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I needed this right now. I believe i need to get to that place of peace. To get to that place, i need a mental health coach to help me get to the bottom. I know i need it. I need that path to healing and deliverance even though im a born again spirit filled 67 year old woman.😊 You mentioned so many things for me and im basically normal but i know there is something there that needs some digging up. What do i do next? I would appreciate your help!

Thank your for this message! It struck a chord deep inside, it’s an answer to prayer. May the Lord bless you.

Thank you Rachel! This is helping me. This is where i got stuck. My childhood affected the descions i made. Then picking an abusive, narcissistic, socio path. 17 years of abuse. It will be 2 years on the 22nd that i left. My healing journey is going to be a long road. I thank God for you!

Could you open up an online support for Christians with trauma? I'm in therapy but i do lash out. Other Christians use the standby, I have the Holy Spirit, as if somehow I will be instantly healed.

Glad I found the podcast, blessings to the host and listeners 😊

Thank you. I know exactly what you’re talking about 🫶🏻

Excellent! Ty and God bless you. 🙏👑👼🏼💖✝️🛐🕊

Thank you! This was absolutely great. May Our Lord bless you. 🙌🏻✝️🛐🕊

Great information. I was psychologically abused by my superintendent, and three flying monkey directors. This term describes exactly what happened to me. At the time I could not figure out why they were the victim. Bingo

A friend of mine just shared this with me due to some things I’m going through and it’s so encouraging and enlightening! I have always wanted to see people happy and I enjoy giving, but I’m realizing That there is a point that they’ve cross boundaries. I need to learn about that too. It’s going be a journey but I’m already encouraged. God bless you.

Father God, thank you for severing all ties to the enemy while targeting the exact problem in order it may change for the better for all! In accordance with this word and I bind to hell one giving in to learned helplessness while binding one to know one has and desires the most important role to play in cooperating with change in order God his prosperous plans for one's own life to be established in my life, the lives of my family, friends, colleagues, neighbours, acquitances, opponents and the body of Christ, binding to hell every unequal yoke and common share with anyone giving in to learned helplessness while lacking to know and desire one has the most important role to play in cooperating with change in order God his prosperous plans for one's life to be established, in accordance with this word and psalm 10:9, romans 5:6, john 5:7, job 6:13, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah, glory to God ❤!

Praise God for making us take our emotions serious and learning and helping us to deal with these emotions in a healthy way! I therefore bind one to manage one's anger rigtheously at all times while binding to hell every lack of managing one's anger rigtheously at all times in my life, the lives of my family, friends, colleagues, neighbours, acquitances, opponents and the body of Christ while binding one to acknowledge one's anger and binding to hell every lack of acknowwledging one's anger and binding to hell every lack of acknowledging being angry when one's own sins, mistakes and misjudgement are exposed and binding to accept one's sins, mistakes and misjudgements are exposed before God at all times, binding to hell every unequal yoke and common share with anyone lacking to manage one's anger rigtheously while lacking to acknowledge one's anger while becoming angry when one's sins, mistakes or misjudgements are exposed while lacking to know one's sins, mistakes and misjudgements are already exposed to God at all times, in accordance with this word and ephesians 4:26-27, ephesians 5:11, proverbs 28:13, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah, glory to God ❤!

Praise God for being the ultimate healer! I therefore bind to hell one being solely stuck in or a survivor of trauma while binding one to be more than a conqueror in Christ knowing trauma is not one's whole identity in my life, the lives of my family, friends, colleagues, neighbours, acquitances, opponents and the body of Christ while binding to hell one thinking the abuse that happened in one's life being one's own fault, binding to hell every unequal yoke and common share with anyone making trauma one's whole identity while being stuck in trauma or solely a survivor of trauma while lacking to be more than a conqueror of trauma and anyone thinking one is to blame for the abuse one experienced, in accordance with this word and romans 8:37, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah, glory to God ❤!

Every day at work I listen to podcasts to get me through and today I had nothing I wanted to hear , so I prayed and asked god to give me what he would want me to hear today . And he gave me your channel! And it’s exactly what I was looking for . Thank you for giving your time to help others .. you are definitely helping me !🤗

I question how He can use me. I want to be used and healed. But so hard to past the pain of PTSD and anxiety. I had to leave my job this summer. I dont see how my future will go. I have to keep the faith but it is so hard in the storm

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Im so thankful for you. I was taken from my biological mother early by the system. Adopted by abusive family.

I am crying because this is the message I needed to hear. I'm the daughter of a narcissist mother and it is difficult. There are days when i feel so defeated and exhausted. I know giving up is not an option but I'm so tired of the emotional abuse. God is good and I trust him even when I dont see it. God bless you.

I was meant to hear this. My health is declining rapidly as I'm coming to terms with forgiveness of my entire family, going no contact and confessing for things I've done as a wounded woman. I've had severe dissociation my entire life. Im having heart, autoimmune and severe skeletal issues. My vagus nerve is what I have called it, but your explanation makes more sense. Thanks.

I’m Michele from your group. Just joined. Ty.

Ty for what you doing.

Hi I just wanted to add this verse from Paul because it literally has helped me with anxious feelings and thoughts. Just not long ago I was in temptation to take more of my gabapentin than I usually take for relief and I just said “Lord I bring these thoughts under your authority Lord Jesus” and the temptation just went away! I just praise God for who He is! Your video came up and I couldn’t withhold from wanting share this. Thank you so much “For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal but mighty in God for pulling down strongholds, casting down arguments and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ,” ‭‭II Corinthians‬ ‭10‬:‭4‬-‭5‬ ‭NKJV‬

This is really good!

Just remember, struggles, pain, and whatever yout going through is a mirror/contrast to God and His love. Look at it as a measurement of how God is the opposite of that. If you feel extremely overwhelmed and afraid, measure that, and realize that just as bad as your pain and struggle is, God surpasses that level of pain. If you're feeling extremely tired.... God is extremely strong, and even stronger. The amount you're feeling hated and forggoten.....is the amount Gof loves you and remembers you (and more than that). As dark of a situation you're in, God's light is just as intense (and more.) (No Im not saying these things are less if your struggle is less) The good news about God is, it's a win win scenario. The darker the world is and the pain and corruption of sin, the greater and brighter God's light, grace, and mercy is to those who come to Him. If the whole world hates you and you bare that weight, realize and feel that the weight of God's love and acceptance is just that big (and bigger) The point is, we no longer have to identify as a victim to these things, but rather look at them as a mirror to see that even with the darkest of dark situations, imagine that level of intensity, and greater, with God's love. Hope that makes sense.

Do you have advice for if you need to step away from a narcissist but you live with them?

Thankyou for your videos. They’re very helpful for people who don’t have access to therapy ❤️

Meeee 🙋🏻‍♀️

Dealing with narcissist abuse he came to kill steal and destroy Daily took created chaos cruelty bottomless pit, paying bills, came in my home married me strolled from me you name it he did it, Demons. Lies manipulation secrets accused me, slander, I was very good to him. I need to heal from trauma drained, told him go, I😭😭💔exactly people don’t get it, went to 4 churches for help. I really feel sick, 😭💔I allowed to much gave too much I hope I can heal. God knows it’s even hard praying I try focusing on Jesus constantly, Lot of demons in him.

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That is a valuable message, although I feel the same way inside because this is the truth, but all that storm occasionally washes away that positive thought. Thank you for your wisdom and your humanity❤

This message was so needed, thank you 🙏🏾❤️

Just discovered you and I am SO glad I did. My mother is the narcissist in my life. She walked away from our relationship two years ago.

thankyou so much for your experience, wisdom and Heartfelt intent Much Appreciated xo🥰 You're a Dedicated Woman'...❣🙏.

Hi, keep at the work. From what you said, I think you will be interested this channel 👉 #drjohnaking. I find him encouraging and insightful.

The Body keeps the Score is by Bessel Van Der Kolk?? I’m currently reading that and studying Poly Vagel Theory by Porges

Thank you so much, this is just what I needed right now and ongoing, after crying to God for help it came up on my suggestion on RUclips ❤

Mam please check your Gmail inbox if you want to grow your channel

Wonderful information.

I needed this so much. It is very helpful for me. I am like you& have the gift of gad ( as you mentioned) so please be encouraged that you are helping others. I just don't think that a lot of us that have this problem are in a place of reaching out especially when & if they have been taught to be silenced may not leave you the postive comments indicating exactly how you are helping them. So thank you for taking the risk & going the distance for all of us out here. I assure you U are making a difference. God bless you my dear!

Thank you for sharing your story! You are a blessing!

Thank you! I take notes during your videos. Good stuff!!

Fantastic! Thank you! Love the combination of your intellect, professionalism, and relatability. I got so much out of this teaching. The majority of my clients have experienced a lot of trauma. I focus heavily on the LOVE of GOD with them.

Excellent teaching. Thank you for the information. I am going to check out the ACES assessment.

This was soooooo good. I’m learning so much from you. A light bulb went off when you talked about David and his practices with God. God is our healer moment by moment as we trust in Him. And you are making such great practical suggestions for this most important “exercise”/practice throughout our days.

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One thing I love about God is that no matter where your heart is at in your relationship with Him, if you just keep even some small connection and keep your heart open, He will answer your needs in unspoken ways. It can take my breath away sometimes. Thank you so much for this, I'm so thankful He lead me to your channel at the perfect time in my life! Please feel encouraged and continue, you are doing great work!

I LOVE HOW this was posted on my birthday. November 20th. I came here becuase i struggle with ptsd and tramua abuse. I love god and jesus christ and may your sould be healed

Thank you for your videos. I wish there was this kind of gentle help especially in church but there isn’t always. The feelings you be described have been coming up so frequently and I have no where to go but deal with them alone and with one friend. They are so painful you feel you might die. There’s so much that has happened in my life and most people just don’t understand. These feelings can be so scary and shocking to people but they can’t really understand unless they’ve gone through it and there’s stuff from my early years that has been hidden from me. I constantly ask God what is wrong with me and I have had some people who should have helped me sensitively not do so. It’s actually made the opportunity for others to treat me badly sometimes. Sometimes the feelings are so deep and impossible to name, I don’t even know how to address them. I don’t know what to do. Even whilst I am going through hell a lot, I still go out and take care of others, so that makes me feel invisible. I often feel God has abandoned me in this area of my life and He rarely talks to me about my childhood, interactions with men, women, people, father, mother, rejection etc. It’s just like He keeps pushing me forward whilst I have this great pain. I wish there were more people like you who treat people with such care. God always promises He will heal me and I do not take medication and have always believed that He would and will but the pain has been getting worse and if you’re a child, you wouldn’t be able to name those feelings except your body knows them, your heart and you’re spirit. I have good days where I feel like God is so there, but it’s when I’m alone, the scared, abandoned, orphaned, hurt, bruised, neglected, abused child comes out. It’s weird. Thank you for your videos. They make a difference.

Thank you for your videos. I wish there was this kind of gentle help especially in church but there isn’t always. The feelings you be described have been coming up so frequently and I have no where to go but deal with them alone and with one friend. They are so painful you feel you might die. There’s so much that has happened in my life and most people just don’t understand. These feelings can be so scary and shocking to people but they can’t really understand unless they’ve gone through it and there’s stuff from my early years that has been hidden from me. I constantly ask God what is wrong with me and I have had some people who should have helped me sensitively not do so. It’s actually made the opportunity for others to treat me badly sometimes. Sometimes the feelings are so deep and impossible to name, I don’t even know how to address them. I don’t know what to do. Even whilst I am going through hell a lot, I still go out and take care of others, so that makes me feel invisible. I often feel God has abandoned me in this area of my life and He rarely talks to me about my childhood, interactions with men, women, people, father, mother, rejection etc. It’s just like He keeps pushing me forward whilst I have this great pain. I wish there were more people like you who treat people with such care. God always promises He will heal me and I do not take medication and have always believed that He would and will but the pain has been getting worse and if you’re a child, you wouldn’t be able to name those feelings except your body knows them, your heart and you’re spirit. I have good days where I feel like God is so there, but it’s when I’m alone, the scared, abandoned, orphaned, hurt, bruised, neglected, abused child comes out. It’s weird. Thank you for your videos. They make a difference.

I struggle with people who judge me and try to talk me out of going no contact with people in my life who have been mentally abusive. Do you have any advice for what to say to people who are trying to coerce you to reconcile with people who are not apologetic and don't take their responsibility for their part of the relationship. I'm tired of people trying to make me feel guilty for stepping away to be healthy. I'm tired of people say, "Well, you need to just accept how everyone is." I don't think it is ok to enable abusive behavior. I think it's better to forgive and love them from afar rather than continually subjecting myself to being torn apart my someone and having no boundaries.