"Its a calm, and spiritual type of home". It was weird hearing a kid say something like that lol. She sounds years ahead of where she should be, she even has mature sounding career goals as if she has college figured out already lol.
Hajar Caraballo As a 8th grade girl whose in advanced classes I’m highly tRigGered. Most of us are advanced for our age because of the advancement in technology than how you 90’s kids were.
@@soumia7845 On behalf of me as a dark skinned person...your assumption on her description of "dark skin girl" was ignorant. She used a description I am very proud of and discussed the child's beauty. To me I would have only taken offensive had they mentioned the kids names.
Because we just are. Everyone is always saying "Your generation this and your generation that" but we are actually a group of really cool people. You just have to look past the crazy kids you see on social media lol
@@nathaliealowou8984 Although I agree with your statement. I'm pretty sure the commenter was talking about the specific group of kids that was in the video.
They all seem so sweet! I LOVE that the taller girl in floral print was so open and giving with her compliments. I hope she never loses that. Women supporting women!
@@scatrat0729 hello there! tbh i forgot about this comment lol and the video! i just want to clarify that i meant no harm or anything bad about the comment, i just tought they were adorable. i wasn’t shipping them i just commented on what i tought was cute. :)
.. some people grow faster than others? You’re saying she’s not normal. When I was younger I was taller than everyone and once they said I failed a grade and I don’t look my age actually hurt my feelings. It feels like you’re saying it’s not normal to be that tall at that age. Somethings don’t seem hurtful to say but actually they can hurt.
Lol, I'm a senior and I'm only just starting to figure out what I want to do but I'm not too worried about it. You still have plenty of time to figure that out, some people just know sooner than others.
If the two girls dont stay friends i am going to be so upset 😂 Also the girl who was 11 and was tall really is so sweet ☺ Edit: OML... this is the most amount of likes i have ever gotten, thank you! Another edit: OMFG.... This is crazy, so many likes. Tysm 😂
They’re so bright. The new age is honestly getting brighter and brighter. I’m glad I’m apart of the newer generations. I’m excited to see where we go, and what journey we’ll go on!
She looks her age. I was a tall child. Height doesn't make you look older...or maybe I feel that way because I was the victim/target of such thinking and what 11-yr old wants to look older?
Olivia • same. i don’t ship real people unless they are in a relationship or it’s pretty much obvious. also shipping little kids is just messed up! they’re 11 for pete’s sake!
You know what I notice in all these videos that the mixed or the black children usually mention skin color when describing the other while the white children don’t at all *Not trying to see this is wrong or anything just pointing it out*
You're right. It's true in most cases. I'm a Black American and noticed this as well. (By the way, Whites get a little uncomfortable when I refer to them as White Americans. The whole concept of race is odd to me. So, I enjoy toying with people. It gets really confusing when a White person is born in South Africa and moves to America, i.e., Chelize Theron. Applying the logic of the system, she is African-American and an African-American born and raised in Europe is European and all Blacks aren't African-American as they're often referenced. Plus, I'm not black, I'm a beautiful brown. Why not Brown American? See, super weird...lol)
To address your comment, I think Blacks fixate on and are hyper-sensitive to skin color because the color of their skin negatively impacts how they are treated in life - at home and in public. Whites don't have that fixation because their skin color doesn't usually affect them negatively in formal education, loan approvals, employment and housing. The little girl has been conditioned to believe that a lighter skinned black person has more favorable qualities than darker black people. Since she liked the other girl, she assumed she was mixed or light-skinned. I think she felt awkward after learning the other girl was not as she imagined. Hence, the awkward laugh at the 4:31 mark.
Just for fun: Scroll through the comments. When someone compliments the shorter of the two AA girls, thousands of people like the comment. When someone compliments the taller of the two AA girls, few people like the comment although the girls are equally beautiful. See, Blacks have a deeply ingrained issue with darker skin. Perhaps it would lessen if Whites would divvy up some of that white privilege and stop mistreating Blacks based on skin color.
QueenBee I’ve never bullied anyone in my life. It sounds like your bullying me. You’ve been cyber bullying me on any post you can. Everyone doesn’t want good for you. You must not really know me at all. I can’t play with everyone. Reveal yourself..... everyone doesn’t have compatability, it doesn’t make me a bully sounds like you are.
QueenBee lies !! I advocate against bullying ask the principal. You are cyber bullying me, now. What your saying doesn’t make sense, I wouldn’t let you play with me?? Careful what energy you put out into the world because somethings may never be taken back and know if you set up a fake account to harass nothing is ever untraceable in the world of computers. Cyber bullying is illegal these days.
I don't comment on videos often. However, I just have to say that it's heart-warming to see how open these kids are to the sciences, maths, and intellectual banter!
All these grown ups here so impressed with these kids but it proves that, yes, you do underestimate us as these are just normal children! Can adults finally stop judging kids and thinking that none of us are mature. Sure, we have our moments but mostly we are mostly similar to groun ups. These kids nailed it.
All kids r well mannered. They all sound so clear n mature . People must think twice when they say "u r a kid, u won't understand anything." Very Well said..!!!
All the children are different and special and one thing that is common in these children is that they are just so understanding and they understand the world better than their age group normally does...They could even act as role models for adults, Everybody is a teacher in our life and these kids have proved it..
the little girl with buns in her hair is so cute oml
Ikr!💜💙💙💜💙💜💙💜😛💜💙💜
so is the dark skinned girl wtf.
Full Dem girl no one said she wasn’t calm ur tits
I'm your 1 millionth like
Alli Spenceley what does Oml mean
"Its a calm, and spiritual type of home". It was weird hearing a kid say something like that lol. She sounds years ahead of where she should be, she even has mature sounding career goals as if she has college figured out already lol.
Library Adjacent I read this as she said that.
Now I wonder what her house is like!!
I know right when she said what she wanted to be when she was gonna grow up i was like tf is thar
omg wow not all kids are stupid people.
Queenofwheels um please don’t say that
the little girl who said she wanted to be an obstetrician is SO gorgeous, I'm in love with her smile
My sister says I look like her I see nothing
I know she was so adorable
@@adrianaa30 haha she does!
Yeah but obstetricians don’t help babies they deliver them 🤔
Abda Araújo same but I have no clue what that is 😭😂
4:31 when a teacher tells a joke, and I need a good grade.
lmaooo facts
😂😂😂
omg factttsss
TRUE
nícole 🤣🤣🤣🤣
dang that tall girl who is 11 literally looks like she’s 15
Ikr I thought she was an older teen
11 wowww!!! Im 4'11 and 13.
I though she was an adult
I thought she was 13-14
Mollythegamer how did you think she was an adult when the title literally said “kids”
The girl with the ginger hair seems very intelligent and well spoken
I agree. I was surprised that she was only 10!
Theres two of them with ginger hair
@@michellefasci8193 no
She just acts like shes 43
ginger?? it's blonde??
10 year old? Her speech and voice are more 18
Hajar Caraballo ikrr it’s crazy! She sounds so mature !
11
Hajar Caraballo As a 8th grade girl whose in advanced classes I’m highly tRigGered. Most of us are advanced for our age because of the advancement in technology than how you 90’s kids were.
@@SkylerPx I think she was 10. Look back at the video.
@@SkylerPx nope 10
The two black girl had such a soft and calm voice. They gave me peace
Ikr
Father: this is how I met your mother
Child: Don't gross me out...
Grandmother: DiD SOmEonE CaLL Me
Mother: No, Mom I didn't call you no one talking to you! Well kids when a mommy and daddy-
Ms.Reactz Boo LOL but that was 9 months ago...
XD
Katherine sounds old as hell 😂😭💀🤦♀️ she’s pretty tho.
JojosGaming fr
10 subs with no vids chill I’m a girl
10 subs with no vids 10 subs no vids... BrUh ....
10 subs with no vids bruh
10 subs with no vids shut up.
They all are so bright!!!
Kimberly love ❤️
Tiara Pickett yea they are
Not really, suspend your surprise until there is a higher level and our species might have a future
for real tho bro Math I terrible at math
And I am so dull
The dark skin girl is soooo beautiful and she was so sweet
Does that mean that lighter people are ugly and rude? That hurt dude....
@@soumia7845 😔you dont understand...Shes saying in her opinion she thinks that this GIRL IS SWEET
@@soumia7845 plus she said that girl not all dark skin people
Soumia your an idiot
@@soumia7845 On behalf of me as a dark skinned person...your assumption on her description of "dark skin girl" was ignorant. She used a description I am very proud of and discussed the child's beauty. To me I would have only taken offensive had they mentioned the kids names.
the two girls complementing each other give me life, it's so nice to see girls being so positive and kind to each at such a young age
The shorter one was only mirroring the tall one's compliments to her.
@@rtthomas3667 Thats how compliments work, what's the problem?
HOW DO THEY ALWAYS GET THE SHIRT COLOR RIGHT??🤨
LOL IDK
Same qn
Ikr
Curlyhead_Mya🥰 I know like HOW? I’m surprised their not surprised
They probably stare at their peripheral where strong colours are sometimes easy to detect.
The tall African American girl is absolutely stunning, she should model. All of these children are adorable 🥰
Yes she's stunning! Quite the unicorn 🦄 reminds me of Justine Sky a bit🤎😍
Yeah☺
Yup!
she wasn't even all that, don't get her hopes up it can hurt her
@@iheartshiloh6503 well she is for me .-.
Why are these kids more eloquent than I am?
😉
Because we just are. Everyone is always saying "Your generation this and your generation that" but we are actually a group of really cool people. You just have to look past the crazy kids you see on social media lol
@@nathaliealowou8984 Although I agree with your statement. I'm pretty sure the commenter was talking about the specific group of kids that was in the video.
What’s that
whats....eloquent lmao and im 15 asking this but pls explain
They all seem so sweet! I LOVE that the taller girl in floral print was so open and giving with her compliments. I hope she never loses that. Women supporting women!
M-Bot yesss she was so kind
The fact he got that riddle so easily is crazy, or I'm just dumb
It's just a really common riddle, like he said. He probably didn't get it right the first time he heard it
You're not dumb it's just like he said it's on every single riddle video.
I actually got it right away. Some people are just different. You are not dumb. :)
itsjoshyokay nah you just dumb
Jeez I,m just joking and it is kinda cool that he’s smarter than me
Ur just dumb sorry 😳
4:44
Cooper's like
*I THINK I'M IN LOOOOOVVVEEE AGAIN*
Prisha Singh seriously tho
His reaction was HILARIOUS LOL!🤣🤣🤣
Lmfao
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Too true
@Peters Eniola dont you know the song "i think im in love again" by Kat Delilah?
4:57 kiddo fell in love i can just see it in his eyes that so cute
ik right his reaction made laugh so hard!
look I’m late but that’s creepy! Don’t ship people who don’t want to be shipped, let alone kids!
@@scatrat0729 hello there! tbh i forgot about this comment lol and the video! i just want to clarify that i meant no harm or anything bad about the comment, i just tought they were adorable. i wasn’t shipping them i just commented on what i tought was cute. :)
@@sabomariana24 ah, I get it! Sorry for being aggressive!
@@scatrat0729 oh no its okay i didnt find you aggressive! its okay to ask!
Awwww the girl with two buns is beyond adorable😭 awww
Nope
JustKyah loooool wth ur so rude she actually is🤣
@@kyahhsamirahh1366 you sound jealous
Just realised after u said that. She’s Khoisan.
kyahh someone’s Jellllyyy
how is that girl 11, she looks like she could be 14
TH-BLs,kpop,blythe dolls and 9japop in my soul Truu
.. some people grow faster than others? You’re saying she’s not normal. When I was younger I was taller than everyone and once they said I failed a grade and I don’t look my age actually hurt my feelings. It feels like you’re saying it’s not normal to be that tall at that age. Somethings don’t seem hurtful to say but actually they can hurt.
I was 5'11 at 11
Lucid memories omg that’s crazy I wasn’t even 5ft at 11😂😂I’m 14 now and only 5’2
Harper Sparrow I’m 5’7 and I’m 12 and most girls at my school are like 5’4 and less o that’s sad lol
Black kids on here can identify race precisely. “You light-skinnded with Type 3C hair and mitochondrial roots in Benin/Togo and Cameroon/Congo.”
Nicole Robinson 🤣
😂😂😂omg
This comment made me crack up 🤣🤣
Im dead!! 🏆 for the best comment
😂😂😂😂
I want the two girls to be lifelong friends, they seem like they’d enrich each other’s lives 🥰
Yesss! It seems like they have a lot in common!! But I think they live in different places 😢
"My favorite subject is math"
*spits out my water*
Honestly it’s actually pretty fun once you get into it
I sound dramatic but my dad traumatized me with math
Excuse me math is the best , except my math teacher
Math needs to grow up and solve their own problems
But I love math
This channel is sooo 👏 underrated 👏
PREACH GURL PREACH 🙌🙌🙌🙌
Erica Sigfusdottir I wouldn't call 2.8million subscribers underrated😂😂
BakingFever yeah lol
@@oywiththepoodlesalready1790
😂
What's underrated about it?
GET THE HOLY WATER THEY LIKE MATH!!
this Comment Made me laugh si hard people in my house thought That I was possessed 😂😂😂😂😋😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lol math is my favourite subject too 😂
The Nineteen OH MAH GAHWD GET THE BIBLE LINDA
Nahh give them time they will hate it as soon as Geometry goes deep😏😏😏😏😏
math makes me mad but it's fun
The dark skin girl is so beautiful.
Yess! Harley is beautiful!!
Agreed
JESUS the white girl is so mature
? I mean it depends on how the parents raise her. Plus Jesus likes nature children
Edit: *mature 😂
@@heyadonaiitsdee1659 huh?
@@heyadonaiitsdee1659 Wut
@@heyadonaiitsdee1659 whaaaaa
You underestimate us kids too much then. If you go to my school you can find kids like her
4:31 that laugh made me feel so awkward.. 😂
Ikr🤣
it was so cute too, and I know her.
4:42 they prolly gon get married in 10 years or sum
RIGHT
If only it were that easy...
Bruh there both girls
Remona Hales they were talkin bout the girl and boy but anyways what’s wrong with 2 girls getting married anyway?
Remona Hales THATS a BOY DINGUS
“you still have a lot of time ahead of you right”
hah that’s what I thought but now I’m a junior and I still don’t know for sure
DW hun, you've still got time.
Oh dear.. I'm a senior and still don't know for sure
Lol, I'm a senior and I'm only just starting to figure out what I want to do but I'm not too worried about it. You still have plenty of time to figure that out, some people just know sooner than others.
Alexis Musial my name is junior
Alexis Musial Same lol
If the two girls dont stay friends i am going to be so upset 😂 Also the girl who was 11 and was tall really is so sweet ☺
Edit: OML... this is the most amount of likes i have ever gotten, thank you!
Another edit: OMFG.... This is crazy, so many likes. Tysm 😂
@QueenBee she seems nice on here, i can only go off of that 🙃
@QueenBee from where because I dont believe you!
Miss Mae Thanks girl... you seem pretty cool too❤️❤️❤️
corinthia Long ❤️💕❤️💕
Har H cyber bullying isint illeagel 😂
Her: I have a riddle!
Also Her: yOuR hOuSe Is On FiRe
Me: That is a dark riddle...
I bet that Katherine is going to be the cool girl and school president in high school
Yeah
4:50 ok-
@@RUclipsr27216 I said GOiNG TO BE
@@elenkorkmaz4075 ok sorry calm down
@@elenkorkmaz4075 wow u really answerd 11 months later
I adore that talk darkskin girl. So we'll put together and kind
cuz ur darkskin
Love Love me too she was very kind 😊
Ik she was so beautiful and nice I love her💖💗
4:31 that laugh was so awkward
Bella Mays yep
Lol ya!!!!
yea i criged sooo much ,and i was waiting for one of them to say someting
Haha-
😂😂😂😂😂😂
That one girl is 11 😱 I thought she was 14
Ikr!!
Right!
I thought she was 16 🤣🤣
I thought she was 97
Thought she was 16
That was so amazing seeing 10 year olds so well spoken and just the way they kept building each other up “you’re beautiful” I love this so much 👏🏾
4:32 most cute but awkward laugh i’ve ever heard 😂😂😍☀️
I thought the 11. Yr old girl was 17
She looks about 16 or 17
But she acts youger than that. More like 13 or 14.
I thought Harley was 13
The Alexis show Alexis same
Guest we all going to jail
*"I love math"*
At last someone likes maths like me...
Juwela Ferreira I do...
gurl tell me about it
I love math!
i like math too!
Oof I don't like math
4:32 lmaooo that’s how I laugh when someone I don’t like makes a joke
Cooper looks like he's crushing in Katherine😳
Ikr
Ikr 😳😂
I mean it was a six minute conversation
Just because they're opposite genders doesn't mean they like each other and it was a short conversation
@@anahitaqamar6479 rite they don't even know each other
Them: I wanna be a scientist, obstetrician, chiropractor.
Me: I wanna be a mermaid
The two little girls are gonna grow up to be two powerful young sistahs I can tell 😍💪 keep dreaming big you'll get there lady's !
The girl in the flower jumpsuit has beautiful hair!
The girl in the pink shirt sound sooooo mature *sister shook*
4:06 I am obsessed with her eyes 🔥
That’s me 🤪
@@itz_araija9154 is it really you? Aww you’re adorable!
@@deemotk9909 yes it's her she goes to my school she was in my class in 6th grade lol. XD
"Their probably dead and I could just walk on their bodies" That went real dark real fast.....
Looking back at this now it’s so weird too be a normal person but all these comments about you
Oh my goodness they were all sooo sweet, I can’t. The blonde had such and educated tone and the girl with the flowery jumpsuit was actually so sweet
I just love how the two girls guessing their voices were SOOO calm
They’re so bright.
The new age is honestly getting brighter and brighter.
I’m glad I’m apart of the newer generations. I’m excited to see where we go, and what journey we’ll go on!
lol
The darkskin girl is rlly beautiful
The two girls complimenting one another, so freakin awesome.
Such a great way for kids to learn not to judge each other by first impressions! Wow! These kids are so smart, articulate, and mindful!
these kids are so well spoken & intelligent✨
The girl with the green eyes looks like Maddie Ziegler!! Omg their all so beautiful. but she really stood out 😭
The girl in the flowery dress looks older than 11 but she is so gorgeous, definitely see a model career ahead
maryam bakare thank you⭐️
Even though she wants to be a mathematician or scientist?
She looks her age. I was a tall child. Height doesn't make you look older...or maybe I feel that way because I was the victim/target of such thinking and what 11-yr old wants to look older?
These kids are really specific with their dream goals!
i’ve been binge watching these and waiting for more of these videos and it’s finally here!😁
“so your house is on fire”
Lmao
maya my house did catch on fire
@@shantel_r_9173 so what door did you pick
Seba Contreras the way out
that killed me
Love this channel! The two girls were so sweet!!!
0:40 can't relate
That girl with floral jumpsuit and her partner was so freaking cuteeee!!!
Is it bad that I ship the girl and the boy
no i do to
thekarascheb to me they looked similar. I mean like siblings.
Bit weird m8
Olivia • same. i don’t ship real people unless they are in a relationship or it’s pretty much obvious. also shipping little kids is just messed up! they’re 11 for pete’s sake!
No whenever my class and I go anywhere we always ship people. Idk why
where do you find such beautiful kids? it's always a marvel to see children's uncorrupted souls.
All these beautiful confident children ❤️ love it!!
Same!💜
They need to do this with teachers or parents so they can understand that kids really are intelligent and well spoken.
You know what I notice in all these videos that the mixed or the black children usually mention skin color when describing the other while the white children don’t at all
*Not trying to see this is wrong or anything just pointing it out*
ayy gurl yeah most white kids dont really need to think about race. They both just said American like white is a given
Np... Watch -" what assumptions do kids make of each other"
You're right. It's true in most cases. I'm a Black American and noticed this as well. (By the way, Whites get a little uncomfortable when I refer to them as White Americans. The whole concept of race is odd to me. So, I enjoy toying with people. It gets really confusing when a White person is born in South Africa and moves to America, i.e., Chelize Theron. Applying the logic of the system, she is African-American and an African-American born and raised in Europe is European and all Blacks aren't African-American as they're often referenced. Plus, I'm not black, I'm a beautiful brown. Why not Brown American? See, super weird...lol)
To address your comment, I think Blacks fixate on and are hyper-sensitive to skin color because the color of their skin negatively impacts how they are treated in life - at home and in public. Whites don't have that fixation because their skin color doesn't usually affect them negatively in formal education, loan approvals, employment and housing. The little girl has been conditioned to believe that a lighter skinned black person has more favorable qualities than darker black people. Since she liked the other girl, she assumed she was mixed or light-skinned. I think she felt awkward after learning the other girl was not as she imagined. Hence, the awkward laugh at the 4:31 mark.
Just for fun: Scroll through the comments. When someone compliments the shorter of the two AA girls, thousands of people like the comment. When someone compliments the taller of the two AA girls, few people like the comment although the girls are equally beautiful. See, Blacks have a deeply ingrained issue with darker skin. Perhaps it would lessen if Whites would divvy up some of that white privilege and stop mistreating Blacks based on skin color.
That little girl w the two buns is so cute 💜😍😩
That’s was me 🥰✌🏼
I wanna be an obstiotrit obstiotrition
I always get it wrong sometimes
1:09
Omg the tall girl African American girl is so beautiful😍❤️ and such a n amazing personality.And I kinda ship the blonde girl and the guy😂
Lol "the guy " , he's freaking 11 hahahaha
Thank you🙏 for your support. They get way more than we think and hurt more than we choose to accept or acknowledge.
The two girls are so beyond there years so mature and spoke so eloquently good job parents and Grandparents👏
The 11 year old is soo pretty I though she was at least 13
i was smiling the whole time watching this :) love it!
When Katherine told that joke...I facepalmed. That riddle is too old.
That what I thought
Girl can I have a friend like the curly dark haired girl plzz I’m crying🥺😂
They all act so mature for their ages! These kids have bright futures ahead of them
Harley is literally me when I was 11 taller than everyone but she might stop growing like I have I’m 15 now and like 5’9 so Yh...
I assume that everyone reading this is beautiful!
Why is everybody surprised that these children are well spoken?.. It's normal for kids these days. Ik that bc I am one. 😊
3:02 when he says American it sounds like the kid in that one vine
Hey, im lesbian
I THOUGHT YOU WERE AMERICAN!
This is the cutest purest thinggg 😭❤
OMG the tall dark girl is gorgeous 😍😍😍😍
@QueenBee Really???She doesnt look and sound mean because she kept telling the girl shes pretty
@QueenBee Oh sorry😐
Shes still pretty thou
QueenBee I’ve never bullied anyone in my life. It sounds like your bullying me. You’ve been cyber bullying me on any post you can. Everyone doesn’t want good for you. You must not really know me at all. I can’t play with everyone. Reveal yourself..... everyone doesn’t have compatability, it doesn’t make me a bully sounds like you are.
QueenBee lies !! I advocate against bullying ask the principal. You are cyber bullying me, now. What your saying doesn’t make sense, I wouldn’t let you play with me?? Careful what energy you put out into the world because somethings may never be taken back and know if you set up a fake account to harass nothing is ever untraceable in the world of computers. Cyber bullying is illegal these days.
Angela Thank you💕💕
I love this channel you make my life better
Thanks for watching!
I ship Cooper and Katherine SO HARD
I don't comment on videos often. However, I just have to say that it's heart-warming to see how open these kids are to the sciences, maths, and intellectual banter!
cooper looked so astonished when he saw katherine i could tell it was love at first sight
GOD BLESS WHOEVER'S READING THIS JUST KNOW THAT GOD LOVES YOU AND HE IS WITH YOU AND HE DOES ANSWER YOUR PRAYERS ❤😇
I liked the personality of Harley. ❤ she looks very poised and smart.
2:45 dimples are so cute, girl is gonna slay when she’s older
All these grown ups here so impressed with these kids but it proves that, yes, you do underestimate us as these are just normal children! Can adults finally stop judging kids and thinking that none of us are mature. Sure, we have our moments but mostly we are mostly similar to groun ups. These kids nailed it.
All kids r well mannered. They all sound so clear n mature . People must think twice when they say "u r a kid, u won't understand anything." Very Well said..!!!
Wow Katherine has the maturity level of an 18 year old 👏🏾
Answer to the question towards the end:
People assume I play basketball because of my height
Ikr!💙💜
Cool glass chairs soulpancake
0:17 MY NAME IS HARLEY TOO! (Yes I know there are other Harley’s in the world but I haven’t seen a girl named Harley before)
All the children are different and special and one thing that is common in these children is that they are just so understanding and they understand the world better than their age group normally does...They could even act as role models for adults, Everybody is a teacher in our life and these kids have proved it..
why are all these kids so mature and stuff i'm 15 and having a crisis