Why do they love then discard you?

The issue is not you. It's what their values are.
This doesn't just happen in toxic relationships but let's talk about them.
If you've ever been in a toxic relationship, chances are you have experienced the pain of being loved and then discarded by your partner. This pattern of behavior can be incredibly confusing and hurtful, leaving many people wondering why it happens.
One possible explanation for this phenomenon is gaslighting. Gaslighting is when someone manipulates their partner by making them doubt their own thoughts, feelings, and reality. This can lead to a dynamic where the gaslighter is in control and the victim is constantly seeking their approval.
In relationships, this can manifest as the gaslighter showering their partner with love and attention, only to withdraw it suddenly and leave them feeling confused and insecure. They may also use people-pleasing tactics, constantly changing their behavior to please their partner and avoid being discarded.
The gaslighter may also use manipulation to keep their partner in the relationship. They may make them feel like they are not good enough or that they will never find someone who loves them as much as the gaslighter does.
This type of toxic dynamic can leave a lasting impact on the victim, causing them to question their self-worth and leaving them vulnerable to further manipulation. It's important for those who have experienced this type of behavior to seek support and work through the underlying issues in order to heal and move on from the toxic relationship.
Remember, a healthy relationship should involve mutual respect, trust, and communication. If you find yourself constantly being loved and discarded by a partner, it may be a sign of gaslighting and manipulation. It's important to recognize these red flags and prioritize your own well-being. You deserve to be loved unconditionally and to have your feelings validated in a relationship. Never settle for less. So if you find yourself caught in this toxic dynamic, know that you are not alone and there is help available to break free and find a healthier, happier relationship. So take care of yourself and never hesitate to reach out for support. Because you deserve love and happiness, not manipulation and confusion. Remember that always.
But also remember that healing takes time and patience with ourselves. Don't beat yourself up for falling victim to gaslighting or manipulation in the past. It's important to learn from these experiences and use them as a lesson for future relationships. Surround yourself with people who support and uplift you, and never let anyone make you doubt your worth again.
Always remember that true love should never come with conditions or manipulation tactics. You are worthy of genuine, unconditional love. So don't settle for anything less than that.