Make a video on how to make a relationship healthier. 1) rituals together (exercise, games, meditation, cooking together) 2) cuddling and emotional nourishment 3) communicating goods and bads on every sunday 4) planning sex if frequency goes down . *love and happiness can be created*
The fact is tht whenever he tells "YOU" , I relate to it.... Cuz it's only ME in my relationship and not HIM... He Clearly puts 0% efforts and once in a blue moon , he texts me with alot of love... He wants to make the relationship a stable one , and me , am just here just cuz I committed into it... I lost all my love towards him when he gives me 0% attention..🙂 I LOVE HIM A LOT AND I'LL ALWAYS LOVE HIM FOREVER... I wish I could get this rectified but all I do is cry in silence and smile infront of him
My relationship with my girlfriend have all these signs.. And yeah i can clearly say that we love each other so much, we rarely get into an argument...Almost 2 years together, and more way to go❤
just make a good meal and next hug her and give her a forehead kiss this won't be easy but don't stop. ask her the mistake you did talk with soothing voice. but never stop trying.
When’s the last time you asked her on a date? Did some of the chores without being asked to? Made her a meal? Did little tasks for her? Bought her flowers? Not saying this is your case, but often men stop trying as they did to get a woman. They get comfortable, stop trying. The issue is the woman fell in love with all these things you did to get her. You need to keep dating her, even in a marriage.
In regards to leaving a person who could be loving, that only works if you are NOT engaged and NOT married - in which case, if you find yourself not choosing to marry that person, if God permits, then that’s totally okay and perfectly healthy. When it’s bad to do that is when you are ALREADY married and engaged, because you are then only going to make the situation not only worse on yourself, or them, but on anyone you try to seduce in future and it’s basically a form of hatred, violence, and treachery, not to mention adultery. Adultery, divorce, and remarriages are never good things and while people can lie to themselves saying they can get away with them and don’t care, like it or not, it will backfire on them in either or both the short term, long-term, and even eternally. Let’s not forget how many families, along with their children - even with help - were destroyed by such actions. God called it accurately out - Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her. And if a woman divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery. (Mark 10:11-12) Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery. (Luke 16:18) Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge. (Hebrews 13:4; see also 1 Corinthians 6:9-10; Revelation 21:8) Whether it's a secular divorce or a "Christian" divorce, Psalm 119:158 well describes a godly perspective on the matter. I see the treacherous, and am disgusted, because they do not keep Your word. (Psalm 119:158)
You know, I feel like these are more ideal (forgive me), but not necessarily indicative of a healthy 'ship. Not to be funny, but do you have some citable sources for this?
Okay tell me this.... My gf doesn't allow me to touch her the basic ones okay and she doesn't make any plans and she doesn't take any Initiative about anything and wr haven't even hugged each other like the energy sharing ones... We haven't yet and kisses hugs and touch is sooo low like minimum and the worst part.... We dont talk on phone calls we dont meet out cause she always gives reasons about like mom or relatives n all.... Man.... What should i do?
Number 2 doesn’t necessarily mean it’s healthy. Sometimes you have to rough the feathers in a relationship. If 9 out of ten things you do is healthy I don’t think the 1 thing which is communication makes you unhealthy. I’ve watched many intelligent people speak during a conversation and I understand the 4 corners of communicating! And within those corners you will need to exert some level of intensified discussion
I’m just gonna say it why is sex the main thing of a relationship just because you do it does not mean it’s the main thing didn’t people used to have relationships because they live each other not to make out and have sexual activity I thought that you have a relationship because you love a woman not because you wanna sleep with her
Guys it’s 2023 just be single save time figuring out what you want if your in a relationship that’ll be 20x the pain and stress just focus on you and your life and trust me you’ll be happy that’s the key to success
I don’t let my fear or previous pain guide me in life. I’ve accepted this is a normal part of life and grow from the hurt. You’ve gotten hurt and given up. You take what seems like the easy road, but in the long term you become isolated and a shell of who you used to be.
Hmmm the relationship likely wasn’t healthy after the first time your guy cheated. I’m sure there were lots of red flags even before that too… 😂 But best of luck
What if we don’t laugh together a lot, what if we get defensive while solving some issues, what if can’t talk for hours, what if I feel ok while staying apart ?????
Very wrong Women will do everything you want just to get you Even though they might be toxic, dangerous or just want you for selfish reasons. Been watching a lot of videos lately and i can boldly say you're wrong
Men do the same thing. It’s called gaslighting and it’s a manipulative method people use to get people to fall in love with them then reveal who they really are slowly. That’s a toxic relationship and there are ways of avoiding that. You have to learn to detect bullshit because the warnings are there. But this man is talking about a relationship between two healthy people who have developed healthy strategies to cope with issues in a relationship. What he’s talking about is right and very possible. It takes two healthy people to have a healthy relationship.
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Feeling safe with the person!
THIS!
Make a video on how to make a relationship healthier.
1) rituals together (exercise, games, meditation, cooking together)
2) cuddling and emotional nourishment
3) communicating goods and bads on every sunday
4) planning sex if frequency goes down
.
*love and happiness can be created*
I deeply agree with this!
This makes sense especially if busy schedules clash!
The fact is tht whenever he tells "YOU" , I relate to it.... Cuz it's only ME in my relationship and not HIM...
He Clearly puts 0% efforts and once in a blue moon , he texts me with alot of love...
He wants to make the relationship a stable one , and me , am just here just cuz I committed into it...
I lost all my love towards him when he gives me 0% attention..🙂
I LOVE HIM A LOT
AND I'LL ALWAYS LOVE HIM FOREVER...
I wish I could get this rectified but all I do is cry in silence and smile infront of him
My relationship with my girlfriend have all these signs.. And yeah i can clearly say that we love each other so much, we rarely get into an argument...Almost 2 years together, and more way to go❤
Me & my wife totally failed. She hates me & I never cheated or harmed her. This just makes my heart hurt more.
just make a good meal and next hug her and give her a forehead kiss this won't be easy but don't stop.
ask her the mistake you did talk with soothing voice.
but never stop trying.
Jesus loves you
:/ I’m sorry man
She probably hate you for something .... we girls dont just leave a relationship.... we opt out for a reason
When’s the last time you asked her on a date? Did some of the chores without being asked to? Made her a meal? Did little tasks for her? Bought her flowers? Not saying this is your case, but often men stop trying as they did to get a woman. They get comfortable, stop trying. The issue is the woman fell in love with all these things you did to get her. You need to keep dating her, even in a marriage.
Ding ding ding ding ding ding ding! We have a winner, folks. Whew!
Appreciate it man and great to know my relationship is healthy 👍
Sometimes i chat with her for like the entire day🤭
That’s a perfect marriage 😂
Thank you ❤
Very true.
In regards to leaving a person who could be loving, that only works if you are NOT engaged and NOT married - in which case, if you find yourself not choosing to marry that person, if God permits, then that’s totally okay and perfectly healthy. When it’s bad to do that is when you are ALREADY married and engaged, because you are then only going to make the situation not only worse on yourself, or them, but on anyone you try to seduce in future and it’s basically a form of hatred, violence, and treachery, not to mention adultery. Adultery, divorce, and remarriages are never good things and while people can lie to themselves saying they can get away with them and don’t care, like it or not, it will backfire on them in either or both the short term, long-term, and even eternally. Let’s not forget how many families, along with their children - even with help - were destroyed by such actions. God called it accurately out - Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her. And if a woman divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery. (Mark 10:11-12)
Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery. (Luke 16:18)
Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge. (Hebrews 13:4; see also 1 Corinthians 6:9-10; Revelation 21:8) Whether it's a secular divorce or a "Christian" divorce, Psalm 119:158 well describes a godly perspective on the matter.
I see the treacherous, and am disgusted, because they do not keep Your word. (Psalm 119:158)
I got a 5/7. Should I be worried?
What about platonic relationships?
Y do good relationship ends
You know, I feel like these are more ideal (forgive me), but not necessarily indicative of a healthy 'ship. Not to be funny, but do you have some citable sources for this?
Okay tell me this.... My gf doesn't allow me to touch her the basic ones okay and she doesn't make any plans and she doesn't take any Initiative about anything and wr haven't even hugged each other like the energy sharing ones... We haven't yet and kisses hugs and touch is sooo low like minimum and the worst part.... We dont talk on phone calls we dont meet out cause she always gives reasons about like mom or relatives n all.... Man.... What should i do?
Let’s goooooo
Number 2 doesn’t necessarily mean it’s healthy. Sometimes you have to rough the feathers in a relationship. If 9 out of ten things you do is healthy I don’t think the 1 thing which is communication makes you unhealthy. I’ve watched many intelligent people speak during a conversation and I understand the 4 corners of communicating! And within those corners you will need to exert some level of intensified discussion
3/7😢
Fun fact: Bro didn’t blink once
Lol he blinked at no.6 😂
I’m just gonna say it why is sex the main thing of a relationship just because you do it does not mean it’s the main thing didn’t people used to have relationships because they live each other not to make out and have sexual activity I thought that you have a relationship because you love a woman not because you wanna sleep with her
We don’t have number two or number three we don’t have number four we don’t have number 7
Guys it’s 2023 just be single save time figuring out what you want if your in a relationship that’ll be 20x the pain and stress just focus on you and your life and trust me you’ll be happy that’s the key to success
Some people need other people in their life, it’s not that easy to go completely alone
some people like me are meant to be alone.
Jesus loves you
I don’t let my fear or previous pain guide me in life. I’ve accepted this is a normal part of life and grow from the hurt. You’ve gotten hurt and given up. You take what seems like the easy road, but in the long term you become isolated and a shell of who you used to be.
This was it until he cheated the 4th time then I gave up
Your mistake. Should’ve given up from the first time
Hmmm the relationship likely wasn’t healthy after the first time your guy cheated. I’m sure there were lots of red flags even before that too… 😂
But best of luck
My number five is more like I can talk for hours and he can listen for hours......
Française en haute
What if we don’t laugh together a lot, what if we get defensive while solving some issues, what if can’t talk for hours, what if I feel ok while staying apart ?????
Then maybe it's time to stay apart forever..
Jesus loves you
How are you doing now?😊
same
0 out of 7.... 😢
Healthy relationships don't always mean the sex thing, think about it from a toxic relationship point of view then remake this video.
lots of points are wrong
Very wrong
Women will do everything you want just to get you
Even though they might be toxic, dangerous or just want you for selfish reasons.
Been watching a lot of videos lately and i can boldly say you're wrong
Men do the same thing. It’s called gaslighting and it’s a manipulative method people use to get people to fall in love with them then reveal who they really are slowly. That’s a toxic relationship and there are ways of avoiding that. You have to learn to detect bullshit because the warnings are there.
But this man is talking about a relationship between two healthy people who have developed healthy strategies to cope with issues in a relationship. What he’s talking about is right and very possible. It takes two healthy people to have a healthy relationship.