When she said, “I’m going to consider my own emotions and desires before I make a decision.” I had to stop what I was doing and write that down because I don’t think I’ve ever checked in with myself first. Pouring from an empty cup was normalized since childhood. Sending love to anyone else that is going through their selfishness journey! 😘❤️❤️
i struggle with giving from an empty pot 😢 .. i feel guilty when i don't help out sometimes , then i find myself in a deficit . but lately I've been trying to put myself first , for once bought something for myself and it helped boost my esteem . i was so proud of myself
"While. It's a good thing to give it's even better when you give with intention." I love the part about self-trust. It's such an important part of the moves we make in many areas of life. Great question from the sister and love the insight ladies! ~Candace
Sooo true - what do I desire? Idk I’ve been living for and protecting my siblings for so long idk what my dreams are without considering someone else in that decision
This episode was so hard to watch and listen to because I am the giver who continues to give until I have nothing. It’s something I have been actively working on and it’s so hard. Building boundaries and keeping them is so difficult. But thank you for the confirmation of what I already knew was true and the reassurance to keep going.
I love every single one of your podcasts but I tell you this read me for absolute filth. WHEWWW chilayyyy! Like I am so afraid to confront these things about myself that I genuinely wanted to turn this off. Thank y’all for this work, thank y’all for opening something inside of me, I’m ready to change no matter how uncomfortable. 🪷
I am a new subscriber to your channel hi ❤ Thank you for discussing about this topic and giving good advice on it Lmao this was something I needed to hear because right now this is the year where I have decided to put myself first and get rid of those that weren't beneficial for me. At first it was very difficult to make that big move because I thought that was a selfish move :( However, I realized that it is important to set boundaries and get rid of those that are not making you happy. Once I finally put my foot down, it really felt good to get rid of that big rock off my shoulders Lmao if that makes sense 😂 Right now I am currently still trying to figure myself out and trying to get out my comfort zone (getting to know new people) but its hard because I still have some type of trust issues and some type of fear cause of the past traumatic events I have dealt with.
I have a dream to see a TMS talk show + have Courtney and Renée on Forbes 30 under 30
Me too🥰🙏🏾🙌🏾 they are amazing
I was literally thinking the same thing before reading the comments❤️✨They Deserve it✨
Ikr 🙌🏽
Same they deserve everything ❤️💕🫶🏾
Wow that’s amazing! See visions for others!
Courtney: You need to be willing to give parts of your heart to other people. You have to be vulnerable.
Me: no. No. NO. NOOOOO!
LMAOOOOOOOOO felt this
😂😂😂
No cuz being vulnerable is something i’ll do with 1 person on 1.000.000 people and i STAY BY THAT
When she said, “I’m going to consider my own emotions and desires before I make a decision.” I had to stop what I was doing and write that down because I don’t think I’ve ever checked in with myself first. Pouring from an empty cup was normalized since childhood. Sending love to anyone else that is going through their selfishness journey! 😘❤️❤️
i struggle with giving from an empty pot 😢 .. i feel guilty when i don't help out sometimes , then i find myself in a deficit . but lately I've been trying to put myself first , for once bought something for myself and it helped boost my esteem . i was so proud of myself
Proud of you, praying with you
I am unshackling myself from the bondage of perfectionism in Jesus name!!! LOL
Amen 🙏🏽🙏🏽
"While. It's a good thing to give it's even better when you give with intention." I love the part about self-trust. It's such an important part of the moves we make in many areas of life. Great question from the sister and love the insight ladies!
~Candace
Commenting as I go! I haven’t been here for a while, hey guys!
Your discussions are always encouraging 💝🙏🏾 thank you ladies
Sooo true - what do I desire?
Idk I’ve been living for and protecting my siblings for so long idk what my dreams are without considering someone else in that decision
Clock work and it’s always a topic I need! I love it here!🤩♥️
this podcast has honestly become one of my Sunday staples🙌🏿🙌🏿
Always look forward to getting that notif!
This episode was so hard to watch and listen to because I am the giver who continues to give until I have nothing. It’s something I have been actively working on and it’s so hard. Building boundaries and keeping them is so difficult. But thank you for the confirmation of what I already knew was true and the reassurance to keep going.
I love every single one of your podcasts but I tell you this read me for absolute filth. WHEWWW chilayyyy! Like I am so afraid to confront these things about myself that I genuinely wanted to turn this off. Thank y’all for this work, thank y’all for opening something inside of me, I’m ready to change no matter how uncomfortable. 🪷
This came at the best time. ♥️
Same for me!
The TMS podcast is always exactly what I need ❤️
I literally just checked if there was an upload and then you uploaded immediately after!
This topic was so necessary and timely. Wow.
My new favorite podcast and RUclips channel! You’re killing it ladies and your videos are like a warm hug!! I love it here !!!
this was the best thing i've EVER watched in my life. you guys are so articulate, i aspire to be like you!
Made our day! Thank you so much ❤️
I am a new subscriber to your channel hi ❤
Thank you for discussing about this topic and giving good advice on it Lmao this was something I needed to hear because right now this is the year where I have decided to put myself first and get rid of those that weren't beneficial for me. At first it was very difficult to make that big move because I thought that was a selfish move :( However, I realized that it is important to set boundaries and get rid of those that are not making you happy. Once I finally put my foot down, it really felt good to get rid of that big rock off my shoulders Lmao if that makes sense 😂
Right now I am currently still trying to figure myself out and trying to get out my comfort zone (getting to know new people) but its hard because I still have some type of trust issues and some type of fear cause of the past traumatic events I have dealt with.
happy to be here. thank you, ladies.
Literally after work I'm here🥺❤
You guys are too good👏🏽👏🏽
Ooouuu Renee? Those curls sis 😍👌
wow, this video is a great help. some real enlightening and confronting shit right here. thank you.
Thank you for sharing this
Powerful
Wonderful
I feel guilty for expressing myself when I feel a way about things I am very self conscious. How do I stop this form of low self esteem
Whewwwwwwwwwwww If you don’t allow yourself to feel scared you’ll never do anything revolutionary WOOOOOWWWWWWW AW WORDDDDD HUNTY!
Just like that I am first!
What won't fade is your regret😂
@33:25 Courtney why were you speaking directly to me 🥲