Andrielle Mylin
Andrielle Mylin
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The Narcissist's Toxic Cycle of Enabling and Control
This text discusses how narcissists maintain relationships that serve their own needs, often by enabling and controlling their children well into adulthood. It highlights the toxic and dysfunctional nature of relationships with a narcissist, and emphasizes the importance of going no-contact as the best way to break free from this cycle.
#narcissist #toxicrelationships #enablement #powerandcontrol #nocontact
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Narcissists and the Toxic Trap of 'Future Faking'
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This video discusses the narcissistic behavior of 'future faking', where a narcissist lies about a future with the victim in order to manipulate and control them. It highlights the toxic nature of these relationships and the importance of going no-contact to heal and become stronger. #Narcissism #FutureFaking #GaslightingAndManipulation #ToxicRelationships #NoContact #narcissist 🤮 #narcissistaw...
No true discard with that #narcissist
Просмотров 859 часов назад
#narcissist #narcissistawareness #discard #hoover #toxic #breakthecycle #healing #healingjourney #loveyourselffirst #loveyourselfthemost
Trauma Bond with the Narcissist
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#traumabond #narcissist #toxic #healing #nocontact #lovebomb
My experience going from Overt to Covert
Просмотров 8219 часов назад
#overtnarcissist #covertnarcissist #narcissistawareness #healingfromnarcissisticabuse #staystrong #nocontact #healing #healingjourney #herjourney #loveyourselffirst #loveyourselfthemost
Karma and the Narcissist
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Karma and the Narcissist
Narcissists train and condition you from day 1
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Narcissists train and condition you from day 1
Weird ways the narcissist tests your boundaries
Просмотров 114День назад
Weird ways the narcissist tests your boundaries
Narcissists love to be dismissive
Просмотров 17914 дней назад
Narcissists love to be dismissive
Fight or Flight with that Narcissist
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Fight or Flight with that Narcissist
That #narcissist is NOT winning. And they never will.
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That #narcissist is NOT winning. And they never will.
That #narcissist will k!ll a part of you.
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That #narcissist will k!ll a part of you.
Covert Narcissist and their pets
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Covert Narcissist and their pets
You do NOT miss that #narcissist
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You do NOT miss that #narcissist
Narcissists are always so bothered.
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Narcissists are always so bothered.
Narcissists sayings. “Quit bringing up the past”
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Narcissists sayings. “Quit bringing up the past”
How to test a narcissist
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How to test a narcissist
#narcissist confuse you to keep you.
Просмотров 118Месяц назад
#narcissist confuse you to keep you.
Hoover phase/ fake therapy
Просмотров 109Месяц назад
Hoover phase/ fake therapy
Narcissists love walking ahead of you. To devalue you.
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Narcissists love walking ahead of you. To devalue you.
Heart broken by a covert narcissist
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Heart broken by a covert narcissist
2 signs of a covert narcissist
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2 signs of a covert narcissist
Boundary pushers vs people pleasers.
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Boundary pushers vs people pleasers.
Your best defense against a #narcissist is education. And #nocontact
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Your best defense against a #narcissist is education. And #nocontact
Narcissists love to triangulate you.
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Narcissists love to triangulate you.
There is life and hope and light after the #narcissist
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There is life and hope and light after the #narcissist
Overt narcissist to covert narcissist
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Overt narcissist to covert narcissist
You CAN leave that #narcissist.
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You CAN leave that #narcissist.
Narcissists are not self aware and cannot self reflect.
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Narcissists are not self aware and cannot self reflect.

Комментарии

  • @AMB1782g
    @AMB1782g Минуту назад

    Thank you, I needed to hear this. 224 days no contact, I'm alive again. God is good!

  • @user-bs5fj4do7w
    @user-bs5fj4do7w Час назад

    Smart absolutely beautiful woman ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Jesraelise
    @Jesraelise 7 часов назад

    Yess, mainly because I was raised in a narcissistic family and didn’t know any better. It was the norm for me. Very painful as well. A marriage of 20 yrs with a narc, I got out still not fully comprehending but little by little I became educated. Unfortunately, another narc popped up and here we go again, but it was much less time. Thank God for the info that helped me navigate through these evil beings. Do continue creating these videos. There are many decent and good people out here who need help. Thank you and God bless! ❤

  • @user-yq1fx5rx3n
    @user-yq1fx5rx3n 14 часов назад

    Аырчьмлс

  • @user-yq1fx5rx3n
    @user-yq1fx5rx3n 14 часов назад

    Авлпдпдрло

  • @pogofish1
    @pogofish1 День назад

    Absolutely..! For me, it went rapidly from the mirroring/love-bombing/drawing together, into the most detailed planning for our life together. Trying to reconcile that stage with how it went across the numerous devaluation/hoover cycles (major and minor) that followed was the most difficult thing.

    • @LiveWellWithElle_
      @LiveWellWithElle_ День назад

      @@pogofish1 it’s not for the faint of heart. 🩵🩷

  • @user-bs5fj4do7w
    @user-bs5fj4do7w 2 дня назад

    Very smart beautiful woman ❤❤❤❤❤🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

  • @joeblack4883
    @joeblack4883 2 дня назад

    Yeah, as a good person, we tend to think, by default, that other people are genuine and good like us. I find it difficult to believe how evil some people are.

  • @lilfairycupcake
    @lilfairycupcake 2 дня назад

    eventually their lil game of bs, always comes to a very tragic end. thats their future in a nutshell. cant fake that.

  • @tylerashcraft8427
    @tylerashcraft8427 2 дня назад

    Actually that makes sense. I'm the narcissist. Saved me money on therapy. Thanks

  • @rodbakergodnrod7771
    @rodbakergodnrod7771 2 дня назад

    Aaaaaaaaaaaaamen

  • @chadw9979
    @chadw9979 2 дня назад

    Ain't that the truth. That's when the games really begin.

  • @user-bs5fj4do7w
    @user-bs5fj4do7w 3 дня назад

    ❤️ So ❤️ beautiful ❤️❤️❤️ intelligent woman

  • @chadw9979
    @chadw9979 3 дня назад

    Stay strong!

  • @user-bs5fj4do7w
    @user-bs5fj4do7w 3 дня назад

    So beautiful ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @rodbakergodnrod7771
    @rodbakergodnrod7771 4 дня назад

    YES AMEN

  • @rodbakergodnrod7771
    @rodbakergodnrod7771 4 дня назад

    4 years, and I am prepared.

  • @joeblack4883
    @joeblack4883 4 дня назад

    OMG yes! We remember the rage and the abuse and they don't think they did anything wrong and will try to come back into your life. Not missing you, but missing what you can do for them.

  • @MirAndHer
    @MirAndHer 4 дня назад

    They want an adoring audience

  • @pogofish1
    @pogofish1 4 дня назад

    Absolutely - The pain may fade to some degree, the scars, physical and emotional may heal somewhat but you must never but never forget!

  • @mybellacat1
    @mybellacat1 4 дня назад

    Then they take everything you worked for

  • @joeblack4883
    @joeblack4883 6 дней назад

    The servent. Yes, this resonates with me.

  • @joeblack4883
    @joeblack4883 6 дней назад

    The servent.

  • @shannon9407
    @shannon9407 6 дней назад

    My ex was cheating on me during my pregnancy and I found out. Months later he went to the Olympic trials as a boxer and lost 😂 he was so mad that the ring girls didn’t care about him his fragile little ego shattered. Then I left him a month later and found my forever man a month after that. Karma pays and takes away 😉

  • @crystalblue8182
    @crystalblue8182 6 дней назад

    I dont think karma is always is also so straight foward or instant karma as john lennon sang. Someone like that, their karmic effects come in the form of damaging relationships all around them. They may seem ok or unbothered but thats also their karma to not have care and realize how having these beautiful trusting relationships matter.

  • @sfrree1115
    @sfrree1115 6 дней назад

    Every white woman is an expert on narcissism now… I’m so bored with the excessive narcissist content. Everyone is doing it. Can you move on and do something else?

    • @LiveWellWithElle_
      @LiveWellWithElle_ 6 дней назад

      @@sfrree1115 you don’t have to watch it you know

  • @user-bs5fj4do7w
    @user-bs5fj4do7w 7 дней назад

    One beautiful woman ❤❤❤❤❤🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

  • @lilfairycupcake
    @lilfairycupcake 7 дней назад

    no contact is the only cure. if there is contact, there is control.

  • @lilfairycupcake
    @lilfairycupcake 7 дней назад

    my ex covert narc gf was what i call a classic narc. classic in the sense, she had every narc trait known to man. to live in her fed up head for 5min would drain a normal person.

  • @user-bs5fj4do7w
    @user-bs5fj4do7w 7 дней назад

    So smart and beautiful ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @lilfairycupcake
    @lilfairycupcake 7 дней назад

    both species of narcs, are the worst. self centered greed, control, and hate, are the basis/foundation of both narcs. a good narc test right out of the gate is to see how greedy they are. hate, and control, generally come at a later date "surprise" but greed can be seen right from the get go. it absolutely kills them to give anything, to anyone, ever; and the beauty of this is, its easy to spot, if you look. giving destroys them, because its not their job to give, but to TAKE!

  • @user-bs5fj4do7w
    @user-bs5fj4do7w 7 дней назад

    Absolutely beautiful woman ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @lorajohnson3597
    @lorajohnson3597 7 дней назад

    I was married to a Narcissistic Sociopath for 13 years and the level of emotional terrorism I went through has left a scar that feels like it will never heal and its been a year.

    • @LiveWellWithElle_
      @LiveWellWithElle_ 7 дней назад

      Yea of all the things my overt did, it was nothing compared to the emotional and mental abuse done by the covert.

  • @Jewelz1667
    @Jewelz1667 7 дней назад

    Facts! Mad no matter what you and everything you do is wrong.

  • @user-bs5fj4do7w
    @user-bs5fj4do7w 7 дней назад

    So smart and beautiful ❤️❤️❤️❤️🤓😍😻💓💗

  • @toursisland7585
    @toursisland7585 7 дней назад

    You are right, still miss him😢

  • @chadw9979
    @chadw9979 8 дней назад

    And when you finally decide to leave and go through with it, be prepared, as they will try their absolute best to destroy your life.

  • @chadw9979
    @chadw9979 8 дней назад

    Very well said. You have to keep this mindset each and every day.

  • @bad.chickie66
    @bad.chickie66 8 дней назад

    Stop complaining and go make a sandwich.

  • @rodbakergodnrod7771
    @rodbakergodnrod7771 8 дней назад

    I found my self asking, “Would I rather reap a Blessing or her reap Kharma?” I chose the Blessing 9 times out of 10.

  • @rodbakergodnrod7771
    @rodbakergodnrod7771 8 дней назад

    Amen Andrielle…

  • @loveybae944
    @loveybae944 8 дней назад

    So good! I agree! We are complete happy whole and always healing and growing.

  • @decillion-
    @decillion- 8 дней назад

    Got nothing to do with narcissism. Just exploitative.

  • @joeblack4883
    @joeblack4883 8 дней назад

    At the 2 minute mark; I recently asked my therapist why do I keep attracting these narcs into my life? She said, the universe keeps sending them until you learn your lesson. And then you said the same thing in the video.

    • @LiveWellWithElle_
      @LiveWellWithElle_ 7 дней назад

      See the universe always provides the message at the right time! Pat attention to the Synchronicities!

  • @meralee1213
    @meralee1213 8 дней назад

    This is hilarious 😂 Yes. He only slept like 5 hours and always complained that I didn't offer him breakfast. When asked what he wanted he didn't know. He kept having these phases where he would snack on a certain junk food obsessively for 2 weeks and then switch to something else.

    • @LiveWellWithElle_
      @LiveWellWithElle_ 8 дней назад

      @@meralee1213 yes they are junk food junkies because they lack self control and they are very impulsive!

  • @meralee1213
    @meralee1213 8 дней назад

    I also felt like mine didn't have a concept of feminine and masculine jobs, he never felt like a provider or protector, he was always competing with me, tit for tat like I'm his roomie or buddy or something 😅

    • @LiveWellWithElle_
      @LiveWellWithElle_ 8 дней назад

      @@meralee1213 exactly! You do turn in to their roommate. And they DO compete with you. I have a video talking about that also!! They don’t see it as a team. They see you as competition. Stay strong friend!

  • @leonardopalermo3726
    @leonardopalermo3726 8 дней назад

    GUTMONI BELLISSIMA ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @joeblack4883
    @joeblack4883 9 дней назад

    Your brain gets rewired by them, like you mentioned in a previous post. It's true, one day you find yourself questioning your every decision and you don't know how you got to this point.

    • @LiveWellWithElle_
      @LiveWellWithElle_ 9 дней назад

      @@joeblack4883 that’s why I wanted to create a supportive community where we can find healing and make sense of it together! I just hope to bring value and help people get out of these toxic relationships 🩵🩷

    • @joeblack4883
      @joeblack4883 9 дней назад

      @@LiveWellWithElle_ I appreciate your posts and thank you for creating this channel. I hope that Google sends your message to other people's feeds that may be caught in the web of narcissistic abuse. Keep up the good work, Elle.

    • @LiveWellWithElle_
      @LiveWellWithElle_ 8 дней назад

      @@joeblack4883 I’ve found that the message that is meant for you will always find you! Thank you! 🩷

  • @francescocozzatelli6027
    @francescocozzatelli6027 9 дней назад

    THANK YOU !

  • @karynbanksley7110
    @karynbanksley7110 9 дней назад

    That sounds just like my ex-husband! He was a basket case of insecurity and constantly accusing me of cheating when I was working, so when changing careers, I took a month and a half off to be a housewife to see how things went and they went very smoothly, & as long as I answered the phone by the second ring every time, I did not get accused of cheating, so we got along much better. But it wasn’t long before he complained about me not working even though we were not struggling for money. Soon after I get a job, he starts the same crap again of being insecure and accusing me of cheating!

    • @LiveWellWithElle_
      @LiveWellWithElle_ 9 дней назад

      @@karynbanksley7110 yes they condition you to behave a certain way. Glad you got out of that toxic mess! ❤️🙏