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Dani Kassander
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AMA: Working in the ER
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A.M.A. = Ask Mom Anything :) Broadcasted live on Twitch Watch live at www.twitch.tv/shortipop
How To Cope With Grief (In Memory of Aaron Beilstein)
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(Sorry I didn't list my sources as well this time. This one was difficult to write...) SOURCES: Psychology Today Cinema Therapy ruclips.net/video/yb7dssMth1M/видео.html Wikihow Healthline www.healthline.com/health/stages-of-grief#takeaway
I made a cool thing
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This is for middle schoolers to learn how to safely ride the bus.
I made a cute thing
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I made a video to teach kindergarten and first grade kids how to ride the bus.
Addiction: How to Cope
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Broadcasted live on Twitch Watch live at www.twitch.tv/shortipop Helpful Resources: Shatterproof (allys) www.shatterproof.org/ The Amy Winehouse Foundation (music therapy, addiction support) amywinehousefoundation.org/ Faces and Voices of Recovery (if you are coping with a loved one suffering from addiction) facesandvoicesofrecovery.org/ To write love on her arms (Help people with addiction, se...
Insane Stories From A Gas Station Manager
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Insane Stories From A Gas Station Manager
How To Make Friends
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Broadcasted live on Twitch Watch live at www.twitch.tv/shortipop Sources: Wikihow www.wikihow.com/Make-Friends Quora www.quora.com/How-can-I-make-a-good-first-impression-to-make-people-instantly-like-me-and-want-to-be-my-friend-socialize-and-admire-me Charisma On Command- Charisma University, how to make a good first impression Psychology Today www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/lifetime-connectio...
Interview: Compassion In Nursing Homes
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This is a reupload of the original video, edited by yours truly.
How To Be A Good Friend
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Broadcasted live on Twitch Watch live at www.twitch.tv/shortipop SOURCES: WikiHow www.wikihow.com/Be-a-Good-Friend Business Insider www.businessinsider.com/signs-you-should-end-friendship-therapists-2018-12 WebMD www.webmd.com/balance/features/how-to-make-new-friends www.webmd.com/balance/signs-bad-friend Psychology Today www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/lifetime-connections/202102/whats-the-bes...
Interview: Uber Driver Stories
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Broadcasted live on Twitch Watch live at www.twitch.tv/shortipop
How to Have A Good Relationship
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Broadcasted live on Twitch Watch live at www.twitch.tv/shortipop SOURCES: Psych2Go on RUclips: 8 Behaviors That Ruin Relationships 5 Signs you cannot handle a relationship 8 Habits of Healthy Relationships 8 Signs You May Be Codependent 7 signs a relationship is worth fighting for Wikihow: www.wikihow.com/Love-Yourself www.wikihow.com/Know-if-the-Relationship-Is-Over www.wikihow.com/Solve-Relat...
Interview W/ My Dad: Raising An Unplanned Kid
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Broadcasted live on Twitch Watch live at www.twitch.tv/shortipop
How To Detect Lying
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Broadcasted live on Twitch Watch live at www.twitch.tv/shortipop
Handwriting Analysis Part 2 - Analyzing Viewer Submissions
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Handwriting Analysis Part 2 - Analyzing Viewer Submissions
Handwriting Analysis: How To Know Someone From Their Writing
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Handwriting Analysis: How To Know Someone From Their Writing
Solitary Confinement: The Psychological Effects
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Solitary Confinement: The Psychological Effects
American Prison System / Mental Health In A Third World Country
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American Prison System / Mental Health In A Third World Country
Art Therapy: More Helpful Than You Think
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Art Therapy: More Helpful Than You Think
Hello plans on coming back to youtube?
@okokok7081 Good question! I definitely want to. As an update for anyone curious, during my hiatus, I was figuring out my job situation and my mental health. Now i have a job i love, a great therapist, meds that actually work for me, and in less than a week, I will be 7 months sober 💖 Updates to come regarding a time frame when I plan to return. I had one written, but due to complicated reasons regarding trauma I've been having difficulty getting myself to talk publicly about the next topic. But I'm working hard on processing those things so that I will be able to do so.
@@danikassander8612 Thats great news. Glad to hear you found a path in life that works for you with a job you love, a great therapist and meds that work for you. Congrats with the 7 months. Il put on notificaton so I se ur next video when you are ready to make one. Thanks for the answer.
Great talk
Love the vids
Thank you so much! I hope to post more soon after this hiatus. Comments like yours inspire me to keep creating content. <3
a sociopath is a result of bad social conditions. A psychopath is born that way
I did a test to my psychiatrist demand. It's called the Hare test. I got 31. It's not sociopathy. It's ASPD, psychopathy. I don't know what they will do.
@SurnaturalM Sharing your experience here took a lot of courage. It makes sense to be unsure how your doctors will proceed. While they may present a treatment plan, medication options, and/or psychotherapy options, it's important to remember you have autonomy over what happens to you. You get a say in how you choose to proceed, and you deserve to have those choices respected. Best of luck in your healing journey, and feel free to reach out any time for support 🧡
Very underrated channel Keep going girl
awee thank you!!! <3 That's so sweet! I've been taking a hiatus from streaming for a while, but I hope to get back to it soon! Thanks for your encouragement. It truly means a lot!
@@danikassander8612 You deserve it, wait to see you soon
Hey Dani! I just found your RUclips channel. These interviews are rad. I'm not sure if you remember me but we had Geo Political science together and you showed me the stop motion studio. I was hoping to get back in contact, I don't have Facebook Twitter or Instagram. These talks are genuinely fascinating. Keep up the great work!
Thank you so much!!! That means so much!!:) Also were you the one i sat next to and i would always bring 2 milks and 2 cups of mandarin oranges and you called them dulies?
@@danikassander8612 no but I remember who you were talking about. I sat with you guys during the last few classes. I'm not sure if you wanted to remain in contact, did you have a discord if you do?
@@danikassander8612 my user name is whipchip. I was actually the dude that dressed up as Double D from Ed Edd 'n Eddy in Dr. Lee's class for Halloween
@@danikassander8612 I'm sorry I thought I replied, my youtube app has been very glitchy. My username is, "whipchip" and no I was the guy that went as Double D from Ed, Edd 'n Eddy in Dr.Lee's Geo class.
first!
Aaron’s family are my neighbors. He and my son were good friends. He was one of the nicest people ever. He is missed by many.
King diamond beanie hat!❤
MANY recipients "flip 'em on & off" to compare. Wonder what the concern is. Probably it's in the info/instructions insert. (Mostly prepared by lawyers.)
Yeah I wasn't sure what would happen if you flip back and forth but it said not to and that it would make them less effective, and I was scared they would stop working for him. But it was so cool to see his reaction
Thanks so much for sharing this. It means so much to those of us who knew Aaron.
Dani, I had to go after the first 30 seconds because of your ums and uhs. I highly recommend trying to get that under control. It takes away from your content, I think, and feels very sloppy to me, especially in the face of such a serious topic.
Yeah. I think the pressure comes from it being live, I get anxious if I take too long to finish loading a thought becsuse I want to prevent having more than a few seconds of dead air, but I'll try to be more conscious of it
how calculating this dude is has me rolling. 24 mins into and i was sad, but once it got to the *cute* thing, and him studying his dog, I cant help but to laugh. Its interesting that he is always choosing how he wants people to feel. I do not think as hard at all in my day to day life. It came natural because i was always an emotional child. i didnt show emotions to others, but i was a deep feeler as a kid. it has alot to do with the land before time and bambi.
I can understand the shock it's priceless. I would imagine some eye adjustment followed by some brain training.
Yeah I wasn't sure what would happen if you flip back and forth but it said not to and that it would make them less effective, and I was scared they would stop working for him. But it was so cool to see his reaction
Sociopaths have a bad reputation for a REASON. Not experiencing guilt or remorse is NOT a small thing.
I feel like the interviewer is being willfully naïve
What are you basing this off of?
But they don't have a choice. They ended up that way from early childhood trauma. No one chooses to be a sociopath. It's a psychological disorder.
@Buttercup-vw2zo This interview was to help destigmatize sociopathy and help people get a better understanding of what ASPD is and what causes it. It is still understandable to be guarded around someone who has difficulty experiencing empathy. We all have every right to keep ourselves safe and choose who we spend our time with. The person who I interviewed is a friend, and has supported me in a multitude of ways, and for that I am grateful. This person also has not done anything to break my trust in them. My trust, for me personally, builds for people over time, and can easily be taken away. I have been naïve in my past and trusted the wrong people, but I continue to grow and learn ways to protect myself. I care for myself in this way with anyone regardless of a diagnosis. I gauge people based on their actions, not their label, and that is a philosophy I hope this video can promote and perpetuate.
I hate to break it to you but watching fire does not indicate someone has ADHD. There seems to be some confusion here but ADHD isnt even remotely close to ASPD. ASPD is learned or caused by environmental. ADHD is neurodevvelopmental.
@@SLKnoxx that totally makes sense. And thank you for saying that. I see from the comments other people have had negitige experiences with people with ASPD, and the person having ASPD doesn't excuse what the person did to you. Nobody deserves to be treated badly regardless of what diagnosis the person doing the mistreatment has. ADHD is certainly a struggle, and comes with an entirely different set of challenges than ASPD. It makes sense to feel uncomfortable that the two would be considered parallel by some, as they are so vastly different and especially with your experiences specifically.
"You will never see a person more focused, with ADHD, than they are when sitting in front of a fire". Can confirm.
@@poisonwilliams ok. Joke. Cool. I don't see where I responded to you so whatever was said, its all good.
masking is when u dont just move ur face to look like a certain type of emotion, its when u act like u have that emotion via facial expression, tone of voice, choice of words and etc.
It becomes dangerous lack of empathy, if the person doesn't feel the sorrow of others or guilt or shame, it means they can be capable of great evil and feel no empathy for the one doing it unto. Something is wrong spiritually in that case, as empathy is a spiritual thing more than anything physical, a persons kindness of heart is not something learned or developed in experiences, some of the kindest of people went through hellish experiences, yet still retain the light of their conscience. Evil does not feel remorse or guilt, or empathy for the victim of it actions, and it seeks to avoid the consequence of those actions, ultimately it is self serving. If a person is a sociopath, they must not act on their own minds, for it will betray them but seek spiritual aid from God, that they may come to know the light and leave darkness, for light is were empathy comes from on a spiritual level, it is the inter-connectivity of spiritual resonance this is why it can be felt at times even other peoples emotions. If ye do not know why looking after other people is the right thing and a good thing, it is ultimately a spiritual reason and means ye are in darkness, which leads only unto sorrow and pain for price of your selfish pursuits.
I've been looking for fostered people's experiences and their perspectives for a while. I would love to adopt older kids one day soon. It's disgusting to see people against contraception and birth control and abortion while they don't do anything to better the foster situation in this country. There definetely needs to be more incentives, more money allocated to care, more supervision, and more accountability. Thanks for the interview, this was very interesting!
You're absolutely right! And I wish you the best of luck in your journey adopting. That's great that you're doing that! Also, if you would like to share the info, women can get the Plan C pill (the abortion pill) at plancpills.org. If you're in a red state, it sure would be a shame if you got a PO box in another state, sent it to the PO box from the website, and then had the package forwarded to your current address. Def nobody do that 👀
Me too is a feminist movement, but it is not meant to be only for women. It is meant to be a solidarity movement for any and all victims of sexual abuse and harassment. It makes me sad to hear that Poison did not feel welcome to be a part of that.
You're right, and that's a great point. I will pass this along to Poizun. I'm sure he'll appreciate hearing your empathy for his situation. It's really great to see so many comments where people are looking past his ASPD and be able to empathize with him. I understand why some wouldn't, but nonetheless I appreciate what you said.
Or is the question how do I keep friends? SYL
Good question! Both people have to be willing to put forth the effort. Friendships are tested. I've been in arguments with my best friends and needed breaks from them at times, but we always reflect and talk things out afterwards. Humility, openness, and communication are the biggest keys. But if you're giving more and getting less in return it's good to evaluate if this person is treating you well and if the relationship can be fixed.
The last two seconds was probably the best. What they said to each other was very much on the sweet side.
The odd thing about color is that it’s not real. It’s just how our brain processes it. Light reflected onto our retina that transforms those wavelengths into electrical signals that our brain processes.
Very true! I learned a cool thing about how magenta especially is a weird optical illusion. I forget fully how to explain it but I remember thinking it was pretty neat to learn about
GORGEOUS... 💕💯
Can sense her love for her dad!
King Diamond hat!
Dude really had a King Diamond beanie on...!! 🤘
You confuse sociopathy with psychopathy.
It is my understanding that psychopathy is something people are born with, and sociopathy is something that people develop as a response to trauma as a means to protect themselves. My friend in this interview was clinically diagnosed with ASPD/sociopathy. If there is something I am misunderstanding or a part where I misspoke please let me know and I will be sure to correct it in the description. Thank you for your input, it is appreciated.
Sociopathy and psychopathy both fall under the umbrella of Antisocial Personality Disorder. Like other personality disorder, ASPD is a spectrum, some may be on the low end, in the middle, or on the high end.
@@dare2bdifferent1 thanks for the clarification! Very well put
Neither of them are clinically recognized terms that we officially use.
I bought some EnChroma glasses and they didn't do anything for me. I don't believe any of these videos.
I'm sorry to hear they didn't work for you. I am wondering if they were the correct prescription or if maybe they were outdoor or indoor? This video was on a cloudier day and usually sunny days are best. I've also seen that it can take a few minutes to completely work. I hope you're able to find out what went wrong or maybe get a refund.
@@danikassander8612 Yes, I got a refund, but I found the whole experience very disappointing. In the instructions they seemed to back away from saying that the glasses would correct color-blindness, as if the product was more for entertainment purposes.
Really beautiful experience to share with all of us. Wishing you guys all the best. Wish I could be there for his first rainbow though these glasses. Just amazing.
Such a miracle. I hope life continues to be bright--literally and figuratively. God bless
Love the King Diamond beanie
🤘🤘🤘
why isn't he crying, like anyone else :C?
I've only ever seen him cry twice in my life. Once when my grandpa passed, and another my first semester when he dropped me off at college 3 hours away from home.
This is like listening to someone talking about my life. When I have to be around many people on a constant basis, my internal state becomes very confused because I'm trying to fit with all the different personalities around me, and everyone ends up pissed off with me. One to one, is more comfortable as I can concentrate on one set of needs more successfully. People always seem to think that I know what I have done to upset them, so without feedback there is no learning. And so on it goes from failed interaction to failed interaction. Edit: As a result of masking, I became a talented actor because I was used to re-mixing my character on a moment to moment basis anyway. I also enjoyed knowing exactly what was going to happen for all the time I was on stage.
That's impressive you were able to turn something that hinders you into something constructive that you genuinely enjoy! I hope you are able to find the right group of peers who are understanding and kind. It took me a long time to learn to make friends. Watching the RUclips channel Charisma On Command helped me a lot.
Making a person in positive way super
I wish that they'd work for me - seems my colour vision isn't good enough for them to work.
What a beautiful moment and beautiful relationship! There is such real love between them!
That grin on his face says it all - fabulous!
this is so cool and very well done! Good job!
Awe thank you! ☺
you two were so happy that day and just made me happy today, Cute painting too!
Awe thank you<3
This is amazing! I work at an elementary school and this would be perfect for them
Awe thank you! 💖 You're more than welcome to share it with your students. 😊
@@danikassander8612 I May have to! I work in chicago so most students don’t have school busses, but i love the concept. Btw I was one of ur Uber costomers when I visited pittsburg a few months ago:)) idk if u remember me
@@kayylarose awe, well thanks so much for checking out my channel! 😊 and I might remember, can you remind me of what we talked about, to jog my memory? 😅
Well u picked us up from our hotel the first time && we talked about a lot! Creepy men, tripping, your experience in pittsburg. & then you ended up picking us up a second time from blue slide park and we were sooo happy to see u. It was me and my blonde best friend kaylee
@@kayylarose Oh yeah I do remember that! Haha I was happy to see you guys again too! I think we were friends on snap but I got rid of my snapchat because social media was becoming too much for me haha. Glad you reached out, and it's good to hear from ya! :)
This was really well done!!
Who inflates like five balloons a day early?
How this showed up on my feed idk, but I’m happy for choosing to watch/listen. This was such an informative interview in a lot of area’s. Especially as a person diagnosed w adhd, it was elating to hear him share that we’re enthralled by watching fire and have never heard anyone verbalize it before. Throughout my life I’ve been criticized and called weird for doing that, but it’s soothing like watching a Jackson Pollock painting. I feel vindicated for that, and if it happens again I can point to this video. Hah. Anyhow, thank you.
I'm so glad this helped! I have ADHD as well, and I did a few streams on it. You might like my video called "How To Cope With ADHD." It helped me a lot and I hope it can help you too :)
I said the same thing! I have no idea why this came up in my auto play feed today. I've never seen this chick before, nor have i watched this type of video. I'm not mad at all though, it's been fascinating and I listened to the whole video. 🇺🇲🙃💜💚
@@oneluckygirlandherdog Omg thank you so much for the kind words! 😊💙I used to post these twice a week but life's been crazy. My mom and I are EMTs who responded to a plane crash, and I'm going to interview her on being an EMT for the last several decades on my next stream, and do a Q&A if you wanna join in in chat with everyone ^-^
Are you taking any medication to help manage your condition?
Are you asking me or Poizun? I'm not sure if he's taking anything, but I'm taking medication for my own mental health. I know one thing he does is Poizun has always stayed sober though in order to have control of himself, which I greatly respect.
Poison, thank you so much for your honest answers to these questions. I am learning so much about sociopaths. You sound like a great guy!!
He is a great friend. Thanks for your comment! He's been a huge help in helping me to succeed in my journey as a twitch streamer, and he's a pleasure to be around.
@@danikassander8612 You need to be very careful here, because sociopaths generally don't care about anyone. They ACT like they care. They are very good at it. They manipulate so that they look like they're your friends but they really aren't. You need to find real friends. People that can give you what you give them. This statement and everyone saying what a good person this man is, was disturbing. He's not. He's acting. I have been through hell and back my entire life and I made the choice to care about other people. We all have that choice. No one's back story is an excuse for them shutting off their emotions and having no empathy for others. I went through absolute hell because I chose to do what you did and allow someone that told me that he had anti-social personality disorder into my life, because I felt bad for him and he seemed like such a good guy he always went above and beyond to help me. This man sounds EXACTLY like the one I was dealing with. A virtual carbon copy. It was all fake. The entire time, he was working against me, trying to sabotage my life etc. While smiling in my face, bringing me gifts, fixing things and acting like the sweetest person in the entire world. RUN AWAY FROM ANYONE THAT DOESN'T HAVE REAL EMPATHY. Do not let someone like that into your life. Never let them have any control over anything of yours. DON'T become dependant. They like that, and will try to do everything for you. It will be your undoing if you allow it. Don't allow him to manipulate you and I can see that this is what's happening and I didn't see it until it was too late in my own life. It's their job to fix their own problems and they are the only ones that can. One day that carefully constructed mask will slip and you don't want to be there to see that. True evil, is what I saw. Someone that listened to me cry and knew how bad things were for me, and he was purposely trying to make things worse for me. I started noticing that he would hum and whistle whenever I would cry, whenever he saw me happy he was miserable. It was cruel and sadistic. You need to be very careful and keep all this in mind. Never forget that you are NOT dealing with a normal, healthy individual. Just because he seems like he cares about you, that doesn't mean that he does.
Excuse my confusion but I'm thinking who's this cute lil ol sociopath, she couldn't be worse than my last girlfriend. But you have a conscience and all that? Hm.
I am not the one with ASPD, the person I am speaking with is. I have my own set of morals that I follow, and Poizun is driven to be a better person by his desire to be liked by others.