They're only about money and whatever they can get from you! They'll tell you anything you want to hear, but their actions never lines up with what they say! Venemous lies!
God I wish I had seen your channel way sooner. Would have saved me 2 years of mental pain and 6 months of counselling. I have recovered/recovering now, and I really wish I saw your vids about Narcissism before. Took me time to realize I was in a trauma bond and all that gaslighting. Thank the universe for giving me your channel and I sincerely everything goes right in your life for you Jessica. For this immense support you are doing to people like us. Thank you so much!
I will never trust a woman again no matter what she said , no matter how innocent or good she is , anytime she could leave , and I'll be prepared....I lost women I thought would never leave me...promises which seems sooo deep yet breaks in seconds...I lose my hope in dating now, I'll never ever gona trust that a girl will marry me...ever again...its just my turn
Exactly! I wish I could start a channel and teach men that love is not real. The romantic love you saw in movies growing up, is fantasy. You have the right mindset! You got it bro hit that gym and just have fun with these women until it’s not fun anymore!😅
@@masharion good job. You’re only 4 years older than my son. Proud of you bruh! Hit that gym, stack your money and save , travel and take care of your mind and body. Just have fun with women. When it’s not fun any longer and any headaches come, leave and onto the next. Simple!
I've been through this, and I'm still caught in that rabbit hole. Your insights have truly opened my eyes, and now I know what steps I need to take. Thank you.
"constant business" is the biggest red flag when it comes to lack of interest/attraction. If you ask her out twice and shes busy and she doesn't try to reschedule, just move on bro. You don't even have to say anything, just leave her in the dust.
I like your head tie @sister Jessica of God😆, it really fits you and thank you ALWAYS for being concerned about us and our affairs especially on relationship. You're the best, much❤💞💓💕 from me to you and God will continue to bless you ma'am 🙏.
@truthandrighteousness In the same situation 2 months ago. Her words and actions in person won me over and everything seemed on the up, but then the date cancellaions, no rescheduling, excuses of a busy schedule, lack of responses to texting, and short texting, was frustrating. Finally stopped texting her and let her go. Now I met someone who is the exact opposite and I'm so happy now. Don't despair and give up. There's always another higher value woman around the bend.
1. Lack of Dopamine Bust 2. Ambivalence 3. Commitment Phobia 4. Surface Level Conversations 5. No Intro to Friends and Family 6. Lack of Curiosity about You
Her exact words :It's rare for me to like a person not to talk of loving that person. If I ever say that i love a person, i am learning to love that person. It's interesting. Jess, can you believe years of being with someone, and they say that in a conversation, it leaves you guessing why they are inconsistent
God Bless You Jess!!! I already predicted the last point before even watching and voila! it was among I kept waiting to see IF you would mention it, glad you did This particular topic just blessed my heart & spoke to me Thank you!
@@yousifteedonmoye619 Well aka Satan can slso throw women your way...😂😂... I'm the type of Man that really doesn't counterracts that much...with women I keep it short sweet and snap as far as a conversation never been talkative 😂
Hi Jessie, sorry for delay I went out for the day on Saturday but yes this is so 💯relevant to some ladies in my life, the 'busy' one is a firm favourite yet when I back off and don't contact them,all of a sudden they're interested🤔 it's as though they 'get off' on blokes pursuing them and seek validation or something to reassure themselves they are still fanciable and attractive but sadly it takes a long while for me to realise I'm pissing in the wind, (sorry to use uncouth language) but it's apt,thanks for this and reminding us guys of stuff,btw you look marvellous in the headband/scarf in your hair x
This is why it's a good idea to *date more than one person* at a time. Three is a good number for me. At least one of the three is bound to be more present. Three keeps the dating program moving efficiently👍 Additionally, and more importantly... It's also a super solid idea to have some things going for yourself, as well as to maintain a fit, well-kept appearance. This will help to boost your self-image. The very idea that you should have to chase someone should be completely beneath you‼️💯
how i wish i saw this video in march, now i have made the biggest blunder a man can do; spending money to assist a woman who does not even consider you at all and always has excuses about going out with you and finally she said bye bye because i confronted her about her non challant attitude. i feel very empty now
*One of the biggest signs she’s not serious is inconsistent behavior. If she flirts heavily one day and then goes cold the next, it’s a red flag. Serious relationships require consistent communication and effort. If you find yourself constantly guessing where you stand, it might be time to reevaluate the relationship. Trust your instincts!*
same thing am having with this lady have been with for the past few months, no sign of interest and when i bring up the topic she will say am insecure, i just deleted her number today before listening to your podcast, and i was laughing all thru listening to it because this are all the sign that is exhibited in the relationship. thanks once again jess i just doge a bullet 😇🥰😛😂😂
Yeah, my wife is doing this type of maneuvering. Just, can't get her to move towards divorce but gets highly upset on talking divorce...but she does absolutely nothing here @home...and I mean nothing from cleaning to cooking. Comes & goes as she please...I think she has a mental health issue...?? She won't leave...I run a business here...she wants to be married with no involvement.?? I have given up on literally trying to understand or figure her out...I just have to big of an investment here to break camp.
I hear you man. Too much of an investment here to break camp, love the analogy. This my partner of 6-7 years. Gave up tryna figure it out. I did move into my own place and ring her twice a week now. She answers we talk for a while but she never includes me and now it's vice versa
I personal;ly experienced Sign number 1 and 2 with a girl I was dating some 4 months ago, after having dated her for 2 years. Eventually I had to cut the ties/conversation and any relatioonship with her. Because she didnt tell me that her love for me had vanished, but action do speak alot . Because at the end of the day she just stayed only because of my frequent gifts and some money that I gave her once in a while. But right now all my concentration is in just building my online business and my health. And if love crosses my way, then maybe I will go in that direction if it's going to be a 2 way traffic. Anyway Great Video Jessica ❤
Wonderful content. What would you say about someone who feels irritated whenever you ask her about how her day went or who's oftentimes using monosyllabic answers when chatting with you.
1. Lack of Dopamine Bust - Means motivatees to seek out the person that they're attracted to. - Make effort to find you 2. Ambivelence - consestent cancle plans 3. Commitment Phobia
Almost no one is too busy… Most people are just too busy for you. And that’s OK. You don’t have to be everybody’s cup of tea. But don’t be fooled. They are not too busy. They are doing stuff with their friends. They are responding fairly quickly. Maybe some other guy that she likes she’s responding to quicker. She’s not too busy. She’s just too busy for you.
Hello madam Jessica. I have a girlfriend who doesn't want me to have access to her phone all of a sudden. For instance: today she came to me asking me to help her do something which is on her phone but she wants me to log in her account on my phone to do it. I didn't have enough bundle so I told her to let me do it on her phone and she began to give me excuses. What sign is this.
So funny thing I was working 1 job and this girl was always busy however as soon as I started to work 2 jobs all of a suddenly she available she has time lime ..lol know worth kings 💯
Quick question, please. Would you recommend or suggest a long-distance relationship to anyone? I asked this on the back of what my cousin got going on. From observation, he is the one doing most of the reach out and communicating. If he doesn't, nothing comes from her end until he does, and then the excuses flows.
So what if a lady talks to you over how certain real women should behave whilst you don’t date,meaning you still friends what’s the signal she’s sending
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Lets protect this sister❤
Took me two years but finally walked away and healing and being goal oriented
✅✅✅
Ayeeee W that’s what I’m planning on doing
2 years long overdue bro
2 years its too long to be chasing a girl
I'm planning that also
Lack of curiosity is the ultimate test of interest. No curiosity, no more discussion.
Yupp
Yes I agree
@@folarinadeniyi you nailed it. When it gets to that point. Just farm for your farm.
They're only about money and whatever they can get from you! They'll tell you anything you want to hear, but their actions never lines up with what they say! Venemous lies!
@@jamtime69 all about money I agree
God I wish I had seen your channel way sooner. Would have saved me 2 years of mental pain and 6 months of counselling. I have recovered/recovering now, and I really wish I saw your vids about Narcissism before. Took me time to realize I was in a trauma bond and all that gaslighting. Thank the universe for giving me your channel and I sincerely everything goes right in your life for you Jessica. For this immense support you are doing to people like us. Thank you so much!
awww! Thank you. I'm glad you're getting value from my videos. You're my reason.
It's cool how you blend psychological principles to explain this topic, kudos
I will never trust a woman again no matter what she said , no matter how innocent or good she is , anytime she could leave , and I'll be prepared....I lost women I thought would never leave me...promises which seems sooo deep yet breaks in seconds...I lose my hope in dating now, I'll never ever gona trust that a girl will marry me...ever again...its just my turn
Exactly! I wish I could start a channel and teach men that love is not real. The romantic love you saw in movies growing up, is fantasy. You have the right mindset! You got it bro hit that gym and just have fun with these women until it’s not fun anymore!😅
Love for a man is hard
@@idenjames7717 for real?
Yea realized they all lie and all have multiple dudes and I’m only 18 knowin dis and feelin dis way
@@masharion good job. You’re only 4 years older than my son. Proud of you bruh! Hit that gym, stack your money and save , travel and take care of your mind and body. Just have fun with women. When it’s not fun any longer and any headaches come, leave and onto the next. Simple!
I've been through this, and I'm still caught in that rabbit hole. Your insights have truly opened my eyes, and now I know what steps I need to take. Thank you.
Watching from Jamaica🇯🇲🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
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Jessica ur the best relationship youtuber
"constant business" is the biggest red flag when it comes to lack of interest/attraction. If you ask her out twice and shes busy and she doesn't try to reschedule, just move on bro. You don't even have to say anything, just leave her in the dust.
I like your head tie @sister Jessica of God😆, it really fits you and thank you ALWAYS for being concerned about us and our affairs especially on relationship.
You're the best, much❤💞💓💕 from me to you and God will continue to bless you ma'am 🙏.
Thank you ,this video made me realising alot of things about my relationship.
It really hurts especially when you crazily love her!!
I have this situation atm.
@@pawelczerniakowskifootball375master some strength, with time you will forget them..
@truthandrighteousness In the same situation 2 months ago. Her words and actions in person won me over and everything seemed on the up, but then the date cancellaions, no rescheduling, excuses of a busy schedule, lack of responses to texting, and short texting, was frustrating. Finally stopped texting her and let her go.
Now I met someone who is the exact opposite and I'm so happy now. Don't despair and give up. There's always another higher value woman around the bend.
Underrated video!!!!!!! Thank you for this!!!! I wish I saw this 10 years ago.
Glad it was helpful!
You really provide authentic and accurate information. To the point always.
1. Lack of Dopamine Bust
2. Ambivalence
3. Commitment Phobia
4. Surface Level Conversations
5. No Intro to Friends and Family
6. Lack of Curiosity about You
Thanks Jess I appreciate those great tips. I've had too slowly let go and rebuild myself back to where I first started
Time well invested in this video. Thank you Jess.
I am learning from Jack- my Jess ~you bringing balance to these women dramas and how to outsmart them for sure ❤🎉
I'm always eager to watch her videos.. very educative and i also get to learn new word, like today: ambivalence..
Just broke up with someone that display all of these on the list.
Broke up with her yesterday
that's bold man 💯🫱🏻🫲🏾
congrats man!! she was using you! that evil mantises know exactly what they're doing!
Jess ,my personal opinion is that these signs are applicable to both males and females...
Her exact words :It's rare for me to like a person not to talk of loving that person.
If I ever say that i love a person, i am learning to love that person.
It's interesting.
Jess, can you believe years of being with someone, and they say that in a conversation, it leaves you guessing why they are inconsistent
God Bless You Jess!!!
I already predicted the last point before even watching and voila! it was among
I kept waiting to see IF you would mention it, glad you did
This particular topic just blessed my heart & spoke to me
Thank you!
Thanks for your great information! It's very much appreciated! 🤩👍💯
Thank you Jess. These days the games are very crazy😢. It's hard to tell if she's flowing with you or not
No matter the game bro, based on what Jessica OS said. Here if she doesn't show effort. She's not the one fam.
@@yousifteedonmoye619 thanks g🔥🔥
@@yousifteedonmoye619 Well aka Satan can slso throw women your way...😂😂...
I'm the type of Man that really doesn't counterracts that much...with women I keep it short sweet and snap as far as a conversation never been talkative 😂
Hi Jessie, sorry for delay I went out for the day on Saturday but yes this is so 💯relevant to some ladies in my life, the 'busy' one is a firm favourite yet when I back off and don't contact them,all of a sudden they're interested🤔 it's as though they 'get off' on blokes pursuing them and seek validation or something to reassure themselves they are still fanciable and attractive but sadly it takes a long while for me to realise I'm pissing in the wind, (sorry to use uncouth language) but it's apt,thanks for this and reminding us guys of stuff,btw you look marvellous in the headband/scarf in your hair x
Jessy, you speak so well & this makes you expressly & effortlessly pass your message.
#Don'tChase
Sounds like the girl I just left I feel so free guys it's crazy 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 thanks so much Jessica
you're always on point like a decimal 🔗♥️
This is why it's a good idea to *date more than one person* at a time. Three is a good number for me. At least one of the three is bound to be more present. Three keeps the dating program moving efficiently👍 Additionally, and more importantly...
It's also a super solid idea to have some things going for yourself, as well as to maintain a fit, well-kept appearance. This will help to boost your self-image. The very idea that you should have to chase someone should be completely beneath you‼️💯
Jasse ❤❤ you are really give us the important keys of relationships ❤ much love and thanks for your advice ❤ love sending from 🇸🇸
I have being experiencing all this Six signs lately..which wasn't there before.and as for me.i told myself it's done and am out.
Thanks for the advice ma'am
My pleasure 😊
In my former relationship l was experiencing that and l left because l felt under valued
EXCELLENT PRESENTATION AND FACTLY
Pure facts 💯
You dressed like a church sister today ❤️😂 Thank you so much, OS!
@@YalaMan01 I no understand OS😂
Points 5 and 6 are very relatable, Jessica
You’re so beautiful I love your advice. He’s so smart.
how i wish i saw this video in march, now i have made the biggest blunder a man can do; spending money to assist a woman who does not even consider you at all and always has excuses about going out with you and finally she said bye bye because i confronted her about her non challant attitude. i feel very empty now
i can relate .... its not easy
Haha bro you needed to go through that before you'll value this video. Am glad I just watched and am on a journey... Am blessed
@@ubakpan1843 she turns hot today and next week cold. i could not even say which direction we were headed after 3 months. until i had enough.
@@chuk4292 gym, simplify life, live life, we live we learn, the next one will be better 😎
another lesson along the way, stay to the light brother ❤
*One of the biggest signs she’s not serious is inconsistent behavior. If she flirts heavily one day and then goes cold the next, it’s a red flag. Serious relationships require consistent communication and effort. If you find yourself constantly guessing where you stand, it might be time to reevaluate the relationship. Trust your instincts!*
Thanks Auntie Jess, Blessings.
same thing am having with this lady have been with for the past few months, no sign of interest and when i bring up the topic she will say am insecure, i just deleted her number today before listening to your podcast, and i was laughing all thru listening to it because this are all the sign that is exhibited in the relationship. thanks once again jess i just doge a bullet 😇🥰😛😂😂
Thank you Jessica Os. From your favorite color to...
This is spot on! Thanks for sharing💯
Yeah, my wife is doing this type of maneuvering. Just, can't get her to move towards divorce but gets highly upset on talking divorce...but she does absolutely nothing here @home...and I mean nothing from cleaning to cooking. Comes & goes as she please...I think she has a mental health issue...?? She won't leave...I run a business here...she wants to be married with no involvement.?? I have given up on literally trying to understand or figure her out...I just have to big of an investment here to break camp.
I hear you man. Too much of an investment here to break camp, love the analogy. This my partner of 6-7 years. Gave up tryna figure it out. I did move into my own place and ring her twice a week now. She answers we talk for a while but she never includes me and now it's vice versa
@KDrip7812 put everything in your parents' name that you can and divorce her. Booom.your out.
I personal;ly experienced Sign number 1 and 2 with a girl I was dating some 4 months ago, after having dated her for 2 years.
Eventually I had to cut the ties/conversation and any relatioonship with her. Because she didnt tell me that her love for me had vanished, but action do speak alot . Because at the end of the day she just stayed only because of my frequent gifts and some money that I gave her once in a while.
But right now all my concentration is in just building my online business and my health. And if love crosses my way, then maybe I will go in that direction if it's going to be a 2 way traffic.
Anyway Great Video Jessica
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Me too
Thanks, right on time before a date. ;)
You're the best Jessie 🌹💖
Love from Naija 🇳🇬
Thank you so much for your content
Wonderful content. What would you say about someone who feels irritated whenever you ask her about how her day went or who's oftentimes using monosyllabic answers when chatting with you.
Great content 👌
Jessica is very intelligent
Facts. Thanks for this video and reminder.
She is awesome..
Thanks girl!!!😅😊
1. Lack of Dopamine Bust
- Means motivatees to seek out the person that they're attracted to.
- Make effort to find you
2. Ambivelence
- consestent cancle plans
3. Commitment Phobia
Thanks Jessica
Very helping Jesse
Sister Jessica😂
Happy Sunday
😉😉
Took me four years but eventually had to take a walk.
It can happen anytime.
Great content Jessie. I love this ❤
Almost no one is too busy… Most people are just too busy for you. And that’s OK. You don’t have to be everybody’s cup of tea. But don’t be fooled. They are not too busy. They are doing stuff with their friends. They are responding fairly quickly. Maybe some other guy that she likes she’s responding to quicker. She’s not too busy. She’s just too busy for you.
Good tip
I am going to try it
I just can't believe I'm experiencing almost all of these😢😢
Thank you 😊
Thanks for sharing 💯
Thanks coach nice advice
Brilliant. I dating online for two years with a girl. She still gives excuse to meet up. Iafter watching this video. I realized
Wow 👌 I hear you
Awesome.. very and factually true
Perfect 👌. Cheers
No kid pool anymore
Hello madam Jessica. I have a girlfriend who doesn't want me to have access to her phone all of a sudden. For instance: today she came to me asking me to help her do something which is on her phone but she wants me to log in her account on my phone to do it. I didn't have enough bundle so I told her to let me do it on her phone and she began to give me excuses.
What sign is this.
These signs are likewise to men
So funny thing I was working 1 job and this girl was always busy however as soon as I started to work 2 jobs all of a suddenly she available she has time lime ..lol know worth kings 💯
I know what to do now
How do I handle this situation, constantly being ignored, especially on socials and even when she's active she still ignores
Ignore her back.
There are many fishes in the ocean so why stick to one.
@@kusimoomotayo7217 unfollow her bro
She not interested bro, just move on to someone who is interested.
Xcellent Somtin💯
Hello Jessica, really love your videos, you’re so inspiring and and fun to listen to.
Thank you so much!
Thanks!
Very good stuff.. but honestly "sitting with a woman and telling her how important emotional connection is to you" is hogwash
Been missing you.
I'm right here. 😊
We really need more people like you in this world😌❤️🩹
Jessica please can We av xpliment together?!!!?all flights tickets possible
Exactly what am getting from her 😮😮
Had such experience with a gal,but I overcame these probes due to some tips from books I've read.
What books 📚 bro 😢
Iam fallen for this toomuch times women wants my things but not me so they use whatever means to get it
Also love is like a drug. If you take it too much you will get used to it
not even asking if that person likes you they would care how u feel, think about your perspective.
Professor Jessy 🫡
Nice
Quick question, please.
Would you recommend or suggest a long-distance relationship to anyone?
I asked this on the back of what my cousin got going on.
From observation, he is the one doing most of the reach out and communicating.
If he doesn't, nothing comes from her end until he does, and then the excuses flows.
So what if a lady talks to you over how certain real women should behave whilst you don’t date,meaning you still friends what’s the signal she’s sending