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The Affair Consultant
Добавлен 22 янв 2022
All things affairs and infidelity: insight, support, and education for everyone.
Thinking about getting a divorce
It starts with establishing intimacy by sharing marital vulnerability. And it ends up facing down the distance between thoughts and actions, dreaming and doing.
👀 If you are feeling a little bit too seen by this reel, it’s because you are not alone.
💔If you are a betrayed spouse, it can be helpful to learn more about the conditions that sometimes open the door to an affair, and why it’s often such a torturous rollercoaster for you because of it.
When I work with stuck unfaithful spouses, I focus on identifying reasons they’re paralyzed despite getting into the affair in the first place.
I’m trained in a technique called “Motivational Interviewing,” where you assess and help people change so...
👀 If you are feeling a little bit too seen by this reel, it’s because you are not alone.
💔If you are a betrayed spouse, it can be helpful to learn more about the conditions that sometimes open the door to an affair, and why it’s often such a torturous rollercoaster for you because of it.
When I work with stuck unfaithful spouses, I focus on identifying reasons they’re paralyzed despite getting into the affair in the first place.
I’m trained in a technique called “Motivational Interviewing,” where you assess and help people change so...
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The Shocking Truth About Affairs and Relationship Problems!
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The Shocking Truth About Affairs and Relationship Problems!
The Reality of the 'Other Woman' #affair
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The Reality of the 'Other Woman' #affair
Do you work on your marriage or chose your affair?
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Do you work on your marriage or chose your affair?
A spouse who had an affair can also lack trust and be hesitant to return to the marriage.
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A spouse who had an affair can also lack trust and be hesitant to return to the marriage.
You are the only one who knows what is right for you.
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You are the only one who knows what is right for you.
How to deal with setbacks in affair recovery as a married couple.
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How to deal with setbacks in affair recovery as a married couple.
Wait... why?
It doesn't seem to me that children are mentioned at all, let alone even considered, in videos covering this topic. I'm not picking on this channel, it's this way on ALL of the channels.
Because women do not give a damn about their children. Or anyone other than themselves.
sounds like a healthy marriage!
Oh wow! Really!
Feeling it in my core for sure. Why do they cheat?
Everyone has their reasons but it is generally a flavor of one of these: (1)An avoidant dysfunction, similar to a drug user where instead of dealing with this situation here that's difficult, they'll do this other unrelated thing that feels good. (2) An entitlement dysfunction. Because they've put up with this and endured that, it's OK that they can do this other thing here which would normally not be OK. Somewhere in there is general reasons that most people cheat.
Spot on
Explanations become excuses. If it ain't "there" no more, no matter what side of the coin ur on, do both u a favor and walk away gracefully. Anything else is drama. I've been on both sides of the coin, it hurts either way.
especially when it’s compacted in their professional life
huh?
This is what I am thinking of Actually, today I kept thinking about it And I have more 😮
no 😂😂😂😂
thee most important spiritual connection
especially since it’s thee boss 👻
i am with u sister ❤
it’s literally sickening now
hell no i not going anywhere
Well i know that hurts that person more than me hahaha 😝
Sorry, I know this is primarily for women but begs the question: why get into a situation where you have to deal with two sets of relationship problems? What's the solution? Add a third partner in the rotation to hopefully alleviate the second set ? That's an idea to betray the AP! I don't get it. If ur miserable Just divorce and collect your divorce court payday.
Want Nunya for keeps. Ain't worth the trouble.
Only women ask those questions. It's also a cornerstone stone which can drive a faithful woman to cheat after 15+ years of marriage.
You see things from such a deep perspective. Did u ever cheat?
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Kicked out?
It's called being a cake eater. It's something women love to do. The sleep around but don't ever want to lose the safety and resources provided by the husband. It's the same reason why women want open marriages. They think they can have it all until the husband decides he doesn't want to be with her anymore. That's when the gaslighting, lies, manipulation, and begging for a second chance begins. These kinds of women have no morals or ethics and, therefore, bring no real value to a relationship. They are pathetic.
Okay! Ummm! DUH!! 😂🤣😂
Don't get married if you only want sex
Only a true POS would betray their spouse, have an affair, and remain in a marriage.
Never sell out your integrity
Whatever women need to tell themselves.
Don't fall for it boys. Go get your passports.
Lady, an affair ends a marriage. Stress...
Im DONE
Every single word is true. It can take years, if ever, to overcome the loss. But it also means something needs fulfilling.
Nice green eyes by the way
Sooo true. I get to the point of breaking up, but then miss them soo much and we get back together again after a few days.. it's called rebound
Could it be possible to overcome an infidelity?
If your spouse or partner is cheating, let 'em go. It's hard, it's painful, and it can take a while to get there emotionally, but you'll have your best healing if you let them go.
Thank you for this. My friends tell me to end this relationship. They tell me everything he says is a lie. But I know what is the truth and what is a lie. I know the feelings we both have. Whether it will work out, i dont know. But i know i have to take the risk.
Same
I have Questions about affairs. 1 Is it turth that Not every affair involves sex. ARE still affair or do people need sex for affair or cheating to happen ur not 2 can people have affair or Cheat on someone without having no sex 3 .If i was dating Morgan i starting seeing my ex boyfriend Stephen start to make emotional attachment to Stephen i when i know him from school to college by texting him and meeting up and talking to Stephen on phone and thinking about him and watching films with him without never never having no sex ? Is it emotional cheating 4 can i have affair without never never having sex. 5 is it really affair without having no sex 6 can i have emotional and physical affair without having no sex?
(1) True. Sex is not a requirement. A broad working definition of infidelity is the keeping of secrets. There are many different types of affairs, and an emotional affair typically means no sex. When the infidelity involves sex you can then call it adultery. (2) Yes. Most people consider porn, onlyfans, sexting, etc. cheating. (3) Yes. If you're keeping a secret relationship from Morgan, that is cheating. (4) Yes, same as question (2) (5) Yes, as stated above an emotional affair is usually considered not having sex. (6) Physical affair usually means sex, but there is nuance. For example, suppose it was kissing and over-the-clothes petting, I would consider that a physical affair even though it wasn't technically sex. A good rule of thumb is if you don't want your spouse / partner to know about another relationship, or you don't want them to read the texts or hear the verbal exchanges, etc. If you want to hide this relationship from your spouse, then it is cheating.
The cheating man is asking himself "what the hell was I thinking?"
Women love married men. It's a huge ego boost if she can break up a marriage.
vultures deserve` no sympathy. feast on the "karen" you are
This video might seem very trivial and elementary, but I can promise you most cheating spouses do not know this. They would sooner rugsweep it than deal with it. I can also pretty much guarantee a cheating spouse is not watching this video. They generally do not research infidelity.
What's the point of this video? Is the intention to generate sympathy for the other woman? Is calling her a successful, charismatic, independent, capable, financially secure, educated, driven, etc. supposed to help me identify with the feminist movement? And what's this about the shame placed on her is more than that cheating husband, like there's some kind of victim competition? What am I reading here?!?!? If you take all the morality out of it and look at it like any other situation, she's taking a risk getting involved with someone married. Just like any risk you get the reward, and you also get the loss. I'm not sure why I would have any sympathy, I mean unless you were lied to or didn't know, I have a very difficult time feeling any kind of sympathy for the other woman. This isn't some story about the boyfriend who won't commit, and I don't like it presented that way. Between her, the cheating husband, and the wife, only one of those people deserves empathy, sympathy, and consideration. The other two I have zero time for. Call me when you've woken up and done the right thing, then I'll have time for you.
Shes just a vulture eaten a dead love
Welp!… that was a cold dose of reality Living life entirely without family or friends- not by choice.
No there should absolutely be shame breaking the ultimate trust! What kind of channel Are u running🤦🏾♂️
I have question am i emotionally cheating on morgan with my ex boyfriend Stephen behind morgan by meeting up and texting and calling Stephen on phone and laughing with stephen and holding hands with stephen and watching high school musical dvds that me and Stephen love without never never having no sex and can i have affair or cheat without never never having no sex because i am not interested in sex .
Yes you are cheating. If you are doing things behind your boyfriends back, then yes, that is cheating. And doing it with an ex-boyfriend makes it even worse.
You have to ask? That's mental. Yes it's cheating.
Nothing truer
IF ur spouse discovers your affair?.... Otherwise carry on cheating?🤦♀️
Oooor, hear me out. Dont have an affair