The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck Podcast
The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck Podcast
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It's Never Too Late to Turn Your Life Around (ft. Brandon Novak)
@TheBrandonNovak showed all the signs of becoming a highly successful, rebellious young man. He was a professional skateboarder in his early teens, rubbing elbows with the likes of Bucky Lasek and Tony Hawk. In his late teens and twenties, he was a regular on world-famous TV shows like Viva La Bam and Jackass.
But drugs and alcohol were always lurking in the shadows for Novak, and he soon fell head-first into the dark trap of his addictions. He endured bouts of homelessness, committed every petty crime you could imagine, and even resorted to sex work to feed his addictions.
The stats would suggest Brandon Novak shouldn’t be sober right now. He probably shouldn’t even be alive. But not onl...
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Видео

How to Not Waste Your Life (ft. Oliver Burkeman)
Просмотров 12 тыс.5 часов назад
Do you worry that you might be wasting your life? That you’re doing things that don’t feel important? Are you constantly anxious about your to-do list? Is your mind blown that it’s 2024 already?!? 🤯 This week, I’ve enlisted the help of my friend Oliver Burkeman, author of the bestseller *Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals*, to help us get a handle on using time wisely. In this epi...
Why You Don’t Know What You Want in Life
Просмотров 2,6 тыс.8 часов назад
@RyanHolidayOfficial on why most people don't do the hard work to figure out what they want out of their lives.
How to Change-And What It Will Cost You
Просмотров 1,6 тыс.10 часов назад
How can you actually change your life for the better? Psychologist and best-selling author Lori Gottlieb shares the 5 stages of change-and why it's so hard to not slide back into old habits.
How Pseudo-Productivity Took Over Our Work
Просмотров 1,1 тыс.15 часов назад
@CalNewportMedia explains how the the definition of "productivity" has changed in recent decades-and why most of us haven't caught up to the new definition yet.
How Commitment Gives You Freedom
Просмотров 1,3 тыс.17 часов назад
Many people associate freedom with optionality, but what about when you’re paralyzed by all your options? Find out how committing to a person, a place, or a career can actually set you free to live a more fulfilling life.
7 Paradoxes That Will Change How You See Everything
Просмотров 35 тыс.22 часа назад
Originally published on December 12, 2023 Some of the most important truths in life are found in paradoxes. Paradoxes seem like opposites on the surface, but once you look deeper beneath what are seeming contradictions, there are real grains of wisdom that emerge. In this video I cover some of the most life-changing paradoxes I’ve ever come across, and discuss how they can improve how you appro...
Is Social Media More Like Cigarettes or Alcohol?
Просмотров 696День назад
If social media is addictive for some, is it more like booze or smoking? Jonathan Haidt explains what kind of drug we're up against.
Why Social Media Affects Liberals and Conservatives Differently
Просмотров 565День назад
Why Social Media Affects Liberals and Conservatives Differently
Are We Overreacting to Social Media?
Просмотров 92914 дней назад
Are We Overreacting to Social Media?
How to Give Up Everything to Save Yourself (ft. Matt from Yes Theory)
Просмотров 3 тыс.14 дней назад
How to Give Up Everything to Save Yourself (ft. Matt from Yes Theory)
Why Small Actions Lead to Big Change
Просмотров 2,4 тыс.14 дней назад
Why Small Actions Lead to Big Change
How Money Changes People
Просмотров 1,1 тыс.14 дней назад
How Money Changes People
Money Can Make You Happier-But There's a Catch
Просмотров 12 тыс.14 дней назад
Money Can Make You Happier-But There's a Catch
Willpower Is Bullsh*t-Focus on This Instead
Просмотров 1,8 тыс.21 день назад
Willpower Is Bullsh*t-Focus on This Instead
7 Life Lessons I Wish I Knew Sooner
Просмотров 30 тыс.21 день назад
7 Life Lessons I Wish I Knew Sooner
Are We Secretly Being Taught to Get Divorced?
Просмотров 82421 день назад
Are We Secretly Being Taught to Get Divorced?
Pain Is Inevitable, Suffering is Optional
Просмотров 6 тыс.21 день назад
Pain Is Inevitable, Suffering is Optional
Why “Find Your Passion” is Bullsh*t Advice
Просмотров 5 тыс.21 день назад
Why “Find Your Passion” is Bullsh*t Advice
The Surprising Truth About Traveling the World
Просмотров 1 тыс.28 дней назад
The Surprising Truth About Traveling the World
Why Self Care, Therapy, and Romance Are All Overrated
Просмотров 2,8 тыс.28 дней назад
Why Self Care, Therapy, and Romance Are All Overrated
How to Stay Sane in the Social Media Age (ft. Scott Barry Kaufman, PhD)
Просмотров 2,5 тыс.28 дней назад
How to Stay Sane in the Social Media Age (ft. Scott Barry Kaufman, PhD)
The Hidden Principles for Being Highly Productive
Просмотров 1,3 тыс.Месяц назад
The Hidden Principles for Being Highly Productive
3 Good Reasons to Give Up on a Goal (and One Bad One)
Просмотров 1,1 тыс.Месяц назад
3 Good Reasons to Give Up on a Goal (and One Bad One)
How to Grow the F*ck Up
Просмотров 2,7 тыс.Месяц назад
How to Grow the F*ck Up
Why You Should Quietly Be Working Less
Просмотров 1,7 тыс.Месяц назад
Why You Should Quietly Be Working Less
What Nobody Tells You About Getting Rich (ft. Morgan Housel)
Просмотров 2,9 тыс.Месяц назад
What Nobody Tells You About Getting Rich (ft. Morgan Housel)
Why Politics Started Making Everybody Miserable
Просмотров 964Месяц назад
Why Politics Started Making Everybody Miserable
The Real Value of Vulnerability
Просмотров 2,4 тыс.Месяц назад
The Real Value of Vulnerability
Timeless Military Lessons You Won’t Find in Civilian Life
Просмотров 855Месяц назад
Timeless Military Lessons You Won’t Find in Civilian Life

Комментарии

  • @don_aapo
    @don_aapo Час назад

    Thanks for this

  • @gabrielafonseca4034
    @gabrielafonseca4034 Час назад

    Alcoholism runs in my family. I'm incredibly grateful I didn't catch that bug, but it too destroyed my life from a very early age.

  • @lowpolar
    @lowpolar Час назад

    Very impressive, wow. What a crazy story

  • @seansilagy6956
    @seansilagy6956 Час назад

    Mark - so awesome you brought him on to share his story. Just goes to show that it's never too late to change and improve yourself, amazing stuff. Much love and keep up all the good work <3

  • @littleleslie13
    @littleleslie13 2 часа назад

    I’m happy for you Brandon. Thank you Mark and Drew for sharing 🩷

  • @franchangehabits
    @franchangehabits 3 часа назад

    Wow I really enjoyed this chapter !!

  • @hjq0023
    @hjq0023 3 часа назад

    Hearing about Bam Margara here. It's interesting now that Novac is sober and living a great inspirational life. Whereas Bam in the last few years. I have been hearing sad things about due to this addiction disease

  • @JezelJordan
    @JezelJordan 4 часа назад

    I'm really proud of Brandon's transformation. I never thought he'd make such an impressive comeback

  • @EliseMorton-up3hn
    @EliseMorton-up3hn 11 часов назад

    Reference was made to a book, "The Art of Taking Action". There are several books with this title, all seeming to cover the topic of taking a Zen approach to action and time. The authors of the respective books that I have found are Krech, Bungay and Pham. Please advise as to which one it was that was mentioned in the podcast. Thank you.

  • @MrGeoC
    @MrGeoC 16 часов назад

    My expert deployment of the "strategic underachievment" of chores causes my wife to be more stressed...but I feel great...

  • @user-ty4uy8pt6e
    @user-ty4uy8pt6e 17 часов назад

    Thank you so much

  • @gavinchapple825
    @gavinchapple825 День назад

    Was this too esoteric? How about some practical pragmatic examples of how to apply these principles you guys discussed?

  • @allmarknobite8726
    @allmarknobite8726 День назад

    Great episode, Mark. I've Oliver's book playing on a loop in audible. Apparently I need frequent reminders that my lifetime here is limited, so get just tf on with it.

  • @GR_BackingTracks
    @GR_BackingTracks День назад

    This is good! I heard a nice productivity tip yesterday... "launch when you're 70% ready."

  • @loppan4534
    @loppan4534 День назад

    Great conversation ❤

  • @CourtneyCoulson
    @CourtneyCoulson День назад

    The timing on this one was good for me. I have lost many years of my life sleeping due to various illnesses and injuries, I've had to figure out which dreams and goals to prioritise, although even those aren't certain to be possible.

  • @pmstudios3501
    @pmstudios3501 День назад

    Wow. This is my favorite episode yet. Last year I learned from Marc that I am Happiness. Now I've learned I am Time. Enlightening stuff. If you're taking requests, I've been grieving like a motherfucker after the past five years... Author David Kessler would make a great guest. His books and podcasts on grieving have helped me a lot.

  • @senshai1267
    @senshai1267 День назад

    Yes

  • @Myt153
    @Myt153 День назад

    Killer murder joker FBI fsbi

  • @Myt153
    @Myt153 День назад

    It's joker 🃏 is he

  • @abhishekshukla9182
    @abhishekshukla9182 День назад

    please invite John Green someday!

  • @Harshavardhan-ov8gu
    @Harshavardhan-ov8gu День назад

    The year 2022 is 2 YEARS ago !

  • @faysal9829
    @faysal9829 2 дня назад

    Please invite Yoval Noah Harari

  • @anthonyfox477
    @anthonyfox477 2 дня назад

    Great conversation

  • @manuelspoladore
    @manuelspoladore 2 дня назад

    has it already been released?

    • @profundus8946
      @profundus8946 2 дня назад

      Yes, probably has to do with his recent change of channel

    • @mairead354
      @mairead354 День назад

      This is his new, separate RUclips channel just for the podcast

  • @113k.kishoreism2
    @113k.kishoreism2 2 дня назад

    Invite Robert Green 💚

    • @jimjam3423
      @jimjam3423 2 дня назад

      Yes

    • @Ali0Hammad
      @Ali0Hammad 2 дня назад

      If Mark invites Robert Greene, that will be the best Fucking podcast EVER!!! ❤❤❤

    • @dape5576
      @dape5576 День назад

      gonna be hell of a debate since i think their approach to life is literal opposites

    • @TheGreektrojan
      @TheGreektrojan День назад

      @@dape5576 It really isn't if you know Greene beyond his books (particularly his early ones).

    • @maggiemondo7459
      @maggiemondo7459 День назад

      Can't stand Greene - awful man. Will not watch that show !

  • @protasiocanalita6436
    @protasiocanalita6436 2 дня назад

    Sir you are amazing.you do love the whatever and you still protect them. I will just wish you a good luck for your path of life. Wr might be the target right now but just be have pstience sir. Touwill be next whstever. Whstever goes around comes around. Enjoy it sir!!!

  • @theultimateshadow7232
    @theultimateshadow7232 2 дня назад

    First, but that aside how can I be vulnerable when I can't be sure that's gonna be reciprocated?

  • @brianndege5331
    @brianndege5331 3 дня назад

    Relates with the saying: "most people end up specializing in what they're not good at"

  • @TheSubtleArtofNotGivingaFck
    @TheSubtleArtofNotGivingaFck 3 дня назад

    Watch the full episode here: ruclips.net/video/lwD101ufd84/видео.html

  • @TheSubtleArtofNotGivingaFck
    @TheSubtleArtofNotGivingaFck 3 дня назад

    Watch the full episode here: ruclips.net/video/XLUiLB4YXOg/видео.html

  • @MohsenHaji_Au
    @MohsenHaji_Au 3 дня назад

    Hey Mark. I love ur shit but not the short one man. Come on. I like one hour of this kind of shit😂😂please upload a full story

    • @mairead354
      @mairead354 2 дня назад

      The full podcast has already been uploaded. He’s linked to it. He’s just transitioning all of his podcast content to this separate channel now.

  • @sampletext001
    @sampletext001 3 дня назад

    Sounds like you just quit

    • @shees1993
      @shees1993 2 дня назад

      Yes, it's okay to quit and even to not quit. Only you know what is the right thing to do about your life at a given moment in time. You don't need anyone's approval to do that, not even Mark Manson's.

  • @cassieoz1702
    @cassieoz1702 3 дня назад

    'Lapse' is not the same as 'relapse'.

  • @Dee_Coconut
    @Dee_Coconut 4 дня назад

    You’re not a bad person because you messed up, you’re just a person who messed up badly. Reminder to be kinder to yourself 😊

  • @nancytesta-meyer5408
    @nancytesta-meyer5408 4 дня назад

    Thank you for the reminder of the shifts of growth from our familiar and unhealthy habits to get to our unfamiliar and healthy habits!

  • @5amyak_
    @5amyak_ 5 дней назад

    Two of my favourite authors! Love it ❤

  • @linanna87
    @linanna87 5 дней назад

    I like Mark Manson, Sadia Khan and Orion Taraban. I feel like they are all on the same page

  • @toktok3796
    @toktok3796 6 дней назад

    I appreciate the clips as they are better to digest for me. Ur content is so full of wisdom and big learnings, plus very fast talking (im no native speaker) that im overwhelmed because I want to absorb all the learnings that I can take from ur content. Absolutely amazing since u started ur channel I cancelled so much other channels bevause my time is limited and I prioritize ur content absolutely on top. This clip especially helped me appreciate my longtime relationship with the most amazing wife more and more. Thanks for ur work mark! Please never stop ❤

  • @silkywong245
    @silkywong245 6 дней назад

    Mark and Drew, you both offended me when you said that you are both old in this video! But I still subscribed. :) I am a few years older than you both by age, but I am stunned by your emotional maturity. You both gave me lots of hope for Millennials and Gen Zs. I keep telling my friends to listen to this podcast - These videos are way better than a lot of therapy and psychology teachings. Note that I am nerdy, I read a lot of nonfiction and research work, and I am a researcher and training professionals by profession. Still, you both helped me be even more blunt, and just enjoy learnings from failures instead of beating myself up for making mistakes here and there.

  • @GR_BackingTracks
    @GR_BackingTracks 6 дней назад

    24:37

  • @TheSubtleArtofNotGivingaFck
    @TheSubtleArtofNotGivingaFck 6 дней назад

    Watch the full episode here: ruclips.net/video/KMXjyzNs17k/видео.html

  • @alx9r
    @alx9r 6 дней назад

    The idea that you can’t measure productivity of knowledge work is nonsense. That’s just a sign that you aren’t planning. As soon as you break down your project into milestones with dependencies and represent them as a diagram, progress and productivity becomes evident. The problem is none of the commercially available tools help you do this. The fact that tools to do the right thing don’t exist isn’t evidence that the right thing can’t be done. Cal’s entire thesis is about this topic is a copout.

  • @australiangirl850
    @australiangirl850 6 дней назад

    I was thinking more about this today & this is the second time I've heard the closing the relationship chasing tab in your brain mentioned. I've got that same tab opened. There's no closure in life until you have that partner to go through life with, no matter how much I try to focus on other areas of life, it just appears to be a very important aspect of life that needs closure & until it gets closure, it takes attention away from things that are important. Everything suffers, including being a good mum because in the back of my mind & my kids keep asking, for a 'Dad'. They want a Dad & it's such a paralysing space to be in, because I want to give my kids a Dad & I want somebody I can be close to, love & support & receive the same in kind, but it's really hard. I do think at least this year I have learned that on top of conscientious & Integrity in a partner, proper communication & non conflict avoidant is now non-negotiable in a partner. I really like direct but private communication & somebody who will be straightforward about their needs, wants & expectations & be receptive to my own...

  • @toktok3796
    @toktok3796 6 дней назад

    So much wisdom in so little time!!! Amazing man!!! Thanks a lot for that! Exactly what I needed to stay on track ❤️❤️❤️

  • @littleleslie13
    @littleleslie13 7 дней назад

    Thank you!🫶

  • @yonashira3853
    @yonashira3853 7 дней назад

    Eye-opening in many ways Naming my mental state as "lost" explains a lot, but it will take time to sort things out

  • @filipmokrejs3611
    @filipmokrejs3611 7 дней назад

    The RAM analogy is so good

  • @sleepconcentrationmeditation
    @sleepconcentrationmeditation 7 дней назад

    That is high-quality freedom. That RAM analogy is very accurate

  • @logancoleman3915
    @logancoleman3915 7 дней назад

    Could you either move clips to a different channel or clearly label them as clips in the thumbnail? Love the podcast, but I watch the full episodes and it’s really confusing to have to sort through what is what.