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storytime - why you really should stop comparing yourself to others
This is why you shouldn't compare yourself to others, especially strangers on the internet. We've all felt like others have it all figured out while we're still trying to find our way, but this couldn't be further from the truth.
In this uplifting storytime, I share a personal experience that reminded me about why we should stop comparing ourselves and our lives to other people's lives. Sometimes, what we see isn't the whole story, and it's important to focus on our own unique journey.
Join me as I discuss the hidden struggles behind seemingly perfect lives and why things will eventually work out for you with time. Everything falls into place for you.
#stopcomparingyourself #dontcompareyour...
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Видео

the weird way to stop worrying about absolutely anything✨️
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Are worries taking over your life? Discover a weird and unconventional approach to stop worrying about anything and apply reverse psychology to help find a solution to your problems. This rather unique method may leave you speechless, but at least, it would change your perspective on problem-solving. Don't miss out on this opportunity to transform your life! Even if it's only for a little while...
what it takes to become your most confident self✨️ | (research-based)
Просмотров 1021 час назад
Are you wondering how to finally get some confidence, level up, and be the best possible version of yourself? Discover the secrets to true confidence and transform your entire mindset. Forget the old "fake it till you make it" advice. We're diving into actionable, science-backed methods that will help you build genuine self-confidence and become that girl (or guy) that you've always wanted to b...
the psychology of mate poaching: the rizz, the cheats & the extroverts | #ISHFpod
Просмотров 1514 дней назад
Which of your friends will try to steal your lover? Discover the surprising connection between introversion, extroversion, and infidelity. This study uncovers the characteristics and telltale signs that determine which personality type is more likely to cheat. Understand the psychology behind mate poaching and how extraversion plays a pivotal role. In this video, we explore surprising statistic...
7 tips to quickly & easily declutter 50% of your wardrobe 🛍
Просмотров 13714 дней назад
Feeling overwhelmed by a cluttered wardrobe? In this video, I'll share my top 7 tips for decluttering your closet and transforming your space very easily. Discover how to make quick decisions on what to keep and what to let go, and enjoy the psychological benefits of a well organised space. At 3 a.m., I embarked on a spontaneous decluttering mission and made some surprising discoveries about th...
losing weight will become easier if you just do this ✨️ (science-backed)
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losing weight will become easier if you just do this ✨️ (science-backed)
i quit my big 4 corporate job with nothing lined up. what now? ✨️
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i quit my big 4 corporate job with nothing lined up. what now? ✨️
here's what to do when you have MULTIPLE passions & can't focus✨️ | ikigai🧿 | finding your purpose🎖
Просмотров 4428 дней назад
here's what to do when you have MULTIPLE passions & can't focus✨️ | ikigai🧿 | finding your purpose🎖
unpopular opinion about the sexual revolution 🫦 (evidence-based) | #ISHFpod
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unpopular opinion about the sexual revolution 🫦 (evidence-based) | #ISHFpod
stepping out of my comfort zone & cherishing moments in my 20s 🎀 | twenties diary - EP.1
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stepping out of my comfort zone & cherishing moments in my 20s 🎀 | twenties diary - EP.1
how youtube changed my life with less than 500 subscribers (for beginners) ✨️
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how youtube changed my life with less than 500 subscribers (for beginners) ✨️
why i'm quitting a YouTube channel with 10x more subscribers to start all over again 💡
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why i'm quitting a RUclips channel with 10x more subscribers to start all over again 💡
how ~different~ are men and women, realllyyyy? (Research-Backed)
Просмотров 77Месяц назад
how ~different~ are men and women, realllyyyy? (Research-Backed)
how to get inspired when you feel lazy💤
Просмотров 8Месяц назад
how to get inspired when you feel lazy💤
Will MrBeast Ever QUIT Youtube? | No.1 YouTuber in the World | The Secret to Consistency
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Will MrBeast Ever QUIT RUclips? | No.1 RUclipsr in the World | The Secret to Consistency
I've been lying to you... | burnout | stoicism | high expectations
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I've been lying to you... | burnout | stoicism | high expectations
how to make failure FEEL GOOD✨️
Просмотров 162 месяца назад
how to make failure FEEL GOOD✨️
incredible life lessons from Netflix's physical 100 | everyone should see this
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incredible life lessons from Netflix's physical 100 | everyone should see this
do you care too much about your feelings?
Просмотров 232 месяца назад
do you care too much about your feelings?
the power of keeping promises you make to yourself✨️
Просмотров 143 месяца назад
the power of keeping promises you make to yourself✨️
watch this to overcome IMPOSTOR syndrome forever🌀
Просмотров 143 месяца назад
watch this to overcome IMPOSTOR syndrome forever🌀
this is how you *truly* REINVENT yourself ✨️
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this is how you *truly* REINVENT yourself ✨️
my obssesion with Korean culture (+ first time speaking Korean to a native)
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my obssesion with Korean culture ( first time speaking Korean to a native)
why being rich will make you miserable | hedonic adaptation explained (research-based)
Просмотров 444 месяца назад
why being rich will make you miserable | hedonic adaptation explained (research-based)
the 10 things make me a narcissist..
Просмотров 224 месяца назад
the 10 things make me a narcissist..
money does buy you happiness, but how much?💰 (research-based)
Просмотров 84 месяца назад
money does buy you happiness, but how much?💰 (research-based)
Why self improvement advice is kinda DUMB
Просмотров 134 месяца назад
Why self improvement advice is kinda DUMB
YouTube is causing a Psychological CRISIS
Просмотров 434 месяца назад
RUclips is causing a Psychological CRISIS
How I CHANGED someone's life
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How I CHANGED someone's life
Why you should start a youtube channel in 2024 (made specially for beginners 💝)
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Why you should start a youtube channel in 2024 (made specially for beginners 💝)

Комментарии

  • @MmYyy-m2h
    @MmYyy-m2h 23 часа назад

    This vid should be popular 😍👍🏻

  • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
    @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy День назад

    Click to watch 😊

  • @CookiePrince52
    @CookiePrince52 День назад

    Very informative video. I could learn from its message.

    • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
      @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy День назад

      Thank you, I'm glad you enjoyed watching. Don't forget to subscribe for more😁

  • @mangoheartss
    @mangoheartss 2 дня назад

    This is so wild but honestly makes SO much sense. I also noticed (to a degree) that I forget about painful things when I’m dealing with a new problem. It’s obviously not ideal to constantly be dealing with problems but it does put things into perspective! Like, oh, a lot of these things weren’t as detrimental as I thought they were in that moment.

    • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
      @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy 2 дня назад

      Spot on! In hindsight, especially when you have a new problem, you look back at the old one and think.. well that wasn't so bad, why was I so stressed out🤣

  • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
    @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy 7 дней назад

    Click to watch 😊

  • @letterborne
    @letterborne 9 дней назад

    Oh, interested in neuroscience 👀? So interesting! I’m diagnosed with autism and ADD and as a result also quite interested in it (although rather in the social aspects than the scientific ones), I bet you’d know a lot about it!

    • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
      @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy 9 дней назад

      Yess, I'm well interested in neuroscience. Although I can't say I know a lot about it just yet🤣 Still, it's fun to learn Thanks for watching 😊

    • @letterborne
      @letterborne 9 дней назад

      @@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy yeah, I have MANY of those interests that I’m highly interested in but don’t know a lot about yet 🤣 comes with the territory of getting interested (obsessed) with things very quickly 😂

    • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
      @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy 9 дней назад

      Totally 😄 the shiny object effect

  • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
    @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy 10 дней назад

    Click to watch the full video 📹

  • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
    @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy 11 дней назад

    How to be more confident ✨️

  • @brainwrongbarf
    @brainwrongbarf 11 дней назад

    So an ou5going person is more likely to cheat. No shit...

  • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
    @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy 11 дней назад

    Get ready to be blown away by the stats!

  • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
    @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy 14 дней назад

    Have you ever experienced mate poaching or been the poacher yourself? Don't be shy, let us know 😅❤

  • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
    @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy 16 дней назад

    Click to watch 😊

  • @letterborne
    @letterborne 16 дней назад

    66 days? Wow, I always thought 30, maybe that’s why it never works out for me xD or it could be the ADHD, who even knows

  • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
    @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy 17 дней назад

    I'm sure someone will find this helpful in decluttering their entire space 😊

  • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
    @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy 17 дней назад

    More weight loss tips in the full video. Click to watch 👈

  • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
    @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy 18 дней назад

    I hope this video was helpful, and I hope you stick around for more. Please like, share & subscribe so other people can see it too 😊

  • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
    @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy 19 дней назад

    If you're struggling to lose weight, you should start by managing your stress level!

  • @corriemathiowetz2135
    @corriemathiowetz2135 19 дней назад

    Well if you're in the US and Donald Trump wins it's gonna get even worse. You're going to lose choice over body, right to divorce, right to health care, right to protect your children from child labor, right to credit appears even on the table

    • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
      @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy 19 дней назад

      Yikes. That sounds like a very scary world to live in. I'm in the UK though, but still SCARY

  • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
    @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy 20 дней назад

    Get more than just a hot girl summer

  • @angelaciola2754
    @angelaciola2754 20 дней назад

    That's for that woman and her man to figure out! If I work as much as him, I won't do any more chores than he does!

  • @letterborne
    @letterborne 20 дней назад

    Very interesting video. Good choice on that attention grabbing thumbnail, cause it did make me angry 😂 (because those same phrases are usually used by misogynistic rage baiters) So, since you are asking for thoughts, I am a passionate modern feminist (and I just coloured my hair tips pink), so I'm gonna share mine, this should be interesting 😊 Honestly I agree with everything you're saying, just not the labels you're giving it (i.e. "failure of feminism", "feminism is going too far/too to the left", "failed women"), because I think those phrases are harmful and will be taken advantage of the "manosphere bros", but I'm assuming you're doing it for marketing purposes and because using short and concise language helps with keeping people interested? Personally I see it like this: There is the "online discourse" feminisim, all the "I don't need a man", "men are trash", "girlboss slayyy 💅✨", and then there's people in real life, using the concept of "common sense", as you put it. I see this online discourse as just a fun little way of communicating online, and I think a lot of those who do it might do it out of frustration from past adverse experiences with men. But at the end of the day, when you log off, it's important to reset your brain a bit. I think all of these phrases used online are not meant to be taken literally. (And if some do, that is of course a problem.) For example, when someone says "I don't need a man", they mean their purpose is not to just be a girlfriend or wife, not that they will never accept anything or any kind of relationship with any man. (I'm saying this for the people who always misinterpret this phrase, not you specifically.) Now, to your point of romance being dead. I believe I understand what you mean by that, the fact that the standards are lowering, hookup culture, etc. I would also like to propose an alternate perspective: It might not be entirely easy to do, but I am a firm believer that you can find your people. Me, for example, I am an asexual, hyperromantic bi woman (I know it's a lot of words, but those describe me the best). I find that it's incredibly difficult for me to find the perfect romance, yes. But it's not impossible. There's groups I can join. I know most people of the queer community will understand me. I also know that people who engage in casual relationships, casual sex and so on are not standing in my way. They like what they like. I don't feel like they're the ones that are ruining it for me. I also try to understand them, just the way I want them to understand me, and I'm sure a lot of them are aromantic, poly and so on. I don't know how familiar you are with the split attraction model, but I think it would be a great research topic for this kind of discussion. Very interesting point on the high risk discussion. On one hand, I'm like, even if that's what the data says, there are always outliers, and is it really fair to say "deep down you're not happy", even if that only contradicts a few experiences? Hearing this will hurt/invalidate them just the same ... But again, like in many ways, I think this comes down to semantics and I'm pretty sure we are seeing things the same way, we might just phrase it differently. On the "men are trying to become women" and "women are trying to become men". See I get your point, but these are all dogwhistle phrases that I hear all day, every day from TERFs. So this makes me want to ask you (completely genuinely), did you explore the whole gender spectrum and gender theory for this point? I am aware that most people are cis, most women embrace more feminine qualities and most men embrace masculine qualities, but I do want to know why you think mixing it up is this bad. Personally I know more queer people than cishet people, and this thought process, this concept seems foreign to me. I just think it comes down to personal preference. Be who you want to be. Also, as a woman who can be romantically attracted to men, the thing I'm really attracted to is femininity. I loooove feminine men. So don't worry about those outliers, I'll be happy to take care of them 😉 With that being said, there's absolutely nothing wrong with masculine men and feminine women. I see masculinity and femininity as two awesome substances sitting in two bowls, and people can line up and take from each however much they want and every choice and mix is valid 😊 Honestly, the door thing has always confused me. This isn't even a counterpoint, I'm honestly asking. I don't know where you live, but holding doors open isn't considered as anything men do for women where I'm from, here the social convention goes "if anyone is at a certain distance behind you, you are supposed to hold the door open". So on this point I'm genuinely just asking, because I keep seeing this being brought up as a traditionally masculine thing online, and I just don't understand it. Alrighty, done with the video. Very interesting discussion, honestly I love talking about it. To conclude, I'm pretty sure we are agreeing on most things. I just wanted to share my thoughts with the phrasings I prefer and add some things. Also I do get the impression that you are more traditional than me and we probably have different preferences. Which is totally fine. It's actually quite interesting seeing a different perspective sometimes. (Do you know any good synonym for "interesting" btw??) Anyways, that's it on my part, hope you have a nice day!

    • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
      @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy 20 дней назад

      Wow, a very long comment indeed. I totally understand every point you've made, and I appreciate that you see that I'm only speaking from my perspective and experiences. And I know some words I use may not be the best way to describe what I mean. But like you alluded to, everyone's different. There's no one size fits all with dating. I can only speak from my POV as a straight, semi-traditional woman. Thanks for watching, I'm glad you enjoyed it. Subscribe for more maybe? 😉

    • @letterborne
      @letterborne 20 дней назад

      @@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy damn you’re right, it looks so much longer on mobile! 😂 Sure, might stick around ☺️

    • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
      @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy 20 дней назад

      @@letterborne thank you 😊

  • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
    @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy 20 дней назад

    Click to watch

  • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
    @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy 21 день назад

    Remember, weight loss is a journey. There's no magic trick. You can do it, so don't be so hard on yourself 😊

  • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
    @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy 21 день назад

    The state of modern dating is confusing AF

  • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
    @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy 21 день назад

    Job satisfaction is important to us, and that doesn't make us lazy!

  • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
    @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy 24 дня назад

    Quitting your job is never an easy decision, but I hope this video helps you out a lil bit 😊

  • @adammorra3813
    @adammorra3813 24 дня назад

    Really good and helpful advice. Sometimes the money and the benefits keep us at a job longer than we should stay. I want to quit without any other job lined up but being almost 40, it's a very different game for me at this age.

    • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
      @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy 24 дня назад

      Thanks for watching, I'm glad you found it useful. I think it all depends on the level of support you've got around you, especially if you can't rely on your savings. I don't know what your situation is like, so I can't give specific advice tailored to you. But I hope you figure out a way to prioritise your well-being without suffering financially :)

    • @adammorra3813
      @adammorra3813 24 дня назад

      @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy i wont suffer financially or can risk it because i have no kids, no partner, no debt. I think its more about loosing a well paying job and remote benefits that might not be easy to come by again. Especially when you grow up poor, your scarcity mindset plays into everything.

    • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
      @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy 24 дня назад

      Ahh I see. My advice would be a leave of absence then. Does your job let you take time off for an extended period of time? Perhaps you're burnout, and what you need is a long break. If you can take a 6-month break, for example, and still have a job to come back to, I believe that'd be ideal :)

    • @adammorra3813
      @adammorra3813 24 дня назад

      @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy thank you for replying back! Unfortunately no, they do not allow long term leave. I dont think I would want to come back anyways. The issue is they just spent 50k relocating me about 8 months ago and now I already want to quit so I feel guilty about that and "wasting" the money but I found this situation is truly not for me. Luckily i dont think i have to pay any of it back.

    • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
      @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy 24 дня назад

      So is it the job you're dissatisfied with or the company? It's okay to feel bad, but ultimately, you have to make the decision that's best for you. They'll be alright 🤣

  • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
    @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy 25 дней назад

    If you need support with job interviews, comment down below, and I'll definitely make a video to help you out 😊

  • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
    @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy 25 дней назад

    Click to watch

  • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
    @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy 29 дней назад

    I hope you find this video helpful 😊

  • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
    @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy Месяц назад

    New video is up about Finding Your Purpose When You Have Multiple Passions

  • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
    @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy Месяц назад

    If you found this video useful, please drop a comment and let me know what you thought. It truly makes me happy 😊

  • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
    @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy Месяц назад

    What does Feminism mean to you?

  • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
    @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy Месяц назад

    Just the messenger 👀

  • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
    @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy Месяц назад

    Broader conversation around casual sex. Click to watch 😊

  • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
    @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy Месяц назад

    What are your thoughts? Are casual relationships becoming the new norm?

  • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
    @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy Месяц назад

    Can you relate? 🫠

  • @liberty_ranch
    @liberty_ranch Месяц назад

    You brought up some very good points. I love your charisma and personality, keep up the good work! 💗

  • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
    @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy Месяц назад

    Click to watch the full video 😊

  • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
    @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy Месяц назад

    my first 'day in the life' vlog attempt. how did I do? 😊

  • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
    @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy Месяц назад

    Have you ever gone thrifting?

  • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
    @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy Месяц назад

    Just start 😊

  • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
    @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy Месяц назад

    Can you relate?

  • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
    @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy Месяц назад

    Click to watch 😊

  • @dankmemes240
    @dankmemes240 Месяц назад

    I found this video I want to say Keep being happy friend, i am feeling delighted from your beautiful vibe ❤❤

  • @dankmemes240
    @dankmemes240 Месяц назад

    Beautiful work

  • @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
    @ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy Месяц назад

    Let me know what your journey has been as a new RUclipsr :)

  • @bea2209
    @bea2209 Месяц назад

    This is really informative, thank you

  • @michaeldowd5545
    @michaeldowd5545 Месяц назад

    Men are in service to women. Her feelings valued more then his. Her life is protected, his is sacrificed. What yours is hers, hers is hers. The problem with this BS is that the environment has made life easy for women. You need to look at some 1800 coal miner pictures. I don't see any women coal mining today or 200 years ago. Life was very hard to everyone. Another problem is women are sacrificing their most fertile years at the risk of having healthy Children for their career. These traits will breed themselves out of society. Leaving only women tha marry younger. Women were invested in Patriarchy, because she was looking for the family blood lines that would protect her Children. A second name is a small price to pay for healthy Children. Patriarchy is an outcome of female desire to marry up into power and privileges. It's the game men must play well to get beautiful women.

    • @michaeldowd5545
      @michaeldowd5545 Месяц назад

      At the end of the day, we are different, not not one better then the other. I

  • @wizard9759
    @wizard9759 Месяц назад

    No pay gap in Australia. All are paid equally for the same position. It discrimination otherwise.