I love how she's encouraging mums , including her own to set boundaries. What I love even more is how her mum chose the right subject (changing diapers) to start setting hers 😆
seen malz from 7 yrs Always seen malz like a small spoiled child,,, and never thought she would be this strong ,, who talks that strongly about healing when ur hurt as hell ,,, u go gurl ,, malzzzz love you❤️❤️❤️❤️
She's not small spoiled child, has been working so hard since so many years now, thats why you me we all are here as her subscribers and fans. She only didnt know how to cook apart from that everything she has done on her own always.
After a hectic week at work, I always prefer watching Mals on a Sunday. It completely makes me feel like a family member is connecting to me to tell how the days are going. Every video of yours Mals gives us all a lesson. It might be a small one but I am pretty sure it does give a big impact on most of them who really admire you. More love and power to you.
The best part of this video is your mum’s and your conversation….I just loved it and it was like I’m sitting right there and listening to you both chatting ♥️♥️. I lost my mum 5 years ago and seeing you both just made my heart melt…I wish we could always hold onto our dear ones and never let them go. Lots of love to both of you and your little one.
I am also going through the exact situation-pregnant and getting away from a bad marriage but I feel good reading the comments on your vlogs. Moving away from a bad marriage and keeping the pregnancy and child are two different things and both should be respected.I just wished i was also getting the same support but I am handling this alone and I dont know if its you on camera that you are getting this support or is it real. But i love the fact that people are supportive for you and I hoped the same for me. Its tough but there are certain people who support and I know how much it matters. I just want people to stop judging the women always. Happy for you.
Hugs to you.. just want to say, you are stronger than ever you thought. Someday, when everything is sorted, you will realise that the decision u have taken now &all the problems and humiliation you r facing has reformed ur life for the better. You ll b proud about the fact that you didn't give up. Best wishes to you x
@@shotbyumar these are certain things we shudnt be tired of hearing ! We shud be tired and angry of patriarchy and mysogijy and infidelity!! Self love is good thing and evryone shud keep on saying that until everyone actually follows it ! Because even today people keep ( expecially women ) before themselves! Mals makes total sense here !
I think in old times father went for earring and mother's look after home that was a balance but now a days they both are working so can divide responsibilities equally and hire a nanny and avoid blaming each other
I remember seeing your vlogs from lockdown when you were like oh I don't like to cook, and now I see you learning to cook for your child,such a wonderful feeling . You are more wise now ,the baby is blessed to have you as his/her mother. I feel a part of me has grown with you ,you are an inspiration man. Love you mals
So wise that she thinks people were sitting n chilling in lockdown..whereas she was the one who was going to farmhouse parties during covid and said nean things to her audience when people call her out for that.
@@achakraborty3013 I know that, but they are also humans ,they also make mistakes like you and me,just because they document their lives doesn't mean that they cannot change 🙄🤐🤐. Mals has changed and changed for good
My whole childhood my father bathed me dressed me , did my hair and even cooked lunch and packed lunch and then he went to office because my mother had to go early for work .Even now he buys dresses for me , his style is mine .My father was always there and supported my mother to pursue her career. I guess both parents have their parts in raising a kid ..it's not just like it's your duty it's my duty .. A home is our duty is what I learned .
No don't generalize. My father is a government servant. He was the the head of his office, had so much work but still everyday he took time to drop me to to tuition. Took care of my mother when she was pregnant. They both lived alone. Every real "man" knows how to take care of family.
Same! Even though my dad never cooked , he would make sure he worked extra hours so we would never go hungry, get the best education and buy us a house! So grateful for dads out there .
Totally!! How can she just generalise it! My father has been a super cool parent and has been like a friend to me. Just coz u had a shitty childhood and parents doesn’t mean every one has. We do have a good life and loving parents.
Actually government job holders have less work to do ....not everyone but most of .....my uncle... he was in state administration .....and my relatives too.Not in everyone's case though .
So true my father had to travel so far for work (now retired).. He used to at times cook for us in the evening still does and would ask mum to rest...every Sunday he cooks thats the only day he gets leave yet he cooks for us happily.. When my mum had gone for her second pregnancy my father used to send me to school with breakfast and lunch dabba then he used to go to work.. Then come back home take my studies made dinner as well
Just want to say, you are stronger than I thought. Someday , when everything feels sorted, you will look back at this and be proud about the fact that you didn’t give in! You go girl!
I really really love the way you expressed about self love and I couldn’t agree more. We gotta live for ourselves and nobody is gonna do that for us. Its always our choice to put ourselves first so that we are mentally, emotionally and physically stable and be able to support others too.❤
Don't worry about cooking. Just learn a few fun and easy "signature" dishes which your kids will miss and ask for, time to time. Rest daily cooking you can always hire a cook for. No biggie.
Even in such difficult situations you are motivating people.. I'm learning so much from you. Thank you malzzz you are truly an inspiration ❤ take care of yourself. You are so important 😘
Never been a fan but anyway I do not really have to be a fan to support another woman, who is healing. You are doing great, Malvika, like a tigress! More power to you!❤️
Firt of all let me tell you this am so so proud of your Mom, that she has really worked hard, and she handled everything by her own self, that is something incredible, i would have not handle it alone, she's just not a Mom she's a super Mom, hat's off to her, pregnancy, delivering a baby also growing babies going to work to feed them, help kids in everything it's not a easy job, i don't have Mom, she passed away when i was 2yr old so i don't know Mom's love 💕 so whoever is having Mom please respect them and love them a lot. They have gone through a lot of Pain to bring you up in this world 🌎
Love has to flow thru someone for them to pass it to others. When Moms care for their child, they are actually experiencing the care first to be able to share that with their child. I guess this is selfless love. But it's also true that there should not be excess to the extent that one lives just to be a Mom. I love seeing rawness in your videos. 🧡
True ... I have been preaching my mom about self love, self care but she does not listen to me .. 😬😬.. they have a different thinking and may be we will also be like them after sometime.. i guess... But they should take up their hobbies back ... Think about yourself.
Mals not every father is same. My mother died when I was 1 year old. My father never got married after that n he raised me. I am 21 now. Never ever say fathers are useless. You don't know everyone.
True, My dad raised 3 daughters so bravely. I am the youngest of 30yrs, lost my mother when I was 13 & lost my husband at 30. And, dad is still standing tall with me. ❤
You all are right at some point but still yar I just feel ki pregancy ke time a women has some desires with her husband because vo un dono ka ansh hoga and iss time pe dono ka alag hona is very very heartbreaking 💔 and we don’t know the reall reason Like i feel so hurted when i see she is pregnant for the first time n she is going through alot at this time she is moving in new flat where she need to b mentally calm & composed and relaxed so i think not all fathers or husband’s are bad its true But at this time akhil has to be with her after all they got pregnant mutually
@@drishtisoni633 yes i completely agree with you in her case I feel so hurt that my heart pains... I don't know what pregnancy is but whenever I see some women pregnant i feel she should be well taken care off.. n I feel so so bad that her prime support is not with her... Whatever happened but this is utter bad .. I feel so hurt that she's going through this phase... I pray for her everyday.
@@drishtisoni633 yes we all agree ki akhil should be there with her but just remember one thing, she said so many times that she doesn't want children in future. And now she is pregnant and divorced. We don't know the reason behind it but We public started abusing akhil that he is a cheater and having affair with another woman when his wife is pregnant. That's wrong very wrong. She should clear all things. That's all I want.
Wow mals...love seeing you chill and having real conversation with your mom....i feel like this is the real you and you are inspiration to alot of us ♡︎♡︎♡︎♡︎♡︎♡︎🎉✨✨✨✨✨
Love love love the talk you have with your mom.. I always talk about these things with my mom.. I so feel the same as you.. Ours mom were not taught to say no they were not taught about boundaries that will everybody in the family took benefits from them but now as a daughter it's our duty to teach our mom everything which we have learned..cant agree more to you girl.. God Bless you babes.. ❤❤❤
Mals I just want you to know that this community here loves you to infinity…we all do and you can always fall back on us. Lots of love hugs and puchis to you and our baby 🤗😘♥️
Mals looking so cute with the baby bump... Wishing you a healthy happy delivery... 🥰 Mals and her mother convo in the car so fun haha typical mother-daughter convo!
Well said about self mom.. It's was truly relatable.. And must say the way aunt jen was looking at you was priceless she was proud and emotional at every word you said.. God bless you my friend..
Mals you should do a lot of videos like this where you n ur mum talk (chit chat) in the car/cab/flight/train/yacht etc. the energy and love between you guys are 👍💕. However, aunty is my fav 🫰❤️
Self Love is wear your own oxygen mask first. A mother who doesn't love and prioritise herself gives same message to the child , to keep ownself second . A mother who values herself loves herself is going to teach same message to the child. If we see so many women today suffering abuse mistreatment and not even able to understand what's wrong , it's because they saw their mother's not loving respecting g their ownself. The comments section judging self love is absolutely what's wrong with the world , promoting passive conditioning instead of assertive conditioning
not all fathers are useless 😢 my baby is 4 month old… but my husband took care of my baby just like mothers do… he is also a working dad.. but he was there for everything ❤❤❤❤ when fathers take equal responsibility of baby everything’s just gets better ❤
Sorry I'm talking about you and Akhil. However I used to admire your relationship a lot, girl like you and your loyalty always inspired me ❤️. But I never got lucky to have someone who has the same loyalty as me. After knowing your news i got so sad and agar aap k sath bhi ho skta h toh world is like this i guess. Love You🫰...stay strong and warm hug from my side.
Best part precious moment ur conversation with ur Mom! Ur words were magical about self- love! "Filling the cup" touched the heart! "Give baby! Give baby!🤣🤣🤣🤣 Same feelings happened to me during blood tests! Malvika turning to MA Very excited! Stay blessed!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂such a spoiled baby girl... Pls Mals di learn something from ur mom regarding cooking... Food is everything for a human... Ur baby needs healthy delicious food too... U r so blessed to have a mom like this... I wish ur baby feels spl about u... Doesn't mean u must but everyone should learn cooking for living.... Tc Mals
Red label causes a lot of acidity, or any other such. Try a organic once and with that tea Masala’s, so you don’t end up with lots of acidity in future.
i love you malz!! i am so proud of how strong you are!! keep it up girl♥️ going through so much nd still keeping up with everything is so tough!! still you are giving hour best shot and you are so full of hope 🥹🥹 great respect for you girl!!
its amazing to have maa ke haath ka khana, buts kids don't need just a good-cooking-mom to remember her.. Your role in your baby's life will be way larger and greater than the dinner plate.. Don't worry.. stay healthy and happy
Mals I went through an ugly break up and I get strength from your vlogs. Can you pls vlog more often. How’s your health? More power to you and love to the bebe❤❤❤❤
Malvika I wish you best of best in this journey of roller-coaster ride that you have been on moving on staying so calm to the storm without losing yourself as I do believe " Self-love" is a choice to give yourself. ❤️ you
SelfLove is so important! I agree malz with everything you said. I teach my mom also and now she cares so much about herself in a good positive way! She say, i learn from my daughter that selflove is so important! Your sweet mom should do that to because she deserve it to! Every mom and women! 🩷🩷🩷😘😘
Lots of love Malz….. You are an absolute amazing woman I ever know. You are strong, you are brave and you have a beautiful soul❤ We are always with you Malz and waiting for little baby…. God bless you honey ❤
I bought my house when i was 25 in Bangalore with my own money, in Bangalore also Houses are not cheap. I pray you also buy house soon having a house is so important than any other luxury item in this world 💕
No malvika.. mothers and fathers can't ever say NO to their kids for self love. No.. your child is your child.. you will protect them because they are a part of you. That comes naturally. There's no practicality in this relationship. You will realise only when you give birth and love your kid. Only then you will know how you want to be present and there for your child. Not being present will kill you inside while being there will give you inner satisfaction.
A mom can say No to child at the moment and that does not mean forever saying no. Saying no is also modelling to the child that it's ok to say No and accept a No.
17:27 NOW that's where I extremely relate to you rn😭😭😭 My mom does job(home-maker) started before I n my brother was born and till this date this woman-my mom doesn't incline on the self-care, self love thing😭😭😭 just like aunty said "only god can fill your cup", my mom pulls out the same words😶 and then I always correct her by saying NO you can fill your cup too just like you said😩 I try my best to talk her thru all of this but she just listens thru one ear n then forgets 🥲 I'm totally opposite to her in many things n one of it being this!!! But I'm gonna break this curse and change the whole narrative of my future generations🤍✨
So proud of you malhz .. you spoke about how your mom should live her life and should live herself and also told her that she will have to clean YOUR baby's poop and vomit while you 'mhalzabeth' will love and cuddle the baby ! Wow man I'm so proud of you mhalz ....great going !
Self love 1st or not, put yourself before or after... basically its a matter of the choice of an individual and it varies upon people to people... Generation to generation... Era to era.... I would prefer to change myself for my sanity my betterment thn to choose to change the world.... Regardless of putting one self before or after that is also our own choice/option to choose... We can't force someone to change according to our beliefs and wants.... Jub hum khud hi dusro ke liye change hona pasand nahi karenge to how can we expect others to change themselves for us or for the world or for the people around us.... So its all about choice
I feel like our generation we decided to break the chains of childhood trauma and become our own bold person but in exchange we remained young at heart and soul and didn’t learn the ropes or life like our parents with cooking and cleaning and stuff like that. Some of us are old enough to have our own kids but still feel and sometimes even behave like a child. I am still learning so much from my mom but I can’t imagine being a mom. So proud of you Mals! You are handling these challenges like a pro
The worst is that the government and companies don't give more than 15 days of paternity leave! Postpartum is tough and mums need the husband for help.
I have enjoyed the whole video.. it's like I am living it.. Mals you are very brave and kind heart.. May God gives you all the richest of the world...Have a happy and healthy life ahead.
Never commented on your video felt like doing it today whatever happened between you and akhil who so ever was wrong . At this you needed him not because you want because he should you are brave everything will make sense one dayy
So the third trimester is going to be an increase in acid reflux since your baby is growing and your uterus is expanding it will press against your other organs. So acid reflux is going to be there, elevate your head and sleep and also reduce you caffeine, spicy oily food intake (including tea-it will help). And try and ask your physician for pregnancy safe medication for the reflux :)
As a doctor I would also say that you should not drink tea empty stomach.. coz if u drink it empty stomach it will cause acidity and gastroesophageal reflux
Mals why would say that thing about fathers?.. it's so sad for WOMEN to have that type of thinking. MEN DO MATTER. FATHERS ARE WONDERFUL. I know you are having a hard time..but please take care of the things you are putting on internet.
Your mom for sure in the car must’ve been like “surely you’ll know once you get your own child about how to take time out for self love” 😂 all moms say this!!!!
@@Joynlife19 See What Malvika is Saying is the hard or nonsense reality of cosmopolitan Advance Mother of Bombay not Mumbai ...come to Bombay you will see Most of the Kids are mostly raised by Nannies becoz Father have to Do Work plus So called Self Love Mum also build their Carrier ...Ultimately Kids raised by Nannies ...on Different track Childhood of Sanjay Dutt to Suraj Pancholi . live example of that .. ...Most of the Teenage in Khar Bandra or South Bombay are Depressed or Addiction issue ..even Arjun Kapoor also reveal this Fact .
Malvika believe me you are so lucky to have your mum in this pregnancy time. I don’t have my mom anymore she passed last year and I am just so lost. Even if she can’t run around with me , the fact that she is just there means a lot. Once the baby comes out and you get better please please take care of your mom. She WILL NOT understand self love ... that generation doesn’t know self love
Same conversation I have with my mother these days and her reaction to it is just the same... Both my sister and I tell her the same thing and she's like yaaa right I am good I am fine you know so much you know everything 😂😂 and all but yes she takes in 10% of what we say.. that's a good start I must say 😅😅 we're trying to teach her some amount of self love atleast.. hopefully she'll get their soon 🥹
The amount of emotions we see in her eyes when she is inside the car with her mom🥹🩷 We feel you🥹 sending lots of love
I love how she's encouraging mums , including her own to set boundaries. What I love even more is how her mum chose the right subject (changing diapers) to start setting hers 😆
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seen malz from 7 yrs Always seen malz like a small spoiled child,,, and never thought she would be this strong ,, who talks that strongly about healing when ur hurt as hell ,,, u go gurl ,, malzzzz love you❤️❤️❤️❤️
She's not small spoiled child, has been working so hard since so many years now, thats why you me we all are here as her subscribers and fans. She only didnt know how to cook apart from that everything she has done on her own always.
@@DANCEftMMC dear read my comment properly,, u didn't get what I am saying
I love how she's packed all fruits and nuts and ends up eating pizza 🤣 🤟
High cravings
It's so relatable! 🥰😂❤️❤️❤️
Exactly 😂, I was like she packed all the fruits so neatly but didn't have them😅...may be she had them off-camera!
I think she ate it as snack
Happen's with me as well🤪
After a hectic week at work, I always prefer watching Mals on a Sunday. It completely makes me feel like a family member is connecting to me to tell how the days are going. Every video of yours Mals gives us all a lesson. It might be a small one but I am pretty sure it does give a big impact on most of them who really admire you. More love and power to you.
The best part of this video is your mum’s and your conversation….I just loved it and it was like I’m sitting right there and listening to you both chatting ♥️♥️. I lost my mum 5 years ago and seeing you both just made my heart melt…I wish we could always hold onto our dear ones and never let them go.
Lots of love to both of you and your little one.
You should have more of your mom on your channel. The conversation with her was so warm and effortless.
I am also going through the exact situation-pregnant and getting away from a bad marriage but I feel good reading the comments on your vlogs. Moving away from a bad marriage and keeping the pregnancy and child are two different things and both should be respected.I just wished i was also getting the same support but I am handling this alone and I dont know if its you on camera that you are getting this support or is it real. But i love the fact that people are supportive for you and I hoped the same for me. Its tough but there are certain people who support and I know how much it matters. I just want people to stop judging the women always. Happy for you.
More power to you girl. Many women don't have the courage to leave a toxic marriage. Great things are waiting for you.
Hugs to you.. just want to say, you are stronger than ever you thought. Someday, when everything is sorted, you will realise that the decision u have taken now &all the problems and humiliation you r facing has reformed ur life for the better. You ll b proud about the fact that you didn't give up. Best wishes to you x
Once your baby is with you ,you will forget all your pain, trust me,it's gonna worth it♥️
I got goosebumps when you talked about ‘self love❤’ People doesn’t even think self love exists !
Literally every influencer is like preach self love , manifest ,heal and all that bs
I'm so tired of hearing all that
@@shotbyumar these are certain things we shudnt be tired of hearing ! We shud be tired and angry of patriarchy and mysogijy and infidelity!!
Self love is good thing and evryone shud keep on saying that until everyone actually follows it ! Because even today people keep ( expecially women ) before themselves! Mals makes total sense here !
I think in old times father went for earring and mother's look after home that was a balance but now a days they both are working so can divide responsibilities equally and hire a nanny and avoid blaming each other
True..
I remember seeing your vlogs from lockdown when you were like oh I don't like to cook, and now I see you learning to cook for your child,such a wonderful feeling . You are more wise now ,the baby is blessed to have you as his/her mother. I feel a part of me has grown with you ,you are an inspiration man. Love you mals
So wise that she thinks people were sitting n chilling in lockdown..whereas she was the one who was going to farmhouse parties during covid and said nean things to her audience when people call her out for that.
@@achakraborty3013 I know that, but they are also humans ,they also make mistakes like you and me,just because they document their lives doesn't mean that they cannot change 🙄🤐🤐. Mals has changed and changed for good
Loved that self love conversation with momma 🥹♥️
Your mom is hilarious ! All that lack of self love talk with our moms is so true!
Conversations with mothers are priceless and so important.. you inspire me in every aspect...❤️❤️❤️❤️loads and loads of loves xoxo
My whole childhood my father bathed me dressed me , did my hair and even cooked lunch and packed lunch and then he went to office because my mother had to go early for work .Even now he buys dresses for me , his style is mine .My father was always there and supported my mother to pursue her career.
I guess both parents have their parts in raising a kid ..it's not just like it's your duty it's my duty ..
A home is our duty is what I learned .
No don't generalize. My father is a government servant. He was the the head of his office, had so much work but still everyday he took time to drop me to to tuition. Took care of my mother when she was pregnant. They both lived alone. Every real "man" knows how to take care of family.
Same! Even though my dad never cooked , he would make sure he worked extra hours so we would never go hungry, get the best education and buy us a house! So grateful for dads out there .
Totally!! How can she just generalise it! My father has been a super cool parent and has been like a friend to me. Just coz u had a shitty childhood and parents doesn’t mean every one has. We do have a good life and loving parents.
Actually government job holders have less work to do ....not everyone but most of .....my uncle... he was in state administration .....and my relatives too.Not in everyone's case though .
So true my father had to travel so far for work (now retired).. He used to at times cook for us in the evening still does and would ask mum to rest...every Sunday he cooks thats the only day he gets leave yet he cooks for us happily.. When my mum had gone for her second pregnancy my father used to send me to school with breakfast and lunch dabba then he used to go to work.. Then come back home take my studies made dinner as well
@@Abhijit29 the state government and the Central Government has tremendous difference of work load, I hope you know that.
Just want to say, you are stronger than I thought. Someday , when everything feels sorted, you will look back at this and be proud about the fact that you didn’t give in!
You go girl!
You need to make more videos w your mom it is so empowering…. I’m learning so many things from you both❤️❤️❤️
I really really love the way you expressed about self love and I couldn’t agree more. We gotta live for ourselves and nobody is gonna do that for us. Its always our choice to put ourselves first so that we are mentally, emotionally and physically stable and be able to support others too.❤
I love how strong you are. Every girl should be like you. You are an inspiration, keep slaying!
Don't worry about cooking. Just learn a few fun and easy "signature" dishes which your kids will miss and ask for, time to time. Rest daily cooking you can always hire a cook for. No biggie.
Even in such difficult situations you are motivating people.. I'm learning so much from you. Thank you malzzz you are truly an inspiration ❤ take care of yourself. You are so important 😘
Talking about self love with your mom. Such a beautiful thing 💖
Never been a fan but anyway I do not really have to be a fan to support another woman, who is healing. You are doing great, Malvika, like a tigress! More power to you!❤️
Yes empty stomach chai pine se acidity hoti h and pregnancy me it's a thing. So u can have chai after u have something solid☺
Firt of all let me tell you this am so so proud of your Mom, that she has really worked hard, and she handled everything by her own self, that is something incredible, i would have not handle it alone, she's just not a Mom she's a super Mom, hat's off to her, pregnancy, delivering a baby also growing babies going to work to feed them, help kids in everything it's not a easy job, i don't have Mom, she passed away when i was 2yr old so i don't know Mom's love 💕 so whoever is having Mom please respect them and love them a lot. They have gone through a lot of Pain to bring you up in this world 🌎
Love has to flow thru someone for them to pass it to others. When Moms care for their child, they are actually experiencing the care first to be able to share that with their child. I guess this is selfless love.
But it's also true that there should not be excess to the extent that one lives just to be a Mom.
I love seeing rawness in your videos. 🧡
Chai on empty stomach is equal to acidity and gastritis. My gastric doctor strictly said no chai on empty stomach.
True ... I have been preaching my mom about self love, self care but she does not listen to me .. 😬😬.. they have a different thinking and may be we will also be like them after sometime.. i guess... But they should take up their hobbies back ... Think about yourself.
i enjoyed the mom-daughter talk in d car. god bless moms. its unbelievble how much patience they hav.
Mals not every father is same. My mother died when I was 1 year old. My father never got married after that n he raised me. I am 21 now. Never ever say fathers are useless. You don't know everyone.
Thank you, some one said 😊 this . We don't know his side. But people in comment section abusing him as bad husband and very bad father.
True, My dad raised 3 daughters so bravely. I am the youngest of 30yrs, lost my mother when I was 13 & lost my husband at 30. And, dad is still standing tall with me. ❤
You all are right at some point but still yar I just feel ki pregancy ke time a women has some desires with her husband because vo un dono ka ansh hoga and iss time pe dono ka alag hona is very very heartbreaking 💔 and we don’t know the reall reason
Like i feel so hurted when i see she is pregnant for the first time n she is going through alot at this time she is moving in new flat where she need to b mentally calm & composed and relaxed so i think not all fathers or husband’s are bad its true
But at this time akhil has to be with her after all they got pregnant mutually
@@drishtisoni633 yes i completely agree with you in her case I feel so hurt that my heart pains... I don't know what pregnancy is but whenever I see some women pregnant i feel she should be well taken care off.. n I feel so so bad that her prime support is not with her... Whatever happened but this is utter bad .. I feel so hurt that she's going through this phase... I pray for her everyday.
@@drishtisoni633 yes we all agree ki akhil should be there with her but just remember one thing, she said so many times that she doesn't want children in future. And now she is pregnant and divorced. We don't know the reason behind it but We public started abusing akhil that he is a cheater and having affair with another woman when his wife is pregnant. That's wrong very wrong. She should clear all things. That's all I want.
Wow mals...love seeing you chill and having real conversation with your mom....i feel like this is the real you and you are inspiration to alot of us ♡︎♡︎♡︎♡︎♡︎♡︎🎉✨✨✨✨✨
Love love love the talk you have with your mom.. I always talk about these things with my mom.. I so feel the same as you.. Ours mom were not taught to say no they were not taught about boundaries that will everybody in the family took benefits from them but now as a daughter it's our duty to teach our mom everything which we have learned..cant agree more to you girl.. God Bless you babes.. ❤❤❤
Mals I just want you to know that this community here loves you to infinity…we all do and you can always fall back on us. Lots of love hugs and puchis to you and our baby 🤗😘♥️
2 strong women in one frame ! The conversation is so damn real !! More power to you 💪 Mals ! Keep going ..
Mals looking so cute with the baby bump... Wishing you a healthy happy delivery... 🥰
Mals and her mother convo in the car so fun haha typical mother-daughter convo!
Just wanna say that I'm proud of you malz. You're inspiring thousands of women. Love you. 🥰 Sending you and your baby loads of love🥺👶🧿
Even at this age, she is making her mother cook so much of food and do so much of work. So sad.. and then talking about self love , damn!
Well said about self mom.. It's was truly relatable.. And must say the way aunt jen was looking at you was priceless she was proud and emotional at every word you said.. God bless you my friend..
Listening to your mom talk in Kannada makes me happy and proud as a Bangalorean
I love malz mom seriously... She's a vibe of positivity ❤❤
Mals you should do a lot of videos like this where you n ur mum talk (chit chat) in the car/cab/flight/train/yacht etc. the energy and love between you guys are 👍💕. However, aunty is my fav 🫰❤️
Self Love is wear your own oxygen mask first. A mother who doesn't love and prioritise herself gives same message to the child , to keep ownself second . A mother who values herself loves herself is going to teach same message to the child. If we see so many women today suffering abuse mistreatment and not even able to understand what's wrong , it's because they saw their mother's not loving respecting g their ownself. The comments section judging self love is absolutely what's wrong with the world , promoting passive conditioning instead of assertive conditioning
It’s so sweeet to see Malvika finally becoming a mom-from realising she’s pregnant to looking forward to it
Loved the conversation between you and your mom! Reminded me of my mom!❤
The car convo is me & mom daily LITERALLY 😄 Im teaching my mom to put herself first and most importantly to learn to say NO!
not all fathers are useless 😢 my baby is 4 month old… but my husband took care of my baby just like mothers do… he is also a working dad.. but he was there for everything ❤❤❤❤ when fathers take equal responsibility of baby everything’s just gets better ❤
Sorry I'm talking about you and Akhil. However I used to admire your relationship a lot, girl like you and your loyalty always inspired me ❤️. But I never got lucky to have someone who has the same loyalty as me. After knowing your news i got so sad and agar aap k sath bhi ho skta h toh world is like this i guess. Love You🫰...stay strong and warm hug from my side.
Amazed by the confidence & precision in your Mommy's Dosa making skills! 😍
More power & strength & love & everything good in the world to you Mals❤❤
Best part precious moment ur conversation with ur Mom! Ur words were magical about self- love! "Filling the cup" touched the heart!
"Give baby! Give baby!🤣🤣🤣🤣
Same feelings happened to me during blood tests! Malvika turning to MA
Very excited! Stay blessed!
I hope you keep smiling like this.. sending you sooo much love and good energy ❤️
Loved the conversation between you and your mum 😍 it was motivating,inspiring and hilarious
You are already a strong gal, big hug to aunti also you raise a child like you Independent, vocal and confident
Why am feeling like you have a twins 😊
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂such a spoiled baby girl... Pls Mals di learn something from ur mom regarding cooking... Food is everything for a human... Ur baby needs healthy delicious food too... U r so blessed to have a mom like this... I wish ur baby feels spl about u... Doesn't mean u must but everyone should learn cooking for living.... Tc Mals
Your mom’s Kannada is so nice to listen 😇
Why don’t you also talk in Kannada Mals
Red label causes a lot of acidity, or any other such. Try a organic once and with that tea Masala’s, so you don’t end up with lots of acidity in future.
Thankyouuu for taking us along in your journey!🥺
"No amount of concealer can conceal pain" I felt that
I love these videos where you just sit and talk to the audience ❤ it’s calming. Make more of this. Much love t’ya ❤️ love your channel. New here
i love you malz!! i am so proud of how strong you are!! keep it up girl♥️ going through so much nd still keeping up with everything is so tough!! still you are giving hour best shot and you are so full of hope 🥹🥹 great respect for you girl!!
its amazing to have maa ke haath ka khana, buts kids don't need just a good-cooking-mom to remember her.. Your role in your baby's life will be way larger and greater than the dinner plate.. Don't worry.. stay healthy and happy
I'm in love with this person's mind
Mals I went through an ugly break up and I get strength from your vlogs. Can you pls vlog more often.
How’s your health?
More power to you and love to the bebe❤❤❤❤
Same here..what are u doing to get rid of the haunting memories
I am broke. And then he also moved on within 5 days! Imagine
@@nijansheebabaria1653 mine moved on within seconds..so they all are same looks like... sending you strength ❤️🌷
Going thru same.. Even he moved on in a week max
@@arushiwadhwa19 I am facing a nightmare rn…giving all my beautiful girlies ❤️ do you guys wanna make a grp somewhere?
We all can uplift each other
Malvika I wish you best of best in this journey of roller-coaster ride that you have been on moving on staying so calm to the storm without losing yourself as I do believe " Self-love" is a choice to give yourself. ❤️ you
SelfLove is so important! I agree malz with everything you said. I teach my mom also and now she cares so much about herself in a good positive way! She say, i learn from my daughter that selflove is so important! Your sweet mom should do that to because she deserve it to! Every mom and women! 🩷🩷🩷😘😘
23:33 i know you were kidding but still feels like this baby is not planned.. She is just going with the flow. More power to you❤
One point- All fathers are not same. I feel you for sure but that doesn't define all fathers. I will keep it to this.
Yes
So true
Lots of love Malz….. You are an absolute amazing woman I ever know. You are strong, you are brave and you have a beautiful soul❤ We are always with you Malz and waiting for little baby…. God bless you honey ❤
The car conversation is something I feel like we all should teach our mothers tooo! 💯✨
True
I bought my house when i was 25 in Bangalore with my own money, in Bangalore also Houses are not cheap.
I pray you also buy house soon having a house is so important than any other luxury item in this world 💕
No malvika.. mothers and fathers can't ever say NO to their kids for self love.
No.. your child is your child.. you will protect them because they are a part of you.
That comes naturally.
There's no practicality in this relationship.
You will realise only when you give birth and love your kid. Only then you will know how you want to be present and there for your child. Not being present will kill you inside while being there will give you inner satisfaction.
A mom can say No to child at the moment and that does not mean forever saying no. Saying no is also modelling to the child that it's ok to say No and accept a No.
@@ravishingtwinkle3811 very westerner thing to do.
It's practical to do when your upbringing is also western.
Girl you are strong and you will get through this. More power to you
17:27 NOW that's where I extremely relate to you rn😭😭😭 My mom does job(home-maker) started before I n my brother was born and till this date this woman-my mom doesn't incline on the self-care, self love thing😭😭😭 just like aunty said "only god can fill your cup", my mom pulls out the same words😶 and then I always correct her by saying NO you can fill your cup too just like you said😩 I try my best to talk her thru all of this but she just listens thru one ear n then forgets 🥲 I'm totally opposite to her in many things n one of it being this!!! But I'm gonna break this curse and change the whole narrative of my future generations🤍✨
perfect timing for the video as i am just going to have my lunch
9:50 wow her mom is speaking kannada 😻 Malz would love to see u talking in kannada some day .. much love girl all the best ♥️
Yes Kannada ❤
Yeahh 😍 I was actually shocked once! I had replay that part 😝
@@gmrfood yes kannadati here , Karnataka ♥️😻
@@fathimafareena1262 😃 Surprised.. she spoke perfectly ☺
Trust me I was just thinking about you and about your house hunt and here's your notification came ... Love you girl you are stronger then any one 😘
love you Malzzzz!!!!!! Your vlogs litterallyy make my day!!!!!
So proud of you malhz .. you spoke about how your mom should live her life and should live herself and also told her that she will have to clean YOUR baby's poop and vomit while you 'mhalzabeth' will love and cuddle the baby ! Wow man I'm so proud of you mhalz ....great going !
So glad to see your mom around, yum food is making me hungry ❤😂
I never knew you are so strong.. Sending lots of love ❤️
Malz removing olives from the pizza 🍕 is another funny thing ya 😛🤣
Self love 1st or not, put yourself before or after... basically its a matter of the choice of an individual and it varies upon people to people... Generation to generation... Era to era.... I would prefer to change myself for my sanity my betterment thn to choose to change the world.... Regardless of putting one self before or after that is also our own choice/option to choose... We can't force someone to change according to our beliefs and wants.... Jub hum khud hi dusro ke liye change hona pasand nahi karenge to how can we expect others to change themselves for us or for the world or for the people around us.... So its all about choice
I feel like our generation we decided to break the chains of childhood trauma and become our own bold person but in exchange we remained young at heart and soul and didn’t learn the ropes or life like our parents with cooking and cleaning and stuff like that. Some of us are old enough to have our own kids but still feel and sometimes even behave like a child. I am still learning so much from my mom but I can’t imagine being a mom. So proud of you Mals! You are handling these challenges like a pro
The worst is that the government and companies don't give more than 15 days of paternity leave! Postpartum is tough and mums need the husband for help.
I have enjoyed the whole video.. it's like I am living it.. Mals you are very brave and kind heart.. May God gives you all the richest of the world...Have a happy and healthy life ahead.
Never commented on your video felt like doing it today whatever happened between you and akhil who so ever was wrong . At this you needed him not because you want because he should you are brave everything will make sense one dayy
Mals the things you talk about self love for mothers is so so true.. i just showed the video to my mom as well 🤭❤️
Mom played the uno reverse card when Malz started talking about cleaning poop 😂😂😂
So the third trimester is going to be an increase in acid reflux since your baby is growing and your uterus is expanding it will press against your other organs. So acid reflux is going to be there, elevate your head and sleep and also reduce you caffeine, spicy oily food intake (including tea-it will help). And try and ask your physician for pregnancy safe medication for the reflux :)
As a doctor I would also say that you should not drink tea empty stomach.. coz if u drink it empty stomach it will cause acidity and gastroesophageal reflux
Mals why would say that thing about fathers?.. it's so sad for WOMEN to have that type of thinking. MEN DO MATTER. FATHERS ARE WONDERFUL. I know you are having a hard time..but please take care of the things you are putting on internet.
It's therapy ❤️....watching your videos makes me calm and relaxed...
Watching u is my therapy, feel so attach to u, u cry i cry..it feels like my di is talking to me. I love u so much n wish u all d happiness n peace ❤
Your mom for sure in the car must’ve been like “surely you’ll know once you get your own child about how to take time out for self love” 😂 all moms say this!!!!
True, forget about self love no time to even comb my hairs and see my face in the mirror, so damn busy, really motherhood is a alone struggle,
@@Joynlife19 See What Malvika is Saying is the hard or nonsense reality of cosmopolitan Advance Mother of Bombay not Mumbai ...come to Bombay you will see Most of the Kids are mostly raised by Nannies becoz Father have to Do Work plus So called Self Love Mum also build their Carrier ...Ultimately Kids raised by Nannies ...on Different track Childhood of Sanjay Dutt to Suraj Pancholi . live example of that .. ...Most of the Teenage in Khar Bandra or South Bombay are Depressed or Addiction issue ..even Arjun Kapoor also reveal this Fact .
@@rayaanaaryan2684 true,
Malz you looked stunning on the cover !! 😍
Malvika believe me you are so lucky to have your mum in this pregnancy time. I don’t have my mom anymore she passed last year and I am just so lost. Even if she can’t run around with me , the fact that she is just there means a lot. Once the baby comes out and you get better please please take care of your mom. She WILL NOT understand self love ... that generation doesn’t know self love
Don't generalize every father is different. Can't thank god enough for blessing me with gem 💎 my papa.. He is my world. He is my strength💪.
That chatter with your mum in the cab was everything! ❤️
Same conversation I have with my mother these days and her reaction to it is just the same... Both my sister and I tell her the same thing and she's like yaaa right I am good I am fine you know so much you know everything 😂😂 and all but yes she takes in 10% of what we say.. that's a good start I must say 😅😅 we're trying to teach her some amount of self love atleast.. hopefully she'll get their soon 🥹