My friend installed tinder on my phone as a joke and I tried it just for laughs. Went on a date with a guy that I though wasn’t my type cause I had a list of things that I wanted. We are now married 4 years and I can’t imagine being with anyone else. Thank you Jasmine for spilling some truth to the children.
Same here girl. I did the exact same thing. Downloaded Tinder to find out what all the fuss was about and found this guy and started texting him after he asked for my number. I initially found him to be cocky, persistent and judging from his pictures, I found him to be too outgoing for my liking. His main picture was him shirtless and hiking. I thought I was into nerdy guys lol not big, buff guys. He never complimented me or anything, just asked me on a date, which I found strange but refreshing. Like he spoke to me like a buddy. I wasn’t planning on meeting him but after 3 days of texting and speaking on the phone with him, I fell madly in love. Trust me when I say that my heart was pretty rock solid and I was only looking to muck around on Tinder for laughs. We have been together for 5 years, married for 4 and have a beautiful 3 year old together. I can’t believe how lucky I am to have found my best friend, lover and soul mate - even after thinking at first that he wouldn’t be right for me when I first saw his tinder profile. For those who are single and dating, take that chance, even if you think they may not be your type or what you want, they could be everything you ever needed - you just don’t know it yet ❤️
Yes! She knows wha she’s talking about! 13 years ago I went on a date with a guy I would have never dated, but I said hey, why not...we’ve been together ever since, and he’s the best man I have ever known and the love of my life!!!!!
That is some lovely ass advice. Very practical. Also just because someone is cute doesn't mean he's going to be all that in the sack anyways if that's what you're thinking.
Wdym its not worth it? By being gay the main value you are ever going to give is your looks, everyone its just oblivious or dont want to admit it, ive seen people put up with all kinds of crap from cute guys, but nobody is forcing them, because everyone knows that the handsome guy is the one with the higher value and the one who has to give their 110% is the uglier one lmao. And the worst thing is that if they get an uglier bf, they will keep thinking about that piece of fine ass for millennia, they know they wete the highest they would ever hope for 😂
Seriously when I started talking to my husband he was not what I was looking for. I was dating older rich men who had their life together. My husband was younger than me didn’t know what he wanted in life, in the military. And now we are married he is so damn good to me & we are about to start a family. I am so grateful to have someone like him.
@@ian-tw5jb yes lol no but fr it was some bitch named Nancy. She noticed that my relationships were a reflection of my childhood trauma so basically i was dating sociopathic assholes. She told me to go on dates with someone i wouldn't "normally" find attractive, someone nice, respectful, calm, stable. She told me that i wont be attracted to him because humans function on familiarity and in my experience my family was shitty therefore i am not attracted to nice people. But if i want to be treated like a queen then i should start dating nice people and start to get familiar with it and get used to it even though it will be uncomfortable at first.
@Why Y aahhh fffuck my childhood trauma man 😖 i dated a nice, stable guy too last month but i dropped him because i couldnt take it either. I really am attracted to assholes who treat me like shit. It's so fucked up man. Hopefully we get some sense into us one day. It's no way to live. 😣
most ppl need to hear this. a lot of us go for the same type of person over and over again (i’m guilty) and wonder why it doesn’t work. ppl should fall in love with their eyes closed.
I'm a straight guy and I have been binge watching your shit for like an hour and your channel is rlly full of some gems. This is some advice I rlly needed.
my boyfriend was not the CUTEST guy i had seen when i first met him, but when we got to know each other and we talked and actually got together we were SOLID. we still are. and we didnt rush into it either. we were really good friends and now we've been together for almost two years, but friends for way longer. i love him so much and now i think hes the sexiest person ive ever seen. SHIT hes supportive too. yesterday he was like: "baby, i think its so sexy that youre making your own money. i fucking love you. youre doing your thing and you know... youre a queen." like!!!! thats what i want. thats what i need. make sure you guys look into people. you really never know. 😊💕
This advice has genuinely changed things for me. I decided to give the guy who was chasing me a chance and he turns out to have a personality I love and the chemistry is REAL
The man I'm with now is like someone I would never date. Because I had a type. And he was totally opposite of everything I was like who cares let me try dating him and it's coming up to our 3 years annivsary. Hes the best thing to ever happen to me I'm glad I went outside of my comfort zone
Listen I dated this guy (he said he had a crush on me for 2 yrs) and it was a mistake, he was not cute at all and treated me really bad 🤷♀️ What a twist huh??
Okay, but I was SERIOUSLY looking for this original video because you had me at, "No ma'am...no ma'am......no ma'am.........no ma'am." It's so funny yet so relatable, and it's become my motto and fighting style to fend off negative thinking and just negativity in general. 😂❤💖💕
Just because they're ugly, it doesn't mean they're good people. Just putting that out there. There are a ton of guys who are ugly and are also horrible to friends, families, partners etc. Conversely, just because they're attractive doesn't mean they're awful people. We just gotta keep an open mind 5:39
really weird this is in my recommended after I've spent so long trying to sleep but pondering about a situation that I have that is basically what this video is trying to tell me. i think for me is that I struggle with differentiating between what is genuine "I want to talk to you/ i want to know you" and "I'm bored right now and you're an easy conv." and then it's the idea of well maybe there's someone better.. but you're never gonna know if you don't try it huh thank you for this vid, you honestly give the best advice. I'm glad I clicked on this recommendation from RUclips
Thanks Jasmine, this is great advice. I'm going through the same thing right now with being choosey. I know I've passed up some great people just by being vain.
It’s funny I’m 29 blk male. I’ve never dated outside my race. There’s this white guy that’s 22 I work with who has expressed interest in me. I gave him my number and we’ve been talking a lot. I was thinking to myself this is not what I want I wanna be with a blk man and more my age. I open RUclips and this is the first thing that pops up with the caption. Lol
How perfect that you posted this video. This guy asked me out on a date and he wasn't someone I'd normally go for, but he said he wanted to get to know me better, and he's cute so I went out with him. I had a really fun time and like you said Jasmine, the inside was totally attractive to me. He was really sweet and fun, we played arcade games and held hands for a little bit. It was really nice and I like him so far.
Just deleted my dating apps. I love your advice. I'm in the group of good looking men you're talking about. However what I found is that a lot of guys thought my account was fake or that I was catfish. So that's why some of us may be on there. Some men was not sure about me, and therefore did not even message me through the app.
Just don't date anyone that fits the "niceguy" or "nicegirl" personality. These personalities cannot accept rejection and they don't respect boundaries. If tell them no for any reason they will try to manipulate you to get what they want or they will make your life hell.
Facts. There was a guy who pursued me for years... Years, no bullshit. I never gave him the time of day because he wasn't my race and I didn't consider myself into his race. Then one day I got super drunk at the club and didn't realize I gave him my number til we started talking on the phone the next day. When we talked (before I realized it was him) I was really interested. He was smart, could keep a conversation going and had a sexy voice too. That guy turned out to be the love of my life and, while we're no longer together, he will always hold a special place in my heart.
when u pass the blunt to someone and then they start telling a story:
LOL
Lmfao ive never laughed so hard at a comment. So true
😂😂
Lmaooooo
Lmaooo
Someone may not be what you WANT but they might be what you NEED.
Russell you’re what I need.
BingBing BongBong 🤣🤣🤣
@@BingBingBongBong *wedding bells*
Can you say it loud for the kids in the back please😁
that doesnt really make sense imo
Me trying to convince someone to date me
Alex -182 LMFAOOOO
Omgg😂 me
yup lol that's me
😭😭😭
This is painfully relatable lol
MY CRUSH ASKED ME OUT WHILE I WAS WATCHING THIS AND IM SHOOKETH. JASMINE IS GOD
Andeth, I OOPETH.. LEGEND
Did you say yes????
sis let us know how it went!
howd it go??
congrats sis!
aww I luv u more
Jasmine Masters no I love U more!
No I love you more
Yes
You’re literally the queen of queens ❤️
*no ma'am pam*
“Too many hoes, that’s why we ain’t making it”
Bible Verse: Masters 16:1 (NIV)
Lil Sataan ndv
😭😭😭
"No maaamm" I am living for this😂😂😂
4:25 instant meme. The more I click on it the more I laugh
Someone turn this into a meme
when she said "y'all looking for all this,
but 'all this' is just that" I felt that
My friend installed tinder on my phone as a joke and I tried it just for laughs. Went on a date with a guy that I though wasn’t my type cause I had a list of things that I wanted. We are now married 4 years and I can’t imagine being with anyone else. Thank you Jasmine for spilling some truth to the children.
damn girl you're so lucky! so cute how small things can turn into something so big, bless you guys ♡
Damn that's crazy. Wishing you a lot of luck!
Same here girl. I did the exact same thing. Downloaded Tinder to find out what all the fuss was about and found this guy and started texting him after he asked for my number. I initially found him to be cocky, persistent and judging from his pictures, I found him to be too outgoing for my liking. His main picture was him shirtless and hiking. I thought I was into nerdy guys lol not big, buff guys. He never complimented me or anything, just asked me on a date, which I found strange but refreshing. Like he spoke to me like a buddy. I wasn’t planning on meeting him but after 3 days of texting and speaking on the phone with him, I fell madly in love. Trust me when I say that my heart was pretty rock solid and I was only looking to muck around on Tinder for laughs. We have been together for 5 years, married for 4 and have a beautiful 3 year old together. I can’t believe how lucky I am to have found my best friend, lover and soul mate - even after thinking at first that he wouldn’t be right for me when I first saw his tinder profile. For those who are single and dating, take that chance, even if you think they may not be your type or what you want, they could be everything you ever needed - you just don’t know it yet ❤️
wanna know what i didn’t expect? That ENDING.
this straight up sounds like a fairytale goddamn
That’s sweet n all but it’s 2019 you don’t need to justify why you had tinder
i am dora the black explora and i have something to say
Dying
aintnobodygottimefadat leave Jasmine alone lmfaooo
And i- oop!
💀
Anna ou-
“I don’t have time to be breaking up”-lmao 😂😆😂
This!! 😭👌🏽
haha right
I felt this 😂😂😂
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
“Quit looking for all this, cuz all this is just that” there have never been truer words
For real, hun.
Lol! I loved when Jasmine said that!
I put a link to this video in my tinder bio.
lmao
LOL
Ooop
you’re someone i would like to date off of that comment alone lmaoo 😭😭😭😭😭
Yes! She knows wha she’s talking about!
13 years ago I went on a date with a guy I would have never dated, but I said hey, why not...we’ve been together ever since, and he’s the best man I have ever known and the love of my life!!!!!
Nice Story :) Unfortunately many women just care about the looks. If you are average its hard to get even a date.
@@userk2876 just means you are looking at the wrong type of women.
User K and men don’t lol
"I am Jasmine Masters and I've got something to say" is the most powerful thing I've ever heard God damn
You’re the auntie of the gay community and it’s why I cherish you sm
ruclips.net/video/vt-fkvgbeyw/видео.html
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That is some lovely ass advice. Very practical. Also just because someone is cute doesn't mean he's going to be all that in the sack anyways if that's what you're thinking.
TRUE. AND IF HE IS THEN HE WON'T BE WORTH A FUCK FOR NOTHING ELSE UNLESS ABUSE AND CHEATING IS WORTH SOMETHING TO YOU.
@@aaronwilliams720 can relate
Wdym its not worth it? By being gay the main value you are ever going to give is your looks, everyone its just oblivious or dont want to admit it, ive seen people put up with all kinds of crap from cute guys, but nobody is forcing them, because everyone knows that the handsome guy is the one with the higher value and the one who has to give their 110% is the uglier one lmao. And the worst thing is that if they get an uglier bf, they will keep thinking about that piece of fine ass for millennia, they know they wete the highest they would ever hope for 😂
Seriously when I started talking to my husband he was not what I was looking for. I was dating older rich men who had their life together. My husband was younger than me didn’t know what he wanted in life, in the military. And now we are married he is so damn good to me & we are about to start a family. I am so grateful to have someone like him.
My therapist told me to date someone i wouldn't normally date
is your therapist jasmine masters
@@ian-tw5jb yes lol no but fr it was some bitch named Nancy. She noticed that my relationships were a reflection of my childhood trauma so basically i was dating sociopathic assholes. She told me to go on dates with someone i wouldn't "normally" find attractive, someone nice, respectful, calm, stable. She told me that i wont be attracted to him because humans function on familiarity and in my experience my family was shitty therefore i am not attracted to nice people. But if i want to be treated like a queen then i should start dating nice people and start to get familiar with it and get used to it even though it will be uncomfortable at first.
@Why Y aahhh fffuck my childhood trauma man 😖 i dated a nice, stable guy too last month but i dropped him because i couldnt take it either. I really am attracted to assholes who treat me like shit. It's so fucked up man. Hopefully we get some sense into us one day. It's no way to live. 😣
The holy bible in spoken form ❤️
most ppl need to hear this. a lot of us go for the same type of person over and over again (i’m guilty) and wonder why it doesn’t work. ppl should fall in love with their eyes closed.
👏👏
I'm a straight guy and I have been binge watching your shit for like an hour and your channel is rlly full of some gems. This is some advice I rlly needed.
❤
Jasmine you are the best! after watching all your videos today cause I was bored I realized you have some really good insight on alot of things!
Same. She ain’t just a meme legend. She a icon.
"Too many hoes that's why we ain't married" I'm deaaaad
Oooooh is this is where the iconic “no ma’am!!!” Is from? OMG I feel like I’ve just stumbled upon a hidden part of history 😂😂😂
And she’s also the face of and I oop
Mahdi Diana
Queen of memeable moments! If I were the type to stan, I would 😂🙌🏽
actionfx1 could be chelcie Lynn tho
This video was in my recommendation just in time. Must be a sign from God.
my boyfriend was not the CUTEST guy i had seen when i first met him, but when we got to know each other and we talked and actually got together we were SOLID. we still are. and we didnt rush into it either. we were really good friends and now we've been together for almost two years, but friends for way longer. i love him so much and now i think hes the sexiest person ive ever seen. SHIT hes supportive too. yesterday he was like: "baby, i think its so sexy that youre making your own money. i fucking love you. youre doing your thing and you know... youre a queen." like!!!! thats what i want. thats what i need. make sure you guys look into people. you really never know. 😊💕
I’m really afraid of dating, so that’s something I’ll have to sort through before this can apply to me, but it is a lovely moment of advice.
ms jasmine preaching thine real jush
What you are saying is true. The book doesn't always match the cover...
Jasmine Masters is legit my life coach 💓
Tyler Williams ikr?! 🥰🙌🏾
This advice has genuinely changed things for me. I decided to give the guy who was chasing me a chance and he turns out to have a personality I love and the chemistry is REAL
@Violet read your comment made me happy.
Sounds like hope for the rest of us still single lol
4:26 is the part you came for 🤟🏾
Xactly
TreyWay Minaj 🦄 no maam
“i wonder what id do to myself”🤣
I want jasmine to be my president
This is sooo true; weed speaks the truth don’t it?
no
you’re a beautiful person and i love you
And honey, you're no slouch yourdamnself! That M.U.G. though, you're gorgeous! ❤❤❤
@@quashawnmurphy1456 bitch I see u too, look at ur damn smile u r an angel 😵🤪😍
@@ghostsheet777 Thanks babe! 😏😘😘
The man I'm with now is like someone I would never date. Because I had a type. And he was totally opposite of everything
I was like who cares let me try dating him and it's coming up to our 3 years annivsary. Hes the best thing to ever happen to me
I'm glad I went outside of my comfort zone
Listen to J.Masters, she ALWAYS known best!
Also, congratulations!!!
Are u still together?
Listen I dated this guy (he said he had a crush on me for 2 yrs) and it was a mistake, he was not cute at all and treated me really bad 🤷♀️
What a twist huh??
I just found these videos and I swear the Lord sent me to Mama Jasmine for all this advice!
i was feeling anxious then came to JM to listen to some reasonable thoughts to put my mind in order
2018 and this video is still the truth !
okay but I really needed this 💀 thank u Jasmine 😭❤️
Okay, but I was SERIOUSLY looking for this original video because you had me at, "No ma'am...no ma'am......no ma'am.........no ma'am." It's so funny yet so relatable, and it's become my motto and fighting style to fend off negative thinking and just negativity in general. 😂❤💖💕
4:25 "NO MAYO. No Mayo. No Mayo. No MAYO."
Bitch is right again. A lot of gay couples look like twins O_O
My psychology degree is over after this.
So true! I tried to date a man I didn’t think i was into and we are married for 5 years now ❤️
This is the sweetest message jasmine has ever put out there
2:38 THE WAY I SCREAMED
From this day forward I will be saying “No ma’am Pam” to any inconvenience
Im loving your channel. I love your content. You are teaching me. I've heard things i never knew of. Keep keeping it real. I appreciate you. ❤
No man pam!!!! The queen of one liners
I need to hear this so bad lmao
Just because they're ugly, it doesn't mean they're good people. Just putting that out there. There are a ton of guys who are ugly and are also horrible to friends, families, partners etc. Conversely, just because they're attractive doesn't mean they're awful people. We just gotta keep an open mind 5:39
4:25 😂😂😂Jasmine is so ICONIC
wisdom at it's finest y'all
Jasmine, you have lifted my spirits so much. I went through this before and realized that I'm worth dating even though I'm not a muscle guy. Thanks 😊
I lovvvvvveeeee u jasmine
Same, she’s such an amazing person,
This is exactly what I needed to hear! This hit me the right way! Thank You Jasmine! Preach!!!
Jasmine Masters...you will never need All Stars because you are an ALL STAR!!!!! YOU. ARE. LEGENDARY.
I love jasmine. She puts me in such a good mood and she’s full of so much wisdom.
really weird this is in my recommended after I've spent so long trying to sleep but pondering about a situation that I have that is basically what this video is trying to tell me.
i think for me is that I struggle with differentiating between what is genuine "I want to talk to you/ i want to know you" and "I'm bored right now and you're an easy conv." and then it's the idea of well maybe there's someone better.. but you're never gonna know if you don't try it huh
thank you for this vid, you honestly give the best advice. I'm glad I clicked on this recommendation from RUclips
Be careful jaz, dont hit yo balls agains🙆🏿🤣
I needed to hear this. Thank you 🙏🏾😊
I was sent here for a reason Jasmine . Thank you .
I love your, "No Ma'am's"!
Jasmine you brighten my day! This is a ton of GREAT advice.
This video is so important to listen to 🙌🏽❤️
Thanks Jasmine, this is great advice. I'm going through the same thing right now with being choosey. I know I've passed up some great people just by being vain.
Oh lord, I’m watching all your old uploads, I love your advice. Literally queen, don’t stop uploading please, you got so much wisdom
4:25 is what I came here for 💀-
CAM Me too🤣
It’s funny I’m 29 blk male. I’ve never dated outside my race. There’s this white guy that’s 22 I work with who has expressed interest in me. I gave him my number and we’ve been talking a lot. I was thinking to myself this is not what I want I wanna be with a blk man and more my age. I open RUclips and this is the first thing that pops up with the caption. Lol
Jasmine:I’m am jasmine masters and I have something to sat
Me:she is jasmine masters and she have something to say
How perfect that you posted this video. This guy asked me out on a date and he wasn't someone I'd normally go for, but he said he wanted to get to know me better, and he's cute so I went out with him. I had a really fun time and like you said Jasmine, the inside was totally attractive to me. He was really sweet and fun, we played arcade games and held hands for a little bit. It was really nice and I like him so far.
Anyone else binge watching? 😂🙌🏾
Jasmine I love youuuuu❤️❤️
Jasmine you're the best. Love the Tea!
Just deleted my dating apps. I love your advice. I'm in the group of good looking men you're talking about. However what I found is that a lot of guys thought my account was fake or that I was catfish. So that's why some of us may be on there. Some men was not sure about me, and therefore did not even message me through the app.
This is amazing! Jasmine masters needs more subscribers
Secret Rendezvous by Karyn White.
Jasmine has taste..
Real talk. Thanks for sharing your wisdom.
Thanks for the advice, lovely! I’m gonna take it and ask my (current) co-worker out. Fingers crossed for me?!
Took this advice and it’s some of the best advice you can take.
I swearrr this touched meeeeeee ! Like I needed this wake up call ! Yesssss Jasmineeeee Your Amazingggg !
who here in 2021
Words of wisdom ❤️
You speaking them scriptures boo
Just don't date anyone that fits the "niceguy" or "nicegirl" personality. These personalities cannot accept rejection and they don't respect boundaries. If tell them no for any reason they will try to manipulate you to get what they want or they will make your life hell.
This was very mind opening. Thank you Jasmine 🤣🌹
Gurl who needs a therapist when i got you.
If I was a guy man you would be my man!!! I love the way you think!!! Your beautiful inside and out!!! 😊
2024 & im back :)
You ain’t lying. My girl is deaf, and was different from me. I’m like this ain’t my kinda girl, but I actually liked it though.
Sometimes the ones we aint chasing are the ones who are right for us... 😂
I never thought to date a billionaire... I am going to try that. Good Advice... Dora the Black Explorer
I needed this message today 💞.
That's exactly what i did. And we've been married now for 14 yrs🥰
Facts. There was a guy who pursued me for years... Years, no bullshit. I never gave him the time of day because he wasn't my race and I didn't consider myself into his race. Then one day I got super drunk at the club and didn't realize I gave him my number til we started talking on the phone the next day. When we talked (before I realized it was him) I was really interested. He was smart, could keep a conversation going and had a sexy voice too. That guy turned out to be the love of my life and, while we're no longer together, he will always hold a special place in my heart.