Watch this if you have a friend who's dismissive or talks way too much

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  • Опубликовано: 19 май 2024
  • Dismissive people... I understand what it's like to be one 😬
    When I was younger, I rarely felt seen or heard in school or amongst friends and so when I got the opportunity to speak - oh I spoke, but I'm lucky I had people who loved me call me out and help me heal that part of myself.
    If you're in conversation with someone like this who you really care about, I encourage you to try these 3 steps. Not only will you be able to communicate your thoughts, you'll also create the rules of engagement the next time you speak with them.
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Комментарии • 30

  • @Focused76
    @Focused76 Месяц назад +20

    i have this bad habit of talking a lot about myself

    • @mrdave777
      @mrdave777 Месяц назад +4

      It’s amazing once you realize the earth doesn’t revolve around you. What a fascinating concept!!

    • @alirezahamidi1806
      @alirezahamidi1806 Месяц назад +1

      I was in the same spot but then i started to listen more carefully to what others have to say and ask questions. It was really helpful cause i got to know how others think and i didnt have to share as much

  • @Orayva
    @Orayva Месяц назад +7

    Amazing explanation, and I completly agree with your reason to why people overtalk. Thanks for the tips and keep up the good work 🔥🔥

  • @rbkeyz2328
    @rbkeyz2328 Месяц назад +1

    As “That guy” (tryna work my way out of it) the first two points are really important. I try to impose myself if i think i’m ignored but once im talking, im scared of silence so I go on until someone tries to pick up after me… good vid as always

  • @jkonoch
    @jkonoch Месяц назад +2

    That's good stuff Vinh. Been trying to courage up to say this to someone close for a week now. Thanks for the kick I need.

    • @askvinh
      @askvinh  Месяц назад +2

      You got this!

  • @zart8478
    @zart8478 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you so much, Vinh. Hope you have a beautiful day!

  • @abdulsalamsalibello4780
    @abdulsalamsalibello4780 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you vinh. I really needed this .

  • @RedRoninGM
    @RedRoninGM Месяц назад +1

    Great advice! Thanks for the tips👍🏾👍🏾

  • @diseofisa2426
    @diseofisa2426 25 дней назад

    Great work Vinh!😀❤️

  • @askvinh
    @askvinh  Месяц назад +1

    Get started on your communication skills journey with my FREE 3 part series: gifts.vinhgiang.com/youtube

  • @sambarker54
    @sambarker54 Месяц назад

    Thanks, Vinh!

  • @inesa2512
    @inesa2512 Месяц назад +1

    I talk too much with myself

  • @noonesknowes
    @noonesknowes Месяц назад +2

    Not gonna lie Before knowing these tricks. I actually do it before with my friends and amazingly The things I do is the same things u are sharing. hehe.....

  • @Alex_bondoc
    @Alex_bondoc Месяц назад +2

    *vinh ! How to be talkative ?*

  • @rbkeyz2328
    @rbkeyz2328 Месяц назад

    I AM that friend :( my bad lol

  • @deepanjansen2147
    @deepanjansen2147 Месяц назад

    Vinh what about a political debate , what can i do so that people listen to me ?

  • @user-cs5iu3pi8g
    @user-cs5iu3pi8g Месяц назад

    Could you create a video on how to know when to stop talking? Its a problem i face quite oftem

    • @DeepinLife
      @DeepinLife Месяц назад +2

      Here's one of Vinh's more recent video on your issue: "EASY Conversation Technique To Stop Oversharing (PARA Method)" - ruclips.net/video/dXCAyqM2zWY/видео.html&ab_channel=VinhGiang
      It's great that you are trying to solve your problem of oversharing!
      Research, Learn, then Practice. Good luck on your communication journey

  • @AkPathan-mu4vb
    @AkPathan-mu4vb Месяц назад +3

    Second comment❤❤ second like❤❤

  • @2jzhumble629
    @2jzhumble629 Месяц назад

    Just don't use this method that feels comfortable with and then you shouldn't them down and then they go back to being introverted.

  • @mimiskoutsaris
    @mimiskoutsaris Месяц назад +1

    2

  • @Hanaa_MuslimaYemen
    @Hanaa_MuslimaYemen Месяц назад +2

    I am your sister from Yemen, and by Allah I only spoke out of hunger and distress. My mother, my brothers, and I lessons and tears. We are in a situation that only God knows about. God is sufficient for us, and He is the best disposer of affairs for those who brought us to this situation. By Allah Almighty, I did not write this appeal out of distress and distress. Poverty, O world, they have felt it So, I hope for you. By Allah Almighty, Lord of the Great Throne, he ate what I had in the house. By Allah, my brothers, he is my brothers by sitting in the house. Who has no food? By God, we are in a very difficult situation. We have 6 people entering the house, and my father has died, and there is no one who can depend on us and who lives in it.We live in a rented house because we cannot pay the rent we owe. '''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' ''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' ''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' ''''''''''''' My brother, my first words are: I swear to God that I will not lie to you or deceive you. I am a Yemeni girl displaced from the war. My family and I live in a rented house in Al-Shahrab 15,000 Yemenis among us, and now we owe 45,000 for 3 months. The owner of the house is one of the people who does not have mercy, by God, my brother. He comes every day, insulting us, talking about us, and moving from the house to the street because we were unable to pay him the rent. The neighbors saw us crying and came back.They came back to talk to the neighbors and we were given the weekend. So we made him swear by God. He will take us out into the street. Have mercy on him and us. Our country is due to this war and we do not find food for our day, and my brothers and I live in a difficult life. Our father died, may God have mercy on him, and we have no one in this world who was with us in these harsh circumstances. My younger brothers went out into the street and saw...The neighbors eat and stand at their door in order to give them bread even if they break it. By God, to whom belongs the dominion of the heavens and the earth, they closed the door and expelled them and came back crying. They are dying of hunger. No one has mercy on them and a holiday is returned. I have made a living, and now if one of us helps us with a kilo of flour, I swear to God, I am dying of hunger. My brother, I am an alien to God. Then, I ask you to help me for the sake of God. I ask you, by God, to love goodness and to help me, even if you can, by messaging me on WhatsApp.On this number 00967736246190 and ask for the name of my card and send it and do not be late and may God reward you with all the best, my brothers Sagar, see how they are and help us and save us before they throw us out in the street, you will be lost or we will die of hunger. My family and I ask you, by God, if you are able to help us, do not be late and may God reward you well..`/--~«««~-♡~♡~♡~~•~•~♡~♡~♡~♡~♡~♡♡♡~~~: ~:~¡~¡~¡i.i.i. i¡.I.|-...........؛'؛'؛'

    • @Thekoolaidchamp
      @Thekoolaidchamp Месяц назад +1

      "That's a lot of words. Too bad I'm not reading em" 😎🎶

    • @deepanjansen2147
      @deepanjansen2147 Месяц назад +1

      why beg if u are fully abled and can earn ur own bread ? didn't allha taught u this?

    • @maryalex1401
      @maryalex1401 21 день назад

      @@deepanjansen2147apparently not lol

  • @dannylavashlifeinchina2731
    @dannylavashlifeinchina2731 Месяц назад

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