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Was nice listening to this😊

Very interesting, well said and you landed yourself a new sub.

Totally understand this! Totally happens to me, especially when trying to explain to my wife why I’m distant, and stumble to try to help her understand my POV. Also I just realized that I need to do what you’re trying to do with making my videos. I’ve been putting off making those videos by trying to make notes or sparse outlines. But for a while I’ve been practicing voicing my thoughts using my iPhone Voice Memo app. These recordings are often very long, like 20, 30, even 60 minutes long. I learn from listening back to those how to say things better and more concisely. I’m training myself to be able to talk into a camera and try to briefly as possible make sense to someone. But also, like you said, it might not make sense to them until later. So that’s a good reason to still speak it. Those who have eyes to see, ears to hear, and minds to understand will know what I’m saying. And for those who don’t, it doesn’t matter, and it’s ok. Thanks for this video!😊

Oh poop! I forgot to hit like because I was so in my head😂 you are going to have to say it for your INFJ audience.

❤ Hi ho, from infj Australia at 3 a.m. 😂 my son just communicated with me by coming out, grabbing an apple, and sticking his finger up... bloody awesome 😂😂 why? I prefer the silence and he prefers not to talk to me😂😂! I am on a mission to shove my perspective down peoples throats. Get them to go to my side of the table, instead of demanding I go to theirs. Holy smoly what a huge battle. People simply can't swallow different perspectives... it is yell at, define, label, badge, correct, accuse, and put down. So... I describe this to them, kinda speak a da lingo, and shove me down the throat.. what a mind F for most people. If it is this hard for an adult... poor kids. I now require people to read the book before discussing the page (low bandwidth) or I will "describe" it ... sorry, did the middle of my sentence interrupt the beginning of yours... or if I wanted to hear from an arsehole I'd fart... there are many sensory defense quips and that is the point. As you say, it is about having the bandwidth for communication and that, to me, is one of the polycrisis of our times. Says me, who has just gotten rid of most of my RUclips subs..... yes, but here I am still on yours!!!❤ love the graphics too.😊😊 Belinda

Me too i told truth and got banned and eventually permabanned on r/mbti. It seems they only want popculture topics for teenagers that dont resamble truth. I am an ENTJ and a lot of other ENTJ agree with me that the stereotype on ENTJ is hurting the ENTJ. So i made a post about it got banned instantaneous and also was allowed to ask a mod why. Where the mod responded very sassy that i can’t generalise. And i said that it is personal experiences from multiple people. After that i couldn’t reply and got perma banned on all my accounts.

Really excellent explanation of my own experiences. You have a really great no nonsense approach in your delivery. As a follower of MBTI and similar INFJ channels I rate you very highly and I am amazed your following is not magnitudes higher. Thank you

As an infj I agree the arrow drawing was spot on. And I like to add something to it. The Infj empath sees the arrows and sees other people's true selfs. They than mirror the arrows to talk in that person's language so to speak. They even subconsciously start to feel the vibes that person has. So thats why most people are immediately comfortable with the infj and trust us, cause they see and feel themselves and its familiar to them. And some people can't stand us, again cause they see themselves and apparently can't stand themselves. 🤷‍♀️ So that is also very telling to the infj. Wanna win over a female infj? Don't say pretty words but show her you can see behind her shield. Take the time to psych*analyse her and prove you know and accept her. Not the mirrored arrows she puts out there cause they say more about you than they do her. That to an infj is like saying, "I like me and you reflect me". Narc alert! Wanna win over the infj, prove you see and accept her. Thats all we really want, a place where that shield is no longer needed and its safe to just be. Be that person and you got a ride or die girl for life. And especially if you can not just see her true self but also the downsides to these characteristics and be ok with them.

This is the first video I’ve watched of yours and I love it. I also love your b&w aesthetic and as a fellow INFJ, I can’t know exactly why you chose it but this is exactly the balance of exposing/protecting myself that I’m looking for whenever I think about having my own channel one day. Can I ask how you produced it?

When i was a child, i highly rebellious, i care about what i want. I think i'm highy analytical about people's hidden intention and behavior. I'm aware that my family has tendency to have sympathy, so i actually suffer myself so i could get their sympathy and i get what i want😅. I also bluntly honest since child. I'm responding type since a baby, egotistical, analytical, bluntly honest, pragmatic towards my family's intention, experimental. That creates intp ness of me i guess 😂.

It seems as though you're stating that the path to contentment for the introvert lies in becoming less introverted. And that not doing so will result in bitterness and seclusion as alluded to by Jung. Not casting aspersions here. Just trying to apply as clear and colorless a light as possible on this kaleidoscope we call personality.

Everything you are explaining is me to a T.

man i was just thinking about this relief

Wow. Thank you so much for this. I started crying as soon as you said it's the arrangement of words. This was very profound for me and so dead on. As someone who just recently discovered that the MBTI even existed and that I am an INFJ , I really do appreciate You and the others who take the time to make these videos and share your thoughts and discoveries. My recent discovery of all this has been life changing to say the least. I always knew I was different and didn't fit in with the way "everyone else" felt and thought. Ive felt very alone at times and had just accepted that I am weird, damaged, and will always be misunderstood. To discover that not only am I not alone, but there are many others who feel/experience the literal same things as me and vocalize word for word so many thoughts that until now only existed in my head . Mind blown wide open! So thank you again for being you! And for putting this content out here 🙏🏼🫶🏼

One night I retired to bed, I started thinking about something very funny. I started laughing but did not want to wake my husband. He was not asleep and mistook my repressed laughter for crying. He asked me what was wrong, I said nothing's wrong I was thinking something funny. He wanted to know what it was. I said I can't explain it. Offended, he insisted. I said honestly it won't translate. He continued to insist so we talked about the prank I was devising in my head to play on a co-worker. It was a magnificent prank, btw. Not mean, just funny.

'People won't understand it'. Boy, that's an INFJ thing for sure. I have always been questioned about not talking but it's just that I actually listen, take topics in to dissect and inspect them in my brain and most people are merely small talking. I can only small talk for a couple of minutes, so I recognize it and enjoy it, but as soon as something said piques my interest, I just tend to drag the topics into the mind lab where my microscope resides while I enjoy hearing their conversation. To me the world is a very interesting story I'm reading and unless there's a script or wardrobe change needed, or a call to action I'm happiest just reading. If I engage there's going to be plot twists or I'm going to say, 'What? ....Well, you asked!'

Thanks so much! I didn’t expect this. This helped me.

When you find your people where you want to express yourself and they actually listen, hold on tight to them because they will make you stronger. Infj from Texas ❤️

I like verbal communication. I may take some no verbal pauses. I rush when I write.

interesting subject! it really makes you think deeper about our personalities 🧠

I think you are right. As an identical twin my reactions were different than my twin sisters to exactly the same experiences. Sadly, for me she passed away 3 years ago before I researched MBTI types, but I know she reacted differently, and her personality was different. My employer tested MBTI scores for job placement over 20 years ago. I tested INFJ but I didn't give it much thought until her death. I then saw Jordan Peterson discussing it. I took his and the free tests available. Still INFJ. If personality is fluid based on external factors peoples MBTI would change and I haven't seen any research showing that to be true. I'll have to dig deeper. Oh, wait, I'm INFJ'ing again. 🤣😂👀

Being born an identical twin, I 'think', is how I developed into an INFJ. You are approached from birth by people who have questions about your identity, and it caused me to have to judge their intent, motivation, attitudes and mannerisms and explain to my twin. I was also raised by people who discussed and debated a lot, and I loved listening to the grown up's talking. Being from the era when children were seen and not heard I became a good listener. Most people listen to respond but listening to understand is different. Even accents get my attention. They fascinate me. The voice inflection, the cadence, word choice, grammar all jumps out at me immediately. And you're SPOT ON about the piano keys AND all of what you've said. People were always a big puzzle for me. To a twin you don't understand their curiosity. You're not seeing yourself standing next to someone who looks just like you, so you have to tinker and toy with perception vs perspective. Thank you for sharing your insights.

True

Se pisses me off to no end. That constant sophomoric drone of devilish white noise is the vampiric succubus that pulls the life right out of my bones. But AirPods to the rescue!

The young doctor you were talking about - I think she had her type right when she first came to you: Lead Fe without a doubt. That fear of not wanting to appear stupid is inferior Ti.

I feel like this might be my new favourite channel. So how do INFJs Se better?

Who are you - what is your name ? Thanks I don’t see it

Just stumbled upon your channel. Pretty much verified my INFJ character, my stressor is when plans change especially last minute. Your description of the stress is me exactly. My husband takes plan changes in stride, he would rather not plan (INTP) but he knows I have to plan. I remember taking a longer trail on a hike one time by accident and had to be at work at a certain time. Had a complete breakdown.

I think doing that U-Turn is an example of Se. Not Ne. Ne would get the idea, but acting on it might come later. Ne would most likely be satisfied with saying out loud…what if we took a u-turn here…That would be mad! Then just driving on.

But in case Fi dom, Te inferior, it could be isfp too.

I see you as an INTJ, is that correct?

I'm proud to be an INFJ. I sometimes struggle with it.

😊 yeah I saw a MAFS where the lady couldn't understand why the guy didn't fight the other guys to rescue her from the castle. And felt rejected. Competition is not really a thing, as in "winner/loser" for introverts. It is what I call DRAINED not time out. Seriously enjoyed going but not all the time. In reverse, I'd love to see your lady example sit down to 5 days of deep and meaningfuls on a remote isolated island with no escape. I am bloody sick to death of being used and explaining me as the freak reality and them, the normal reality. I try to switch that paradigm all the time... "if you have the bandwidth"😊😊

I thought dual relation (in this case) would be infp-estj

Once I learned that INFJ's are wired differently in our nervous systems, I dropped this belief system which has helped me get to know, love, and accept myself!

I now see "hurtful" things said from the outside world as ultimate guidance from my higher self. My innate intention is to expand and this shift has geared my INFJ life down the path of least resistance. Cheers to self love! Thank you for this! :)

Sweet camera angles, awesome message! Thanks! <3

I'm an INFJ and I use my claircognizance .

Thank you, beloved! <3

Psionic disposition

Ex always looked forward to getting my “read” on clients at sales dinners.

I wanna say that eventhough at work I feel like I want to go home to "get my energy back" when I go out with friends I don't want to return home because I feel energized around them

Thanks for that vidéo. Can you do a vidéo of istp and infp please

Thank you so much. I appreciate this.

❤ your fixing my mellow man! Always so mellow. I have this one infuriating issue which is when I communicate, conceptually of course, the receiver picks up on one element and tangents on to that as the basis for correcting me/argument or dismissive/freakazoiding me. It seriously drives me insane! I am trying now to correct them instead. Making it explicit that the element is only one incorrect view of the concept and this is the concept/what I am trying to communicate. Also, people cutting me off 2 sentences away from the end of what I'm trying to say, like on the phone.. I am saying now that I am nearly finished if you have the bandwidth which will save time later if you'd just listen... then I wait while they put me on hold, then come back saying the person isn't available and I say good, you have been filled in, send them a brief and get back to me 😂😂 I call it shoveling my shit into their brains as, like compost, it forces their brains to grow. "I'm sick of this shit" is my new t shirt which is denying my Fe and replacing it with an FU. It is because being nice, or putting myself down to accommodate others, is never reciprocal. I am over it. 😂❤

Ive had speech pathologists tell me that I am very articulate and i only went to highschool. But this has been my reality my whole life. I am better speaking and not over thinking in writing. I can also pick up on a ton about personality based on single still images due to facial expressions. Its like I can see how their face likely looks when they're feeling all emotions. Omggggg sooooooo true about picking up on ALL subtleties like this. Its why criminal interrogation and the science involved due to the psychological implications found in behavioral nuance helps cops and investigators can tell what an innocent person normally sounds like.

Omg i'm not alone!!! Im so happy this info is trending! I get intuitions on things all the time. Long before i know what my assertion will be. It hurts so much when someone gaslights u and betrays u when u plainly share these insights.

I just look. I don't see body language.i just feel it. Now I know body language. What I have is uncontrollable I feel things. It's that simple.

0:40 was you part of the pack. Not an INFJ thing. Your an IN type. LONE FOX