I'm surprised that a grounded individual like you would indulge in someone like Owen Benjamin. I have watched many of his broadcasts but am still on the fence about where his heart lies. Half the time I feel that he is paid oposition and the other half the time I feel like he is an open-minded individual who has the street smarts who has learned a way to put a wrench in the system. I congratulate you on this and your honesty in this video. Kudos to you!. I would say that I do have an alcohol problem. I come home every evening and take at least five ten shots of 99 proof vodka. It doesn't matter if others would say that's a problem, I feel it is. Thank you again for your awesome work and hopefully my 1 comment makes it up above the 1.5 million viewers you have and you can read this. For no other reason that I am selfish and want to be recognized,,, LOL with a spice of truth. I just want to give my congrats to an awesome RUclipsr, as yourself. Keep On Keepin On!!!
I watch your vidoes all the time, i like how your about making tools, and so on, last rather than buying new, by buying quality. Im not trying to sound weird at all but i sometimes play your audio on videos when im going to sleep, because i like your standpoint on working, and tools for working. It really hit me when you posted this video , because i drink almost every day functionally and have felt bad the next day not even thinking that it may be alcohol, I respect you and i appreciate your standpoint on subjects that you make vidoes on. My dad is your age but most ive learned ive learned i had to learn myself youtube videos etc. I uderstand how you have so many subscribers because so many can relate ,keep up the good videos man
There was a time when I thought I couldn't make day 3. Well, here I am. It's been several years. Never again will will it touch my lips, and my life is a lot better. I don't think I'm any better than the next guy. But I am better than my old self.
I have! Only when I woke up next to some beautiful woman I wouldn't have had the courage to talk to otherwise. Then I realized promiscuity is even more destructive than drinking!
@@MakeWayForTheLion I hear you. I think the times beer goggles brought home a less than beautiful woman really struck a cord in me as well. I am man enough to admit I did more than once, but I am married now and forgiven.
An old farmer once told me "if you don't want your children to do something, don't do that in front of them. If you don't want your children to be drinkers, don't drink, If you want them to be honorable, lead by example" I took it to heart and stopped drinking in front of my children, eventually i could count the beers i'd consumed in a year on one hand, this went on for several years, and then about four years ago i quit entirely for health reasons. I don't miss it at all. After mowing the lawn, a tall glass of unsweetened ice tea really hits the spot.
Great video Cody, presently in the same struggle. Police officer with some PTSD issues, turned to alcohol to numb the turmoil, always feel guilty that I'm sometimes in a bit of a fog while trying to be a good dad. Its encouraging to hear you experience the same temptation. Keep us posted on your progress, honestly I was going to run to liquor store tonight, but watching this changed my mind.
Brother, you can do this. I was in the military for 15 years, I drank for the same reasons, but it's a lie. It's the devil on your shoulder telling you that its merely medicine. You are stronger for your experiences, you can do this!
I just worked 12 hours and I'm drinking a beer right now as I'm watching this. You've ruined it for me. I just poured it down the sink and I'm going to play with my kids instead. Thank you
"You've ruined it for me." Hmm .... seems you've just let someone tell you what to do? What did you do wrong? Because someone else gets on a bandwagon, you've convinced yourself that you are a bad person, based on what ...... their weakness? You need to take back YOUR life, and stop trying to follow someone else that could change their mind on this issue in a heartbeat. Be the better man, and if you are not this bad person you let this other person convince you that you are without evidence, then have the cajones to say " well. that is what you may need to do, but I have the wherewithall to moderate my life in all things .... so thanks ..... but no thanks!".
For about 3-5 months i got bad with getting a 12 pack or a case of beer and getting drunk almost every weekend. I finally realized that I am not doing any good getting drunk every weekend. Most of my family is a bunch of alcoholics and i dont want to end up like them. I haven't had a single drop since January
xjyrki I don’t think his point was him being an alcoholic I think his point was that getting drunk every weekend wasn’t doing him any good and his family is full of alcoholics and he doesn’t want to end up like them, I’ll give you an example: starting with a 12 pack and moving to liqour 1 26oz a weekend then it moves to 40oz a weekend and then it moves to 40oz a day I’m pretty sure that’s what his whole point was or it’s just what I’m seeing
Good decision, I quit for 10 years or so when I was about 26, I just could not depend on being able to drink like normal people. Most of the time I was fine, but there was always that one time out of 5 that I really couldnt turn it off. Once I resolved myself to quit and never start drinking, it was suprisingly easy. I can remember years after that I was grateful that I had not "tied one on" and made an idiot out of myself. You got it wired man..... There is NOTHING wrong with alcohol and even grass, it just doesn't work for me.....
Im 24 and its been almost 3 years. It does get easier. The hardest parts are not drinking at social events, and classic things like fishing etc. If your really struggling try Heineken 0.0 or another NA called Partake. But its tempting to have the real deal after these so only drink em as a last resort.. Atleast until you have practice resisting the temptation.
From someone who "didn't have a drinking problem" for years, and is now going on 2 years without drinking; I know you can do it, you have the proper motivations and support system. Keep up the good work Cody!
Good video. One thing that always kept me away from alcohol is the passing of my grandfather before my mothers wedding and the Bible passage below. Alcohol always caused problems and abuse in the family, and once he got saved he completely dropped it, lived 5 more blessed years and passed in peace. "Wherefore be ye not unwise, but understanding what the will of the Lord is. And be not drunk with wine, wherein is excess; but be filled with the Spirit; Speaking to yourselves in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody in your heart to the Lord" Ephesians 5:17-19
I’ve recently found your channel, and am blown away with this honesty and the introspective look you have taken. I have struggled on and off with substance use of many kinds and will be sober 1 year best month. I have 2 year old kids and the footage of your young one brought tears to my eyes. I would like to say thank you for putting this out. I wish all the best.
“All things are lawful for me,” but not all things are helpful. “All things are lawful for me,” but I will not be dominated by anything." -1 Corinthians 6.12.
I never knew this was in the bible! Can anyone that's more versed in the Good Book break this down for me, please? I don't know that really understand what this means...Thanks!🙏🙏🙏
A breakdown for you: All things are lawful for me = you can do what you want, good or bad, we are given free choice But not all things are helpful = Just because you can, doesn’t mean it cant hurt me, there are ALWAYS consequences; good consequences, and bad consequences to your actions. but I will not be dominated by anything = I won’t let myself be addicted to anything and let it control my choices.
I can, Michael. At a glance, it looks like the Bible is saying you can do whatever you want, but it's really not. In the previous chapter, someone was kicked out of the Church for unrepentant sin. It means that because Christ has paid the price for your sin, you've been set free from sin to spend eternity with God. But even through Christ gives us freedom, we can still be in bondage to sin. Drinking is an excellent example. Can you drink? Sure. Should you? Maybe or maybe not. Should you go around doing whatever you want because "Jesus paid it all?" Of course not. (See Romans 6.) The people this letter was addressed to were living in a very sinful environment. Corinth was domination by adulterous, cultish practices, and the people were trying to navigate the culture. Paul was trying to help them through it. He wasn't negating anything else in the Bible, but he was telling them in the midst of this difficult ethical situation, Christ's blood covered them. But, to paraphrase, he also said don't be stupid. Sin is a slaver, and if something is dominating you, you should leave it behind. That help?
That was wonderful! Thank you both!! I am struggling with an unhealthy addiction of my own and it has certainly dominated my life...this really spoke to me! Thank you so much for your time and help!!🙏
Thank you for sharing your testimony! I’m here because I saw you on the Bear chat with Owen. I quite vodka 3 years ago and now have an occasional beer, lost 30 pounds and never felt better. I prayed to God and the next day I woke up, poured it all down the drain with the most incredible and divine strength that I asked for to quite. If this Irish Bear can do it so can you! God bless and I look forward to watching your videos. I’m originally born and bred In Oregon as my great grandparents homesteaded in the Cedarmill area (Leahy road) so I can relate to the farming videos you share.
Can relate, even without the alcohol I can't help but spend my wages on gun stuff, mostly, but also knives, prepping stuff and just random bits too. Just yesterday I borrowed money to buy a scope and a laptop...
@@fdsman "The entirety of the Islamic middle east is dry," LoL I disagree. The Islamic middle east is as dry as the Americans Prohibition in the thirties. We aren't talking about religion or politics. We are talking about an individual that makes a decision to stop drinking alcohol.
1 month sober today on Oct 31st 2019. Coincidentally in 2015 I ended my sobriety of 8 months on October 31st. Weird huh! I don't feel any different, I had no ill feeling about booze, I just did it because it felt good and it was there. I removed it now from my mind and need to focus on living life. :-)
I absolutely understand exactly what you're saying 8 years ago I was slobbering drunk every weekend I decided to put it down walkaway since then I have had 2 beers a year on average and have only been drunk one time God bless you wranglerstar and your family
Your story is so common. The way you drink & the food etc..Sounds like my husband talking earlier this year. He went 45 days w/o alcohol. Then, when he did drink it was awful. So he took himself to rehab for 3 weeks. It’s been 4 months now. I’m so proud of him. He’s super healthy now too! 🙏🏼thanks for telling your story.
This sort of vulnerability and this type of conversation (self control and when saying no to pleasures is better and especially how faith lives out practically) is soo rare. Thank you for sharing this. You are a real influence in my life and I am grateful for your willingness to share.
I'm 500 miles from home, working in another state....which I do weekly. Today, after work, I walked into the hotel and saw that they had cold, bottled beer there for sale. I went through the same mental process as you've described. Thankfully, I decided not to buy it and drink. There are a variety of reasons, but one is that the "realness" of your thoughts and struggle has helped me. This is the most genuine, honest video on the subject that I've seen. Thank you.
I feel that alcohol can be enjoyed responsibly as part of a healthy life. That being said it's a very personal relationship/ choice and I respect your journey and wish you well!
Not everyone can handle it though. And a lot of the people who insist they can really can't. Like he said, it's a goid idea to test yourself for awhile to find out. That good long look in the mirror at the person looking back
I did this last year. went from a 6 pack a day to a 6 pack in a year. people are are always why im not having a beer. after a month or two, I have no interest to drink
Luckily I've never tasted alcohol and don't have this particular struggle. having heard stories of my great-grandfather as a drunkard has kept me from ever trying the stuff.
Curiously enough, I decided to quit drinking today (probably time to change my user name, hah). Thanks to sharing this when you did; this has inspired me to double down on that choice to quit.
@@Spazzycat14 he's a quarter Jewish. You questioning his charachter is anti-semetic. And questioning a government that has had a criminal record for not telling the truth is not a character flaw. As far as those being blocked, that's his channel, his prerogative. Creators do it all the time, do not act as if he's the only one.
Thanks OWEN. I used your videos as a source of encouragement as well. Glad to see men I look up to, giving great advice and sharing the struggle. LOGOS IS RISING. Nice shoutout video Wranglerstar. My cravings haven't stop, I doubt they ever will, but at least I know my goal is to abstain!
Cody - thanks for the motivational video. I stopped alcohol over 11 years ago and don't miss it one bit. I never even drank as much as what you were describing, but I did enjoy a glass of wine or a couple beers now and then. Stopping for me was like you were describing what may happen - once stopped it never was there as a craving/nagging and it has just become 'my thing.' I do find that certain brands of NA beer fill that gap of what to drink with my pizza so that's my only small consolation. There are some very unsavory NA beers out there so if you go that route try a few before saying no to them all. And to al those that say what's the purpose of even having NA beer, I say for this very reason...that and it makes you the default designated driver (which for me is also a good thing). Hang in there - I'm guessing you'll just not miss it after awhile and the life-style change will be an easy one.
"Weed and smoking is bad for you" *takes 5 shots of 40%+ and drinks 3 beers* or "You shouldn't eat that crap McDonald's it's so bad for you" *eats organic and drinks a whole bottle of wine*
I actually think I'm addicted to salt & vinegar potato chips. I *love* the damn things, I can't go even a couple of days sometimes without cracking open a pack. The high sodium, oil and fat content makes this quite a problem - even if I sweat out the sodium through exercise the oil still messes up my skin and puts on more calories than necessary.
Thank you for sharing this. Because of my age and full time caregiver-to-my-wife status I gave up using alcohol-except for cooking-in order to stay 'fit for duty'. Water or sometimes a soft drink is now my tipple😀.
Can't force yourself to think clearly during a hang over though. You can force yourself to do rote work.. but is the job actually required? You can schedule to force yourself to do things, but if you don't have a fluid mind you can't decide to take better opportunities when the time arises to get better outcomes.
i.e. instead of forcing yourself on the lawn mower to mow the lawn you might check classifieds in the paper and find a kickass garage sale that ends up saving you money in the long run (rather then taping your eyes open to get on the lawn mower.. (unlike some of the 'work hard drink hard' guys).
I think what he’s trying to say is, your purpose for drinking must change. Americans tend to drink until no longer sober instead of drinking for the same reason you drink anything else. It’s a drink. One hot chocolate? One. Not all you can drink until you’re sick of it or no longer sober. Stay in control. When you lose ability to be in control, you’re going too far. If you can’t control it, abstain. I fault no one for quitting. I wouldn’t keep candy in my cupboard if I didn’t think I could keep my hand out of it lol.
cobainzlady I ended up quitting drinking completely, I recommitted my life to Christ and while I don’t think a drink with dinner is a sin, I don’t want to hurt my testimony or cause a brother to stumble
"I don't have a drinking problem" Aren't those famous last words. Great video Cody, I am 52 and have not had a drink in over 15 years. I can relate to your internal struggle with alcohol thinking back. I was not an alcoholic but I enjoyed drinking. The problem for me with alcohol is it slowly and I do mean slowly, started to affect all aspects of my life. Think back to most of the big regrets in your life, things you have done to people or things you have said that you wish you could take back......Alcohol is usually involved. Nothing good comes from it and it has destroyed many lives. If you can go one day my friend, you can go the rest of your life without it. Its not just the effect on you, your kids watch everything you do and if they see you drinking, it tells them it's ok. I truly believe the devil lives in every drop. Ask the Lord for strength to resist this destructive influence that is "Socially Acceptable". Just listening to you, it seems like you don't want this in your life and you see the patterns that develop. I can tell you from experience it gets easier, and one day you will realize you don't crave it at all. 1 Peter 5:8 - Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour:
I started drinking heavily pretty much daily since I was 17. I'm 23 now and decided I need to stop the habit. Haven't drank in over a week and been working out every day to keep my mind off drinking
I was 41when I finally put it down successfully (so far) In December, it will be 10 years(AA for me); it's tough but can be done (with God's help); keep it up.
Mr. W, your son will thank you. I have a friend who just past a year of widowhood. Her 7 children are fatherless. Because of this very thing. Just the glass to relax after supper that turned in to a bottle or two. His liver failed, the surgeon cut the wrong thing, and less than 2 weeks later, he was gone. He had just turned 36. Good for you for recognizing and being willing to publicly deal with this.
Me too! 20+ tears drinking a little too much every night. (Ah, tears is a perfectly appropriate typo! Of course I meant years.) I do my job every day, a very mentally demanding job in a very competitive environment, and with decent success, but I drink EVERY night. Now I have the fatty liver, and really need to stop before I cause permanent damage (to my liver, who knows what permanent damage I've already caused to my life and family?). Trying every day, mostly failing. Always looking for motivation and encouragement like this video for W'star. Thanks.
I recently heard a caller on a radio program say that 50% of the things he does are done just so his daughter will see him do it. Meaning, you teach by being who you are, not by saying who you should be. I think your taking this action is going to have a significant impact on Jack's life so maybe you can draw some strength and motivation from that (and, of course Sweat Loaf). I lost my dad to alcoholism more than 20 years ago (he was in his 40's). He was sober for the last several years of his life, but his heart had been damaged to much, so he died very young. As a result, I limit myself to 2 drinks/day (on days when I drink, it's not every day). I also will occasionally go a couple weeks without it, just to "make sure".
Proud of you! I'm 58 years old and I had my first alcoholic drink at age 15 and just never stopped. I never drank hard liquor or wine, just beer. Also, I was mostly a weekend drinker due to serving 20 years in the USAF. After retirement, I had too much free time on my hands and found myself drinking almost daily. I would not attend any social function unless beer was served. All my friends drank. At age 52, I woke up a little hung over and like you, decided it was time to stop. I was very lucky I never once had any withdrawal or anything. However, I must admit, I sort of lost many friends over this. This is because what drew us together was beer parties and such. It's odd, we are still friends, we just don't hang out anymore. I've not had one drink, even a sip, in over 6 years! I will not go back! I feel better and I'm saving loads of money by not drinking. It was just time to stop for me. My wife has never drank. We have grown closer. We have been married 33 years. Good luck to you. At least for me, after a couple of months I had zero desire to drink again. You will be happy with your decision.
Thanks for the inspiration. I have also struggled most of my life with alcohol and other things. I am praying for you and Owen. I hope Mrs. W will also support your decision and choose to abstain in your presence also. Blessings.
It’s been twenty years for me best thing I ever did. My wife talked to me one night and explained her feelings. I listened and it was hard to overcome but I am glad I did.
I had been having thoughts very similar to the ones you mention but for me at age 75 it's my young grandchildren that I would like to support. Thanks to your video, I'm now on day 2. Bless you!
I suffer from depression and anxiety and I tried a drink at night but quickly learn that wasn't the answer.i decided to just leave it alone. Great video Cody
@@Prepare2Prosper I wished I had a magical answer for anybody that asks but truth be told I have no clue what is right or wrong I guess it is a case by case basis. I just take it day by day.
So I am tracking right along side of you. Stopped drinking about 3 weeks ago, no smoking unmentionables, cut out all my vises. The problem I'm having is, how do I fill in the many many hours I used to spend inebriated. It's boggling mind when I think about it, how much time I have wasted being wasted.
i really appreciate your words of wisdom, back last january i had a huge struggle with alcohol and drinking culture. I was an alcoholic waking up and reaching for my first drink of the day all the way through till the end of the day where i would drink till i passed out to sleep, what i thought was the only way for me to get to sleep its very amicable of you to do this and it takes great strength im lucky i had the people around me to help me and show me what i was doing to myself even though im only 20. I rarely touch alcohol now only in social settings but i always make sure to stop myself now and never get too "bad" as was the case before. i was sober for around 6 months before i touch another drop and have been better ever since i cut my habit thankyou! stay strong and the support will always be there for you in your choices.
I don't know if it was my suggestion during one of your recent live streams, but I was happy to see you in the chat yesterday on Big Bear's channel. You guys seem to have a lot of the same values. Logos rising! Keep up the great work. I've been alcohol free for about 5 years. It was pretty frustrating at first, but gets a lot easier. The thought of having a drink makes me a little sick most of the time. I rarely want to drink. I will occasionally get a craving for a nice cold beer after a hard day of working out in the hot sun, but I reach for a cold iced tea, or lemonade now. In the beginning, I thought AA would be good help to me. Maybe it was at first, but constantly telling myself I was a broken alcoholic every time I went to a meeting was very bad for me. It kept me from fully healing. I'm not saying you're an alcoholic, I don't think you are (just to be clear). Anyway, between verbally telling myself I'm broken (which felt a lot like brainwashing wizardry), and spending a lot of time with people who were often court ordered to be there & others who didn't really care about not drinking & were actually quite the trouble makers, I found AA to be more of a destructive force in my life. I needed to be around God fearing, positive people who love life. People who have similar family values & morals. Well, this is getting too long for a comment, so.... You're doin' great kid!
I've never had the desire to drink though I have had wine, hard cider and hard root beer just never developed the habit. I've seen alcohol destroy the lives of people close to me and that really made a lasting impression on me and has helped to keep me grounded. Even though I don't have this particular affliction and don't know what you're going through you definitely have my support and admiration. Keep pushing you can do this..
Johnnie, Jack, Jim and Jameson have been my best friends for decades and I have just recently had to say farewell. It hasn't been easy but, it's stories like yours that I've been able to draw strength from.. Sounds like your paying it forward. Thanks for putting your stories out there and for the wise words; they have definitely been an inspiration on my struggling journey.
You wouldn't want to hurt or kill a family member on having that 3rd beer. And you know your kids watch you. They could drink and drive and be killed someday due to watching you. That's reason enough.
Surprising really.. living in a remote location, you have to be ready for anything anytime.. You cant rely on emergency services as much as living in a town.
Powerful message of resolve, dedication and devotion of selflessness. Everything can’t be about you, there is a bigger meaning, and I think you have identified what is really important ...... and it revolves around committing to your family. Kudos to you, Sir!! (I too haven’t touched any booze for weeks)
Great Video, I am 57 years old and 22 years ago my wife left me and i lost my business all because the love of Alcohol led me in a bad direction. I stopped cold turkey and never looked back , i have not had a sip in those 22 years. I remarried, managed to start another excavation company and am very successful in my business and my marriage now. I too watch Owens channel and want to give much respect to you for what you are doing. Take care !!!!!
Ran across your Saying Goodbye video, and was compelled to watch. First, CONGRATULATIONS! My name is Patrick, and I am an alcoholic! It was just over 30 years ago, and I was in your shoes. I was what is called a functioning alcoholic, I had an inkling that I was drinking too much, but certainly feared admitting that to myself, let alone another person. I do understand your going to a favorite restaurant or grocery store and not ordering a cold one. It was as though I feared feeling like less of a man, if I couldn't order a beer. Much like you, one led to two or three or even more. There is an old AA saying that One is too many, and Ten isn't enough. I was blessed in as much that our Lord delivered me from both alcohol and cigarettes. I now can enjoy my life with a glass of iced tea, a soda or even a glass of water. My prayer for you is that you are still "on the wagon" and enjoying your sobriety. It's been just over 30 years for me, and I can tell you, being around others who are drinking, just isn't fun any more. I, like you don't despise them for drinking, it is just that their personality seems to change so drastically between that first and that third or fourth drink. I know mine must have changed also, as I used to enjoy being around those same people after three or four. There is life after alcohol, your family will be so full of wonderful sober memories. Oh, yes... I can still be a jerk at times, but now I remember being a jerk, and can go back and apologize for my behavior. May our Lord bless you and your family. Please post an updated video and tell us of your success. A Happy and sober Wranglerstar follower, Patrick Walker
This is awesome Cody, it's always a good thing to be aware of. A whiskey enthusiast group I participate in does dry weeks every quarter throughout the year, just to make sure things aren't becoming a problem and to reset habits. It always amazes me how much these resets help bring me back on target with eating and drinking habits, even just from a calorie intake perspective. Best of luck to you brother, stay strong and courageous in God!
Thank you so much! I recently decided to stop drinking a few weeks ago because I was feeling as if I couldn’t make decisions on how else to spend my free time. I’ve been struggling to maintain my sobriety these past few days but now that I’ve watched this video I feel truly inspired to continue my sobriety through the summer. God bless you and your family.
Thank you so much for your transparency. I don’t struggle with alcohol but I do with other things that this applies to me too. You are such a man of wisdom and strength. May God continue to bless you and your family.
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I'm surprised that a grounded individual like you would indulge in someone like Owen Benjamin. I have watched many of his broadcasts but am still on the fence about where his heart lies. Half the time I feel that he is paid oposition and the other half the time I feel like he is an open-minded individual who has the street smarts who has learned a way to put a wrench in the system. I congratulate you on this and your honesty in this video. Kudos to you!. I would say that I do have an alcohol problem. I come home every evening and take at least five ten shots of 99 proof vodka. It doesn't matter if others would say that's a problem, I feel it is. Thank you again for your awesome work and hopefully my 1 comment makes it up above the 1.5 million viewers you have and you can read this. For no other reason that I am selfish and want to be recognized,,, LOL with a spice of truth. I just want to give my congrats to an awesome RUclipsr, as yourself. Keep On Keepin On!!!
I watch your vidoes all the time, i like how your about making tools, and so on, last rather than buying new, by buying quality. Im not trying to sound weird at all but i sometimes play your audio on videos when im going to sleep, because i like your standpoint on working, and tools for working. It really hit me when you posted this video , because i drink almost every day functionally and have felt bad the next day not even thinking that it may be alcohol, I respect you and i appreciate your standpoint on subjects that you make vidoes on. My dad is your age but most ive learned ive learned i had to learn myself youtube videos etc. I uderstand how you have so many subscribers because so many can relate ,keep up the good videos man
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Words of an honest man. A lot of us hold the same struggles. Thanks for your genuine conversation Cody.
There was a time when I thought I couldn't make day 3. Well, here I am. It's been several years. Never again will will it touch my lips, and my life is a lot better.
I don't think I'm any better than the next guy. But I am better than my old self.
isnt that what they say about being a gentleman? its not about being better than your fellow man, its about being better than your older self.
Compete only with yourself. That’s what I do.
I've never woke up and said, "Man, I'm glad I drank last night."
Not once lol
happend many times for me
I have! Only when I woke up next to some beautiful woman I wouldn't have had the courage to talk to otherwise. Then I realized promiscuity is even more destructive than drinking!
@@MakeWayForTheLion I hear you. I think the times beer goggles brought home a less than beautiful woman really struck a cord in me as well. I am man enough to admit I did more than once, but I am married now and forgiven.
@@MakeWayForTheLion I had the same thought, but didn't want to bring it up lol
An old farmer once told me "if you don't want your children to do something, don't do that in front of them. If you don't want your children to be drinkers, don't drink, If you want them to be honorable, lead by example" I took it to heart and stopped drinking in front of my children, eventually i could count the beers i'd consumed in a year on one hand, this went on for several years, and then about four years ago i quit entirely for health reasons. I don't miss it at all. After mowing the lawn, a tall glass of unsweetened ice tea really hits the spot.
damn you said it, ice cold sun tea is amazingly refreshing
Truth be told I was afraid to watch this video, but today is the day I chose to do it. Thank you for putting this out there for all of us.
Great video Cody, presently in the same struggle. Police officer with some PTSD issues, turned to alcohol to numb the turmoil, always feel guilty that I'm sometimes in a bit of a fog while trying to be a good dad. Its encouraging to hear you experience the same temptation. Keep us posted on your progress, honestly I was going to run to liquor store tonight, but watching this changed my mind.
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Brother, you can do this. I was in the military for 15 years, I drank for the same reasons, but it's a lie. It's the devil on your shoulder telling you that its merely medicine. You are stronger for your experiences, you can do this!
Help yourself and stop drinking. Help the rest of us and stop policing.
Choose to make it a nice life. you can do anything Nathan.
Smoke WEED!
I just worked 12 hours and I'm drinking a beer right now as I'm watching this. You've ruined it for me. I just poured it down the sink and I'm going to play with my kids instead. Thank you
Good for you brother, God Bless and stay strong.
Didn’t happen
"You've ruined it for me."
Hmm .... seems you've just let someone tell you what to do? What did you do wrong? Because someone else gets on a bandwagon, you've convinced yourself that you are a bad person, based on what ...... their weakness? You need to take back YOUR life, and stop trying to follow someone else that could change their mind on this issue in a heartbeat. Be the better man, and if you are not this bad person you let this other person convince you that you are without evidence, then have the cajones to say " well. that is what you may need to do, but I have the wherewithall to moderate my life in all things .... so thanks ..... but no thanks!".
@@straubdavid9 now your telling him what to do!
@@straubdavid9 Way to jump to conclusions based on nothing.
For about 3-5 months i got bad with getting a 12 pack or a case of beer and getting drunk almost every weekend. I finally realized that I am not doing any good getting drunk every weekend. Most of my family is a bunch of alcoholics and i dont want to end up like them. I haven't had a single drop since January
ben Cessna good for you man
Downing a 12 pack during a weekend or "almost every weekend" does not make you an alcoholic. Not even close.
xjyrki I don’t think his point was him being an alcoholic I think his point was that getting drunk every weekend wasn’t doing him any good and his family is full of alcoholics and he doesn’t want to end up like them, I’ll give you an example: starting with a 12 pack and moving to liqour 1 26oz a weekend then it moves to 40oz a weekend and then it moves to 40oz a day I’m pretty sure that’s what his whole point was or it’s just what I’m seeing
@@owen.voisey you understood my point. I didnt want to let it get that bad so i just stopped drinking for a while.
You were doing pretty good if you only drank on the weekends.
It’s been 17 years without alcohol for me. Best thing I ever did was get sober. Good luck.
I'm right there with you. July 7th 2001 was my first day of sobriety.
12/17/17 for me. Hands down best decision I’ve ever made.
Alcohol doesn’t make you a man, dominating it does.
1/4/04 And loving this life gets better every year
duffweld Right behind you brother, 11-7-04. Best thing I did for me and my family.
You’ve been sober for as long as ive been alive, good work!
I have a lot of respect for people with the ability to be intellectually honest.
I'm 24, off alcohol 17 months. A great decision. I'm off it for life now.
24 as well and been of for just about the same length give or take. It's been awesome!
Good decision, I quit for 10 years or so when I was about 26, I just could not depend on being able to drink like normal people. Most of the time I was fine, but there was always that one time out of 5 that I really couldnt turn it off. Once I resolved myself to quit and never start drinking, it was suprisingly easy. I can remember years after that I was grateful that I had not "tied one on" and made an idiot out of myself. You got it wired man..... There is NOTHING wrong with alcohol and even grass, it just doesn't work for me.....
Im 24 and its been almost 3 years. It does get easier. The hardest parts are not drinking at social events, and classic things like fishing etc. If your really struggling try Heineken 0.0 or another NA called Partake. But its tempting to have the real deal after these so only drink em as a last resort.. Atleast until you have practice resisting the temptation.
Good on you, Im off it since 4 years. It only gets better. Dont miss it at all. Best desission of my life
Satnav you don’t have to be “off it for life.” Just don’t drink today
From someone who "didn't have a drinking problem" for years, and is now going on 2 years without drinking; I know you can do it, you have the proper motivations and support system. Keep up the good work Cody!
Good video. One thing that always kept me away from alcohol is the passing of my grandfather before my mothers wedding and the Bible passage below. Alcohol always caused problems and abuse in the family, and once he got saved he completely dropped it, lived 5 more blessed years and passed in peace.
"Wherefore be ye not unwise, but understanding what the will of the Lord is. And be not drunk with wine, wherein is excess; but be filled with the Spirit; Speaking to yourselves in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody in your heart to the Lord" Ephesians 5:17-19
I’ve recently found your channel, and am blown away with this honesty and the introspective look you have taken. I have struggled on and off with substance use of many kinds and will be sober 1 year best month. I have 2 year old kids and the footage of your young one brought tears to my eyes. I would like to say thank you for putting this out. I wish all the best.
Count me in. I don't want to let Wranglerstar or Owen struggle by themselves. Iron strengthens Iron
I to got sober with Owen. It's been since my 40th birthday in April. It's tough, but totally worth the effort. God bless you brother and your family.
@@Rick-md7tf I really appreciate the encouragement. Right now I am struggling every evening when cooking (my weak time)
It's a great Bible quote, "Iron sharpens iron" No disrespect friend.
@@super66craig None taken. I'm Jewish and read Hebrew and Aramaic. It's a translation issue.
@@Catastrofius Shalom! It does take some work going from Hebrew to English 👍😁
“All things are lawful for me,” but not all things are helpful. “All things are lawful for me,” but I will not be dominated by anything." -1 Corinthians 6.12.
I never knew this was in the bible! Can anyone that's more versed in the Good Book break this down for me, please? I don't know that really understand what this means...Thanks!🙏🙏🙏
A breakdown for you:
All things are lawful for me = you can do what you want, good or bad, we are given free choice
But not all things are helpful = Just because you can, doesn’t mean it cant hurt me, there are ALWAYS consequences; good consequences, and bad consequences to your actions.
but I will not be dominated by anything = I won’t let myself be addicted to anything and let it control my choices.
I can, Michael. At a glance, it looks like the Bible is saying you can do whatever you want, but it's really not. In the previous chapter, someone was kicked out of the Church for unrepentant sin. It means that because Christ has paid the price for your sin, you've been set free from sin to spend eternity with God. But even through Christ gives us freedom, we can still be in bondage to sin. Drinking is an excellent example. Can you drink? Sure. Should you? Maybe or maybe not. Should you go around doing whatever you want because "Jesus paid it all?" Of course not. (See Romans 6.)
The people this letter was addressed to were living in a very sinful environment. Corinth was domination by adulterous, cultish practices, and the people were trying to navigate the culture. Paul was trying to help them through it. He wasn't negating anything else in the Bible, but he was telling them in the midst of this difficult ethical situation, Christ's blood covered them. But, to paraphrase, he also said don't be stupid. Sin is a slaver, and if something is dominating you, you should leave it behind.
That help?
That was wonderful! Thank you both!! I am struggling with an unhealthy addiction of my own and it has certainly dominated my life...this really spoke to me! Thank you so much for your time and help!!🙏
Praying for you, brother.
Good deal brother. I gave it up almost 3 years ago, best decision I ever made. Stay the Course and Finish Strong!
👊👊💪💪👊👊🙏🙏🙏🙏
I've gone thru exactly this, My Father was an alcoholic, his father was an alcoholic , etc. It STOPS with me. 19 yrs ago. I'm 60 now~
My mantra is, "I don't drink, and I don't smoke. I don't stumble, and I don't choke!" I'm glad I never started.
I just want to sit in front of the bus
Jim Sullivan
"We don't smoke,
We don't cuss,
Norfolk !"
Thank you for sharing your testimony! I’m here because I saw you on the Bear chat with Owen. I quite vodka 3 years ago and now have an occasional beer, lost 30 pounds and never felt better. I prayed to God and the next day I woke up, poured it all down the drain with the most incredible and divine strength that I asked for to quite. If this Irish Bear can do it so can you!
God bless and I look forward to watching your videos. I’m originally born and bred In Oregon as my great grandparents homesteaded in the Cedarmill area (Leahy road) so I can relate to the farming videos you share.
Having 4 beers and buying stuff on amazon is a problem too
😂😂😂definitely the worst part of drinking
You'r NOT kidding Bro !!
Can relate, even without the alcohol I can't help but spend my wages on gun stuff, mostly, but also knives, prepping stuff and just random bits too. Just yesterday I borrowed money to buy a scope and a laptop...
Funny! Yes, Amazon can be addictive, can't it? Trouble is it is so easy to buy with a Prime Membership. Shipping is always free.
I just got home and found a Benchmade in my letter box... must of had more than 4 beers that night, well worth it and a very nice knife
No one's live has gotten worse by stop drinking alcohol.
isn't that the truth,
It can only get better👍
The entirety of the islamic middle east is dry, I disagree.
@@fdsman lol touche
@@fdsman "The entirety of the Islamic middle east is dry," LoL
I disagree.
The Islamic middle east is as dry as the Americans Prohibition in the thirties.
We aren't talking about religion or politics. We are talking about an individual that makes a decision to stop drinking alcohol.
You will never know how perfect a time that this video came into my life, really. Thank you for making it.
1 month sober myself today... One day at a time 👐❤️
easyMEDIA you're not alone, I'm right there with you, stay strong.
1 month sober today on Oct 31st 2019. Coincidentally in 2015 I ended my sobriety of 8 months on October 31st. Weird huh! I don't feel any different, I had no ill feeling about booze, I just did it because it felt good and it was there. I removed it now from my mind and need to focus on living life. :-)
Don't forget your goal to stop.
Bill W had it right!
How is it going? Still following the path? Turned over a page last month and got my 2year token. >Took me 11 years to get it :D
Honesty.
Wisdom.
Good parenting.
Good husband.
Some of the reasons we love and respect you, Cody.
Thanks for posting the fahrenheit temperature.
Great news brother. Keep it up. I have almost 8 years sober and life is not always perfect but at least I'm sober.
Powerful message. Certainly gave me something to think about. Iron sharpens iron.
Ehhhhh....
I absolutely understand exactly what you're saying 8 years ago I was slobbering drunk every weekend I decided to put it down walkaway since then I have had 2 beers a year on average and have only been drunk one time God bless you wranglerstar and your family
“If I have one, I have thirteen, no there ain’t nooooo innnn between”
One always leads to another
Kacey Smith yeah if you're weak lol
Old Irish saying "One drink is enough, two drinks too many, three drinks..... not nearly enough!" 😂
I’m on like #14 today and fully functional. Did my taxes today and a bunch of stuff. You just have to learn to understand and balance it.
Your story is so common. The way you drink & the food etc..Sounds like my husband talking earlier this year. He went 45 days w/o alcohol. Then, when he did drink it was awful. So he took himself to rehab for 3 weeks. It’s been 4 months now. I’m so proud of him. He’s super healthy now too! 🙏🏼thanks for telling your story.
Cody, the struggle is real, it really is!! Be strong!! You got this!
I never had a drinking problem either.....as long as there was another bottle. Six years sober now. Good luck God Bless
💪 as a younger guy in my late 20s....its motivating to see you breaking chains. Thank you for this.
This sort of vulnerability and this type of conversation (self control and when saying no to pleasures is better and especially how faith lives out practically) is soo rare. Thank you for sharing this. You are a real influence in my life and I am grateful for your willingness to share.
I'm 500 miles from home, working in another state....which I do weekly. Today, after work, I walked into the hotel and saw that they had cold, bottled beer there for sale. I went through the same mental process as you've described. Thankfully, I decided not to buy it and drink. There are a variety of reasons, but one is that the "realness" of your thoughts and struggle has helped me. This is the most genuine, honest video on the subject that I've seen. Thank you.
I feel that alcohol can be enjoyed responsibly as part of a healthy life. That being said it's a very personal relationship/ choice and I respect your journey and wish you well!
Not everyone can handle it though. And a lot of the people who insist they can really can't. Like he said, it's a goid idea to test yourself for awhile to find out. That good long look in the mirror at the person looking back
Praying for you Cody keep strong, it's worth it in the end.
I did this last year. went from a 6 pack a day to a 6 pack in a year. people are are always why im not having a beer. after a month or two, I have no interest to drink
Thanks for being true and honest.
You are a great brother! God bless!
Luckily I've never tasted alcohol and don't have this particular struggle. having heard stories of my great-grandfather as a drunkard has kept me from ever trying the stuff.
@BL Ranch I hear it is tough! Stopping seems like a good idea.
Haven't had a drop in seven and a half years. It was really hard at first; but my life is a thousand times better. Never going back.
Great job! Here's a beer to celebrate 🍺
Curiously enough, I decided to quit drinking today (probably time to change my user name, hah).
Thanks to sharing this when you did; this has inspired me to double down on that choice to quit.
nigel the drunk you gotta drink with the grain, not against it... that's the promblem!
You can do it mate,
Keep strong,
I have given up smoking
Over a year clear, I smoked
30 - 40 cigs a day.
Whats the irony in quitting drinking?
@Stephan W, I quit smoking about 7 months ago and I smoked a pack a day for about 16-17 years. So glad I made that decision!👍😁👍
How about nigel the repentant drunk? :) In a few months, it can be nigel the reformed drunk, or nigel the teetotaler. You can do it!
That's so awesome you're a fan of Owen. Long live the Bears!
Long live the Bears!
Who is this Owen?
Owen is a a nearly anti-Semitic guy that denies the moon landing and thinks his fans are idiots if they believe it and blocks them.
@@Spazzycat14 he's a quarter Jewish. You questioning his charachter is anti-semetic. And questioning a government that has had a criminal record for not telling the truth is not a character flaw. As far as those being blocked, that's his channel, his prerogative. Creators do it all the time, do not act as if he's the only one.
@@Spazzycat14 You must be an ankle biter.
Over two years and I pray I dont go back. Everything is better.
Thanks OWEN. I used your videos as a source of encouragement as well. Glad to see men I look up to, giving great advice and sharing the struggle. LOGOS IS RISING. Nice shoutout video Wranglerstar. My cravings haven't stop, I doubt they ever will, but at least I know my goal is to abstain!
Cody - thanks for the motivational video. I stopped alcohol over 11 years ago and don't miss it one bit. I never even drank as much as what you were describing, but I did enjoy a glass of wine or a couple beers now and then. Stopping for me was like you were describing what may happen - once stopped it never was there as a craving/nagging and it has just become 'my thing.' I do find that certain brands of NA beer fill that gap of what to drink with my pizza so that's my only small consolation. There are some very unsavory NA beers out there so if you go that route try a few before saying no to them all. And to al those that say what's the purpose of even having NA beer, I say for this very reason...that and it makes you the default designated driver (which for me is also a good thing). Hang in there - I'm guessing you'll just not miss it after awhile and the life-style change will be an easy one.
Bitburger Drive is pretty darn good.
Cody I think you are setting a great example for your son. Good job!
I think a lot of us have addictions that we don't realize or deem an "addiction". Respect for the discipline 👍
"Weed and smoking is bad for you" *takes 5 shots of 40%+ and drinks 3 beers* or "You shouldn't eat that crap McDonald's it's so bad for you" *eats organic and drinks a whole bottle of wine*
Off Duty hey dude lol nice to see you here also haha
@@blackhawlk2262 lol what up man
I actually think I'm addicted to salt & vinegar potato chips. I *love* the damn things, I can't go even a couple of days sometimes without cracking open a pack. The high sodium, oil and fat content makes this quite a problem - even if I sweat out the sodium through exercise the oil still messes up my skin and puts on more calories than necessary.
@@silentbigsteve3429 hunh? what are you trying to say?
Going on 3 weeks, glad to hear your feelings on this, I needed the inspiration.
Keep going! I've been sober 21 years. Not a drop. Praise the Lord!
Thank you for sharing this. Because of my age and full time caregiver-to-my-wife status I gave up using alcohol-except for cooking-in order to stay 'fit for duty'. Water or sometimes a soft drink is now my tipple😀.
As with everything in life, Alcohol requires discipline.
Can't force yourself to think clearly during a hang over though. You can force yourself to do rote work.. but is the job actually required? You can schedule to force yourself to do things, but if you don't have a fluid mind you can't decide to take better opportunities when the time arises to get better outcomes.
i.e. instead of forcing yourself on the lawn mower to mow the lawn you might check classifieds in the paper and find a kickass garage sale that ends up saving you money in the long run (rather then taping your eyes open to get on the lawn mower.. (unlike some of the 'work hard drink hard' guys).
@@rmlee60 truth booze does not taste good I drank for the affect
I think what he’s trying to say is, your purpose for drinking must change. Americans tend to drink until no longer sober instead of drinking for the same reason you drink anything else. It’s a drink. One hot chocolate? One. Not all you can drink until you’re sick of it or no longer sober. Stay in control. When you lose ability to be in control, you’re going too far. If you can’t control it, abstain. I fault no one for quitting. I wouldn’t keep candy in my cupboard if I didn’t think I could keep my hand out of it lol.
cobainzlady I ended up quitting drinking completely, I recommitted my life to Christ and while I don’t think a drink with dinner is a sin, I don’t want to hurt my testimony or cause a brother to stumble
As a teacher, and father who's about the same age, with a young son, you've inspired me, Mr. W! So much of this rings so true for me.
I stopped having beers, scotch, and bourbon. I lost 40 lbs. pretty much immediately (over six months).
Richard Bowles - and save a lot of money
That's because you were consuming fewer calories.
I experienced weight gain and a long plateau for weeks. Chalk it up to my hormones being messed up from years of alcoholism
As long as you're not giving up Loctite or converting to the metric system :-D
metric master race
ahahaha. I will never understand the metric resistance. :)
DONT support him he will get drunk with the money. maybe even stay drunk
@@LifeOnHoth See, that's one of the few things that is the same... just measured in ohms.
@@PghFlip Haha! :D
"I don't have a drinking problem" Aren't those famous last words. Great video Cody, I am 52 and have not had a drink in over 15 years. I can relate to your internal struggle with alcohol thinking back. I was not an alcoholic but I enjoyed drinking. The problem for me with alcohol is it slowly and I do mean slowly, started to affect all aspects of my life. Think back to most of the big regrets in your life, things you have done to people or things you have said that you wish you could take back......Alcohol is usually involved. Nothing good comes from it and it has destroyed many lives. If you can go one day my friend, you can go the rest of your life without it. Its not just the effect on you, your kids watch everything you do and if they see you drinking, it tells them it's ok. I truly believe the devil lives in every drop. Ask the Lord for strength to resist this destructive influence that is "Socially Acceptable". Just listening to you, it seems like you don't want this in your life and you see the patterns that develop. I can tell you from experience it gets easier, and one day you will realize you don't crave it at all. 1 Peter 5:8 - Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour:
"usually involved" is a bit of an understatement :-/
I started drinking heavily pretty much daily since I was 17. I'm 23 now and decided I need to stop the habit. Haven't drank in over a week and been working out every day to keep my mind off drinking
It will get easier.
Oh yes it does. I drink a 12 pack and usually more 7 days a week. It’s awful. After about a month it’s all good
I was 41when I finally put it down successfully (so far) In December, it will be 10 years(AA for me); it's tough but can be done (with God's help); keep it up.
Mr. W, your son will thank you. I have a friend who just past a year of widowhood. Her 7 children are fatherless. Because of this very thing. Just the glass to relax after supper that turned in to a bottle or two. His liver failed, the surgeon cut the wrong thing, and less than 2 weeks later, he was gone. He had just turned 36. Good for you for recognizing and being willing to publicly deal with this.
Man I needed this more than you know. I need to watch this every day.
Me too! 20+ tears drinking a little too much every night. (Ah, tears is a perfectly appropriate typo! Of course I meant years.) I do my job every day, a very mentally demanding job in a very competitive environment, and with decent success, but I drink EVERY night. Now I have the fatty liver, and really need to stop before I cause permanent damage (to my liver, who knows what permanent damage I've already caused to my life and family?). Trying every day, mostly failing. Always looking for motivation and encouragement like this video for W'star. Thanks.
I recently heard a caller on a radio program say that 50% of the things he does are done just so his daughter will see him do it. Meaning, you teach by being who you are, not by saying who you should be. I think your taking this action is going to have a significant impact on Jack's life so maybe you can draw some strength and motivation from that (and, of course Sweat Loaf).
I lost my dad to alcoholism more than 20 years ago (he was in his 40's). He was sober for the last several years of his life, but his heart had been damaged to much, so he died very young. As a result, I limit myself to 2 drinks/day (on days when I drink, it's not every day). I also will occasionally go a couple weeks without it, just to "make sure".
rjtumble Maybe you should go a lifetime to be sure it is not a problem.
Proud of you! I'm 58 years old and I had my first alcoholic drink at age 15 and just never stopped. I never drank hard liquor or wine, just beer. Also, I was mostly a weekend drinker due to serving 20 years in the USAF. After retirement, I had too much free time on my hands and found myself drinking almost daily. I would not attend any social function unless beer was served. All my friends drank. At age 52, I woke up a little hung over and like you, decided it was time to stop. I was very lucky I never once had any withdrawal or anything. However, I must admit, I sort of lost many friends over this. This is because what drew us together was beer parties and such. It's odd, we are still friends, we just don't hang out anymore. I've not had one drink, even a sip, in over 6 years! I will not go back! I feel better and I'm saving loads of money by not drinking. It was just time to stop for me. My wife has never drank. We have grown closer. We have been married 33 years. Good luck to you. At least for me, after a couple of months I had zero desire to drink again. You will be happy with your decision.
Thanks for the inspiration. I have also struggled most of my life with alcohol and other things. I am praying for you and Owen. I hope Mrs. W will also support your decision and choose to abstain in your presence also. Blessings.
It’s been twenty years for me best thing I ever did. My wife talked to me one night and explained her feelings. I listened and it was hard to overcome but I am glad I did.
It takes a brave man to make the connection to Owen Benjamin these days. You’re legit in my book. Keep up the great videos
I don’t understand how it’s brave to be honest. I can’t live any other way.
Jordan Vega Hello from Big Bear 🐻 ‘s channel! I agree and I am so glad to meet everyone! Lakota woman and mother of 5 grown sons🙋🏽♀️🦅
I doubt he cares about the bullshit stigma around Owen the last few years...I know him personally he's actually a good dude.
Great video. Thank you for your honesty. My story is strikingly similar. I’m getting in the boat with you. Thanks again.
Douglas Casterline good for you man! Let’s all stick with it! Sober up and stay sharp for the coming times!
I love your content and it's been great seeing you pop on Owen and Vox's streams. Stay strong and be sober minded my friend.
I had been having thoughts very similar to the ones you mention but for me at age 75 it's my young grandchildren that I would like to support. Thanks to your video, I'm now on day 2. Bless you!
I’m so glad I watched this, I was looking for supportive or relatable videos like this. I want to be on this same journey like NOW. Thank you
An old timer once told me that a man drunk at night is only half a man at work the next day. That always stuck with me.
But Sunday is the day of rest so clearly God is saying to get hammered on Saturday
I suffer from depression and anxiety and I tried a drink at night but quickly learn that wasn't the answer.i decided to just leave it alone. Great video Cody
It sadly does help with depression-induced insomia.
@@philxdev thanks for the info
I don't drink often. But when my depression gets out of hand I tend to over do the alcohol. I really need to find a healthier way to deal with it too.
@@Prepare2Prosper I wished I had a magical answer for anybody that asks but truth be told I have no clue what is right or wrong I guess it is a case by case basis. I just take it day by day.
@@philxdev exactly, wow someone that seems to understand
Best video yet, a Wranglerstar high water mark. This really spoke to me. Thank you
So I am tracking right along side of you. Stopped drinking about 3 weeks ago, no smoking unmentionables, cut out all my vises. The problem I'm having is, how do I fill in the many many hours I used to spend inebriated. It's boggling mind when I think about it, how much time I have wasted being wasted.
i really appreciate your words of wisdom, back last january i had a huge struggle with alcohol and drinking culture. I was an alcoholic waking up and reaching for my first drink of the day all the way through till the end of the day where i would drink till i passed out to sleep, what i thought was the only way for me to get to sleep its very amicable of you to do this and it takes great strength im lucky i had the people around me to help me and show me what i was doing to myself even though im only 20. I rarely touch alcohol now only in social settings but i always make sure to stop myself now and never get too "bad" as was the case before. i was sober for around 6 months before i touch another drop and have been better ever since i cut my habit thankyou! stay strong and the support will always be there for you in your choices.
I don't know if it was my suggestion during one of your recent live streams, but I was happy to see you in the chat yesterday on Big Bear's channel. You guys seem to have a lot of the same values. Logos rising! Keep up the great work.
I've been alcohol free for about 5 years. It was pretty frustrating at first, but gets a lot easier. The thought of having a drink makes me a little sick most of the time. I rarely want to drink. I will occasionally get a craving for a nice cold beer after a hard day of working out in the hot sun, but I reach for a cold iced tea, or lemonade now.
In the beginning, I thought AA would be good help to me. Maybe it was at first, but constantly telling myself I was a broken alcoholic every time I went to a meeting was very bad for me. It kept me from fully healing. I'm not saying you're an alcoholic, I don't think you are (just to be clear). Anyway, between verbally telling myself I'm broken (which felt a lot like brainwashing wizardry), and spending a lot of time with people who were often court ordered to be there & others who didn't really care about not drinking & were actually quite the trouble makers, I found AA to be more of a destructive force in my life. I needed to be around God fearing, positive people who love life. People who have similar family values & morals.
Well, this is getting too long for a comment, so....
You're doin' great kid!
I've never had the desire to drink though I have had wine, hard cider and hard root beer just never developed the habit.
I've seen alcohol destroy the lives of people close to me and that really made a lasting impression on me and has helped to keep me grounded.
Even though I don't have this particular affliction and don't know what you're going through you definitely have my support and admiration.
Keep pushing you can do this..
i just watched that stream too! glad you are liking Owen, he's a good guy.
I"m 23 years old, and never thought of it like that, thank you, God bless everyone
Johnnie, Jack, Jim and Jameson have been my best friends for decades and I have just recently had to say farewell. It hasn't been easy but, it's stories like yours that I've been able to draw strength from.. Sounds like your paying it forward. Thanks for putting your stories out there and for the wise words; they have definitely been an inspiration on my struggling journey.
Good job brother, been almost 5 years for me, one of the best things I've ever done, 5 years with no hangover, 5 years with good sleep!
You wouldn't want to hurt or kill a family member on having that 3rd beer. And you know your kids watch you. They could drink and drive and be killed someday due to watching you.
That's reason enough.
Kinda like saying, JACK, HAVE A BEER, aye?
Exactly the reason i gave up. Always being clear headed wins in every situation.
Interestingly enough, those are not his reasons, didn't seem like it occurred to him...
Surprising really.. living in a remote location, you have to be ready for anything anytime.. You cant rely on emergency services as much as living in a town.
Godspeed my friend. Thank you for your courage of publicly posting this. I will lift you up in prayer
Powerful message of resolve, dedication and devotion of selflessness. Everything can’t be about you, there is a bigger meaning, and I think you have identified what is really important ...... and it revolves around committing to your family. Kudos to you, Sir!! (I too haven’t touched any booze for weeks)
Great Video, I am 57 years old and 22 years ago my wife left me and i lost my business all because the love of Alcohol led me in a bad direction. I stopped cold turkey and never looked back , i have not had a sip in those 22 years. I remarried, managed to start another excavation company and am very successful in my business and my marriage now. I too watch Owens channel and want to give much respect to you for what you are doing. Take care !!!!!
Brave and insightful man. Truly my thoughts and prayers are with you.
You're a good guy and have a great family. Thanks for sharing
Amen brotha. I’ll be praying for your journey. You can do this👌🏼
I'm showing this video to my father. Thank you for this.
And me my husband, doing well but he awakens the desire from time to time, especially hunting season with his brothers
Way to go! I have been dry for 26 years. Best thing I ever did.
You’re like a “modern preacher”. And I mean that in a good way. Very wise.
Ran across your Saying Goodbye video, and was compelled to watch. First, CONGRATULATIONS! My name is Patrick, and I am an alcoholic! It was just over 30 years ago, and I was in your shoes. I was what is called a functioning alcoholic, I had an inkling that I was drinking too much, but certainly feared admitting that to myself, let alone another person. I do understand your going to a favorite restaurant or grocery store and not ordering a cold one. It was as though I feared feeling like less of a man, if I couldn't order a beer. Much like you, one led to two or three or even more. There is an old AA saying that One is too many, and Ten isn't enough. I was blessed in as much that our Lord delivered me from both alcohol and cigarettes. I now can enjoy my life with a glass of iced tea, a soda or even a glass of water. My prayer for you is that you are still "on the wagon" and enjoying your sobriety.
It's been just over 30 years for me, and I can tell you, being around others who are drinking, just isn't fun any more. I, like you don't despise them for drinking, it is just that their personality seems to change so drastically between that first and that third or fourth drink. I know mine must have changed also, as I used to enjoy being around those same people after three or four. There is life after alcohol, your family will be so full of wonderful sober memories. Oh, yes... I can still be a jerk at times, but now I remember being a jerk, and can go back and apologize for my behavior.
May our Lord bless you and your family. Please post an updated video and tell us of your success.
A Happy and sober Wranglerstar follower,
Patrick Walker
This is awesome Cody, it's always a good thing to be aware of. A whiskey enthusiast group I participate in does dry weeks every quarter throughout the year, just to make sure things aren't becoming a problem and to reset habits. It always amazes me how much these resets help bring me back on target with eating and drinking habits, even just from a calorie intake perspective. Best of luck to you brother, stay strong and courageous in God!
Thanks for your sincere message.As.I go through the same process it indeed helps to know people I respect are also on the same road.
Thank you so much! I recently decided to stop drinking a few weeks ago because I was feeling as if I couldn’t make decisions on how else to spend my free time. I’ve been struggling to maintain my sobriety these past few days but now that I’ve watched this video I feel truly inspired to continue my sobriety through the summer. God bless you and your family.
After the woodworking videos, the videos where you impart some wisdom or experience are my favourite!
Sir, you don't have a drinking problem. You have a cookie problem.
I'm the same I had to quit drinking cause I wouldn't stop at 1 or 2
Thank you so much for your transparency. I don’t struggle with alcohol but I do with other things that this applies to me too. You are such a man of wisdom and strength. May God continue to bless you and your family.
Thanks for your courage and for sharing it with us !!! We are with you all the way.