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Ellie Lily
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You will find Relationship & Lifestyle videos on my Channel. I love giving you the inside scoop important life topics and events, sharing my knowledge and experience so that you don't have to waste your time going through unnecessary difficulty.
Thank you for joining me on this journey and for your support of my channel!!
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You will find Relationship & Lifestyle videos on my Channel. I love giving you the inside scoop important life topics and events, sharing my knowledge and experience so that you don't have to waste your time going through unnecessary difficulty.
Thank you for joining me on this journey and for your support of my channel!!
#relationship #relationshipcoaching #wholesomerelationshipmentality
🌟 INSTAGRAM: XoEllie.Lily
How to DETACH FROM AN AVOIDANT partner for a better relationship
In this video we talk about how to emotionally detach from your avoidant partner in order to have a better & healthier relationship.
This step by step method has helped me personally in my relationship a few years ago and I know if you follow it through, it will help you also.
For more full method, visit:
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This step by step method has helped me personally in my relationship a few years ago and I know if you follow it through, it will help you also.
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How to handle difficult conversations in your relationship #difficultsituation #conversation #love
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In this video we go over my method for having tough conversations as well as when you are on the receiving end of an unexpected conversation. ⭐️ Communication Course on everything I know, as mentioned in the video: stan.store/EllieLily/p/connectioncodes Thanks for your love & support! Instagram: @XoEllie.lily
How to stop being Emotional Dependent in your relationship
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How to stop being Emotional Dependent in your relationship
How to Rebuild Trust in your relationship so that you NEVER feel dumb again
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How to Rebuild Trust in your relationship so that you NEVER feel dumb again
Overcome Anxiety in your Relationship
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Overcome Anxiety in your Relationship
Overcoming Insecurities in a Relationship with an Avoidant Partner
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Overcoming Insecurities in a Relationship with an Avoidant Partner
How to build trust in a relationship with an avoidant partner
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What NOT to do with an Avoidant Partner #avoidantattachment
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7 Signs of a Toxic Relationship and How to know if you can fix your relationship or if its over
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21 Questions to ask for a long term relationship with someone
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How Your Relationship Fear Is Ruining Your Relationship And How To Fix It
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If you’re single, you view Marriage very differently from your Married friends.. here’s why
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How to overcome Relationship Anxiety
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How to overcome Relationship Anxiety
3 Ways to Deal with people whom affect your Inner Peace
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im still figuring out how to find out if someone is a DA before committing further. trust me, DA takes a toll on the mind. even a secure can go bonkers...they have their limits too.
Thank you so much.
My pleasure ❤️❤️❤️
My partner needs to hear me when Im talking. And he needs to meet me where I am at. I understand the DA are a peculiar being but that doesnt make them any better. They need therapy more so then AP & speak up their needs to avoid heart break others.
I understand how you feel, truly. The truth is if you can wait for them to do something about it or you can take your life and relationship into your own hands * *This being that you cant control everything but you can control what you do and how you experience it.
@@xoellielily Yes how I react/respond is directly co-related to their actions. Ive gone into therapy & yet they wont even commit to a healthy conversation. Its very hurtful. May be you can make a video on self-worth so that they know what they lost
@ParisianStreets ❤️
@@xoellielily Thank you
Tf is this? This is proof the algorithm has broken. Do something! Boring and pointless
Sorry you feel that way
No. If you have something to share, this is youtube... share it.
@@upgrader99 I understand how you feel, but not all information is meant for all ears.
Exactly I hate this… RUclips is not TikTok
@agy234 just block my account and keep scrolling :)
@@xoellielily that’s not how RUclips works
@@agy234 ok
I'd agree with that but then we'd just all be bound to the first person we ever decide to be in a relationship with. It would disregard any compatibility or preference. It's too hypothetical of an idea that would require a, probably exaggerating, near perfect reality; like men and women being able to be "just friends". I agree that it's possible but someone is always bound to develop romantic feelings and it would require both parties to have reached a certain, relatively "high", level of maturity for the platonic relationship to survive and a martyrdom of the person's romantic feelings. Which frankly would contradict loving oneself. What do you think?
@@viiiRA_ not necessarily. It doesn’t have to mean you can’t have preferences or have compatibility be a factor in your decisions. Obviously you should choose someone you connect with and you always have the option to choose differently (as does your chosen partner). Many people in relationships start questioning whether they’re with the right person AFTER they’ve already committed (and I think that’s natural, it’s common) however, if you view your relationship through that lens - you’re robbing yourself of the experiences (both bad and good) that are such a gift in that specific relationship💝. For how would we know it is good now, if we didn’t go through bad times in the past to tell the difference? Experiencing negative emotions makes you more aware of the positive ones- and I think just being able to live in each moment, cherishing the experience of it is so beautiful
As the old adage goes: "Good things take time." Patience is a virtue. You get chicken by hatching and caring for an egg, not by smashing it.
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@@teensish Hi 💕 here is my strategy that changed my relationship & can do the same for you in as little as 14 days! stan.store/EllieLily/p/connectioncodes Let me know what you think!
Nice, but you should steam the milk first, so your shots don't die.
I wish everyone would read the New Testament and quit being so self-absorbed.
Everyone is self absorbed?
Girl u just gonna let your shots die like that?? Great video tho
Unfortunately, the people who truly _need_ to learn about this will not see it, probably not looking for it, or will see it later in life.
Perhaps some of them have come to that realization now 😉 as they say “ when the student is ready, the teacher appears”
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Hi 💕 here is my strategy that changed my relationship & can do the same for you in as little as 14 days! stan.store/EllieLily/p/connectioncodes Let me know what you think!
I somewhat agree, but I'm an avoidant (not extremely but to an extent) and the ways I behave sometimes even if it's a coping mechanism can hurt ppl a lot. The only way an avoidant will get fixed is if they wanna fix themselves. Gotta be able to recognise their mistakes wholly and recognise that even if they didn't mean to, even if they didn't objectively did something, sometimes by omission you can also harm ppl. It's quite tricky. I have more problems than just my avoidance behaviours so I'm sruggling with changing myself to be able to be nice to someone else. About the last part, there's also something to note. It's hard to give validation to an avoidant aswell. I got triggered for being told I was "so perfect" because I never tried to hide all my defects and it's always the same for me: people have an image of who I am in their heads and as soon as I don't match that image, I'm suddently not who I told them I was. I know it's mostly on my head but I feel like it happens often. So a lot of compliments is not something I appreciate, specially since I work in business so ppl tend to be extremely flattering when they want something out of you for example, alarms go off when I get them...
This is a valid point too. Honestly, and I mean this from the bottom of my heart, good on you for recognizing that it’s not helpful for your relationship to stay in that pattern & those tendencies. Most people don’t want to acknowledge that. As far as compliments being disingenuous, and over the top- I think that’s Valid for pretty much anyone.
@@xoellielily yeah I just meant to say that even if I knew she was genuine with the compliments and was trying to make me feel safe and loved, it still felt very awkward to me. I've been reading and watching a lot of stuff about this. I wanna try to be better because I already ruined a really good relationship due to it, not to mention this doesn't apply to romantic relationships only. Every relationship can improve if I can fix the way I behave
So true! You can do it.
Thank you that really makes sense. My friend DA, I an AP, how can I make them open up to let me know they need space ? I guess i unknowingly triggered them. But aren't they are also partially responsible in communicating their need for space before someone overwhlems them? What are some signs I should be looking out for?
Hi ❤️ in your place, I would start looking at the body language or watch for when they start shutting down/ getting triggered. That is the only way to really know that you are influencing them in a way that isn’t helpful to your communication. You can try to think back on something that happened recently and try to remember at which point you noticed they changed their behavior. What words did you use, how did you deliver your message to them? Yes if they could just tell you what triggered them it would take the guessing work out of it, but unfortunately a lot of people have trouble telling you what bothers them, even if it would benefit both of you to do so.
@@xoellielily Thank you. Last line=Why is that? How can i create a safe space psychologically as vulnerability the main thing to deepen connections is their kyptonite. And for once I'd like for them to make up to me and understand. I'm tired of scripts on how to comm. to them.
Do you mean why are they like that? It’s a learned behavior, maybe it wasn’t safe for them in the past or just feels overwhelmingly unsafe. You can create a safe space, and be supportive but you have to remember that they might not be ready to share and do things different right away. Remember to have lots of patience, and no expectations for them to change. Just love, acceptance, and openness. You can create that safe space by: 1. Learning their triggers and try to avoid them. 2. Don’t force them to pen up but use language that encourages it, and no pressure or rush. ( a good visualization would be a terrified animal that doesn’t trust a human to help them, the more you try to force it the more they will hide or attack). I’m not saying your partner is an animal, just hope that paints a picture of what it’s like to try to connect and communicate with someone who has alot of resistance and fear around it. Hope that helps ❤️
@ParisianStreets I’ve dealt with your frustration in my relationship also, I know how it can feel, and then when you hit a bump in the road , you wonder if anything has changed at all. When you look back, you realize that all this work was for something and you’re no longer incompetent of handling things that don’t go smoothly. I linked my course in the description box, if you feel this will help you, you’re welcome to join!
@@xoellielily Very helpful & clear. Thanks a million!
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@ParisianStreets Hi 🩷 here is the payment link 🔗. Once you complete it, you should get instant access! stan.store/EllieLily/p/connectioncdes Let me know if you have any questions!
Here's the modern woke thinking coming through that nobody owes you anything. When you make vows, then it's up to you to live those vows. It's also reasonable to assume the other person will honour their vows, too. If we don't have trust in each other, then words become meaningless and all communication and commitment is for nothing and a waste of time. C'mon you can do better than this dribbile you are spewing. Pur deeper thort into your presentations n maybe we can take you seriously. Me saying this to you doesn't make me anxiously attached, by the way.
@@Apbt-rv7zw the reason I believe no one owes you anything is because it helps you develop an independent mindset. Even with a vow- it can be easily broke and as statistics show- often is.. your partner can also decide they no longer want to be in this marriage and ask for a divorce. If you are thinking about a promise someone made you and feel entitled to them keeping it - you are setting yourself up for disappointment bei see humans are so very flawed.
@@xoellielily Again you're failing to show basic empathy or understanding in your responses. For example a better reply might go something like: "I understand that being in a relationship without the level of security you might feel you need can cause you a lot of anxiety and stress. It's okay to have these feelings and if that's what you need from a relationship then you should be sure to communicate this need and be sure it is understood and reciprocated on the outset of a relationship before either of you commit further. However humans are still flawed and If you are thinking about a promise someone made to you and you feel entitled to them keeping it - you may be setting yourself up for disappointment. I believe no one owes you anything is because it helps you develop an independent mindset. Even with a vow- it can be easily broke and as statistics show- often is. So while your feelings here are certainly valid please keep an open mind as to how the other party might be feeling in this situation and how their experiences might be shaping their expectations of commitment." Just an off-the-cuff example ofc but I think you get the jist of it.
@@anonporter9343 You might be right. My reply wasn’t as diplomatic and well spoken as yours but I had the same intention. I do feel empathy for people in situations like this, hence why I made a video talking about how to deal with it.
Avoidants ruin so many relationships and you would think they would learn. It's up to Avoidants to grow up and become Adults. Wanting your Avoidant partner to be a part of an adult relationship does mean you're anxious. That's absolute rubbish. The Avoidant already has pre-built walls.
@@Apbt-rv7zw you can’t say that because someone developed a certain coping mechanism that they ruining things for everyone else. Whatever your partners attachment style- it needs to be worked through. Yes they can’t completely change what is buried so deeply into their psyche however there are certain actions behaviors that may need to be adjusted to make your relationship work ( if that is what you desire)
@xoellielily You can help an Avoidant to be as safe as the rock of Gibralter, but none of that matters because their trauma will cycle back around until the accumulated cycles cause them to ghost, discard and abandon. Their traumas are just too deep to enter a mature adult relationship. You could teach Avoidants to avoid relationships until they have worked through those childhood traumas. Seeing the methods that work specifically for Avoidants would be really interesting. Telling others that they are anxious when they aren't is just an obnoxious projection.
@xoellielily Avoidance is a learned behaviour. Therefore, they can unlearn it through proper therapy. Seeing what therapy that is would be of high interest.
@@Apbt-rv7zw avoidance (the behavior) yes, however when you’re talking about the attachment theory- it is not so simple. It is the default coping mechanism learned so early on in that persons life that it will always be your “natural reaction”, and natural route of behaving. That is not to say you cannot change/ adapt/ choose different ways of operating through situations, but it is a deeply rooted pattern of human behavior.
@@Apbt-rv7zw not necessarily. You will just have to keep in mind that their natural habit is to avoid you in vulnerable situations. If you take offense to it instead of extending patience and compassion, it will help them ‘heal’ especially when they are with you for a prolonged period of time
This is such a sweet video!! Thank you, I’m buying my machine right now ❤️❤️❤️❤️😭
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@@lmanig7621 Hi 💕 I’m so glad you found this tip helpful! Here is the invite as promised 😊: stan.store/EllieLily/p/connection-codes-end-persistent-conflicts- Please let me know if there are any questions I can help answer!
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Hi 💕 I’m so glad you found this helpful! Here is the invite as promised 😊 stan.store/EllieLily/p/connection-codes-end-persistent-conflicts-
i needed this💞
@@isabellahansen8380 aww, I’m so glad to hear your feedback ❤️
Horse shite advice. Avoidants sabotage relationships, you can give them all the freedom, space they need, but they will still discard there partner. They fear intimacy like normal healthy relationships have intimacy is the exact thing that triggers Avoidants causing them to sabotage marriages/relationships. If you really understood Avoidants, you would know l this. I have been married 6 yrs to my wife, and believe you me this is nothing like a secure person.
Sir if you are secure you wouldn’t have this problem. I also am married to an avoidant and through the steps I’ve changed in my life, I was able to remedy our situation. She wasn’t always avoidant towards you , in the beginning of the relationship- or was she? If either of two partners is secure, it doesn’t matter what attachment the other partner is. They’ll make it work. So if your goal is to stay together, one has to change or you split. Wish you luck in love ❤️
I was thinking it’s the same thing or very similar, good to know
Wait a min. If they are clingy its normal but if we are we-re anxious attached. Its very difficult to change who you are both avoidants n anxious partners need therapy one needs to calm down the other needs to show up more.
😂 you summed it up perfectly They both need to become Secure
Make the text faster pls..
Gosh you’re beautiful.
I did what you said and my avoidant friend said shes wrong but never apologized. Both need to work n they need to hold themselves accountable also. Their running away from conflict at the drop of a hat makes it VERY difficult to come to terms.
Avoidant attachment is one thing, but if is being used to excuse taking accountability ( which is common) it is usually an indication that the person not only has an avoidant attachment style but low self awareness.
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This was helpful thank you. I think communicating our needs is a video that is much needed. And they too need to come around. It takes 2 to tango.
@@ParisianStreets yes it does but in most cases one is more willing to cha he then the other & sometimes they come around after seeing changes in their mate ❤️ best of luck to you in love and other matters !
Dont breathe, dont ask questions, never be serious about anything. And watch your true self drift away to the abyss.
@@michaella5799 that’s a bit of an exaggeration that benefits your ego by keeping you stuck in the situation you are in now. Having an avoidant partner is a gift for you to learn self-security & that is SO much more freeing then constantly feeling like the hurt one. I hope you get it one day ❤️ wishing that for you!
@@xoellielily no thanks i like dating normal people with normal attachment styles. That being said your relationship must be so great you browse avoidant pages on youtube.. lol
@@michaella5799 and that’s your choice too. Hope you find the one
@@xoellielily im happily married, i had an affair with an avoidant, never met a person with such a non personality non close person the whole thing felt off and strange, hence why im here. Apparently they love cheating flings and one nighters, is what it is, good luck.
@@xoellielily im married, had an affair with an avoidant. I find them very detached and in their heads, not particularly very emotionally close. Such a strange and broken mentality hence why im here. Apparently avoidants love cheating, flings, and one nighters, it is what it is, good luck your relationship with one as they seem to destroy people who care for them. Her husband commited suicide, after reading these commentaries i completely understand why he did it.
I bought one of these and returned it. Was hoping your video showed how to overcome the shortcomings but it didn’t. This model forces you to watch the expresso being brewed as you have to manually stop the water from traveling through the ground expresso. Secondly, the frothed is so pressurized the milk bubbles very quickly vs a slow creamy froth for a classic cappuccino. I ended up with the Magnifica which grinds the expresso beans and the frothing wand is the perfect pressure for foamy milk. It is much more expensive but it’s already paid for itself not having to go to Starbucks.
Wow, you have a twin sister! ❤😊
That is absolutely true!
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People come to these videos looking for ways to CHANGE their partners. No one is looking at their own selves and their own part in the conflict. Some of you act as though a person with DA wakes up one morning and decide to run. They have blinded themselves to the fact that they have dumped all of their needs and stuff onto a person who already has a limited capacity to handle just the normal stuff. Some people fail to see that the constant need for validation and reassurance, the distrust, making mountains out of mole hills, their inability to self-regulate, the constant check ins, monopoly of the others time, the seemingly innocent intrusiveness, the lack of boundaries, the tantrums when they don’t get their way, the passive aggressive behavior and in general expecting your partner to parent you, as overwhelming. Some of you are like children, who fall down for attention and then overreact when the parent tells them they are okay and to get up and try again. If you can honestly say you are NOT showing up this way and your partner still walks away, then let them keep walking as a Secure person would. Set a boundary and stick to it. Stop looking for ways to change/control a person. The only person you can change/control is yourself. Because the truth is, this stuff will work if you do honestly and with compassion not in the sense that you are trying to manipulate an outcome in your favor. Chances are if you are watching this video and others like it, you have an insecure attachment as well, so maybe work to become secure and attract someone who is also secure.
That is the whole point of this video- to bring self awareness into the equation
@@xoellielily well hopefully people begin to hear it. The lack of self awareness is rampant with insecure attachment. We all need to start there. Thank you for the video, keep up the good work.
@pampj8501 I appreciate the feedback , and yes I agree completely
It would be cool if people would stop regurgitating the same things over and over. It is not that people who feel hurt is anxious attached, there is nothing wrong with expecting a grown up to communicate and behave like a grown up. That doesn't makes the person "anxious" about the relationship. Also, to build trust in a relationship people need to open up. Everyone has childhood traumas, but that doesn't means people can enter into a relationship, neglecting the feelings of their partners, abusing their emotions, and employing the same tactics an emotional abusive person uses and we should all simply nod and say "oh, she/he had a past." Some people end up having kids with this type of person only to get divorced and have their lives destroyed years later. They spent YEARS with someone who did not loved them at all, they just "did not want to end up alone". RUclips thousands of videos with people who got hurt by this type of advise. Literally thousands of videos saying how we should roll over and show our belly while they abuse us emotionally, and that it is okay because they grew up abusers. No thank you, m'am.
Hey Javier - you're just proving Ellie's point. I have been there many times where you are now, but it never worked in the end. It's very hard to look into mirror and do the change - I'm trying now. I could tell you, your security will allow them to open up to you, which is what you ultimately want and need. They're basically opposite of us. Try it, drop the Ego guard. Good luck. 🙏❤
@@pavschodyko6531 You sound like someone who gets it, my friend! Yes ❤️
I understand how this advice can anger you, however all I suggested was to show compassion for another person- isn’t that a form of love? If you’re too quick to throw in the towel because your partner can’t meet you where you’re at, you’re going to go through countless relationships and they will all end at one point or another.. I get you, I was on the receiving end of this type of relationship too once. Wish you lots of happiness in your relationship 🩷
@@xoellielily I thought I did. My update is now that it’s two way street. At least we all try.
@@pavschodyko6531 of course only know know what’s right for you but things take time- many times longer then a week ( especially when someone has developed a way of being over the course of their life) & the two of you are used to interacting in a particular way- it won’t be a quick fix. It’s a transformation journey and unfortunately most people would rather jump ship as soon as possible then stand on something that may be uncomfortable for a bit but produce amazing results in the long run. ( long run could be a couple months- half a year) Whatever you choose to do in your situation, may it bring you happiness 💕
Is the milk frothing cup included? I ask because Best Buy has this, but it seems as if it is not included, because they sell one separately. Thanks!
Not when I purchased it
Great review. I’m researching the various options and seriously considering this little gadget. Thanks!!!!
Thank you 🩷
As a 6 foot, bearded blacksmith, machinist, hiker, runner, and overall put together…. I find the first 2 to be the biggest insult I could hear….from RUclips….. why did this even show up. I have a dick, not a pussy.
We’re talking about masculinity and femininity, as in your Anima and Animos in psychology, which every single human being has both of. You can be the prettiest woman on the planet and not be feminine, and the manliest man ever and not be masculine. I wonder what offends you? That might be a good thing to look deeper into and discover
Women😂..
Men 🩷
@@xoellielily the only good thing about bring a man is not being A woman.
You know I would have to agree with you.
@@xoellielily ❤️
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Which ironically is one of his arguments... He says he doesn't have his individuality... I don't either ... Even more so than him because I've somehow become damn near completely dependent upon him and it makes me sick... I'm in the process of getting myself back but the whole ordeal is whack to say the least
My advice if you want it. Friends can be a great source of Support. I know that it can be hard to lean on others but that's what makes them friends.
Agreed! Avoidants run from intimacy which is crazy if you want a relationship. They are the ones who seriously need therapy and we AP are blamed for being needy clingy.
You are Amazing! Keep up the good stuff. For those that don't get it, "You can't take care of anyone else until you take care of yourself. Be sure you have your needs met."
Thank you ❤️
Mf karen thinks she's deep😂
Eww
I support your goal to spread good vibes! Please practice speaking your lines to help not sound robotic. Thanks!!
I appreciate the feedback 🩷
@@xoellielily We all start somewhere! Good luck!!