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😂😂 oh that put a smile on my face. Thank you xx

@@dazza8551 isn’t it just! But effective 😏

@@Ava2969ny I wish I had more understanding about the reasons and justification that women tell themselves in order to get involved in relationships like this, I’d love to know what it’s all about there must be a lot more to it than meets the eye or else it wouldn’t be so common x

@@kevasearle7928 yes, I’m sure that plays into it too. Maybe I’ll understand more about the dynamics of it all in time.she’s in a good relationship now, even though it’s not as ‘exciting’, I hope she has all the love and security she deserves for the next 20 years x

@@dixieseymour5041 three marriages! Wow, how interesting. How long have you been married now? Yes, well spotted, I am wearing soft and subtle. I enjoy wearing her now more than ever before, not sure why. I went out to lunch yesterday and I chose her and really enjoyed her. I wonder what I’ll choose today. I’ll make an effort to go for something from tfw back of the wig closet that I haven’t worn for a while x

@@Ms7of8 sweetie, I wish you were. I would really love that.

@@sarahlewis7829 well I’m interested in the tarot cards, they are an education in history, theology and art. And human psychology. I hear what you’re saying but I have books in all sorts of subjects, but my favourite is one that’s out of sight called ‘ mindful gardening’. I wouldn’t know how to start doing audio books , any advice?

@@shirleyhull3975 oh sweetheart that’s so funny, I hope the tea revived you 😂 I’ve made so many awful decisions in my past, but also made some pretty good ones. And I like who I am now, I’m at peace and I love that. Now that I’m in my mid fifties I really feel I have some very long standing friendships, that have stood the test of time. I was quite lonely when I was younger but not any more. Thanks for your comment on the last video. It really struck a cord with me xx

@@caronnest4939 exactly right, that’s what I was trying to convey in my video. There are no guarantees or assumptions. We must all make the best of life and there is so much to live for. Thanks for your comment x

@@carolescharacters uh, I so agree! And what a healthy and sane philosophy, it’s the only option isn’t it

@@user-zg4wr9nn7m it’s not too personal, thank you for asking. I lost 3 pregnancies in all before and in between having my 2 girls. Iso I would have liked 5. t’s something that’s in my mind a lot 😏 Life is …complicated xx

@@tractorgurl don’t you just love that Friday feeling after work?! I’m so glad to have been waiting for you 😂 I’m also interested to hear we share some thoughts about this tricky subject. I would have loved to hear your thoughts though?

@@caronnest4939 I hear what you’re saying but do you think under the right circumstances you might get pulled in? Some people may be vulnerable to it at certain times in their life. I feel the same as you though, I can’t see myself getting involved in something like that but you never know right?!

@@tractorgurl she really is ❤️

@@AnneMelb2010 that is so well put, I feel you have a deep understanding of the consequences of the issue at hand. Strangely, I never really realised the nature of relationships like this, they can have devastating results

@AnneMelb2010 - that's what patriarchy does to women; it teaches them they they don't have value and that it's okay to waste decades of their lives on a man who can't do anything for them. It also comes from women who were not raised with the right values in general, but will do anything to please a man. It's a vicious cycle that narcissistic, selfish men benefit from.

@@annefraser6908 I think I was feeling rather pensive due to being under the weather. But I’m glad you enjoyed it xx

She’s a good one, hope you used the code too. You’ll have to tell me what you think of her when she arrives xx

@@missfunk5 😂

Glad you enjoyed it! And thanks for your lovely comment x

@@lainey5767 😂 that’s funny, thank you though, I try!

Oh my goodness, what a story!! I can’t believe it. And you found each other again, how wonderful. I’m also pleased to hear about the bedroom bit, that’s quite a bonus. You sound like you’re happy, from the few words you wrote here. I too hope she makes wise choices… life is what we make it isn’t it xx

Happy for you Carol.. 🎉

@ thank you xx

You’re right, she now has a nice supportive man and hopefully they will be happy together x

@@Tonimaroni2BeKindToAnimals that’s what I love about having this channel, I get to connect with such wonderful women, thanks for leaving a comment, and I can even see you in your picture!

@ It’s funny because I had my topper too high in that photo ☺️. That’s my granddaughter with me. Hugs to you 🤗

@ ok, you’re not going to believe this but I swear it’s true…I HAD NO IDEA YOU WERE WEARING A TOPPER! 😂😂

@ I put up with my thinning hair way longer than I should’ve. I remember deciding to go into a wig shop and walking out with the most natural topper on. It changed my life as far as confidence 🥲🥹🥰. I absolutely adore your channel. Thank you 💓

@ wow, that’s very brave! You walked out wearing it?!

I looked up 'Lords of Poverty', and the synopsis sounds like what I'd always suspected, but you have a few on Tarot, another on Goddesses 🧚‍♀️💟🧚‍♂️

@@tanyad7894 yes, I have some books on hat I can’t part with but quite a small bookcase! I was saying to Steve that he needs to put up more shelves around the house. It’s funny I didn’t even think about the books behind me!

@@tanyad7894 hey! So wonderful to hear from you again, I do love your thoughtful comments x

@lifeandhair I've been around, just feeling the January 'blahs' lately. Xmas was lovely, but so long ago already! It would be nice to see a touch of snow before Spring, but I'm also ready to be done with grey days and low energy.

@@jeanjacobs9965 yes Jean, I think you’re right. But we only realise it through bitter experience. People can be so manipulative through their charm and complements and it’s so easy to fall for it when you need to hear something nice. It seems that many if us know someone who has had a long term affair!

@@Ms7of8 oh what a story, it’s amazing how life can turn out. And it happens when we don’t notice, one day you realise it. 30 years! Wow! That’s a lifetime. I do hope your friend can find some peace and contentment in her life. We all need that I think, no one hasn’t made mistakes x

@@lifeandhair Yes, life passes in a blink. However, in this case, she has alienated so many people because of her bitterness, no one wants to be around her.

She was nothing but a sad, kept woman. Remember this ladies....if they do it WITH YOU, they will do it TO YOU.

The sad reality is that some men lack empathy for others and they often have no foresight regarding their actions toward others; I'm betting that same man would never want his daughter to be strung along for 30 years, with no future. The ex-president Bill Clinton was once asked a question about Monica Lewinsky, and he said that he was actually surprised to see how their affair has followed her throughout her life, yet he's been able to live it down and move on. Men will never fully understand the impact of seeking out relationships outside of their marriage; so it's up to women to be take care of themselves.

@ you have great insight and understanding about the differences between men and women. I really suspect many women are quite unaware of it, I’ve always thought that women set the standard of men’s behaviour, I think women today don’t realise this. That Bill Clinton is something else isn’t he, Their marriage is very strange

@@laverite1050 is that so?! Wow, I hope he lives up to her expectations. It’s sad though the thought of cheating, people will likely get hurt. Still, what are the odds that they should meet again after all these years x

@@Pondue_At_Large mmm, what a fascinating concept. It’s a complex situation I’m sure, he had such a hold over her. Interestingly she said to me that she realised she didn’t really know him fully as they had never lived together. She only got the exciting highlights. I was so pleased when she later messaged me to tell me she had now blocked him. I hope she maintains her determination x

The boots are amazing in all honesty. Thanks for your lovely comment xx

Ah, that's nice of him! My husband makes little comments when I'm watching youtube as well, it's nice they have an opinion, isn't it. I had a lovely catch up with my friend x

@@nandinilorenzsonn8485 well thanks so much! That’s quite a compliment 😁

@@tractorgurl 😂 Yes, Mila won the day! I will let you know how my lunch was. I do have many thoughts and observations about it. I’ll be posting again shortly xx

@LindaSiggs hi Linda, I hope all is well with you and you aren’t getting too cold in this weather! They are both lovely wigs, that’s for sure. I can wear them anywhere, so they are excellent in that respect. The lunch was lovely but, my goodness, it was a cold day up in London! I’ll tell you all about it shortly xx

@@Mari-te4cc exactly right! I’ve had a friend say ‘that’s your real hair isn’t it’ which was hilarious! In fact I was buying food at a small supermarket last week and was wearing Alva. The cashier told me she loved my highlights and wanted to know more about them! Again…very amusing!

@@jeanjacobs9965 hi Jean, hope life’s treating you well. It’s very cold here, I hope your weather is better! I will tell you all about my very special lunch xx

@@caronnest4939 we’re all there for each other I think. Thanks so much for the lovely comment xx

Hi there! I’m wearing Screen Legend by Jaclyn Smith, I do t think it’s in production any more but there are lots of others that have the same construction x

​@@lifeandhairWhat is that gorgeous color?

@ it’s Caramelised Brown B8/27. Natural isn’t it?!

@@darliaugalde hi! It’s lovely to connect with you. And I’m so pleased you also have a channel, it’s nice to watch some of your videos. Of course I’ve subscribed 😊 I’m glad you approve of my coat choice. I figured it’s a colour that goes with everything but I haven’t worn it yet. Thanks so much for your comment x

@@lifeandhair May I know your name please ❤ You are so kind to subscribe 🙏 I appreciate you. xo, Darlia

@ of course, my name is Karima! Hope you’re doing great today xx

@@lifeandhair Hello Karima!!! Such a beautiful name❤ Sorry to have not responded sooner I am in a bit of a funk as I have not posted on my channel as of late and therefore hardly check my messages. Loving your wisdom and insights!! Take care, Darli

@@l.l.lekens6610 hello there, so nice to connect with you. Yes, finally succumbed to a trench coat at the age of 55. And I love Persephone, it’s a delight to get lost in the stories and life as it used to be, when the world seemed to be a simpler place. I’m in the Uk, where in the world are you?

@@lifeandhair I live in Belgium, but my daughter lives in Bath, ergo the bookshop of Persephone.

@ aaah, Bath! What a wonderful place. Lucky girl x

Thank you so much!! I do try x

No im not Jewish, but I’m keenly aware of how wonderful those particular wigs are. I see the Instagram account and marvel. I mainly wear them due to hair loss 😏

@@louiseknight4576 I love it and it’s brought me so much happiness x

@lifeandhair good for you. All the love ❤️❤️