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I wonder if you’re familiar with human design-the energy type of a projector falls very much in line with the feminine way of vocation you’re speaking about here. Would be interested to know which type you may be as I think it impacts the way we attract opportunities in the world. Great video! ❤

so glad i’ve found another amazing female youtuber who has the same mindset as me! just wondering, are u muslim? as this mindset tends to come from islam :) in my case at least

The hardest thing is convincing my husband right now he keeps using cost of living/house prices cuz we live in NJ as the reason why I have to return to work after my mat leave is over 😠

Know that you deserve a good life 👏🏾 another great video!

Thank you so much❤fariha❤

Your videos resonate with me ❤

my case no dad, no brother, no family . 😅

Love from Bangladesh 🇧🇩

Thank you so much for making this video. It was such an eye-opener what you said about judging other women, changing your perspective on that, asking yourself questions, and leaning into your intuition. I always thought I was a weird one who relied upon her intuition or what my gut told me, but when you talked about it, I felt a sense of relief that I'm not alone in this who relies intensely on her intuition. Thank you Fariha much love

Where can i buy your course? I'm dying to invest in my mindset

Is this a satire?

“Go back to your family?” What if you don’t have family?

👏👏👏 Finally someone telling the truth . Thank you for making me feel heard

Having your own business is not exactly 9-5 but it’s still working just another time schedule

You’re still working and you still have a business

Finally someone talking about this i'm so happy !!!

And what do you suggest for a woman who is an orphan and has no family?

I’m so tired of working … 😓

Thanks for sharing! I used to work 9-5 but after getting my masters, i started my own small business of dance and healing! I’m also married now for more than a year and plan to have kids soon ❤

Love this. MashaAllah

I just graduated from college and lived at home for a year after. But I am now planning on moving out into an apartment. I come from an African home where there is that similar idea of supporting the daughter financially like living at home for instance, but I feel too sheltered and away from LIFE, especially living in the suburbs. I’m a little nervous to move out because that means financially keeping myself afloat obviously and anything could happen in the future. But I feel like it’s something I should do for myself and my growth. I also don’t feel like I meet enough people, so the potential of meeting a provider boyfriend/husband seems so little because I’m not out and about while living at home because of the rigidity I have around my own time. I feel like living my own life in an apartment would allow me more space/freedom to invite these kinds of things in my life. What are your thoughts?

I love that you are touching on this! I have so many thoughts on this and even posted some on my RUclips channel. I am a single woman who came from a toxic, abusive home. Whether I was living alone or with my parents, I needed to provide from the age of 18+ as the eldest daughter. I know it's backward to some folks, but it was my family's belief system. I knew helping with the mortgage in a toxic household was going to exhaust me so I did choose to live alone because my environment would be in my control. After college, I moved into an apartment straight away. I secured a job in the fall semester of my senior year of uni so I had a plan. I worked from 9 to 5 and started two other smaller income streams. I had to go with the flow and be my own provider from 2017 to 2022. I learned so much during this time and expanded my container, but it was not meant to be long-term. Living like that was NOT sustainable! I had been working to support myself and help my parents from time to time since I was a teen. If you are a woman like me, you need to: 1. Invest in yourself! Gather high-value skills (tech, sales, business, coaching, etc.) 2. Avoid lifestyle creep. Purchase experiences over items! Pay down any debts and keep your credit card bills low. Travel and hire coaches. 3. Date WISELY!!! The only wall a woman can ever hit is a man. Providers only. And yes, if you have a boyfriend, he should provide or you are wasting your energy. 4. Create a PERSONAL relationship with God - it will keep you sane and in flow. 5. Do NOT start providing for others. Even family members. Even your parents! That is not your job. I made that mistake before and it made getting free harder. Lastly, create a vision for your life. For me, moving to the Caribbean and purchasing property was my dream. I made the move and found a man who supports that dream. I haven't had a survival-related bill in over a year and it feels amazing. I still have an online business, but I no longer work a 9 to 5. I cry sometimes when I think about how I always should've lived like this, but unfortunately, not all of us come from a supportive background so we need to design our own lives for freedom asap.

I’m deeply in love with your content and truly appreciate the wisdom you share with us. If I may ask, I’m from India, and my parents are currently looking for a suitable match for me through matrimonial sites. So far, all the men I’ve met have wanted a working woman who is open to a 50-50 arrangement. I used to have a 9-5 job but left it because I found the corporate world to be incredibly draining. I realized I was operating from my masculine energy, which was exhausting. I’ve always envisioned marrying a provider man, but none of the men I’ve met so far seem comfortable with that role; they all prefer a partnership where the bills are split evenly. How can I manifest a divine masculine who would truly enjoy providing for me? Thank you so much for your guidance.

Salam, there are many parts of the world where women does have to provide for theirself and the kids. I know this is not common in Islam but in Finland for example the main idea is that women are equally providers of the family and men are used to that. So for example these single moms are forced to survive alone because it is not common to move back to your parents either. I think this question was more of trying to figure out how to get clear and find the time to make a business alone as a single mom rather than moving back to parents.

Being open to receiving and feeling worthy is so important! ✨💕

I'm in love with this channel. Please keep the videos coming so we can be more aware about our womanhood ❤.

How to improve our feminine energy?

i defo agree w u!!❤

Wow, I got so many takeaways from this! Thank you for sharing & I love how embodied you are in your feminine! ❤️

9-5 isn't for HUMANS.

Ridiculous advice

I m a teacher. I don't enjoy my job it sucks my creative energy n i m always in a defensive mode at my work place. Now I m going to hv my first kid next month. I always wanted to quit this job. My husband is an amazing person n earns well but to run our household we both have to earn. I love so many things like painting, candle making, tarot etc. I hv also taken the courses of these. But I feel blockages in making these arts as my career. Can u plz give some insights on what kind of skill sets really hv the potential to become a career n how can we turn even these skills which I hv mentioned above into a career?

I fully agree with you. You are so very fortunate to have had the protection, upbringing, and guidance you've had. Always be grateful to your parents for all that they've done for you and how they instilled value and worth in you at a young age.Please list valuable skillsets to get. Is learning to bake cookies in order to create a cookie company a good skill to learn? I wish I saw your videos 10 years ago😢. You are so young, wise, and smart! Very happy for you!❤

Demure and mindful. Love the message you portray in this video!

The infidels are wrong

Don’t believe men and women should work together the Holy Koran addresses this- praise Allah

I am not able to decide at this time what to do. I don't want to do a 9-5 job. Please guide me I am stuck

Great fariha but everyone is not privileged. But yes i agree respecting loving herself and taking care of ur health is utmost priority. Love to all. 💗😊

I feel the same. Left my 9 to 5 in 2019. It was struggle first to make my freelance work thrive but it paid off eventually. I'm happier than ever with my work.

😂😂😂 just stop this bs😒😒😒

Good morning, can you please refer me to someone to coach me with my RUclips channel? I just started and only get a few views on each video. I love your channel ❤

I love Pilates! I’m not married right now but agree 100% with everything you’ve said. My creative outlets have been such a huge help in reducing stress levels, and I’m currently trying to find work that is less stressful (I’m a management consultant) 😅

Please give ideas for single moms too. Thanks

Salam, I lovee your videos soo much Im 19 and really wanteed to start my own business, Your videos helps me alot. Thanks for your efforts.

Women and businesses 😂😂

Yeah, 9-5 is for robots.