Flew The Coop
Flew The Coop
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Widowed for almost two months
It’s almost been two months since the love of my life went to Heaven. I’ve ran out of things to keep me busy and my mind is playing games with me. I have a fear that my heart might actually break. I never saw myself as a #widow or #livingalone But I’m gonna try my best to get things done, such as decluttering my home. That should keep me busy till spring and then I can get outside and get my vitamin D. I may even go to another Lulu’s Way meetup. I got my Camper Van getting fixed so I can bring you along when I go. Later Taters!
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Why did I have Panic Attacks for the New Year?
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The day before New Years Eve And the evening of New Years Day, I had panic attacks. It could be I slipped up on my diet, stress, grief, long drives, and doing things I normally did with my husband. I’m not going to take this as a sign of a bad year to come! I’m thinking it just carry over from the year I had. I’m starting to look at how my life is going to be as a widow. when I think of an idea...
First Christmas without the love of my life.
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I made it through Christmas , a day that holds more memories than other days of the year. I normally leave the decorations up till Epiphany. They are all put away and I am ready to face the new year with hope. Tears still flow and I miss all the laughter we had together.
OLD high school friends (Adjusting to being a Widow)
Просмотров 12 тыс.28 дней назад
I went to a Christmas meetup with my classmates from high school. I may find some new friendships and start doing things I never thought about doing. Loneliness is not a lack of company, but a lack of purpose. I’m going to try and find my new purpose and fill my life with friends. My husband had a ton of friends and everywhere he went he found anther one. Now I need to learn to do that on my ow...
One Month Since My Husband Passed
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I don't know what I did to this video, but it doesn't fill the whole screen for some reason. The death of my husband is the hardest thing I have ever experienced. I made it through Thanksgiving and now facing the first Christmas in 51 yrs without him. It will be different and sad for sure. I’m slowly finding myself again, but on most days I’m just lost. I’m going to continue posting videos and ...
Cemetery, Medicare, Horse Bells, Fireworks, and Tears (I’m all over the place)
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I’m all over the place today. Grief after 3 weeks and 3 day since my husband passed. His grave is as dreary as my broken heart. But around me are horses, bells, singing, kids laughing, ice skating’ and later fireworks! #grief #sleighbells #husband #iceskating
How I’m Dealing with Medicare, Pension Plan, Life Insurance, and Transferring titles!
Просмотров 7 тыс.Месяц назад
My last video brought so many prayers and love to me. I also heard stories from many others going through the same pain. Please join this journey with me and the other followers of this channel. This video took a couple days to get to my iCloud, if anyone can help me with that please add a comment. I’m trying to read all the comments on the last video and want to give everyone a response. What ...
I’m lost without my other half! (2 weeks since my husband passed)
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Two weeks since my husband of 48 1/2 years passed away. I normally cook a turkey for Thanksgiving, but this year I got a frozen dinner. I chose to be alone this year, since it’s been at least 50 years of spending every Thanksgiving with my man. I’m so lost and don’t really know what I’m supposed to do now. So I decided to make a video and so happy you joined me on this new journey. #campervancu...
How to Winterize a class B Camper Van
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Not a professional how to video. Just how I do it! Trouble with doing it yourself is you can’t blame anyone if things go bad in the spring. #camping #winters
We're not okay, but it's all gonna be alright! (Stage 4 Lung Cancer)
Просмотров 12 тыс.2 месяца назад
My First description vanished and I guess that means I wasn't supposed to talk about that. This video is about a roller coaster of emotions from the stage 4 lung cancer news my husband (Wendell) received. Please subscribe and go on this ride with us. Later Taters Check out Lulu's Way on RUclips ruclips.net/user/results?search_query=lulu's way youtube
ROCKING & SWINGING BACKYARD TOUR (My Staycation)
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Another vacation we didn’t get to attend. Since March we’ve spent our vacations and most weekends, in our neighboring state of Kentucky, taking care of my MIL. We did get a middle of the week vacation in July. I had a great time at a #Lulu’sWay women meetup, I will do a video on that soon. We had worked stuff out and we were really looking forward to this vacation. We planned to go to our son’s...
How To Enjoy Your Retirement Part 3 (How Much Money Is Enough to Retire?)
Просмотров 1,1 тыс.4 месяца назад
The answer is actually not a formula, it’s what ever you need. There are many videos on Retirement Planning, so these are not going into that type of detail. If you are planning on one day being able to retire, there will be some tips for you and even some for those who have already retired. Does that make me a Senior Citizen? #seniorliving #seniorcitizens #retirementplanningtips I hope this se...
How To Enjoy Your Retirement Part 2 (7 Reasons Not to Retire)
Просмотров 2924 месяца назад
I hope this series helps you plan and enjoy your retirement (or your non-retirement)! Please leave a comment and all tips are appreciated. I still have several thoughts on future videos and would love to hear what you want to see. Thanks for watching and subscribing. Later Tater! How to Enjoy Your Retirement Series links: Introduction (ruclips.net/video/_B3HZJzsRKc/видео.html) Part 1 - 7 Reason...
Retirement thoughts on Swedish Death Cleaning and Other Clutter!
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Taking time to enjoy #retirement. Fixing my metal goose and talking about #Swedish death cleaning, cleaning out #clutter, and other random thoughts.
How To Enjoy Your Retirement Part 1 ( 7 Reasons to Retire ASAP)
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How To Enjoy Your Retirement Part 1 ( 7 Reasons to Retire ASAP)
How to Enjoy Your Retirement Series Introduction @FlewTheCoop
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How to Enjoy Your Retirement Series Introduction @FlewTheCoop
Can Stress Send you to the Hospital? #retirement
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Can Stress Send you to the Hospital? #retirement
Walking Against The Traffic and Checking out an Abandoned House.
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Walking Against The Traffic and Checking out an Abandoned House.
My New iPhone 15 pro tried to kill me!
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My New iPhone 15 pro tried to kill me!
Am I too old to start a YouTube channel?
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Am I too old to start a RUclips channel?
My talented chickens
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My talented chickens
How can a dead mouse smell that bad?
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How can a dead mouse smell that bad?
Retired Lady finally flew the coop!
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Retired Lady finally flew the coop!
My 67th Birthday Cartwheel
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My 67th Birthday Cartwheel

Комментарии

  • @samgarnish6187
    @samgarnish6187 4 часа назад

    Hello there Ms. Trisha. Ive suffered with panic attacks for years before I was saved and you asked about panic attacks. Some methods I tried that worked are cold methods. Holding an ice pack on ur stomach or underarm can help distract ur mind. And prayer! Prayer is so powerful! I believe in you!!! You can do this! Love ya Ms. Trisha, praying for you

  • @samgarnish6187
    @samgarnish6187 4 часа назад

    Hello, While I have just met you, my apologies about your loss. My grandma passed away a long time ago, and I sadly have lost a lot of memories. But I randomly came upon your channel and was crying along with you 😥. You reminded me of her and how she would tell so many unique stories. Regardless of who listened :). Sadly, I was too young to appreciate it while she was still here. Gosh it is not an easy task to deal with loss. Wish i could help take some of that sadness away but I can see through ur journey, smile, and strength that you can do this. I keep going back to the quote,'God gives the hardest tasks to the strongest of his warriors' because he knows they can get through it. You are a truly wonderful person who is just so sweet to all those around you. Praying for you hun, never forget how loved you are! ❤

  • @lenzbendana4864
    @lenzbendana4864 7 часов назад

    Hi, i am watching from the philippines. Just saw your video on tiktok through Kind Pengu. I am really sorry for your loss, i wish i could hug you. Stay safe always!!! ❤

  • @Qwazier3
    @Qwazier3 7 часов назад

    Put up a sign....No ants of any kind allowed. That should take care of the ant problem.

  • @Meganhurtyear
    @Meganhurtyear 8 часов назад

    There’s a lot of Facebook groups you can join of local women who like to go hiking or get coffee, I’m a Christian but mediation in a certain way really helped. You’re not going to die. You’re going to rise from the ashes

  • @snowboardergirl16
    @snowboardergirl16 8 часов назад

    Genuinely curious, the large candle and the incense burner behind you. I’ve only seen those in church. How did you end up with them?

  • @maryannsobczak7174
    @maryannsobczak7174 10 часов назад

    May I ask how old is your mother-in-law?

  • @AM-ji5yl
    @AM-ji5yl 11 часов назад

    Can‘t imagine what you’re going through! Keep on going. You’re strong and independent. Be the version you were while being with him so he can be happy watching you from heaven ⭐️💕

  • @darcie__222
    @darcie__222 14 часов назад

    i am so proud of you my lovely , your so brave and doing so well I completely understand losing a loved one your so close with is awful , just know you will always have fans and supporters online and in real life we’ll always be by your side , he’s watching over you smiling I promise ❤❤

    • @flewthecoop1957
      @flewthecoop1957 10 часов назад

      Thank you for your thoughtful comment.

  • @JaneyH
    @JaneyH 17 часов назад

    Big hug sent to you from Derbyshire England ❤

  • @OmarTv-gn6qh
    @OmarTv-gn6qh 19 часов назад

    Your husband sent us ❤

  • @Hottogo13
    @Hottogo13 19 часов назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @SadeMonique_
    @SadeMonique_ 20 часов назад

    Instagram reel brought me here ❤

  • @SadeMonique_
    @SadeMonique_ 20 часов назад

    You got this Queen🩷🩷🩷🩷

  • @personaltrainerdavid9205
    @personaltrainerdavid9205 День назад

    stay strong ! everything will be fine 🤍

    • @flewthecoop1957
      @flewthecoop1957 10 часов назад

      It all is in God's time and He knows my heart.

  • @haisay8674
    @haisay8674 День назад

    Please don’t give up and continue to do your best, please lean on God and give it to him

  • @captainjack8319
    @captainjack8319 День назад

    The Lord bless you and keep you :)

  • @hitmanff6634
    @hitmanff6634 День назад

    Just wanna say that even thou have lost Ur husband 😔 I Just wanna tell U that JESUS LOVES YOU LIKE GENUINELY HE LOVES YOU WANTS TO COMFORT AND LOVE YOU ❤️ JUST KNOW THAT JESUS LOVES YOU VERY MUCH AND HE HEARS UR CRYS AND U WILL FIND PEACE AND COMFORT IN JESUS NAME‼️✨

  • @haleybrodzenski9433
    @haleybrodzenski9433 День назад

    You're doing great! You're such a strong person

  • @Jesusisking198
    @Jesusisking198 День назад

    Hi hunny. Here to just say we love you, we are proud of you, and you’re a light to the world. God bless you in Jesus’s name ❤❤

    • @flewthecoop1957
      @flewthecoop1957 10 часов назад

      Thank you and thanks for the Blessing.

  • @badvnvn63
    @badvnvn63 День назад

    Sending love and hugs 🫂 stay strong and safe ❤

  • @RobDeLarge
    @RobDeLarge День назад

    Stay strong ❤

  • @theLifeofMarc
    @theLifeofMarc День назад

    Content wise, would love to hear about you and your husband’s life over the years. Stories to tell. We can learn a lot from your relationship and experience and it’s also a good way to keep his memory alive

    • @flewthecoop1957
      @flewthecoop1957 10 часов назад

      I've been thinking that I need to share more of that and I will!

    • @theLifeofMarc
      @theLifeofMarc 10 часов назад

      @ Been with my partner for 17 years and I love to hear stories from couples who have been together for longer! lots of wisdom there. :)

  • @theLifeofMarc
    @theLifeofMarc День назад

    I ran to yt as soon as I saw the IG reel promoting your channel. Sending you lots of love!!!!!!

  • @VitalMotive
    @VitalMotive День назад

    I hope you find peace in letting go. Thank you for sharing your feelings

  • @Thehaleighrose
    @Thehaleighrose День назад

    I’m so sorry for your loss! You’re not alone

  • @hayleygreenia7241
    @hayleygreenia7241 День назад

    I had the love of my life for 3 short years. We were married for 4 months before I unexpectedly lost him. There is no right or wrong way to grieve. I feel compelled to tell you that your husband most definitely sent us to you 🫶🏼

    • @flewthecoop1957
      @flewthecoop1957 10 часов назад

      Thank you, I'm so sorry for your loss.

  • @JohnNikkoSoriano
    @JohnNikkoSoriano День назад

    I hope one day youre going to be okay😢 im praying for you mam. I know its hard, but sooner or later you’ll be okay.❤ one of your subscribers from the philippines😊

  • @MrkEaron
    @MrkEaron 2 дня назад

    I wish I could trade my life for your husband's, as mine feels miserable and meaningless.

    • @flewthecoop1957
      @flewthecoop1957 10 часов назад

      Your not ready for where he is. I'm not ready either. We are where we need to be and we need to not listen to the world as the world leads us to being miserable and thinking life is meaningless. Please rebuke what the world is telling you and listen to the beautiful life you are meant to lead and you will find it in time. Please talk to someone that can help you get there. Prayers sent for you.

  • @hw7782
    @hw7782 2 дня назад

    Wishing you all the best!

  • @DiegoHernandez-tb2pj
    @DiegoHernandez-tb2pj 2 дня назад

    best wishes, hope you have great days soon

  • @daishing7842
    @daishing7842 2 дня назад

    I also lost my father this past Tuesday, I know that this is not easy, crying is not weakness,we all have to be strong

    • @flewthecoop1957
      @flewthecoop1957 9 часов назад

      I'm sorry for your loss and the tears you will shed.

  • @hoayaweemaru9162
    @hoayaweemaru9162 2 дня назад

    Dear one, your body is talking to you. There are pockets of grief throughout your body giving you discomfort, a broken heart that's caused a flood that must run it's course. Many of your symptoms will subside. In time. Deep breathing helps. Hot soaks. Laughter. All will help ease those pockets! Bless you ❤

    • @flewthecoop1957
      @flewthecoop1957 9 часов назад

      I think you are right about my body talking to me.

  • @mayabee4809
    @mayabee4809 2 дня назад

    I’m an at home caregiver for elderly.. my two regular clients are both widowed women.. one is almost 101 thankfully her son lives in the house and helps.. the other is a 90yr woman… she’s watching all her friends die around her and their spouses die… something that helps both her and others is the family of the passed come over and visit and they exchange stories of their shared love of whichever person.. death is natural but painful, but having others to share and remember the joy is healing ❤

    • @flewthecoop1957
      @flewthecoop1957 9 часов назад

      Yes it is great to talk to those that knew my husband. I find peace in their stories.

  • @jennysmalley46
    @jennysmalley46 2 дня назад

    When you’re ready, I would LOVE to hear your favorite stories about your husband!

    • @flewthecoop1957
      @flewthecoop1957 9 часов назад

      Oh there are so many. In time I will be telling all the ones that have left the most meaning in my life.

  • @ReidBeers
    @ReidBeers 2 дня назад

    I’m sorry about ur husband❤

  • @rikchippendale835
    @rikchippendale835 2 дня назад

    I like how the internet brings the occasional video my way that reminds me to be grateful every single day for the loved ones I have around me. I've found the love of my life after a 37 year long wait and would be beyond heartbroken to lose her. I cherish every single day i get to see her beautiful smile and cant imagine the pain you must have bravely endured thus far. Wishing you the very best from the UK. Thank you for making your videos.

    • @flewthecoop1957
      @flewthecoop1957 9 часов назад

      Thank you for sharing and thank you for taking care of your lovely lady. Its special when you find that one that God made just for you.

  • @lilyannfrianeza8795
    @lilyannfrianeza8795 2 дня назад

    God saw your happiness with your husband throughout your life and so now, Gods making sure you won’t lose your brightness just because God is now with your husband. 😊 trust Gods work. ❤

    • @flewthecoop1957
      @flewthecoop1957 10 часов назад

      I'm actually having more time with God and I'm sure He has a plan for me.

  • @usmc-gabe1386
    @usmc-gabe1386 2 дня назад

    We love you and we all support you. Blessings and peace be onto you. I don't usually pray, but I'll make an exception... just for you.

    • @flewthecoop1957
      @flewthecoop1957 10 часов назад

      You just made me smile then laugh out loud! I'm so glad you sent up a prayer, for any reason!!! Thanks for the comment.

  • @JFTSportsTalk
    @JFTSportsTalk 2 дня назад

    Amazing videos! Keep it up, stay strong!

  • @lex4552
    @lex4552 2 дня назад

    Tik tok send me somehow and I want you to know that you’re such a strong creative lovely individual and I wish you nothing but love and hope things get easier.

  • @AndrewDingle
    @AndrewDingle 2 дня назад

    So sorry to hear what you’re experiencing, we’re all here with you xx.

  • @dyllistan6099
    @dyllistan6099 2 дня назад

    Im so sorry for Ur loss 😢. We were sent to help U overcome this hard time. Glad to see that U r a little bit happier now 😊

  • @kollincalica5009
    @kollincalica5009 2 дня назад

    Godbless you! God will give you the peace, contentment, and recovery from whatever you’re going through. I will subscribe to your channel. You are a good person!

    • @flewthecoop1957
      @flewthecoop1957 9 часов назад

      Thanks for watching and thanks for the great comment.

  • @SoCleanVisuals
    @SoCleanVisuals 3 дня назад

    She replies to almost every comment. What an amazing person! I’m so sorry ur going thru this….😢

    • @flewthecoop1957
      @flewthecoop1957 10 часов назад

      It means a lot to me, that you are watching.

  • @Shrimpskampy
    @Shrimpskampy 3 дня назад

    It’s been 3 years since my life long best friend took her life. For almost a year after I felt such huge waves of grief at the most random times, even now 3 years later one random Tuesday morning I think of her and feel my heart sink. The first year I barely ate and felt extreme anxiety. Time heals everything ❤ grief is love with no place to go ❤ I hope each day gets a bit easier for you ❤

    • @flewthecoop1957
      @flewthecoop1957 9 часов назад

      Thanks and I love that, grief is love with no place to go!! I never heard that before.

  • @abigail0802
    @abigail0802 3 дня назад

    we are so proud of you and love you so much!

  • @haileym274
    @haileym274 3 дня назад

    You seem like the kind of woman I want to grow up and be

  • @julietaalvarez5168
    @julietaalvarez5168 3 дня назад

    Losing our love ones is never easy. Everyone grieves differently, but in my case I was so down, would not come out of my room, I wouldn’t share time with my love one that are still here with me. When I got to that last conclusion I realized that I could grieve at the same time that I can spend time with the people that I love and care. You are keep going to affect (in the good sense of the word) lives. You seem lovely and I’m sure that your love ones are gonna be totally happy with you by their side, and share your grieves and help each other. Life is hard but it’s easier with our love ones around. Best wishes and I hope to keep watching your content!

    • @flewthecoop1957
      @flewthecoop1957 10 часов назад

      Thank you for your thoughtful comments.

  • @normancastrocampos7022
    @normancastrocampos7022 3 дня назад

    Hi miss, I’m norman And I saw a video about your videos. I really hope you can cope your situation. I just want to share to you that you are not alone, maybe life sometimes is not fair but we can decide what to do with our situations. Thanks for share us your experience, I’m from Mexico Puebla, you have a friend here if you wanted. thanks I hope we can talk in a call or video chat thanks

    • @flewthecoop1957
      @flewthecoop1957 10 часов назад

      I appreciate you and your kind offer, Norman, I might be up for that one day. I hope you are doing well too.