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Yes, well the best judges on whether or not you are good at something are those who notice and say so. If you have to tell everybody, it usually exposes insecurity and ego.
Something i thought of with no: 15, you always know the quality of a person by how they treat those who can't do anything for them. Great reminder Alux. Thank you.
@@jonathanarmah721 I just read something that said “A society grows great when old men plant trees whose shade they know they shall never sit in.” They’re both pretty much saying do something for someone not expecting anything in return.
1. People like to tell stories about other people 0:44 2. Those that belittle their ex 1:14 3. People who flirt too much and are too touchy-feely 1:59 4. Those that only speak about themselves 2:44 5. People's story that is always bigger than yours 3:09 6. Those that fall in love too quickly 3:38 7. Pathological liars 4:28 8. People who are too nice 5:33 9. School friends that want to meet up at 6:08 10. People who can't apologize for 6:44 11. People who violate your boundaries 7:17 12. Cheaters 7:52 13. Passive-aggressive or competitive 8:39 14. Easily offended no sense of humor 9:49 15. People that are mean to animals 10:17 ruclips.net/video/MXp9amsiMyY/видео.html
Their coworkers and family feel sorry for such people instead of telling them about themselves! People with morals don't allow such trash in their lives! Nice people are the worst abusers.
Trust not the individual but their interests, their tendencies, their actions, and priorities. That will help you understand them and avoid having expectations go sour. What you notice in others usually also reflects on you in some ways.
Go with your gut. If you find yourself questioning the actions of someone a little too often, it's time to gradually ease them out of your circle. They might catch on and open up to a little constructive criticism, earning their way back in by actually trying to become better people. Or if they don't, be sure to make the separation somewhat gradual so that it's less likely to invite unwanted friction. In a divorce or break up, a clean break is usually best, but a toxic friendship calls for softer hands. If you've ever had a friend become an enemy, you know exactly what I mean.
Keep your enemies close but your friends closer.... An honest enemy is better than a deceptive friend.... Trust is like a glass, when shattered and restored it’s never the same....
@@jumino4565 Yup dude, there's not even a link to actual research indicating the accuracy of these facts. I mean, if i think deeply than the majority of the population will somehow fall into these categories (including me).
I'll add one: Don't trust people who are always on social media being narcissistic. They will do anything for attention and have low self esteem and need praise from people on the daily. I understand we all post selfies but shouldn't be several selfies a day and nonsense posts.
God bless whoever reads this you will be successful in whatever you do,i haven't been so lucky pandemic destroyed everything i had, now lonely and searching for a job,
I sometimes hit people up out of the blue I’m not close with. I never ask them for anything, and generally I just do it to say hi or wish them well. I don’t do it for anything other than as a form of kindness and to let them know someone cares. For example I may say hey (insert name) Happy Birthday (occasion for this example or reason I reached out) I hope life is treating you well. I then leave it at that, or if they start a dialogue with me I keep it short and end with if I can help you in any way let me know.
I have always had a deep sense of understanding I came to on my own, people who tret animals poorly are not good people, there is a difference between not liking animals because not everyone can like a cat or a dog but when that animal is harmless and they just find the urge to maltreat the animal without any prompt, it honestly sickens me and I hate it to my core when people oppress those who less than them just because they can or out of greed... stay away from people who openly talk down or oppress another person even if it is subtly
That random high school face book notification has been about 50% people wanting to just get to know me because they realized they should have in high school and want to be friends, and 50% MLM's
Hey guys! To the point of "nice": In Germany, we have a saying: "Nice is the little sister oh sh..!" You always say 'nice' if it was not good, but you want to be polite and not open out that it was not. Everybody knows that situation: "Ya... It was nice...". So thank you Alux for putting that one on this list!!
Alux is really maturing into a Go To Channel when needed Real Life Practical & Sensible Solutions! Thank You So Much Alux for the Efforts & Tutorials! ♥️🍎🕯
I don’t trust subtweeters! It’s one thing to talk behind a person’s back to another person, but for some people, they don’t have people to talk their crap with, so they go on to Twitter and other social media platforms. Often times, too, when their “friends” know who is being talked about, they will respond with “should I @/tag them?” In my head, that sounded like a point that we could hear on one of these videos! Haha
I definitely judge by how they think about animals, I was doing this test on people for last 3 years. I was never wrong on understanding their behaviour. They don't know the way I figure out with my tricky questions but helped me many ways. My secret on this is noone actually says bad about themselves and I don't have time years n years to find out their true face, so I understand what's their opinion on animals with my unrelated question which seems very normal 😁
@@danielmaps9309 talk normally with a person and when things goes casual conversation ask them if they have any pet, ask when only things are very casual so that no doubt comes. If anyone walks their dog on the road at the same time you are in conversation with the person, kind of situation which doesn't seems planned. If they says they don't then normally try to know why they don't have. Is it because they don't like or they like but some other problem. If the person don't like pets at all, I have seen mostly they're not trust worthy, they pretend to be with their nice conversation but within 1-2 years it shows up. They wouldn't be bothered to betray you if necessary. Just be aware of this and you won't be hurt if something goes wrong. Again 5 fingers are not same, it's only my experience.👍👍 (If the person is clever he/she knows this game and now Alux also putting it out😁😁 so makeup a good situation, else they might lie, so take time)
Types of People You Should Never Trust № 1: Fickle-minded people. Did you ever play on a seesaw well? ... № 2: People who tell you other people's secrets. ... № 3: People who are too sweet to you. ... № 4: People with competitive traits. ... № 5: People with narcissistic traits. ... № 6: People who lack empathy. ... № 7: The Social Climber.
I'm so touched you should put all your videos together for further generations and not for free cause I've seen people who don't appreciate your good doings.
Everyone around me has been exactly this way and that is why I'm a social recluse for the 2nd year already..... Thanks for the accurate and fantastic content always Alux! I appreciate your channel.❤️
I am recluse so let's start a group on RUclips because not enough support for people like us and our mutant lifestyle of the real X-Men and women. I am serious they doesn't care for us and relationships are a cop out we don't need them they need us. So ask yourself who is the person really next to you.
Alux thank you guys for everything man sincerely! It’s helped me self reflect and also see others for who they are I’m working on bettering myself little by little everyday and your advice is everything to me I could only describe it as enlightening
It took a lot of time to sort out my thoughts, I was thinking if I have some of these traits like talking about myself or easily offended but it's not that serious as I listen to others also and remember their stories.
So Basically EVERYBODY is untrustworthy. We all have one or some of these traits. None of us are completely free of any of these traits and will do these things to others at some point or another. And if you think that NEVER do any of these... You might just be the narcissist on this list.
I always go with this thought process, " If I am not willing to invest my life savings to that person, we are not Friends of trust. We only do business, and that is that."
I was raised around gossipers and criticizers. Although my gut told me there was a fundamental problem, it took years of personal growth and self talk/improvement to understand fully these as major character flaws to be avoided!
Regarding the waiter part, I have to admit, I'm one of those people who are not very friendly towards them. It's not that I'm mean to them, just oblivious and I try not to be very friendly. The reason being that I've had horrible experiences with them when I was in my teens. Sometimes they would flirt in perverted ways (wink at you or stare at you). My friend also had terrible experiences with them. And it's difficult to call them out because it's embarrassing to make a scene especially when you're in your teens and with your family and friends. So I grew up not being overly friendly towards them. It's different now because I'm assertive an intimidating and not scared, so I can be nice without getting taken advantage of.
I need a psychotherapist... ...as I watched this video I kept having flashbacks of my mother, doing and saying all of these 15 things to avoid in orhers. These behaviors are terribly damaging traits to foist on a child, and I recognize my desensitization to such mind games as a large part of the reason my personal relationships, both social and romantic, have been doomed to fail. It's frightening, that I so thoroughly recognize the tactics of the psychotic and pathological scumbag, and yet accept their chronic deceit and abuse as completely normal or at least tolerable. Thank goodness for my father, the polar opposite of the "crazy" mother had attempted to install as my primary operating software. His rational logical unpretentious goodness was truly the light that saved my own style and persona from internalizing and emulating all that is wrong with humanity. Now if I could just filter my interactions in order to eliminate dealing with people that remind me in any way of my mom... ergg... this is going to be difficult.
One I've encountered too often is the moocher. He or she always "forgets" their wallet when dining out with you. Also, someone who "borrows" things and does not return them or returns them in damaged or dirty condition.
9. This actually happened to me! After fifteen years I have finally got back in touch with a very old high school friend and was initially excited. Until he wanted me to build him a video game and fortune for him. It was hard to be graceful enough to tell him no - Because this was someone that I did care about when I was younger. I had to tell him no, but it was one the hardest things to do.
Alux, I love cats. I lost trust in my father, he had a lot of red flags, and he told me he had to keep his dog broken. And he beat me when I was little. I never want to get a dog myself - I could never keep a creature broken, nor do I believe it is acceptable
Do not trust someone who is manipulative, who values you based on what you can do for them, who is critical of themselves or is a perfectionist Generally don't trust any human being but look deeper into their intentions for you This happened to me I moved from my home country to the US to stay with a relative who I thought to be my role model only to find out all that glitters is not gold and face one of my lowest moments with no home, no money, but rather consistent manipulation and selfishness of a man. One big fat ego. I tell this to everyone because I consider myself lucky to know is intentions soon enough but to the millions of people who trust blindly DON'T!!!!!!!!!!!
Oh dear god, Alux. How will I get a new job if I follow this list?! I will say, part of growing up and living life is encountering these people and learning how to live with it (and them.) The biggest surprise - finding out you are this person. .....i search for my righteousness as often as i can. But it's a slippery bastard
I think not everyone is perfect we all have flaws. We try to be better version of ourselves so don't cutoff your friends maybe they are trying to change .
Here's a couple that I've noticed throughout the years. They constantly throw a pity party. You know that person that you could be talking about anything with, yet they somehow derail the conversation back to how they're a victim? Not only is that exhausting to be around, but they're trying to make you feel sorry for them in order to gain something from you and to use it to get out of accountability for their actions. They try to make you apologize for having success. This is a more warped version of the previous type. They can't stand anyone else succeeding because they take it as a personal attack against them. Eventually these types will resort to sabotaging.
The people who fall in love quickly girl or guy just avoid them they are there just to feel good and enjoy the feeling of "being in love" they don't know who they truly are and they're so dramatic. And I'm not saying this as don't have relationship with them but avoid them as friends two become theg will weight you down with crying over their many break ups and they're obsessed with their love life and this is the only topic and... they might be in love with you once the available people run out
Actually, having a few competitive people in my life has driven me like nothing else. Some of them are great friends, others. I berly know. One thing is for sure, I do best when surrounded by competition.
Who to not trust? Those whose laugh is fake. That is a huge tell. It is the kind of laugh that makes you look twice, it feels wrong, it doesn't come through true. Those who say "Trust me". Never trust them, ever! Trust is earned, not demanded. (Same with those that demand loyalty from the beginning)
A hardy amen on the animal abusers being the lowest of the low. Every thing else you mentioned can be chalked up to human imperfections, but animal abuse is a true sign of a psychopath.
Working at better self had KIND friend point out few things that I could stand to change...don't judge don't compare.....being rude is hard but some do with out thought...remember how you think and treat others... And YES STAND UP FOR SELF HAVE CONFIDENCE...NOTHING IRRITATING THAN SOME ONE WHO DOESN'T SPEAK UP FOR WHAT THEY NEED...DONT EXPECT BABYSITTERS TO LIVE YOUR LIFE THAT BECOMES THEIRS.... ALSO TAKEN TO OTHER END THOSE WHO KNOW NO BOUNDARIES AND TAKE FROM WORLD WITHOUT ASKING .. I HAVE BEEN AND HAVE MANY BITS OF NUMBERS... BUT IT BECOMES CHOICE TO REMOVE TOXIC OUT OF LIFE AND THEN CAN SEE MORE OF WHICH TO WORK ON...LEARN TO SAY YES AND NO WITH MEANING... SHOUT OUT TO ALL THE PEOPLE WHO CAN MAKE LIGHT OF ANY SITUATION AND MAKE OTHERS LAUGH IN POSITIVE DIRECTION ...NOT AT PERSON...BECAUSE NO ONE LIKES BEING MADE FUN OF...SO LAUGH IT OFF AND LETS DO BEST TO GET THROUGH NEXT FIVE YEARS OK? DRINK WATER COOK INVEST IN SELF DONT BE AFRAID TO ASK FOR HELP. HELP IF YOU CAN DONT BE DISCOURAGED KEEP TRYING NEVER STOP MAKE DISCIPLINE DONT CHANGE FOR OTHERS CHANGE FOR SELF COMPETE AGAINST YOUR YESTERDAY MAKE GOALS BELIEVE IN SELF PICK FRIENDS CAREFULLY DONT MAKE EXCEPTIONS IF SOMEONE HAS 200 STRIKES FORGET IT NOONE IS WORTH THAT MUCH EFFORT BECAUSE THEY WILL NEVER BE CONTENT OR HAPPY FOR YOUR BEING BESIDE THEM INVEST IN WHAT YOU SEE FIT...
If you will take this all suggestions literally there won't be anyone to trust on this planet. I don't avoid people based on their character. I avoid people in certain situations according to their character.
There are plenty of contents you guys have created and which I love. This one, though, is by far the one I enjoyed listening to the most. Really good 👏🏻
People who are cruel to animals are so disgusting. I have two cats and a ferret and they can be really bratty or gross but animals will never understand negative reinforcement, only positive. So being aggressive will never get you the behaviour you want out of them.
People who drive motorcycles. I don't know why but this always seems to be that people with motorcycles tend to be a certain type of person that seems consistent. I have absolutely no idea why this is the way it is but I am 51 and I have met many people who ride motorcycles and they all seem to have the same character flaws. They tend to be hard headed and a little aggressive and a little narcissistic. One good thing about them is they like freedom. I can get on board with that.
And where would you find a person with not even one of these bad qualities? NOWHERE!!!! Moral: There is no better person to trust than yourself and your family.
I know someone who possesses 15-out-of-15 of these behaviors and seems to be proud of it -- totally lacks self awareness and will escalate the untrustworthy traits if called out.
Never trust anyone who take sides. One minute they are your buddy...then switch up, ignore you, then buddy up with some one else, leaving you hanging.😔
I'm well aware of number 9. I have done the same because I never got to make a lot of friends during school and right after school, I decided to reconnect with them. TBH, from what I can tell, Alux doesn't mean that you shouldn't completely avoid people who do this but you should be cautious because, good or bad, everyone has an agenda. For example, a guy who wants to make new friends or reconnect with his old ones can be trusted if he proves that this is exactly why he suddenly wanted to meet up. Another example is a person who just wants to use you. If this is their agenda, it will be somewhat apparent to you if you observe closely.
This is a good list Alux, but I have to disagree with “being too nice”. As a man, you don’t just show some emotion when things go wrong. You feel the feeling, you logically process a calm response and you pull them to the side and let them know what’s up. People sometimes like getting under your skin for the hell of it, and when you react you’ve given them control of you.
Dont sleep on it, this is time to invest in Cryptocurrency (Bitcoin) I recently just bought another property valued at over $1.2m. I wish I knew the right investment firm to invest with earlier. better late than never thought I'm earning more money from my investment
The type of people that I can't stand the most are those that want to enter an agreement/ relationship with you without actually understanding the terms and conditions, only to want to backtrack later and blame you for being yourself. I don't have a name for those types
- people who have dirty glasses and smudges all over - people who take a small loan first pay it back then take another small loan and pay it back and then ask for a big loan - people who don't wear socks or belts - people who don't shower - people who never get the cheque - people who are very very careful with money despite being rich
The "too nice" is a bit dodgy. There is "fake nice" which can mean someone might act nice because they want something, but being "nice" by agreeing with everything is something I am guilty of because I simply don't like confrontation. I know what it's like to get angry easily, and being nice is something I find keeps me healthy.This list covers nearly 90 to 100% of normal human traits. There is virtually nobody you can trust after reading this. The definition of a boring person is "somebody who wants to talk about themselves when you want to talk about yourself. EVERYBODY has some kind of flaw. So, Alux lady (God I love your voice) who do we trust?
Love you guys! That bonus one was major! I don't put up with that kind of behavior and will put anyone in check right then and there regarding treating anyone that way! Lack of class, trust me, everyone doesn't have it and you can't buy it...👩👩👧👦👩👩👧👦👩👩👧👦👩👩👧👦👩👩👧👦👩👩👧👦
I love all Alux videos and I’ve been a subscriber since the beginning, but this is the only video I disagree with. They are looking for the perfect person and no one is perfect. You should know who to keep around you “ successful and honest people” but they almost explained every type of person because successful people. Plus successful people are easily offended and are competitive if you listen to this video you will spend the rest of your life having fun people who don’t improve and are not real.
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Alexa is god bless you
The thumbnail is amazing I love it.
Me.
Ghandi was a big time womaniser wife beater and pervert to the Nth degree ok.
Read the speed of trust by Steven convey.
“When you’re good at something, you’ll tell everyone. When you’re great at something, they’ll tell you.” -- Walter Payton
Yes, well the best judges on whether or not you are good at something are those who notice and say so. If you have to tell everybody, it usually exposes insecurity and ego.
I’m not trying my best
Something i thought of with no: 15, you always know the quality of a person by how they treat those who can't do anything for them.
Great reminder Alux. Thank you.
Can u elaborate on this pls
@@jonathanarmah721 I just read something that said “A society grows great when old men plant trees whose shade they know they shall never sit in.” They’re both pretty much saying do something for someone not expecting anything in return.
1. People like to tell stories about other people 0:44
2. Those that belittle their ex 1:14
3. People who flirt too much and are too touchy-feely 1:59
4. Those that only speak about themselves 2:44
5. People's story that is always bigger than yours 3:09
6. Those that fall in love too quickly 3:38
7. Pathological liars 4:28
8. People who are too nice 5:33
9. School friends that want to meet up at 6:08
10. People who can't apologize for 6:44
11. People who violate your boundaries 7:17
12. Cheaters 7:52
13. Passive-aggressive or competitive 8:39
14. Easily offended no sense of humor 9:49
15. People that are mean to animals 10:17
ruclips.net/video/MXp9amsiMyY/видео.html
Thank you
Thanks you
Looking for this 😘
Their coworkers and family feel sorry for such people instead of telling them about themselves! People with morals don't allow such trash in their lives! Nice people are the worst abusers.
You don't have to do this anymore because of timestamps but thanks anyway.
Trust not the individual but their interests, their tendencies, their actions, and priorities. That will help you understand them and avoid having expectations go sour. What you notice in others usually also reflects on you in some ways.
Very well said!
Great insight!
Okay, you've got my attention
Exactly, Spot On..
Go with your gut. If you find yourself questioning the actions of someone a little too often, it's time to gradually ease them out of your circle. They might catch on and open up to a little constructive criticism, earning their way back in by actually trying to become better people. Or if they don't, be sure to make the separation somewhat gradual so that it's less likely to invite unwanted friction. In a divorce or break up, a clean break is usually best, but a toxic friendship calls for softer hands. If you've ever had a friend become an enemy, you know exactly what I mean.
Keep your enemies close but your friends closer....
An honest enemy is better than a deceptive friend....
Trust is like a glass, when shattered and restored it’s never the same....
Wealthiest man Alive keep your *friends* close but your *enemies* closer
@@gu3sswh075 I already typed that....
read your comment 🤦🤦
“PEOPLE who have a NICE conversation before asking for a FAVOR are the most UNTRUSTWORTHY people you’re ever going to confront in LIFE”
Are you related to Robin🙈?
Yep
Yes. My sister does this and she is a full on psychopath.
Best comment!
Amén👍😊
🤔 Don’t trust a stranger who is telling you who you should trust.
no one should trust you then
@@bernardtan8250 and alux too!
@@jumino4565 Yup dude, there's not even a link to actual research indicating the accuracy of these facts. I mean, if i think deeply than the majority of the population will somehow fall into these categories (including me).
@@erutanevoli You're right sometimes these videos don't make any sense and try to be imposed on us as if they came from an all knowing source!
@@erutanevoli I guess you’re not to be trusted
Whoever chose the thumbnail is a legend 😂
Hell yea lol
It was me, thanks
I didn't understood
You should get a like from #alux.com
Exactly...🤣
I'll add one: Don't trust people who are always on social media being narcissistic. They will do anything for attention and have low self esteem and need praise from people on the daily. I understand we all post selfies but shouldn't be several selfies a day and nonsense posts.
And also they will have problem with every political move , capitalism or any incident happening in the world
Also those that post all their private business and those that only comment on posts to disagree
True.self confidence is very important in order to make a forward move
Moral of the video: Don't trust anyone.
Yep
True. I don’t know anyone who doesn’t fall in at least one of these categories. I even recognise myself...
@@linalazareva1422 😂😂😂
So true
😁
God bless whoever reads this you will be successful in whatever you do,i haven't been so lucky pandemic destroyed everything i had, now lonely and searching for a job,
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Hang in there and stay positive.
Hats off man! Stay positive!
@@daventi5677 says the guy that pretends to be a diktator
"When you want to succeed as bad as you want to breathe, then you'll be successful" -Eric Thomas
I am the only one in the comment section who realised your repeating this quote in another Alux video
Number 5 is something I've experienced in someone else. Every time I told them something bad happened to me, it was always worst for them.
Many of the reasons for culling my "friend" list over the years
Same
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I sometimes hit people up out of the blue I’m not close with. I never ask them for anything, and generally I just do it to say hi or wish them well. I don’t do it for anything other than as a form of kindness and to let them know someone cares. For example I may say hey (insert name) Happy Birthday (occasion for this example or reason I reached out) I hope life is treating you well. I then leave it at that, or if they start a dialogue with me I keep it short and end with if I can help you in any way let me know.
People who say, you “little” new job or your “lil” idea...that’s their way of undermining what you have going on
I love the thumbnail :D
Alux, you're really making a difference - the World's so much more Aluxed with you, wish I could have met you 5 years earlier. Thank you!
I have always had a deep sense of understanding I came to on my own, people who tret animals poorly are not good people, there is a difference between not liking animals because not everyone can like a cat or a dog but when that animal is harmless and they just find the urge to maltreat the animal without any prompt, it honestly sickens me and I hate it to my core when people oppress those who less than them just because they can or out of greed... stay away from people who openly talk down or oppress another person even if it is subtly
That random high school face book notification has been about 50% people wanting to just get to know me because they realized they should have in high school and want to be friends, and 50% MLM's
Don't trust person who has broken faith once. - W. Shakespeare
I like that
@@GQ-jv9uw 🥂🎉
pure words of gold
Those who are reading my comment, I pray that they are always happy and become more successful in life.
Thank you
Vibes and returning back to you!!
Himanshu Kumar JNV Thank you. I hope you are always happy also, and become more successful in life as well.
I think the thumbnail is about you too
Amen, same same to you 💋
Hey guys! To the point of "nice": In Germany, we have a saying: "Nice is the little sister oh sh..!" You always say 'nice' if it was not good, but you want to be polite and not open out that it was not. Everybody knows that situation: "Ya... It was nice...". So thank you Alux for putting that one on this list!!
Alux is really maturing into a Go To Channel when needed Real Life Practical & Sensible Solutions! Thank You So Much Alux for the Efforts & Tutorials! ♥️🍎🕯
I don’t trust subtweeters! It’s one thing to talk behind a person’s back to another person, but for some people, they don’t have people to talk their crap with, so they go on to Twitter and other social media platforms. Often times, too, when their “friends” know who is being talked about, they will respond with “should I @/tag them?”
In my head, that sounded like a point that we could hear on one of these videos! Haha
I definitely judge by how they think about animals, I was doing this test on people for last 3 years. I was never wrong on understanding their behaviour. They don't know the way I figure out with my tricky questions but helped me many ways. My secret on this is noone actually says bad about themselves and I don't have time years n years to find out their true face, so I understand what's their opinion on animals with my unrelated question which seems very normal 😁
Tell me pls. Inwant to know how
If its ok
@@danielmaps9309 talk normally with a person and when things goes casual conversation ask them if they have any pet, ask when only things are very casual so that no doubt comes. If anyone walks their dog on the road at the same time you are in conversation with the person, kind of situation which doesn't seems planned. If they says they don't then normally try to know why they don't have. Is it because they don't like or they like but some other problem. If the person don't like pets at all, I have seen mostly they're not trust worthy, they pretend to be with their nice conversation but within 1-2 years it shows up. They wouldn't be bothered to betray you if necessary. Just be aware of this and you won't be hurt if something goes wrong. Again 5 fingers are not same, it's only my experience.👍👍 (If the person is clever he/she knows this game and now Alux also putting it out😁😁 so makeup a good situation, else they might lie, so take time)
Types of People You Should Never Trust
№ 1: Fickle-minded people. Did you ever play on a seesaw well? ...
№ 2: People who tell you other people's secrets. ...
№ 3: People who are too sweet to you. ...
№ 4: People with competitive traits. ...
№ 5: People with narcissistic traits. ...
№ 6: People who lack empathy. ...
№ 7: The Social Climber.
Some one who just talks to much.
@@olly2027 💯💯💯% right
@@olly2027 And karens
@@cyberpunk7997 yes those too.
@@olly2027 People who talk too much have low self esteem!
Bonus: YOU JUST CAN’T TRUST ANYONE!!!
I'm so touched you should put all your videos together for further generations and not for free cause I've seen people who don't appreciate your good doings.
Everyone around me has been exactly this way and that is why I'm a social recluse for the 2nd year already.....
Thanks for the accurate and fantastic content always Alux! I appreciate your channel.❤️
I am recluse so let's start a group on RUclips because not enough support for people like us and our mutant lifestyle of the real X-Men and women. I am serious they doesn't care for us and relationships are a cop out we don't need them they need us. So ask yourself who is the person really next to you.
We have been through some shits and it is sad when one of us is told that we are the "toxic people".
Alux thank you guys for everything man sincerely! It’s helped me self reflect and also see others for who they are
I’m working on bettering myself little by little everyday and your advice is everything to me
I could only describe it as enlightening
It took a lot of time to sort out my thoughts, I was thinking if I have some of these traits like talking about myself or easily offended but it's not that serious as I listen to others also and remember their stories.
So Basically EVERYBODY is untrustworthy. We all have one or some of these traits. None of us are completely free of any of these traits and will do these things to others at some point or another. And if you think that NEVER do any of these... You might just be the narcissist on this list.
I think she means by doing those things a lot.
We are all works in progress. None of us is perfect.
I don't think that was the intention of the list.
Alux is a true Life Coach than anyother ❤️ love from India 🇮🇳❤️
I always go with this thought process, " If I am not willing to invest my life savings to that person, we are not Friends of trust. We only do business, and that is that."
‘Manners is the language of love amongst strangers....politeness is the language amongst sharks’...‘Lady J’😎
I was raised around gossipers and criticizers. Although my gut told me there was a fundamental problem, it took years of personal growth and self talk/improvement to understand fully these as major character flaws to be avoided!
Love you Alux!
Appreciate the time and effort you you guys put in every day..
Regarding the waiter part, I have to admit, I'm one of those people who are not very friendly towards them. It's not that I'm mean to them, just oblivious and I try not to be very friendly.
The reason being that I've had horrible experiences with them when I was in my teens. Sometimes they would flirt in perverted ways (wink at you or stare at you). My friend also had terrible experiences with them. And it's difficult to call them out because it's embarrassing to make a scene especially when you're in your teens and with your family and friends. So I grew up not being overly friendly towards them. It's different now because I'm assertive an intimidating and not scared, so I can be nice without getting taken advantage of.
I need a psychotherapist...
...as I watched this video I kept having flashbacks of my mother, doing and saying all of these 15 things to avoid in orhers. These behaviors are terribly damaging traits to foist on a child, and I recognize my desensitization to such mind games as a large part of the reason my personal relationships, both social and romantic, have been doomed to fail. It's frightening, that I so thoroughly recognize the tactics of the psychotic and pathological scumbag, and yet accept their chronic deceit and abuse as completely normal or at least tolerable. Thank goodness for my father, the polar opposite of the "crazy" mother had attempted to install as my primary operating software. His rational logical unpretentious goodness was truly the light that saved my own style and persona from internalizing and emulating all that is wrong with humanity. Now if I could just filter my interactions in order to eliminate dealing with people that remind me in any way of my mom... ergg... this is going to be difficult.
That handshake at 6:33 was quite warming 😌😌😌
I wonder why people disliking this quality content
@@offeiboafo3301 😂 true
It's easier said than done bcoz it's nt easy to avoid ur loved ones as well as yourself. "Godspeed" 👍
wow I know someone who fits all of these people in one person.
Same here
My ex and she sucks! 😉🤐
Leave Donald Trump out of this.
🤣🤣🤣 - Same - kicked her narc ass aut of my life 4 years ago.
Most people that I used to know fit half of these descriptions.
Every Thing on Alux is Great, every single video is full of great knowledge. Thank You ALUX
I trust no one but I respect everyone
One I've encountered too often is the moocher. He or she always "forgets" their wallet when dining out with you. Also, someone who "borrows" things and does not return them or returns them in damaged or dirty condition.
Another great video by the Alux team
9. This actually happened to me! After fifteen years I have finally got back in touch with a very old high school friend and was initially excited. Until he wanted me to build him a video game and fortune for him. It was hard to be graceful enough to tell him no - Because this was someone that I did care about when I was younger. I had to tell him no, but it was one the hardest things to do.
Alux, I love cats. I lost trust in my father, he had a lot of red flags, and he told me he had to keep his dog broken. And he beat me when I was little. I never want to get a dog myself - I could never keep a creature broken, nor do I believe it is acceptable
Do not trust someone who is manipulative, who values you based on what you can do for them, who is critical of themselves or is a perfectionist Generally don't trust any human being but look deeper into their intentions for you
This happened to me I moved from my home country to the US to stay with a relative who I thought to be my role model only to find out all that glitters is not gold and face one of my lowest moments with no home, no money, but rather consistent manipulation and selfishness of a man. One big fat ego. I tell this to everyone because I consider myself lucky to know is intentions soon enough but to the millions of people who trust blindly DON'T!!!!!!!!!!!
The thumbnail is epic. Give that man a raise. 😂
Oh dear god, Alux. How will I get a new job if I follow this list?!
I will say, part of growing up and living life is encountering these people and learning how to live with it (and them.)
The biggest surprise - finding out you are this person.
.....i search for my righteousness as often as i can. But it's a slippery bastard
I think not everyone is perfect we all have flaws. We try to be better version of ourselves so don't cutoff your friends maybe they are trying to change .
We both have earned each other's trust.
Dear Alux💝 make a video on "how to stop worrying about what others are thinking about me"
Alux always on point.. 🔥💯
The last one and the bonus are pretty good advices!
This literally is 90% of the people around me 😂
I know what you how feel.
Same here, I can understand
Co workers
Here's a couple that I've noticed throughout the years.
They constantly throw a pity party. You know that person that you could be talking about anything with, yet they somehow derail the conversation back to how they're a victim? Not only is that exhausting to be around, but they're trying to make you feel sorry for them in order to gain something from you and to use it to get out of accountability for their actions.
They try to make you apologize for having success. This is a more warped version of the previous type. They can't stand anyone else succeeding because they take it as a personal attack against them. Eventually these types will resort to sabotaging.
The people who fall in love quickly girl or guy just avoid them they are there just to feel good and enjoy the feeling of "being in love" they don't know who they truly are and they're so dramatic. And I'm not saying this as don't have relationship with them but avoid them as friends two become theg will weight you down with crying over their many break ups and they're obsessed with their love life and this is the only topic and... they might be in love with you once the available people run out
Actually, having a few competitive people in my life has driven me like nothing else. Some of them are great friends, others. I berly know. One thing is for sure, I do best when surrounded by competition.
Who to not trust?
Those whose laugh is fake. That is a huge tell. It is the kind of laugh that makes you look twice, it feels wrong, it doesn't come through true.
Those who say "Trust me". Never trust them, ever! Trust is earned, not demanded. (Same with those that demand loyalty from the beginning)
A hardy amen on the animal abusers being the lowest of the low. Every thing else you mentioned can be chalked up to human imperfections, but animal abuse is a true sign of a psychopath.
You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with
Love last one...which may be part of reason I act other ways listed towards right people
Working at better self had KIND friend point out few things that I could stand to change...don't judge don't compare.....being rude is hard but some do with out thought...remember how you think and treat others...
And YES STAND UP FOR SELF HAVE CONFIDENCE...NOTHING IRRITATING THAN SOME ONE WHO DOESN'T SPEAK UP FOR WHAT THEY NEED...DONT EXPECT BABYSITTERS TO LIVE YOUR LIFE THAT BECOMES THEIRS....
ALSO TAKEN TO OTHER END THOSE WHO KNOW NO BOUNDARIES AND TAKE FROM WORLD WITHOUT ASKING ..
I HAVE BEEN AND HAVE MANY BITS OF NUMBERS...
BUT IT BECOMES CHOICE TO REMOVE TOXIC OUT OF LIFE AND THEN CAN SEE MORE OF WHICH TO WORK ON...LEARN TO SAY YES AND NO WITH MEANING...
SHOUT OUT TO ALL THE PEOPLE WHO CAN MAKE LIGHT OF ANY SITUATION AND MAKE OTHERS LAUGH IN POSITIVE DIRECTION ...NOT AT PERSON...BECAUSE NO ONE LIKES BEING MADE FUN OF...SO LAUGH IT OFF AND LETS DO BEST TO GET THROUGH NEXT FIVE YEARS OK?
DRINK WATER COOK INVEST IN SELF
DONT BE AFRAID TO ASK FOR HELP.
HELP IF YOU CAN
DONT BE DISCOURAGED KEEP TRYING
NEVER STOP
MAKE DISCIPLINE
DONT CHANGE FOR OTHERS CHANGE FOR SELF
COMPETE AGAINST YOUR YESTERDAY
MAKE GOALS
BELIEVE IN SELF
PICK FRIENDS CAREFULLY
DONT MAKE EXCEPTIONS IF SOMEONE HAS 200 STRIKES FORGET IT
NOONE IS WORTH THAT MUCH EFFORT BECAUSE THEY WILL NEVER BE CONTENT OR HAPPY FOR YOUR BEING BESIDE THEM
INVEST IN WHAT YOU SEE FIT...
If you will take this all suggestions literally there won't be anyone to trust on this planet. I don't avoid people based on their character. I avoid people in certain situations according to their character.
There are plenty of contents you guys have created and which I love. This one, though, is by far the one I enjoyed listening to the most. Really good 👏🏻
People who are cruel to animals are so disgusting. I have two cats and a ferret and they can be really bratty or gross but animals will never understand negative reinforcement, only positive. So being aggressive will never get you the behaviour you want out of them.
People who drive motorcycles. I don't know why but this always seems to be that people with motorcycles tend to be a certain type of person that seems consistent. I have absolutely no idea why this is the way it is but I am 51 and I have met many people who ride motorcycles and they all seem to have the same character flaws. They tend to be hard headed and a little aggressive and a little narcissistic. One good thing about them is they like freedom. I can get on board with that.
And where would you find a person with not even one of these bad qualities?
NOWHERE!!!!
Moral: There is no better person to trust than yourself and your family.
Sometimes you can't even trust your family.
This is also a good list for self-examination
If you are yourself none of them , you will automatically find good people around you.
I know someone who possesses 15-out-of-15 of these behaviors and seems to be proud of it -- totally lacks self awareness and will escalate the untrustworthy traits if called out.
Completely random fact:
If you started with $0.01 and doubled your money every day, it would take 27 days to become a millionaire.
Holy crap your right. Damn.
It's copied not sure yet
Head OK good Ganne Wala us
Maybe I did thought to reason is important for Ho. Accept it
Maybe I did thought to reason is important for Ho. Accept it
Never trust anyone who take sides. One minute they are your buddy...then switch up, ignore you, then buddy up with some one else, leaving you hanging.😔
Thank you! Cool video topic!
Viral Mat Banana
I don't forget to swim I don't float either I dive
Sorry Lethe Hi Raho
Would be nice if RUclips inserted the ad breaks in a more natural way, at a pause in the content, not mid-word or sentence!!
The people who never wanna share theirs but it’s open season on yours. They forgot that
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would like to have a video on "who to be trusted"
Trust no one but respect everyone by WHO
Thank you Alux
i mean this one time one friend just out of the blue asked me for coffe and we just caught up about what were doing in life
I'm well aware of number 9. I have done the same because I never got to make a lot of friends during school and right after school, I decided to reconnect with them. TBH, from what I can tell, Alux doesn't mean that you shouldn't completely avoid people who do this but you should be cautious because, good or bad, everyone has an agenda.
For example, a guy who wants to make new friends or reconnect with his old ones can be trusted if he proves that this is exactly why he suddenly wanted to meet up.
Another example is a person who just wants to use you. If this is their agenda, it will be somewhat apparent to you if you observe closely.
This is a good list Alux, but I have to disagree with “being too nice”. As a man, you don’t just show some emotion when things go wrong. You feel the feeling, you logically process a calm response and you pull them to the side and let them know what’s up. People sometimes like getting under your skin for the hell of it, and when you react you’ve given them control of you.
Dont sleep on it, this is time to invest in Cryptocurrency (Bitcoin) I recently just bought another property valued at over $1.2m. I wish I knew the right investment firm to invest with earlier. better late than never thought I'm earning more money from my investment
Hitler Mussolini you're definitely correct
@@williealbert1502 EXACTLY
Wise words 👍
You're right, thanks you for introducing me to Expert Ethan Jerry
We got to see people remain poor due to ignorance
The type of people that I can't stand the most are those that want to enter an agreement/ relationship with you without actually understanding the terms and conditions, only to want to backtrack later and blame you for being yourself.
I don't have a name for those types
I haven't encountered someone like that but it sure sounds bad.
@@ingevankeirsbilck9601 trust me if you were in a situation like that, you would've known it
- people who have dirty glasses and smudges all over
- people who take a small loan first pay it back then take another small loan and pay it back and then ask for a big loan
- people who don't wear socks or belts
- people who don't shower
- people who never get the cheque
- people who are very very careful with money despite being rich
The "too nice" is a bit dodgy. There is "fake nice" which can mean someone might act nice because they want something, but being "nice" by agreeing with everything is something I am guilty of because I simply don't like confrontation. I know what it's like to get angry easily, and being nice is something I find keeps me healthy.This list covers nearly 90 to 100% of normal human traits. There is virtually nobody you can trust after reading this. The definition of a boring person is "somebody who wants to talk about themselves when you want to talk about yourself. EVERYBODY has some kind of flaw. So, Alux lady (God I love your voice) who do we trust?
So, Alux just described every person watching this video 😂
Not so.
I definitely need to watch this, it's hard to trust these people out here
#17 Dont trust people who tattoo words like "Loyalty" on themselves, actions speak louder than words
Yep
“Trust but verify it by testing it now & than"
Love you guys! That bonus one was major! I don't put up with that kind of behavior and will put anyone in check right then and there regarding treating anyone that way! Lack of class, trust me, everyone doesn't have it and you can't buy it...👩👩👧👦👩👩👧👦👩👩👧👦👩👩👧👦👩👩👧👦👩👩👧👦
Anyone that you are with who makes little snide remarks about you to your face and think that you can't figure out what they are saying.
I love all Alux videos and I’ve been a subscriber since the beginning, but this is the only video I disagree with. They are looking for the perfect person and no one is perfect. You should know who to keep around you “ successful and honest people” but they almost explained every type of person because successful people. Plus successful people are easily offended and are competitive if you listen to this video you will spend the rest of your life having fun people who don’t improve and are not real.
Basically you are saying don't trust anyone.
You can trust me 😈
The Raw Truth is always better then a Sweet Lie