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- Опубликовано: 5 июн 2022
- #MM #Pantry有嘢斟 // 辦公室戀情見光死？心理學家分析點解辦公室咁容易撻著！
相信大家出來社會工作之後，都會發現不少辦公室都有情侶出現，有同事與同事之間的戀情，也有上司與下屬的戀情，很多人都會擔心有公私不分的情況出現，也怕一旦情侶分手，在辦公室會造成尷尬，究竟為甚麼辦公室好像特別容易擦出愛火花呢？今集《Pantry有嘢斟》就請來智將情侶的Cherry和Kyle，兩人之前在100毛認識，之後拍拖，現在已經拍拖7年了，離開了舊公司之後還一起經營RUclips頻道，分享一下在辦公室拍拖的經歷。還有註冊企業心理學家Mills，分析一下促使辦公室拍拖的原因。
█ 近水樓台先得月
Mills表示，要發展成為情侶是有一個Liking Effect，即是你一個人是會比較喜歡上你，未必去到愛的，但是有好感，其實是一個策略，也可以刻意營造出來的，是可以不是真的。主要是有四大因素所影響。 第一個就是Similarity（相似度），對方越像我的話，我對他的好感就越多，所以人們可能在工作上面試的時候，你要做到和面試官好像很相似，他就會覺得這個人很好，好像很（合得來）這樣。 第二個就是Proximity（靠近度），當你越見得多不知為甚麼，你就會覺得他是越安全和越熟稔。即是在同一個條件下，一定是見得多， 合作得多一定會比較優勝。 而第三個就是Appreciation（欣賞）。即是他經常都會欣賞你，說話是會令到你開心的。第四個就是Attractiveness （吸引力）。你覺得那個人是吸引的，那看起來你就沒有覺得他吸引，但是他就覺得你吸引，是單向的，也是可以的。
█ 上司比同事更容易發展辦公室戀情？
Mills指出在辦公室內，其實直屬的上司是會更加大機會與下屬發展成為情侶，靠近度都一定會有， 上司很多時候對下屬而言，是吸引力，就會存在Attractiveness （吸引力）。 而上司下屬是多一個效應，是叫做Authority Effect （權威效應）。 比如下屬見到上司有權力，會比較仰慕，如果給一些甜頭下屬， 也會很容易動心。
智將情侶的Cherry和Kyle表示，在舊公司100毛的時候，上司和同事對於他們的戀情都沒有甚麼不滿，Cherry更表示，舊公司至少有30對情侶，雖然有不少情侶在同一間公司工作，但她表示如果大家處理得好，辦公室戀情都不是一個大問題，大家都要成熟地處事。
策劃：黃允鍶 Natalie
主持：鄭汝翹Karen、陳靜雅Chucky、黃允鍶Natalie
嘉賓：智將情侶Cherry和Kyle、企業心理學家 黃仲遠Mills
剪接：呂皓怡
監製：鄭汝翹 Karen
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多謝MM請我哋上去做嘉賓呀～一齊好開心😆我成日都睇MM㗎！希望你哋同事們之間都有情人終成眷屬😂
多謝你哋上嚟呀！我都希望佢哋唔止係緋聞⋯
16:40 "我地"不斷...!
笑死，你發現咗好重要嘅資訊！
係喎
發現盲點
這個好好好好關鍵資訊
1. Sam好撚慘啊😂
2. Michael要加油啊
3. Mills今集跳晒制😂
4. Long：點解有人揀我
5. Chucky：……………
6. 觀眾：
7. Karen： 呢集做塘邊鶴同放冷槍好爽 🤣🤣
好開心喺MM見到一百毛Cherry和男友Kyle😄 今日好精彩，笑位好多，個個都好精靈醒神，為求搵位爆料，句句到位😆🤣
開心⭐️
智將集結！！
Natalie 遇上蜜蜂 戰鬥力 100%
但遇上 Chucky 戰鬥力 0 %
😂😂
蜜蜂容易應付好多🥲
Natalie 我估同呀京轉有緋聞⋯⋯
@@wsun17e 又阿京？
Chucky好關心阿Sam揀邊個喎
身體卻.....
從此Chucky就會針住Apple... 唔俾Sam接近Apple...
個反應好真實
口不對心。
今日呢集特別好睇，好多個位真心笑左出黎。
Chucky & Sam 🤔🤣👍
MM團體繼續加油，支持你地😄👍👍
Aron, 你睇得咁開心，有冇分享埋畀朋友先！
Chucky 同Sam好稱。
16:40 "我地"不斷係呢個通訊軟件到鬧😏
都話我的朋友就是我
Natalie有人flirt都好正常啦😁
18:00 Karen 揾到位入Chucky 個樣真係好開心好爽咁~! XD
成功捕捉獵物
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
試過一次，好煩好唔自在。仲有返工本來會識到好多新人，學到好多新嘢，搵到樂趣。但有個女友scan住就冇晒機會同時間。
由Natalie喺舊公司動物蘋台因為cherry同kyle都有養寵物而訪問過佢地之後佢地就認識左、熟絡左，到今日終於有啱既topic請到佢地上黎成件事Natalie係應記一功，亦都期待住ＭＭ黎緊會陸續請唔同嘉賓、網紅上黎做Pantry。
P.S.：照理以Natalie既眼角冇理由睇得上mm啲幕前既，應該似幕後多啲
再P.S.：今次成條片我淨係睇到白色，有冇人同我一樣？
終於有pantry有野斟開心，正，juicy！！！
開心！正！JUICY！
Chucky最後唔開心阿Sam唔係填佢...
‘’咁亞sam填左邊個？‘呢句之後，我見到嘅係‘殺氣’’😂😂😂
多謝你哋分享香港職場嘅拍拖文化 好有意思喔！
同埋謝謝加埋字幕啦 今日睇片學到新廣東話Expression【大鑊】(*'▽')
我欣賞你~~
👍👍👍
我哋都想知日本職場拍拖文化係點！(⁎⁍̴̛ᴗ⁍̴̛⁎)
@@mm.millmilk Lingmukさん應該知道好多lol
今集堅好笑，睇得出你哋條team係好有愛嘅
MM會員都好有愛！！
真亦假時假亦...~
Karen靚抽🤣👍
閃死🤣🤣Mills把口越嚟越癲🤣🤣🤣🤣
16:30 我覺得呢個用兩個通訊軟件去溝通嘅方法好好喎！👍👍👍👍👍👍
我都只係反應慢啲姐🥲🥲冤枉呀
究竟係邊個姐！？😗😗😗 你細細聲講比我地聽 呢度講 呢度散（開）
係囉放心啦淨係得呢度D人知
明嘅明嘅
呀朗新入職，呀sam 都唔會，係得番m同京，但京個感覺係似d
今集真係好搞笑！🤣
Keran條裙唔錯
又有樂天嘅Nat Nat🥰🥰😘😘
雙方看到對方擁有自己沒有且欣賞的特質最易撻著
Natalie 其實做主持都幾好
不過一開頭高得滯係咁擋cam
所以最佳企响 Chucky 隔離嗰個仲係阿 Sam 😘
辦公室戀情既天花板肯定係微辣既落仔發啦,又食又屙又落仔,跟住分左手繼續搵第二個
老女人要全場最叻最話哂事，要撩仔以證仲有小小魅力，又要句句跣後生女，正宗港嬸。
嘩，呢個題目好吸引呀😍
我同我老公係同事⋯⋯
不過大家離開咗公司才拍拖👫
諗番起都好Sweet呀😍🥰
你點樣知佢唔係你表妹？ 還是表上表 ???? 你知道嗎，在日本，佢哋監控啲. 喺韓國，佢哋都咁樣做？ 你做乜嘢要去風水人？ 無論如何因為或者佢哋保留咗你嘅家庭記錄 ???
科學說，唔好嫁某人，除非佢哋係你嘅四 代 表妹...."Fourth cousin removed".... 啲人嘅行為有點 變態...
好笑！今集pantry搵啱咗節奏！
Alvin, 聽到你咁講都好開心！！！
朗，識揀👍🏻
外國唔會寫"禁止戀情", 因為如果列到明就會有侵犯私隱哩樣條例。所以只會寫"不鼓勵" 或 "不建議".
不過如果因私人事影響公司運作， 咁就唔同講法啦
In foreign countries.. you need to declare "All your relationships" as well.. when you apply for a job in the financial sectors.. and normally.. this is gone to HR.. and then they decide whether they can and cannot employ you too. (This is in the UK.) And most of the time, you are also working in different areas, and never the same too. So that, you cannot take advantage of your positions, your jobs, AND your power. Obviously... that situation.. about the two dept heads.. with the above person overriding the individual as well.... that scenario can never happen.. and it should have NEVER happened either. And those "random shouts" from the bosses as well.. this is an indirect of "diverting the personal feelings" onto personal innocent people !!!!
對人不對事.... 她的上 司濫用咗佢嘅權力 ? No way.... Chi sin ! Prosecutable. Jailable !!!
The longer you work in an organisation, the cleverer you are at keeping your gob sh!t as well.. basically.. and frankly... as not to risk what you are working for. Why would anybody be doing this of sh!tty things ???.... And often.. conflicts and challenges at work. Should never be taken back home to begin with ANYWAY !!!... Why would you step back home and argue with your partner? Nobody does that !!! Chi sin meh ? To use your loved ones as emotional punch bags... MOST influencers, are retrospective talkers. They are not talking of the "now". They talk of the "past".... and it is an edited version of the past as well.. that doesn't disturb the future...
jeng😂😂😂Kyle轉數好快
各位加油、愈來愈鍾意您哋、夠鬼馬😂😂😂
化學作用！！！
我已經唔當 Mills 係Pantry嘅嘉賓好耐喇～
客席主持
專登拍條片抽Chucky水都幾過癮🤣
好喜歡大家抽呀SAM 同Chucky 水
好好笑
講真嘢從來係最好笑⋯
今集好多戰場😂
戰爭片！
16:28 有d共鳴 我可以同一個frd係a軟件傾一件事 然後係b軟件傾第二件事
Chucky 見阿Sam 唔係填自己好失望咁
入面有啲感情成份
最好唔好啦，公私不分既佔大多數，真係煩架，佢係你上司仲煩，分咗手分分鐘你連晉升機會都冇
好正呀，好鐘意哩個系列
建議公開個survey
贊成
呢集好好笑🤣🤣🤣
Mill 都好搞笑
今集氣氛異常歡樂 好快就過左20分鐘
之前咁多集唔歡樂咩 Q_Q
我一向都有追pantry同weeklypedia 睇，今次條片set枱咪好多地方有爆咪，郁嗰時大細聲同有回音。
多謝意見，我哋會改善下
@@mm.millmilk 知道你地好努力用心做片，加油啊！👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
可能因為我太大聲了，所以以前喺舊公司佢哋都唔俾咪我😂
辦公室戀情…真係羨慕
Karen今集負責補刀擔當
睇佢唔出
塘邊鶴 aka 冷箭手
都係跟阿Mills學嘢～
8:28 不如搵日講搵工嘅心理學！
即刻諗起試當真🤣🤣
好搞笑 thx
Mills Wong 同Mill Milk 有冇「關係」😂
好似好熟公司情況😂
Good news
我同宜家男朋友都係辦公室戀情，個時私底下低調約會🙈
覺得反而將本身有機會一齊嘅人擺上台面變成螢幕情侶，多咗人留意反而一齊嘅機會會細d
This is why, you shouldn't choose somebody who works in the same sector as well ? Cos frankly... what are you going to do ? Take your work home with you as well ? And where is the "trust" as well ???.... Chi sin.. and if you "share so much of yourself with other people"... then... what the hell is happening here ? You want to pervert onto somebody's lives ? Always ? Often ??.... Ruin their chances to also earn as well ?.... Why would you do that, right ? For a small and tiny city. This is why, some people stick to a closed group.. cos they know of such rules and laws.. for some individuals as well... However.. shouldn't these kind of things, be taught when you go to school ???... I find it weird.. people say.. HK has lost its freedom. Actually it has TOO much freedoms !... That is, those classical sexual politics !!! Of an Imperial Palaces and with its sexual relationships and those overlaps AS well... ! Chi sin !... Maybe it's time that the HK government provided actual and genuine "community wedding" like Taiwan did before.. to move people forward and onwards as well ?.... So that, you are spoken for. You have the entire next 10 to 30 years... between you all... to build the emotional and deep connection, so why fling it into an office politics?! Chi sin...
大機會係比下屬吸引，嘩 sam sam sam sam sam🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
我舊有印象中記得Natalie EX 係 Happy
會員有冇得睇Natalie同某男同事既曖昧片段XDD
之前返屋企搭lift，另轉頭見到佢地抱住隻狗仔，我都諗緊係咪眼花
Natalie 好正
17:27同17:29 好似跳左好多
今集既資訊量大到可以建立數據庫 啲關係好似蜘蛛網咁亂
16：45，“我地”?
支持Mill Milk
19:24 咁緊張嘅？
Natalie對象競猜遊戲
真係無呢🥲🥲🥲
Chucky有心 阿Sam無夢
Chucky有身高 阿Sam唔夠高
Mills好正🤣🤣🤣🤣
feel到chucky想承認同sam
Chucky D野唔好講到咁死😂😂😂
Karen靚抽！
好似狙擊手咁一直潛伏住
換左支MIC收音好似冇咁好
0:35左男個頭🙀
it has to be one of the camera guys LOL
Dickson同邊個一齊？
男上司女下屬大機會 一齊過 女上司男下屬
唔知係咪錯覺，想求證
Karen著得好靚
Thanks ☺️
100毛係咪婚姻介紹所
桃花地😂
敏怡表示想轉工
所以而家咪搞圍爐取戀囉
做乜唔同的神搞一個
阿朗同Yoyo一齊咗！
18:40 Natalie vs Chucky, Chucky wins😎
謝謝！
多謝支持！🙏🏻
成日都見到 Justin 用 Super Thanks 留言！
我以前公司d老闆好鍾意d 辦公室戀情，因爲博佢地係度結婚生仔唔跳槽
Yes but you shouldn't be the one dating. You can organise events. But be clear... IF people ended up as dating.. then surely, they would have discussed this amongst themselves as well? Normally.. clever people, would leave. Like, one of you would leave, and then the other one stays. Your chit chat sometimes is about work, but that is down to your close friendship between... your relationship isn't it ??... WHY be THIS close !?!?!...Chi sin meh ! And everybody.. when it is celebration days, people ignore one another.. and then get involved as well. This is why.. "when at work, work, when at home be personal and close".... !!!! What the HECK happened here then ???.... Is this why.. HK has no equality laws already? And why it has a kind of.. or semi loose form on immigrations? And not to even worry about.. whether.. you are doing an incest situation as well ? Collectively AS a city ?.... This is like.. most mother's and most grand mother's nightmare...
我會揀Karen
咁集好8婆，好好笑😆
其實呢個問題好簡單 ，如果可以修成正果，結婚可能係一生一世，打工隨時都會轉工 ， 如果有理想對象拍拖， 權衡輕重梗係拍拖緊要。
不过前提系对方真的deserve ，毕竟有时朝见口晚见面，容易有错觉
💝💝💝
👍
智將情侶真心好睇，畀人閃得咁開心都真係好少有
No..no and NOOOOOOO ... Chucky🥰🥰 don't do this... we all know the worst thing that can happen is dating a dude🤡🤡 from the same office...and I'm just going to give 👍👍👍 bcause of your pretty earrings 😜😜😜
係度食就唔好係度痾。太唔衛生
好兔不吃窩邊草
成個MM最靚係Chuncky啦
Dickson 係100 毛都幾陰公
好可惜 嗰個帶哂masks 不然 你哋啲表情會正爆攞 好堅呀 有無人覺得當然講得太真 後尷尬
CLS = Chucky Love Sam
😂
喂呀
🤣
MM因為有嘉賓而令到呢集最混亂🤣
大暴走💨
Justin, 咁好唔好睇先！！
邊個得閒理？你咪影響到人
原來MM係啊姐開….
Sorry估錯😝
呢集之後覺得Chucky同Sam超級登對簡直係智障情侶
今次收音冇之前咁好
我哋會改善下
@@mm.millmilk 加油👏🏻
靜靜嫌短短矮🥲🥲🥲