Mom REJECTS Son's Disabled Girlfriend, She Lives To Regret It | Illumeably
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- Опубликовано: 6 июн 2024
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CREDITS:
Executive Producer: Rishi Jethi
Writer & Director: Namitha Palasamudram
Director of Photography: Honna Afzal, Drew Howard
Audio: Jackson Lennon
Editor: Adrian Neria
Assistant Director: Malcolm Dempsey
Production Assistant: Alfredo Sanchez, Jonathon Rendon, Sam Yokel
Actors:
Debbie - Corinne Kelly
Zeke - Alex Jason Lee-King
Jennifer - Christine Valarie Peterson
Samuel - Alfred Spielmann
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I. Was. Married. To. A. Disabled. Wife. For. 25. Years. Was. Best. Years. Rip. My. Beautiful woman and. Wife I. Miss. U. God. Bless you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
God bless you and your beautiful wife. I truly do understand what it’s like to love a handicapped person and lost someone you love too.
So sorry for your loss. I am a believer that when our lives end, we will be reunited with those that left before us. Hang in there. Prayers for you.
Sorry for your loss
Sorry for your loss.
God bless you and your wife. I know how hard it is to lose somebody that you love a lot.
Hopefully you good day
Whoa. Zeke has lots of guts to stand up to his mom like that. Making her realize that he's in love with his girlfriend and she's not going to split them apart. That's amazing. ❤❤❤❤
Jennifer after readnig this:
If i told my mum that the next stop i would see is heaven😅
Nah.
Reminds me of Ella from Cinderella who stood up to her step evil family
People with disabilities need to have respect and support.
I agree with you on that
Go Zeke!! People with disabilities deserve respect and love too.
Zeke is the kind of person that we want in the world my mother in law act just like zeke mother
I agree with 💯 percent...
Yes sirrrr
So true
Hi
People with disabilities deserve respect, including Jennifer who is in a wheelchair
Mine is more of learning, I know what it is like to be belittled!!!
She doesn’t fr use it
Jessica
Do you mean Jennifer?
Don't judge a book by it's cover❤ she's already having an opinion
Jennifer's dad could have fired Zeke's mom for making fun of his daughter for being in a wheelchair.
This is Dhar Mann's productions where characters are push overs and rotten characters get a lazy redemption arc.
So so true
I would have fired her and in the real world there is a good chance that happens.
Nope.
He gave her another chance, which is good
We all have a disability, whether visible or not. No one's perfect!
So very true
some people would disagree with you, as a guy, i have met some women who think they are perfection personified...
@@lithari1480 I really don't care to be honest. You should stay away from shallow minded people like that.
Well I wouldn't say all of us have a disability but a lot of us have our battles in ways. I have autism and my biggest battle right now is overcoming challenges that a person who can live on their own can. But your right about us not being perfect. We're all human beings with challenges to overcome in life. That's how I put it.
@@lulululu13 I agree
When he told his mom to shut up showed his true emotions and how sick he was of her attitude towards jennifer
I probably would have done the same thing!
You can only go so far until you finally snap….
I really appreciated this one. Having handicapped young adult kids and not being able to walk myself. This one gave me hope.
Lroror9rl
Why would a mom treat her son’s girlfriend like that ? That’s just disgusting. She should be ashamed of herself and the son should disown his mom
It’s called being the better person. Forgiveness
Not really,maybe she worries about his future or juet veryyy selfish
Because she is abnormal
Never put a person down that's in a wheelchair
Disability’s aren’t problems there just different abilities.❤❤❤
Agreed
Right
As a disabled person, disabilities can be problems, and unfortunately not just different abilities
@@asexual_amanita I know I have Social anxiety 😬 and I have DES Disorder And Trauma my dad and me were homeless he was actually a killer he umm he set a building on fire I got adopted when I was 4 by my aunts and uncle but the Disability’s are what told me your a survivor that disability helped me to realize they aren’t disabilities there different abilities now I help others that had DES and anxiety that’s my power.
😂she is jealous of him now that 😂is a bicth 🎉@@PreciousPayne-ie5rs
You know some people they never want to end up like this! Like someone could be having a happy life, married, with kids, then they get cancer, or they get in a car accident! It's not their fault and they try so hard to fit in. Just please don't be like Zekes mother I pray just please don't!
You're not just changing stories, you're telling lives!!! 😊😊😊😊😊
Thank you Zeke for standing up for Jennifer!
Everyone with disability deserves respect
Exactly but we don’t get that now days. People are cruel or think some are faking it until proven wrong
no they dont deserve respect
@@yohanasive what do you mean by that
@@yohanasive tf? Why??
@@yohanasiveI bet you have a privileged life my maternal grandmother was born in 1913 she had polio she could not walk. She had nine children who left her with 42 grandchildren at the time of her death in 1995 & 23 great grandchildren.!
I loved when Zeke stood up to his mom ❤❤❤❤
Now that's a "Monster-In-Law."
Same
Me too
Yeah. Including telling her that he'll cut ties with her if she continues being a jerk
Does anybody believe the boss SHOULD'VE immediately fired the mother after her comments in the office?
It was the holidays so she got a free forgiveness pass for that one lol 😂
I'm sorry, but I don't care what time of year it is. That nastiness is unacceptable all year round.
In real life he would've but this is Dhar Mann where even ritten characters get a lazy redemption arc.
@@sharonjensen3016True. I have seen plenty of people act like jackasses around the holidays!
@@Ice-tc5vnI believe in redemption but I also believe that stupid jackasses should pass consequences.
She know that she is wrong for that 😢 it doesn't matter what's on the outside but inside ❤❤❤
This hurts my heart to watch. I couldn’t dare treat a disabled person this way 😢
In my opinion, it was awesome the way that Zeke called Debbie out like that! The mother in law that attacked the disabled girl in @RealLife would not have tolerated her son talking to her like that! 😅
Thats really true the biggest disability is the inability to see a person for who they are
This actor with curly hair is the best actor overall
Yea I agree and the mother looked like she had drugs after he stopped arguing with her
He's not bad. But I think the girlfriend is a better actress
Seconded. The gf too
The boy?
I love his hair when I see it 😂
The story made me tearing up 😢😢 That was incredibly sweet ❤❤❤
Her father did the right thing to surprise his mother she is a good girl she saves her life fantastic message love it
🎉🎉🎉😢😢😢😢😢🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😢
Wow🎉
I had to go through this with my ex’s parents. They acted like they accepted me, but then the last few months before they forced him to break up with me, they started discriminating me because of my disability. Saying stuff like I won’t be able to have kids and that people with disabilities can’t marry each other which is BS. Yes they can. They just said that because they didn’t like me being with their son who has autism and I may very well be an undiagnosed autistic. I have mild CP which doesn’t limit me in ANY way. It’s just a slight inconvenience. His dad and grandma acted like they knew how my disability affects me PERSONALLY like I was their own kid and that I’m intellectually disabled which isn’t true. I’m very happy I don’t have to deal with their freaking damn shit anymore. Thank you, Illumeably for advocating for those in this situation.
Girl I am so sorry that happened to you. I hope you find a guy who treats you like a queen.
@@Loveroffood41 thank you. I forgot to mention that after about 2 months after this, I found someone else after some searching. The guy I’m talking to now, his family seems to actually want to accept me without going back on their word and betray me. They’re happy I decided to give him a chance.
I'm so sorry that happened to you. You deserve better. You deserve someone who will have your back and love you for who you really are.
I’m so sorry that happened I think ur a beautiful person and u deserve someone who loves you for you and not ur disability keep being yourself ❤😊
Thank you guys. The boy did love me for who I was but his parents didn’t. They were the problem, not him. He tried to get to them to understand what a great and loving person I was, but they didn’t listen to him. It even got to the point where they told him, if you don’t break up with her RIGHT NOW, you’re not going back to college. (I live where the university is at. I go there too.) I’m not going to let anyone else’s family talk to me that way again.
I don't see anything wrong with Jennifer. She is a SWEETHEART! 🥰
fr!
Exactly! She couldn't help her situation.
Exactly, what is normal to a person and to life anyway? Life and people are special and always have twists and turns.
This video hit me hard. Having a disability myself the message in this video is very true. The first thing people usually see is the disability so I am always grateful to the people that look beyond that and see me for me. ❤️ Well done.
Sorry😢
My girl is disabled and it doesn't bother me at all
I'm disabled born with eplipsy seizures as soon as I am honest and tell them the truth I'm blocked or said they don't want a broken man
@@James-gr3cwSorry. Hopefully someone will come along that will love you for you. ❤
Completely understand where you’re coming from! I am disabled myself and it’s tough to see people who see me for just my disability and nothing else. I’m lucky to have so many incredible friends who have taught me so much about friendship and kindness and in the words of Sesame Street “anyone anyone can be friends”
Zeke told his mom what she needed to hear! Parents do deserve respect, but so do all human beings. It can be the hardest thing to tell your parent that they are so wrong.
Zeke mother is not fitted
Yeah it’s really, really hard to tell a parent their wrong because they’re your parents. They say they know what’s best for you but they don’t all the time, they’re not us and we’re our own people and we all need to trust our instincts
I am happy she learned her lesson
Moral: Never judge a book by its cover.
Sorry yet another comment… I’m disabled (not wheelchair bound) and am absolutely not a burden on society. I’m a high school teacher, a PhD student, have rescued abused dogs, fostered kids, volunteered, and pay my taxes and obey the law. So yeah, shove it lady!! I’ve contributed to every society I’ve ever lived in. This actress is an accountant so isn’t a burden either.
I knew right from the start that the boss is the girl’s father.
Same
I love it when he plays sweet, sensitive characters. His mom is good at playing Karen characters.
I think that his mother learnt a valuable lesson
Respect people if you want people to respect you and people with disabilities are human beings too!
Being disabled myself I know what it’s like to be mistreated for example when I was in high school the principal found out I had a disability she banned me from future school field trips and the level of disrespect that’s Zeke’s mother showed to Jennifer is totally unacceptable no one should discriminated like that just because of a disability or medical condition!
@T_Bear2011_facts*
Why did she ban you
@@rosekatana4602 Because she was prejudice and ignorant against disabled people and it’s sick she was so bad!
@T_Bear2011_ Totally speaking the truth man
also not when you didn,t do a high education , a mother from a friend didn,t accept me for that , we were already lived together on the age of 25 he was 30 so little minded
Her son made his choice she deserves respect any body can become disable very awfull to talk about her this way that fantastic message love it
Zeke telling Debbie to shut up was really called for! 😅
How so jw
No way I could ever tell my Mom to do that
From someone who has a disabled mother things like this makes my heart how bad society is in the way they think, disabled people, or an inconvenience, or a burden to the world. If you are not the ones, taking care of them why they would be a problem or burden. I don’t say disability, It’s just a different ability that they hold them. In which makes them very special and unique❤
Me and my cousin before we watch
It all make senses
The actor playing the mom has great acting skills!! The rest of the cast was r'lly great too! Well done!
I have a disability and unfortunately, some people do see people with disabilities as a burden. This is the thinking of past generations who do not see people with disabilities as part of society.
Hello!
Many people are idiots. They are unfair. Disabled people are not a burden. This world needs MORE empathy.
I really wish we lived in that world. But we don't. It's 2024 and past time to show ableism and ableists the door.
The other day, I had to borrow a wheelchair to move around the mall to do Christmas shopping as I had major knee surgery very recently so walking around on crutches wasn't going to be ideal. I was shocked to see the amount of people who stared at me either with a mean/disgusted look on their faces or a weird pitiful kind of look.
I felt really uncomfortable wheeling around at the mall and it's opened my eyes on some of the things disabled people deal with daily.
So-called normal people fear what they don't understand.
Everyone is a human being everyone deserved respect
Yes!
@@KadariusGreenamen brother
”and, hopefully the last!” That hurts, coming from the mother.
I have a disability and there’s nothing Wong about it
Same here
Same
Who Ever Said Otherwise?
Besides Debbie.
Alex Jason Lee-King and Christine Valarie Peterson always seem to work so well together.
I can’t believe how the mother treated her! She’s still a person even if she can’t walk! I know people who are in wheelchairs, and they are really great people
Oh my goodness 😮😮😮😮😮
@@karenvanwyk5307 what? They are good people
bro her username is LITERALLY KAREN
Plus, some parents are the same way if they date someone of a different race or ethnic group. Good grief! Parents should let their kids date whoever they want!
I could date a girl who’s in a wheelchair and I’d make her the happiest she’s ever been. If my parents were to treat her how she got treated, my parents wouldn’t see me anymore
Im also a female in a wheelchair. Great video ❤
I knew Jennifer was the boss's daughter. When Debbie was talking crap about her son dating a disabled person, I thought he was gonna say *"My DAUGHTER is DISABLED."*
I know what it's like to be disabled, I am disabled, but I refuse to let it get me down, and I refuse to let it stop me. I am not ashamed of what I have, I was born with a disability, but so what, right? Being disabled is nothing to be ashamed of, because it's not your fault. You're still a valuable person disabled or not. A disability is just a disability, but life is good anyway, so make the best of what you have, and do not let being disabled stop you from achieving your dreams and your goals. Be positive and keep moving forward. And show the world that you can do it. And do not listen to any negativity from others who are trying to bring you down!!! Those people are wrong, be a positive influence to yourself and to others. Be strong and don't get discouraged.
Same
I’m the same but except it’s a hidden disability
I knew that too
i do too. Autism 😊@lewispaterson
Zeke's mother is wrong. She has a lot to learn.
The only way she'll learn is if she becomes disabled herself.
Exactly!!
Haha yeah 🤣
And she’s gonna keep on learning
And Jennifer is very sweet ❤
Thanks 🙂. Nicely done ✔️. Keep up the good 👍work 👏.
Don’t judge a book by its cover
I honestly kinda cried about this my sister is disabled and it’s not exhausting at all.
Beautiful story
I’m glad they starting to get along after Jennifer saved zeke’s mom and learned a lesson.
Respect and kindness a very important
fax
What’s fax?
This is the wish verse of Dhar Mann
I love illumiby,secret diaries, & dhar mann
😊😊
Man this is a great story I hope someday I will find the right girlfriend who is disabled or even normal it doesn't matter because I will love this person especially in my heart❤
Wow l can't believe that this lady , at her age she is busy discriminating😮
I don't waste my time hanging around "Debbie Downers" like that. I'll accept someone if they accept me. Otherwise, I say: "Don't let the door hit you on the way out!" I am done with taking the problems of ableists on board. I did that for too long until I decided I'd had enough and made some changes in my life.
This is a SOB to deal with... I'm 57, profoundly deaf all my life, never married nor had children, and I fled America over 5 years ago because of people like her - potential employers who didn't believe that I could do a job I applied or interviewed for... A person who couldn't see the person I am, attracted by looks and mannerisms rather than consciousness. I voted with my feet. They will never have a penny from me, and I will not support them. If an Indian General and a US General came to me and said, "Stephanie... I'm sorry, but we have a war to fight. We need you in service to defend our country," I'd pick the Indian uniform every time, in spite of the problems we have here and the lack of a social net for people with disabilities.
Debbie, really should understand, this is not about her, it's about Zeke and what he feels
Zeke did the right thing for standing up for himself and Jennifer ❤
Zeke and Jennifer are so good at acting and A Disability it doesn’t define you
this illumeably is a great RUclips channel
Him waiting till new year day to propose to his gf at the end of the video, me:" nah bro propose to her now! Cuz Christmas is the best year ever for anyone to propose to!"
Zeke is a nice person supportive,kind,doesnt care if they have imperfection everyone very good acting 🎉🎉🎉🎉😊😊😊😊
We need more somebody like this in the world so people can be treated Better ❤️❤️
6:47 I knew Jennifer's dad was going to be the boss of Zeke's mom.
I don’t let my disability affect me as I see it as a capability
I am in a wheelchair this is normal for me most people give me Weird looks
People are just insecure that’s all I get the same and I’m 30.
nothing wrong with you just a different ability some people don’t have
Zeke was too kind. I would have said "Mom, could you knock it off? For real, that's enough!", because honestly, she was crossing all lines.
Another awesome, entertaining, educative one from Illumeably. Keep going TEAM!
I love these stories ❤
Jennifer is an angel. She doesn't deserve those devilish horns !
5:04
Director: um Corrine, your line was "I don't have anything against disabled people, I just don't want my son to have to take care of one".
I don't know how the mother could ask the son's disabled girlfriend can she have kids? Hmmm.. let me tell you something I saw some women in wheelchairs have children and are good mothers!
Hopefully their children grow up to have empathy and not see disability as a "problem."
Everybody deserves respect regardless of their skin color or disability love is love regardless what you look like or where you come from I don't have a boyfriend yet but I really want to take my time and not rush it
I hope that you meet someone soon that will love you unconditionally 🫶🏽
Disabilitys are normal and they dont make a person the odd one out.
🥰🥰🥰😇😇Thanks soo much Illumeably can we have a part 2?? For New Year's one???
When his mom got an attitude and got upset Did he stand up for himself in front of his mom
everyone need respect and love even if they don't see eye to eye if we are all they same that would be boring. However that doesn't mean we can't respect another person for how they believe or feel in fact they might be able to explain things so we understand who knows you might change your belief even if you don't you understand them and who they are as a person. So please everyone respect one another and help bring peace to earth don't wish for it be the force of change to actively bring it. Happy Holidays one and all lets start with love and respect
I love the way this young man stands up to his mother about his girlfriend nd let she knows how he feels about his girlfriend nd thats she not going to change his mind about his girlfriend 🙏
This is a great video. It’s better than anything on television. Jennifer and Zeke would make a great couple because it is based on love.
As a disabled adult this kinda sorta makes me legitimately mad. How insane is that??????
You have that right. Sometimes that's the only way to deal with ableists.
You have every right to be mad. Society nowadays just sees people with disabilities as burdens and afterthoughts, but they’re so much more than that and capable of true love ❤
U shud never look down of any one we all deserve to be loved especially someone with a disability.
This exactly why you should NOT trust family members or people in general!!! 🤦🏽♀️
no it isnt..
Then who do you trust
And there aren't many scenarios where this exact reaction happens from a family member...more than likely they will be accepted and there maybe a conversation about her in private of her being a great responsibility
family and my fav friend?wtf@@steviejetera1601
Not quite, you should still trust other people. The secret is to look for flags. Be cautious about what people are telling you what to do. They can help you get out of a tough situation where you may not be able too. And you’d want someone to trust you wouldn’t you? Times like those you just gotta trust your instincts
Damn, better than most “life lesson” videos I’ve seen.
Im in a wheelchair myself, his mom is so unrespectfull en rude. Zeke is so caring for Jenifer.
I am disabled and I am waiting for my boyfriend 😌 ☺️ 😍 😏 I am single now, I want someone who will understand me and love me unconditionally
Yeah me too sister. You and me both.
I’m sry for the both of u may god grant both of u paradise
@@KingIbro2.6 thank you
@@KingIbro2.6 Thank you as well. It'll happen. Just have to wait for an accepting person.
@@stephaniemcmillan2290 it’s calm
Aw she's so cute
It is so sad and heart breaking when people behave rudely like the boy's mother 💔 💔
My wife was 10 years in a wheelchair with MS, we had 31 years happy marriage, with 2 wonderful daughters and ran a business.
I don't know what it's like to be disabled, but I know what it's like to be looked down upon. Because I was called half a man and I was forced to take an iq test to prove that I could have a regular job. But I didn't let that stop me, I kept fighting. I proved that I could have a normal job and I have that today. And you can do the same, even if people look down on you and say you are weak. Show them you are strong. Never give up, you can do it.
I know what's it's like to be disabled because, I have Spina Bifida and, I have to use Crutches to be able to walk straight and, it's so hard being around other kids because, you get stared at alot and, it just makes you feel insecure!
Stop yapping
@@Katy_oooooo why you so rude? Please don't be rude if you want to be treated nicely then treat others the same.
She must be related to Mrs. Carlson 🙄@@GodFollower2409
@@Katy_ooooooyou horrible woman
Generation hop really be so proud of you
That channel sucks
Illuemably is a great channel
You know I have to say that I really really really appreciate videos like this because I have cerebral palsy and I am in a wheelchair so if anyone understands what the Disability world goes to I do and I appreciate the fact that this channel tries to put people with disabilities in a much more excepting late 10:03
Jennifer and Zeke are talented but lets also acknowledge the mother talent specially when she pretends that she is whispering but she is speaking actually talking loud.😊😂
Illumeably makes the best videos ever 😊
Who else honestly thought Debbie name was actually gonna be Karen. And who else already knew that Debbie's boss was gonna be Jenifer's father the moment he appeared.
5:11-5:13 those thew seconds really hit me hard,I myself have 2 brothers with multiple disabilities and i care for them so much,i understand how Jennifer feels,people stare,they judge but it doesnt stop me from making these type of comments.My goal in life is to not just be a succesful horse rider but to also spread awarness of disabled people.
The mother should realize the girl was in a car accident and is in a wheelchair. The girl lived!