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Sean Chen
Добавлен 6 июн 2023
learning as we go
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reviewing my performance as a human being in 2024
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2025 will be better (i have faith in you)
pov: you surprise your best friend in Tokyo (1 year apart)
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Happy birthday, big man. I hope this video resonated with some of you. It's always hard to part ways with friends, especially since we all have no idea how life will unfold for us. But... I would say, I am really excited for the next time we meet again. Hopefully, I will have plenty of stories to tell. Instagram: /sean4chen
quitting video games changed my life.
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Hi! Thank you for taking some time to read the description. This video is dedicated to those who are interested in learning more about video game addiction and learning about my personal journey on how I overcame video game addiction. I really think video game addiction is an under-discussed topic in the modern world. With video games being designed to be more and more addictive, it is importan...
i quit social media. now what?
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In this episode, we try what not using social media feels like. And its honestly a bit of a game changer. If you are reading this. Give it a shot instagram: / sean4chen
a chaotic hong kong guide (local btw)
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Hi. I hope you have an amazing time. feel free to ask me anything in the comment section below. I am down to talk about anything, even my hairline (I think I'm going bald soon).
spending one week in australia. (sydney and melbourne)
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kangarooooos. Welcome back guys. Really happy to get this upload out as I've been working on this for a while now. Lately I've been learning a lot about friendship. With friends and myself all graduating and many moving to different cities, I've found it very meaningful and challenging. (maybe I'll make a video about it!) I made an announcement at the end of the video about spending more time o...
I tried transforming my body in 30 days.
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This is a reupload from the gaming channel! that's why it's in 2023. Hope you enjoy o/ Let's learn together Let me know what you guys think of this!
i will never do this again.
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just a small glimpse of my weekend. Thank you Rosey and Yoonsoo! Congrats again
for those trying to create something meaningful
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for those trying to create something meaningful
a city for those who dare to dream.
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a city for those who dare to dream.
I want to share my experience as someone who never really got into competitive gaming. I've been into video games my whole life, ever since I was a kid playing on the Wii. Growing up, I struggled with severe social anxiety, which made it hard for me to communicate with others. Games became my escape-they were my world when I didn’t feel like I belonged anywhere else. As I got older and more confident, I made friends, especially those who shared my love for gaming. We’d stay up all night playing together, and over time, I got conditioned to believe that games were only fun when played competitively, with friends or against others. That’s just how gaming culture was in my country. When I got to college, I reached a turning point. I stopped playing games entirely to focus on my studies. I turned down invitations because we had a habit of playing all night, often skipping sleep. It even nearly ruined my relationship because I was too addicted to playing with my friends. At some point, I saw gaming as childish, immature, and a waste of time-something holding me back from more important things. And honestly? I was right. I agree and really related with your point. Without gaming as a distraction, I excelled in my academics, became the president of a student organization, and even topped my class-not that I’m bragging. Fast forward to today: I have a job, but life hasn’t exactly gotten easier. Between financial struggles, family issues, and the exhaustion of working two jobs to support my loved ones, I’ve been overwhelmed. I found myself craving a break, but at the same time, I felt like I couldn’t afford to slow down. I had responsibilities, goals, and a future to build with my partner. One night, as I sat reflecting on everything, I thought about playing games again-but I hesitated. It felt childish. I’m an adult now. Shouldn't I be doing something more “productive”? Thankfully, my amazing girlfriend encouraged me to take a break and reminded me of the things I used to love. That’s when it clicked. I never really loved competitive games. I never cared about "getting good." I never enjoyed League or Counter-Strike. Back then, I only played those games because my friends did, or because they were trending and I felt like I had to keep up. So, I started looking into older games-the ones from the PS2, GameCube, and Dreamcast era. Games I never got to experience as a kid. I picked up Sonic Adventure and Kingdom Hearts for the first time, and suddenly, I remembered what made games special to me. It wasn’t about competition-it was about the stories, the worlds, the experience. In a way, gaming saved me. After exhausting days at work, I finally had something to look forward to again. Not as a distraction, not as an addiction, but as a joy. That same feeling I had as a kid, excited to jump into Super Mario Galaxy after school, was back. Now, I come home, take care of my responsibilities, and genuinely look forward to seeing what happens next in the game I’m playing. And for the first time in a long while, I feel like me again.
thank you for sharing, this was beautiful. Really proud of you for overcoming your video game addiction. And mad respect for grinding and providing for your family. I hope that games will continue to be fun and rewarding as you find more balance in your life. Good job fam
Just turned 30 and my life is about to change (new job, new place to stay, new town..) and thats kinda scary. So the first thing i d do is turning on my console and forget about these struggles even if they are positive in their core. Video games are an eacape, a comfort zone and a place of nostalgia. And like you i feel my whole identity is connected with them but maybe its time to let go and embrace the change of life. When yo said you just couldnt interact with them in a healthy way i knew exactly what you mean. Because of that, sometimes it might be better to let completely go of these things and focus on kther things even if you still like it. But like someone who has a serious alcohol problem, it might be better to not touch that again. Your video gave inspiration and the feeling of not being alone with this topic, so thank you and keep up the work
@@xFulcrum1313x thank you Fulcrum. I honestly share a very similar experience with you. I just moved into a new city and i notice that my desire to play video games have really increased. And sometimes i hop to a net cafe to play some games with a friend. I think video game can still be valuable part of our lives. Its all about balance
Great video man keep up the good work! W
I try not to play video games everyday. One day I'll read a book or do a puzzle. Then the next day I'll play video games.
I have been gaming for 45 years or so. I have gone through many phases in my life. At one point, I was extremely addicted to gaming. I was revolving my life around gaming which was not healthy. Many years later, I still game. But it is no longer a focal part of my life. It is something I do to just escape the day or relax or to spend time with the kids. I can play 30 minute or 10 minute or 2 hour session. Ultimately it no longer dictate my days. I hope one day you can get back to it if you should choose to.
The mix of cinematic shots, talking about important stuff and hanging around with friends is super good!
@Fyre_Art THANK UUU
@@Sean4Chen no problemoo!
Cool vid! I recognized one of the songs, which I also used once :D
I want to live in New York someday! Just filmmaking and exploring the city!
I use my birthday wish to promise you a great year ahead☆〜(ゝ。∂)
thank you enatsu <33 that is really nice of you. I hope you have a wonderful time too!
Fire video 👌🔥
This is the first RUclips video of my life that I've watched it without skipping it. this video hit me so much. I'm 32 and still strugelling to get rid of this addiction but its hard. I had rough childhood and realized that I've been playing video games to forget my past. keep going man I loved your video and the way you put so much effort into this. thank you so much <3
@@alirezagoudarzi1915 hey! This comment is very kind, thank you ITS NEVER TOO LATE. Sometimes i feel like i wish i quit earlier and all that. But im just happy that i found a more interesting lifestyle for myself. Go do some more different types of activities Take care fam
discipline, grit, and positivity to our circles, cause energy that comes back to us ("hmmm!")
New subscriber! Greetings from Las Vegas 👋🏽 2025 Les Gooo 💪🏽💯🔥
You are so Cute. Do you have a Boyfriend? ♥️
Shinny!!🤞
@@posh_lol hellooo
Brilliant bro
@@AQUA-MAXZ1 thanks Aqua
Woah, the hike is a neat experience for New Years 🫶 Love your videos, your videos always feel meaningful and genuine 🥰🥰
@@edward_myc thank you Edward ❤️❤️
I love all your vídeos , I learn English and also about life, culture and a little bit of everything you show , thank you for being who you are . 😊❤
@@LelinhaFab-ts2gm thank you Lelinha, good luck on your study, rooting for youuu
I guess gym and meditation. Also! 🌅 first sunrise! I also did this to see first sunrise but at the beach - very wholesome
@@indigo769 that sounds amazing wtfff
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express gratitude to those around me everyday
@@jaydenlay might have to steal that one, thank you Mr. Jayden
Beautiful
Get in shape
HAVE FAITH IN YOU. any plans on how to do that? :))
If you have some time, write down your new years resolution here so we can cheer each other on. much love - sean
Today is the day bro, yep both mobile games and pc games. But what should i do with my controller ,should i break it??😅
@@Nawuv NAHHH no need to be so extreme haha. It would feel nice to donate it thoo
@@Sean4Chen that's good idea , i will try to donate it.
@ lets gooooo
Yo thanks bro! I am 17 now and I started thinking about quitting as well. When I saw this Video it became more clear to me and I think I’m ready to finally start a new Chapter in my life.
@@miloeggert5895 proud of you man. I have faith in you!
I have been trying to get my life together, I am 16 and I don't have fun playing videogames anymore like I used to when I was younger but I still am addicted to playing them and it's genuinely starting to make me question my worth as a person. I am going to wake up tomorrow and go the whole day without playing and try and be productive to see how I feel at the end of the day. This video and your story truly inspires me, it brought tears to my eyes hearing your story. You seem like such a genuine person and I hope and pray that your life takes you wherever you truly want to go. Thank you for taking time to make this video for us, have a blessed day/night Sean :)
@@JackTaylor08 hi Jack. This message means the world to me. Thank you. I have faith in you. Quitting video games is gonna be tremendously hard. The last thing you want to do is to beat yourself up when you play a game or two. Just slowly find things that you find interesting and take it one step at a time Really really from the bottom of my heart. Rooting for you ❤️
Update?
Very good video I subbed bro
@@AQUA-MAXZ1 thanks bro!!
You should give your life to Jesus
5/5 potatoes in the drip department
@@tyrellcastro ❤️❤️
another banger video lol, happy new year
That's a lot of potatoes! Great work. I'm most pleased with my consistency in the gym, some goals at work, and spending time with friends and family. Wishing you a great 2025!!
@@indigo769 proud of you indigo thank you for the update!
as someone who has been through the ringer of addiction and depression, i never thought of myself addicted to video games, but i guess i didnt feel that I had ANYTHING else worth doing and so id basically sit at my computer either attempting to force myself to record and work on music which never happened, or id play video games. This was like 2 years ago, since then, started skateboarding again, started mountain biking. got into RANDOM hobbies i never expected like metal detecting and melting metals. you never know what your going to like doing, but keep trying random things, never say no to new things, and im sure youl find something. I have a few close friends who im legit worried about as far as them gaming 24/7. like ALL THE TIME. their girlfriends and wives hop on the discord and always sound annoyed at them for forgetting this or that, like from an outside perspective they are staining their relationships with them. I feel like an asshole but its almost to the point where i dont want to assosiate with them because "you are a product of who you surround yourself with" and i believe that. I do NOT want to be sucked into that trap. Everytime I turn on my computer i get a message "join chat" and Im trying to keep track of my spreadsheets or clear through emails, or just use my COMPUTER (I do not view it as a console, its sole purpose is not video games.) but also, I realized that I view video games as a activity for me to do when I want to wind down the day, when there is NOTHING left to do, and that it is not inherently a social thing for me, but for those friends of mine it IS a social thing, and they legitimately dont use their pc's for anything else. just a wild mentality in my opinion when you really take a step back and look at it for what it is.
@@brendanfilippi5399 thank you Brendan, that was a wonderful insight Truthfully i think there’s a lot to explore outside of video games. Sometimes it is hard to recognise that, especially for those that feel lost or confused in life. I relate to some extend on the friends thing, i have a lot of friends that play video games, and it does seem like thats all they devote their spare time to. But i’m sure they will one day realize that other activities are pretty fun too! I’m practising being encouraging without being judgemental when it comes to things like this, and honestly it is tricky since i know how addictive video games can be. Thanks again fam
@ your super well spoken my dude! Yeah I try not to come off judgmental in any regard with it, but yeah it’s a tough line to draw, feels like watching your best friends you love and used to physically hang out with all the time lose all their ambition. And I have the best intensions but don’t want to come off as a jerk. It genuinely feels like I’m watching someone sink into quicksand and not throwing them a rope because it might offend them. Also, very much reminds me of what I imagine those same friends and my family went through when they sat by and watched me go through opiate addiction and a suicidal depression for legitimately like 7 years. There is NOTHING that they could say or do to make me stop, it had to be my decision, and I recognize that it’s the same type of deal. It sucks. I want the best for my friends. I just try to offer things like “hey wanna go for a bike ride around the neighborhood” and what not. Maybe not for everyone, but I think that for a lot of people depression and video games have a big overlap whether realized or not. Curious if anyone has good suggestions to offer at them to get outside and do something
Happy Holidays!! 🥳So cool to see your journey and even be a small part of it 🤗 The diversity of your achievements is crazy 😮
thank you edward <3 I hope 2024 was incredible and 2025 will be even better
Happy New Year Sean!I really think you have had a very fulfilling year.Although I just watched your video, it is very diverse. You seem to have been to many places and having a good time with friends and family. I'm really glad to see that you're getting better and better this year(including all aspects) I hope you can create more beautiful memories next year🥰
@@helo2789 thank you helos! Happy new year!!
2025 will be an incredible year for you, I can just feel it :)
I’m moving back
😍
Wwhat hotel did you stay?
@@anquynh288 i stayed at an airbnb!
@ great! Can i have information about that airbnb?
I think you nailed it. The big thing about videos like these is that people say to play in moderation. But what you said hit me hard and I think you helped me realize that I need change. I don’t know how to navigate video games in a healthy way either. I am addicted to it. I can’t play in moderation. There are times when I’m out and all I think about is playing my next match. There were times where I would be with my own wife and son and thought about playing instead. It’s sad. Anyone can play in moderation, but this video helped me realize that I just have an unhealthy relationship with games. This video inspired me to change. Wondering if you are still going without games?
@@paulyd0123 i am only playing when i go to a net cafe with friends! So like once every two weeks kinda thing Also i believe in u 🤍
challenger is very difficult, im sure you can achieve something even better on whatever you focus on. im sure your mom is proud of you. looking forward to hearing the next part of your journey. thanks for sharing your story.
@@daftpunkfunk thank you for the kind message ❤️
It’s all about moderation. I play some big releases, then stop playing for months. I stay away from endless, multiplayer games. Great video 🙌🏾
I really love you. Huub from the Netherlands ❤
subscribed
thank u <3
What camera do you use? the quality is amazing
@@Banhminn thank you! I used a sony zve1 with a 16-24 mm lens
The surprise is so cool, I love the hair too 🥰 The energy and vibe of the video is energizing ❤
@@edward_myc thank you edward! Glad you enjoyed it haha
>Tokyo, Japan As opposed to Tokyo, Albania.
@@doderiolarkisso4038 EXACTLY
That dog got the most drip I’ve seen
@@tyrellcastro GOJO as a dog. DOGJO
The goat delivers once again
10 minutes of peak
Your uncle is so adorable. I’m happy that you were able to celebrate that.
@@xlLostScorelx thank you, he is honestly the best