The Consequences of Infidelity on the Unfaithful
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- Опубликовано: 15 июн 2022
- In this video Hasani will explore The Consequences of Infidelity on the Unfaithful.
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Cheaters are Spiritually broken and I believe cheating is a character flaw but also demonic..
Totally agree with you! Those that broke their covenant they made to God and their spouse are selfish! No doubt about it. Infidelity can only happen when a spouse is only thinking of their own pleasures and desires. They have no self control. They allow the devil to slip in through the tiniest crack and eventually the devil takes over and destroys the entire family. A man who loves his wife would think about the damages his actions would traumatize his wife. YES it is DEMONIC! There are so many evil spirits in the church. That’s who the devil is after. A man of God who loves and serves God. If he can get to the husband, he has destroyed the entire family all the way down to the grandchildren. People say it doesn’t hurt the children and they get over it quickly. I know, I’ve lived through this. It DID hurt my precious grandbabies. The devil ain’t after the men outside of the church he already has them serving him.
It’s hard to have any sympathy for my unfaithful husband who chose to cheat. His choices stole my choices! His secrets stole my reality. He didn’t even consider me or what his choices were going to do to me or our relationship or our daughter. But his failure to “show up” for me in the last 4 1/2 years, avoiding the consequences, conversations or making amends is so gutting and has strangled our recovery. We’ve been together for half of our lives and that’s when he had his affair! We’re in counseling now but the going is so slow. His lack of progress doesn’t generate much sympathy from me.
Are you seeking help for your marriage?
I agree with you 100 percent. What I hear from him in counseling and outside of that space concerns me, because there is no remorse or insight into his behavior. And basically It's still my fault. What is compounding the problem is we are grieving the loss of a child. I'm so broken and just feel hopeless in general. 17 years of losses and trauma in this marriage have taken such a toll, so I'm really clinging to what's left of my faith. It's going to take a divine intervention!
Wife of 12 years had an affair and seems very indifferent and like she could care less. I packed my stuff and left, she is just sad her “good girl image” is now exposed, and also how it affected our daughter. She’s a compulsive liar but I’m glad she cheated. She always accused me of cheating and I now see she was just projecting. I tried to lead my family with prayer and Bible studies but she was just impossible to please or communicate with. I prayed hard for the Holy Spirit to show me if she was cheating and he answered my prayer two weeks later.
We were married 20 years, had an affair while we were married with young girls in their 20's. He was abusive towards me emotionally. He threatened me with divorce so often. I eventually signer it. Since then he blocked me on all corners and remarried to one of his mistresses. I'm not sure he feels any pain because we don't talk since our divorce. Our kids are suffering. He took them away from me. I believe he divorced me because I was unemployed for five years. I have forgiven him.
So, as I sat here listening to this informative broadcast I'm trying to be empathetic. However, I find it hard to believe that the person who betrays their spouse really hurting by the decision they chose to make...and yes I do mean chose to make. I've been married for 21½ years and I've never cheated on my husband, but he has cheated and cheating on me as if it's just a regular Monday. For the last for years he's been with this other woman to the extent of moving her to the town we live in just 5 streets away for where our daughter lives. Oh I could tell you SO much more about this, but I'm not going to put that much of his stuff on here. So no I do not believe his hurting by his actions. We are not kids, we have 5 adult girls and because of his cheating and lies we have a sad divide amongst the family. Cheating goes way beyond cheating, way beyond.
Mine said he didn’t feel sorry about doing it to me either. I got all the blame for his cheating. He won’t stop either. He won’t even acknowledge that he could have deeper issues from childhood, etc. Sickens me .
I'm sorry you been hurt. But yes the unfaithful partner does make the decision to cheat. But they do have feelings. Actually some suffer from sex addiction. And they have to take courses and such. If your man didn't love you he wouldn't stay with you and leave you for the other woman. Maybe try some counseling for yourself to see your worth. Cause allowing this to continue with you staying he's learning no consequences.
And u are not to blame. Both parties take the share. Never allow someone to blame you. They could of easily walked away before they had a affair
@@Angel-sc3go we don't live together. And you better believe I went and got counseling. I'm way to old for the childish games.
@@Angel-sc3go I can and will own my stuff, which was a lot of just not knowing that I needed to cover him in prayer, to not put him last after the kids and our communicational skills sucked big time. But none of what was lacking should have never lead to an affair.
That’s a good word!!! Preach!!
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Reaping what you sew is only in the movies
I’m watching your app my husband had an infedlity during the time I was at the hospital with my dad who was dying my heart was already broken I caught him from 2 states away the very night it happened he had called told me he loved me on his way to cheat and lyied for 2 months said it was only a kiss and then finally admitted it and I just can’t heal the betrayal and pain is so deep my dad died one week after this and there is so much more to this somedays I just don’t want to go on even though he has changed so much and is trying so hard I’m not healing even after counseling
Nah they just move on to another one
Right! They "forgive themselves" and do it again
My wife cheat on me with 4 defrent man before someone caught them and She was take those man to our house taking advantage of my absence for 4 years can i still trust Her is it possible to bring Her back is She going to change
She will cheat on you or anyone else. Start a new life and leave her.
Hell nawl. Move yo ass on!!
She's still going to be your wife in God's eyes that's your mate til death. Get your life together in Christ and stop getting bad advice from bitter hateful voices online
May I ask you, were you the cheater in your relationship? Because I've been watching videos on infidelity on four counselors. Sam is one of the counselors. His wife is Samantha. He cheated on his wife with his secretary at their church where they all three worked and he cheated on his wife with his secretary for 3 years and the secretary was his wife's best friend and now they're all counselors telling us what to do and not to do. And yet I keep hearing sympathy for the cheater because you're supposed to understand they're going through their own issues. They had to leave the fair which they had their heart involved with and that was challenging for them and they're trying to come back and be responsible person and hold down a job and try to repair a marriage. Wow okay. The non-cheater didn't mess up the marriage. The non-cheater didn't put triggers in the life of the cheater the non-cheaters consequences. And yeah my health has been off the Richter scale bad. I have had anxiety attacks. I never used to take medication. I'm on for now and this was not for my actions. So if I want to wake up at 2:00 and talk about the trigger, he's going to talk about the trigger and every counselor. I said it could take 10 15 years and you know what you put that hell in there life. You're going to have to listen to it and you're going to have to sympathize with the non-cheater. Yeah, that's the only way to get past that
The problem with what you're saying about her waking up at 2:00 a.m. And then waking him up cuz he has to go to work well. Guess what she has to go to work too and then she has a house full of kids and she has to tackle all of that and she's not sleeping because she just had a trigger in her dreams for our consequence. She's having to go through that he caused and you're wanting sympathy for him cuz he's got to get up and go to work. Do you see the unfairness in that? Yeah I gave my husband a solid year of great times. I put it all behind. I put the lies, the deceits the f****** with the finances, all of it behind us. We had a wonderful year and at the end of that year when my girlfriend died of cancer he was a total a******* to me. Was a really bad a****** to me and them. We continue the counseling which we've been doing for 4 years since D-Day disclosure which he didn't give it all at one time. It was tidbits here tidbits there. My triggers were coming off on every corner. Music was a trigger. Hotels were triggers, restaurants were triggers. My whole city was a trigger and I'm having to live in a life of hell. I have my mother here that I'm a caregiver for and I am not old and fat. I'm 66 years old. Everybody thinks I'm in my 50s. I am very fit. I am very agile. I am very nice looking and he had multiple affairs and I'm supposed to feel bad. He's going to miss out on his sleep. Oh heavens no no no no
You should add to your list very proud, very bitter and very unforgiving your attractiveness will be dust in roughly 30 short years life is too short to be.m a hate filled woman have some joy forgive and restore with GOD and then your spouse so both of you can be setfree.