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Kayviana
Добавлен 18 фев 2013
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3 DAYS IN KYOTO 🎋 monkeys, temples & cute cafes | JAPAN DIARIES ❥ traveling in rainy season
First time in Kyoto! My favorite place in Japan so far.
#kyoto #japanvlog #japan #monkeys
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Видео
DIAMONDS are *NOT* a girl’s BF… #videoessay
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The diamond industry has kept several secrets. Exploitive practices and price gouging. Is this really the gemstone everyone adores? SOCIAL MEDIA 📸 IG: kayvianaholland BUSINESS EMAIL 📧 kayvianaholland@gmail.com
JAPAN TRAVEL DIARIES : ARRIVING IN TOKYO | 48 Hours to Explore !
Просмотров 4014 дней назад
First Time In Tokyo! Part two of my three part Japan series. #travelvlog #japanvlog #tokyo SOCIAL MEDIA 📸 IG: kayvianaholland BUSINESS EMAIL 📧 kayvianaholland@gmail.com
Traveling to Japan for the First Time! 🇯🇵
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OSAKA & NARA VLOG Your girl has finally made it to Japan! So excited to share this three part series with you. Stick along for my Japan Diaries. The deer in Nara are so cute, but a little scary! #japanvlog #japan #osaka #nara #naradeer SOCIAL MEDIA 📸 IG: kayvianaholland BUSINESS EMAIL 📧 kayvianaholland@gmail.com
WHAT I WORE IN JAPAN ! 🇯🇵 Y2K & STREETWEAR
Просмотров 15528 дней назад
Let the JAPAN videos begin! Showing you the outfits I put together for my vacation. Including some streetwear and Y2K outfits. #streetwear #y2k #y2koutfits #stylingideas #stylingtips #styling SOCIAL MEDIA 📸 IG: kayvianaholland BUSINESS EMAIL 📧 kayvianaholland@gmail.com 00:00-03:45 FIT 1 03:46-06:16 FIT 2 06:17-08:49 FIT 3&4 08:50-09:50 FIT 5 09:51-11:41 FIT 6 11:42-14:26 FIT 7
DECLUTTERING is an epidemic ... #videoessay
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Consumerism is at an all time high and so is DECLUTTERING ... decluttering is an epidemic. #declutter #decluttering #videoessay SOCIAL MEDIA 📸 IG: kayvianaholland BUSINESS EMAIL 📧 kayvianaholland@gmail.com 00:00-01:39 THE BIG QUESTION? 01:40-03:41 CONSUMPTION 03:42-05:42 YOUR BRAIN SAID OKAY 05:43-10:02 SHOPAHOLIC 10:03-10:49 BIGGER AND BIGGER 10:50-12:44 HAND OVER THE MONEY 12:45-17:10 WHAT YO...
HOW TO FIND YOUR STYLE … without spending money! *stop overconsumption*
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Find your personal style and STOP overconsumption. Let's save some money and be financially responsible the rest of 2024! #fashion #fashionstyle #blackfashion #blackwoman #blackwomanblog #personalstyle #personaldevelopment #overconsumption #nobuy SOCIAL MEDIA 📸 IG: kayvianaholland BUSINESS EMAIL 📧 kayvianaholland@gmail.com 00:00-02:01 INTRO 02:02-03:27 STEP 1 03:28-03:58 STEP 2 03:59-06:56 STEP...
2024 Met Gala felt like "The Hunger Games"
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Every year the annual Met Gala #metgala gives us a glimpse into the events exclusively held for the elite. With current world events, this year's sparked a lot of criticism. Drawing similarities to the hunger games and #blockout2024. Let's take a deep dive. #videoessay SOCIAL MEDIA 📸 IG: kayvianaholland BUSINESS EMAIL 📧 kayvianaholland@gmail.com
DREAM ISLAND ST. LUCIA! 🇱🇨 MUD BATHS, SAIL BOATS & MORE
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My mother’s annual birthday trip was to St Lucia in the Caribbean this year! #carribean #vacation #stlucia #birthdaytrip #birthdaycelebration #travelvlog SOCIAL MEDIA 📸 IG: kayvianaholland BUSINESS EMAIL 📧 kayvianaholland@gmail.com 00:00-01:34 INTRO 01:35-03:29 RAIN FOREST 03:30-05:55 CHATTING WITH LOCALS 05:56-07:41 THE MARKET 07:42-12:24 TOURS 12:25-18:34 HISTORY 18:35-21:42 SAILBOAT 21:43-24...
SOURCING GEM STONES & JEWELRY + NEW PINK SAPPHIRES
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I went to the International Gem and Jewelry Show! It was great to see some wholesale prices and get ideas for some future custom pieces. #finejewelry #gemstone #sapphire SOCIAL MEDIA 📸 IG: kayvianaholland BUSINESS EMAIL 📧 kayvianaholland@gmail.com
CANCUN, MEXICO ✈︎ TRAVEL VLOG | Cenotes, Isla Mujeres, Nightlife ♡ baecation
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2024 #Cancun Vacation #cancun #vacation #tropical #baecation #travelvlog SOCIAL MEDIA 📸 IG: kayvianaholland BUSINESS EMAIL 📧 kayvianaholland@gmail.com Hotel : Ocean Dream www.oceandreamcancun.com Airbnb: Grandis Lagoon Homeboat abnb.me/wGwU0LdjkIb 00:00-01:33 HOUSE BOAT 01:34-04:33 EXPLORING 04:34-06:43 GRWM 06:44-08:24 TOURS 08:25-09:55 NIGHTLIFE 09:56-12:44 SPEEDBOAT & SNORKEL 12:45-17:02 ALL...
YOUTUBE CHANGED MY LIFE in 1 YEAR .. with less than 700 subscribers | My YouTube Journey
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1 year with lots of change. So grateful to be able to share what I love and learn along the way. SOCIAL MEDIA 📸 IG: kayvianaholland BUSINESS EMAIL 📧 kayvianaholland@gmail.com 00:00 - 00:28 Growth 00:29 - 03:58 Creative Outlet 03:59 - 06:40 Discipline 06:41 - 11:59 Personal Brand 12:00 - 17:05 Self Image 17:06 - 22:08 Be a Business
IS BRANDON BLACKWOOD WORTH IT? NIA ANTELOPE BAG
Просмотров 2395 месяцев назад
Black Owned this February. Showcasing the beautiful Nia Antelope Bag from Brandon Blackwood. Looks like I won’t be keeping it though. Watch to find out why! #brandonblackwood #newbags #unboxing SOCIAL MEDIA 📸 IG: kayvianaholland BUSINESS EMAIL 📧 kayvianaholland@gmail.com
FINE JEWELRY SHOP WITH ME ! Vintage Pop Up & XIV Karats
Просмотров 7935 месяцев назад
Join me on a quick little shopping spree! After this experience I went to a custom jeweler for the first time and I have so many options to look into. Either way, I will be getting my pink sapphire ring this year. #finejewelry #vintagejewerly #vintagestyle SOCIAL MEDIA 📸 IG: kayvianaholland BUSINESS EMAIL 📧 kayvianaholland@gmail.com
2024 WISHLIST 💍 | JEWELRY, VINTAGE, Brandon Blackwood & more ~ building my dream wardrobe
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Hi everyone! Finally sharing my 2024 wishlist. I feel like my love of fashion has been increased this year and I’m so excited to see what this year brings. #wishlist #2024wishlist #vintagejewerly #finejewelry The wrap around ring was actually from Ferkos! I said that wrong in the video. ETSY SHOPS MENTIONED OurosJewels www.etsy.com/shop/OurosJewels - The Kimaï dupe is from here ModeaJewelry www...
NA-KD WORKWEAR HAUL … better than ZARA?? | Outfits for the Office
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NA-KD WORKWEAR HAUL … better than ZARA?? | Outfits for the Office
MY EMERALD JEWELRY COLLECTION ~ How to Buy AFFORDABLE Custom Jewelry ft. (Molly Jewelry)
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MY EMERALD JEWELRY COLLECTION ~ How to Buy AFFORDABLE Custom Jewelry ft. (Molly Jewelry)
VLOGMAS 🎄 COZY HOLIDAY & CABIN TOUR ~ *family christmas trip*
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VLOGMAS 🎄 COZY HOLIDAY & CABIN TOUR ~ *family christmas trip*
HAUL ♡ LEVIS, OUTCAST, ASOS, DICKIES & MORE
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HAUL ♡ LEVIS, OUTCAST, ASOS, DICKIES & MORE
24 HOURS IN UTAH | ♡ Park City, Midway & Salt Lake City!
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24 HOURS IN UTAH | ♡ Park City, Midway & Salt Lake City!
INSIDE MY $1900 LA APARTMENT TOUR ~ COZY & COASTAL 638 sq ft
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INSIDE MY $1900 LA APARTMENT TOUR ~ COZY & COASTAL 638 sq ft
APARTMENT HUNTING IN LOS ANGELES | (includes prices and amenities + tips)
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APARTMENT HUNTING IN LOS ANGELES | (includes prices and amenities tips)
EVERYDAY FINE JEWELRY | Diamonds, Gold, Silver, & More (ft. YFN) ~ How To Build Jewelry Collection
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EVERYDAY FINE JEWELRY | Diamonds, Gold, Silver, & More (ft. YFN) ~ How To Build Jewelry Collection
My Most Worn Jewelry | Biwako Pearls, Gold, Diamonds & More
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My Most Worn Jewelry | Biwako Pearls, Gold, Diamonds & More
LAGUNA BEACH VLOG | new car for my birthday + seeing BEYONCE RENAISSANCE
Просмотров 1069 месяцев назад
LAGUNA BEACH VLOG | new car for my birthday seeing BEYONCE RENAISSANCE
My DREAM Tory Burch Lee Radziwill Bag ... She's Western
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My DREAM Tory Burch Lee Radziwill Bag ... She's Western
PUERTO VALLARTA TRAVEL VLOG 2023 | private beaches (Las Caletas), cooking classes, up in the air ♡
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PUERTO VALLARTA TRAVEL VLOG 2023 | private beaches (Las Caletas), cooking classes, up in the air ♡
48 SPRING/SUMMER DRESSES LOOKBOOK | my favorite brands for the season !
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48 SPRING/SUMMER DRESSES LOOKBOOK | my favorite brands for the season !
Unboxing Tory Burch Petite Lee Radziwill Double Bag & What Fits Inside
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Unboxing Tory Burch Petite Lee Radziwill Double Bag & What Fits Inside
What was that chirping sound in the background??? IS THAT A FIRE ALARM THAT NEEDS THE BATTERY CHANGED !!!!! Omg I thought Brandon Tatum was joking😢😢😢
@@phoebelee55 lol spare me pleeeeease 😂😂 it got fixed. It’s not on most videos after this .
Amo usar calça jeans Levis.. m chamo jaguar moro no Brasil salvador.. viva Levis amo..501 Issa, aloha !!
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Such a fantastic video. You got some awesome footage. I hope you folks had a good time!
@@Snoopac1 Thank you, it was a lovely trip 😊
It looks so fun over there! I really need to go on a trip soon. Your hair is so cute, it goes well with every outfit!
@@pinkchampagnepurplerain7059 Thank you! Fall is coming up, perfect weather to travel 👀, hope you make it somewhere nice 😊
Wow, makes me want to visit now. 🔥
@@Ryyguy_ LOL BABY 😂
This is the first video I’ve seen of yours! I really love the way you broke down the reality of overconsumption! My favor always has the thought process of “recycle, reduce, reuse” as well as “do I actually have a need for this or do I just want it, how often will I use it” before buying anything. My parents were within the lower middle class to ‘middle’ middle class, so we always had to pass down things and do our best to maintain the things we had to make them last. I do also think some of the problem is the actual quality of things in the stores today. I’ve had more clothes fall apart in the last 5 years than I ever have. I still have clothes from 2008 that are in good condition, where I can get items off seemingly similar quality that fall apart or rip with a 2 year span.
The beginning is so funny 😂
Your pillows are cute
@@meggo329 Thank you :)
DeBeers diamond cartel… They needed to create a larger market, good video showing how gullible and naive people are about marketing and propaganda.
@@djquinn11 Thank you!
Vestiaire Collective is the same. It’s hit or miss. I bought a bag which had obviously passed their first phase authenticity process because it was for sale. I went to sell it myself and Vestiaire bounced it and hence I realised via them it was counterfeit.
@@bryan7938 Yea I’ve given up on the online resale market for luxury. Also brands don’t hold as much value today. If something second hand is found in person I may get it, but there’s too much risk for such little reward.
Thank you I’ve been thinking about society like this. Why is it such a big deal if I do something that has nothing to do with you differently?
they are , stupid!
diamond mining is now very regulated as far as the "blood diamond" scandal goes. its also a very expensive process. opening a diamond mine takes about 12 years and hundreds of millions if not billions of investment dollars. the fact of the matter is that while yes their prices are extremely inflated due to marketing, we simply would not have diamonds if they didnt sell for so much money. the truth is that they are expensive to mine and thus they sell for a lot. what would be the point of investing so much money and time into mining for them if the mine owners couldnt quadruple their original investment? natural diamonds are a gift to us humans because they tell us so much important information about our earths history and what processes are required to form diamonds in the first place over billions of years. i rest my case lol.
@@jonathanb.1999 Hi! Thank you for sharing. The industry is regulated based off of the Kimberly process (as far as I know, I would love more knowledge on this) and this process is very restrictive in terms of what a blood diamond means. These are still huge ethical concerns and human rights violations in the mining process. If there’s alternatives that can avoid this, I think it’s great to go with them. History is beautiful, but not when present day is still causing atrocities
I like beach-themed decor too, so that cabinet at the beginning, the turtle wall art and pillows are right up my alley.
Glad you enjoy :)
12:33: Seeing a “For Rent” sign is how I found my place. You can get an idea of what the area is like. The apartment she found is cute-it’s not “open concept” 🤮 and the bedroom is large.
If her eyebrows were closer together she’d look like Freida Kahlo, the artist.
Bought one custom higher end one at the outlet for $400 here in CA
Commenting because I think you deserve a boost for this video. Also, I think it's wild how decluttering caught on with youtubers doing hauls- while still continuing to do hauls. But then again, many people seem to shop like a youtuber even though their jobs are something else. I kind of understand, we all feel more and more anxious about the future, but it's still wasteful.
@@alexf3036 Thank you for the engagement, it’s appreciated!! Haul culture is slowly dying out and I’m honestly so glad about it. Unless it’s product reviews, they’re completely unnecessary to do so often. The everyday person only needs a haul probably twice a year during celebrations, major life events, and when buying gifts.
This is soo beautiful girl. And yeah, 1k plus subscribers!!! Woohoo!! 🎉🎉🎉 I love this for you sis. Your consistency is gon pay off eventually. Don't ever give up
@@its.vickybaby Thank you! Definitely trying, 😭 appreciate you for sticking around :)
I love you're jewelry I collect fine jewelry and vintage pieces are my favorite.❤
@@dollknight3947 Thank you! What’s your favorite piece in your collection?
@kayviana A 14kt yellow gold north star with a aquamarine in the center..
I always really love this akoya and diamond pendant set in 14kt white gold on a 14kt yellow gold chain given to me by my great aunt I've had it for 7 years now.
@@dollknight3947 Those are the pretty round pearls! I tend to go for the irregular ones, but those are beautiful. Definitely timeless.
@kayviana imperfect pearls are beautiful too.
decluttering is the new minimilism
@@peaceknot Different problem, same monster essentially.
Dude this broad talks SO MUCH!! 🤦🏻♂️🗑️🤡
You lost me at the what you said. “If you don’t completely finish your plate a lot of the employees will ask you to finish your food or that a box home, not in the kindest way?
@@thatgirl5964 Yes, there were several people having a hard time because of it. The food at some places was not good. I understand however, and did not take it personally. They would probably get better responses if they asked nicely though.
We only de-clutter around Christmas because we don't have a ton of stuff. I have my art supplies all of which I use, we have books which have all been read, and a limited amount of clothes between myself and my partner. I own 4 pairs of pants and maybe like 15 shirts. No seasonal clothes except like 3 hoodies.
I feel like you can always get away with less stuff if you’re in the south or somewhere warm
@@emmanarotzky6565 I mean I live up in the mountains I just know that if I get cold I have blankets at home and if I need to go out I put in a hoodie and a jacket. My main declutterring problem was beanies because I had like 15 and went down to 4 since I don’t wear them often anymore.
I love your jacket You look great
@@EmeraldAriell thank you!
2:59 does 'blocks' count as one toy or are they individually counted?
What a beautiful bag and a beautiful young lady with a beautiful personality! 😀 Thank you for sharing this bag! I want one too but im not sure if Ill get your size or the the size up. Im loving the color you picked too! Is there a sheen to the leather or is it matte?
@@debbieh9009 thank you, you are so sweet! There is a very slight sheen to the leather. Not shiny by any means but it does look very buttery in the light.
i really enjoyed watching your video essay about this topic and your voice is so nice to listen to. I'm so pumped to watch more of your videos!
@@gabecore717 aww thank you! I plan to do at least one video essay a month alongside my normal videos. Glad to have you around 🤗
I think a lot of items look even better on your skin than itself!
@@LilyHuang208 aww thank you!
For that feeling of "get rid of the same old same old" I rearrange furniture and decorations I already own, switch up curtains and bedding between rooms, when it's warmer weather and blankets are used less I'll use them to cover the sofa or something. Honestly just switching things you already have around gives just as much improvement to that feeling, and has an extra sense of achievement attached
I love this and I agree 100%. One youtuber (Caroline Wrinkler) was saying we can do this with frames as well. She keeps a few in storage and changes her frames up on the wall when she needs a change. Some parents do that with their kids' toys as well (keep a few in storage and rotate them so the kids get "new" toys they had forgotten about lol
@@carynsire3578 that frame idea is so good! When my dad passed I got a couple of framed childhood photos of me that I don't think I'll ever display but you've given me the realisation that I can use their lovely frames for something I would like to display! Thank you 🥰
@@deedreamerify Sorry for your loss :( Using the frames is certainly a good idea! My husband and I always buy our frames in second hand stores anyway! Frames can always be changed and used differently!
Stylish! You wear casual clothes beautifully and you know what suits you.可愛い💕
@@tandemnoteh Thank you! Honestly one of the best compliments I can recieve 🥹
From an European (Swiss) POV, the USA has a massive overconsumption issue. I think it also relates to the appalling work/life balance you guys have. You have very little free time compared to most of the world so I suppose that buying shit gives you that little spark of happiness and feeling that the insane hours at work being worth it. Also living with debt as if it's the normal/logical thing to do is mind boggling to me.
@@melocoton7 Just searched how many hours you work and truly jealous. Yea, I don’t understand the crippling debt either, but I don’t think it’s a choice for everyone. Cost of living is getting out of hand over here.
I was always so jealous of my british bf. He started at 6 weeks vacation. I had to work 10 years to get up to 4. 🙄
@@kensiblonde4203It's crazy that you have to work to earn the bigger amount of vacation days. In Russia this amount is fixed in the law
Unregulated capitalism doesn’t favour employees
I lived in LA for 7 years and rented a room the entire time. Ridiculous lol
and it was in the San Fernando Valley lolol
Looks like a great trip!
@@schm1596It was lovely! Just watch out for the food
So pretty ✨🌸. & your video is relatable . 978 subscribers now 🤍✨ Do you have tips on cameras to buy that worked for you ?
Aw thank you! I use the Nikon z30. I think it’s easy to use, but there’s definitely cheaper options available. I’ve heard a lot of people like the Osmo.
In my country when you donate to a thrift store the cashier in most places or another employee first sorts through your stuff, selects what they will keep to sell, and then leaves you the rest.
Those are boutiques. These are warehouses/big box stores.
Hi love! May you DM me the area Apt. 4 is in? I'm looking for places to move to in LA for grad school in a couple of months and our budgets aligned!
Hey hun, I don’t see any DM messages?
Can I know the name of the first apartment in Korea town? 👀
The Lennox Apartment
People wanna make decluttering content, but instead of helping neighbors, family and friends with their spaces, they just buy a ton of stuff to declutter. I'm decluttering because a lot of my clothing doesn't fit properly anymore, but I've been doing it slowly over a year lol. I bought like 5-6 pieces of clothing, but that's it. edit: If you live in America, and need to donate clothing Vietnam Veterans of America (VVA) does picks up. All you gotta do is set up a date for the pickup, label the boxes or bags, and then set them outside an hour or so before hand. I've done it a couple of times, and I know my clothing is going to go to people who need it instead of a landfill.
Thank you for the donation recommendation! I pinned your comment for others to see.
@@kayviana Amazing! Thank you. I also believe that donations are tax deductible but I'm not 100%.
@@vvitch-mist20Sadly, a good part of donations end in landfills as well 😕 Idk specifically about donations to the VVA in particular tho
What length are your jeans
Depends on the jeans, but I tend to go for a 30 I think, and I’ll alter if necessary.
I’m not spoiling anything but art displays like Omega Mart here in Las Vegas are interesting bc all of the products look and are color coded like real brands, but they’re off- like you’re in another dimension. We’re such overconsumers here in America we can look at these fake products and know the real product name. How weird is that to think about? 😂 Also why tf you have under 1000 subs?! Girl you’re amazing! 😊
Hehe thank you! I go to Vegas every year and I haven’t had a chance to check that out. I need to go see it.
@@kayviana omg! Just a fun tip, Area 15 where it is located has “experience passes” so you can buy one of those and access multiple attractions there (I forget which tiers have OMEGA MART but it’s 2 of them) and it’s a way better value than booking them all. OMEGA MART is huge tho, so I’d recommend doing it last and getting a bite to eat! I was in there for hours. It’s my fave place in Vegas tbh 😍❤️
@@EmiL_from_NieR Loveeee a good deal, thank you for the tips!
Birthdays and Christmas have us thinking we have to over buy and do the most. This is why I’ve had to stop participating or only get my kids cash or consumable things.
Cash is king for kids! My siblings tend to want that over items as well. For holidays now we try to take small trips when possible and put the money towards that. Memories over materials.
I got my stepfather a framed autograph from one of his favorite star gate actors (met him at a con) and some Milano cookies and he was so happy 😂 if people love you you don’t have to go all out, every Christmas I make like 6-8 different varieties of cookies and put them in those cute dollar tree boxes they get in at the holidays and put ribbon on them. A lot of work but they’re handmade and scratch made 😊
@@EmiL_from_NieR Honestly the sweetest! Thoughtful gifts are the best.
It seems like at a certain age, teenage in my family, kids want gift card so they can buy what they want. No offense to family, but sometimes they don't get exactly what you wanted. My dad and boyfriend don't need anything, so gift cards and candy are the presents.
Oh gosh you are so charismatic! I follow many a style creators but your delivery is so superior! Great video, I subscibed and am lucky to have a new back catalog of yours to go through 🧡
Aw thank you! So glad to have you here, thank you for tuning in :)
The store from he movie Mannequin was a Macy’s?? 😮 btw I LOVE that movie 🫶🏽🫶🏽
I bought a pair of LeBron 9s and LeBron 17s from there that are real but the Jordan 1s I got from them are fake. It's a hit or miss it seems I guess.
My iPhone 📱 is listening 👂! I was just chatting on my phone 📞 about rents. And wow, 🤩 your videos just showed up 🆙!
I appreciated this. I am actually doing a whole house declutter, but my plan is for it to be a one-and-done. I'm looking at how I got here and how to not get here in the future. Too many decluttering videos seem to be like you say: performance. I don't plan on being a minimalist. I just want to be able to enjoy what I have.
I think it’s lovely that you’re setting up plans to avoid this in the future. It can very difficult. In the past I found that shopping was a hobby. Creating hobbies that have nothing to do with shopping can be so helpful for redirecting your time. A little bit of change at a time is the way to go. Be kind to yourself during this process. Thanks for leaving a comment as well :)
I’ve gone through a house declutter a few years ago. Probably still doing so. And the best thing that has helped me: don’t go too fast. You are accustomed to a certain degree of stuff. If you get rid of it too quickly you may be compelled to fill the space up. And I honestly have been shocked how much random stuff I had and also how many people are willing to buy it from me.
This hit my algorithm at a great time! My partner moved to LA a couple months ago and im going to follow next year!
Hope it’s a smooth transition!
This made me realize I might need to buy more random garbage so I can performatively throw it away.