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LOL. I can totally see it being an impractical jokers (tv show) bit😂. One of the guys from the show, Joe Gatto, has a new stand up special called “Messing With People” where he talks about just purposely doing the most socially awkward things in public. One of the ones is upon entering an elevator, pretend to be wrapping up a phone call with a lover and then refer to them as “mom” before you hang up.

I did not need a permit, at the time, in this spot!

I am glad you enjoyed the video Scott! Now I think I'm actually looking forward to more cringe moments that I can share so we can all just have a laugh and not take life too seriously😜

I do not hate men, 3rd wave feminism gives me the ick as it just seems to be hating on men. Don't remember the exact wording as it happened years ago, but a comment from a doctor of whether I should be firefighting, based on my biological sex, did happen at a walk-in clinic, during the firefighting season, on an off day. My mention of that experience was not to say all men are like this and I hate all men. And when it was said at the time, I didn’t really care a whole lot. It was off putting for sure and I was a bit offended, but I actually personally think there are some jobs that aren’t suited for women. Some women can do them, but due to biological differences, a lot of women can be less suited for certain occupations. The doctor probably didn’t know that all I did firefighting (for outdoor wildfires, [I didn’t specify this in the video]) was walk around (patrol) where the fire had already burned, and put out hot spots. It was not very labour intensive, or dangerous. I brought it up to make a point that contradicts the person’s opinion at the beginning of the video that “’cis’ labels your privilege of being able to walk through the world accepted as the gender that you were assigned at birth”. It is still possible for “cis” people to get flack or non-acceptance in ways (at least what the woke folk think is non-acceptance) for defying the social norms of their biological sex. I’ve gotten a fair amount of comments on my livestreams saying or asking if I’m trans, a man, that I look like a man, for the reason (I’m pretty sure) that as a woman, it’s very much giving ‘masculine’ a lot of the time lol, I am the biggest tomboy. I remember these comments starting after the mullet, hmm🤔 makes sense🤷‍♀️ It’s actually validating for me in ways because then I know I’m actually being myself and not trying to conform as I have conformed in ways in the past. I’m just so in my zone that I even forget sometimes makeup is a thing other females regularly put on their face, until someone mentions it. WOAH. OKAYYY ESSAYYY. THIS IS WHY I’M USUALLY AVOIDING ANSWERING COMMENTS🫠

That would be awesome and you are awesome! It's definitely a vibe. It's giving vintage, something...

I also got the mental ills and that's why I liked it. Lady Gaga in the psych ward, like yes that was so me in 2015.

HAH!🤣

A part of me did go into it wanting to be special for not hating it.

Yeah I sincerely enjoyed it.

I actually do like the glasses though and wear them all the time! They just look weird on camera sometimes... I tried to shop locally but could not find what I was looking for. The hat is real vintage, probably at least 40 years old, or older, kept safely all these years in grandma's wardrobe, if that evens it out at all.

It isn't a musical. The reason why they put the songs in the movie is for you to realize when the joker is going into his fantasy world vs when he is living in reality. It was a genius device to make that distinction. Movie's that are slower paced like that so that you have more time to think about what is going on. If you were board you probably not thinking enough during the movie.

@@treeforged9097 They've explicitly said it’s a musical. Trust me, it really is, the whole film follows the structure of a musical. I’m not sure how else to explain it, but that’s how it is! XD Just because there are regular acting scenes doesn’t mean it’s not a musical. It’s normal for musical movies to mix story scenes with musical numbers. I think you might be misunderstanding what makes something a musical. It is also listed as a musical/thriller :)

Do not be sorry, nothing to be sorry about!!! I think I had expressed that compliments can make me feel awkward/uncomfortable but I really appreciate them! Thank you.

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Wise words and thank you for the recommendation, that movies looks really good and is now on my radar!

Thank you so much for taking the time to comment and share some of your story. I've been delving into this guy's channel (JulianHimself) on RUclips and it's really helping. His videos are all about embracing the awkwardness, validating the authentic self, while invalidating the 'fake self' (masking). Love his stuff, it's really helping, just thought I'd share! I'm glad you were able to get a diagnosis that has helped you in your journey. I hope you are having an awesome day and thank you for taking the time to comment!

I wonder what that must be like...🤔 Thank you for commenting!

I'm an OLDER introvert. Theirs nothing wrong with it at all! Society is not OK with it.

True. This is true.

Joa, my one and only most awesomest moderator ever! Thank you buddy🙏

Thank you for taking the time to comment and thank you for the sub! I hope the evaluation went swell and that you get the answers you are searching for. I know what you mean when you say not "right" but I can't help myself but say there is nothing inherently "wrong" with you. In the sense that I believe society thus far is a lot of the problem, but we or our ADHD, autism, etc. is deemed to be 'the problem', unless the status quo changes. The world has functioned in a way that is more compatible with neurotypicals. I do believe that is changing, but until then, I do find comfort in the labels/diagnoses/knowing what to search for to find the other 'aliens' (really cool people).

Thank you for the validation Scott🙏

Your comment is awesome, thank you😃

You were so not rambling! I appreciate all of your comment, thank you for taking the time to share. Congrats on the Psych major by the way, that's awesome! The openness trait stuff really resonates. I feel like sometimes I am so open minded my brain is going to fall out lol, like I can really get into other peoples' perspectives, contemplate mine, try to understand why they feel/think that way, try it out for myself to see how I feel. I've had not so great experiences of close ppl in my life getting triggered by my views/opinions in a way that's as if it is a threat to their identity. Even when I'm listening to their viewpoint, not trying to change their mind at all, just after listening to how they feel, merely sharing mine. Using I statements, "I feel, I think, etc." (and sometimes preceding this is them telling me how I feel, so I'm merely correcting them and they still be getting triggered, thinking I'm arguing with them and trying to change THEIR mind). It can be frustrating. A book I'm reading on gaslighting is really helping. And, knowing, if people can't handle me having my own feelings/opinions, it's their sh*t, not my problem! Thank you for the support and I'm glad you enjoyed the live, I feel less alone now. NOW THAT WAS A RAMBLE.