what I feel about my sister leaving Korea as a 28 year old

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  • Опубликовано: 18 дек 2024

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  • @markpparkinseoul
    @markpparkinseoul  4 месяца назад +47

    I'm truely amazed by the heartwarming comments. I didn't know this video would get this much interest. Thank you so much for giving me great advice. It means a lot! I will stay strong! 💪🏻

  • @yhhykh9957
    @yhhykh9957 5 месяцев назад +108

    my algorithm led me here and I must say I feel like your vid really captures the sibling relationship in such a natural raw way, in a good way.

  • @micaelaclifford2729
    @micaelaclifford2729 4 месяца назад +1

    First video that popped out in my page. What a great video, this is so Cinema! Full of emotions and inexplanable feelings you can feel when someone close goes to a different country, all my family leave my country Argentina and moved to Europe...it's like I'm so happy for them but there's birthday, christmas, holidays and just random days that I didn't spend with them and we felt the void.
    Big luck from now on and keep making these type of videos Mark, is great!

  • @LavenderLibran
    @LavenderLibran 5 месяцев назад +47

    This was a lovely way to honor your relationship with your sister. Sounds like you really love her-you should tell her. And don't be distant.

  • @markpparkinseoul
    @markpparkinseoul  5 месяцев назад +40

    Thank you so much for every sis 🙏🏻 wish you luck

    • @BeLovelyOK
      @BeLovelyOK 5 месяцев назад

      You’re so sweet! What a sweet brother you are… I’m blessed with younger brothers that are sweet too… Hope you do well and I’m sure she’ll be there for you too! 🙏🏻

  • @sandihunter1260
    @sandihunter1260 5 месяцев назад +28

    My son has been in Korea for 9 years and I have only seen him two times but we are close, you have to really make sure you stay in touch, daily or weekly.

  • @lilsweetcat
    @lilsweetcat 5 месяцев назад +18

    Ooh the sibling relationship! Sometimes we may fight with our siblings, but we would die for them ❤

  • @raijmondevanderlinden8168
    @raijmondevanderlinden8168 5 месяцев назад +47

    All siblings fight,scream,get annoyed with each other,compete. BUT when there in trouble of some kind, that’s when the magic happens because they always have each others back. Now you have a great place to go on holiday. DON’T wait for her to ring you first,take the initiative and contact her first and keep it going, that will show here that she doesn’t always have to make the first,it will take some pressure of her and help her to relax. Your a awesome brother and your closer than you both think. I wish you both well in what ever you do. That from a grandma who was also always like your sister, first port of call for everyone,NEVER judge a book by its cover,the story might be completely different.💕👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @theenglishlearningchannel259
    @theenglishlearningchannel259 3 месяца назад +1

    WIsh your whole family all the very best!

  • @romanticscents
    @romanticscents 4 месяца назад +2

    Awww, I really love the video about your sister! I pray your sister has much success and her journey here in the USA will allow her to go far and many more great doors of opportunity will open for her. Welcome to USA. Congratulations! First time here. I subb'ed.

  • @kiwaleon4040
    @kiwaleon4040 5 месяцев назад +11

    I cried just listening to this. If my sister was leaving for another country, I'd feel sad too. I love my sister and could feel your loss. Wishing her success and happiness.
    Thanks for sharing and "hi" from Murwillumbah. Australia

  • @shoshw9328
    @shoshw9328 5 месяцев назад +6

    What a lovely, heartfelt message! She is lucky to have you as a brother!

  • @Giovy28
    @Giovy28 5 месяцев назад +6

    Thank you RUclips to put these video on my feed, it made cry because I have 4 sisters and we have to go through these many times, I really love them. ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @grimmmunro2279
    @grimmmunro2279 5 месяцев назад +12

    Aaah! That was so lovely and heartfelt, made me tear up😢 im an only child and would have loved a brother or sister.😊

  • @blessedeternally2666
    @blessedeternally2666 4 месяца назад +1

    Aww what a special love you have for your sister. You're such an awesome brother. A brother every sister would like to have.
    Tell her more ❤

  • @annafeldmann8781
    @annafeldmann8781 5 месяцев назад +6

    The algorithm led me here and I must say this video or rather dedication to your sister is really touching! I hope she has a good time and that you keep in touch through calls/ messages and visits 🙂

  • @ginaconlon3181
    @ginaconlon3181 4 месяца назад

    Sharing your life experiences this way certainly helps those who are also trying to figure out what life they want now. Venturing into the unknown, moving away from our comforts zone is daunting, scary and can bring about a lot of stress. But taking a leap of faith, coupled with a resolve to face and accept what lies beyond can bring us the fulfillment we want. More power Mark!!!!!!

  • @loucampbell7442
    @loucampbell7442 5 месяцев назад +8

    So sweet! Good luck to your sister in her new adventure. She has a great brother who will be there for her no matter what.

  • @eyethumfazwe
    @eyethumfazwe 5 месяцев назад +4

    I love the honesty, understanding, relatability and quality of this video. Thank you for sharing ♥️
    Regards from South Africa

  • @KelahCash
    @KelahCash 5 месяцев назад +19

    Now I'm crying! This is the first video I've seen from you and your channel, and already you have me in my emotions 😩
    Blessings to your sister in her new chapter! May protection, provision, & blessing follow your whole family.
    This is so, so sweet. 🥹🫶🏽🤎

  • @zeethakur1154
    @zeethakur1154 5 месяцев назад +8

    As a 40 year old living under the shadow of a giant, (a giant who left for the States and he didn't return till 12 years had passed,)I wish you both siblings luck and strength, courage and endurance. Explore our beautiful planet. From India.

  • @jlj2984
    @jlj2984 4 месяца назад +2

    Lovely. Wish you both an incredible journey.

  • @erreipt
    @erreipt 4 месяца назад +1

    Why did you make me cry? I love Korea. I’m going in January for the fourth time! And it won’t be the last!

  • @VG1602
    @VG1602 4 месяца назад +2

    All the best for her for the new journey ❤

  • @shypablo
    @shypablo Месяц назад

    Bro, this video hits me so damn hard.. You might feel like you've been under the shadow of a giant, but maybe you're standing on the shoulders of a giant cuz you are the most wholesome and competent guy I've ever seen. Maybe the positive moments you've shared with your great sister have shaped who you are rn.

  • @keithmichael3154
    @keithmichael3154 5 месяцев назад +14

    this is quality content ! keep it up man

  • @mullen25
    @mullen25 4 месяца назад +2

    all the best to your sister. this is heartfelt and touching.

  • @annabellarodriguez2301
    @annabellarodriguez2301 4 месяца назад +1

    You are lucky to have each other to lean on and comfort each other. Just knowing that you’re there if she needs you is comforting. You are a great brother.😍

  • @livelearnlaugh72
    @livelearnlaugh72 4 месяца назад

    Be supportive to your sister that will be her support mo matter what .

  • @erreipt
    @erreipt 4 месяца назад +3

    Never be afraid to say “I LOVE YOU”.

  • @TheKmunjal
    @TheKmunjal 4 месяца назад

    Your emotional video made me cry too, god bless both of you!

  • @archanakumar7427
    @archanakumar7427 4 месяца назад

    May you both always share this love and camaraderie!

  • @NasrinNasrin-rn5zw
    @NasrinNasrin-rn5zw 4 месяца назад +1

    I think you're good brother and human. i wish your sister all the best ❤

  • @lilianavuscan5652
    @lilianavuscan5652 5 месяцев назад +26

    I'm the one who left and I felt the same love from my family. Make sure you keep in close touch with her, she'll need it!!!

  • @3littlebyeol3
    @3littlebyeol3 4 месяца назад

    I think sometimes we don't realise how much comfort we can give to our family simply by being present in their lives. I mean, we don't even need to call each other that often, we can be totally different, but despite all that, we CARE and that's what matters the most.
    Wishing you and your family all the blessings! 💚

  • @beautyin8
    @beautyin8 4 месяца назад

    I have brothers and sisters in states too and I know your feelings , stay strong honey.

  • @Andy_TKC
    @Andy_TKC 4 месяца назад +1

    We ❤you

  • @kousikibose6504
    @kousikibose6504 4 месяца назад +1

    Sweet 😇😇🥰🥰🥰

  • @estelsaradop492
    @estelsaradop492 4 месяца назад +1

    We're Greek-American living in Greece and when my sister left for the US again I was devastated. Fortunately, she returned after a year and a half because although Greece has low income, etc. it's still a place where you can live healthily in every aspect. I'm sending wishes that your sister finds all that she's looking for and that you reunite happily and under the best circumstances ❤
    PS
    Siblings that don't fight, don't bond. This is a scientific fact (my sister and I fought A LOT!!)
    PPS
    Older generations don't realise that comparing one person to another is wrong. Younger, educated people know that we cannot compare to each other because individuals are just that!: unique individuals 😊

  • @lindamedina1447
    @lindamedina1447 5 месяцев назад +3

    Sweet brother. Wish I had one like you😊😊😊. Good luck to you and especially your sister.

  • @Karen-b1z7l
    @Karen-b1z7l 5 месяцев назад +3

    Change is always hard, and when we look back on things its always with rose coloured glasses, forgetting the time when people drove you mad, or why you wanted to move on. She is realising her dreams and should do well, and you need to do the same. I live on the other side of the world from my family, and if they visit I feel terrible when they leave and wander into the bedroom they were in , making it worst, but you have to pick up and carry on, thats how life is!!

  • @SamJones01011
    @SamJones01011 4 месяца назад

    Beautiful vid! ❤

  • @ellarossi6624
    @ellarossi6624 4 месяца назад

    First time coming across your channel, this video is so beautiful,full of emotions, it reminded me of the time my little sister left to the USA🥹...
    I wish your sister hard luck for her new journey 🍀 and to you too 😊

  • @qiminyang9331
    @qiminyang9331 4 месяца назад

    Very ❤ video! I am the one who left home far away, I feel for this relationship

  • @alyonamalgina
    @alyonamalgina 5 месяцев назад +11

    This is a very heart-warming video! I do understand what it is like to say goodbye, it i never easy. I'm sure everyone can see how much you care about your sister. It is pure happiness to have smb by your side even if you are on different continents now. I wish all the luck to your sister on her new journey, and I am cheering for you as well!
    PS: I randomly came across your video and smth caught my eye, I guess, so I checked some other videos. You have a very distinctive style which I really like, and the ideas and thoughts you share, they can be helpful to some people as they make you reflect a lot. Not sure about others, but for me it somehow feels like a conversation with a friend, though it is one-sided. Please, keep doing what you do. I look forward to your content :)
    P.P.S: thanks for including Korean subs to your videos! I can challenge myself every time I watch your videos cause both Korean and English are not my native languages, so it is double profit for me! haha

  • @mikemclane8821
    @mikemclane8821 4 месяца назад

    WOW - you are an amazing brother -- it is great see this side of you

  • @emilyspector2728
    @emilyspector2728 4 месяца назад

    That’s gotta suck being compared to your sibling. But you guys have a great relationship. Wish I had a brother like you. Mine basically is dead to me. Just reach out to her a lot. Let her know how you are so proud of her and to not be afraid to call. Good times and in bad times. I hope she is successful here in the States!!

  • @Letsbetrue
    @Letsbetrue 5 месяцев назад +2

    I love your culture and how close and true you all are to your family 😭❤️I wish I had that. You’re such a good brother

    • @markpparkinseoul
      @markpparkinseoul  5 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you so much for the heartwarming comment! Wish I could be a better one 🥲

  • @vivianidelacerda9708
    @vivianidelacerda9708 5 месяцев назад +1

    All the best to your sister and to yourself and to the people you love.

  • @beulaho
    @beulaho 4 месяца назад

    I just relocated (UK to Singapore) last month and I don't think my older brothers were _this_ touched... At least they didn't show it! 🥺

  • @K-dramaSpecialClips
    @K-dramaSpecialClips 5 месяцев назад

    Wow, really touched my heart 😢😊. Thanks for sharing your beautiful story.

  • @beeku5557
    @beeku5557 5 месяцев назад

    You're so cute and what lovely sentiments you have for your sister. And how do you speak like a natural English speaker? Rock on!

  • @kaylaannemae
    @kaylaannemae 5 месяцев назад +3

    this is so sweet i love this 🥹❤️

  • @genesis.kts_
    @genesis.kts_ 5 месяцев назад +5

    Definitely harder saying goodbye to family! By the way, i'm in the air force as well. Thanks for your service! enjoyed the vlog!

    • @markpparkinseoul
      @markpparkinseoul  5 месяцев назад +2

      it was! OMG thank you for your service as well!!

  • @AmbientofLight
    @AmbientofLight 5 месяцев назад +1

    This is cute. I see the void in both relationship until ur sister opened up.

  • @PromanApeto
    @PromanApeto 4 месяца назад

    So nice to stay with your sister and lovely family also

  • @helenpinsent7742
    @helenpinsent7742 4 месяца назад

    Lovely message take care❤🎉😊

  • @aniv26
    @aniv26 5 месяцев назад

    Good luck to this new chapter of your life!

  • @viperjay1
    @viperjay1 5 месяцев назад

    Love, laugh, hug,.... while you still can.

  • @inawatyliano7825
    @inawatyliano7825 5 месяцев назад +1

    My siblings are my besties. What hurt them...will hurt me more.

  • @hwk3407
    @hwk3407 4 месяца назад

    갑자기 석세션 짤이..ㅋㅋㅋㅋ
    누나분 가셨군요ㅜㅜ 스텝업 하러 가시는거니까 조금만 섭섭해하세요ㅎㅎ 저도 남동생이랑 친한데 마크파크님 영상보니까 갑자기 보고싶어지네용

  • @PromanApeto
    @PromanApeto 4 месяца назад

    Nice to see you

  • @zigzag00
    @zigzag00 5 месяцев назад +1

    Good luck stay strong!

  • @LynnD0109
    @LynnD0109 5 месяцев назад +1

    I remember when my sister went to live in Australia from the UK. It was heart breaking. But on the good side, I’ve visited 4 times, although it’s a long way.

  • @lthill4656
    @lthill4656 4 месяца назад

    My sister is no longer here. I love this ❤😢

  • @LotusBloom0309
    @LotusBloom0309 4 месяца назад

    This is so sweet

  • @PromanApeto
    @PromanApeto 3 месяца назад

    I like your sister so cute and lovely even you look handsome boy 🥰

  • @mirandapillsbury7885
    @mirandapillsbury7885 4 месяца назад

    this made me so emotional omg :(

  • @Through-B
    @Through-B 5 месяцев назад +3

    저도 몇년전에 미국으로 유학갔을 때 남동생이랑 인천공항 가는 차안에서 엄청 울었던 기억이 있네요 ㅠ 누나가 영상 보면 마음도 아프겠지만 너무 좋아할 것 같아요. 잘 봤습니다 ㅎㅎ

    • @markpparkinseoul
      @markpparkinseoul  5 месяцев назад +1

      헉 저랑 비슷한 경험을 가지고 계시군요?! 😭😭 진짜.. 이상하게 그날 눈물이 막 나더라고요... 감사해요

    • @Through-B
      @Through-B 5 месяцев назад

      @@markpparkinseoul 부모님 앞에서도 안울었는데 동생이랑은 엄청 울었네요 ㅠㅠ 가서도 부모님보다 동생이 너무 보고싶었어요 🥲 각자 위치에서 누구보다 더 행복하실거에요! 😊 화이팅입니다

  • @cinditauriac1012
    @cinditauriac1012 5 месяцев назад

    Love this, what a precious video😊

  • @DA_0000
    @DA_0000 5 месяцев назад

    In short you are proud of her and miss her too😊

  • @IglooDweller
    @IglooDweller 5 месяцев назад +1

    I was surprised when I cried, too.

  • @experiencelifelittleone
    @experiencelifelittleone 5 месяцев назад +1

    This is so sweet. :)

  • @subinlee1137
    @subinlee1137 5 месяцев назад

    마크파크 화이팅~!~!~!~!~! 정말 영상미 너무 좋아요~!~!

  • @JobjobJob-f6e
    @JobjobJob-f6e 4 месяца назад +1

    This is so personal that….

  • @babyrose124
    @babyrose124 3 месяца назад +1

    I don’t know why but this video popped up to my algorithm and i started to think that it had to do something with my brother🙄 He’s been working abroad for almost a year (maybe? lol) and I can see that my mom n dad misses him even though they’re pretending not to. When I was a child, i was always compared to him cuz he did everything perfectly. As you mentioned your beloving sister in this video, my older brother was also what you could call a “SUPERSTAR”. (Good grades, great school, High scores..) So I was kinda sad at those times being compared, but I guess family is family! Sometimes I’m even worried if he’s eating every meal 😇🤣
    After watching your video, I’m sure you’ll get to be a much stronger & emotional person who can overcome any difficulties.🤞🏻
    가족이 해외에 있는 사람으로서 너무나 공감되던 짧지만 아련한 영상이었습니당 …•̀.̫•́✧
    (알고리즘아 고마워!!)

  • @surekhapisal2077
    @surekhapisal2077 5 месяцев назад +1

    This is the same scenario with my brother too. We are far too different and my brother goes through the same situation where he is always compared to me. I don't think degrees, career, and top positions should be given more significance than leading a content life. I have it all but I chose happiness without it all.

  • @ChanelV-zi2tw
    @ChanelV-zi2tw 4 месяца назад

    Best of luck to your sister. What a wonderful brother you are. Although there is stress wherever we go , I hope it will be better for her wherever she goes.

  • @justhuman43
    @justhuman43 4 месяца назад

    Nice!

  • @anneb2540
    @anneb2540 5 месяцев назад

    Beautiful 💖

  • @blooddiarynocikas1638
    @blooddiarynocikas1638 5 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @stephanieallangarman5598
    @stephanieallangarman5598 5 месяцев назад

    My daughters are like you both. However, everyone has a balance of gifts…given to each of us. Things can change up so quickly and we often attempt to rely on solely individual talents. I pray she finds a companion of friends or relationship, who will balance our own gifts. GOD will grow us and stretch us to be more balanced so, I pray that’s what will happen for her. I’ve experienced it all so I pray as her brother you will do the SAME.

  • @oceanairaia2652
    @oceanairaia2652 5 месяцев назад

    You miss your sister already, I feel your emptiness, but hey, You gonna be just fine 👊🏽 When in different countries, connect more often, 🤳that way loneliness won't hurt to much, when your sad your sister will feel it. So a smile a day keeps the pain away, By the way, Your cute🤭 Comment by Tracy Iraia 🇳🇿 🌏 🇳🇿 NZ 😎

  • @hoxyfoxy
    @hoxyfoxy 5 месяцев назад

    i dont know you but u had me in tears while having lunch 😭

  • @李珊-f2r
    @李珊-f2r 5 месяцев назад +1

    Your dad is handsome

  • @queenyoungshin
    @queenyoungshin 5 месяцев назад +2

    😭😭😭😭❤

  • @bourjoism3917
    @bourjoism3917 4 месяца назад

    Korea seems to be a country where people are under tremendous pressure..it’s a bit sad.Here in France we r chilled when w r not happy we protest 😂and c’est la vie…I stop working just because I will go back when I decide so no pressure 👍

  • @SophiaShim
    @SophiaShim 5 месяцев назад +1

    누나가 정말 든든하겟어요 ㅎㅎ

    • @markpparkinseoul
      @markpparkinseoul  5 месяцев назад

      누나 덕분에 제가 더 든든하죠 ㅎㅎㅎ

  • @kristinesharp6286
    @kristinesharp6286 5 месяцев назад +1

    When everyone wants to go to SKY and even SKY people flee the place.. what does everyone think who didn’t get into SKY?

  • @cooliipie
    @cooliipie 5 месяцев назад

    I cant imagine being so close to my sister 😂

  • @dannylo5875
    @dannylo5875 4 месяца назад

    Opportunities to advance in south Korea getting harder. Each year.

  • @kristinesharp6286
    @kristinesharp6286 5 месяцев назад +1

    Comparison is the thief of joy.

  • @MichelleMyBell
    @MichelleMyBell 4 месяца назад

    I don’t know if anybody asked, but curious … why didn’t you go with her start fresh?

  • @seydanurkement4782
    @seydanurkement4782 5 месяцев назад

    Yonsei universyt😮😮😮waovvv🎉🎉🎉

  • @nlcmps8912
    @nlcmps8912 4 месяца назад

    How's your English so good??

  • @alaindelon611
    @alaindelon611 5 месяцев назад +1

    Why do you compare yourself with your sister?. Create you own niche with your God given talent. Never compare yourself to anyone for your talent is unique different from theirs. My siblings are in Medical fields & my talent is not cut out on the Science field like they do. My talent is being a salesman. I am one of the top sales person in our company earning good hard earned money. Never compare with others because you will only get disappointed. CHEERS & Goodluck , from California.

  • @jamesmustin7289
    @jamesmustin7289 4 месяца назад

    Pressure wrecks people. From my observation Korea is a pressure cooker. Some pressure is needed in life. But both Korea and Japan in my opinion
    has. Way over the limit of pressure. There are many Koreans living in the United States. In Florida they stay under the radar. I think the first group
    Stays by themselves. But there are Americans of Korean decent . They must be many generations born in the U S. These people blend in quite well.
    But there has to be a reason for having one of the lowest birth rates in the world. That points to a real problem.

  • @rigelr5345
    @rigelr5345 5 месяцев назад +1

    Lol my sibling wouldn't give a fuck if I decided to live for the rest of my life on the other side of the Earth...

  • @Imbrokee.
    @Imbrokee. 5 месяцев назад

  • @lw4423
    @lw4423 5 месяцев назад +2

    hopefully she can find a white husband now

    • @LynnD0109
      @LynnD0109 5 месяцев назад +13

      ??? What kind of comment is this

    • @joannebaker4925
      @joannebaker4925 5 месяцев назад +5

      What nonsense of a comment is that. Why does she have to find a husband at all. That's up to her.

    • @lw4423
      @lw4423 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@joannebaker4925 me thinks a lot of insecure white girls are afraid of competition rising from the east...