the end and for that I feel bad for him.
@@sharonpowell2798 oh I am definitely better off without those people. I have an absolutely amazing family! Yesterday was actually my adoption anniversary and we celebrate that just as much as my birthday!
@Being Adopted Sucks you dont even know me though. Bye.
Im so glad you were adopted by people who loved you ❤
The whole family holds their children like they're jewels. It's beautiful.
Oh my goodness, I completely lost it at 5:23 when the brother-in-law had such a sweet, emotional reaction. Congratulations Kjar family!
I melted too at 5:37 hugging the new dad in background..To have family that truly is happy for you must be amazing
Me too I went back and replayed it at that point. He was genuinely so happy for them!
I caught his reaction immediately! May we all be lucky enough to have someone like him in our lives.
I would love to be in a family like Ben's. The praying together crying tears of joy being so transparently loving.
I just love this family...ive watched these videos 2x an still cry!
Beautiful
Ben sure does have a wonderful , loving family!! Those babies are the luckiest blessings on earth!
Me too Sabrina.
Yeahh me too, they seem to genuinely love eachother, how nice! Would love to know what that feels like. Happy for them🥰🥰
The way he looks at his wife, he is so inlove, I’m really emotional right now I just got dumped and seeing the way he looked at her at 2:32 genuinely made me tear up, congrats, beautiful family I hope life is wonderful for you guys
you got this
Whoever he was he is not good enough to handle ur amazing self. Xx
Anyone else fed up cooking onions?
I'm sorry hun. You will find someone better xoxo
@nevy channel so true. but aren't the emotions in the moment just so ouchy!! Youch!! This too chall pass. Our Lord provides
The brother in law's reaction as they bring the baby in the basket up the stairs is killing me! So adorable!
Me too....it was pure genuine raw emotion. What a lovely family!
I agree. Awesome reaction
I also started tearing at this moment ❤️
That's the part that got me too.
Was he the one who was crying? It was precious.
This is what happened to a family member of mine. 18 mos after they adopted baby #1 the birth mom called them and asked them to adopt baby #2. They were meant to be brothers.
I'm glad birth mama made sure to keep the siblings together
@@SecondEvilEx I do too!
@@SecondEvilEx I wonder if they'll send her a letter and ask her to stop reproducing because they have enough .. hah .. unreal
Kelly Scott Right, at what point does she just become a surrogate
Uyy
This is deeply incredible. God bless Liam and Kempton's birth mother. It was a brave choice to bring these little men into the world, even knowing she couldn't raise them. Her choice has brought joy and meaning into the lives of a million people. Pretty dang incredible. She deserves a ton of gratitude.
I love that the grandpa seems to be wearing an apron at all times.
lmfao that's hilarious!
He's a Foodie. I bet he's a great cook. Just like my husband. He lives in an apron with a towel over his shoulder when he's home, happy in the kitchen. Drumming in clubs by night. Love him.
THREE babies in 13 months!!! What an incredible story; what a beautiful family. I cried when Ben told the story of being called by the bio Mom asking them if they would take another little boy that she had just given birth to - Liam's biological brother. She's an incredible part of this story - knowing she was not in a position to give them the lives that they deserved, she did the next best thing - she approached the adoptive parents of her first baby and asked if they would take his brother. Those boys won't have to spend their lives looking for each other. Ben and LaCol - what a wonderful "birth" story you have to tell your kids as they grow up.
I'm a 51 year old man and this video brought me to happy tears. Not one bundle of JOY not two but three. What an amazing blessing, I'm beyond happy for you and your new family. Our father above has great plans for us all. Much Love from Bartow Florida.
My sons were born in Bartow ...wow it is a small world...Here I saw this vid pop up, then began reading the comments....Amazing........HE ...IS : )
Ben's family seems like an amazing family! I mean I am sure both families are but I absolutely love how they are so freaking excited for him that they cry and scream. Now that's love!!
"I can't believe we fell for this twice" 😂
I have cried so many happy tears watching both videos. Such lucky children to have so much love around them. Congratulations 🎉
EVERY family gathering, they’re going to be checking the door lol
Love just oozes out of this video. I can’t stop smiling for these people and I don’t even know them. This just popped up on my feed. And someone seriously needs to stop cutting onions in my house.
Imagine the birth mother knowing how well looked after and loved these kids are ❤️
Absolutely, if I had a baby, think I'd just ask if they could take at this stage.. 🤷🏼♀️I'm kidding.. I'm too old to have kids now.. But if I DID 😁INTO a wicker basket he'd go..
Honestly if I had to put my child up for adoption and I seen this is where the baby I brought into the world was going to go to a family like this would make it so much easier to know how loved the little ones are ❤️ they're amazing parents and should be proud of themselves , they're little family has come a long way x
I can’t believe the birth mom is still having children smh
Alma at least she is giving her kids a good chance though. She may not be able to afford the medical care she needs to prevent herself from having children. The sad reality of America.
Alma she might be pretty young or in a bad situation. Shit happens sometimes and hopefully she’ll be in a better place soon.
Those 3 babies will be loved for life🥰 The birth mother was so brave to give her children to this family
“You don't choose your family. They are God's gift to you, as you are to them.”
The family praying together holding hands at the end is everything!
They are so worthy and so deserving of this family. God really has blessed them 3 times over and I'm sure will continue to do so. Those babies were so blessed to find their parents. God bless the Kjar family as they continue to grow their family and enjoy each and every moment💖
These two families though... Wow. What amazing families. I'd give the world to be a part of a family like this. Their reactions are just so priceless, and then to sit and pray over those children at the end. I'm a hot mess. It's too late to be watching these videos tonight.
Hi Ben, I just came across your RUclips channel, literally less than 60 seconds ago. I recognized your facial features pretty much instantly and I have a very similar condition as you do, called Pfeiffer Syndrome. It’s also quite rare and whenever a doctor would ask me or my parents what it was, the answer would always be, “ it’s a lot like crouzon syndrome.” I guess the main difference between the 2 is the way Pfeiffer can sometimes affect the hands and feet. Anyway, I’m one that has struggled my entire life with how I looked and sounded. I always felt like I talked like a duck and looked like a weirdo. The way you present yourself and how confident you are truly is so inspiring and it gives me hope too. I’m trying to look at the syndrome as being 1 in a million, though it’s more like 100,000 but saying that out loud has too many syllables.😉 I’ve had close to 30 surgeries... I think I lost count actually but it is definitely between 25-30. The nice thing about most of them being on my head somewhere, is that the scars are mostly covered. If I ever have my hair vanish, I’d look probably like a war zone. Thank you for using your voice to impact the world. Honestly I’ve been thinking about speaking out myself someday. I endured quite a bit of bullying in my younger years and as I got older it got easier. The biggest issue that I struggled with and still do, is self esteem and self value. Thank you for sharing your videos with us. Hope you don’t mind me dropping in and saying hi. Congrats on adopting a beautiful little family. God bless you.❤️
What cool and kind words you shared, my friend.
I’m very familiar with Pfeiffer Syndrome.
It took my years to decide to be okay to step out unapologetically and love my life. At the end of the day, we all only have one life to live and it’s not very long. Why not live it to its fullest? Continue being the awesome person of light that you are. It’s contagious. I already know we’d be good friends.
Keep in touch! Blessings your way.
Couldn’t have said it better myself! It’s definitely not always easy but so often I have come to realize how I am my worst enemy. After 35 years, you’d think that I have overcome it all but nope, still have to remind myself everyday who I really am and I can choose to be either positive and make a difference or dwell in self pity and feel sorry for myself and have zero impact. I’m sure you can totally understand what I’m saying. I’d love love to connect more and share more stories with each other. I know I have a lot of stories and I’m sure you do too.😊 Here’s my email address for starters: dearlyloved@me.com
Have a blessed and wonderful day! Looking forward to hearing more from you too.❤️
I send you my love Julie, you're a beautiful, strong woman who deserves to be happy. I'm sure you're sweet and you're funny to be around. You're not a duck nor a weirdo, you're a human being who has so much to give to the world (and to receive).
@@julievanderleest Remember the TRUTH the Lord Jesus sees the beauty within, I've meet many who on the outside seemed beautiful but a few days later, their beauty faded more an more, due to their true nature. No worries on how this world sees you, those that truly matter will eventually see just how beautiful you are especially from those that truly have a heart for the Lord God, in fact you will just glow an that will attract true friends. Blessings in Jesus name 😇🙏
@@julievanderleest The Lord is the perfect Potter and we are the clay. He makes no mistakes in what He creates outwardly. There isn't one of us who doesn't need to trust in His love for us no matter how "beautiful" the world says someone is or isn't. It is the inner beauty of His righteousness imputed to us that makes all the difference in one's life. The world of humanity can be very cruel because they go around defining what beauty is or isn't. Not so in God's kingdom. He shows no partiality. So much love to you and know that I am praying for you.💚😘
Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not to your own understanding. - Proverbs 3:5
Holy cow!!!! So happy to know that in this absolutely terrifying time, there truly is hope for all of our hearts!! This is truly the BEST story of 2020!!! And I'M a big baby watching this and crying!! Bless all of your littles that they will understand how much they are loved in your big families combined!!! Thank you for sharing with us!!! God Bless ❤❤
Hello how are you doing?
Crying 😭😭😭 What a wonderful family. Adoption is Love
So touching. We just adopted our son this past June and then got a call for newborn twin girls. Our hearts overflow with JOY!! So happy for you guys. What a blessing from the Lord!!
I’m so happy for your whole family! What a BLESSING! 🙏🏻💕 I gave my little baby girl up for adoption 29 years ago and her parents kept in contact with me with pictures (VERY important!) and letters and even a video when she (Rachel) was about 2 years old, waving into the camera and saying, “Hi birthmom!” ❤️
I met her for the first time (since her birth) a few years ago and so the sisters got to meet, too! They are 5 years apart. I met Rachel’s husband as well. She’s had the most wonderful life that I know I could not have given her at that time. I have NEVER regretted my decision, ever! 🙏🏻😇
I’m so happy for you all! I can’t stop crying for joy!
What a cool story
Thx for sharing
Thank you for giving life Connie. Life is more precious than anything. God bless you!!
I'm so happy you got updates.You did the best for your child,and that's so awesome.Hugs from me.
So great to hear such great stories about adoption. So glad things worked out so great with everyone.
God bless you for making a sacrifice so your child could have a better life ❤
Aww, Man my name is Liam and I remember seeing you at my school like this past weak. Dude your story about your past is amazing and props to your wife for helping you though your hard times. And I’m grateful I’m here for the good ones. Love you Ben!
His family is going to expect a baby every time the doorbell rings now. Lol These videos have brought tears to my eyes. How absolutely amazing!!! Congrats guys!
So precious is the love of both families enveloping this child in love. So special to see this child prayed for by the family. Nothing but love and happiness to you all, especially to the parents and their three sweet beautiful children.
I watched the first adoption of Liam and Rowan a couple of months ago and just yesterday the same video came up in my recommendations and I rewatched and now I’m watching this video which is the adoption of Kempton it’s as if something was telling me to rewatch this family get blessed all over again. Congratulations to all of you guys. This is a true blessing ☺️.
OMG this is amazing! May God bless this beautiful family!
Hello 👋how are you doing?
As someone who is adopted I am so very happy for your newest baby boy. This will be a great way to show them how much they are wanted and loved. The only reason I curious to know was for medical information only because I have never wanted any other parents that I had. Blessings from Canada
Oh my gosh!! I literally just stumbled upon the video of the first 2, checked out your page and now I see this! Congratulations to the both of you! This is such a beautiful story and these babies have such a beautiful family and they deserve you as much as you deserve them! My heart is melting 🥰💖💖
I have wondered what was happening with your family and WOW, what a wonderful update!!!
The man helping carry Kempton up the stairs made me cry! He was so overcome with pure emotion.
Both of the parents are cards in the 10th degree. Their video of playing this out and showing their adoption off is the best one out there. I was laughing and crying at the same time! Awesome, video!
Your family's story keeps getting better and better, what a blessing you are to these sweet children... Keep these adorable updates coming! I can't be the only one who's a complete sobbing mess over here!
I can see God’s purpose written all over this family.
Amen!
Those babies are super blessed to have you two as parents & all the LOVE❤️❤️ of both families!! God bless your growing family, those babies were Destin to be yours ❤️❤️
I love how much louder is Ben’s family lol
God's timmimg is perfect, this 3babies were born just to be part of your family, loved first video loving part 2🤗
The prayer circle was the best.. " And for this baby I prayed "..
A great gift, giving your child a not only loving family but a extended family ss well. Giving joy where there once was mourning.
Okay y’all did not have to make me cry this much.
I just want to say I love Ben’s family!! They have the best reactions! So touching.
Hello how’re you doing?
The look on that little girls face is SO priceless 😍
Omg the stork done another drop off how wonderful. I'm so very happy for the whole family God Bless you all. It was such a lovely surprise to pop into your life again and to see everyone's heart full of love, mine included
You guys!!! I'm sitting at dialysis watching you tube videos to pass the time. I just came across the video of the first two babies. Then I see this. Yep you got me balling my eyes out. The tech says are you OK?? Yeah.... Dang you tube!! It's so great to see this bc you probably know that October is Infant Loss Awareness month. I lost a full term stillborn boy October 31, 1992. It's been almost 30years but it's still an emotional time for me. I love this so much! Congratulations.
Also want to add.... My older sister is adopted. Our parents got her when she was a month old. She is now 53. Our parents have both passed away. It was always on my heart to help her locate her bio family. Well last Christmas I got her an Ancestry DNA kit. Yep in Jan she located some. She got a match for her mom and sister. It hasn't gone as expected. Mom has not spoken to her yet. But her sister has. Well October 12th I wittnessed them meeting for the first time. So cool! It's been emotional for sure.
You have such a beautiful family... I mean all around, your parents her parents and the babies. Very beautiful. Wishing you nothing but happiness. Thank you for sharing
OMG 3 minutes in and i'm already crying. The twill are so big and so beautiful.
What a wonderful family for these babies to be raised in... So much love.
There are tears in my eyes!
Beautiful family, God bless and protect you!
Your history is fantastic!
How wonderful, Congratulations for the 3rd time. You are such a great couple and it looks like you have lot's of support from family and friends. And yes, I cried again, the same as I did in your last adoption video.
I was adopted when I was 3 weeks old. I’m 51 now. I’m so happy to see this joyous video of adoption. I also have twins. In the first video I thought your twins were biological twins? What a beautiful family.
Absolutely awesome!! I love the way you’ve introduced your precious bundles of joy to your families. Purely magical and heart warming. So much love surrounding you all. Congratulations again guys.💝💝💝
A family praying together and giving God thanks for these beautiful babies was the very best part. He is definitely watching over all of you.❤
I’m a soon to be adoptive mom. I love seeing your story!
Congrats Mommy,I'm happy for you.
Soon to be a Mom. G-d bless you and your family.
Wow, such Blessings for the children that they have you two as their Parents. They have been given a New lease of life to continue to be Loved forever. You Both make Amazing Parents. Xx
OMG !
I’m so thrilled for you !
What BEAUTIFUL children you have ♥️♥️♥️
You guys are amazing! I don’t know how you pulled this off a second time!!! I work in a children’s ward in a hospital and see many unwanted newborns, luckily, there are people like you. Love to you all - bless you xxx
How truly beautiful.
Gorgeous 3 bubbas.
Kind deeds change lives. God was showing off when those bubbas were made. Congrats.
These words to you whilst I am.weeping.
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Oh man every single video of you guys I sob. Your entire family is so blessed you can tell how much they love these children. Beautiful.
Congratulations on number 3! What a beautiful family!
What a beautiful mother the birth mother is! What strength, courage and love it must have taken to be able give her babies to a loving family. That’s true love right there!!! I’m balling my eyes out right now. I wish more young unprepared and scared mothers would choose this path rather than the alternative.
This is an awesome story. Going through many bumps in the road to now having a beautiful family. I'm speechless The fact that everyone in both of your families is accepting with unconditional love is incredible. Any updates in the near future?
I don't think a video has ever made me cry so much! This is BEAUTIFUL and the way your family react is just pure happiness. x
The one who wates for something good doesnt vaite to long, everything was worth fighting for.
Adopting is true joy, Here is my gift to you guys, a poam of that.
Eggs of miracle, vaiting for a child is born..
The fox has left a basket whit golden eggs 3 times to you.
Bears was giving the furr to keep them warm.
Ants told them to brave and work hard.
Butterflyies was giving the beuty of them.
Owl told them to be vice and the frog left moonlight on them, whit some light and hope.
Then when birds was singing in morning, was the right time for miracle and blessing.
Congratulation 😊
That’s beautiful. Thx for sending that over. We appreciate it.
Congratulations! You’ve been given 3 beautiful gifts from God. I’m so happy for you.
These kids are soooo adorable! Congratulations guys! And what a great couple, and what a great family! All the best to all of you! 💕
Such a blessing that this baby was able to be placed in the same family as his sibling
Such a beautiful family to share in your wonderful joyful moments. You both are so brave to have endured so much and now God has blessed you abundantly with beautiful babies..So much happiness to come to you for you and your entire family!!!🥰💗💙
Hello how are you doing?
Again well done the "suprice" . Very important: Liam and Kempton : the brothers are together ! Wish your warm family all the best !
My first thought was Wow. I'm so excited for you
Beautiful family the children are so lucky to have a great big loving familes The two kids a and baby have got a loving mom and dad so nice to see loved there first video 💕💙❤️💓💔💕💙❤️💗💗💓💓💖💕💓❤️😄💐💐💐💐
Re watched a million times just to see the husbands family reaction. So precious. 💙
The two guys carrying him up the stairs, the one in lead. His pure joy got me to tears in an instant
I cannot tell you the chills I get watching both stories about your beautiful babies. They are blessed, you are blessed and I pray for your continued prosperity, health and goodwill... Gods blessings
That was absolutely beautiful. Thank you for sharing.
It's so beautiful that both you guys and the birthmom wanted to keep two siblings together. God bless you guys. May he always shine his light upon you, your path and your family.
I don't know about the birth-mom really. To get another baby that short after the first one. Adoption is not for fun. Lucky the babies got into this lovely family.
the praying at the end broke me. God bless all of you!
Sorry to see this blog wasn't kept up with so we could see/hear updates. Great story.
I’m in a puddle of tears😭😭😭 so beautiful 💙
The one carrying the baby in at 5:27....such raw emotion. That baby is going go to be loved. ❤️
God brings families meant to be together. He fulfills their destiny. They come in different ways. Enjoy your God given charge.
Your first adoption video is my all time favorite of all time--I just LOVE how your families are so instantly in love with the babies! And now you have a second video??? Best way to end my work week....EVER!!! Congratulations!!!
Sending hugs your way.
Y’all gonna give someone a heart attack! This is beautiful!
thank you for letting me be part of your journey love and blessings always ⚘🥰⚘
I’m not crying, you’re crying 😭
Hugs and prayers for the birth moms as well. Their babies are in the most incredible family and will be loved and cherished beyond words. Where ever you are, you are very special! 💕
The emotionally wrecked guy at 5:25 is all of us 🥺
I'm still crying from the first video. Thanks for the smiles and laughter. Congrats again. God bless you guys.
Listen guys, i didn't watch the video. I read the title word adoption and came here to say
Please do not adopt someone and give them away after making profit off of them like myka stuffer
Then watch the video. I can almost guarantee this family isn't going to do that atrocity.
Please, stop this. There are thousands of kind and loving adoption stories, no need to make one story the default.
@@noortjelief1987 i said don't do things like myka stuffer. Other adoption story doesn't make profit off of them by writing MY ADOPTED SON on the title. That's what i said.
I know adoption is a matter to discuss about but, you know, just a little worried about expoiltation
I see so many parents not giving their kids the love they deserve. It is so nice to watch you adore these bundles of joy. Well done
What's wrong with this guy's face?
someone put the sliders all the way to max in the character creation
This happened to be in my RUclips feed tonight. First time I have ever seen your channel. I am hooked!!!👫👶👶👸
Congrats on your 2 special blessings. May your family be filled with love and happiness for all eternity❤💙💜💛💚
Welcome and blessings your way
Ok, hands down you guys pull off the best surprises. Not 1, not 2 but 3 babies. You guys are so so lucky❤️💛🧡💙💚💜🤎🤍
This is the first video I’ve seen of yours and I cried the whole time. I’m sad I didn’t find your channel sooner but I am so happy to be here now 🥺
OMG. Congratulations on your blessing of another beautiful baby! I'm bawling. 😭 Watching your family members cry when they realized what was happening again just made my heart so full that I'm just crying.