This is what I needed to hear. We have been bombarded with the information and notions saying that go out and travel and try different things to find out what you want. Partially it is true but one has to find the sweet spot and not get swayed away to find the more experiences. I made my life miserable by going out and travelling and doing stuff. Finally when I was tired I started to take some sensible decisions and my life is now slowly getting aligned. Slowly but surely.
I felt like this message was meant for me. I'm 38 and recently discovered a love of learning piano. I was questioning myself yesterday, "Should I really delve into this new passion? Should I invest the time and money?" And here your example is piano. Go deep and narrow. Those are words I'm going to hold onto.
Good for you! Once you buy a musical instrument it will pay for itself many times over as the years pass. Don't worry about being a superstar; learn, practice, play, and enjoy the growth and satisfaction that comes with it. Too many people cut themselves off from learning music because they think it's only for certain people, but it's open to anyone who's willing to learn. Good luck with it 👏
I'm teaching piano! Come be my student! If you don't live in England it's worth flying here once a week for a lesson. Nah just kidding! I am teaching piano though. I only have four students and they are all adults like you! I really hope they love it too
Primary Education is meant for having an exposure to different subjects and activities. Children aren’t Mature enough to reflect on their actions and choose their passions. Children naturally pursue their interests. It’s the Parents duty to identify their kids interests and nudge them along that direction. Most parents force their will on kids, which creates the real dilemma later on.
This was fantastic! Thank you so much. I’ve been meaning to get back to watching your videos. You just explain things in such a clear, yet simple way that all makes perfect sense. Every-time!
Thank you for the great advice. I am struggling to find passion in anything and have never really known what I want to do with my life. Having a family was my main goal, now my children are grown and I ended my toxic marriage and feel lost on what to do with my life.💙🙏💙
Well yes, but this assumes that person already has something he / she's passionate about. There are a lot of people out there who don't really have that kind of passion or are confused about it. For them, year of accumulating experiences which might clarify that passion could in fact be beneficial. But yes, if you already have something you're somewhat passionate about, this approach is certainly great.
I dont believe everything gets "thrown" into your subconscious mind. I believe we have a sort of a "Filing System" for everything that enters our subconscious mind. That filing system gets organized by our emotions. When we have an experience, we also attach an emotion to it. Some emotions are stronger than others. Thats why we forget a lot of things and its also the reason why we remember important things such as weddings, funerals, and certain birthdays. Experiences with stronger emotions attached can be easily retrieved than experiences with less emotions. Be well everyone! 🌿
Well, to find a passion we have to follow our curiosity and try different things But I agree about the overconsumption of information, it makes us totally lost and passive... Pick one thing that attracts you and try it out actively. :)
The video discusses the importance of reflection and focus in gaining clarity about one's life purpose. * Dandapani criticizes the common advice to "gain more experiences" for self-discovery. He argues that accumulating experiences without reflection is like collecting books without organizing them - it creates confusion rather than clarity. * He emphasizes the importance of choosing experiences within a specific area of interest. Instead of randomly trying everything, he suggests focusing on a passion and exploring different aspects within that field. * The key is to reflect on each experience, understand what you enjoy and what you don't, and then make informed decisions about your future path. This process helps organize the subconscious mind and provides a clearer direction. * Dandapani warns against the dangers of excessive information consumption. Constant scrolling and consuming information without reflection clutters the mind and hinders clarity. In essence, the video encourages viewers to prioritize depth over breadth in their experiences and to cultivate a mindful approach to self-discovery.
Probably you must practice techniques to increase your concentration. There is one best technique in Yog known as 'Trataka' which will help you to build up your concentration. Or else you can find whatever suits you the best to keep your focus steady, like that you will be able to complete your daily goals/ tasks one by one instead of trying to achieve them all at once and being overwhelmed by them. Good Luck 😊
This video tells why we are not able to find direction rather than how to find one. Yes he tells to go deeper, but the main question is what is that specific thing in which we what to go deeper, that question is not answered.
How i activate, possitively mind?it has lots of fear, shy doubt, anxious, it judge everything, so can't accept or love full heartedly. Overthinking, perfectionaism, indecive, poor awareness, daydreams, feel like in a trap of thoughts. I have tried so many doctors, but can't help. They said anxiety ocd etc. Only spirituality can help i think. Do u have any tips to live before die
Write down on a paper what are your all passions and write all your courses and skills and match with them with your passions and start working on it which you feel easy to pursue.....😊❤
Try different things and narrow down your experience, thoughts and feelings. you can find it from there. If you are unable to find it. Explore how to be satisfied in what you are doing right now.
This is what I needed to hear. We have been bombarded with the information and notions saying that go out and travel and try different things to find out what you want. Partially it is true but one has to find the sweet spot and not get swayed away to find the more experiences. I made my life miserable by going out and travelling and doing stuff. Finally when I was tired I started to take some sensible decisions and my life is now slowly getting aligned. Slowly but surely.
I felt like this message was meant for me. I'm 38 and recently discovered a love of learning piano. I was questioning myself yesterday, "Should I really delve into this new passion? Should I invest the time and money?" And here your example is piano. Go deep and narrow. Those are words I'm going to hold onto.
Good for you! Once you buy a musical instrument it will pay for itself many times over as the years pass. Don't worry about being a superstar; learn, practice, play, and enjoy the growth and satisfaction that comes with it. Too many people cut themselves off from learning music because they think it's only for certain people, but it's open to anyone who's willing to learn. Good luck with it 👏
@@richarddunne9802 Thank you for these kind words! 🩷
I'm teaching piano! Come be my student! If you don't live in England it's worth flying here once a week for a lesson. Nah just kidding! I am teaching piano though. I only have four students and they are all adults like you!
I really hope they love it too
Hello Dandapani, we used to live together in the same monastery. It's nice to see you spread wisdom on youtube. All the best
Primary Education is meant for having an exposure to different subjects and activities.
Children aren’t Mature enough to reflect on their actions and choose their passions. Children naturally pursue their interests.
It’s the Parents duty to identify their kids interests and nudge them along that direction. Most parents force their will on kids, which creates the real dilemma later on.
This was fantastic! Thank you so much. I’ve been meaning to get back to watching your videos. You just explain things in such a clear, yet simple way that all makes perfect sense. Every-time!
Thankyou 🙏
Thank you for the great advice. I am struggling to find passion in anything and have never really known what I want to do with my life. Having a family was my main goal, now my children are grown and I ended my toxic marriage and feel lost on what to do with my life.💙🙏💙
Dandapani just comes at the right time with the most sufficient information I need for that exact moment in my life.
Always grateful to you 🙏🏻.
In a vast world of videos, you’ve found your way here. Wishing you peace 🕊️ and happiness 🥰 with all my heart.
Well yes, but this assumes that person already has something he / she's passionate about.
There are a lot of people out there who don't really have that kind of passion or are confused about it.
For them, year of accumulating experiences which might clarify that passion could in fact be beneficial.
But yes, if you already have something you're somewhat passionate about, this approach is certainly great.
I’m 42 , still don’t know I have no passion for anything, I like a lot of things I like But none that I would just only do, I’m screwed
I am 32 and I feel same.
Same me too
Thank You!
Go Narrow and Deep. ❤
Another beautiful video.. thanks Dandapani😊
So love your perspective ❤️
Thanks heaps for sharing!
Loved this thank you
Thank you Dandapani sir for the clear explanation 😇
Crystal clear thoughts..👏👏👏
A mentorto a lot of us
Thank you sir 🙏💖
Thank you for imparting your wisdom.. appreciate it 😇
So simply explained .
Thank you sir
Thankyou so much for explaining in such a beautiful manner.. really helpful 🙏
Found it helpful❤
I dont believe everything gets "thrown" into your subconscious mind. I believe we have a sort of a "Filing System" for everything that enters our subconscious mind. That filing system gets organized by our emotions. When we have an experience, we also attach an emotion to it. Some emotions are stronger than others. Thats why we forget a lot of things and its also the reason why we remember important things such as weddings, funerals, and certain birthdays. Experiences with stronger emotions attached can be easily retrieved than experiences with less emotions. Be well everyone! 🌿
Thank you very much for this video.
I think lord Muruga guided you to make this video 🙏
Well, to find a passion we have to follow our curiosity and try different things
But I agree about the overconsumption of information, it makes us totally lost and passive...
Pick one thing that attracts you and try it out actively. :)
The video discusses the importance of reflection and focus in gaining clarity about one's life purpose.
* Dandapani criticizes the common advice to "gain more experiences" for self-discovery. He argues that accumulating experiences without reflection is like collecting books without organizing them - it creates confusion rather than clarity.
* He emphasizes the importance of choosing experiences within a specific area of interest. Instead of randomly trying everything, he suggests focusing on a passion and exploring different aspects within that field.
* The key is to reflect on each experience, understand what you enjoy and what you don't, and then make informed decisions about your future path. This process helps organize the subconscious mind and provides a clearer direction.
* Dandapani warns against the dangers of excessive information consumption. Constant scrolling and consuming information without reflection clutters the mind and hinders clarity.
In essence, the video encourages viewers to prioritize depth over breadth in their experiences and to cultivate a mindful approach to self-discovery.
I am 36 ...and still clueless
Very good. Congratulations
Have your experience. Follow you.
I have adhd, what about that? thats a whole other beast
Same same same. I have multiple goals but no focus on 1
Probably you must practice techniques to increase your concentration. There is one best technique in Yog known as 'Trataka' which will help you to build up your concentration. Or else you can find whatever suits you the best to keep your focus steady, like that you will be able to complete your daily goals/ tasks one by one instead of trying to achieve them all at once and being overwhelmed by them. Good Luck 😊
@@pranali56432 thanx very much. Will definitely try
@@pranali56432 adderall helps
Adderall helps
This video tells why we are not able to find direction rather than how to find one. Yes he tells to go deeper, but the main question is what is that specific thing in which we what to go deeper, that question is not answered.
How i activate, possitively mind?it has lots of fear, shy doubt, anxious, it judge everything, so can't accept or love full heartedly. Overthinking, perfectionaism, indecive, poor awareness, daydreams, feel like in a trap of thoughts. I have tried so many doctors, but can't help. They said anxiety ocd etc. Only spirituality can help i think. Do u have any tips to live before die
How do we find what we are passionate about?😢
Write down on a paper what are your all passions and write all your courses and skills and match with them with your passions and start working on it which you feel easy to pursue.....😊❤
Try different things and narrow down your experience, thoughts and feelings. you can find it from there.
If you are unable to find it. Explore how to be satisfied in what you are doing right now.
You have pointed out the area where indian education system fails...Multi disciplinary education
You mean 7000 books
Vishal gajjiwar - Kotak mahindra
First of all, how to find a passion?
Yeah how to find Passion 🤯
My subconscious has become same storehouse of books that has not been categorized before now it is becoming hard to find life goal 😑
❤🙏
Excellent guidance, love it
Ok.Whts ur power.
Krishna
6:30
6:30
Nietzsche "can't is a scarecrow "
A monk providing Guidance ?
Ex monk. Married with a daughter ❤
So go narrow and deep