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WHY I LEFT DUBAI AFTER 2 YEARS
Firstly, HIIII!!!! Secondly, I am sooo sorry for taking forever and a day to upload this video! I actually recorded it back in summer but it's here now so I hope you enjoy it. Grab a cuppa or a coffee and get comfy because your girl is about to get. in. to. it!!!! I actually can't remember what I said because it was so long ago now but I think I discuss things like: what my school was like, low moments, what caused those low moments, making friends, Dubai lifestyle, my life now.
Please let me know what you think in the comments!
Thank you to those who have checked in on me in the time I've been away. I appreciate you! xxxxxxxxx
#dubai #livingindubai #movingabroad #tellall #movingout #movin...
Please let me know what you think in the comments!
Thank you to those who have checked in on me in the time I've been away. I appreciate you! xxxxxxxxx
#dubai #livingindubai #movingabroad #tellall #movingout #movin...
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Leaving Dubai FOREVER
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Helloooo! It’s been a minute. Since I started this journey in Dubai, it is only right that I allow you guys to see the end of the journey. It was so surreal packing and selling things but it was a very long time coming and I am soooo much happier being out of Dubai. I’m sure there will be a video in the next few weeks explaining why I was so eager to leave but as for now I am on summer holidays...
How my new perspective on worrying is changing everything...
Просмотров 2835 месяцев назад
Hello and welcome back! Thank you all for the love you've been showing me. I hope this video helps you as it did me! xxxxxx all socials: tobes_x insta: bitly.ws/Y9N6 TikTok: bitly.ws/Y9Nh Business enquiries: tobiytbusiness@gmail.com music: shorturl.at/7dY1n #positivity #thatgirl #thatwoman #motivation #staymotivated #2024 #routine #sitdown #affirmation #affirmations #goals #goalsetting #burnout...
Struggling with disappointment: in my flop era?
Просмотров 4365 месяцев назад
Hello my beautiful people! I do really enjoy content creation on YT but I can't stand the idea of doing something half heartedly. So I'm questioning whether to carry on or not in the long term. It'd be great if we could grow, but regardless, I appreciate every single one of you who tune in every time I upload.. means so much xxxxxx all socials: tobes_x insta: bitly.ws/Y9N6 TikTok: bitly.ws/Y9Nh...
Spend the weekend with me: 68 day challenge
Просмотров 2236 месяцев назад
Hello my gorgeous people! Enjoy this chatty vloggggg. Also guys I need inspo, what videos/ vlogs you wanna see? all socials: tobes_x insta: bitly.ws/Y9N6 TikTok: bitly.ws/Y9Nh Business enquiries: tobiytbusiness@gmail.com
Work from home with me, teacher edition #ProductiveVlog
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THIS is your sign... two weeks in paradise #travelvlog
Просмотров 2176 месяцев назад
This might just have been my favourite holiday of all time guys! If you are planning a trip to Asia, let it be Sri Lanka! Like and comment, but most importantly… enjoy!! With much love xx all socials: tobes_x insta: bitly.ws/Y9N6 TikTok: bitly.ws/Y9Nh Business enquiries: tobiytbusiness@gmail.com music: shorturl.at/qPR79 #vlog #travelvlog #srilanka #blacktraveler
Maintenance vlog: pre-travel makeover
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Hey you lot! Enjoy!! I have to say washing the extensions have definitely worked because they have not itched at allllll in comparison to not washing them. Sri Lanka vlog coming next week! xxx all socials: tobes_x insta: bitly.ws/Y9N6 TikTok: bitly.ws/Y9Nh Business enquiries: tobiytbusiness@gmail.com music: shorturl.at/lqty6 #vlog #travel #maintenance #nails #hair #knotlessbraids #dubai #srilan...
GRWM: social media, the math is NOT mathing
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Hey guys, you’ll hear that I really fight the English in this video wow.. ‘a bug bears’? ‘Least happiest’?? Bad grammar gets under my skin so I don’t know what was happening here looolll Products used: Primer: Rimmel London Fix and Perfect Foundation: Nars Natural Radiant Longwear Foundation, Namibia Concealer: LA Girl Pro Conceal, Fawn Powder: Huda Beauty, Kunafa Mascara: Benefit Bad Gal Bang ...
How to get through the waiting season
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I am so sorry about how many times I said 'good' and 'normal'. I promise I have a better vocabulary loool xx all socials: tobes_x insta: bitly.ws/Y9N6 TikTok: bitly.ws/Y9Nh Business enquiries: tobiytbusiness@gmail.com music: shorturl.at/guzP0 #positivity #thatgirl #thatwoman #motivation #staymotivated #2024 #routine #sitdown #affirmation #affirmations #goals #goalsetting #burnout #health #minds...
How to do a feminine spring clean 🌸 #ThatWoman
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De-influencing the independent woman #feminism
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De-influencing the independent woman #feminism
HOW TO stay delusional as Legion #ReesaTeesa #WhoTFDidIMarry
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HOW TO stay delusional as Legion #ReesaTeesa #WhoTFDidIMarry
HOW TO stay motivated and on your grind in 2024 #ThatWoman
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HOW TO stay motivated and on your grind in 2024 #ThatWoman
YouTube, how it's changing my life: the good, bad & ugly
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RUclips, how it's changing my life: the good, bad & ugly
SISTERHOOD: The Power of Connection #GirlTalk
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SISTERHOOD: The Power of Connection #GirlTalk
How to fail forward: 3 realistic and helpful strategies #Goals
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How to fail forward: 3 realistic and helpful strategies #Goals
The unseen truth: Why women choose to stay single
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The unseen truth: Why women choose to stay single
I know why women are choosing to stay single
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I know why women are choosing to stay single
Reflecting on my 20s and 2023| Feat. Irony Home
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Reflecting on my 20s and 2023| Feat. Irony Home
5 ways you're blocking your dream life #MindsetMakeover
Просмотров 524Год назад
5 ways you're blocking your dream life #MindsetMakeover
The Dubai itinerary that made my dreams come true
Просмотров 679Год назад
The Dubai itinerary that made my dreams come true
FROM WONDERLUST TO HAIRCUT: DONE WITH TRAVELLING
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FROM WONDERLUST TO HAIRCUT: DONE WITH TRAVELLING
EP1- THE ULTIMATE LIFE AUDIT: 5 EASY WAYS TO ASSESS YOUR LIFE #MindsetMakeover
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EP1- THE ULTIMATE LIFE AUDIT: 5 EASY WAYS TO ASSESS YOUR LIFE #MindsetMakeover
5 HOURS IN ABU DHABI: BACKSTREET BOYS AND PIZZA BRUNCH #enjoyment
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5 HOURS IN ABU DHABI: BACKSTREET BOYS AND PIZZA BRUNCH #enjoyment
Dubainis a capitalist country. Very hollow.
Spiritually and religiously speaking, the way how the children, staff and parents treated you was utterly immoral and goes against EVERY Islamic principle. The N word is a slur, we're not allowed to use it, it's a sin, classism is utterly sinful, and hurting your teacher goes against EVERY teaching of the Prophet PBUH. I'm so so sorry you had to go through this, you deserve so much better <3 Thank you for telling us about your experience. Racism, classism, prejudice in general is seriously a cancer.
This exactly the experience i have for 8years now here,no proffessional safety, especially for us africans. You will not get the position or be moved out of your job if someone gossips about you cos they dont like you. I lost 2 jobs in a toxic culture just because the trainer thought i wasnt fit to do the job after working there for 3weeks. ITS TERRIBLE.
Please you tube sgi Buddhist movement an introduction full length version. Peace and NammyohorengekyO!!! People no matter your faith please pray on if you should live, visit any country. Don't waste your time on places you are not suppose to be at!!!The importance of being wear you should be. !!!!
I can’t live there
Stop walking the middle line. Tell yourself you're never going back to any of the Emirate countries again and then tell the unadulterated truth. Sounds like you added the positives, you subtracted the negatives and the net experience was negative and not worth repeating for you or any one else. Write a few more articles or even a book on this, bur please be as truthful as possible, then move on.
Not Dr Umar shoutout 🤣🤣😩. I love your quote “Grass isn’t greener on the other side it’s greener where you water it”. 🙌💪🏿
there was a twitter thread about Dubai “ the unspoken drawback to Dubai is that it is created by industrialized slavery on a scale not seen since…ever, basically. dig 5 feet and you will hit dead bodies. it is a spiritually rancid place, only enjoyable if your chest contains a sucking hole in place of a heart”
Hard for male brain to follow easily follow female conversation, regardless of culture. Love her though. She’s adorable.
My father worked in Qatar and from what I saw people had a good life there. His friends were mostly South Asian and the kids were in American international schools and had American accents.
The analog clock isn't common worldwide, most countries use the 24 hour clock so terms like "quarter past two" won't be understood by many. The 12 hour clock is a very British tradition.
Babygirl, hope you don’t have any plans of revisiting Dubai. You know how they feel about exposé 😮 - very informative and shocking and yes you should definitely be proud of yourself x
The call to action for Sudan is to boycott the UAE. Travel elsewhere. Free Sudan 🇸🇩
comes to a country with not so great intentions, has unfortunate luck due to the not so great intentions, has bad job environment, talks negatively about people’s children, not interested in other parts of the country although it’s a small country and you can travel to dubai every day if you wanted, leaves the country after doing what they briefly wanted to do. if you love a place that place will love you back and treat you very well despite the unfortunate circumstances but you will be fine where you are now so don’t stress yourself too much about it
Why do black people still go to the middle east? Don't you know you are not welcome? They even treat each other terribly through sectarian violence and help the west destroy their own countryman and religious compatriots. What makes you think they will treat you with respect?
What are Victorian standards?
I’m glad u are sharing this. I’ll vacation there but I wouldn’t like to live there
I would not even vacation there. Don't you remember that girl they enslaved? They took her passport and she ended up having to be smuggled out of the country.
@ oh shit I need to look that up had no clue 😳 thanks for the info
Dubai is overrated 😂
So sorry that you went through that ordeal!
Dubai is slavery district number one, criminal hide-out spotbat its best. People forget its a very young place with young money. Everyone seems to get blinded by the light
Too vague about the "things" that happened... It makes the content not interesting to me. Plus it sounds like you are holding the shame of what the abusive people did to you.
I don’t get it Arabs don’t like black people no respect so in the uk I don’t show them any respect Islam is weird no progress just pain and horrible aura
Understandably your perspective is informed by you being very London-centric, e.g. the please and thank you thing is very cultural.. many of these differences are found in countries / societies all over the world but agree not everyone is made for living abroad it requires an adaptive mentality
You did that ma'am, you can be proud! Despite it all.
Racism is everywhere and Britain's history is steeped in racism. There is even racism within the muslim sects. Racism is thick in the USA also. In the end it's an Islamic society and they don't value women. That country functions on slave labor so if you don't want to be treated like a slave don't go there to work.
If you are going to a foreign country to live/work, wherever that is you have to research the culture. They are not going to adapt their culture to please you. You are the one that is going to have to adapt to them. There are plenty of forums online discussing life in Dubai, saudi, Kuwait etc. So there is no excuse going their with eyes wide shut. I've visited dubai and felt pretty safe there, the crime rate is extremely low. It's a Muslim country so you have to abide by their rules. The only place where i had to cover up was when i visited a mosque otherwise i wore regular clothes, i even went to the beach in regular swimwear. I traveled on the public bus and in taxis and felt very safe. Most of the people in dubai you meet on the streets are not Emirati, they are foreign workers as they make up the majority of the population. To say they don't have manners is funny to me because in places like new york people don't even say goodmorning if they ride the elevator together or work at the same place. For me visiting there i know i couldn't live there for a long period, the lack of natural vegetation was so depressing. But if I'm their to make money and as long as they are not harming me i will stay in my bag until my contract is cover and keep to myself.
I'm a melanated American, and with the U.S. being a melting pot, the melanated here are able to experience firsthand how other races feel about us. I have zero desire to visit any country that treats its women as third class citizens. A lot of those Arab countries have more respect for cows than women. Which is mind blowing to me because women are the ones who give them life. There are very strained relationships between melanated Americans vs Indians, Asians, and Arabs in the U.S.. They build businesses in our neighborhoods despite not liking us as a people, because they like our money, and we are major consumers. Just based upon the racist way they treat us here, I wouldn't dare step foot in their countries.
I am afraid your accounts are right. When you grow up with maids & nannies, people constantly picking up after you & ONLY focusing on academics you grow up spoiled with no manners.
China is the same. #Dictatorship
the not being able to read the analog clock is something seen in internationals schools in Africa. The most expensive schools do not have the best education and have overwhelmingly melanin deficient staff and administrators...
In my 34 years of being here in this chaos I've learnt to trust my gut if I feel off I take note of that instead of ignoring it some doors are best left shut. Never feel guilty for feeling the way you do, because there's always a rational reason behind it.
Girllllll!! As a UK returnee, everything you’re saying I dealt with for nearly 5 years, except I was in Abu Dhabi 😭
Really good info! Thank you
The Land of Professional Pimps
It sounds like being in prison!
I don't get the fascination with Dubai. I have absolutely NO desire to go there but to each it's on. Just the heat is enough to turn me off.😐
Community man😅😅😅 that was so funny. You are completely right about this. I know many married men who went to Dubai and all of them have a new girlfriend every few months, no matter if their wives live in Dubai or in their home country.
Lmao @ Dr. Umar's worst nightmare 🤣. I'm a black woman living in Dubai. I have been here for almost 8 years and this is so true. Never had a long term relationship in all my time here.
But who would you have a relationship there with. It would have to be with another foreign worker because those Emirati men will not be seriously interested in you. They marry their own.
@@ariamason9324 90% of the population here is expats so yeah it will definitely be a foreigner like myself,. It just sucks dating here like she said. At least for me its been a dud
@@agbaya1000 just stack your money and bounce.
So insightful, thank you.❤
I lived in Dubai for 10 years. I got there when I was 18 and left at 28, now I live in Canada. Dubai is not for everyone! If you are not white and from a first world country, you will experience racism and discrimination down to where you can live and how much you get paid. People will talk down to you and question you always! Worse, if you come from countries that practice DEI, you won’t survive for long out there. It is a bubble, but you also have to create a bubble for yourself and learn how to switch off from work otherwise you’ll be very unhappy. The Arabs there are insufferable, avoid them and their children at all costs. Don’t work in any kind of a front facing, customer service type of role. Don’t work for the government or government agencies, don’t work in schools, restaurants, malls, or “local” companies etc. Work only for a multinationals, not regional companies but MULTINATIONALS preferably western ones because those values will translate into the office and they treat, pay and interact with their employees better. You need tough skin, an “I don’t care” attitude and to be able to dish the same racism/discrimination they throw at you, if someone is being hostile or backhanded don’t smile or be friendly with them (obviously don’t be rude) but fix your face to let them know you’re not the one. Focus on the money and lifestyle, save like crazy, live a good life and ignore all the other nonsense. I met my husband and got married there as did a couple of my friends, so there are some good ones out there. But, I definitely don’t recommend bringing a man over there, the lifestyle is overwhelming and you’ll most likely lose him in a couple of months if he’s not grounded in something that’s bigger than him/you/your relationship. All that said we do talk about moving back at some point as a money grab.
My friend works in one of their universities. All true! Staff literally spies on her during her lectures. She has to enter the premises at 8am and then iron doors close and you can't get out. Facilities such as the gym, cannot be used by staff, even while they are on a break. Scary...
Oh yes, and students are ultra rich and they all MUST pass. When they don't get a high mark, they then negotiate with her, bullying her into giving them a higher mark...crazy
Thanks for sharing this! I thought about applying earlier this year, this was insightful!
Why go to a country that believe it's okay to abuse women. Some people really forget the culture of others.
These schools sound like the nonsense that is happening in US schools. Bad ass kids and parents who think their kids are angels. Parents today act like they want to date their children instead of parent them.
They treated you different because blxck people are lower caste in their society
Proud of you! You survived 👊 All the best on your future endeavors
You should definitely continue your You tube channel. I could listen to you speak on just about any topic. Thank you for this video. Subscribed.🙏🏾
Oh honey please don't leave the UK to work anywhere in the world again. You need tough skin to deal with the craziness of the world and people from other backgrounds. If a job is toxic look for another job.....
Would of been going back to yard or Africa
Why anyone would move to dubai is beyond me