The mother in the 1st case telling her that she was "going to do this alone, because I was a teenaged mom too and they don't stick around" rubbed me all the way wrong! Because why aren't you teaching your son to be better and break the cycle??
Yes made me upset too. But maybe she being honest she knows her son. The mom can only do so much telling her son to step up and be a dad. She can't drag him over to the baby and force him to be a dad.
That man in the second case got on my nerves because i notice how they only played clips of him with the boys but nothing of her at all. Everytime she tried to talk he was over there "your honor aye your honor your honor" like he was trying to take her attention only to him.
I don’t care about age I mean I’m 33 and got fwbs in college age 19/20/21 some are relatives to my current fwbs from elementary and middle school I was 14 in 2004 and had over 50 partners most were from Church aka I’m an ex Christian since 2004(age 14) after my pastor went to prison and died by inmates
EXACTLY! My thoughs are why these old men think they getting a fully rational, world experienced, and responsible adult at 19-21? Them running around young and dumb, and being crazy enough to stick around when they find out your age, should be RED flag #1 for a life of DRAMA!! 😅
Ladies,when his mother tells you the kid doesn't look like him ,tell her what you have between your legs is a reproductive system not a photocopying machine.
@@introvertedcusp3364 whaaatt??? women hating younger women???? this has nothing to do with hate. we’re pointing out the flaw in their marriage. nevermind the age, she clearly wasn’t ready to be a mother or to be wed. she wasn’t mature, and YES that has a lot to do with her age! it’s actually odd to find a 19 year old that’s thinking, “oh i want to marry a man almost double my age, and have kids with him.” like huuuhh?? LOL! when i was 19, i just wanted to have fun and go to the club and work my 9-5 job. if i found the one along the way, then great but best believe he’d be around my age. i can’t do anything past 10 years. sorry! 😂😂😂😂😂 when she’s in her primes (early 30s) he’ll be dang near 50 🤦🏻♀️ gee wizz. men will try to justify in anyway just to try to sleep with a younger women.. “WoMen JuSt HatE YounGeR wOmEn”… no. we hate evil dirty minded men. your brain isn’t even fully developed til your 25! says a lot about a man who tries to get with someone half his age 😭 sick. it really is.
@@txbabyg Love has no age barriers .... I met my Husband when I was 15 & 9months, he was 22 (back then 70's, that was a massive issue) Soooo many people looked down on us (more so him cause of the age gap) when we started dating a month after meeting, We got engaged when I was around 16 & 7 months, we married a week after I turned 18. Had our first child when I was 24, he was 30.... We are still happily married to this day and are still on our honeymoon. It can happen, if you're honest with each other, respect each other & talk to each other, especially if there are any issues within the relationship. :)
would you be ok with your 22 year old son or daughter dating a 15 year old because you did? and would it be ok if a 22 year old wanted to date your child at 15? you were groomed in to thinking that your situation was ok. It wasnt. Yes love knows no age, but at 15 how did you know about what love was? @@oldmummaroo1576
Im definitely rooting for the 1st couple. Neither claimed to be an angel. He apologized and she accepted. The grandmother seems to be supportive. They are young but they both have potential
❤ the grandmother was keeping them apart. She kept feeding her son doubtful and she should be ashamed! I hope he does step up help raise his baby. The baby mama is beautiful and deserves a better man.
@@nikkid4890yes and no, im guessing it concerned the grandmother because a lady she doesn’t know is reiterating private information then added that sly comment at the end. The mother didn’t deny the fact she knew the lady either.🤷🏽♀️
I think in the 2nd case, she’s more upset she procreated with a loser who has nothing. If you’re going to marry older, make sure he has something and is established.
True - but even if he was only ‘babysitting’ while the poor mother worked two jobs, taking care of his sons wasn’t doing ‘nothing’ - that is important.
@@lovelisa316and he was mad bc he had to keep his kids while she went out and enjoyed herself after working 2 jobs while he did nothing but be an at home mom
I just wanted to hug that first young girl. Everyone has SOME kind of past but others AND the man she loved AND his mother that she needed made her feel rejected.
second case the dude thought he could trap a teenager into carrying his legacy and is mad it didn’t go as planned. he feels how every baby mom feels, and thinks he’s entitled not to be in that position 💀
In the second case, the guy was so annoying trying to make it seem like he’s the victim. A nineteen year old probably eighteen when they met and he’s in his thirties - he’s in the grey area of jailbait. Creepy.
its inappropriate and he knows it, most men would hate if their daughter was seeing an older man. these kinds of men never date women their age because they know older women can spot a red flag much faster than a younger woman
My heart breaks for the girl in the first case. She’s been through it, and you can tell. Maybe not with the babies dad, but in life. You can tell she truly felt hurt, rejected, and alone. I hope she is doing better.
2nd case honestly hurt my heart. She’s so young & I think she was just broken down & wild out after having so much responsibility. He preyed on her literally
"He preyed on her" she made the choice to be with him, she made the choice go entertain him, she made the choice to marry him. If she wanted to do her she could've said no but obviously didn't. Hold women accountable, we aren't all innocent
@@viviennebaptiste 35 and 18 is obviously an age gap that indicates grooming. He groomed a child and trapped her with a child. It’s not shocking that she cheated and left, she was a kid raising kids with a narcissist
@@viviennebaptiste she was barely a woman at the time of marriage. Literally a year or 2 prior she had to ask permission to go to the restroom in school. She has no true grasp of adulthood. By law yeah she’s legal. But morally it’s twisted.
In the 1st case... I get the young man's mother...I have a 33 year old son....and when his daughter's mother iscmad with him... she takes it out on me too!!
The young couple in the first case, my heart goes out to them. They are inexperienced but are in love. I wish them all the best with their daughter, i pray that they find comfort eventually from being together as friends and parents. The grandmother is a source of support, they will need her.
First case.. I have so much hope for them... they are simply young.. I love how they are both honest and claimed they are both guilty. I like them.. His mother is a good support for her too.. I have a lot of hope for the first case. Even when they are arguing, they were not disrepectful to each other.
This case made me cry as the young woman looked so sad and frightened. I know that they will be fine, I feel it in my heart. I hope they will seek proper counseling to solidify the love between them which will enable them to raise their daughter in a loving and healthy home . I also feel confident that his mother will lend her loving support. May Jehovah bless them.
The third case has me baffled just at the fact he didn’t think that beauty Queen wasn’t attractive after having a baby! The ungrateful disrespect. She is freaking stunning omg
@@CocoChanelle-1 Yeah, he is a 6, but he isn’t wearing fake hair and eyelashes. He isn’t wearing makeup or clothing designed to physically make a woman’s body more attractive… I promise you she would drop down to a 4.
He expects to much from a 19 y/o. She still a child herself. He obviously can't talk to mature women if he has to engage in a relationship with a teenager.
A 19 year old is not a child idiot. Your an adult at 18. Go do a misdemeanor at 18 and see if they take you to juvenile lockup or to an grown adult jail or prison. I bet that 18 will go to the adult jail or prison. Stop making excuses for 304. You defending wrong like alot of black women and is one of the reasons black women are at the bottom when it comes to relationships and marriage. Black women ruin themselves like this 304.
The first case wow the allegedly baby's father mother is amazing. No yelling, just genuine love and understanding. I hope he's the father coz the grandmother is amazing ❤❤
I think this judge should get a global award for sustaining family values in this broken world. I love your style, you are straight to the point and honest. Loads of love from Nigeria. I follow you religiously ❤😅
This dude in the second case full of it. He think he could control this young girl, but inasmuch as she left the kids alone,, I believed that she was tired and he was controlling her. Girl run away fast.
This is exactly why I came straight to the comments...I mean if she did something..leave her alone and let her go and coparent because after the results he still brought it up..and he talking about counseling??.He's the one who needs it..she needs to leave him alone because he's going to keep throwing her ways back in her face
What upsets me about these young parents is they think if they aren't together they don't have to be a parent like it's a package deal. If the couple breaks up then the guy no longer wants to be a dad because the woman doesn't want him.
@Ruth Quetant true. I was left to raise a severe nonverbal, self injurious global developmentally delayed autistic son alone while I had systemic lupus with severe arthritis & could no longer work. I got his father his very high paying job ,he owned nothing, was unemployed, I owned a house cars trailer etc. He took me to the cleaners then when he was convicted for assaults on us boom stole everything I owned & never took part in his sons life. Courts took his parental rights away due to his abuses but to this day decades later I still try to get him to have supervised visits now that my son is in an autism care home. He even stole my son's autism grant money . Despite making over 170,000 year he gambled it away & ran to me constantly for a place to live, $$, loans etc. Then stuck me with the loans, stole my apartment he never lived in or never paid for leaving me an older disabled woman homeless and still financing my son on my disability that isn't big enough to even rent a room. Ontario canada. Some of these men should be in jail.
No no that does not make sense ( the first sentence). Im not gonna force a guy to be in a parent in my childs like whether or not we are together. Being together in a relationship at least for a guy, doesn't mean they have to setup to the plate and be someone else's childs father if its not their own. And even if its their, they should still have the right to refuse and move on. Cause in alot of cases, the WOMEN that their seeing end up driving them away and taking away any chances for their child's to have a father. Even if its not theirs.
@Grumpy Sheep the courts give fathers either joint custody or a certain number of days a week with the child(ren) unless they're charged with child abuse or neglect. The mother is NOT with the child(ren) during the fathers time. So fathers who aren't involved it's their choice as deadbeats who don't want to be. Selfish and want to live their life for only themselves.
@@ednaatluxton4918 I will not disagree on the court aspects cause that's not my field and I couldn't honestly care less. But to call someone a deadbeat just cause they want to live the rest of their life their was is a bit over the top. No women is a saint and it takes two to make a baby. Women can cheat their children outta a father just as much as the father willing not want to be with them. Trying to tie down a man is gross and disgusting cause you feel like just cause they are athe father they should keep being there even though they hate the mother. What actually makes a person a deadbeat is when they KNOW for a FACT that its their child but they still refuse to help out and live their life. That's a deadbeat. But just wanting to live your life, doesn't make your a deadbeat. Cause then everyone would be considered one.
There been many cases where the child lost exactly like the accused father and he wasn't so the test was absolutely was not a waste time considering we know she was unfaithful.
35 year old broke dude on the bus is upset that the 18 year old he impregnated acts like a child 😂😂😂 she left them kids & the food stamp card. He thought he trapped her 😅😅
She did right she didn't have a chance to live life because he's. Older and manipulating her for a home and because she works. He's a bum. Black men love and are okay with living off women😅
Both good looking young people with a beautiful baby girl and like you mentioned, a terrific, level headed and honest grandmother. The future is theirs for the taking. I hope they make it work also
I see them actually end up getting married and starting a family because she has her head on her shoulders unlike a lot of women out here that are just chasing men for money... I think that will be a genuine marriage filled with love❤
@@KRL1999 you can't compare someone to you, your behavior & what you've done. Just b/c you didnt cheat at 19 doesnt exclude the many other reckless things you most likely did while being 19. You make dumb decisions when you're young. Either way he shouldn't have been with someone with so young
@Meenah Styles you're literally telling her she can't compare herself to others because of the things you have done lol Please tell me all about what I've done since you seem to think everyone is the same :) and that only young people are cheaters
You can tell he knows he's wrong by the way he interrupts and talks over her. He doesn't want her to get the truth out about what type of man he is. He just wants to make her look bad.
Exactly. He also was trying to gain sympathy & when she said altercation I said yep. He gives off that vibe then he seemed to have caught himself when he said if she learn to sit down somewhere & "talk" yea buddy is a clown a nasty one @ that
in the first case, the girlfriend is just beautiful.. it's just sad that no one is beside her, she is just a strong beautiful woman, and the last couple is just courageous.just happy for them
Second case this dude was 35 marrying a 19yo baby smh...of course she gon want to party she still a baby. He wanted to tie her down before she could grow up
He is a bully, the guy is a narcissist. Why is he talking when she is talking? He wants to control her, I hope by this time the relationship is over. Hubby is a bum!
Case#1: It’s definitely a NYC hood love story. They maybe young, but you can tell they love each other deeply and unconditionally. Overall, I’m glad the results worked out for the better. I pray they be a happy family.
If a man j walk at 18 they don't say he's not old enough to not be detained. Sometimes we as men need to allow a woman to feel what she's supposed to feel so she can grow.
I pray that Lacy is ok. She seems so tough but u can truly see the love and hurt. I honestly hope they make it with their beautiful little girl ❣️❣️❣️🥰
This man is just insecure because he’s so much older than her and he doesn’t want to work he wants to use her and he’s upset because he’s now getting played
The first case, when I saw the grandmother, I knew the baby was his. DNA is a BEAUTIFUL thing, your child could look like anyone in your family. FACT!!!!!
It’s still suspect for a 35 year old to be dating a 19 year old and that’s just when they got married not when they got together I’m sure he was either sleeping with her or prepping her well before
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
Have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about two years ago, but i could not let her go, so i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back, now we are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.
Like the second case, I have two sons. They are 18 months apart. This case reminds me of when my youngest son was getting married. The deacon had us sitting in the pews, before the rehearsal, and she wanted us to tell her which side we were on and how we were related to the bride or groom. When it got to me I said I was the mother of the groom. My ex was sitting behind me and I turned to him and said, " Guess this is as good a time as any but you're not the father." He said, "Yeah, right." The deacon was staring at us and I said I was only kidding. Everyone laughed. Guess I shouldn't have said it in a church, could've been struck with a bolt of lightning. But I just couldn't resist.😂
An older man can't expect a younger woman to grow up and mature in a manner he thinks she should. However, because a woman enters motherhood at a young age, doesn't equate to her being ready to assume the resposibility of being a mother that can mother her children. When you meet them young this could be the outcome. It's heartbreaking for the children when one parent constantly pushes the child away. And the child may grow up feeling unwanted and unloved.
This is absolutely 100% not true I disagree with you 1,000%😊 if you think about it more times than not they always say a woman matures faster than a man at least by 7 years So she's 21 years old and you add in the 7-year grace period that would put her at 28 years old far as maturity-wise... And it has been so proven so many times on this show that there are a lot of women that do think a lot further than the male counterparts that are on this show... She knows what she's doing and at the end of the day she was just probably using this man I haven't watched the entire video just yet but just by that point right there I have to say you're absolutely incorrect just by societal natures. - I don't mean to send any bad way I hope you have an amazing day😊
I'll put my 2 sense in ... from what's going on in today's society, it's facts that older men go for the younger chicks cause they want children and a traditional wife. Seems he picked one that isn't wife material due to she still wanted to be out in the streets. Also seems he isn't doing his part either which is why he put up with her cheating, a real man would've just divorced and basically have full custody of the children. She's now 21 and seems to have gotten that "party" phase outta her now and she wants to work it out so it's good for both of them to just stay together and be a family. Men need to watch who they give their seed to so there isn't drama later. Today's modern chicks really making it hard for the good women out there.
@@rickrolledtruth5834 super true very very direct point... This is all men want Most men want a traditional woman but women don't want to listen to the ones of a man they always want the mantic or form to them... " They always say I need a man that understands my feelings in my head" they never say that I'm a woman that's going to be there for my man no matter what... I'm going to be his safe space for when he comes home I'm going to cook for my man.... Because for some odd reason cooking for a man seems to be a peasant thing no it's a way a woman can show her appreciation for that man I'm going to a tangent but good point that you made!
@@rickrolledtruth5834How did he want a traditional wife and she’s working two jobs and he’s sitting at home with the children? Older men go for younger women to control them before they mature into full adults. No do not add imaginary years that’s not how mental development works.😂 humans don’t reach full adulthood until they’re 25 when their frontal lobe matures.
The first case, they are so young and so much to learn about life, but looks like they take responsibility taking care the kids. I wish all the best for their beautiful family ❤
19:07 soooo he wants a trophy! It's what a parent does. He is really coming across as a dusty. How does your pregnant partner work two jobs and you have NONE! NAHHHHH
The second case gives me the creeps. It looks like to me like the husband is a lazy control freak. Since he knew no women his age would put up with his non-sense, he found himself a teenager he could manipulate into marrying him and have his children. Once he realized she wouldn’t put up with his lazy, controlling ways either, he pulled the “I’m not even sure those kids are mine” card. Heck he even tried to control her in the courtroom by interrupting her pretty much every single time she started to speak. Also him acting like he should get a medal for doing what a dad is supposed to be doing, makes me so angry. He is only doing it because his wife forced him to do it by leaving him alone with the HIS kids. He wouldn’t pull his weight when she was around. She was working two jobs, while he was sitting at home unemployed (I’m a bit disappointed the judge didn’t get on him about that a bit harsher). I bet once she was coming home from those 2 jobs, she still had to do the housework. I can’t see this guy doing “a wife’s job” at home. It would not surprise me if the husband had a plan in the back of his mind already when he filed the paternity case. Here is my thought: Since he can’t control his wife the way he wants to, he uses the court system to establish paternity and then files for permanent sole custody of the boys. I think he hopes to use the boys to get control back over his wife. All of this has NOTHING TO DO with love for his wife and kids. All he wants is control. The dude is a total creep.
In the second case, I think he tripped that young girl made her think he was gonna take care of her and everything was gonna be OK but when she got with him, she realize he was lazy and he thought he could get her pregnant and she was gonna be still in love. She would put up with him and she fooled him.😂😂
Felt bad for the young woman who had to take 2 jobs being pregnant to support their family, seems she was doing it all alone until she got tired and left. Send him to work, he has so much stories of how bad she is, taking no accountability for his gambling and lazyness. He didn't care all those years she did all by herself.
Case#3: Am so happy for this young couple. They have been together since the 10th grade so they were probably too young and not ready for marriage. The guy did confess that he was not ready for another child especially since they were not in a good place. I am soo happy how he went over to her and kissed her. You can see that they love each other. He must understand that she may have cheated because he did not make her feel beautiful anymore and that can really hurt a young woman
@@wessideATL1 she’s young minded have you not been 19 before? Anything with teen on it should be too young for a 30+ year old man… She can’t even have a drink at the bar let alone be responsible. Y’all are just sick and want to date children
@Superstarrr I was 19 in the Army messing around with a 30 sumn year old civilian and I was just fine till I met my wife... We been together since we were 22 and now we both 50...
I get it, in the first case she does not want to be bothered with his inconsistency and/or denial of her baby. All that back and forth is unnecessary when a person trying to move on, you gone now you back. All help is not good help physically, emotionally, mentally nor financially.😢
THESE GROWN MEN WONT LOOK FOR THEIR AGE GROUP; WHY ??? THEN THEY SEEMS TO CONTROL THESE LITTLE KIDS THEY MARRY; WHEN I WAS 24 I DIDN'T KNOW WHAT I WAS DOING
@@suavelosofficial8639 yes people do women especially these teachers make the news all the time. Maybe you just need to remove yourself from the circle you're in. A 19 year is a 19 year old whether it's a male or female. He trying to play victim when he was dating someone literally a year out of high school.
I feel really sad for the girl in the first vid. She is genuinely hurt and crying like she need the baby's father by her side and need it to put her hear on his shoulder and cry. She is beautiful so is her baby.
These poor kids ain't even grown and trying to navigate their way through having kids. The first girl seems like she hasn't felt what it's like to be loved and nurtured by a father... Sad to watch her in so much pain...🙏🏾
Evening Judge! I must say you have a very challenging Platform! Following you for a short time and I see that you are very strong mentally and emotionally, which I not only Respect you, but I'm more impress with the fact you let them know theirs a Innocent ( Child ) that will be scarred for the rest of there life. Two thumbs up to you Young Lady 🌹
2nd case: judge got onto that man for np good reason...he was explaining what he was doing when she walked out on him...when women make that argument mo one says "that's what you're supposed to do" Also...bruh..you had NO BUSINESS with a girl that young
@@viviennebaptiste where did I place any blame on the guy? I clearly stated that he was too old for her. Point blank period. Reading is fundamental. Don’t place smoke where’s no fire cause sis/ bruh you won’t win 🥴
Cowan vs. Cowan was amazing for them to be young. I'm glad they are going to be a family again. May God bless them with much love, success, stability, and a steady and strong foundation 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💞💞💞💞🎉👏👏👏
I think learning about attachment styles and love languages is crucial to the success of any relationship. This first young lady clearly has an attachment style that means when she pushes people away, she is actually hoping you will break down the walls she puts up. They fear abandonment so much they would rather leave you first. To anyone like this, you are always worth loving. Sometimes people don't break down your walls BECAUSE they love you, BECAUSE you told them no and they respect your privacy and autonomy. You have to be honest and vulnerable about what you REALLY want other people to do in order to show their love and commitment to you, which is hard, but worth it.
Every time I watch this one, the first case gets to me... For him to "know" her so well, how could he not see her??? He obviously wasn't listening.... Just so so very sad 😢
First case they both need to grow up, Happy to see that his mom speaks the truth about them both being jealous and isn't only taking her sons side blindly ! Last I checked even if he is a father you can't force anyone to sign a birth certificate. They don't need to be together or in a relationship at all until they can learn to grow up and focus on what's important. The child.I love this judge But I also feel like she's putting words in their mouths and giving them Excuses that they're not saying Out of their own mouth
These kids are killing me!! PLEASE parents... Please teach your children that love shouldn't hurt. It shouldn't make you feel bad or sad or angry or lonely. Real love is uplifting and brings light to the darkness. Even a good relationship is work every day but you can feel how much it's worth it at the end of EVERY day!
I was 18 and my husband was 28 when we got married and we have been together for 33+ years and have 3 grown sons so her being 19 if she loves her man and wants the family she made she would be there. I would never walk out on my kids ever.
Have to say it was hard to give his doubt any merit whatsoever. You'd have to be blind to not see his baby looks EXACTLY like him. I mean... come on, look at his unique nose shape.
*they don't know who their father is, thank God mothers give birth otherwise these men would be roaming around the world searching for their child's mother*
The problem is not marrying young, is about maturity. Some people are young & mature while others are young & immature. My parents married young, my cousins married young, many people I know married young because they were mature enough to handle it
First case, she is really tough young lady, so young, just 19 and she has to do all that alone, and she has so much inside her, I hope someone let ear listen to everything she is holding in her chest. And she is so beautiful
History repeats itself in more ways than we think. His mother 36 and son 20. She had him at 16 now he is in same situation with his young gf. But that nose is identical lol
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The third one, that baby looks 220% exactly like his father.
Right because the facial futures are too similar
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Lol .... them eyes
@@rickrolledtruth5834it's the whole face😂😂
I said the same... the baby is just lighter in skin tone but has that mans WHOLE face
The mother in the 1st case telling her that she was "going to do this alone, because I was a teenaged mom too and they don't stick around" rubbed me all the way wrong! Because why aren't you teaching your son to be better and break the cycle??
That pist me offffffff that lil boy a mommy's boy
Yes made me upset too. But maybe she being honest she knows her son. The mom can only do so much telling her son to step up and be a dad. She can't drag him over to the baby and force him to be a dad.
Agreed
Well, blacks have a 57.6% fatherless children rate, so she's betting on the odds
Thought i was the only one that caught that. Truly sad that some parents can’t hold their children accountable
That man in the second case got on my nerves because i notice how they only played clips of him with the boys but nothing of her at all. Everytime she tried to talk he was over there "your honor aye your honor your honor" like he was trying to take her attention only to him.
Yes he did just that
That’s what Narcissist do. It’s all about the man. They always start and dish what they can’t take
@@ceciliaene536 oh I know I dealt with alot over the years
The first case I’m glad the young man apologized. That was beautiful to see.
As a 37yr old woman who has a 19yr old son, the second case gave me the heebie jeebies. That age gap is all kinds of wrong.
Preach.
I don’t care about age I mean I’m 33 and got fwbs in college age 19/20/21 some are relatives to my current fwbs from elementary and middle school I was 14 in 2004 and had over 50 partners most were from
Church aka I’m an ex Christian since 2004(age 14) after my pastor went to prison and died by inmates
@@AcornSmokes420 yikes man
She was 16 when he got with her HE NEEDS TO GO TO JAIL‼️‼️‼️‼️
EXACTLY! My thoughs are why these old men think they getting a fully rational, world experienced, and responsible adult at 19-21? Them running around young and dumb, and being crazy enough to stick around when they find out your age, should be RED flag #1 for a life of DRAMA!! 😅
In the first case, the child is absolutely beautiful!
She SO cute 🥰
Her mother is a beautiful young lady also.
What about the last case?
@@April-201..not as cute.
Ladies,when his mother tells you the kid doesn't look like him ,tell her what you have between your legs is a reproductive system not a photocopying machine.
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Sad that the girl in the first case had no one beside her.
She did say she's been independent for so long...many don't know how to act /feel once someone is genuinely trying to help/reach out...
The young lady is lost. I wonder if she was in the care system and never had a family. She seems so very lonely
His mom genuinely seems to care about her
She pushed them away she definitely said she ignored the mom messages
That is awfully sad. You can tell she feels alone
*Marries child*
*gets mad child acts like child*
Married older man, knew she was too young for him chose to entertain it
@@viviennebaptisteShe was a teenager stop being male identified older women HATE younger women and it’s sad
@@introvertedcusp3364 whaaatt??? women hating younger women???? this has nothing to do with hate. we’re pointing out the flaw in their marriage. nevermind the age, she clearly wasn’t ready to be a mother or to be wed. she wasn’t mature, and YES that has a lot to do with her age! it’s actually odd to find a 19 year old that’s thinking, “oh i want to marry a man almost double my age, and have kids with him.” like huuuhh?? LOL! when i was 19, i just wanted to have fun and go to the club and work my 9-5 job. if i found the one along the way, then great but best believe he’d be around my age. i can’t do anything past 10 years. sorry! 😂😂😂😂😂 when she’s in her primes (early 30s) he’ll be dang near 50 🤦🏻♀️ gee wizz. men will try to justify in anyway just to try to sleep with a younger women.. “WoMen JuSt HatE YounGeR wOmEn”… no. we hate evil dirty minded men. your brain isn’t even fully developed til your 25! says a lot about a man who tries to get with someone half his age 😭 sick. it really is.
@@txbabyg Love has no age barriers .... I met my Husband when I was 15 & 9months, he was 22 (back then 70's, that was a massive issue)
Soooo many people looked down on us (more so him cause of the age gap) when we started dating a month after meeting,
We got engaged when I was around 16 & 7 months, we married a week after I turned 18.
Had our first child when I was 24, he was 30.... We are still happily married to this day and are still on our honeymoon.
It can happen, if you're honest with each other, respect each other & talk to each other, especially if there are any issues within the relationship. :)
would you be ok with your 22 year old son or daughter dating a 15 year old because you did? and would it be ok if a 22 year old wanted to date your child at 15? you were groomed in to thinking that your situation was ok. It wasnt. Yes love knows no age, but at 15 how did you know about what love was? @@oldmummaroo1576
Im definitely rooting for the 1st couple. Neither claimed to be an angel. He apologized and she accepted. The grandmother seems to be supportive. They are young but they both have potential
Me too! 🫶🏾
❤ the grandmother was keeping them apart. She kept feeding her son doubtful and she should be ashamed!
I hope he does step up help raise his baby.
The baby mama is beautiful and deserves a better man.
The grandmother is the problem. She pretends to be so caring but she makes trouble
Why are none of these young ladies on birth control?
@@nikkid4890yes and no, im guessing it concerned the grandmother because a lady she doesn’t know is reiterating private information then added that sly comment at the end. The mother didn’t deny the fact she knew the lady either.🤷🏽♀️
I think in the 2nd case, she’s more upset she procreated with a loser who has nothing. If you’re going to marry older, make sure he has something and is established.
True - but even if he was only ‘babysitting’ while the poor mother worked two jobs, taking care of his sons wasn’t doing ‘nothing’ - that is important.
yess ugh
I'm really not even mad that she left the kids with him. He is such a looser and an older one at that.
@@lovelisa316and he was mad bc he had to keep his kids while she went out and enjoyed herself after working 2 jobs while he did nothing but be an at home mom
She abandoned her children but he's the loser??? Double standard alert!!!
I just wanted to hug that first young girl. Everyone has SOME kind of past but others AND the man she loved AND his mother that she needed made her feel rejected.
second case the dude thought he could trap a teenager into carrying his legacy and is mad it didn’t go as planned. he feels how every baby mom feels, and thinks he’s entitled not to be in that position 💀
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That part!!!! He tried to trap that young and she handed him the uno reverse.
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He didn’t trap her, they got married and he ain’t force her to do nothing.
@@nijoelgreene851 ok? when women trap men by getting pregnant on purpose nobody “forced” those guys to do anything either.
The second case is heartbreaking, he really convinced this young woman to work and do evening by herself while he sat at home unemployed. SMH
then had the nerve to bash her because he had to step up. so freaking sad he ruined her life
In the second case, the guy was so annoying trying to make it seem like he’s the victim. A nineteen year old probably eighteen when they met and he’s in his thirties - he’s in the grey area of jailbait. Creepy.
First baby is at least two years old.
its inappropriate and he knows it, most men would hate if their daughter was seeing an older man. these kinds of men never date women their age because they know older women can spot a red flag much faster than a younger woman
Yea
I bet he’s controlling!!
In my country 18 is being an adult and legal age. Her age have nothing to do with it.
My heart breaks for the girl in the first case. She’s been through it, and you can tell. Maybe not with the babies dad, but in life. You can tell she truly felt hurt, rejected, and alone. I hope she is doing better.
She's so beautiful too
Yep and his mom should be more supportive of her. She's a grown women bringing rumors to a hurting girl.
@@rbrown0206 I agree 100%!
So you think cheating is ok? Only a lowlife does that. You sound exactly like her.
really brought me to tears
2nd case honestly hurt my heart.
She’s so young & I think she was just broken down & wild out after having so much responsibility.
He preyed on her literally
"He preyed on her" she made the choice to be with him, she made the choice go entertain him, she made the choice to marry him. If she wanted to do her she could've said no but obviously didn't. Hold women accountable, we aren't all innocent
@@viviennebaptiste 35 and 18 is obviously an age gap that indicates grooming. He groomed a child and trapped her with a child. It’s not shocking that she cheated and left, she was a kid raising kids with a narcissist
YES HE DID ; THESE NOWADAYS MEN WHO DOES THESE STUFF ARE FULLY CREEPY; & VERY CONTROLING
@@viviennebaptiste she was barely a woman at the time of marriage. Literally a year or 2 prior she had to ask permission to go to the restroom in school. She has no true grasp of adulthood. By law yeah she’s legal. But morally it’s twisted.
In the 1st case... I get the young man's mother...I have a 33 year old son....and when his daughter's mother iscmad with him... she takes it out on me too!!
The young couple in the first case, my heart goes out to them. They are inexperienced but are in love. I wish them all the best with their daughter, i pray that they find comfort eventually from being together as friends and parents. The grandmother is a source of support, they will need her.
yep
First case.. I have so much hope for them... they are simply young.. I love how they are both honest and claimed they are both guilty. I like them.. His mother is a good support for her too.. I have a lot of hope for the first case. Even when they are arguing, they were not disrepectful to each other.
Enjoyed reading your comment. ✌️
This case made me cry as the young woman looked so sad and frightened. I know that they will be fine, I feel it in my heart. I hope they will seek proper counseling to solidify the love between them which will enable them to raise their daughter in a loving and healthy home . I also feel confident that his mother will lend her loving support. May Jehovah bless them.
Aww 😢
I wish everyone read their comments from clips of them on tv, this was nice
The third case has me baffled just at the fact he didn’t think that beauty Queen wasn’t attractive after having a baby! The ungrateful disrespect. She is freaking stunning omg
And he’s about a 6.
They’re young, having children does a lot to a woman’s body and being young you don’t have the mindset to see past certain things.
She’s absolutely beautiful. He’s the one peculiar looking.
You lack understanding; it isn’t about beauty.. This is about perception or perceived function. Just google it or watch Louis CK comedy.
@@CocoChanelle-1 Yeah, he is a 6, but he isn’t wearing fake hair and eyelashes. He isn’t wearing makeup or clothing designed to physically make a woman’s body more attractive… I promise you she would drop down to a 4.
The 3rd case- soon as I saw that baby I knew he was the daddy! 😂 that kid looks just like you sir!
Same 😅
Man has to still have confirmation after she bring a dude home from community service. 😂
That's what I said lol
me too lol
He expects to much from a 19 y/o. She still a child herself. He obviously can't talk to mature women if he has to engage in a relationship with a teenager.
He over talked her, but he was surely dibbing and dabbling too!
If you’re talking about the first case, they are literally 1 year apart.. what do you mean?
@@ayanajanee7172 the second case
A 19 year old is not a child idiot. Your an adult at 18. Go do a misdemeanor at 18 and see if they take you to juvenile lockup or to an grown adult jail or prison. I bet that 18 will go to the adult jail or prison. Stop making excuses for 304. You defending wrong like alot of black women and is one of the reasons black women are at the bottom when it comes to relationships and marriage. Black women ruin themselves like this 304.
@@ayanajanee7172womp womp
The first case wow the allegedly baby's father mother is amazing. No yelling, just genuine love and understanding. I hope he's the father coz the grandmother is amazing ❤❤
omgggg cracking up about the second case -- where the guy IMMEDIATELY starts his terrible fake tears before anything even happened 🤣
😂 These men always want younger women who are Bums and aren't doing anything with their life
While I cried for both of them in the 1st case, I have sheer anger for this old dude in the second case. 😤
Haha me too! He’s a predator period!
Right
I think this judge should get a global award for sustaining family values in this broken world. I love your style, you are straight to the point and honest. Loads of love from Nigeria. I follow you religiously ❤😅
I like her too from Ethiopia
@@selamawitberhanu4816Also from Perth Western Australia
This dude in the second case full of it. He think he could control this young girl, but inasmuch as she left the kids alone,, I believed that she was tired and he was controlling her. Girl run away fast.
This is exactly why I came straight to the comments...I mean if she did something..leave her alone and let her go and coparent because after the results he still brought it up..and he talking about counseling??.He's the one who needs it..she needs to leave him alone because he's going to keep throwing her ways back in her face
What upsets me about these young parents is they think if they aren't together they don't have to be a parent like it's a package deal. If the couple breaks up then the guy no longer wants to be a dad because the woman doesn't want him.
Believe me older men do the same! All of the time!
@Ruth Quetant true. I was left to raise a severe nonverbal, self injurious global developmentally delayed autistic son alone while I had systemic lupus with severe arthritis & could no longer work. I got his father his very high paying job ,he owned nothing, was unemployed, I owned a house cars trailer etc. He took me to the cleaners then when he was convicted for assaults on us boom stole everything I owned & never took part in his sons life. Courts took his parental rights away due to his abuses but to this day decades later I still try to get him to have supervised visits now that my son is in an autism care home. He even stole my son's autism grant money . Despite making over 170,000 year he gambled it away & ran to me constantly for a place to live, $$, loans etc. Then stuck me with the loans, stole my apartment he never lived in or never paid for leaving me an older disabled woman homeless and still financing my son on my disability that isn't big enough to even rent a room. Ontario canada. Some of these men should be in jail.
No no that does not make sense ( the first sentence). Im not gonna force a guy to be in a parent in my childs like whether or not we are together. Being together in a relationship at least for a guy, doesn't mean they have to setup to the plate and be someone else's childs father if its not their own.
And even if its their, they should still have the right to refuse and move on. Cause in alot of cases, the WOMEN that their seeing end up driving them away and taking away any chances for their child's to have a father. Even if its not theirs.
@Grumpy Sheep the courts give fathers either joint custody or a certain number of days a week with the child(ren) unless they're charged with child abuse or neglect. The mother is NOT with the child(ren) during the fathers time. So fathers who aren't involved it's their choice as deadbeats who don't want to be. Selfish and want to live their life for only themselves.
@@ednaatluxton4918 I will not disagree on the court aspects cause that's not my field and I couldn't honestly care less.
But to call someone a deadbeat just cause they want to live the rest of their life their was is a bit over the top.
No women is a saint and it takes two to make a baby. Women can cheat their children outta a father just as much as the father willing not want to be with them. Trying to tie down a man is gross and disgusting cause you feel like just cause they are athe father they should keep being there even though they hate the mother. What actually makes a person a deadbeat is when they KNOW for a FACT that its their child but they still refuse to help out and live their life.
That's a deadbeat.
But just wanting to live your life, doesn't make your a deadbeat. Cause then everyone would be considered one.
Omg the third case was definitely a waste of time the baby is a splitting image of him!
There been many cases where the child lost exactly like the accused father and he wasn't so the test was absolutely was not a waste time considering we know she was unfaithful.
In the 2nd case, the 37th year old man has always known the kids were his, he just a big liar😠😠😠
Yes, indeed. He full of it.
Gaslighting a little kid to himself feel superior. Creep
Facts he is giving liar liar, taking advantage of the fact he is 16 years older than she.
He's a predator.
@@candesmith9310 Yes and he's a good LIAR but not a good actor.
35 year old broke dude on the bus is upset that the 18 year old he impregnated acts like a child 😂😂😂 she left them kids & the food stamp card. He thought he trapped her 😅😅
She did the right thing left the kids with him
She did right she didn't have a chance to live life because he's. Older and manipulating her for a home and because she works. He's a bum. Black men love and are okay with living off women😅
2nd case he has lived his life, now trying stop her and he thought kids did it! JOKE ON YOU FOOL😅😅😅
I want the first couple to grow up n make it work cus she has even good grandparent that will be there❤
Both good looking young people with a beautiful baby girl and like you mentioned, a terrific, level headed and honest grandmother. The future is theirs for the taking. I hope they make it work also
Congratulations to the first case. I feel that they are a young couple that can actually make it if they focus
I see them actually end up getting married and starting a family because she has her head on her shoulders unlike a lot of women out here that are just chasing men for money... I think that will be a genuine marriage filled with love❤
Hopefully things worked out. I read that she was arrested for drug possession a few years ago. I hope she’s out and has changed her life.
As a mother you don’t tell the young lady she’s going to be doing it alone you tell your son to do what he has to do for his child!
Exactly
First case: I'm sooo happy he's the father ❤
Same
As a 35 year old man, you should know what u getting yourself into if she only 19 , don’t get mad if she’s out partying or cheating
Facts
He’s 20 himself lol….
I get it, but age isn't an excuse for cheating. I was 18 with a 29 year old, and HE was the one cheating!
@@KRL1999 you can't compare someone to you, your behavior & what you've done. Just b/c you didnt cheat at 19 doesnt exclude the many other reckless things you most likely did while being 19. You make dumb decisions when you're young. Either way he shouldn't have been with someone with so young
@Meenah Styles you're literally telling her she can't compare herself to others because of the things you have done lol
Please tell me all about what I've done since you seem to think everyone is the same :) and that only young people are cheaters
Dude in the second case is a creep.. a grown man dating a teen
Exactly, his almost 40
She is an adult. gtfoh with your nonsense.
You can tell he knows he's wrong by the way he interrupts and talks over her. He doesn't want her to get the truth out about what type of man he is. He just wants to make her look bad.
Exactly. He also was trying to gain sympathy & when she said altercation I said yep. He gives off that vibe then he seemed to have caught himself when he said if she learn to sit down somewhere & "talk" yea buddy is a clown a nasty one @ that
@@hellokitty-pd4lr taking advantage of that young girl who probably had a bad upbringing and was probably neglected by her own mother.
in the first case, the girlfriend is just beautiful.. it's just sad that no one is beside her, she is just a strong beautiful woman, and the last couple is just courageous.just happy for them
The first case, I want to see them win win win!!! ❤I’m praying for those babies and their baby
😮 that man almost 40 ans letting that girl work two jobs!😢 I wanted the judge to ask about that because that dont make any sense.
Yeah. I feel like he doesn't have a job, or future. So much for all his self proclaimed martyrdom!
Where are her family members/"village?" I don't get it. Somebody should have warned her about him.
In first case, what a beautiful young lady...full of pain though.
Guy in the 2nd case isn't fooling anyone
He refuses to let her talk, he gaslighted her repeatedly.
Girl get your kids and run!
He should had known this before he married a 19 year old
should have known
@@evgeniaboubouli1235ou knew what she meant. STOP.
2nd case I feel for the young lady, the emotional maturity of 19 is worlds away from that of 35.
Why? Her choice.
Second case this dude was 35 marrying a 19yo baby smh...of course she gon want to party she still a baby. He wanted to tie her down before she could grow up
Yeah, like this is the homestead days.
He is a bully, the guy is a narcissist. Why is he talking when she is talking? He wants to control her, I hope by this time the relationship is over. Hubby is a bum!
Dude had her working 2 jobs!!!
Yea she def too young to be in this situation period…
@@georgiadyer665🗣️🗣️🗣️
Case#1: It’s definitely a NYC hood love story. They maybe young, but you can tell they love each other deeply and unconditionally. Overall, I’m glad the results worked out for the better. I pray they be a happy family.
Second case...maybe he shouldnt sleep with a child. Age difference at 18 and 35. Is just insurmountable.
Right! The women his age probably saw the bum in him, and that's why he had to go find someone impressionable.
Right, he was taking advantage of her and she woke up and saw him for what he is.
@@tammaras.8253or the woman his age are overweight with kids already and complain about bills 😂
@@GaboH-h7s Where are 35yr old bag ladies in demand?
30:23 He seems to be a controller. An older woman, I feel intimidates him; a younger woman feeds his feelings of power.
This man got some nerve doubting that’s his child with that nose 😂😂
Oh my god 😂😂😂
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😂 i get it now! 😂
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If a man j walk at 18 they don't say he's not old enough to not be detained. Sometimes we as men need to allow a woman to feel what she's supposed to feel so she can grow.
I pray that Lacy is ok. She seems so tough but u can truly see the love and hurt. I honestly hope they make it with their beautiful little girl ❣️❣️❣️🥰
This man is just insecure because he’s so much older than her and he doesn’t want to work he wants to use her and he’s upset because he’s now getting played
He just wants to have a young wife who brings home 2 paychecks while he does very little!
The first case, when I saw the grandmother, I knew the baby was his. DNA is a BEAUTIFUL thing, your child could look like anyone in your family. FACT!!!!!
That’s the crazy part 😂
2nd case he manipulated her forced her out of home than complain... disgusting
Seems like it
A girl instead of a woman that young in age.
So dude was preying on the young women in second case??? He got a child pregnant.
Right! I was disturbed by this.
She was 19 already an adult
It’s still suspect for a 35 year old to be dating a 19 year old and that’s just when they got married not when they got together I’m sure he was either sleeping with her or prepping her well before
@@lionelluva unnnnnnu
@@cherikamisalelakombo9427 more like 18. It take 10 months of pregnancy before the baby is here and he two. Dude is foul.
Never tell your daughter that when a boy treats her bad in school that means he like her……no it don’t abusive behavior does not equate love……
True but children and many young people do not have the mental capacity to understand that yet so they express it in toxic ways. But you right tho
She said 3rd grade, not teenager.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
Have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about two years ago, but i could not let her go, so i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back, now we are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.
@@jeffbrown4136 Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
@@andrewvasilyev3540 Her name is Chamani White, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
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I’m sorry! Hopefully you feel better and if you don’t get her back! Your person will gladly come !
It’s crazy in the first case… cuz the mother was 16 when she had her son… these mother’s need to let them be adults since they want to be grown
She wasn't that young. She's 19 and the baby is 10 months. They had been together since she was 16.
Like the second case, I have two sons. They are 18 months apart. This case reminds me of when my youngest son was getting married. The deacon had us sitting in the pews, before the rehearsal, and she wanted us to tell her which side we were on and how we were related to the bride or groom. When it got to me I said I was the mother of the groom. My ex was sitting behind me and I turned to him and said, " Guess this is as good a time as any but you're not the father." He said, "Yeah, right." The deacon was staring at us and I said I was only kidding. Everyone laughed. Guess I shouldn't have said it in a church, could've been struck with a bolt of lightning. But I just couldn't resist.😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I would have fell out🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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An older man can't expect a younger woman to grow up and mature in a manner he thinks she should. However, because a woman enters motherhood at a young age, doesn't equate to her being ready to assume the resposibility of being a mother that can mother her children. When you meet them young this could be the outcome. It's heartbreaking for the children when one parent constantly pushes the child away. And the child may grow up feeling unwanted and unloved.
This is absolutely 100% not true I disagree with you 1,000%😊 if you think about it more times than not they always say a woman matures faster than a man at least by 7 years So she's 21 years old and you add in the 7-year grace period that would put her at 28 years old far as maturity-wise... And it has been so proven so many times on this show that there are a lot of women that do think a lot further than the male counterparts that are on this show... She knows what she's doing and at the end of the day she was just probably using this man I haven't watched the entire video just yet but just by that point right there I have to say you're absolutely incorrect just by societal natures. - I don't mean to send any bad way I hope you have an amazing day😊
I'll put my 2 sense in ... from what's going on in today's society, it's facts that older men go for the younger chicks cause they want children and a traditional wife. Seems he picked one that isn't wife material due to she still wanted to be out in the streets. Also seems he isn't doing his part either which is why he put up with her cheating, a real man would've just divorced and basically have full custody of the children. She's now 21 and seems to have gotten that "party" phase outta her now and she wants to work it out so it's good for both of them to just stay together and be a family. Men need to watch who they give their seed to so there isn't drama later. Today's modern chicks really making it hard for the good women out there.
@@rickrolledtruth5834 super true very very direct point... This is all men want Most men want a traditional woman but women don't want to listen to the ones of a man they always want the mantic or form to them... " They always say I need a man that understands my feelings in my head" they never say that I'm a woman that's going to be there for my man no matter what... I'm going to be his safe space for when he comes home I'm going to cook for my man.... Because for some odd reason cooking for a man seems to be a peasant thing no it's a way a woman can show her appreciation for that man I'm going to a tangent but good point that you made!
@@rickrolledtruth5834How did he want a traditional wife and she’s working two jobs and he’s sitting at home with the children? Older men go for younger women to control them before they mature into full adults. No do not add imaginary years that’s not how mental development works.😂 humans don’t reach full adulthood until they’re 25 when their frontal lobe matures.
i pray the first couple get back together as a family. ❤❤❤
The first case, they are so young and so much to learn about life, but looks like they take responsibility taking care the kids. I wish all the best for their beautiful family ❤
19:07 soooo he wants a trophy! It's what a parent does. He is really coming across as a dusty. How does your pregnant partner work two jobs and you have NONE! NAHHHHH
The second case gives me the creeps. It looks like to me like the husband is a lazy control freak. Since he knew no women his age would put up with his non-sense, he found himself a teenager he could manipulate into marrying him and have his children. Once he realized she wouldn’t put up with his lazy, controlling ways either, he pulled the “I’m not even sure those kids are mine” card. Heck he even tried to control her in the courtroom by interrupting her pretty much every single time she started to speak. Also him acting like he should get a medal for doing what a dad is supposed to be doing, makes me so angry. He is only doing it because his wife forced him to do it by leaving him alone with the HIS kids. He wouldn’t pull his weight when she was around. She was working two jobs, while he was sitting at home unemployed (I’m a bit disappointed the judge didn’t get on him about that a bit harsher). I bet once she was coming home from those 2 jobs, she still had to do the housework. I can’t see this guy doing “a wife’s job” at home.
It would not surprise me if the husband had a plan in the back of his mind already when he filed the paternity case. Here is my thought:
Since he can’t control his wife the way he wants to, he uses the court system to establish paternity and then files for permanent sole custody of the boys. I think he hopes to use the boys to get control back over his wife.
All of this has NOTHING TO DO with love for his wife and kids. All he wants is control. The dude is a total creep.
In the second case, I think he tripped that young girl made her think he was gonna take care of her and everything was gonna be OK but when she got with him, she realize he was lazy and he thought he could get her pregnant and she was gonna be still in love. She would put up with him and she fooled him.😂😂
They got the 👏🏾same 👏🏾exact 👏🏾identical 👏🏾matching 👏🏾nose👃🏾
😂😂😂
Felt bad for the young woman who had to take 2 jobs being pregnant to support their family, seems she was doing it all alone until she got tired and left. Send him to work, he has so much stories of how bad she is, taking no accountability for his gambling and lazyness. He didn't care all those years she did all by herself.
And it's so weird because he's literally 37. Shouldn't he have, went to school or did something or at least have a stable job all those years
Case#3: Am so happy for this young couple. They have been together since the 10th grade so they were probably too young and not ready for marriage. The guy did confess that he was not ready for another child especially since they were not in a good place. I am soo happy how he went over to her and kissed her. You can see that they love each other. He must understand that she may have cheated because he did not make her feel beautiful anymore and that can really hurt a young woman
So true. I was happy they were going to continue to grow with each other. I cried ❤
She was running drugs
I felt bad for the 2nd guy until I heard the age difference. You literally asked for this…
She chose & he chose you can't put all the blame on him
@@viviennebaptiste ummm she was a child and he was in his 30s. He KNEW, my statement still stands
@Superstarrr So because she's 19 she's weak minded???
@@wessideATL1 she’s young minded have you not been 19 before? Anything with teen on it should be too young for a 30+ year old man… She can’t even have a drink at the bar let alone be responsible. Y’all are just sick and want to date children
@Superstarrr I was 19 in the Army messing around with a 30 sumn year old civilian and I was just fine till I met my wife... We been together since we were 22 and now we both 50...
I get it, in the first case she does not want to be bothered with his inconsistency and/or denial of her baby. All that back and forth is unnecessary when a person trying to move on, you gone now you back. All help is not good help physically, emotionally, mentally nor financially.😢
THESE GROWN MEN WONT LOOK FOR THEIR AGE GROUP; WHY ??? THEN THEY SEEMS TO CONTROL THESE LITTLE KIDS THEY MARRY; WHEN I WAS 24 I DIDN'T KNOW WHAT I WAS DOING
He’s probably controlling and the women in his age group are not controllable and wasn’t putting up with him not working and gambling.
Always saying they need to grow up.
I jus hope u say the same when a grown woman does it cuz mfs neva do
@@suavelosofficial8639 yes people do women especially these teachers make the news all the time. Maybe you just need to remove yourself from the circle you're in. A 19 year is a 19 year old whether it's a male or female. He trying to play victim when he was dating someone literally a year out of high school.
@@suavelosofficial8639 bro hush.. y’all always tryna make something into something the conversation was never about!!
I feel really sad for the girl in the first vid. She is genuinely hurt and crying like she need the baby's father by her side and need it to put her hear on his shoulder and cry. She is beautiful so is her baby.
If son and mom live in the same complex they are to blame for not being around. They can knock on the door. Could have paid for dna 10 months ago.
These poor kids ain't even grown and trying to navigate their way through having kids. The first girl seems like she hasn't felt what it's like to be loved and nurtured by a father...
Sad to watch her in so much pain...🙏🏾
Wait-if both babies were born before they got married, and she was 19 when they married….
That math ain’t mathin. Why didn’t he go to jail??
Not at ALL!! He groomed her
Evening Judge! I must say you have a very challenging Platform! Following you for a short time and I see that you are very strong mentally and emotionally, which I not only Respect you, but I'm more impress with the fact you let them know theirs a Innocent ( Child ) that will be scarred for the rest of there life. Two thumbs up to you Young Lady 🌹
2nd case: judge got onto that man for np good reason...he was explaining what he was doing when she walked out on him...when women make that argument mo one says "that's what you're supposed to do"
Also...bruh..you had NO BUSINESS with a girl that young
Only single cat ladies say that
I hate when people do that in general. Congratulations on doing your job the one you volunteered for would you like a cookie 😂😂
Second case , dude was too old for that young lady.
She knew he was too old for her & they both made the decision to carry on so you can't blame him
@@viviennebaptiste where did I place any blame on the guy? I clearly stated that he was too old for her. Point blank period. Reading is fundamental. Don’t place smoke where’s no fire cause sis/ bruh you won’t win 🥴
@@TangieEdwards he knew he was too old for her. But these predators don't care. Then has the nerve to be surprised at her behavior.
They seem like they're pretty much even emotionally if not chronologically in age
What were they ages?
Interfering moms are the worst....acting like she was in the room counting strokes smh😮😮😮😮😮
Maybe you saw a different video. I saw a warm, loving and supportive grandmother.
I'm at 9:22 I cannot understand how the man's mother, and himself, cannot see that this beautiful child, looks exactly l like him, in so many ways.
The judge always says you can't go solely off looks cuz I've seen ppl whom look just alike & don't be related.
@@ToiTois I feel you. And, usually I'm wrong, when guessing. But, I said the whole time: That child is definitely his.
100!! A light skinned him.
Grandma is 36.......! 😱
I made my mom a grandma when she was 35🫣
@@1LocWonder you should be proud
16 must be when she got pregnant.
Wondering if it's okay cuz the son is now 20 and a father. The chain should be broken
Cowan vs. Cowan was amazing for them to be young. I'm glad they are going to be a family again. May God bless them with much love, success, stability, and a steady and strong foundation 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💞💞💞💞🎉👏👏👏
Omg the little baby boy in the third case is a replica of hís daddy. How could he not see that ?
I think learning about attachment styles and love languages is crucial to the success of any relationship. This first young lady clearly has an attachment style that means when she pushes people away, she is actually hoping you will break down the walls she puts up. They fear abandonment so much they would rather leave you first. To anyone like this, you are always worth loving. Sometimes people don't break down your walls BECAUSE they love you, BECAUSE you told them no and they respect your privacy and autonomy. You have to be honest and vulnerable about what you REALLY want other people to do in order to show their love and commitment to you, which is hard, but worth it.
Every time I watch this one, the first case gets to me... For him to "know" her so well, how could he not see her??? He obviously wasn't listening.... Just so so very sad 😢
I liked the last couple i see real love in both of them. May God bless you people. Following paternity court judge lake thanks for the excellent work
First case they both need to grow up, Happy to see that his mom speaks the truth about them both being jealous and isn't only taking her sons side blindly ! Last I checked even if he is a father you can't force anyone to sign a birth certificate. They don't need to be together or in a relationship at all until they can learn to grow up and focus on what's important. The child.I love this judge But I also feel like she's putting words in their mouths and giving them Excuses that they're not saying Out of their own mouth
She was looking for a father. He was taking advantage of her innocence
These kids are killing me!! PLEASE parents... Please teach your children that love shouldn't hurt. It shouldn't make you feel bad or sad or angry or lonely. Real love is uplifting and brings light to the darkness. Even a good relationship is work every day but you can feel how much it's worth it at the end of EVERY day!
I was 18 and my husband was 28 when we got married and we have been together for 33+ years and have 3 grown sons so her being 19 if she loves her man and wants the family she made she would be there. I would never walk out on my kids ever.
Have to say it was hard to give his doubt any merit whatsoever. You'd have to be blind to not see his baby looks EXACTLY like him. I mean... come on, look at his unique nose shape.
*they don't know who their father is, thank God mothers give birth otherwise these men would be roaming around the world searching for their child's mother*
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Amazing family God bless
Lacey (1st girl) is really hurting and has been mislead by life and needs a real support system.
If he is like that, leave.
You keep on going back for more of the same thing, what do you expect?
3rd case is a classic example of why I don’t think nobody should be getting married in their 20s
The problem is not marrying young, is about maturity. Some people are young & mature while others are young & immature. My parents married young, my cousins married young, many people I know married young because they were mature enough to handle it
It really depends on the person. Some people are 70 and have no business getting married!
❤lovely 🎉I just like d 1st case , I pray they both respect each other and grow old together. 🎉❤
2nd case he a creep. He manipulator and gonna divorceher for a younger model. Creep vines. She a meal ticket.
AGREED. Very controlling.
Scary how the last woman was smirking and acting like it was all a big joke.
She was sure he is the father, so why worry?
First case, she is really tough young lady, so young, just 19 and she has to do all that alone, and she has so much inside her, I hope someone let ear listen to everything she is holding in her chest. And she is so beautiful
History repeats itself in more ways than we think. His mother 36 and son 20. She had him at 16 now he is in same situation with his young gf. But that nose is identical lol
Great lesson. Beautiful prayer and I thank God for you