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Drinking Alcohol DOESN'T Make You Happy
Drinking alcohol doesn’t make you happy.
I understand why you believe that it does.
The idea that alcohol makes you happy is pervasive.
This message is everywhere, and almost everyone believes it.
So, I completely understand why you may believe that it’s true.
I thought that alcohol made me happy for over 30 years too.
The reason I want to talk about alcohol and happiness in this video is that if you’re struggling to cut back or quit drinking, the biggest thing that’s getting in your way is this belief.
Believing alcohol makes you happy is the reason why willpower isn’t working for you, and it’s the reason you wake up hungover at least once a week wondering what happened and feeling like you f...
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Eliminating This Belief About Alcohol Will Make It Easier To Quit Drinking
Просмотров 2321 день назад
Drinking alcohol doesn’t make you happy. I understand why you believe that it does. The idea that alcohol makes you happy is pervasive. This message is everywhere, and almost everyone believes it. So, I completely understand why you may believe that it’s true. I thought that alcohol made me happy for over 30 years too. The reason I want to talk about alcohol and happiness in this video is that ...
Taking It One Day At A Time & Counting Days Is The WRONG WAY To Quit Drinking Alcohol
Просмотров 4Месяц назад
Taking it one day at a time and counting days is the wrong way to quit drinking alcohol. Don’t worry if you are. I did it too. I went to the same meetings as you, so I understand why you may think that it helps you stop drinking. This strategy is routinely promoted as helpful and is so popular that it’s become the norm, so much so that I’ve even seen Take It One Day At A Time bumper stickers an...
The Discouraged Drinker Versus The Alcohol-Free, Non-Drinker
Просмотров 9Месяц назад
Are you a Discouraged Drinker? Do you want to quit drinking alcohol but use willpower and fail every time? How often do you wake up with a hangover and swear this is the last time? Do you feel discouraged, frustrated, and ashamed because you haven’t been able to take back complete control? Check out this video to see if you are a Discouraged Drinker and discover how they’re different than the A...
Changing People, Places, And Things Doesn’t Help You Quit Drinking
Просмотров 42 месяца назад
Are you struggling to control your drinking? Are you struggling with willpower and constantly making and breaking promises to cut back or quit? Are you trying to change the people, places, and things in your life to help you accomplish your goal? I hate to say it, but you’re wasting your time if you are. Watch this video to find out why trying to change the people, places, and things in your li...
The 2 Biggest Mistakes People Make When Trying To Quit Drinking Alcohol
Просмотров 232 месяца назад
If you’re trying to quit drinking alcohol, don’t make these mistakes! They’re the biggest reason most people fail to quit drinking, and they are incredibly common. If you’re just beginning to question your relationship with alcohol or you’ve been trying to quit for a while, these are mistakes you’re probably making. And if you are, they’re the reason willpower isn’t working and why you’re setti...
You Can Live An Alcohol-Free Life Of Pride And Joy
Просмотров 192 месяца назад
When you look around do you see people that have what you want? Do you see people who are in control of their drinking and living successful, fulfilling, healthy lives that are free of shame and regret? Do you feel like you could have that life too if your circumstances were different? Do you believe that if you change the things around you or your past, things would be different and you could ...
Are You A Victim Of Your Circumstances?
Просмотров 82 месяца назад
Are you a victim of your circumstances? Does what you experience determine how you feel and what you do? Most of us believe this is true. We are constantly being told we don’t have control over how we feel, what we do, or the results we’re living, and we need to look outside of ourselves for help to restore any sense of inner peace and joy. We’re being misled into believing the answer to our ha...
Willpower Is The WORST Way To Quit Drinking Alcohol
Просмотров 392 месяца назад
If you’re trying to stop drinking alcohol using willpower, you’re making the same mistake as everyone else. You’re approaching the problem from the wrong direction. You’re doing it backward, and you’re actually making it harder to cut back or quit. When you use willpower to change your behavior, you focus on the symptom but ignore the cause, and you end up increasing the frequency and intensity...
How To Quit Drinking Without Fighting Cravings
Просмотров 103 месяца назад
Most people who want to stop drinking, and this probably includes you, want it to be easy and permanent. You want not drinking to be a natural part of who you are and not something you have to fight to maintain every day or something you spend a lot of time working on or thinking about. The problem is most people who try to stop drinking do nothing but fight against their cravings to drink all ...
Quitting Drinking Is Easier When You Eliminate This Hidden Belief
Просмотров 263 месяца назад
You might not realize it, but if you’re struggling to stop drinking when you want to it’s because you have a lot of subconscious beliefs about alcohol that get in the way. One of the most common is the belief that drinking alcohol makes you happy. Subconscious beliefs are tricky because they’re hidden, and you aren’t aware you have them until you start looking for them. It’s unlikely that anyon...
The Life Of An Alcohol-Free, Non-Drinker
Просмотров 83 месяца назад
I know how terrible it feels to be a Discouraged Drinker. It’s awful to wake up with a hangover and swear this is the last time at least twice a week when nothing you do to quit seems to help you stop drinking. You desperately want to quit, but everything you try to stop doesn’t work, which just leaves you feeling worse about yourself, and the only way you know to escape your uncomfortable feel...
How To Escape The Discouraged Drinker’s Circle Of Despair With The Booze Busters Method ™
Просмотров 123 месяца назад
I know it feels terrible to be stuck in the Discouraged Drinker’s Circle of Despair. It’s awful to wake up with a hangover and swear this is the last time at least twice a week when nothing you do to quit seems to help. The frustration and hopelessness you’re experiencing because you’re using willpower to quit and fail over and over again can feel overwhelming. You may have even gotten to the p...
Why You Don’t Have To Give Up People, Places, And Things To Quit Drinking Alcohol.
Просмотров 253 месяца назад
You don’t have to give up people, places, and things to quit drinking alcohol. I know they said you did, but you don’t. I struggled a lot with this idea before I finally figured out how to quit drinking. To be completely honest, I think the idea that you have to give up people, places, and things to quit drinking is dangerous, impractical, and counterproductive. For a long time, I think it kept...
11 Signs Of A Drinking Problem To Watch Out For & Why To Avoid The Term “Alcoholic”
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11 Signs Of A Drinking Problem To Watch Out For & Why To Avoid The Term “Alcoholic”
[FREE Training Video] How To Quit Drinking Alcohol Permanently WITHOUT Using Willpower
Просмотров 344 месяца назад
[FREE Training Video] How To Quit Drinking Alcohol Permanently WITHOUT Using Willpower
[FREE Webinar] Discover How To Stop Drinking Without Using Willpower
Просмотров 297 месяцев назад
[FREE Webinar] Discover How To Stop Drinking Without Using Willpower
3 Tips To Navigate The Holidays Without Drinking Alcohol
Просмотров 187 месяцев назад
3 Tips To Navigate The Holidays Without Drinking Alcohol
Jump Start Your Journey To Sobriety
Просмотров 98 месяцев назад
Jump Start Your Journey To Sobriety
16 Tips To Help Quit Drinking Alcohol
Просмотров 3811 месяцев назад
16 Tips To Help Quit Drinking Alcohol
What To Expect When You Quit Drinking Alcohol.
Просмотров 31Год назад
What To Expect When You Quit Drinking Alcohol.
Don't Make This Mistake When You Try To Stop Drinking Alcohol.
Просмотров 27Год назад
Don't Make This Mistake When You Try To Stop Drinking Alcohol.
Your beliefs about alcohol can make it hard to quit drinking.
Просмотров 46Год назад
Your beliefs about alcohol can make it hard to quit drinking.
How To Make Your First Week Alcohol-Free Easier, So You Can Take Control & Stop Drinking Alcohol
Просмотров 34Год назад
How To Make Your First Week Alcohol-Free Easier, So You Can Take Control & Stop Drinking Alcohol
Why Willpower Doesn’t Work To Stop Drinking, And The Secret To Take Back Control Of Your Drinking
Просмотров 25Год назад
Why Willpower Doesn’t Work To Stop Drinking, And The Secret To Take Back Control Of Your Drinking
Let Go Of The Brakes Before You Stand On The Gas
Просмотров 17Год назад
Let Go Of The Brakes Before You Stand On The Gas
Damned If You Do. Damned If You Don't.
Просмотров 27Год назад
Damned If You Do. Damned If You Don't.
Aren't You Getting A Little Too Old For Roller Coasters?
Просмотров 11Год назад
Aren't You Getting A Little Too Old For Roller Coasters?
Are You Using The Right Tool For The Job?
Просмотров 40Год назад
Are You Using The Right Tool For The Job?
Meditation Will Help You Handle Your Urge To Overdrink & Overeat
Просмотров 18Год назад
Meditation Will Help You Handle Your Urge To Overdrink & Overeat

Комментарии

  • @MariMVP655
    @MariMVP655 22 дня назад

    So true. All alcohol ads perpetuate this.

    • @choosenewthoughts
      @choosenewthoughts 21 день назад

      Crazy that alcohol is the only product you consume that’s proven to cause several different forms of cancer - stomach, throat, breast, liver, etc - but isn’t legally required to have a warning label on the packaging. Instead they’re allowed to market it as the magic elixir of life.

    • @choosenewthoughts
      @choosenewthoughts 21 день назад

      Crazy that alcohol is the only product you consume that’s proven to cause several different forms of cancer - stomach, throat, breast, liver, etc - but isn’t legally required to have a warning label on the packaging. Instead they’re allowed to market it as the magic elixir of life.

  • @MariMVP655
    @MariMVP655 Месяц назад

    ❤❤❤

    • @choosenewthoughts
      @choosenewthoughts Месяц назад

      Thank you. Glad you liked the video! ~ Joe Vilardo

  • @MariP-qb4du
    @MariP-qb4du 2 месяца назад

    love this 🥰

    • @choosenewthoughts
      @choosenewthoughts 2 месяца назад

      Thank you! Hope you are living a life filled with everything you want the most! ~ Joe Vilardo

  • @MariMVP655
    @MariMVP655 3 месяца назад

    Discouraged drinkers “circle of despair” - well said. 😐

  • @Vladdicted
    @Vladdicted 3 месяца назад

    You're doing a great job. I myself quit drinking 88 days ago and that decision changed my life completely. I even made a video, by the way, because I'm really happy. Life without alcohol is challenging, but it's beautiful. Subscribed.

    • @choosenewthoughts
      @choosenewthoughts 3 месяца назад

      Congratulations! That is fantastic!! Life is whatever you make it. If you ever need help with the parts you find challenging, please reach out to me. I'd love to support you in any way I can. Joe@ChooseNewThoughts.com

    • @Vladdicted
      @Vladdicted 3 месяца назад

      Thx man@@choosenewthoughts

  • @MariMVP655
    @MariMVP655 4 месяца назад

    Thank you for this

    • @choosenewthoughts
      @choosenewthoughts 4 месяца назад

      You’re welcome! Remember, the answers you gave to the 11 questions only lets you know where you are so you have a better understanding of what to do to get to where you want to be. The results of the quiz DON’T define who you are. You do 😀

  • @choosenewthoughts
    @choosenewthoughts 4 месяца назад

    Thanks for checking out the video! Here's the link to use to schedule your FREE Consultation Call: go.oncehub.com/stopdrinking ~ Joe Vilardo

  • @choosenewthoughts
    @choosenewthoughts 5 месяцев назад

    Thanks for checking out the video. Here are the links I mentioned: To learn more about how to work with me in my one-on-one coaching program, go to choosenewthoughts.com/work-with-me/ Here's the link to the FREE video 16 Essential Tips To Ease Your Journey To Sobriety: choosenewthoughts.com/16tips/ William Porter’s book “Alcohol Explained”: a.co/d/hoQmCzr See you in the next video! ~ Joe Vilardo

  • @MariMVP655
    @MariMVP655 5 месяцев назад

    I’m on day 15 of no red wine. Thank you for your mindset help and tips. 🙏

    • @choosenewthoughts
      @choosenewthoughts 5 месяцев назад

      Congratulations! Keep up the excellent work. Check out the other videos on my channel, and let me know if you need help. ~ Joe Vilardo

  • @ar-ry7bo
    @ar-ry7bo 5 месяцев назад

    Can you prompt which supplements did you add? Im 37 days no alcohol today.

    • @choosenewthoughts
      @choosenewthoughts 5 месяцев назад

      Congratulations on your achievement! That's awesome!! I take longevity supplements from Novos Labs. Here's the link to their website: novoslabs.com/ I learned about longevity supplements from geneticist David Sinclair on Joe Rogan's podcast. Sinclair has been on Rogan's show three times. Here's a link to one of the podcasts: open.spotify.com/episode/55UlxYWPfV46f7puMkZPeD?si=q5KTVz8eSw-qFI3mjoXPLg Keep focusing on the thoughts that help you create the results you desire, and let me know if you want any help to make it easier to continue to be an alcohol-free non-drinker. Here's the link to learn more about how we can work together: choosenewthoughts.com/work-with-me/ All the best, ~ Joe Vilardo

    • @ar-ry7bo
      @ar-ry7bo 5 месяцев назад

      @@choosenewthoughts Thank you Joe

    • @choosenewthoughts
      @choosenewthoughts 5 месяцев назад

      You're welcome@@ar-ry7bo !

  • @StevenFrancis667
    @StevenFrancis667 5 месяцев назад

    Great content brother. Love your positivity and authenticity

    • @choosenewthoughts
      @choosenewthoughts 5 месяцев назад

      Thank you Steven! Appreciate your comments very much 🙌

  • @choosenewthoughts
    @choosenewthoughts 7 месяцев назад

    Thanks for checking out the show! Here are the links I referred to: To learn more about how to work with me in my one-on-one coaching program, go to choosenewthoughts.com/work-with-me/ To sign up for the next Booze Busters 7-Day Challenge, go to choosenewthoughts.com/boozebusters/ Here's the link to the FREE video 16 Essential Tips To Ease Your Journey To Sobriety: choosenewthoughts.com/16tips/ See you next week! ~ Joe Vilardo

  • @choosenewthoughts
    @choosenewthoughts 7 месяцев назад

    Thanks for watching! Here are the links to the videos and stop-drinking programs I referenced: Video: Bust The Belief That Alcohol Makes You Happy - ruclips.net/video/8DIKl9NZg1U/видео.htmlsi=kqRMztS-h_N6w87u Program: The Booze Busters 7-Day Challenge - choosenewthoughts.com/boozebusters/ Video: How To Schedule A Preplanned Slip-Up - ruclips.net/user/liveWLJPrafUvSE?si=_fnIjgjc7y3ktQRK Program: One-on-One Private Coaching - choosenewthoughts.com/work-with-me/ Video: 16 Tips To Jump-Start Your Journey To Sobriety - choosenewthoughts.com/16tips/ See you in the next video! ~ Joe Vilardo