I think you definitely hit the nail on the head when you spoke about internalized misogyny. You’re 100% allowed to take care of yourself, and particularly in this case, it’s material/superficial and that’s okay - not everything that is superficial/material is negative, if it makes you happy and feel good and you’re not harming anyone, go for it, and it can only have good effects on you 🤍 Sending lots of love 🌷
I think your vulnerability here is really beautiful. I saw the comment about the lip fillers being sad and I think that’s plain misogyny that ‘natural’ is more beautiful/ or altering your ‘natural’ form is sad? I can totally see what u mean about the guilt of spending money on things that seem superficial, but you can also see it as a form of creativity/ self expression/ experimentation. And exploring is nothing to feel shameful about. You have such a lovely personality which is why I always watch u and your videos make me feel calm. Lots of love!🌸
I completely relate to you when you say it’s hard growing up in a male dominant household. I grew up with 2 older brothers and 2 older step brothers. All my closest cousins are male. I grew up with mostly male friends and find it hard to make connections with other girls! I also seek validation from males like I’m competing with them, where with girls I feel like it’s harder to relate and I get intimidated or I’m afraid that I come off intimidating to them…I’m glad I’m not the only one going thru this! It’s hard getting older and finding that harder and harder to deal with!! Soooo happy to see you pampering yourself. We deserve it :)
I actually love you so much - and we could pass ass sisters bc we have the exact same features even your calick in the front. We grew up very similarly too. You just gained a follower!
Love seeing you happy... What you said about needing to compete with men resonates, and not to project onto you, but for me, it is deep rooted in me needing to be validated in a patriarchal world, lol. Took me awhile to deepen my sense of worth and validate my own being, without needing to prove myself through external measures. Hope this helps! Thank you. 🌺
Your underarms look amazing! Like to die for! I wish mine looked like that. So clean , smooth and healthy looking. Could you help some of us girls out and consider doing an underarm care focused video? It would be soooo appreciated. 🙏🏻❤️
Well your perception of yourself is not a joke. You are falling for this american fitness insta girl. Wish you all the best you are beauatiful inside and out! Mybe the inner peace/wisdom comes with age. Xoxo
i feel the same way w beauty stuff , i love taking care of myself and being healthy but ive needed a massage for soooo long and i like cant bring myself to go get one , i will only pay for pedicures and i barely even get those done , i am also in a male dominant household , lots of guys around me and even my mom is more tom boyish
I got off my bc 6 months ago and I had acne like the first month or so and then my face cleared up again. I got scared when everyone was saying I would get terrible acne. I guess just depends on the person. My cramps did get worse though once I got off.
I think you definitely hit the nail on the head when you spoke about internalized misogyny. You’re 100% allowed to take care of yourself, and particularly in this case, it’s material/superficial and that’s okay - not everything that is superficial/material is negative, if it makes you happy and feel good and you’re not harming anyone, go for it, and it can only have good effects on you 🤍
Sending lots of love 🌷
I think your vulnerability here is really beautiful. I saw the comment about the lip fillers being sad and I think that’s plain misogyny that ‘natural’ is more beautiful/ or altering your ‘natural’ form is sad? I can totally see what u mean about the guilt of spending money on things that seem superficial, but you can also see it as a form of creativity/ self expression/ experimentation. And exploring is nothing to feel shameful about. You have such a lovely personality which is why I always watch u and your videos make me feel calm. Lots of love!🌸
Whatever makes you feel good ✨just please don’t overdo it, cause you are gorgeoussss!🥲
I completely relate to you when you say it’s hard growing up in a male dominant household. I grew up with 2 older brothers and 2 older step brothers. All my closest cousins are male. I grew up with mostly male friends and find it hard to make connections with other girls! I also seek validation from males like I’m competing with them, where with girls I feel like it’s harder to relate and I get intimidated or I’m afraid that I come off intimidating to them…I’m glad I’m not the only one going thru this! It’s hard getting older and finding that harder and harder to deal with!! Soooo happy to see you pampering yourself. We deserve it :)
I actually love you so much - and we could pass ass sisters bc we have the exact same features even your calick in the front. We grew up very similarly too. You just gained a follower!
Thank you for your vulnerability in this video! It’s great to see you happy and comfortable
You’re 23(?) 😔 you don’t need Botox or fillers.. once you start you won’t be able to stop + you’re such a natural beauty 🥺
So happy seeing you do things that make you feel good!🥰 love the vlogs!
Love seeing you happy...
What you said about needing to compete with men resonates, and not to project onto you, but for me, it is deep rooted in me needing to be validated in a patriarchal world, lol. Took me awhile to deepen my sense of worth and validate my own being, without needing to prove myself through external measures. Hope this helps! Thank you. 🌺
I enjoyed this video. Thanks for taking us along. Looking forward to your podcast!!
Retinol used to work great for me but then it stopped and benzoyl peroxide has really helps with my cystic acne since then! I def recommend
Your underarms look amazing! Like to die for! I wish mine looked like that. So clean , smooth and healthy looking. Could you help some of us girls out and consider doing an underarm care focused video? It would be soooo appreciated. 🙏🏻❤️
you are stunning !! love this video ♡
Thank you 🥹🫶
You are way to young for botox and you dont need the fillers so sad:((
Bruh lol
Well your perception of yourself is not a joke. You are falling for this american fitness insta girl. Wish you all the best you are beauatiful inside and out! Mybe the inner peace/wisdom comes with age. Xoxo
i feel the same way w beauty stuff , i love taking care of myself and being healthy but ive needed a massage for soooo long and i like cant bring myself to go get one , i will only pay for pedicures and i barely even get those done , i am also in a male dominant household , lots of guys around me and even my mom is more tom boyish
I got off my bc 6 months ago and I had acne like the first month or so and then my face cleared up again. I got scared when everyone was saying I would get terrible acne. I guess just depends on the person. My cramps did get worse though once I got off.
Omg! You look like old-school Angelina!! I love the color.
you look so good!
Love your vlogs so much ❤
How to: write off beauty treatments and botox and fillers on your taxes 😅
YEP HEHE
Apparently men are socialized to bond through being competitive so growing up with older brothers might be why thats how you interact with guys
That is very interesting and makes so much sense!!
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