My husbands been gone for almost 7 yrs. You will get through it. You have great kids, your a great mom and a passion for RUclips. Keep yourself busy!! It’s hard in the beginning but get easier.
Literally anyone that takes there time to throw shade at you is miserable AF You post about cleaning your home, self-care, and taking care of your family. Just basic envious fans that couldn't keep subscribers interested if they tried. You're doing amazing protect your peace. You got this McKenna ❤️
I’m so sorry you’re feeling this way, and although we don’t know each other personally please know we’re all here for you! Your videos have been there for me through my toughest times and hopefully we can be there for you through yours! 🩵🩵🩵
I highly recommend you go back to school so you have something to fall back on. For your own happiness. You deserve it. You pour so much of your self into others, it can be hard to do for you. You’re very young and give yourself grace. ❤😘💯
Plan b doesn’t always have to be school coming from a student herself. I understand you’re trying to encourage her, but maybe broadening the plan b suggestion!
Girl, you're hurting! I love seeing your vlogs, honestly you're the only RUclipsr I watch but that's because of your authenticity! We don't need to give you permission to take time off during this period but rest assured we will be all here when/if you come back.
These 20 minutes videos are okay McKenna. You don’t have to do 1 or 2 hour vlogs. We know that it takes a lot to put these videos into motion. The filming. The editing. Everything. We got you girl. Take care of your mental. We love you and we are here for you. ❤
to speak on 6:20 the first step in being in control of your own narrative on the internet is if it ever gets too overwhelming you can log out and immerse yourself in the relationships you created in real life. easier said than done, but you’ve built a family of support that are praying and rooting for you. take the necessary breaks you need at any point in time. you are your first priority 🫶🏽
Give yourself some grace. You’re a mom, a fiancé BUT you’re a WOMAN first. Take your time. Do what you need to do for yourself and those boys. Praying 🙏🏾 for you!
Girl…you had me tearing up. You got this. You are so strong to be so young. You have inspired me at 40 years old to grow my relationship with God. Got me going to church, reading my Bible, and saying my prayers for my children. Lean on God during this time and just know we will be here when you get yourself situated 💕
Just the other day on TikTok a girl was in target buying products and she mentioned your name and how you put her on. I commented and said that your name doesn’t get mentioned enough!!!! You’re a GOAT!!! You put so many of us girls onto how to take care of ourselves as women. We love you McKenna!🫶🏽
You are doing an amazing job!! I raised three after divorce. It was a challenge but it was done!! You can do it beautiful and you are doing it!!! Blessings and continued faith!!
it breaks my heart seeing you sad but just know GOD will be with your family through this transition of your life. We love you and send you much love and peace 🫶🏼
McKenna it’s time to do things for you not everyone else!! We love you and we will be here when you come back!! Don’t feel guilty for leaving. Your mental, physical, and emotional health are what’s important in this moment! You are a great mother and you are their hero!! God will get yall through this and He’s there waiting for you to talk to him! You got this babes ❤️
I’m a mom of two girls, they’re dad just got back home after being incarcerated for 3 years.. you will find your balance. I had no idea what I was going to do once we found out he was going to be gone awhile but I made it and you will too you never know who your inspiring 🥹 you inspire me always as usual 🫶🏼 sending you a lot of love
At the end of the day you are a MUVA, a MOTHER the whole 9! Which means you are equipped with a certain strength that is inexplainable! God will literally force a power out of you that is gonna make you show up and show out for them babies okay ❤️ moms always find a way to make it happen one way or another I have no doubt 🥹🫶🏾
Know that God has you! Often times isolation comes before elevation and trust me it’s gets lonely but it’s not forever. You will be stronger, wiser, and better because of this. Embrace the process and continue to glow up. Allow God to be your source! Love you girl and I’m praying for all of you!
I worked night shifts in such a toxic work environment and your videos got me through so many shitty nights. You truly spread so much positivity and authenticity. Take all the time you need but also don’t forget what sets you apart from other vloggers is your realness so don’t be afraid to show it. Sending so much love and strength your way.
I can’t say I know what you’re going through but I know that prayer helps. I’ll pray for you and you continue to do that as well. You’re such a strong beautiful woman and we are here for you and we love you so we’ll be patient. Mental health is important so take all the time you need to make sure you are good.
I can feel the heaviness on your heart, and just want you to remember that God is waiting for you to give it all to him. He already planned it all out and just wants you to trust. You are strong, you are loved and you can get through this. Please give yourself grace while you’re hurting, there’s always pressure to do better and be better but you are doing the best you can right now. Every time I face a hardship in life, I keep reminding myself that this too shall pass. It’s a season of your life that you’ll get through and the blessings are on the way. You will be in many of our prayers and I’m proclaiming this over your life that you will feel peace and happiness all throughout these days.
Girl, you’re only 24?!?!?! You are very youthful looking but I am in awe with your maturity level and strength Jesus! You are handling this journey with such grace. You are able to take on so much but still remain beautiful and calm. Wow!
…don’t stop vlogging!…your season right now will help others…don’t worry about the negative comments…we all have people that aren’t kind to us…don’t let then win…the ones that adore you are who matter…WE love you!!…💕💕💕…XoXo💕
At first I was like no she need to take time off but then I thought to myself this is also a testimony. Because another mom somewhere is going through the same thing.
Sending you strength Kenna. It is a lot but you will be okay. Don’t stop vlogging. Whilst it will be hard; it will be helpful to you and your mental. We love you!
One thing I always have to remind myself that I learned from you is God will not give you any situation you can't handle. You got this girl! Sending you all the positive vibes and love and a big air hug 🖤
Girl I need to write this because I have complete faith in God. Sometimes we believe in some sort of capacity that we have control over things, whether that be that certain things could have been avoidable or that we made “bad” or even “good” choices, girl this is WRITTEN! You are intended to grow in your faith & rely on Him in alll circumstances, you’re not supposed to be self sufficient, your power comes from GOD! This was always meant to happen! God has GOT YOU!!! Don’t you forget it! God bless your family & girl don’t be afraid to step into your power beyond what you even thought capable and GROW in your faith! Let there be JOY! ❤️
Been in your shoes, my kids were 6 and 7, they are now 20 and 21. The strength of a mother is unbelievable, I never thought I’d get thru those days , I had to dig deep to keep my heart whole for my babies and I know you’ll do the same. They can’t keep him forever !! Prayers up ❤️🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽
McKenna, this was incredibly huge and strong of you to be this vulnerable during this particular season of your life. I appreciate you for sharing even though you did not have to. You will absolutely be in my prayers. Don't put too much more on you just because you think you need to. Just let it flow and allow the Most High to lead the way.. Thanks again.
Weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning. Psalm 30:5. McKenna your sorrow won’t last forever. I feel your pain and I know that God will see you through for He is able and is a God of the impossible. I pray God’s strength for you. Stay strong in Jesus.🙏🏼❤️
God, when i am weak, you are strong. When i feel unable to keep moving forward, you give me the strength i need to perserve. Please remind me when i feel overwhelmed that you are with me. Refresh my soul, and give me rest. In jesus name, amen.
When you chocked up and got emotional tears rolled out of my eyes. I felt your pain and i pray for your strength and happy reunion with your fiancé. Please take care of yourself and enjoy your life as much as you can. All shall pass and one day you’ll look back at things and you’ll appreciate how stronger you’ve become. ❤❤❤
Listen, we love you. God is recreating both your lives so your future following the wedding will be what you’ve prayed for since y’all were young + more! We are here for you, lean on us and fall into your hobbies and your family. We got you. God got you.
I have seen so much growth from you within the past couple of years I’ve been watching you! I send out prayers to you and yours. We love you and will give you the time you need to get back to YOU! ❤️
McKenna I literally came across your video last night my 1 year old sat still and watched you and she settled down and went to sleep your voice is so relaxing and I literally enjoyed watching you. So Thank you so much for being your beautiful self!! And sharing your journey. I love your house it’s so beautiful! I am in my 40’s and I am rooting and praying for you ❤
I cried with you, it’s going to work out. Everything always does. My favorite person on RUclips, anything you choose I’m supporting. God got you and so do I 🥹❤️
I felt this in my bones… I’m 24 with 3 under 3… trying to figure out life and some days I think I have it figured out and others I feel so lost. When you’re trying to be a mommy it just becomes that much more overwhelming. You’ve been a major inspiration and I’m praying that you find peace and strength during this time! I’m going through it too and there’s days of rage, days of sadness, days of confusion, but I know the Lord is with us and we’ll be ok in the end! ❤
Mckenna our self care, Queen. We love you and your family. Your mental health is very important to us. You are a child of God. And a mom .Do whatever it is that keeps you happy, healthy, and strong. Sending blessings, peace, and love. God will protect 🙏 lots of things coming to you. I will be praying for you ❤🎉❤
My heart goes out to you McKenna, you are stronger than you realize!! It’s ok to cry, it’s cleansing the soul, just remember trials don’t last always, you are blessed and God is with you!! Watching you inspires me and I’m almost 50, and that may not change anything you’re going through but know you have so much support & love out here! Hugs & prayers ❤
We missed you and the family. Praying for discernment and joy as you walk through this new season. Please reconsider renting your home out. If possible, stay in the home as it will provide peace, comfort, and consistency for the boys. If remaining there is not peaceful, obviously do what's best for the family. Wishing you the absolute best, going forward. Don't forget to stay in prayer.
Girl oh my gosh. You making me cry. You’re the only content creator that I can relate and enjoy. We understand what you’re going through. We love you and appreciate this good content you’ve always put out. We support you!!!!
It's okay if you want to take a break. You're going through a lot right now and if it takes months or even years of putting youtube on the backburner while you figure things out and get your life together then take that. Don't feel forced to continue to make us happy, i'll gladly wait while you get things together. Just focus on your family and God, you need them the most right now! All the love Kenna 🤍
McKenna girl!!! First off, Glod bless you and your journey with everything! My man and I have been doing long distance for a year and a half now, and I know your situation is different, so I know it’s not comparable, but I know being away from your man ain’t easy! You got this! You have always been my go to whenever I’ve needed inspiration to keep going and I know you’ve got it now!!! Take your take time mama! I’ve been going one day at a time and I believe in it. Be there for them babies and yourself and you’ll get there day by day. God bless you!!! Stay strong!!!
I’m genuinely praying for you and standing as a sister you can lean on spiritually and physically. You are not alone and changes that are out of your control can be hard . Please take the time you need to establish a routine to make it easier on you. My kids’s father decided to move out of state for his job, leaving me with 4 kids to raise by myself on a daily basis . He visits sometimes on the weekends if he can. Once i established a routine it made the change so much easier on me ! I’m now able to take my kids on mini vacations and staycations by myself comfortably , since I established a routine. Also, please look into getting your baby ear tubes. My son would get ear infections frequently and they would make him have febrile seizures. Ear tubes are preventative measures and doesn’t hurt them in any way!
Praying for you girl! Life can get overwhelming and it sucks when things are out of your control. I want you to know you are strong enough to handle this season of life and you have a lot of people praying for you and your family. There will continue to be hard days , but just take it one day at a time ❤
I've been in this situation before, and I understand the emotional roller coaster. Just pray for strength and give yourself grace that you can't do everything.
it won’t be as long as it has been! you got this - this is just a moment in time that you will absolutely make it through. in sending you perseverance, patience, and strength.
Been there. Two boys. 23 years old. Father gone away for 24 months. Working full time. Juggling everything!!! Such a hard time. But u will get through it. And you’ll come out stronger. Sending love and prayers your way
McKenna, I felt this. Praying for you my love. God’s got you & will give you the strength during this season. You are shining so bright in the midst of everything, God is working behind the scenes for your good
Girl I wish I could hug you!!! You WILL and CAN make it through this with the GRACE of GOD!! He will carry you! 🤍 please take as much time as you need!
I watch all the time and rarely comment. I just want to say how I completely understand your need to take time for yourself, I appreciate that you understand what your viewers need and that you’re not blaming us for your burn out like so many others do… I also wanted to add that if you’re this good at RUclips then imagine what else you could do with the same energy applied. I can totally see you being a nurse or an aesthetician… much love and praying for your family.
I’ve been having a horrible and emotional day and this just made me feel like I’m not alone. I’m 25 years old and planning on getting married later this year. I currently live with my grandpa and things have been really difficult with his health. It’s always been my grandpa and I, so the readjustment has really been difficult. Reality has just hit all at once. Watching from South Africa 🇿🇦
Hi McKenna! You don’t have to apologize for anything. Take your time to be where you are. Enjoy the good days and get through the bad. Time, time, time is your friend. In time the dusk will begin to settle, you will keep moving forward and things won’t seem as bad as you thought it was. Stay in your word! I’m praying for you and your family.
McKenna, I’ve been watching you for a while and love, love your videos and how much you love and take care of your family. I’m 53 and can really appreciate the kind of loving mom you are at such a young age. Real talk - you give me hope for our young black kids. I know I only know what you share, but I can see the genuine love you have for your family. Love, give yourself some grace right now. Please do because you’re going through a lot. Take time for yourself to regroup and adjust to this new norm for now. Everyone makes mistakes - you all will get through this. I know it seems it’s not fair that you have to carry the weight right now but you know your fiancé is a good man at heart and loves you and his family. I wish you and your family all the best. Anyone that has anything negative to say, block them because they are just haters at this point. You are amazing. Take time out to for you to regroup and straighten your crown Queen!
The girls that get it get! No vlogger should feel obligated to produce content when they are not feeling it. Life be lifing and we will patiently wait for that notification bell. Sending positive vibes your way babe ❤❤❤
4:17 been there babe. Seriously been there. It feels so hard. But the light is showing. ❤ I’m sending you the most positive vibes on top of being able to feel your pain directly
Dear McKenna sending you lots of love, hugs and prayers. Of the challenges you have faced in life know that this will not do you in. It will get better with time.❤
Aww 😢 I’m so sorry you are going through all of this. I’m a over-sharer too but this is your life and your journey and although we appreciate you sharing your life with us, please know that you aren’t obligated to do so. Do what’s best for your mental and your boys. We will be here whenever you’re ready to come back ❤
I was ugly crying with you Kenna!!! We all support you & love you! You’re stronger than you know girl! This too shall pass & all will be restored and renewed ❤️ Praying for your family & praying for your strength 🙏🏾
Praying for peace and comfort. You’re such a good mom and a sweet person. Take care of you and your babies. Don’t worry about people who don’t have a dog in your fight. It’s not going to be easy but you got this. Pray a lot and you’ll be okay.
You are phenomenal you are so young but so mature and have done so much for yourself at your age i hope you give yourself some grace when you have so many older people who looks up to you keep going when you’re doing at your leisure we are here for you. Thanks for being that girlie that showed us how important but easy self care can be we love you kenna keep doing you !
Girl the way I flew in from your instagram story ✈️ I was like who made my girl cry! I know I barely comment but please take as much time off as you need I’m praying for you and your family, walk by faith not by sight 🫶🏾 you got this mama, love ya girl 💗
Unfortunately being in the public eye comes with its cons. You are MORE than blessed and that irritates people’s demons. This season of your life is only a temporary test. You’re stronger than you think! Hold onto God, stay close to those who mean you well, and keep being the great Mom that you are! This too shall pass …😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘
Mckennnaaa! im cryingggg! You are an amazing MOM. let me just start there. I’m 27 and have a one year old and I literally watch you in AWE of how amazing you are with THREE kids especially at your age! & let me just say I didn’t wake up with ANY SUPER POWERS at 25 😂. Im sending you so much love girl! i pray that God keeps you and comforts you. 💜
Kenna do what you need to do to heal yourself and take care of those babies! The real ones that have been here will be here. Praying for you and the adjustments you’re having to make. Love you girl!!
25 is such a transformational year and life itself is something. Give yourself lots of grace, cry out to the Lord and take one moment at a time and he will carry you through. Find you a church community or a community of moms with faith that can help walk out this season with you. Pray for community!! Praying God’s peace over you and grace during transition.
We love you McKenna. Take the time you need right now, we’ll be here when you’re mentally ready to start back vlogging. You’re a great person & an amazing mother! I pray this season of life for you will help you grow in ways you didn’t think you’d know you could grow in. You have a lot on your plate now, but you know God will never add more than we can handle. Praying for your strength through all of this. God bless you and your family. ❤
I already knew what it was when you missed last week. Please take your time! Those of us who truely care for you (even through a screen) know that your health and real life come first. Keep taking your burdens to GOD everyday and he will keep you ❤. We’re here whenever you’re ready friend.
I cried with you girl your babies are growing up so fast but cherish the good times… you’re a great mother a beautiful soul take all the time you need boo you’re going to come out of this season better then before we love you boo stay strong the outcome is bigger then the challenge ❤️
Ideas we’d love to see from you: 1. If you’re moving - the journey to downsizing 2. Short updates of your journey to competing new goals (esthetician, nursing, etc) 3. Short (15-30min) day in the life videos where you show short clips of your day. 4. Cozy spiritual journey talks (blankets, hot tea kinda vide) It may be a good idea for you to batch create quicker content when you do feel like filming so the days/weeks where you need time away you still have content to put out without overwhelming or burning out
And what do you say to the kids during these absences as that may help others that are going through or about to go through the same or similar situations.
Girl, I appreciate you sharing with us even though you don't have to. Everyone is going through their own seasons in life and it's okay to give yourself grace 🤍
bye- why was I tearing up with you😭 girl take ur timeeeee because family comes first. im only 18 but your videos inspire me and you keep it real which we love!!! if u don’t wanna talk about certain stuff or keep it low that’s okay we aren’t entitled at all. it’s no pressure cause we will be here whenever u are ready🤎
McKenna I’m praying for you & your family❤️ thank you for even sharing this, because you didn’t have to. God surely has a plan & you’re all in the palm of His hands!
Girl thats how I am! Dont apologize for being a mom. My son is 10 and i cried when he first went to daycare at 9 months, and I cry at every grade that he went into. It doesnt get easier. He will be going into 5th grade soon, and its sad, but we have to thank God that he gave our little ones another day on this earth, and we as parents are blessed to see them grow. We just need to count our blessings.
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers 🙏🏾 You have so much support from your online community. We’re going to have your back no matter what. Everything is going to work out. This is only temporary, God got you covered and protected always! 💯 Your mental health is very important especially having 3 small children. So take however long you need to get yourself together. We’ll still be here whenever you decide to come back! We love you and the boys so much! You got this. ♥️🙏🏾🫶🏾👏🏾😊
I love short form content!!! "shower routine", "deep clean with me", "what eat in a day" ex. So maybe doing shorter videos like that would help and its still very entertaining and that can be easier for your mental.💜
Praying for you and your family. I am almost 50 years old and I call you my ray of sunshine. I enjoy your channel and admire how intelligent and so much wisdom you have at such a young age. I know this may be a difficult time for you but I know if you continue to seek God and build your relationship with him you will be better than alright and you will be a blessing to others. You are a beautiful and wonderful mom. Keep on striving for greatness. Can't wait to see the wedding! Thank you for sharing your life with us. May God bless you and better days are ahead. ❤❤
Y’all making me cry, thank you guys so much for all the words of encouragement 😭😭😭
We love you ❤
Im crying 4 mins in lol 🥹🫶🏽 we love you girl !
We love you so much, we are sisters in Christ, we’re supposed to lift each other up… that’s what we’re here for😘
You don't know how much you helped us, so it's only right to return the favor.
You are WELL Loved! 🥰
Aw Mckenna! This video made me want to cry. Sending you lots of love and prayers and wishing you the best!
Thank you 🫶🏽
I did cry😢
This video made me cry too. Nothing like being authentic and just human. Prayers to you and your family Mckenna
Aww love you both❤
My husbands been gone for almost 7 yrs. You will get through it. You have great kids, your a great mom and a passion for RUclips. Keep yourself busy!! It’s hard in the beginning but get easier.
Literally anyone that takes there time to throw shade at you is miserable AF You post about cleaning your home, self-care, and taking care of your family. Just basic envious fans that couldn't keep subscribers interested if they tried. You're doing amazing protect your peace. You got this McKenna ❤️
I’m so sorry you’re feeling this way, and although we don’t know each other personally please know we’re all here for you! Your videos have been there for me through my toughest times and hopefully we can be there for you through yours! 🩵🩵🩵
I highly recommend you go back to school so you have something to fall back on. For your own happiness. You deserve it. You pour so much of your self into others, it can be hard to do for you. You’re very young and give yourself grace. ❤😘💯
I totally agree with this statement. She is young and has so much potential. Plan B is always good.
Plan b doesn’t always have to be school coming from a student herself. I understand you’re trying to encourage her, but maybe broadening the plan b suggestion!
@@thegirljustmari she has been contemplating going back to school, she said it several times on her vlogs
@@n_dhlamini4528back to school for what? She already makes so much money and is living the dream that us people with degrees want
Girl, you're hurting! I love seeing your vlogs, honestly you're the only RUclipsr I watch but that's because of your authenticity!
We don't need to give you permission to take time off during this period but rest assured we will be all here when/if you come back.
I will definitely be here!
These 20 minutes videos are okay McKenna. You don’t have to do 1 or 2 hour vlogs. We know that it takes a lot to put these videos into motion. The filming. The editing. Everything. We got you girl. Take care of your mental. We love you and we are here for you. ❤
to speak on 6:20 the first step in being in control of your own narrative on the internet is if it ever gets too overwhelming you can log out and immerse yourself in the relationships you created in real life. easier said than done, but you’ve built a family of support that are praying and rooting for you. take the necessary breaks you need at any point in time. you are your first priority 🫶🏽
This this this!!!!!
love this , so beautifully said !
Exactly!!!
Give yourself some grace. You’re a mom, a fiancé BUT you’re a WOMAN first. Take your time. Do what you need to do for yourself and those boys. Praying 🙏🏾 for you!
Let's gather here for a Group hug🤗🤗🤗🤗❤. We love you McKenna❤️. Love from Botswana, Africa🇧🇼
Girl…you had me tearing up. You got this. You are so strong to be so young. You have inspired me at 40 years old to grow my relationship with God. Got me going to church, reading my Bible, and saying my prayers for my children. Lean on God during this time and just know we will be here when you get yourself situated 💕
Me too
that makes me so happy 🙏🏽❤️
Just the other day on TikTok a girl was in target buying products and she mentioned your name and how you put her on. I commented and said that your name doesn’t get mentioned enough!!!! You’re a GOAT!!! You put so many of us girls onto how to take care of ourselves as women. We love you McKenna!🫶🏽
You are doing an amazing job!! I raised three after divorce. It was a challenge but it was done!! You can do it beautiful and you are doing it!!! Blessings and continued faith!!
it breaks my heart seeing you sad but just know GOD will be with your family through this transition of your life. We love you and send you much love and peace 🫶🏼
Oh sweet girl, let yourself cry and get it out. Give yourself as much grace and space as you need. Transitional seasons bring so much emotion. ❤
McKenna it’s time to do things for you not everyone else!! We love you and we will be here when you come back!! Don’t feel guilty for leaving. Your mental, physical, and emotional health are what’s important in this moment! You are a great mother and you are their hero!! God will get yall through this and He’s there waiting for you to talk to him! You got this babes ❤️
I’m a mom of two girls, they’re dad just got back home after being incarcerated for 3 years.. you will find your balance. I had no idea what I was going to do once we found out he was going to be gone awhile but I made it and you will too you never know who your inspiring 🥹 you inspire me always as usual 🫶🏼 sending you a lot of love
At the end of the day you are a MUVA, a MOTHER the whole 9! Which means you are equipped with a certain strength that is inexplainable! God will literally force a power out of you that is gonna make you show up and show out for them babies okay ❤️ moms always find a way to make it happen one way or another I have no doubt 🥹🫶🏾
With that being said you can do this even if it looks differently than before YOU CAN DO IT
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I like this
Thissssssss. The equipped with a certain strength that women with no kids have!
@@Naiki29 I think because after you have kids it literally changes you from the inside out 😭😭😭
You got this sis. Don't forget to allow yourself time to grieve and release. Don't bottle everything up.
Know that God has you! Often times isolation comes before elevation and trust me it’s gets lonely but it’s not forever. You will be stronger, wiser, and better because of this. Embrace the process and continue to glow up. Allow God to be your source! Love you girl and I’m praying for all of you!
I definitely cried with you Kenna 😢😢 I pray everything works out for you. God didn’t bring you this far to leave you girl 🫶🏽🫶🏽
I worked night shifts in such a toxic work environment and your videos got me through so many shitty nights. You truly spread so much positivity and authenticity. Take all the time you need but also don’t forget what sets you apart from other vloggers is your realness so don’t be afraid to show it. Sending so much love and strength your way.
I can’t say I know what you’re going through but I know that prayer helps. I’ll pray for you and you continue to do that as well. You’re such a strong beautiful woman and we are here for you and we love you so we’ll be patient. Mental health is important so take all the time you need to make sure you are good.
I can feel the heaviness on your heart, and just want you to remember that God is waiting for you to give it all to him. He already planned it all out and just wants you to trust. You are strong, you are loved and you can get through this. Please give yourself grace while you’re hurting, there’s always pressure to do better and be better but you are doing the best you can right now. Every time I face a hardship in life, I keep reminding myself that this too shall pass. It’s a season of your life that you’ll get through and the blessings are on the way. You will be in many of our prayers and I’m proclaiming this over your life that you will feel peace and happiness all throughout these days.
Logging off and tapping into yourself is the best thing for you right now.
I just said a prayer for you. You got this girl. Love to you, your man and kids.
Girl, you’re only 24?!?!?! You are very youthful looking but I am in awe with your maturity level and strength Jesus! You are handling this journey with such grace. You are able to take on so much but still remain beautiful and calm. Wow!
…don’t stop vlogging!…your season right now will help others…don’t worry about the negative comments…we all have people that aren’t kind to us…don’t let then win…the ones that adore you are who matter…WE love you!!…💕💕💕…XoXo💕
At first I was like no she need to take time off but then I thought to myself this is also a testimony. Because another mom somewhere is going through the same thing.
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Sending you strength Kenna. It is a lot but you will be okay. Don’t stop vlogging. Whilst it will be hard; it will be helpful to you and your mental. We love you!
One thing I always have to remind myself that I learned from you is God will not give you any situation you can't handle. You got this girl! Sending you all the positive vibes and love and a big air hug 🖤
Thank you baby❤️
Girl I need to write this because I have complete faith in God. Sometimes we believe in some sort of capacity that we have control over things, whether that be that certain things could have been avoidable or that we made “bad” or even “good” choices, girl this is WRITTEN! You are intended to grow in your faith & rely on Him in alll circumstances, you’re not supposed to be self sufficient, your power comes from GOD! This was always meant to happen! God has GOT YOU!!! Don’t you forget it! God bless your family & girl don’t be afraid to step into your power beyond what you even thought capable and GROW in your faith! Let there be JOY! ❤️
Amen❤
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Y’all preaching in these comments! Amen! 🙏🏾
Been in your shoes, my kids were 6 and 7, they are now 20 and 21. The strength of a mother is unbelievable, I never thought I’d get thru those days , I had to dig deep to keep my heart whole for my babies and I know you’ll do the same. They can’t keep him forever !! Prayers up ❤️🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽
😢😢😢😢I missed McKenna I pray that God gives you direction in whatever decision you take💕and more clarification.
McKenna, this was incredibly huge and strong of you to be this vulnerable during this particular season of your life. I appreciate you for sharing even though you did not have to. You will absolutely be in my prayers. Don't put too much more on you just because you think you need to. Just let it flow and allow the Most High to lead the way.. Thanks again.
Weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning. Psalm 30:5. McKenna your sorrow won’t last forever. I feel your pain and I know that God will see you through for He is able and is a God of the impossible. I pray God’s strength for you. Stay strong in Jesus.🙏🏼❤️
One of my favorite Bible verses🙏🏽
It kept my head up during the times of the unknown. In fact, it won’t last forever… Thank you God🩷
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My darling to be honest .. for a 25 yr old … I am applauding you 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻you are really doing the best you can … may God give you the strength ❤
Seeing you cry breaks my heart just like it did during the holiday season when your stuff was misplaced I just wanna give you the biggest hug😭😭😭😭
God, when i am weak, you are strong. When i feel unable to keep moving forward, you give me the strength i need to perserve. Please remind me when i feel overwhelmed that you are with me. Refresh my soul, and give me rest. In jesus name, amen.
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When you chocked up and got emotional tears rolled out of my eyes. I felt your pain and i pray for your strength and happy reunion with your fiancé. Please take care of yourself and enjoy your life as much as you can. All shall pass and one day you’ll look back at things and you’ll appreciate how stronger you’ve become. ❤❤❤
Listen, we love you. God is recreating both your lives so your future following the wedding will be what you’ve prayed for since y’all were young + more! We are here for you, lean on us and fall into your hobbies and your family. We got you. God got you.
Mckenna!!!!!!!! Not the mom guilt! Omg I want to hug you! That broke my heart hearing you say that. All I can do is pray!
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I have seen so much growth from you within the past couple of years I’ve been watching you! I send out prayers to you and yours. We love you and will give you the time you need to get back to YOU! ❤️
I hope you are surrounded by so much love and light rn😭😭 please please stay around ppl who actually POUR into you during this time!
McKenna I literally came across your video last night my 1 year old sat still and watched you and she settled down and went to sleep your voice is so relaxing and I literally enjoyed watching you. So Thank you so much for being your beautiful self!! And sharing your journey. I love your house it’s so beautiful! I am in my 40’s and I am rooting and praying for you ❤
I cried with you, it’s going to work out. Everything always does. My favorite person on RUclips, anything you choose I’m supporting. God got you and so do I 🥹❤️
Not me crying at how the babies are getting so much bigger 🥹🥹
You’re doing such a great job McKenna 🎉
I felt this in my bones… I’m 24 with 3 under 3… trying to figure out life and some days I think I have it figured out and others I feel so lost. When you’re trying to be a mommy it just becomes that much more overwhelming. You’ve been a major inspiration and I’m praying that you find peace and strength during this time! I’m going through it too and there’s days of rage, days of sadness, days of confusion, but I know the Lord is with us and we’ll be ok in the end! ❤
A woman that wears many hats! Prayers for you to get through this season✨ Thank you for always being you!
Mckenna our self care, Queen. We love you and your family. Your mental health is very important to us. You are a child of God. And a mom .Do whatever it is that keeps you happy, healthy, and strong. Sending blessings, peace, and love. God will protect 🙏 lots of things coming to you. I will be praying for you ❤🎉❤
My heart goes out to you McKenna, you are stronger than you realize!! It’s ok to cry, it’s cleansing the soul, just remember trials don’t last always, you are blessed and God is with you!! Watching you inspires me and I’m almost 50, and that may not change anything you’re going through but know you have so much support & love out here! Hugs & prayers ❤
We missed you and the family. Praying for discernment and joy as you walk through this new season. Please reconsider renting your home out. If possible, stay in the home as it will provide peace, comfort, and consistency for the boys. If remaining there is not peaceful, obviously do what's best for the family. Wishing you the absolute best, going forward. Don't forget to stay in prayer.
Girl oh my gosh. You making me cry. You’re the only content creator that I can relate and enjoy. We understand what you’re going through. We love you and appreciate this good content you’ve always put out. We support you!!!!
It's okay if you want to take a break. You're going through a lot right now and if it takes months or even years of putting youtube on the backburner while you figure things out and get your life together then take that. Don't feel forced to continue to make us happy, i'll gladly wait while you get things together. Just focus on your family and God, you need them the most right now! All the love Kenna 🤍
McKenna girl!!! First off, Glod bless you and your journey with everything! My man and I have been doing long distance for a year and a half now, and I know your situation is different, so I know it’s not comparable, but I know being away from your man ain’t easy! You got this! You have always been my go to whenever I’ve needed inspiration to keep going and I know you’ve got it now!!! Take your take time mama! I’ve been going one day at a time and I believe in it. Be there for them babies and yourself and you’ll get there day by day. God bless you!!! Stay strong!!!
I’m genuinely praying for you and standing as a sister you can lean on spiritually and physically. You are not alone and changes that are out of your control can be hard . Please take the time you need to establish a routine to make it easier on you. My kids’s father decided to move out of state for his job, leaving me with 4 kids to raise by myself on a daily basis . He visits sometimes on the weekends if he can. Once i established a routine it made the change so much easier on me ! I’m now able to take my kids on mini vacations and staycations by myself comfortably , since I established a routine. Also, please look into getting your baby ear tubes. My son would get ear infections frequently and they would make him have febrile seizures. Ear tubes are preventative measures and doesn’t hurt them in any way!
Praying for you girl! Life can get overwhelming and it sucks when things are out of your control. I want you to know you are strong enough to handle this season of life and you have a lot of people praying for you and your family. There will continue to be hard days , but just take it one day at a time ❤
I've been in this situation before, and I understand the emotional roller coaster. Just pray for strength and give yourself grace that you can't do everything.
it won’t be as long as it has been! you got this - this is just a moment in time that you will absolutely make it through. in sending you perseverance, patience, and strength.
It's okay McKenna let those tears fall so you can release those emotions that bring you sadness. God bless your heart and soul. 🤍
Been there. Two boys. 23 years old. Father gone away for 24 months. Working full time. Juggling everything!!! Such a hard time. But u will get through it. And you’ll come out stronger. Sending love and prayers your way
@Mangoos393for real.
Hardly comment but i just wanted to say you're strong than you think you are and should you feel weak PRAY TO GOD to give you strength ❤.
McKenna, I felt this. Praying for you my love. God’s got you & will give you the strength during this season. You are shining so bright in the midst of everything, God is working behind the scenes for your good
Girl I wish I could hug you!!! You WILL and CAN make it through this with the GRACE of GOD!! He will carry you! 🤍 please take as much time as you need!
I watch all the time and rarely comment.
I just want to say how I completely understand your need to take time for yourself, I appreciate that you understand what your viewers need and that you’re not blaming us for your burn out like so many others do…
I also wanted to add that if you’re this good at RUclips then imagine what else you could do with the same energy applied. I can totally see you being a nurse or an aesthetician… much love and praying for your family.
I’ve been having a horrible and emotional day and this just made me feel like I’m not alone.
I’m 25 years old and planning on getting married later this year. I currently live with my grandpa and things have been really difficult with his health. It’s always been my grandpa and I, so the readjustment has really been difficult. Reality has just hit all at once.
Watching from South Africa 🇿🇦
Me too. Sending love xoxo
Praying for you 🙏🏽
Hi McKenna! You don’t have to apologize for anything. Take your time to be where you are. Enjoy the good days and get through the bad. Time, time, time is your friend. In time the dusk will begin to settle, you will keep moving forward and things won’t seem as bad as you thought it was. Stay in your word! I’m praying for you and your family.
Lord plz cover her with your blood and strengthen her and plz lighten her load in Jesus name Amen ❤
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McKenna, I’ve been watching you for a while and love, love your videos and how much you love and take care of your family. I’m 53 and can really appreciate the kind of loving mom you are at such a young age. Real talk - you give me hope for our young black kids. I know I only know what you share, but I can see the genuine love you have for your family. Love, give yourself some grace right now. Please do because you’re going through a lot. Take time for yourself to regroup and adjust to this new norm for now. Everyone makes mistakes - you all will get through this. I know it seems it’s not fair that you have to carry the weight right now but you know your fiancé is a good man at heart and loves you and his family. I wish you and your family all the best. Anyone that has anything negative to say, block them because they are just haters at this point. You are amazing. Take time out to for you to regroup and straighten your crown Queen!
The girls that get it get! No vlogger should feel obligated to produce content when they are not feeling it. Life be lifing and we will patiently wait for that notification bell. Sending positive vibes your way babe ❤❤❤
Yes! This!
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4:17 been there babe. Seriously been there. It feels so hard. But the light is showing. ❤ I’m sending you the most positive vibes on top of being able to feel your pain directly
Girl you are doing good don't be hard on yourself. I'm about to be 40 and still trying to find what I enjoy to do
I’m 43 and starting a new career!
Dear McKenna sending you lots of love, hugs and prayers. Of the challenges you have faced in life know that this will not do you in. It will get better with time.❤
Aww 😢 I’m so sorry you are going through all of this. I’m a over-sharer too but this is your life and your journey and although we appreciate you sharing your life with us, please know that you aren’t obligated to do so. Do what’s best for your mental and your boys. We will be here whenever you’re ready to come back ❤
I was ugly crying with you Kenna!!! We all support you & love you! You’re stronger than you know girl! This too shall pass & all will be restored and renewed ❤️ Praying for your family & praying for your strength 🙏🏾
Praying for peace and comfort. You’re such a good mom and a sweet person. Take care of you and your babies. Don’t worry about people who don’t have a dog in your fight. It’s not going to be easy but you got this. Pray a lot and you’ll be okay.
You are phenomenal you are so young but so mature and have done so much for yourself at your age i hope you give yourself some grace when you have so many older people who looks up to you keep going when you’re doing at your leisure we are here for you. Thanks for being that girlie that showed us how important but easy self care can be we love you kenna keep doing you !
Girl the way I flew in from your instagram story ✈️ I was like who made my girl cry! I know I barely comment but please take as much time off as you need I’m praying for you and your family, walk by faith not by sight 🫶🏾 you got this mama, love ya girl 💗
14:00 broke me...I'm so sorry Kenna. I love you and your family so much, I'll be praying for you guys.
Unfortunately being in the public eye comes with its cons. You are MORE than blessed and that irritates people’s demons. This season of your life is only a temporary test. You’re stronger than you think! Hold onto God, stay close to those who mean you well, and keep being the great Mom that you are! This too shall pass …😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘
Mckennnaaa! im cryingggg! You are an amazing MOM. let me just start there. I’m 27 and have a one year old and I literally watch you in AWE of how amazing you are with THREE kids especially at your age! & let me just say I didn’t wake up with ANY SUPER POWERS at 25 😂.
Im sending you so much love girl! i pray that God keeps you and comforts you. 💜
Thank you for being so honest, open, and transparent with us. 😢
Girlll…got me crying like a mess!!! Continued prayers for you and the family! And the real days one are here for you girl! I LOVE your content!!!
Kenna do what you need to do to heal yourself and take care of those babies! The real ones that have been here will be here. Praying for you and the adjustments you’re having to make. Love you girl!!
25 is such a transformational year and life itself is something. Give yourself lots of grace, cry out to the Lord and take one moment at a time and he will carry you through. Find you a church community or a community of moms with faith that can help walk out this season with you. Pray for community!! Praying God’s peace over you and grace during transition.
Love you!!!! Cane is getting huge btw! 🥰
Girl, you cry all you need to. I'll be crying right along with you. Sending prayers and love from Alabama. ❤️
We love you McKenna. Take the time you need right now, we’ll be here when you’re mentally ready to start back vlogging. You’re a great person & an amazing mother! I pray this season of life for you will help you grow in ways you didn’t think you’d know you could grow in. You have a lot on your plate now, but you know God will never add more than we can handle. Praying for your strength through all of this. God bless you and your family. ❤
I already knew what it was when you missed last week. Please take your time! Those of us who truely care for you (even through a screen) know that your health and real life come first. Keep taking your burdens to GOD everyday and he will keep you ❤. We’re here whenever you’re ready friend.
I cried with you girl your babies are growing up so fast but cherish the good times… you’re a great mother a beautiful soul take all the time you need boo you’re going to come out of this season better then before we love you boo stay strong the outcome is bigger then the challenge ❤️
Ideas we’d love to see from you:
1. If you’re moving - the journey to downsizing
2. Short updates of your journey to competing new goals (esthetician, nursing, etc)
3. Short (15-30min) day in the life videos where you show short clips of your day.
4. Cozy spiritual journey talks (blankets, hot tea kinda vide)
It may be a good idea for you to batch create quicker content when you do feel like filming so the days/weeks where you need time away you still have content to put out without overwhelming or burning out
Thank you I love those ideas ❤️
And what do you say to the kids during these absences as that may help others that are going through or about to go through the same or similar situations.
Right. But why is he absent@@MotivatedByGodsBlessings
Girl, I appreciate you sharing with us even though you don't have to. Everyone is going through their own seasons in life and it's okay to give yourself grace 🤍
bye- why was I tearing up with you😭 girl take ur timeeeee because family comes first. im only 18 but your videos inspire me and you keep it real which we love!!! if u don’t wanna talk about certain stuff or keep it low that’s okay we aren’t entitled at all. it’s no pressure cause we will be here whenever u are ready🤎
Thank you girl 🩵
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McKenna I’m praying for you & your family❤️ thank you for even sharing this, because you didn’t have to. God surely has a plan & you’re all in the palm of His hands!
Girl thats how I am! Dont apologize for being a mom. My son is 10 and i cried when he first went to daycare at 9 months, and I cry at every grade that he went into. It doesnt get easier. He will be going into 5th grade soon, and its sad, but we have to thank God that he gave our little ones another day on this earth, and we as parents are blessed to see them grow. We just need to count our blessings.
You got this girl….. you are a great mom and I know you gonna be a great wife and I’m sending prayers up for you and your family ❤❤❤
I pray God shows up to you majorly in this situation❤️You can take all the time you need off and we’ll be praying for you🥺❤️
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers 🙏🏾
You have so much support from your online community. We’re going to have your back no matter what. Everything is going to work out. This is only temporary, God got you covered and protected always! 💯
Your mental health is very important especially having 3 small children. So take however long you need to get yourself together. We’ll still be here whenever you decide to come back! We love you and the boys so much! You got this. ♥️🙏🏾🫶🏾👏🏾😊
I love short form content!!! "shower routine", "deep clean with me", "what eat in a day" ex. So maybe doing shorter videos like that would help and its still very entertaining and that can be easier for your mental.💜
Take as much time as you need to heal emotionally and come back when you’re ready. We’re here for you!!!!!!
You’re going to get through this rough patch. Breathe, be still, sit in your feelings and know they will not last forever.
Praying for you and your family. I am almost 50 years old and I call you my ray of sunshine. I enjoy your channel and admire how intelligent and so much wisdom you have at such a young age. I know this may be a difficult time for you but I know if you continue to seek God and build your relationship with him you will be better than alright and you will be a blessing to others. You are a beautiful and wonderful mom. Keep on striving for greatness. Can't wait to see the wedding! Thank you for sharing your life with us. May God bless you and better days are ahead. ❤❤