Richard Forbes
Richard Forbes
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Father-Son Life Lessons: SEXTORTION - Our Story
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We share our son's experience of being an extortion victim and how he handled the extortionists with the love, support and help of his elder brother. This happened on 19th March this year.
Our wish is that this video helps other young men avoid this hugely distressing event.
This is the 2nd video in a series of videos under the playlist banner of "Brave, Strong, Kind & True" wherein I share my life's adventures and misadventures and the related lessons for our sons.
The mission of this sub-channel is to stimulate fathers towards thinking about, and being, better fathers to their sons.
*Father-Son footnote from intro: This...
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Видео

SURFSKI SAFETY: The COLD Will KILL You. The Science of Hypothermia & your Cold Gear & Comms Choices.
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Please SUBSCRIBE🥰: The fist 1000 USD per month is committed to the NSRI How sure are you about (a) Your cold weather gear and (b) Your ability to raise the alarm in an emergency ? 1. The science of hypothermia 2. Cell phone reception in False Bay and "Safetrax failure" 3. Surfski deaths in the last 3 years 4. The three recent rescues in False Bay 5. The implications for our cold gear and our em...
SOCIAL JUSTICE & SURFSKI: Justice4Jenny - VICTORY RUN !
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Please SUBSCRIBE🥰: The fist 1000 USD per month is committed to the NSRI Jenny's THANK YOU to: I would like to thank the following people for their support over the past three years. My sister Kerry Cullinan, my brother Cormac Cullinan, Bronwyn Moore executive director of Community Cohesion and her whole team, Richard Forbes, Owen Barrow my lawyer, Advocate Naidoo and Rene Mathews legal team, th...
SURFSKI: Accidental Runs
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Please SUBSCRIBE🥰: The fist 1000 USD per month is committed to the NSRI Every now and again, all of the element factors align to produce ideal "accidental" runs. "Easy to catch" runs, that you can catch even when not trying to do so ! The perfect conditions continued until later into the morning when 26 paddlers enjoyed a magnificent Buffels Run (21,86km from Fishhoek to Buffels Bay) with some ...
SURFSKI: Pandiculating Paddler corked by Mother Millers
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Please SUBSCRIBE🥰: The fist 1000 USD per month is committed to the NSRI Sat 27th July, 7.30for8.30 Reverse *Pandiculation: "the stretching and stiffening of the trunk and extremities, often accompanied by yawning, to arouse the body when fatigued or drowsy" You need to bring your A game when doing a Millers. I brought my B game on this run. I had not paddled for a week and felt lazy & lethargic...
SURFSKI SAFETY: Dog in the Fog - Lost at Sea ! "Acceptable" Risk ?
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Please SUBSCRIBE🥰: The fist 1000 USD per month is committed to the NSRI Big Thank You to Rob M and Pete H for contributing to this video 🙏 RISK Management: What is an ACCEPTABLE level of risk ? My* definition of acceptable risk for doing the Reverse Millers is as follows: 1. If 2 or more of the 7 weather forecasts I follow predict a W swing either during, or up to 2 hrs after, the planned run, ...
SURFSKI: MAGIC MOGULS (Nitro Circus 4)
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Please SUBSCRIBE🥰: The fist 1000 USD per month is committed to the NSRI Rear Camera: The last video from BIG Wednesday 10th July, and the last of 4 in the Nitro Circus series. John Blacklaws and I revelling in the moguls before the lighthouse and before the NW Nitro injection after the lighthouse. The Yodellers that you can hear from 2:55 for a full 15 seconds before you can see them, are Warri...
SURFSKI: Parking Problems (Nitro Circus 3)
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Please SUBSCRIBE🥰: The fist 1000 USD per month is committed to the NSRI Am I the only guy who has been dumped inside the protected area of the slipway ?! 😂 Mother Millers messing with me and reminding me who is in charge. John Blacklaws is just ahead of me. We were run buddies. We were together up to the lighthouse and then hardly saw each other thereafter until our entrance into the slipway. T...
SURFSKI: Nitro Circus II Rear Camera (run.of.the.day @03:01)
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Please SUBSCRIBE🥰: The fist 1000 USD per month is committed to the NSRI Same run as per Nitro Circus (comes to the Millers Run) but this time it is the rear camera. These runs occurred in the first 2km after the lighthouse. Run of the day is @ 3:01 My best ever 4 minutes in a ski !
SURFSKI: Nitro Circus comes to the Millers Run.
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Please SUBSCRIBE🥰: The fist 1000 USD per month is committed to the NSRI HUGE Thank You to the NSRI from all of us at FHBSC 🙏 My best EVER Millers Run ! What more is there to say ?!! For it to be proper Nitro, one needs both thrills AND spills ! Free Music for Videos 👉 Music by the fashion show - execution fantasy - thmatc.co/?l=0C3350E5 Music by Marottes - Hanging (Edit) - thmatc.co/?l=0F4EF2BB...
SURFSKI: Magical Runs from LH onwards
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Please SUBSCRIBE🥰: The fist 1000 USD per month is committed to the NSRI The radical forecasts did not materialise. Uneventful up until shortly before the LH when the regular NW swell combined with the new W swell to produce lots of "enduro terrain" moments and options.
SURFSKI: Buffels Reverse with 40Kt Squalls
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Please SUBSCRIBE🥰: The fist 1000 USD per month is committed to the NSRI Mark and my first Buffel's Run. Well, technically my second, as my first attempt ended in a dramatic rescue. We had not planned to go on the run but when we woke to howling wind far greater than forecast, we made last minute plans. The wind had died again before we started but certainly did not disappoint for the 2nd half o...
SURFSKI: Solstice SIZZLER 2 - front cam
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Please SUBSCRIBE🥰: The fist 1000 USD per month is committed to the NSRI See also "Solstice Sizzler" for the rear cam view. Music by the fashion show - execution fantasy - thmatc.co/?l=0C3350E5 Chapters 00:00 checking her (Mother Millers) mood out 00:41 water jacket/tunnel 01:17 runs of the day 02:21 seaweed sprinting
SURFSKI: Ready, Set, Engage and then...CRANK.it.UP (for the hot action fast.fwd to 1:35++)
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Please SUBSCRIBE🥰: The fist 1000 USD per month is committed to the NSRI Weather station at beach: 20Kts gusting to high 30s. But it felt 15-20% stronger out there ! Mother Millers celebrated mid winter with a wicked Solstice Sizzler ! Chapters 00:00 Ready 00:57 Set 01:35 Engage 02:19 CRANK.it.UP
SURFSKI: The TORTOISE and the HARES
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Tuesday 18th: Vinnie' s 2for3pm Reverse The first decent Reverse of the last month or so. * My best split of 4:19 is in fact a proxy as I don't use a garmin type device but I shadowed Mark (opening scene) for the run and finished circa 150M behind him so I have used his best split as a proxy. ( I still need to do a 50minute regular Millers in order to "earn" my right to have a device.) Simon ha...
SURFSKI: NSRI Fundraising Update & a Lekka Run
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SURFSKI: NSRI Fundraising Update & a Lekka Run
Motorbike Adventure: Elandsbaai Outride (Day 2)
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Motorbike Adventure: Elandsbaai Outride (Day 2)
Motorbike Adventure: Wuppertal Outride (Day 3)
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Motorbike Adventure: Wuppertal Outride (Day 3)
Motorbike Adventure: Cederberg Rest Day (Day 4)
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Motorbike Adventure: Cederberg Rest Day (Day 4)
SURFSKI: Twilight Transitions & Millering in the Dark
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SURFSKI: Twilight Transitions & Millering in the Dark
SURFSKI: Remount RETARD, and OSCAR Update
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SURFSKI: Remount RETARD, and OSCAR Update
SURFSKI SAFETY: New SeaArc Leash System Tested
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SURFSKI SAFETY: New SeaArc Leash System Tested
Father Son Life Lessons: The Chef, the Outlaw, the Gangster & Mr Chips
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Father Son Life Lessons: The Chef, the Outlaw, the Gangster & Mr Chips
SURFSKI is Life: The LAW of UNDULATION
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SURFSKI is Life: The LAW of UNDULATION
SURFSKI: Groundswell HUNTS in PACKS of THREE
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SURFSKI: Groundswell HUNTS in PACKS of THREE
SURFKSI: Fast&Furious 1
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SURFKSI: Fast&Furious 1
SURFSKI: Fast&Furious 2
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SURFSKI: Fast&Furious 2
SURFKSI: Mild2Wild3 "MogulMoments"
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SURFKSI: Mild2Wild3 "MogulMoments"
SURFSKI: Mounting Mayhem
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SURFSKI: Mounting Mayhem
SURFSKI: Liquid SUNLIGHT
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SURFSKI: Liquid SUNLIGHT

Комментарии

  • @C4_Anon
    @C4_Anon 7 дней назад

    how do they have an effect. block immediately. do not let them manipulate you....... hm...... this must come from a position of weakness, caused by the emotional distress. the mind is vulnerable, perhaps. never done this crap before.

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard 5 дней назад

      Yes, for sure. The best advice is to block every attempt they make to communicate with you.

  • @videogamesare1
    @videogamesare1 16 дней назад

    Thank you all for sharing. This is a brave thing to do. Wishing the best to you all.

  • @leemelbourne3297
    @leemelbourne3297 20 дней назад

    Coming in to a beach with rocks like that looks harrowing.

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard 19 дней назад

      hi Lee, I had nearly forgotten about this experience but "enjoyed" watching it again. At some stage in the future I am going to do another Safety video on the topic of how "psychology can kill" you as there were some subconscious developments that led to my putting myself and my buddy in danger

  • @wyattstevensonn9692
    @wyattstevensonn9692 24 дня назад

    This happened to me Monday. I’m curious, were you nervous posting on socials about the experience as maybe the scammer would officially expose? This is the worst thing I’ve experienced so far. Good job opening up about it. Sorry this happened to you.

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard 23 дня назад

      Wyatt, whew, I do hope that you managed to resolve your incident without undue negative impact ? We intentionally did not name the actual extortionists in the video as they have a track record of circulating the pics/videos more often than not. Thanks for your feedback.

    • @wyattstevensonn9692
      @wyattstevensonn9692 23 дня назад

      @@ForbesRichard did you guys end up going to the police??? I turned in a report.

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard 22 дня назад

      Good on you for having done so Wyatt. We did not for the simple reason that the police in South African are overwhelmed by violent crime (the 2021 murder rates for the USA and SA respectively, per 100 000, were 6,81 and 36,4) so we did not believe that any action would have been taken.

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard 21 день назад

      @@wyattstevensonn9692 No we did not as the SA Police are over-run with violent crime (our murder rate per 100K capita is approx 36 whereas the US is approx 7) and so we held out little prospect of their following up on this matter

  • @matthewswart9916
    @matthewswart9916 25 дней назад

    great video Richard, Chris, Geoff 🙌

  • @HardleyJ
    @HardleyJ 29 дней назад

    As well as educating young men about how manipulative and devious criminal minds can be, more time should be spent of eliminating shame about sexuality - especially in adolescents and young adults. Testosterone is the risk-taking hormone and most young men are swimming in it. Their very nature is to seek out novel stimulation, this isn't a defect. Maintaining control of one's privacy is a good habit to develop but no one died from seeing a naked young man. In most cases these images are either admired or ignored - depending on the taste of the viewer. Someone once said that there is someone already born, who has compromising pictures of them on the internet, and will become the next president or prime minister. As a society we need to cultivate means for young people to navigate their sexuality in a way that is realistic to their interests and impulses, but also ensures that no parties are abused or exploited. That is where we need to focus our efforts, in protecting the vulnerable. Respect to the whole family on handling the situation so well, especially Richard for raising children who have the intelligence, love and maturity to know when to seek help.

  • @danyfcc
    @danyfcc Месяц назад

    Thanks for sharing Richard, great thinking by Geoff, and so brave by Chris.

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard 29 дней назад

      Thanks very much Dan. I will pass on your thoughts to Geoff and Chris 🙏

  • @stananders474
    @stananders474 Месяц назад

    You are a wonderful father. Great video and brave of you to make this video. God bless you.

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard Месяц назад

      Thank you Stan. Whilst I do not wish to (self-effacingly or self deprecatingly) deflect your appreciation, I know that I could have been a much better father; that is part of my motivation in developing content for this sub-channel. 🙏

  • @gadgetman_nz4092
    @gadgetman_nz4092 Месяц назад

    Great that you have the type of relationship with your sons that they know they can come to you. I have instilled the same in my daughters. I've always been one for finding ways to do things and ignoring the reasons not to do things. The closest I've had to such a conversation are with my middle daughter, she was at primary school (about 10) and asked me, "Dad, how old were you when you first went on a date?" After answering the question I returned the question, "So what's his name?" .... I've had similar threats in the past but they were easy to ignore. I don't visit such sites, have never shared intimate images and my laptop was so old it didn't have a camera. Well done team Forbes!

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard Месяц назад

      Thank you. Always good to hear from you on this channel. I suspect that your daughter to whom you refer gave you quite a few grey hairs as she went through her teenage years !

    • @gadgetman_nz4092
      @gadgetman_nz4092 Месяц назад

      @@ForbesRichard She was pretty good, but didn't ask me such questions after that. But I do blame them all for the hair colour and needing longer arms to read things. When lockdowns were announced a few years back they were announced to kick in at midnight. She had a few weeks earlier got her first boyfriend and asked if I could drive her over to see him thinking 10 minutes. I said I'd pick her up just before midnight, 4 hours later. On picking her up she asked, "why I'd left her so long?" I replied, "Time for snogs and snuggles because we don't know how long this will last." She immediately responded, "No!", to the snogs and snuggles so I gave her that look. "Yeah, OK", she came back with a smile.

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard Месяц назад

      nod, nod, wink, wink..

  • @alexlehtinen9732
    @alexlehtinen9732 Месяц назад

    Awesome response to a terrible situation - something for everyone, but particularly men, of all ages to look up to and learn from here. Well done.

  • @gymjoedude
    @gymjoedude Месяц назад

    We need public service announcements (PSA's), school or billboards to get this information out to people. Great to see a family deal with this together.

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard Месяц назад

      Thanks Joe (?), glad you mentioned the school prospect as it also struck me that that might be a good channel for raising awareness. I have sent to one teacher contact of mine so please do pass on to any such contacts that you might have.

  • @electrical2000
    @electrical2000 Месяц назад

    I’m so glad people are more aware of internet safety and trying to start a dialogue with their children

  • @estebanvillegas6226
    @estebanvillegas6226 Месяц назад

    Thank you for sharing!

  • @69Jamii
    @69Jamii Месяц назад

    Great share to something which many are absolutely naive to deal with and know how to navigate a successful outcome.

  • @daviddouglas7622
    @daviddouglas7622 Месяц назад

    Very brave of you and your sons to post this video, thanks very much for sharing. I have sent it on to my 20 year old and 17 year old sons

  • @SteveF1967
    @SteveF1967 Месяц назад

    This looks like a pretty comprehensive list of “what not to do” from a safety standpoint. PFD not properly fastened, leash entanglements, paddling solo, no head protection. Seems like there are a bunch of things you might want to be reconsidering.

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard Месяц назад

      Dead right Steve. Fortunately I have indeed learnt from my earlier experiences. Have a look at my more recent SURFSKI SAFETY videos

  • @glinleyt
    @glinleyt Месяц назад

    Your best video yet Richard! Well presented and researched mate.

  • @nickwaterman
    @nickwaterman Месяц назад

    top vid thx Richard

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard Месяц назад

      Much appreciated again, thanks Nick.

  • @charlesmitchell8902
    @charlesmitchell8902 Месяц назад

    Richard, that was a very good vid ! Reminds me of the shock movies they made for people working on nuclear plans in the 70’s (that’s how old I am). Btw, Paradoxical Undressing also a thing with high altitude mountaineering. A few thoughts: • I have some experience in a few serious sports - rock climbing, white-water kayaking, mountain biking and recently a bit of downwind paddling. What strike me is the huge objective (as opposed to subjective) dangers in downwind paddling. • Climbing , you have a mate at the end of the rope looking after you, scuba divers buddy up, in white water you shoot a rapid the re-group in the next pool. In mountain biking you go one at a time then stop to agree how scary the last section was. (And so how good you must be.) • Not on Millers ! (Or not my experience.) You don’t know where the others are. Or even who they are. Or how many there are. No point, you can’t really see much. • Really bad management to rely on the NSRI to save us. I think we are all quite good at mitigating risk. We are not good at identifying it ! That is what this vid does, and does well. So what should we do ? Perhaps …. • Wear more technical life jackets. • Buddy up. Always. • Wear what cold water kayakers wear. • Use RescueMe. • Do nothing. It is after all, part of the sport.

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard Месяц назад

      Thanks Charles. Thought provoking response. Re relying on the NSRI. I have spoken to them about this and their view is that provided we are thoughtful, well prepared and know our limits, they are only too happy to help us when the &*^$ hits the fan. And, even if we are idiots (like I have been) they will also apply the same degree of effort to saving us ! There are however quite a few of the very experienced elite paddlers who will go to the nth degree to self rescue. But very few of us have what it takes (skill and mindset) to do that.

  • @keitholiver2842
    @keitholiver2842 Месяц назад

    l wonder when l watch the millers run video's, how does the paddle go when they break their paddle. How do they continue or do they call emergency help. Always enjoy your video's , l'm from the Land Down Under.

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard Месяц назад

      hi Keith. I depends on both the conditions and the experience/capability of the paddler. So if you are on a regular SE run in 25kts then many of us could self rescue with just one blade. However if you are on a reverse NW run in 30kts plus (being blown slightly offshore) then it is an entirely different story and most of us would call for help. However, even under such circumstances there are instances of where elite paddlers have made it to shore either by using just one blade with a leg or two out, or by lying on their skis and paddling with arms like a surfboard.

  • @daviddouglas7622
    @daviddouglas7622 Месяц назад

    Very interesting, thanks for posting. I was rescued by the NSRI with a broken rudder cable, and with the sun shining on my phone it was really difficult to see the screen and get Safetrx activated. It would be so much better if there was a Garmin app that could activate Safetrx - ie push a button on your watch instead of activating your phone.

  • @SpaceSputnik
    @SpaceSputnik Месяц назад

    As a primarily a sea kayaker (who only dabbles in surfskis occasionally) I can say that these facts are pounded into our brains early as a part of formalized coaching offered by organizations like Paddle Canada, ACA, BCA and such. All the hazards are the same and in case of surfskis and possibly amplified since you guys tend to go further out off-shore and more often solo. We tend to be heavier on gear but we do account for more hazards such as loss or breakage of a paddle, layered drysuits for colder water and so on. About every committed sea kayaker seems to be onboard with that without any particular debate, but the surfski community doesn't seem do borrow much from this culture.

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard Месяц назад

      Yep, thanks. I think we have a lot to learn from your fraternity that ventures out in typically more extreme cold weather and water.

    • @RobinMousley
      @RobinMousley Месяц назад

      It is a different culture and we quite often take flak from the Sea Kayaking crowd for being "reckless". I think it's something akin to camper vans v sports cars (without being derogatory). Why would you load down your sports car with hydraulic jacks and tool kits and camping gear? Downwind paddling is all about sleek, clean, light craft surfing waves. Hanging all kinds of gear like spare paddles on a surfski just doesn't fit the mould. Having said that, I carry VHF, phone, emergency steering kit, flares, etc, and most of us do have some or all of that we're not entirely cavalier. We normally do shorter, quicker paddlers than Sea Kayakers who seem to do longer, adventure type paddling. Respect to each. Different strokes, for different folks, etc.

    • @SpaceSputnik
      @SpaceSputnik Месяц назад

      The "all kinds" of gear you are referring to are really the result of the same though process you went through. Instead of learning by costly mistakes one can take a look at the adjacent sport and pick what is appropriate without resorting to us vs them type of debate. Specifically we are talking about sufficient immersion wear and maybe a spare paddle. The latter shouldn't make you much less slick. Introduce an extra bungee attachment point further out at the stern and that's it.

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard Месяц назад

      Neat contrasting and distinguishing analogy, thanks Rob.

  • @markduncandotinfo
    @markduncandotinfo Месяц назад

    Thanks Richard… good video… you did well to emphasise the first two of the 4 principles of survival (protection and location). The other two, water and food are irrelevant as you won’t survive long enough for those to be an issue. On the subject of location; I paddle (west coast) with a waterproof VHF with a DSC emergency button (registering for an MMSI number is cheap and easy)… gives you a backup emergency button, gps tracking, and comms with every other vessel in Table Bay, including hopefully, the one coming to your rescue

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard Месяц назад

      Mark, thank you. What are DSC and MMSI ?

    • @markduncandotinfo
      @markduncandotinfo Месяц назад

      @@ForbesRichard they form part of the GMDSS, which the EPIRB you use forms part of. I'll probably botch an attempt at a brief explanation. There are some good explanations on youtube if you search VHF DSC emergency button and VHF MMSI. I considered an EPIRB, but felt the VHF with emergency VHF ability, was a better option for shorter range, close shore emergencies (especially with the ability for two way communication). My unit (IC-M93D) is a bit bigger than those mini EPIRBs, but I carry it in the hydration pouch of my PFD and have done so for a few years now. In my experience as a Helicopter rescue swimmer/ sea survival instructor and having worked at sea for 16 years... the "LOCATION" element of survival is the one given least thought (because we all naturally feel cold, hungry or thirsty), but the old adage; "No one is a survivor, until they have been rescued" is as apt as it gets. Hope that helps, I'm always interested to learn better or newer alternatives.

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard Месяц назад

      Thanks, will check out the YT videos. Bit like buying property...."location, location, locatio"

  • @elffirrdesign2063
    @elffirrdesign2063 Месяц назад

    Panic should be your worst fear. It gets worse when you realize that you have not prepared enough for the situation you find yourself in. No excuse for not using a PLB and personal floatation. As well weather forecasts are really accurate these days and there is no excuse for not being apprised before you get on the water. I wonder why I am alive for the risks that I took in my training for PE2EL Challenges back in the early 80s. Mostly in California into our winter months. Self reliance can only get you so far but keeps you in the game.

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard Месяц назад

      Yep, I too am very lucky to have survived my earlier stupidity/ignorance !

  • @Mickfoil1
    @Mickfoil1 Месяц назад

    Thanks for video ...please send the PLB product link and what is the subscription costs ?

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard Месяц назад

      hi Mick, thanks. PLB link: oceansignal.com/products/plb1/. There is NO subscription as it uses the inter-governmental satellite network.

    • @Mickfoil1
      @Mickfoil1 Месяц назад

      @@ForbesRichard awesome thanks. Where do you get the orange stickers as well?

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard Месяц назад

      @@Mickfoil1 Orka Paddles in Main Road Kirstenbosch OR from Ian Black who provides the service of collecting your ski from FHBSC, fitting stickers, and then returning your ski. Pls message me for his number: 076 716 8891

  • @gadgetman_nz4092
    @gadgetman_nz4092 Месяц назад

    I tend to carry both PLB and VHF. Probably guilty of not wearing enough on the water, my uniform year round on the water is rugby shorts and black singlet.

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard Месяц назад

      Careful of those black rugby short lest Etzebeth gets hold of you ! 😉

    • @gadgetman_nz4092
      @gadgetman_nz4092 Месяц назад

      @@ForbesRichard Good thing is I've never been to a Rugby game in my life. An expat South African we had working with us could not comprehend such a thing from a kiwi.

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard Месяц назад

      What !!!!! never been....you gotta be kidding me. Our (SA) perspective is that it is an (obligatory) religion down there !

    • @gadgetman_nz4092
      @gadgetman_nz4092 Месяц назад

      @@ForbesRichard Yeah, I always preferred to be doing things myself. Running, rowing, kayaking, swimming, cycling, tramping, ... nicking the rugby teams ball. 😇

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard Месяц назад

      👊

  • @Alastair510
    @Alastair510 Месяц назад

    I've had to go into water that was close to freezing temp (ice forming on surface), without protective clothing. Stripped down to underwear. Each time, I had less than 2 minutes before my large muscles started to lock up. As soon as feeling any of this, I climbed out. Once climbed out, *I felt WARM as my muscles seized*. I won't lie, the muscles seizing up felt great. It was like I'd donned a suit of muscle armour. Standing out of the water, steam rising from my body, veins and muscles popping like I was some bodybuilder burnt down for a competition. It was a complete seizing up, I literally couldn't move. Not even to walk. In contrast, I've swum several hundred metres in similar conditions, but wearing clothes (wool underlayers, sweater, goretex waterproof on top) and was fine. My neck froze and seized, where it was exposed to the water. However, my torso base layer remained dry, so the cold water was not reaching arms or torso. There's no such thing as bad weather, just bad clothing.

    • @Alastair510
      @Alastair510 Месяц назад

      Oh, and I really don't rate wetsuits for paddling. We aren't in the water and as you say, wetsuits are useless when wet and exposed to the wind. Much much prefer garments like reed chillcheater or Rooster aquatherm. If I get too hot when paddling in these, I scoop up some water and dump it down my neck.

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard Месяц назад

      Thanks for your feedback Alastair. Will you pls copy links for those two garments that you refer to ?

  • @Robmobius
    @Robmobius Месяц назад

    Grate video Rich. Thanks for going to the trouble of making it. One correction I would like to make is that you refer to Safetrx not being to locate a paddler due to there only being a single cell tower and therefor the position could not be triangulated. Safetrx uses the GPS chip in the phone to determine position and not tower triangulation. Cell connection is only needed to transmit that GPS position to NSRI, and that is usually possible with a just a single tower and low grade connection, but a cell coverage is required nonetheless. The message I got from your video is have layers of safety as no single method is fool proof. Because one over heats when paddling hard, cold water protection is almost neglected. Being able to extend how long you can wait for rescue is critical.

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard Месяц назад

      Thanks very much Rob. I will give you a shout about the cell phone/Safetrax issue (and PLB AIS signals etc) as I think there is room (and appetite) to ensure we know the actual science and practical functioning. Got my sights on a follow up clarification video. 🙏

  • @EricGarnier-v6q
    @EricGarnier-v6q Месяц назад

    Thank you for this video ! That's all i am talking about to all paddlers i teach in France with Surfski & Co.

  • @vanzylbooysen4826
    @vanzylbooysen4826 Месяц назад

    Good 👍🏻

  • @JohannDisa
    @JohannDisa Месяц назад

    Approaching darkness is also a factor to be considered.

  • @wayneheaton7020
    @wayneheaton7020 2 месяца назад

    Great news!!! Glad justice 'finally' was served well done to Jenny and all those that got involved

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard 2 месяца назад

      Thanks Wayne, Watch this space as there is still another chapter relating to more complete justice.

  • @dmitriika1823
    @dmitriika1823 2 месяца назад

    Hallo! I found your channel, and it is great! I am beginner. I bought Epic V5, and very soon will start, just I wait live jacket. Thank you for your lessons.

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard 2 месяца назад

      Great Dmitrii, Surfski is fantastic and I really do hope that you get to love the sport as much as we do here in Fishhoek !

  • @an30805
    @an30805 2 месяца назад

    Absolutely amazing!

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard 2 месяца назад

      Thank you for the feedback 🙏

  • @nickwaterman
    @nickwaterman 2 месяца назад

    top vid thx

  • @elffirrdesign2063
    @elffirrdesign2063 2 месяца назад

    And you realize you are doing things ahead of your conscious mind....

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard 2 месяца назад

      That sounds like a very interesting observation. Please tell me a bit more ?

    • @elffirrdesign2063
      @elffirrdesign2063 2 месяца назад

      @@ForbesRichard Your consciousness at times is just along for the ride. Paddling downwinders provides a "plum" of a situation where you start to react before you realize the situation you are in. You don't have to be aware of something before you do it. You do it because your mind has learned a beneficial outcome from prior experience.

    • @daviddouglas7622
      @daviddouglas7622 2 месяца назад

      @@elffirrdesign2063 what top sportsmen and women call "being in the zone" or some call it the flow state or being in good form..I agree, sometimes it just seems like the runs flow before you even know they are coming lol. Listen Paddy Upton's pod cast series where he explores this in detail with some of the world's best sportsmen

    • @elffirrdesign2063
      @elffirrdesign2063 2 месяца назад

      @@daviddouglas7622 Yeppers

    • @paulreavley5900
      @paulreavley5900 2 месяца назад

      I have no argument with flow state, but I also believe there are times when conditions are so good for you that your primary job is to just keep your mind out of the way. I once "rode" a well trained cattle horse where it got so fed up with my nonsense that it made me get off and walk it back to the corral.

  • @daviddouglas7622
    @daviddouglas7622 2 месяца назад

    Looks awesome, conditions we awesome. We did the Buffels run at 10am - avg speed of 14.8 km/h, some really awesome runs

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard 2 месяца назад

      Lekka Dave ! Good to have you back on the water !

  • @itpersonne
    @itpersonne 2 месяца назад

    Hi, cool footage. To your knowledge did it happen before ?

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard 2 месяца назад

      Thank you. Yes, In the month before this another 3 skis were bitten and, believe it or not, the day after this incident, in approx the same area, a young woman paddler (expert level, 18yrs old) was bitten in her thigh and dragged out of her ski ! And approx one month ago about 4 surfers were bitten by a small seal while partaking in a competition. In the last month it has been confirmed that seals in the area have tested positive for rabies so it is presumed that such behaviour can be attributed to this factor.

    • @itpersonne
      @itpersonne 2 месяца назад

      @@ForbesRichard Thanks

  • @alessioraggioli
    @alessioraggioli 2 месяца назад

    Survival skills

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard 2 месяца назад

      Alive and well and still paddling 👊

  • @IamNothing82
    @IamNothing82 2 месяца назад

    Again super nice trip!!

  • @hongkongdragonrun
    @hongkongdragonrun 2 месяца назад

    Those waves are amazing!!!😍

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard 2 месяца назад

      thanks for checking out the channel ! If you liked those swells, then how about these ones ? : ruclips.net/video/O6yv4m5UePU/видео.html

  • @rudifisher3162
    @rudifisher3162 2 месяца назад

    Hi Richard. Rudi here…met you on trail on my mountain bike. Looks like great fun!

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard 2 месяца назад

      hi Rudi, It was super to meet you and thanks for checking out the channel. Gimme a shout when you plan to ride next so we can get our Stumpers to meet each other ! (076 716 8891)

  • @noegwilliams
    @noegwilliams 2 месяца назад

    Can you make a video of how to get into this sport, and the cost involved. also the clubs you could join.

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard 2 месяца назад

      hi Noel, where are you based ? Am also happy to talk to you about this. Pls WhatsApp me on +27 (0) 76 716 8891.

  • @davidlang9939
    @davidlang9939 3 месяца назад

    NICE RIDE, FELT THE GLIDE, WATCH'N FROM NRTH PENNA MOUNTAINS!?!

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard 3 месяца назад

      thanks David. It does not appear as though you have any large bodies of water near you ?

  • @gadgetman_nz4092
    @gadgetman_nz4092 3 месяца назад

    Sometimes you just have to suck it up and stick with it.

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard 3 месяца назад

      Dead right (the Law of Undulation !)

    • @gadgetman_nz4092
      @gadgetman_nz4092 2 месяца назад

      @@ForbesRichard Well I've made a start to getting into a ski, I bought a new to me beginner ski. Looking forward to setting it up and getting wet.

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard 2 месяца назад

      @@gadgetman_nz4092 Nice ! Looking fwd to seeing you on your first run 👊

  • @RusselBreyer
    @RusselBreyer 3 месяца назад

    Some good learning, honesty shared. I learned early on that anything stowed in front pocket of PFD impeded my remount so I got a Vaikobi with a back pocket and keep the front one empty. Makes it harder to get at stuff, but at least I can get back in the boat!

  • @tommyrq180
    @tommyrq180 3 месяца назад

    Awesome! Please share your paddle type, length, and feathering angle. Any logic you have for those choices would be great, too. Thanks! 😊

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard 3 месяца назад

      hi Tom, I use a "regular" paddle made by Orka Paddles (local) www.orkapaddles.com/orka-products/paddles/ (mine is the Inner Pro) length: 183cm with an approx 15 degree feather (that is the first mark on the shaft away from a zero degree feather) I am 6ft1inch. When I first started I used a 187cm length but found that when I shortened it, there was a considerable improvement in my acceleration and stability control. I have tried the Epic Elliptical shaft paddle but could not use it as it triggered my shoulder injury condition (subluxing bicep tendons in both shoulders). What is interesting about this is the fact that different paddle designs result in different load patterns/distributions on your arms and shoulders. In one of my videos Oscar noted that he can see that my feather setting results in an imbalance so clearly I still need to get some coaching on this and fine tuning my feathering. (Oscar advocates zero feather)

    • @tommyrq180
      @tommyrq180 3 месяца назад

      @@ForbesRichard Thank you! I’m surprised at the short paddle. I’m 6’ tall with longish arms and (at 66) just started “performance” paddling in a fast sea kayak in June. The experts here in the US advocated a 215 cm paddle (it varies 210-220) which, during my first month, I shortened to 210. It’s an Epic mid-wing. Based on Oscar I started with zero feather. But I noted your hands are very close to the end of the shaft so I guessed you had a shorter paddle. I’m following you with interest as I see you progress and learn and (perhaps most importantly) just paddle. I learned a lot in my first couple months but I have a lifetime of learning in front of me. 🫡

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard 3 месяца назад

      Tom, I sprouted 1.83 without checking but my instinct (prompted by your last note) is that I have got it wrong. I will check today and revert.

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard 3 месяца назад

      yep, I got it wrong. I did not have a tape measure with me but the paddle is quite a bit taller than I am so I suspect that it is set a 212 and that the 3cm reduction that I referred to was from 215 down.

    • @tommyrq180
      @tommyrq180 3 месяца назад

      @@ForbesRichard Interesting. I just started performance paddling a couple months ago with a 210-220 mid-wing and based on my early training I keep it at 210 with zero feather. I’m 6’ tall, 66 years old, male, with medium-long arms. But I’m sure my paddle and settings will change as I (hopefully!) improve technically. This site and several others helped me get off to a good start. I’m also paddling a “fast sea kayak” which also affects paddle dynamics, although I retrofitted one of Aussie Mark Sundin’s “Big Foot” foot braces so I could get better leg drive (rather than using side pegs). But surfskis put you in a slightly different position and possibly different height off the water, so that matters, too. One of the best things I did early was to mark where my hands go with a rubber o-ring and cover it with thin silicone tape-something I learned from videos. That reference o-ring really helps me keep my hands in the right place. I placed mine so I either paddle with it inside or outside my little fingers. At some point I’m going to get “real” coaching to fix obvious problems but for now I’m just trying to put in a couple hours of lake paddling every other day and attending to good technique and water feel. Keep up the great work, your site is a true motivation for me to keep progressing! 🫡

  • @maldrury8313
    @maldrury8313 3 месяца назад

    You should certainly have an EPIRB with you. Maybe some shark repellant and a prayer book too.

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard 3 месяца назад

      Thanks Mal 🤣 ! My PLB is the personal equivalent of a boat's EPIRB.

  • @billgardyne7328
    @billgardyne7328 3 месяца назад

    I can relate to your stress and remount issue. I fell off in a really sharky spot and felt like bait as I made stuff-up after stuff-up rather than remaining calm.

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard 3 месяца назад

      Yep, I think for most of us, just the ideas of being off ski in deep water is highly intimidating.

  • @billgardyne7328
    @billgardyne7328 3 месяца назад

    I note that everyone is wearing hi-vis gear and marking on skis. Smart!

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard 3 месяца назад

      It is one of the factors that saved me 2.5 yrs ago. I was in a no cell phone signal area in 35-40kts that had swung offshore creating a haystack minefield. It was the orange and white flashes of my spinning ski (on my longer than average leash) that caught the attention of a 9 yr old on the shore. His Dad called the NSRI. Eventually he was patched into the rescue craft captain to guide them to us.

    • @billgardyne7328
      @billgardyne7328 3 месяца назад

      @@ForbesRichard That must have been terrifying for you. I hope that that young one is reminded every now and again of what they achieved that day.

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard 3 месяца назад

      @@billgardyne7328 Bill, I got to meet him and his Dad a few days later. What an incredible kid ! At age 9 he had already established his own cell phone repair business (all skills learnt on RUclips). You have reminded me that I still plan to do a video that covers that rescue (featuring him and his Dad) as well as my subsequent realisation that the greatest danger in surfskiing is in fact one's mind set. The title will be something to the effect of "Psychology and Culture can Kill You"

    • @ForbesRichard
      @ForbesRichard 3 месяца назад

      @@billgardyne7328 and I forgot to mention that I gave him (Alex Rumbell) one of my watches (not an expensive) on as a reminder of the value of time symbolising the huge contribution he made to the extension of my time/life on this planet