there is nothing bad about it - think that way in old times one main person was the leader and many son/grandkids where taken care by elderly person - same concept but now that individual income is happening they have to take the responsibility
The irony is that nowadays in most couples only one of them is honest and sincerely working on the marriage, the other is just trying to take advantage. If husband is trying, then wife is the culprit and if wife is the sincere one husband is the culprit
this will not chagne till the end of this world. lol . nature decided like this way . go and watch baja govindam lyrics . Once breadwinner is women she wil control the relationship making it un easy for both. @@KaranBagga87
@@KaranBagga87 for that the gynocentric laws of marriage also has to change , compulsory dna testing of child at birth, no alimony for an independent women etc tbose have to happen first do you agree?
@@GODdankthen there should be a law that you can't force your independent wife to do household chores. both will equally pay for the maid and will pay for their own expenses.
@@AM-nx2iw only if both work and the type of profession the man has for example if the man does labour intensive job like a construction worker,surgeon or any of those types of jobs the man is already exahuasted he should not have to come and do house chores if that is the case the same goes for the women. For a good relationship balance has to be maintained.
I wrote exactly this in my comment that girls would not wanna marry if they were to become Bhikhari after giving years into marriage instead of earning for themselves?
Ki kora pabey ? Tomra sudhu Boro lok khujba to pabey Poisa poisa kora chaley khojo Ar jokhon sai poisa wala onno may nia moja kora tokhon tomar jhaal laga jai 😂😂😂😂 Dosh ta tomader Women is Worst decision maker@@Jdiodkdndggs
She is talking from life experience. In her first marriage, she was thrown out of the house with just 750 rupees in her hand. Her own divorce battle took 8 years and she was abused and character assassinated. She has emerged like a Phoenix.
Dont rush on your marriage. See a girl through and through. Dont hesitate if she is bit elder, bit shorter or bit dusky. You never know if she is the one who will be treating your parents better than you, teaching your kids better than school and loving you more than anything. Respect is the key. Also dont marry someone who has dated mindlessly before. The flashbacks of her past will ruin your marriage.
@amisri5026 I will engage with married woman only, no risk of divorce, No live in and full enjoyment. No commitment. No obligation, no responsibilities, no children. I WILL BE ABLE TO CONCENTRATE ON CAREER AND HUGE MONEY AS THEIR WILL BE NO Responsibilities. WILL BECOME A VICE PRESIDENT, SENIOR VICE PRESIDENT in a MNC AND WILL ENGAGE IN CASUAL DATING AND MARRIED WOMAN ONLY. VERY SIMPLE FUNDA IN LIFE
Yeah but what she said was a bit confusing. She told men to not have joint property with their wives and then told women to get their names under at least one property to have a roof over her head.? 👀
There are false 498a and rape cases and DV cases just for money and land and laws are so biased they dont listen to man side and tilk the time his turn comes he is alsready been to jail, a d dorced to pay maintenence. As per NCRB there are 90% false 498a and 80% rape cases. Ao women can easily get money by false case where as men suffer BUT what this trend is doing is causing the taint to the reputation who are actually suffering.
@@abhimanyu7748 yeah according to me, I think it is much better to buy a house together after marriage instead of living with in-laws, and pay the EMI of that house together as well so at least if it comes to divorce, no one would feel bad to divide the assets value 50/50. And it would be easier to buy a new house that way too.
I will engage with married woman only, no risk of divorce, No live in and full enjoyment. No commitment. No obligation, no responsibilities, no children. I WILL BE ABLE TO CONCENTRATE ON CAREER AND HUGE MONEY AS THEIR WILL BE NO Responsibilities. WILL BECOME A VICE PRESIDENT, SENIOR VICE PRESIDENT, AND WILL ENGAGE IN CASUAL DATING AND MARRIED WOMAN ONLY. VERY SIMPLE FUNDA IN LIFE
For those who don’t know, the industrialist is Sandeep Toshniwal and his estranged wife Dr.Ashrita, a Mumbai-based dentist. The Bollywood actress is Karishma Kapoor, sister of Kareena Kapoor who had filed for divorce from her ex-husband Sunjay Kapoor.
Nambi narayan was not a anti national guy You don't know anything He got so many offers but he rejected He was a Princeton graduate Some people trapped him Supreme court said he Is innocent @@dhanamjayas
So before having a meal, you check everyone in your neighborhood has eaten? Why should I care about other people and other timelines. I will only care about my wellbeing. Do you care about the men who do vast majority of dangerous jobs? No you don't and you shouldn't have to. Similarly men need to look after themselves.
@@thusspokezarathustra1847 "do you care about men who do dangerous jobs"? do you mean workers? the proletariat? the labourers? because when we do talk about the conditions of the mines which btw also employ children people like you start throwing around words like commie like insults. do you care about the men in gaza dying for no reason? do you care about the congo crisis which also affects believe it or not men? do you support the farmers here? many protesting rn are also men. do you care about manual scavengers? it's a job that shouldn't exist but does because casteism
I grew up in an upper-middle-class Indian neighbourhood in the 90s. It was an open secret that 9 out of 10 husbands cheated repeatedly. Some were verbally or physically abusive too. But we rarely saw divorces, the wives had to swallow the bitter pill and look the other way. If divorce was so lucrative, why did it not occur more frequently then, or why do some women rather kill themselves instead of getting divorced. I can't help but wonder what changed from then to now.
Social stigma has changed over the years. Also society cares less now a days about others. For example Now pornstars have become celebs. In 90s they would have been ostracized from society. Previously a divorcee was seen with a very stigmatized lens. Now every alternative household may have one person getting divorce. After few month of gossip, No one judges whether you got divorce or how much money you got in alimony.
@nickim270 I think, not much has changed. Getting a divorce is still a hassle and expensive for a middle class family. Also, less women are financially dependent on their husbands now. And can earn a living on their own.
@@hitesh6245 it definitely is a good development and I feel sad when people are against divorces and want women to compromise and live in an abusive marriage in the name of culture and traditions
When she said the man gets richer and finds her wife not good enough... Is said. My parents went through divorce idk the reason I'm still trying my best to find out I'm still 19 and i think I've right to find out.. This gives me attachment anxiety.. My mom and dad both are Living their new lives with new spouse I'm with my father and I feel I'm the one suffering from their separation the most! It's scary relationship are really scary
It's so rewarding to have a good partner no matter what changes in life. These rich people have no clue what they miss out on. God evens it out eventually.
that's basic.. no one want to see their child grow up in poor household. just like not every women wants to be mothers, similary not every guy deserves a woman@@roshinitoenlightenment
nobody wants to willingly choose a bad person. Where is the question of missing out! Maybe its the payoff of our karma but nobody wants bad people in their life. Don't blame someone for missing things out. They did not want it that way.
If u had to take so many precautions and feel like u need protection from ur own spouse, just don't enter into that relationship, better not marry. The best advice is to not marry until u feel like ur marriage is definitely going to add to ur happiness and not to ur insecurities. No trust, no marriage. Also take care to not be blackmailed into trusting.
And also stop using social media like insta... Use your free time doing anything else...Visit temple, walk/long drive with your partner, learn new item to cook for your partner 😌❤️
Problem is when you are so calculated like what she says..ypur marriage is bound to fail and youll end up needing her..choose the right person no hurry.
I always felt middle class is the community that is upholding the values, culture and tradition of our country but it was just a hunch based on my observation of my surroundings. But now this video confirms it. Middle class is actually great. Meanwhile the poor and rich are not that different. Both get drunk and pass out on the kerbs, both have no culture and dont value tradition, both get involved in scandals, both have no inhibitions etc The root cause of thehir behaviour ? For the poor its the lack of money and for the rich its the abundance of money. Middle class live their life on moderation. Proud to be one
The middle class doesn't exist. If you earn 25000, you are in the top ten percent of earners in the country. The poor are the middle class de facto. And stop feeling morally superior to the poor; you force them to work for you for barely a living wage, and then when they drink to forget their troubles, you sneer at them. If tomorrow, all the farm labourers, all the sanitation workers and maids, all the mechanics and plumbers, all the street vendors of groceries vanished, your precious society would be on its ass.
Listening to this after being shot, it took me 6 years to meet my own daughter introduce myself, inform my 7 year old my name... It isn't only about the money - torcher is prevalent on both sides but identified as women's issue only in our country...
@madhusmitasethi768 I will engage with married woman only, no risk of divorce, No live in and full enjoyment. No commitment. No obligation, no responsibilities, no children. I WILL BE ABLE TO CONCENTRATE ON CAREER AND HUGE MONEY AS THEIR WILL BE NO Responsibilities. WILL BECOME A VICE PRESIDENT, SENIOR VICE PRESIDENT, AND WILL ENGAGE IN CASUAL DATING AND MARRIED WOMAN ONLY. VERY SIMPLE FUNDA IN LIFE
I was cheated by my husband when pregnant, I started crying and checking things then he decided to divorce me. He tried to bring a married lady to USA and split all our assets. I didn’t get support from law because he would run away and not even pay child support. I took some steps to break his internet affair and wanted to leave after that then he started begging me not to end the marriage because of baby. When he was leaving he never cared about baby. I don’t feel like buying any assets with him anymore.
Its better be scary bcos you raja betas are always the privileged one when it comes to indian marriage market. I mean no matter how bad u guys look you know your mom will find you the best looking young girl after rejecting and judging almost 20 girls ..thad lady will become the slave of your house for the rest of her life. That has been norm of our typical indian society which is still practiced in many parts of india and u guys also believe in it. But fortunately women have their own voice now , they cant be fooled , they have understood their worth and wont take bullshxt for anyone . Her parents have also invested in her education She too works hard. So she gives it back and thats where problem starts
.don't see the beauty of the girl ..see the family. Ensure the girl mother is docile..in most cases it's mother and the character she inculcate into girl matters...
Much better to marry with foreigner like in PHILIPINES or RUSSIA or NEPAL instead of indian girl, CROSS BORDER divorce would be very hard and forgot about COMPENSATION
@@oldskoolmusicnostalgia Right. It is like a gambling. If you get good, loyal partner then your life is good otherwise heartbreaks and challenges are inevitable.
@@aileen8492no I don't think it's true. A lot of people have said these post-break up that the red flag signs were always there. They just overlooked it until they couldn't. I'm pretty sure with divorce also it's the same. What I feel is you should date each other for at least 4-5 yrs to know whether you're compatible or not with each other and then think about marriage.
I will engage with married woman only, no risk of divorce, No live in and full enjoyment. No commitment. No obligation, no responsibilities, no children. I WILL BE ABLE TO CONCENTRATE ON CAREER AND HUGE MONEY AS THEIR WILL BE NO Responsibilities. WILL BECOME A VICE PRESIDENT, SENIOR VICE PRESIDENT, AND WILL ENGAGE IN CASUAL DATING AND MARRIED WOMAN ONLY. VERY SIMPLE FUNDA IN LIFE
I am a woman and I supported my partner for 6 years while he had absolutely nothing in the bank. And when he finally became rich, he started beating me. Brutal separation. Men suck.
We are really sorry for whatever happened to you.😢 you should date someone else. You will definitely find a guy will love you. Nobody should generalise and say one gender sucks.
Food for thought!!! the law of a country speaks a volume about its people 's mentality. meanwhile in india. Adultry is legal but prenup is not? what does that says about us as a socity!!!!
It says that women's participation in the workforce is low and the govt has to think abt such ppl as well. And what better way that making them someone else's responsibility
People have to be taught how to find a good partner rather than all this coz it is your partner and the kids you have with who you have a long lasting relationship in your life and your friends don’t deserve as much credit rarely they stay throughout your life.
A very fascinating video, this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
Hi...I'm sorry you are going through this. However, it is not her that you're missing. These obsessive thoughts about her, you not being able to stop thinking about her, not being able to see your life with anyone else but her- all of this indicates an issue that runs much deeper. It deals with your unmet childhood needs. I have been through what you're going through and trust me, I can relate. Here's a video to help you get out of this rut. It definitely kickstarted my journey of getting out of the rut that I was in and I'm sure it will help you as well. Here's the link: ruclips.net/video/8ExpDtgRnLc/видео.html You will get out of this phase. You just need to get to the root of why you're in there in the first place. Good luck, and best wishes :)
@@wonhur885arre you are a educated person pls don't get into these kinds of fraud are kise toh jana hota hai toh woh chala jata hai. You don't nedd those people. Start your healing do lots of self love and pls love is not the only thing imp in life. And you will meet someone more good and amazing in the future you just need to be patient.
I just love this woman. She advocates for both sides. I especially love how she advocates for women's financial independence. It's not only beneficial for the woman but for the family s a whole.
Pre-nup is not illegal. It is legal in Goa. In other places, it is a big grey area and courts are ruling in favour of pre-nup. It is being said that UCC will validate pre-nup but nobody wants to give up money received for free.
I will engage with married woman only, no risk of divorce, No live in and full enjoyment. No commitment. No obligation, no responsibilities, no children. I WILL BE ABLE TO CONCENTRATE ON CAREER AND HUGE MONEY AS THEIR WILL BE NO Responsibilities. WILL BECOME A VICE PRESIDENT, SENIOR VICE PRESIDENT, AND WILL ENGAGE IN CASUAL DATING AND MARRIED WOMAN ONLY. VERY SIMPLE FUNDA IN LIFE
Mark my words, Next 10 years in India, Divorce rate is gonna SKY ROCKET.... Everyone will have atleast 1 individual in their aquaintance who got divorced or getting divorced.. I can see change in People's behavioural pattern. Millenials, Gen Z are getting more self centric. Take screenshot of this. See after 10 years India's Family culture system is slowly dying.
I don't think so Indian people tend to marry at generally 27-30 unlike America europe where there are lot of teenage couple getting married and in India getting a divorce relatively harder.
I as man think, firstly we should try to earn more and more money then marry a good girl or if you are unable to be rich it is good to marry a poor good lady
It’s a great intersection into how finance and a divorce overlap with each other. Which is why this conversation is important but there is somewhat of a bias between who can abuse and who can’t . A rich guy can only be exploited but a woman can’t experience emotional abuse, unavailability at the hands of a rich guy but she can face abuse in middle class and poor families only. It assumes that because a rich guy is educated he cannot be abusive whereas there are many such examples.Infact rich guys can be abusive because of having many options. They are higher instances of cheating their spouses.
You are right...some data released last month is that rich people divorce rate very less than the middle class.. so mutual understanding between couples is to healthy relationship...
Thats y women are being independent and they should. Both have to be financially independent individually. And so dont expect traditional wife. Help her in housework. Keep financials separate but work together for home and family. Ultimately u re marrying someone to have kids and build a family. If suspicion carries on it doesnt keep a healthy relationship. So my advise would be let your wife earn herself l dont stop her to be at home. Keep financials separate. Now a days court are considering earning women wealth while divorcing.
Please also make laws that the women need not share her hard earnings with her husband, that she need not take care of his parents (which will be only his responsibility), can pursue her career, interests and hobbies, need not cook for the entire family but just two of them(or may be only for herself), and need not have to put efforts to please his family, absolute freedom to live life under her terms ( not infidelity/ mannerless/ bad habits)…… for me, if the wife has no career then alimony is a must ! Otherwise no need ! As simple as that.
Why to get married in the first place if you can't think of your partner anything more than a villain ?? That defeats the sole purpose of marriage, that team work or seeing the other as a part of yourself. If you want to earn, have the guts to earn, rather than by standing on someone else's shoulders, be it for man or woman.
Kudos to Sharan for picking this topic up and damn this lady is so mature, experienced and knowledgeable in this. Her expressions and communication skills are actually very good.
When the woman is expected to leave her family and her parents home when she gets married, and has no place in her parents home anymore, then what is her security after she moves into her marital home and with the in-laws?
I feel this whole concept is a very red zone and needs to be changed. Both should leave their home and start a nuclear family and buy their own house and should own the house equally too. And if ever comes a time of divorce then everything should be divided 50/50. Needless to say everything in the marriage should be contributed 50/50 as well.
The Prblm is women have laws to protect their interest but men don't have it. If women cheats she still going to get child custody, property sharing, alimony, maintenance Money etc. But if a men cheats he still looses all those things.
Heh didn't you watch the video? She clearly said that the judge's decision mostly shifts towards the victim in case of adultery even if it is legal cuz no one likes an adulterer.
Women get custody because they are going to be the ones to change a child's diaper, bath them, feed them. Men can file for custody as well they just don't because it's easier to pay money than taking care of a child 24x7.
@@PushkarVichare-tb6hy ok then tell me one case you know around you where women was cheating but the case went against the man. Come out of your delulu world. Any case in India takes years because our law believes no innocent should be punished no matter how long justice takes.
If you are not ready to give 50% of your money to your wife, you shouldn't get married. If you can not divide the household income 50-50 every single month, do not get married. If the wife can not share her income with you 50-50, do not get married. Marriage is a 50-50 partnership. If you can not commit to that partnership, better stay single. Spend at least 7-8 years with your fiance before getting married to understand her completely. My 2 cents.
What's the need to monetary exchange in alliance of consenting two people lol. Both should earn, no need to divide household income. Go for simple court wedding and in case it fails get a mutual divorce without any monetary exchange.
@@AmishKumar-lc7zs There's a difference between roommates and family. In the poor class both the husband and wife has to work like slaves in offices to earn enough money to feed the family. However, when the husband earns more than enough, then the mother can look after the children. She doesn't need to work as an office slave. Brining up children with absent working parents is the worst a parent can do to their children. A slave working in an office doesn't have a higher status than a mother who stays at home. Yes, I am calling all jobs as slavery because it is what it is. No other way to put it. If it is for self-actualization, then do it without pay.
To some extent it’s true. I would give it happily. The question remains of assets on both parents sides.I guess that’s where the scale of acrimony and potential difference would start to affect the outcome
Yeah, those assets should be transferred to a trust or something because that's totally different. Some people might only marry because of such assets.@@mganla
@@KartikiTrivedi I'm leaving India in few months because of this laws. As a man i feel unsafe to live in a country where these people are making this kind of stupid one sided laws
As a woman I'd like to highlight that feminism and constitutional laws are being misused by some of the women, Men to stay safe and alert if they get any false alarms. All women are not misusing their protective rights, there are issues where women are still suffering like work life balance in patriarchy, not having freedom of career, choice and talent, social insecurities, workplace harassment, these are still prevalent across India where true feminism is supposed to be shown.
Divorce settlements often involve significant financial adjustments. Investing strategically can help mitigate the impact and ensure long-term financial stability.
Recently, I got married. This kind of video scares me. She makes sense, though. Personally, I think the laws protect women anyways and we men are screwed financially and emotionally if we get divorced. There's no doubt that divorce has a big impact on our lives. I believe in manifestations. Let's not bring negative energy to a place where there is none. While it's a smart move to plan ahead and life is not always a bed of roses, a marriage is also an emotional one. If we start preparing ourselves for divorce, won't that manifest in our lives too? But all that being said these podcasts are essential. Thanks Sharan❤
Marriage is really scary.Everywhere Mental torture and physical abuse is associated with marriage.I hv seen it around me.U will Not believe No one is Happy 🙄 whether it is Love marriage & arrange marriage.Only Few are only the Lucky one...
Securities Exchange Board of India, vide Regulation 17A of SEBI (LODR) Regulation, 2015, provides that a person shall not be a director in more than 7 listed entities with effect from April 1, 2020. Director in 75 listed companies. The case she is mentioned is it sandeep toshniwal and karishma kapoor? It was in news.
@@ba-dum_tss You are such a stupid .......It does not work that way .......when both partners are making money it becomes joint income. and that is half n half divided between the two party but if he has included his Ancestry properties to add name of his partner or wife He has to pay half to her Plus all man makes women takecare of childeren and if that reason she has to get extra support to child expense for each child - Father has to contribute
she is talking BS no one can sit on board of directors of so many companies , she didnt meet anyone in her gym either its all a made up story and you dont meet gym dudes with 1000 crore networth in a gym they are indoors making deals daily, and with just 20cr net worth you can afford to have a home gym at home..
In mumbai 20 cr is nothing u wont be able to built ur home gym..in suburbs u get 400 sq ft in 1.5 cr..apartments in south mumbai are in 20 -35 crore range..@@arunsadanandabhat8518
Hi Sharan, Make a complete series on this topic from both males and females perspectives, how both can defend their resources, i think this topic still needs proper education and syllabus in India.
Women happily share dominant superior succesfull men as long as the men take care of them. Chastity is valued in women by men, women only value success and provision in men. When a man can take care of a 100 women, they will share him happily - this is something weak pathetic men refuse to understand about the real nature of women.
That’s the basic filtration i use if she looking at my money bye bye from me no matter how much you cry… also i developed an eye for early detection of such people eyeing my money. I respectfully break up with them nd they still wonder what happened really.
OMG such a senior advocate giving wrong information, No women cant claim 50% in a joint loan property just because her name is on the loan, She can only claim as much as she has paid for the loan, If she has paid nothing she gets nothing. Also a women who moves to her in-laws or lives in a house bought by the husband can only claim to live in the house till divorce is finalized, That is a temporary support if she has no other place to go to(if her parents are no more and they didn't have any property she could move into and she herself doesn't have any property). Adultery is a cruelty.
The purpose of the video, is not to get scared of marriage, if you are patient and loyal enough to yourself and your partner, focus on building a successful marriage with love, then divorce wouldnt happen, this is just for educating ourselves in an untowardly situation, marriages our beautiful with a right person beside !! Believe in it !!
People should live in reality. It's not being scared it's being careful. There are literal WhatsApp groups where women plan on getting millions from famous guys like NBA players etc. It's better not to get married.
How differently we see the spouse in a marriage after divorce! Once u have kids , it’s a family even if u r dovorced is what I feel! U can have partners but ur family remains the same! How u treat ur parents and ur kid as yours and ur ex wife as a totally different entity! U can’t exclude her genes from ur kids rt! The way u tell abt ur mom and dad are also a husband and wife relation! How u treat them as one entity and ur divorced wife after Kids as a different one! World is soooo full of money! I feel u have sooo much love for money ! 😊not blaming but just an analysis!
im 37 getting rejected amazingly , why because i never wanted to take a risk, Be brutal before getting married with every single habit in the first call or meet, don't run behind impressing people.
How does Vandana Ji gets compensated? If she settled a 500 crore deal, which is a huge amount, she should be paid accordingly, as she deserves that amount
This video is so informative and fun to watch as well seeing how the Lawyer is chill & cool. We need such kind of information and educational videos especially for us men
Before driving a vehicle, we learn it, we learn courses before job but how many youngsters learn EQ, relationship skills for relationships? How many atleast read magazines, websites where it is about relationships? If they are not learning, why they are even in relationships? this is very scary in our society since ages. People who are not ready for relationships are getting into the relationships(one, if not many) and destroying each other and people who are ready for relationships emotionally are remaining single. This is an irony. Human values are to be put higher value in relationships, or else its business. If u treat relation like a business, better dont even enter into relation and destroy other emotional partner. Relationships are only and only for emotional people, not for materialistic people.
Not everyone is the same, some people need companions after an age while it might sound cool to not marry while young, while some love kids , while other follow the culture/tradition or for religious reasons. both have ad and disadvantages: Not marrying would make you do whatever you wish to and not have any major responsibility except those who are taking care of parents but also are lonely at later stages. Marriage can have lots of responsibility and specially nowadays is of no use for men, but also at later stages you have good companion and children who takes care of you even if it's sometimes provided you have good children and not the bad ones who leave parents.
This has been very insightful and makes so much sense. Being a general lower middle class below median paid employee of MNC in contemporary time, not getting married makes so much sense.
thats the sad fate in this country.. when they copied all the western culture, they didnt copy the import ones like the prenap... that shows how good the law is!
Very sensible! After a marriage still continue to be individual and keep bills separate. It takes ages to get to know someone. No need to put 100% trust into a chance. If youre marrying a good person, they wouldnt have problem with your boundaries
@akhosla9460 nah not all men are that degenerate , atleast a lot i know aren't but you are still right due to things like these becoming so complicated more and more men are pushed towards that idea , i mean wasn't love supposed to be one of the most raw feelings and look at it now how complicated
Women happily share dominant superior successful men as long as the men take care of them. Chastity is valued in women by men, women only value success and provision in men. When a man can take care of a 100 women, they will share him happily - this is something weak pathetic men refuse to understand about the real nature of women. Stop marrying rich and successful guys then. Career women are undesirable to any manly man.
men don't cheat the most, maybe in urban places or selective regions, there is some bias here because my father is a lawyer as well and 70% of the time it's the women cheating. I myself have faced a cheating wife.
Dear GIRLS LISTEN 17:19 WOMEN SHOULD FINANCIALLY WORK✊💥don't forget .. STOP DREAMING N let's START MAKING MONEY through job or by any means .. Be financially Independent as our parents wish n its necessity we've come to know.
Women often talk about men having all the power, money, and control, oppressing women. However, it is important to note that this perception confuses a small percentage of wealthy men with the majority of men who struggle. Most men have no money, no power, no sex from their wife, and face difficulties in court battles, even losing their homes and the chance to see their children. Their lives are challenging. The truth is - ~When a man earns he takes the responsibilities of family. When an women earns she becomes independent. ~When a man earns he may pick a no-earning women and makes her life-partner. When a woman earns she reject a men. ~A strong man can pick broken women and make her life strong. Strong women don’t look after broken men.
Sharan I think you can make some videos educting people to research properly before investing in stock market and also you can recommend some of the safe stocks to invest as a beginner....
I will engage with married woman only, no risk of divorce, No live in and full enjoyment. No commitment. No obligation, no responsibilities, no children. I WILL BE ABLE TO CONCENTRATE ON CAREER AND HUGE MONEY AS THEIR WILL BE NO Responsibilities. WILL BECOME A VICE PRESIDENT, SENIOR VICE PRESIDENT, AND WILL ENGAGE IN CASUAL DATING AND MARRIED WOMAN ONLY. VERY SIMPLE FUNDA IN LIFE
there is difference between Criminalised & Illegal, adultry is always an illegal but non criminalised offence & 1 of main reasons for HIV in Women by cheat husbands at India, kindly be responsible with ur words Vandana Shah, U are a big Lawyear
She is talking about right things and bang on but would have appreciated if she covered the whole context. The podcast is so incomplete. The reasons listed for divorce is so shallow.
@amisri5026 I will engage with married woman only, no risk of divorce, No live in and full enjoyment. No commitment. No obligation, no responsibilities, no children. I WILL BE ABLE TO CONCENTRATE ON CAREER AND HUGE MONEY AS THEIR WILL BE NO Responsibilities. WILL BECOME A VICE PRESIDENT, SENIOR VICE PRESIDENT in a MNC AND WILL ENGAGE IN CASUAL DATING AND MARRIED WOMAN ONLY. VERY SIMPLE FUNDA IN LIFE
Agree with her statements excepting few instances. Divorces are common in Middle class families as well in India. Secondly, it's not the Men always, it has been found that Divorces are mostly initiated by Women these days owing to a heap of choices that a woman has than Men in finding out a new Partner. Moreover, the Law is in favour of the Women which has been found out to be mis-utilised against Men in many of the cases!
When you view everything with the lens of money it goes bad,boy or girl find someone who was culturally bought up they celebrate all festivals and not pampered much and have wisdom,if you go by looks and money that last maximum for 2years you need to connect at a different level once you do you can’t live without each other.
Feeling bad for the good men and women who give their best for their marriage to work.
there is nothing bad about it - think that way in old times one main person was the leader and many son/grandkids where taken care by elderly person - same concept but now that individual income is happening they have to take the responsibility
videos like this bring out the bad in front of us and scares us to shit
The irony is that nowadays in most couples only one of them is honest and sincerely working on the marriage, the other is just trying to take advantage. If husband is trying, then wife is the culprit and if wife is the sincere one husband is the culprit
@Trentz2 so true
@@Trentz2correct 😢
Someone once said, "A man's loyalty is tested when he has everything, a woman's loyalty is tested when her man has nothing."
Its fidelity not loyalty. That's because Indian society is still based on "Man is a breadwinner logic" of the family. This needs to change.
this will not chagne till the end of this world. lol . nature decided like this way . go and watch baja govindam lyrics . Once breadwinner is women she wil control the relationship making it un easy for both. @@KaranBagga87
@@KaranBagga87 for that the gynocentric laws of marriage also has to change , compulsory dna testing of child at birth, no alimony for an independent women etc tbose have to happen first do you agree?
@@GODdankthen there should be a law that you can't force your independent wife to do household chores.
both will equally pay for the maid
and will pay for their own expenses.
@@AM-nx2iw only if both work and the type of profession the man has for example if the man does labour intensive job like a construction worker,surgeon or any of those types of jobs the man is already exahuasted he should not have to come and do house chores if that is the case the same goes for the women. For a good relationship balance has to be maintained.
It's scary to get married. Better to be single than be cheated and go through all these mental exhaustion
Scare kicchu na, bhalo chele dekhe biye koro
@@sayanghosh3544 kothai pawa jai tader. Ami to bari thekei beroina 😂😂😂
@@Jdiodkdndggs "S" diye naam shuru hoy r "ayan" diye naam sesh hoy dekho seo hoyto tomar e moton karuke khujche 😎
I wrote exactly this in my comment that girls would not wanna marry if they were to become Bhikhari after giving years into marriage instead of earning for themselves?
Ki kora pabey ?
Tomra sudhu Boro lok khujba to pabey Poisa poisa kora chaley khojo
Ar jokhon sai poisa wala onno may nia moja kora tokhon tomar jhaal laga jai 😂😂😂😂
Dosh ta tomader Women is Worst decision maker@@Jdiodkdndggs
This woman is very mature and well-informed. She isn't running any agenda or something, just talking practicals. Loved this conversations.
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Its her profession, so naturally she is knowledgeable
@@itn0687many people tend to take sides in their profession too. She doesn't look like those. She even advised women as well to take some precautions.
Bcz she has faced the same with only 750 rupees
She is talking from life experience. In her first marriage, she was thrown out of the house with just 750 rupees in her hand. Her own divorce battle took 8 years and she was abused and character assassinated. She has emerged like a Phoenix.
By listening to this podcast I m getting the vibes like preparing for divorce before getting married. My God it's really Scary 😨
Same feeling😂😂
Dont rush on your marriage. See a girl through and through. Dont hesitate if she is bit elder, bit shorter or bit dusky. You never know if she is the one who will be treating your parents better than you, teaching your kids better than school and loving you more than anything. Respect is the key. Also dont marry someone who has dated mindlessly before. The flashbacks of her past will ruin your marriage.
This is 1%club not for everyone😅
Don't marry
@@codingiscreativity without intimacy can a male live ?
Marriages are scary but family forcing for marriage is more scary 💢 💢
Families only force for marriage if ur earning well😂.
Being attacked by a bear is scary - not these things. Weakling generations.
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Good point
@amisri5026 I will engage with married woman only, no risk of divorce, No live in and full enjoyment. No commitment. No obligation, no responsibilities, no children. I WILL BE ABLE TO CONCENTRATE ON CAREER AND HUGE MONEY AS THEIR WILL BE NO Responsibilities. WILL BECOME A VICE PRESIDENT, SENIOR VICE PRESIDENT in a MNC AND WILL ENGAGE IN CASUAL DATING AND MARRIED WOMAN ONLY. VERY SIMPLE FUNDA IN LIFE
This is an eye opener for women in India. Financial stability for a woman is very important to protect herself and her children.
Yeah but what she said was a bit confusing. She told men to not have joint property with their wives and then told women to get their names under at least one property to have a roof over her head.? 👀
There are false 498a and rape cases and DV cases just for money and land and laws are so biased they dont listen to man side and tilk the time his turn comes he is alsready been to jail, a d dorced to pay maintenence.
As per NCRB there are 90% false 498a and 80% rape cases.
Ao women can easily get money by false case where as men suffer BUT what this trend is doing is causing the taint to the reputation who are actually suffering.
@@parishmitadeori92 true that..was looking for this comment...this padcast seems biased
@@abhimanyu7748 yeah according to me, I think it is much better to buy a house together after marriage instead of living with in-laws, and pay the EMI of that house together as well so at least if it comes to divorce, no one would feel bad to divide the assets value 50/50. And it would be easier to buy a new house that way too.
Financial stability at the cost of?
Other women? Who work as maids, hair and makeup artists?
I kept my jewelry separate and didn't give it to my mother-in-law, Its been 15 years and she never spoke to me just because of jewelry
I will engage with married woman only, no risk of divorce, No live in and full enjoyment. No commitment. No obligation, no responsibilities, no children. I WILL BE ABLE TO CONCENTRATE ON CAREER AND HUGE MONEY AS THEIR WILL BE NO Responsibilities. WILL BECOME A VICE PRESIDENT, SENIOR VICE PRESIDENT, AND WILL ENGAGE IN CASUAL DATING AND MARRIED WOMAN ONLY. VERY SIMPLE FUNDA IN LIFE
That's a good thing. If she isn't speaking, enjoy the peace. 😂
So it's a win-win situation. Great!
So you're telling me that you saved your own jewellery from your greedy mother- in- law and on top of that she doesn't talk to you.😅
Good move
If she is not talking because of jewellery better not have her
For those who don’t know, the industrialist is Sandeep Toshniwal and his estranged wife Dr.Ashrita, a Mumbai-based dentist. The Bollywood actress is Karishma Kapoor, sister of Kareena Kapoor who had filed for divorce from her ex-husband Sunjay Kapoor.
But Sandeep and Karishma broke up poor things 😄
Don't even trust a wife even after 25 years! Her uncle dessha drohi Nambinarayan the ISRO scientist!😂😂😂😂😂protected her from police?
If only men are cheaters, then all are them are gay!😂😂😂😂😂😂
Both persons don't know divorce and remarriage are to save income tax!😂😂😂😂
Nambi narayan was not a anti national guy
You don't know anything
He got so many offers but he rejected
He was a Princeton graduate
Some people trapped him
Supreme court said he Is innocent
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it's laughable how many men are saying marriages are scary now. like it hasn't always been that way for women in an arranged marriage society
Men are scared about losing his money
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So before having a meal, you check everyone in your neighborhood has eaten? Why should I care about other people and other timelines. I will only care about my wellbeing. Do you care about the men who do vast majority of dangerous jobs? No you don't and you shouldn't have to. Similarly men need to look after themselves.
@@thusspokezarathustra1847 "do you care about men who do dangerous jobs"? do you mean workers? the proletariat? the labourers? because when we do talk about the conditions of the mines which btw also employ children people like you start throwing around words like commie like insults. do you care about the men in gaza dying for no reason? do you care about the congo crisis which also affects believe it or not men? do you support the farmers here? many protesting rn are also men. do you care about manual scavengers? it's a job that shouldn't exist but does because casteism
I grew up in an upper-middle-class Indian neighbourhood in the 90s. It was an open secret that 9 out of 10 husbands cheated repeatedly. Some were verbally or physically abusive too. But we rarely saw divorces, the wives had to swallow the bitter pill and look the other way. If divorce was so lucrative, why did it not occur more frequently then, or why do some women rather kill themselves instead of getting divorced. I can't help but wonder what changed from then to now.
Social stigma has changed over the years. Also society cares less now a days about others. For example Now pornstars have become celebs. In 90s they would have been ostracized from society.
Previously a divorcee was seen with a very stigmatized lens. Now every alternative household may have one person getting divorce. After few month of gossip, No one judges whether you got divorce or how much money you got in alimony.
@nickim270 I think, not much has changed. Getting a divorce is still a hassle and expensive for a middle class family. Also, less women are financially dependent on their husbands now. And can earn a living on their own.
@@DEEPANJANBISWASwhat pornstars are celebrities? The indian divorce rate is less than 1% for your information.
isn't that a good development though? why should anyone be forced to stay in relationships when either of them is cheating?
@@hitesh6245 it definitely is a good development and I feel sad when people are against divorces and want women to compromise and live in an abusive marriage in the name of culture and traditions
When she said the man gets richer and finds her wife not good enough...
Is said.
My parents went through divorce idk the reason
I'm still trying my best to find out I'm still 19 and i think I've right to find out..
This gives me attachment anxiety..
My mom and dad both are Living their new lives with new spouse I'm with my father and
I feel I'm the one suffering from their separation the most!
It's scary relationship are really scary
hang in there.. patiently.. It will take time to understand. Find good friends.... any friendship/ relationships are built over time.
God bless u. Find your own life
Chill bro, divorced kid here, you are your own life, not your parents, live life for you first.
Not for them.
You will heal, you will be loved. You will have to believe that.
Make friends and hobbies. Their lives is not your life.
It's so rewarding to have a good partner no matter what changes in life. These rich people have no clue what they miss out on. God evens it out eventually.
Have a personal connection with God and explain to God what today's world has become. God can see
But women want rich guys
that's basic.. no one want to see their child grow up in poor household. just like not every women wants to be mothers, similary not every guy deserves a woman@@roshinitoenlightenment
nobody wants to willingly choose a bad person. Where is the question of missing out! Maybe its the payoff of our karma but nobody wants bad people in their life. Don't blame someone for missing things out. They did not want it that way.
@@randomnyss2011 neither every women deserves a man
See the uneasiness feeling on Sharan's face doing such sensitive interviews. He is very careful. Kudos to him!
If u had to take so many precautions and feel like u need protection from ur own spouse, just don't enter into that relationship, better not marry. The best advice is to not marry until u feel like ur marriage is definitely going to add to ur happiness and not to ur insecurities. No trust, no marriage. Also take care to not be blackmailed into trusting.
I really like this comment.
It's better to date for at least 4-5 yrs to properly know whether you are compatible with each other or not.
l take. definitley said by a woman or a simp. if woman trust their lovers whats the need for marriage certificate
@@Terahydronlegal contract is there so she wouldn't get dumped after getting pregnant.
@@kanikakumari7219 but cheating is legal?
Even if the woman cheats,the asks for divorce he still has to pay alimony?
Stop watching Bollywood and you might save your marriage 😂
Million doller advice
And also stop using social media like insta...
Use your free time doing anything else...Visit temple, walk/long drive with your partner, learn new item to cook for your partner 😌❤️
Great topic by sharan . I am glad that the creators are coming forward and talking about the ground reality of matrimonial disputes.
the same person was already interviewed.. in a similar topic, by ranveer allahbadia.
I think sharan is rich
@@nomadd27828 Ra Shamani
How cool ! India doesn't have a word for divorce or talaak. Dharm compares more than one partner to animals who lack morals.
Problem is when you are so calculated like what she says..ypur marriage is bound to fail and youll end up needing her..choose the right person no hurry.
I always felt middle class is the community that is upholding the values, culture and tradition of our country but it was just a hunch based on my observation of my surroundings. But now this video confirms it. Middle class is actually great. Meanwhile the poor and rich are not that different. Both get drunk and pass out on the kerbs, both have no culture and dont value tradition, both get involved in scandals, both have no inhibitions etc The root cause of thehir behaviour ? For the poor its the lack of money and for the rich its the abundance of money. Middle class live their life on moderation. Proud to be one
I agree 100% I'm a middle class girl with a family deep in spirituality, and never have a been more proud!!!
Absolutely 💯 true
Exactly
The middle class doesn't exist. If you earn 25000, you are in the top ten percent of earners in the country. The poor are the middle class de facto. And stop feeling morally superior to the poor; you force them to work for you for barely a living wage, and then when they drink to forget their troubles, you sneer at them. If tomorrow, all the farm labourers, all the sanitation workers and maids, all the mechanics and plumbers, all the street vendors of groceries vanished, your precious society would be on its ass.
Hurrrr middle class can’t take anything forward they re the most stuck cz pf lack of choice nd chance
Her advice are so genuine, practical and basic. She must be a good person too!
Listening to this after being shot, it took me 6 years to meet my own daughter introduce myself, inform my 7 year old my name... It isn't only about the money - torcher is prevalent on both sides but identified as women's issue only in our country...
@madhusmitasethi768 I will engage with married woman only, no risk of divorce, No live in and full enjoyment. No commitment. No obligation, no responsibilities, no children. I WILL BE ABLE TO CONCENTRATE ON CAREER AND HUGE MONEY AS THEIR WILL BE NO Responsibilities. WILL BECOME A VICE PRESIDENT, SENIOR VICE PRESIDENT, AND WILL ENGAGE IN CASUAL DATING AND MARRIED WOMAN ONLY. VERY SIMPLE FUNDA IN LIFE
Wdym shot? Your wife shot you!??
Most women don't accept men are having issues. They have made it a competition as men vs women.
Nothing compared to what men do to women on a daily basis
It's nothing compared to what XY chromosomes do to women on a daily basis
I was cheated by my husband when pregnant, I started crying and checking things then he decided to divorce me. He tried to bring a married lady to USA and split all our assets. I didn’t get support from law because he would run away and not even pay child support. I took some steps to break his internet affair and wanted to leave after that then he started begging me not to end the marriage because of baby. When he was leaving he never cared about baby. I don’t feel like buying any assets with him anymore.
Marring someone is getting scary and scary with each day ! be it in abroad or her itself in India
abroad is better
In future there will be no marriage in India
Its better be scary bcos you raja betas are always the privileged one when it comes to indian marriage market. I mean no matter how bad u guys look you know your mom will find you the best looking young girl after rejecting and judging almost 20 girls ..thad lady will become the slave of your house for the rest of her life. That has been norm of our typical indian society which is still practiced in many parts of india and u guys also believe in it. But fortunately women have their own voice now , they cant be fooled , they have understood their worth and wont take bullshxt for anyone . Her parents have also invested in her education She too works hard. So she gives it back and thats where problem starts
@@Mahadev_ki_Bhakt23so just because of some asshole whole men community should suffer. I think you need a therapist madam🙏
@@FXBillionaire no
I'm unmarried and watching this video 😅
Lucky guy😂
This video is for unmarried people.
Bruh i am 14 yr old 😂😂
.don't see the beauty of the girl ..see the family. Ensure the girl mother is docile..in most cases it's mother and the character she inculcate into girl matters...
Much better to marry with foreigner like in PHILIPINES or RUSSIA or NEPAL instead of indian girl, CROSS BORDER divorce would be very hard and forgot about COMPENSATION
Choosing wisely for partner I think is the only best advice for singles
Humans can change anytime so just go with the flow 😄
It's easier not to make a choice at all. Because it brings the odds of a mistake down to 0, essentially.
@@oldskoolmusicnostalgia Right. It is like a gambling. If you get good, loyal partner then your life is good otherwise heartbreaks and challenges are inevitable.
@@aileen8492no I don't think it's true. A lot of people have said these post-break up that the red flag signs were always there. They just overlooked it until they couldn't. I'm pretty sure with divorce also it's the same.
What I feel is you should date each other for at least 4-5 yrs to know whether you're compatible or not with each other and then think about marriage.
@@parishmitadeori92 date 4-5 years in India? Everyone is not so lucky
A must-watch for young urban couples looking to tie the knot. Thanks so much, learned a great deal.
Loved the Video Sharan. A much required one. And perfectly balanced😊
First time I have like the Interviewer, allowing the guest to speak and asking to the point questions.
You are a good podcast host, you don't disturb others
I will engage with married woman only, no risk of divorce, No live in and full enjoyment. No commitment. No obligation, no responsibilities, no children. I WILL BE ABLE TO CONCENTRATE ON CAREER AND HUGE MONEY AS THEIR WILL BE NO Responsibilities. WILL BECOME A VICE PRESIDENT, SENIOR VICE PRESIDENT, AND WILL ENGAGE IN CASUAL DATING AND MARRIED WOMAN ONLY. VERY SIMPLE FUNDA IN LIFE
In this Era 40% people don't want to marry
Really?😅
more than 40%
Majority are men
I am thinking on switching careers and becoming a divorce lawyer. I am tired of this boring 9 to 5.
First get divorced. That would be a good start to your new career.
@@christopherlobo8082wtf😂
And it sounds like an action packed career!
Divorce lawyer?
I’m a divorce lawyer. Trust me, I’d prefer a 9-5 job.
Trust Me, Any Career that the end result is some one else's pain is very very emotionally draining & only a VERY STRONG PERSON can take it.
I am a woman and I supported my partner for 6 years while he had absolutely nothing in the bank. And when he finally became rich, he started beating me. Brutal separation. Men suck.
Ur husband is one man not billions of men around world. So say ur husband sucks not men.
We are really sorry for whatever happened to you.😢 you should date someone else. You will definitely find a guy will love you. Nobody should generalise and say one gender sucks.
The opposite happen and women suck
Sorry for that but don't you think that 6 years is more than enough to know how exactly the person is?😐
Why did he start beating you? What did you do to provoke his behavior?
Food for thought!!! the law of a country speaks a volume about its people 's mentality. meanwhile in india. Adultry is legal but prenup is not? what does that says about us as a socity!!!!
It says that women's participation in the workforce is low and the govt has to think abt such ppl as well. And what better way that making them someone else's responsibility
@ritikasingh9555 begging at his finest
@@thanos4570 true
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@@ritikasingh9555 if wife leaves with her boyfriend, then why husband be responsible for maintenance to wife?
People have to be taught how to find a good partner rather than all this coz it is your partner and the kids you have with who you have a long lasting relationship in your life and your friends don’t deserve as much credit rarely they stay throughout your life.
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6:32 @sharan is more curious than viewers😂😅
A very fascinating video, this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counsellor, and how do I reach her?
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.
Hi...I'm sorry you are going through this. However, it is not her that you're missing. These obsessive thoughts about her, you not being able to stop thinking about her, not being able to see your life with anyone else but her- all of this indicates an issue that runs much deeper. It deals with your unmet childhood needs.
I have been through what you're going through and trust me, I can relate.
Here's a video to help you get out of this rut. It definitely kickstarted my journey of getting out of the rut that I was in and I'm sure it will help you as well.
Here's the link: ruclips.net/video/8ExpDtgRnLc/видео.html
You will get out of this phase. You just need to get to the root of why you're in there in the first place. Good luck, and best wishes :)
@@wonhur885come India in haridvar
@@wonhur885arre you are a educated person pls don't get into these kinds of fraud are kise toh jana hota hai toh woh chala jata hai.
You don't nedd those people.
Start your healing do lots of self love and pls love is not the only thing imp in life.
And you will meet someone more good and amazing in the future you just need to be patient.
I just love this woman. She advocates for both sides. I especially love how she advocates for women's financial independence. It's not only beneficial for the woman but for the family s a whole.
Pre-nup is not illegal. It is legal in Goa. In other places, it is a big grey area and courts are ruling in favour of pre-nup. It is being said that UCC will validate pre-nup but nobody wants to give up money received for free.
I will engage with married woman only, no risk of divorce, No live in and full enjoyment. No commitment. No obligation, no responsibilities, no children. I WILL BE ABLE TO CONCENTRATE ON CAREER AND HUGE MONEY AS THEIR WILL BE NO Responsibilities. WILL BECOME A VICE PRESIDENT, SENIOR VICE PRESIDENT, AND WILL ENGAGE IN CASUAL DATING AND MARRIED WOMAN ONLY. VERY SIMPLE FUNDA IN LIFE
no need to bringin ucc to get pre nup .stop spaming sanghi propaganda
Mark my words, Next 10 years in India, Divorce rate is gonna SKY ROCKET.... Everyone will have atleast 1 individual in their aquaintance who got divorced or getting divorced.. I can see change in People's behavioural pattern. Millenials, Gen Z are getting more self centric. Take screenshot of this. See after 10 years India's Family culture system is slowly dying.
You are 100% correct. I am saying this right now
I don't think so Indian people tend to marry at generally 27-30 unlike America europe where there are lot of teenage couple getting married and in India getting a divorce relatively harder.
@@ashishdhal4614shits changing
I am a GenZ and I am indeed slowly becoming Self Centric
New generation .....will not spend so much money on marriages.....in next 10 years....
I as man think, firstly we should try to earn more and more money then marry a good girl or if you are unable to be rich it is good to marry a poor good lady
It’s a great intersection into how finance and a divorce overlap with each other. Which is why this conversation is important but there is somewhat of a bias between who can abuse and who can’t . A rich guy can only be exploited but a woman can’t experience emotional abuse, unavailability at the hands of a rich guy but she can face abuse in middle class and poor families only. It assumes that because a rich guy is educated he cannot be abusive whereas there are many such examples.Infact rich guys can be abusive because of having many options. They are higher instances of cheating their spouses.
You are right...some data released last month is that rich people divorce rate very less than the middle class.. so mutual understanding between couples is to healthy relationship...
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Madam you are thinking are very much the old kind of generation. Nowadays boys have a gaurav rai case type condition of every Indian man 😢
@@forgaming5640 well as you may have heard the advocate men cheat way more than women and unfortunately it’s still a reality of the Indian society.
Thats y women are being independent and they should. Both have to be financially independent individually. And so dont expect traditional wife. Help her in housework. Keep financials separate but work together for home and family. Ultimately u re marrying someone to have kids and build a family. If suspicion carries on it doesnt keep a healthy relationship. So my advise would be let your wife earn herself l dont stop her to be at home. Keep financials separate. Now a days court are considering earning women wealth while divorcing.
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Let that remain a choice. Don't force yr opinions on people.
economy depoends on men. 5% mnc jobs dont mean shit
Please also make laws that the women need not share her hard earnings with her husband, that she need not take care of his parents (which will be only his responsibility), can pursue her career, interests and hobbies, need not cook for the entire family but just two of them(or may be only for herself), and need not have to put efforts to please his family, absolute freedom to live life under her terms ( not infidelity/ mannerless/ bad habits)…… for me, if the wife has no career then alimony is a must ! Otherwise no need ! As simple as that.
Prenups are not illegal, they are just not recognized by the courts. There's a difference. In rare cases, prenups have been recognized though.
In US pre nups is the norm accepted by the courts
What are those rare cases?
Why to get married in the first place if you can't think of your partner anything more than a villain ?? That defeats the sole purpose of marriage, that team work or seeing the other as a part of yourself. If you want to earn, have the guts to earn, rather than by standing on someone else's shoulders, be it for man or woman.
Kudos to Sharan for picking this topic up and damn this lady is so mature, experienced and knowledgeable in this. Her expressions and communication skills are actually very good.
this is a much needed lesson for young men! m 35 and i faced this first wife cheats then she steals! u r screwed!
U r right
Would have loved to hear about asset protection trusts and if that would be useful
Moral of story is ye desh mein law female ke liye hai. Mard ke liye kuch protection nahi
When the woman is expected to leave her family and her parents home when she gets married, and has no place in her parents home anymore, then what is her security after she moves into her marital home and with the in-laws?
I feel this whole concept is a very red zone and needs to be changed. Both should leave their home and start a nuclear family and buy their own house and should own the house equally too. And if ever comes a time of divorce then everything should be divided 50/50. Needless to say everything in the marriage should be contributed 50/50 as well.
those women deserve. no ones talking about them. don't clutch at straws , but what if she cheats
The Prblm is women have laws to protect their interest but men don't have it.
If women cheats she still going to get child custody, property sharing, alimony, maintenance Money etc.
But if a men cheats he still looses all those things.
Heh didn't you watch the video? She clearly said that the judge's decision mostly shifts towards the victim in case of adultery even if it is legal cuz no one likes an adulterer.
@@parishmitadeori92 this is no way to live at the mercy of judge. what is adultery cant be proven. anyway no one getting a virgin bride
Women get custody because they are going to be the ones to change a child's diaper, bath them, feed them. Men can file for custody as well they just don't because it's easier to pay money than taking care of a child 24x7.
@@parishmitadeori92 yeah but in most cases they think the womn are the innocent ones, but in reality this things only work against malws
@@PushkarVichare-tb6hy ok then tell me one case you know around you where women was cheating but the case went against the man. Come out of your delulu world. Any case in India takes years because our law believes no innocent should be punished no matter how long justice takes.
If you are not ready to give 50% of your money to your wife, you shouldn't get married. If you can not divide the household income 50-50 every single month, do not get married. If the wife can not share her income with you 50-50, do not get married. Marriage is a 50-50 partnership. If you can not commit to that partnership, better stay single. Spend at least 7-8 years with your fiance before getting married to understand her completely. My 2 cents.
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What's the need to monetary exchange in alliance of consenting two people lol. Both should earn, no need to divide household income. Go for simple court wedding and in case it fails get a mutual divorce without any monetary exchange.
@@AmishKumar-lc7zs There's a difference between roommates and family. In the poor class both the husband and wife has to work like slaves in offices to earn enough money to feed the family. However, when the husband earns more than enough, then the mother can look after the children. She doesn't need to work as an office slave. Brining up children with absent working parents is the worst a parent can do to their children. A slave working in an office doesn't have a higher status than a mother who stays at home. Yes, I am calling all jobs as slavery because it is what it is. No other way to put it. If it is for self-actualization, then do it without pay.
To some extent it’s true. I would give it happily. The question remains of assets on both parents sides.I guess that’s where the scale of acrimony and potential difference would start to affect the outcome
Yeah, those assets should be transferred to a trust or something because that's totally different. Some people might only marry because of such assets.@@mganla
From the time women are getting aware of their rights, men are getting scared 😱
More like aware of misusing her rights
@@mad_titanthanos Have you met any such women so far.
@@sunleo4389 not met personally, thankfully , but heard a lot of experiences from friends or relatives of my friends.
@@mad_titanthanos true bro 😮💨😮💨😮💨
@@sunleo4389 he hasn't that's why he didn't reply
Relationships nowadays have been very scary
For men not for women
For men not for women 😂😂😂
Yea if there are rights for women protection, there should be equal rights for males also, there are too many things which males are suffering.
@@KartikiTrivedi I'm leaving India in few months because of this laws. As a man i feel unsafe to live in a country where these people are making this kind of stupid one sided laws
As a woman I'd like to highlight that feminism and constitutional laws are being misused by some of the women, Men to stay safe and alert if they get any false alarms. All women are not misusing their protective rights, there are issues where women are still suffering like work life balance in patriarchy, not having freedom of career, choice and talent, social insecurities, workplace harassment, these are still prevalent across India where true feminism is supposed to be shown.
well 90% of Indian men can't claim they didn't take dowry. Dowry is as common as marriage.
If anything goes bad then go for a counselling. If both are willing to change themselves then put effort. It will work. Don’t go for divorce. ❤️
People don't change. With time and experience they get better at hiding their flaws and activities.
marry me lol
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Weird to say but the truth is Investing wisely is crucial, especially considering the financial implications of divorce settlements
Divorce settlements often involve significant financial adjustments. Investing strategically can help mitigate the impact and ensure long-term financial stability.
Any experiences or advice on managing investments during or after divorce?
How can a person start without making big initial mistakes?
I've heard positive things about advisors, Nathan Travis Cook, who specialize in divorce financial planning amongst other expertise
I didn't know he was known in india too
Recently, I got married. This kind of video scares me. She makes sense, though. Personally, I think the laws protect women anyways and we men are screwed financially and emotionally if we get divorced. There's no doubt that divorce has a big impact on our lives.
I believe in manifestations. Let's not bring negative energy to a place where there is none. While it's a smart move to plan ahead and life is not always a bed of roses, a marriage is also an emotional one. If we start preparing ourselves for divorce, won't that manifest in our lives too?
But all that being said these podcasts are essential. Thanks Sharan❤
Marriage is really scary.Everywhere Mental torture and physical abuse is associated with marriage.I hv seen it around me.U will Not believe No one is Happy 🙄 whether it is Love marriage & arrange marriage.Only Few are only the Lucky one...
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The case she is mentioned is it sandeep toshniwal and karishma kapoor? It was in news.
Badi badi batein wada paw khate.
@@ba-dum_tss You are such a stupid .......It does not work that way .......when both partners are making money it becomes joint income. and that is half n half divided between the two party but if he has included his Ancestry properties to add name of his partner or wife He has to pay half to her Plus all man makes women takecare of childeren and if that reason she has to get extra support to child expense for each child - Father has to contribute
she is talking BS no one can sit on board of directors of so many companies , she didnt meet anyone in her gym either its all a made up story and you dont meet gym dudes with 1000 crore networth in a gym they are indoors making deals daily, and with just 20cr net worth you can afford to have a home gym at home..
@@arunsadanandabhat8518one can have gym membership which is an chain across India/abroad
In mumbai 20 cr is nothing u wont be able to built ur home gym..in suburbs u get 400 sq ft in 1.5 cr..apartments in south mumbai are in 20 -35 crore range..@@arunsadanandabhat8518
Hi Sharan, Make a complete series on this topic from both males and females perspectives, how both can defend their resources, i think this topic still needs proper education and syllabus in India.
Women happily share dominant superior succesfull men as long as the men take care of them. Chastity is valued in women by men, women only value success and provision in men. When a man can take care of a 100 women, they will share him happily - this is something weak pathetic men refuse to understand about the real nature of women.
Money matters most . If no money no relation. No money no honey
Hence why modern women are undesirable.
No equal effort no freeloading,
@@Travel_Junkie007no seal no deal 😅
@@imrankb022goes both ways.
That’s the basic filtration i use if she looking at my money bye bye from me no matter how much you cry… also i developed an eye for early detection of such people eyeing my money. I respectfully break up with them nd they still wonder what happened really.
OMG such a senior advocate giving wrong information, No women cant claim 50% in a joint loan property just because her name is on the loan, She can only claim as much as she has paid for the loan, If she has paid nothing she gets nothing.
Also a women who moves to her in-laws or lives in a house bought by the husband can only claim to live in the house till divorce is finalized, That is a temporary support if she has no other place to go to(if her parents are no more and they didn't have any property she could move into and she herself doesn't have any property).
Adultery is a cruelty.
Good episode. Thanks for calling her on board for this!
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Seedhi baat no bakwas.
Loved the podcast.
The purpose of the video, is not to get scared of marriage, if you are patient and loyal enough to yourself and your partner, focus on building a successful marriage with love, then divorce wouldnt happen, this is just for educating ourselves in an untowardly situation, marriages our beautiful with a right person beside !! Believe in it !!
Agreed but people are losing faith in marriages that's sad reality in India
People should live in reality. It's not being scared it's being careful. There are literal WhatsApp groups where women plan on getting millions from famous guys like NBA players etc.
It's better not to get married.
That was not the point😅, how to prepare to take the hit😅
Most of the laws in India are biased towards women many girls accuse guys of false rape cases there is no law to protect men unfortunately
this is how marriage works you listen to him or he listens to you it doesn't go both ways or it will end up in divorce
When something wrong is happening against men- "its life"
And when the same with women-"it should be fought "
Brooo marriage is no more about Love n commitment and partnership....😅😮😢
It seems like some social trap leading to lots of financial problems
She seems very genuine person. Very soothing voice also.
How differently we see the spouse in a marriage after divorce! Once u have kids , it’s a family even if u r dovorced is what I feel! U can have partners but ur family remains the same! How u treat ur parents and ur kid as yours and ur ex wife as a totally different entity! U can’t exclude her genes from ur kids rt! The way u tell abt ur mom and dad are also a husband and wife relation! How u treat them as one entity and ur divorced wife after
Kids as a different one! World is soooo full of money! I feel u have sooo much love for money ! 😊not blaming but just an analysis!
You have moral values so you see it right. Watch Katherine Woodward Thomas. Bad people meet bad people it's karma
A divorce is past life karma and this life greed . When people marry looking at profitable deals it happens
Everything is not transactional in life ... Parents also can say we sacrificed 20 years of our life we need the allimony
Great.
Raj shamani and beer biceps should start doing content on similar topics. Indian laws on marriage and everything related
Raj shamani has already done a 1 hour podcast with this lady
Yes....same interview
im 37 getting rejected amazingly , why because i never wanted to take a risk,
Be brutal before getting married with every single habit in the first call or meet, don't run behind impressing people.
Most informative 20 mins for this generation 😢.. keep up the good work Sharan😊
Dowry ❌
Alimony ✅
Society: 😂😂 * Laugh *
Mordern world is so scary
How does Vandana Ji gets compensated? If she settled a 500 crore deal, which is a huge amount, she should be paid accordingly, as she deserves that amount
😂😂 so if doctor performs and saves life of big shot he should give doctor crores 😂😂😂
This video is so informative and fun to watch as well seeing how the Lawyer is chill & cool.
We need such kind of information and educational videos especially for us men
Before driving a vehicle, we learn it, we learn courses before job but how many youngsters learn EQ, relationship skills for relationships? How many atleast read magazines, websites where it is about relationships? If they are not learning, why they are even in relationships? this is very scary in our society since ages. People who are not ready for relationships are getting into the relationships(one, if not many) and destroying each other and people who are ready for relationships emotionally are remaining single. This is an irony.
Human values are to be put higher value in relationships, or else its business. If u treat relation like a business, better dont even enter into relation and destroy other emotional partner. Relationships are only and only for emotional people, not for materialistic people.
Why is pre nup illegal in India?can't we make it legal?
It's legal brother Supreme Court announced this 2 months ago
Today's relationships are materialistic. Marriage is a defunct institution. Stay single stay happy.
Excellent comment
@@calmness956 Thanks. Ours is a singles group for 40+, all never married and we all are very happy.
@@Ahmedabad-Single-Soulshow do I get in touch with you?
@@Journeyman-pi5vx
Where are you from❓
@@Ahmedabad-Single-Souls I live in Pune
Why to get married in the first place when you are independent enough to take care of yourself
Not everyone is the same, some people need companions after an age while it might sound cool to not marry while young, while some love kids , while other follow the culture/tradition or for religious reasons. both have ad and disadvantages:
Not marrying would make you do whatever you wish to and not have any major responsibility except those who are taking care of parents but also are lonely at later stages.
Marriage can have lots of responsibility and specially nowadays is of no use for men, but also at later stages you have good companion and children who takes care of you even if it's sometimes provided you have good children and not the bad ones who leave parents.
It’s not our fault if you think you’d only marry for money. No one else is responsible for your money minded attitude.
Maam has a great sense of humor, loved listening to her.
This has been very insightful and makes so much sense. Being a general lower middle class below median paid employee of MNC in contemporary time, not getting married makes so much sense.
Sorry but the podcast was more about how bad it is for men rather than how to protect yourself (for men) especially
thats the sad fate in this country.. when they copied all the western culture, they didnt copy the import ones like the prenap... that shows how good the law is!
Very sensible! After a marriage still continue to be individual and keep bills separate. It takes ages to get to know someone. No need to put 100% trust into a chance.
If youre marrying a good person, they wouldnt have problem with your boundaries
Better not to marry. No live in. Nothing. Engage only in casual and fun and non committal or engage with a married woman whole life do this. Simple
@@RealRock9460aaayein!!!😂😂😂
@akhosla9460 nah not all men are that degenerate , atleast a lot i know aren't but you are still right due to things like these becoming so complicated more and more men are pushed towards that idea , i mean wasn't love supposed to be one of the most raw feelings and look at it now how complicated
Women happily share dominant superior successful men as long as the men take care of them. Chastity is valued in women by men, women only value success and provision in men. When a man can take care of a 100 women, they will share him happily - this is something weak pathetic men refuse to understand about the real nature of women.
Stop marrying rich and successful guys then. Career women are undesirable to any manly man.
@@RealRock9460 Prostitution is the oldest female career, no wonder.
Superb talk! Deadly and smart combination... finance and relationships
No physical abuse from anyone men or women, that’s a big no no.. law should punish the abuser…
If you can't be loyal and responsible, then please don't marry....its for both man & women
men don't cheat the most, maybe in urban places or selective regions, there is some bias here because my father is a lawyer as well and 70% of the time it's the women cheating. I myself have faced a cheating wife.
bro she's lying.women cheats way more than men.
10-15lacs per annum as fees, better to study LLB parallely instead of upskilling 😅
Better not to marry. No live in. Nothing. Engage only in casual and fun and non committal or engage with a married woman whole life do this. Simple
@@RealRock9460true
एक सौ एक कलाकार बैठे हैं यहापे.
Dear GIRLS LISTEN 17:19 WOMEN SHOULD FINANCIALLY WORK✊💥don't forget ..
STOP DREAMING N let's START MAKING MONEY through job or by any means ..
Be financially Independent as our parents wish n its necessity we've come to know.
by any means u mean "Only Fans"???
@@animeka1444we don't need to know your mother's profession. Keep it to yourself
@@R_t-99ohh 304 ko bura lag gaya lol
@@user_7934 kisko tumhari maa ko?
@@user_7934 jal gayi bhai uski
Women often talk about men having all the power, money, and control, oppressing women. However, it is important to note that this perception confuses a small percentage of wealthy men with the majority of men who struggle. Most men have no money, no power, no sex from their wife, and face difficulties in court battles, even losing their homes and the chance to see their children. Their lives are challenging.
The truth is -
~When a man earns he takes the responsibilities of family. When an women earns she becomes independent.
~When a man earns he may pick a no-earning women and makes her life-partner. When a woman earns she reject a men.
~A strong man can pick broken women and make her life strong. Strong women don’t look after broken men.
Every men must watch this. Hope they know what they get into before marriage.
Sharan I think you can make some videos educting people to research properly before investing in stock market and also you can recommend some of the safe stocks to invest as a beginner....
I will engage with married woman only, no risk of divorce, No live in and full enjoyment. No commitment. No obligation, no responsibilities, no children. I WILL BE ABLE TO CONCENTRATE ON CAREER AND HUGE MONEY AS THEIR WILL BE NO Responsibilities. WILL BECOME A VICE PRESIDENT, SENIOR VICE PRESIDENT, AND WILL ENGAGE IN CASUAL DATING AND MARRIED WOMAN ONLY. VERY SIMPLE FUNDA IN LIFE
Thank you so much mam, you are saving millions of lives. ❤
Better not to marry. No live in. Nothing. Engage only in casual and fun and non committal or engage with a married woman whole life do this. Simple
Ya to shadi karo mat...or agar karo to marte dam tak ek dusre k liye loyal raho....
there is difference between Criminalised & Illegal, adultry is always an illegal but non criminalised offence & 1 of main reasons for HIV in Women by cheat husbands at India, kindly be responsible with ur words Vandana Shah, U are a big Lawyear
She is talking about right things and bang on but would have appreciated if she covered the whole context. The podcast is so incomplete. The reasons listed for divorce is so shallow.
@amisri5026 I will engage with married woman only, no risk of divorce, No live in and full enjoyment. No commitment. No obligation, no responsibilities, no children. I WILL BE ABLE TO CONCENTRATE ON CAREER AND HUGE MONEY AS THEIR WILL BE NO Responsibilities. WILL BECOME A VICE PRESIDENT, SENIOR VICE PRESIDENT in a MNC AND WILL ENGAGE IN CASUAL DATING AND MARRIED WOMAN ONLY. VERY SIMPLE FUNDA IN LIFE
Agree with her statements excepting few instances. Divorces are common in Middle class families as well in India. Secondly, it's not the Men always, it has been found that Divorces are mostly initiated by Women these days owing to a heap of choices that a woman has than Men in finding out a new Partner. Moreover, the Law is in favour of the Women which has been found out to be mis-utilised against Men in many of the cases!
only for a few years. you can abuse the system for so long. genz kids are already fucking and leaving the bitches dry lol
Did u even see the video?
When you view everything with the lens of money it goes bad,boy or girl find someone who was culturally bought up they celebrate all festivals and not pampered much and have wisdom,if you go by looks and money that last maximum for 2years you need to connect at a different level once you do you can’t live without each other.