It’s not that people want to struggle. It’s that 9/10 the unsolicited advice is coming from a non-credible source on most other things first. Then they usually tell you stuff you were ALREADY doing anyway, so it wasn’t even needed. They basically judge you telling you to do better when you’re actually better than them, which makes it more disrespectful. Unsolicited advice is always a red flag.
100% correct. Giving unsolicited advice to anyone is not good. Years ago I was bad about doing this is & thought I was a fucking know it all & had all the answers. It was really just ego & insecurity
This is elite tier info 💯 not just for dating, but life in general. Takes a lot of maturity to understand this tho.. Youngsters with huge egos won't be able to process this one.
So true! I was on a date last night, and I gave simple advice about exercising and losing weight since she seemed very interested in the topic, however, I regretted it because I knew she wasn’t really ready for it yet.
Bc ur actually telling her she "needs it". Per se. You're just trying to help and give good techniques etc, but she sees it like _"oh so you're agreeing I need to exercise like I'm big or something"_ They tell themselves all sorts of things. She was prolly looking for u to say "ah, u don't need that u look great" kinda thing.
Stop running your mouth so much, sit back and observe--take mental notes. Remember: YOU are the opportunity. You don't need to impress her, she needs to be impressing you.
That doesn't work for your kids. You state, "if you ever feel the need to give people advice, especially when they don't ask for it, you're the problem.." Sounds great for strangers - not family.
@@JolinHard Absolutely. Regardless, it is still a parents job. On top of children it is not uncommon to give advice to other people in the family as well. There is a different between doing it like a dick and doing it out of love.
Don't give advise, people do not want it. They want to struggle. It's in their DNA.
It’s not that people want to struggle. It’s that 9/10 the unsolicited advice is coming from a non-credible source on most other things first. Then they usually tell you stuff you were ALREADY doing anyway, so it wasn’t even needed.
They basically judge you telling you to do better when you’re actually better than them, which makes it more disrespectful.
Unsolicited advice is always a red flag.
Made that mistake ended badly
100% correct. Giving unsolicited advice to anyone is not good. Years ago I was bad about doing this is & thought I was a fucking know it all & had all the answers. It was really just ego & insecurity
This is elite tier info 💯 not just for dating, but life in general. Takes a lot of maturity to understand this tho.. Youngsters with huge egos won't be able to process this one.
So true! I was on a date last night, and I gave simple advice about exercising and losing weight since she seemed very interested in the topic, however, I regretted it because I knew she wasn’t really ready for it yet.
Made the same mistake.
Bc ur actually telling her she "needs it". Per se. You're just trying to help and give good techniques etc, but she sees it like
_"oh so you're agreeing I need to exercise like I'm big or something"_
They tell themselves all sorts of things. She was prolly looking for u to say "ah, u don't need that u look great" kinda thing.
@@daviedood2503 great point. lol
Cold game!!!
Real talk ❤
Thank you sir
I believe that👍
Hallelujah 🤘🏻
Thank you bro for stating what a lot of women are thinking. Great advice.
Real talk
This is very very correct.
He’s right
Wow so true!!
Stop running your mouth so much, sit back and observe--take mental notes.
Remember: YOU are the opportunity. You don't need to impress her, she needs to be impressing you.
Facts.
Facts
💥 boom
Well said
Excellent advice. Thank you, sir! Salute!!
Facts I use to do this but am gonna stop 🙏🏿 now I look back at it was just a bunch of waste of words
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I’m guilty of this
Unsolicited advice falls on deaf ears
COACH
I give no advice and I don't take no advice unless is constructive criticism👍
I thought coaching starts early..
@@jdiezal767 observation starts early. Not all women are eligible for coaching.
That doesn't work for your kids. You state, "if you ever feel the need to give people advice, especially when they don't ask for it, you're the problem.." Sounds great for strangers - not family.
To be fair, he's not giving parental advice.
Parenthood is a whole different animal. That's clearly not what he's referring to
Id argue that children dont want to hear advice either unless they ask for it
@@JolinHard Absolutely. Regardless, it is still a parents job. On top of children it is not uncommon to give advice to other people in the family as well. There is a different between doing it like a dick and doing it out of love.
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