I love how interactive Rissa and Quan are as parents of 2 boys. That’s something that always remains consistent. How they still find time to post amazing content, is beyond me. Thank you both so much. I just love y’all!!!
@@mariemyers7551she’s literally not wearing any makeup in the beginning & they have said multiple times that both of their moms help out , so what were u trying to get at ? Lol
@@mariemyers7551shes not even wearing makeup at the beginning tf…. You’re just a hater who got nobody or family to show you some love.😂😂😂 and their only help is their parents when they have to do things… weirdo
Daddy is so stressed out and tired but he's just being the hero he needs to be for his family, mummy full of energy like every woman will. It's not easy but you guys are making it look so simple. God bless you guys and give you more strength!!
I’ve been a silent watcher & have been watching & supporting since long before Shine was born. I just couldn’t help but mention how different Quans energy is in this & the last few clips. Hope you’ve been getting lots of rest, as well as Rissa. Stay positive & know that it’s okay not to be okay everyday. You’re both parents of two now & as a mother of 3, I just wanted to spread the love & the reality of what parenthood can do to us. & reminder : communication is key ✨ Talk to each other! We love our babies but we have to look after ourselves too. Love you guys!!!
I love this comment because I was thinking the same, I don't have kids but I've been helping raise my nieces and nephews for a while and kids can wear you out, especially as new parents. It's important for parents to lend themselves a breather, especially Quan as a man because men are wired differently and it's ok , women have the capacity to endure more anguish so they develop that patience through our pregnancy so having the kids out can seem like , "Hey now this is the easy part". Quan needs a man's day to himself, sometimes father's need some time to recuperate and adjust mentally . I think they're doing good, but burn out is REAL.
@@nonyabeezwax9538 Do mothers need time for themselves or is them being burn out normal?? I think they both need outside help pike family but this whole women endure anguish better is why most women are opting out on motherhood .
Shine telling Rissa to get in it, in the tub was so cute. He’s talking more and more. And it’s such a blessing to be able to witness his milestones with you guys. Thanks for having us apart of your family’s journey.
I'm so glad it's young parents on social media to show these young kids out here that have babies how to be parents. God bless Rissa and Quan your sons are adorable.🙏🏾💕🙏🏾
From watching yal for so long over the years to now watching yal as parents of 2 kids I feel like a proud big brother! I love watching yal growth and the way yal are with the kiddo's and still putting out fire content!! Keep doing yal thing and we are here for it, from your RUclips big brother much love!!
Watching them be parents kinda makes me emotional, like damn there are really amazing parents out there raising amazing humans to be their best selves. Something that a lot of us didn’t get to experience. No screaming/blaming when the babies makes a mess or fuss… taking so much time to care for them. I really respect y’all 🤍
You can tell Riss and Quan were both raised well. They’re the best RUclips couple parents ever! I only watch them they’re so inspiring ❤❤ beautiful family
Thanks For A Realistic Morning With Kiddos Lol. Shine Is Up And Very Energetic In The Mornings. And I See Sometimes He Needs Extra Motivation To Get Ready Lol. Quan Is Definitely Tired But You Will Get Through This.
NGL Rissa is such a great mom. Watching her getting Shine dressed is just adorable. You and Quan are just the greatest parents. Great team work. Adore you guys❤❤❤ Stay blessed
Shines energy is everything he brings so much joy within. Just too adorable. Savi is getting handsome by the day.🥰Love your beautiful family much love!!!❤️❤️
Greetings hi love and bless BLESS you All thank you for letting us in to your world … Rissa and Shine are very wide awake from early in the morning whilst Quan and sav are a lot more chilled out the balance is calm … it’s so lovely to see shine growing and developing so happy and well a beautiful bouncing baby boy he has a huge personality already it’s so lovely to see how much fun and energy he is bringing into your home 🎉🎉🎉 You both make extremely good parents … Quan you looked so regal in your robe in the morning like the a TRUE king that you are of your household … Rissa always shinning and beautiful with her warming smile … THANK YOU !!! We APPRECIATE YOU in the WORK that you Do…😊
I love seeing Rissa and Quan interact with Shine and Saviour, it’s so good to see young parents doing such a good job. Great video. Love yall❤️ #teamrissandquanforever🥰❤️
Oh my Shine is so smart. I'm beginning to hear his words more clearly now. Baby Saviour is getting big so fast. Time is flying by so quickly before you know it there will be two toddlers running arounds.
Lovely morning video. Life can be hectic and accidents happen when your not expecting them. Makes more work but it's all in your day and as parents we just cope with it. Tired or not you still plod along. Thank you for sharing, I loved it ♥️🧒👶👩❤️💋👨. The boys are adorable and loved so much. XX keep up your good work, take care lifting Shine Rissa.🙋
Awwww I just can’t get enough of Shine! ✨He is so adorable, smart, and I just love how he always so happy! Saviour is just so cute! Rissa you and Quan are such Amazing parents. Much Love to y’all! 💜
I loved Rissa & Quan Since day one! But this is just a entire different level of love seeing y’all as parents! And such a beautiful family! Shine & Savy are so so so cute!!! It gets hectic hahah they both scream at the same time ; oh but just wait until savy hits about 8 months DOUBLE TROUBLE get ready hahaha so much energy and love over all & shine is so so so smart and parenting speaks for itself ! Love y’all & LOVE seeing these family videos it’s a whole new energy of love ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ until next video !! Blessings ❤️
I love when shine is like this so full of energy and talkative, seeing you from day 1 team rissa and Quan to parents of two handsome boys it's amazing how far you guys come.. God bless you all and may God continue to bless you all ❤❤❤❤
Rissa and Quan, I love seeing your morning routines and a day in your lives. Rissa, what a way to wake up to a beautiful family. Shine with all that energy and Saviour checking out his surroundings.
Quan’s face after saviour spat on him was priceless but I love seeing you guys raised two handsome children together and I’ve been watching you guys since forever and y’all are doing an amazing job parenting
You guys are a good team! it does take a village to raise kids and run a house hold and to keep things in order as the two of you do. I love watching your channel and watching you grow as a family. Keep up the good work. 🙏🙌
Oh no the pancake mix!!😂. We all wish we had shines energy in the morning haha. Quan looking fancy asf haha. You guys are doing such a awesome job! Keep up the hard work! Super parents!💗
‼️‼️Try putting a little Dawn dish detergent in the pan with a little water. Let it warm a few minutes over med/low heat. The burn should wash right out afterwards. You won't even have to scrub it. Love you guys!🥰
Maybe its best to lay saviour a blanket down on the bed when u put him down ,that way u dont have to keep washing your sheets and comforters ,itll come in handy❤
l just how Riss and Quan are just the best parents. Not everyone is blessed the way Savior and Shine are ❤❤ lf only Rissa knew how she is a huge inspiration to women, out here, and quan to many men! Love y'all ❤❤❤ ❤❤❤
I love to see this, i think it's important to recognize also that keeping a family strong is also making sure that you have time as a couple, you're kids are apart of you by an extension , but remember, you both created that extension, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE, spend as much quality time with eachother, like "work breaks" lol we hate to see our kids as "work" but the reality is, they are in fact work, and in the learning process, of course work is challenging, so self discipline and teaching a child discipline is important as you guys know- also patience. We can get into automatic mode alot forgetting about ourselves, you're always the hest parents when you take care of yourselves the best you can. I love you guys, the devil is at work on families, and the head of families. Stay strong and prayed up. Unstoppable unbreakable. Bless yall 💚🧡
And thats tooooo funny😂 how Shine✨✨✨✨ runs around and plays when Rissa brushing her teeth and washing her face but HAS to be right there on the counter when Quan tries 😂😂😂😂
Hola Riss and Quan! I been watching your videos with Mr. Shine and I finally subscribed to your channel. I love how u both are as a couple and a familia!
First thing first Rissa!! We need a postpartum update soon because mama the tummy is looking flat ok. I keep seeing quans mom in saviour every time he’s sleeping him is so cute hes a lil chocolate drop like his dad. Quans silence spoke volumes when shine knocked over the pancake mix I felt like I was in trouble 😂I had to come run to my RUclips nephew defense he tried to clean it up with the paper towel he didn’t mean it. Thinking back to yall old morning routine things have changed a whole lot lol
I just love seeing Shine grow up and hearing him talk 🥰 he’s so smart! I love see you guys be parents ☺️ you’re doing an amazing job to have 2 under two❤️
Gather here if you’ve been here since Rissa And Quan’s first video ever! It’s so wholesome to see how these two have grown and come so far to being a family of 4! Love you both so much 🎉
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I just love how Riss and Quan are just the best parents. Not everyone is blessed the way Savior and Shine are❤❤
I agree they going to be 2 great men
This is so true
I love how interactive Rissa and Quan are as parents of 2 boys. That’s something that always remains consistent. How they still find time to post amazing content, is beyond me. Thank you both so much. I just love y’all!!!
I'm sure they have help beyond what we see.😂😂😂😂 I too wake up with a face full of makeup 😅😅😅😅😅😏😏😏😏
@@mariemyers7551ok what's the meaning of this ? What are you all about?
@@mariemyers7551are you insane
@@mariemyers7551she’s literally not wearing any makeup in the beginning & they have said multiple times that both of their moms help out , so what were u trying to get at ? Lol
@@mariemyers7551shes not even wearing makeup at the beginning tf…. You’re just a hater who got nobody or family to show you some love.😂😂😂 and their only help is their parents when they have to do things… weirdo
Love seeing Rissa being a mum she's in her element ❤
She's a great mom😊
Love seeing rissa being a mum she's in het element ❤❤❤
She's a great mom
@@AllisaWilliams-t4l yes same ❤️🤗
Shine saying "Thank you" after he got his Dada Shark 😔❤❤❤ so well mannered!
Awwwww 🥺
Daddy is so stressed out and tired but he's just being the hero he needs to be for his family, mummy full of energy like every woman will. It's not easy but you guys are making it look so simple.
God bless you guys and give you more strength!!
Good bless you guys 🍀🙏
He really looks exhausted n low 😂😂
Tell me why I’m sitting here (as a mom myself) admiring rissa being a mommy and literally tearing up. She’s so wholesome ❤ such a good mommy 🥺
You are a wholesome mum too ❤
Are you a single mom??
I’ve been a silent watcher & have been watching & supporting since long before Shine was born. I just couldn’t help but mention how different Quans energy is in this & the last few clips. Hope you’ve been getting lots of rest, as well as Rissa. Stay positive & know that it’s okay not to be okay everyday. You’re both parents of two now & as a mother of 3, I just wanted to spread the love & the reality of what parenthood can do to us. & reminder : communication is key ✨ Talk to each other! We love our babies but we have to look after ourselves too.
Love you guys!!!
Well put. As a mother of 4 sometimes things get so overwhelming😔.
retweeted your comment!
Well said !!
I love this comment because I was thinking the same, I don't have kids but I've been helping raise my nieces and nephews for a while and kids can wear you out, especially as new parents. It's important for parents to lend themselves a breather, especially Quan as a man because men are wired differently and it's ok , women have the capacity to endure more anguish so they develop that patience through our pregnancy so having the kids out can seem like , "Hey now this is the easy part". Quan needs a man's day to himself, sometimes father's need some time to recuperate and adjust mentally . I think they're doing good, but burn out is REAL.
@@nonyabeezwax9538 Do mothers need time for themselves or is them being burn out normal?? I think they both need outside help pike family but this whole women endure anguish better is why most women are opting out on motherhood .
Shines speech is incredible I’ve never seen a 1 year old talk as amazing and clear as shine does !!! Be proud of ur self guys !!!
Agreed my cousins 2 year old doesn’t even talk yet she’s just starting to be vocal
His speech blows my mind
He's almost 2
These covid babies 😂. My daughter turns 2 in September and speak 2 languages.
@@minenhlemaphanga9548 seriously? That’s actually crazy xx
Shine telling Rissa to get in it, in the tub was so cute. He’s talking more and more. And it’s such a blessing to be able to witness his milestones with you guys. Thanks for having us apart of your family’s journey.
I'm so glad it's young parents on social media to show these young kids out here that have babies how to be parents. God bless Rissa and Quan your sons are adorable.🙏🏾💕🙏🏾
Rissa is so good with keeping Shine calm when he wants to act up from not wanting to get ready 😊 #TeamRissQuanShineAndSaviour
You can tell Quan is not a morning person 😊 then Rissa and Shine are so full of energy.
If only Rissa knew how she is a huge inspiration to women, out here, and quan to many men! Love y'all ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thanks, Rissa and Quan! We are truly grateful for all you do for this generation! 🙏
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Yesss❤❤
WORD!
From watching yal for so long over the years to now watching yal as parents of 2 kids I feel like a proud big brother! I love watching yal growth and the way yal are with the kiddo's and still putting out fire content!! Keep doing yal thing and we are here for it, from your RUclips big brother much love!!
I love to see Shine smile, especially when they say his name.
Honestly ❤❤❤
Watching them be parents kinda makes me emotional, like damn there are really amazing parents out there raising amazing humans to be their best selves. Something that a lot of us didn’t get to experience. No screaming/blaming when the babies makes a mess or fuss… taking so much time to care for them. I really respect y’all 🤍
Y'all are handling this parenting thing like bosses! I love how attentive you both are with both Shine and Saviour ❤❤
You can tell they are GREAT parents on and offline. Shine loves them both so much 🥺😍
I'm loving Shine's personality each day❤
He's so loveable and fun😂
Shine is so a morning person just full of energy😭😭
Shine is so talkative now 😍😍😍😍😍 too cute! And baby savi is getting darker like his daddy 😍😍😍 soo cute!
You can tell Riss and Quan were both raised well. They’re the best RUclips couple parents ever! I only watch them they’re so inspiring ❤❤ beautiful family
Yess!
Shine boy is always smiling and I love that🥺💙💙💙💙💙
Thanks For A Realistic Morning With Kiddos Lol. Shine Is Up And Very Energetic In The Mornings. And I See Sometimes He Needs Extra Motivation To Get Ready Lol. Quan Is Definitely Tired But You Will Get Through This.
Shine loves his mommy and daddy!!! He was OD vocal and hype this video! Savior is definitely in chill mode! Great real raw morning routine!❤
Literally the best family I've ever seen frfr...and Shine's energy is just through the roof .....l love them❤❤
Morning routine was great but would have loved seeing how Quan did with Saviour and Great energy matching Rissa today with Shine. Love y’all family
Shine always such a good little guy. Saviour is just cuteness overload. Both got the best little smiles. Y'all doing a good job.
NGL Rissa is such a great mom. Watching her getting Shine dressed is just adorable. You and Quan are just the greatest parents. Great team work. Adore you guys❤❤❤
Stay blessed
Shines energy is everything he brings so much joy within. Just too adorable. Savi is getting handsome by the day.🥰Love your beautiful family much love!!!❤️❤️
It’s adorable to see how Rissa get shines involved in all the activities of getting ready and making breakfast ❤❤❤👏🏼👏🏼🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Never be afraid to enforce boundaries with shine lol, quan seems soo tired, hope yall are getting alot of rest
I love seeing shine and sav smiling ❤❤❤
Greetings hi love and bless BLESS you All thank you for letting us in to your world …
Rissa and Shine are very wide awake from early in the morning whilst Quan and sav are a lot more chilled out the balance is calm … it’s so lovely to see shine growing and developing so happy and well a beautiful bouncing baby boy he has a huge personality already it’s so lovely to see how much fun and energy he is bringing into your home 🎉🎉🎉
You both make extremely good parents …
Quan you looked so regal in your robe in the morning like the a TRUE king that you are of your household … Rissa always shinning and beautiful with her warming smile …
THANK YOU !!! We APPRECIATE YOU in the WORK that you Do…😊
Shine is such a breathe of fresh air honestly.🥰😍
Ahhhhhhh Shine is just so hyper and full of energy. I love how he speaks. He is absolutely cute. Baby Savi is just super cute❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Yal peeked Quan left that dang kitchen when Shine dropped that cup of pancake mix 🤣🤣
I love seeing Rissa and Quan interact with Shine and Saviour, it’s so good to see young parents doing such a good job. Great video. Love yall❤️ #teamrissandquanforever🥰❤️
Shine’s name is perfect! That little guy is a ray of sunshine. He makes me happy to see him so happy. His personality is everything!!! ❤
I love love Rissa and quans personality u both are well mannered ❤
🥺🥺oh how Shine says "Thank you" after giving him Dada Shark is so adorable 🥺🥺😍😍
Super cute Rissa being such a great mom and Quan being a good dad
You have to constantly keep your eye on toddlers because they are Into everything! You have to give them a area to roam around in.
Daddy is exhausted u got this Quan ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ u are a great father
Shine knows his name fits him so well cause he can definitely brighten up the day… I love his personality each and every day ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Oh my Shine is so smart. I'm beginning to hear his words more clearly now. Baby Saviour is getting big so fast. Time is flying by so quickly before you know it there will be two toddlers running arounds.
RISSA IS SO ANIMATED AND GOOD AT KEEPING THE KIDS CALM LOL
I love this whole family. Rissa and Quan are good parents to Savy and Shine and I LOVE how consistent they are with their vlogs. ❤😊
Lovely morning video. Life can be hectic and accidents happen when your not expecting them. Makes more work but it's all in your day and as parents we just cope with it. Tired or not you still plod along. Thank you for sharing, I loved it ♥️🧒👶👩❤️💋👨. The boys are adorable and loved so much. XX keep up your good work, take care lifting Shine Rissa.🙋
Awwww I just can’t get enough of Shine! ✨He is so adorable, smart, and I just love how he always so happy! Saviour is just so cute! Rissa you and Quan are such Amazing parents. Much Love to y’all! 💜
Rissa is so beautiful and amazing 🥺🥺🥺🙁 she deserves all the happiness in this world ❤
Quan woke up in Dad mode Bai. Awww love the love in this Bai. Beautiful family ❤
The both boys are adorable ❤Saviour looks alot like his dad while Shine looks alot like his mom😊❤
I just can't wait for Shine to start talking properly ❤🎉
I loved Rissa & Quan Since day one! But this is just a entire different level of love seeing y’all as parents! And such a beautiful family! Shine & Savy are so so so cute!!! It gets hectic hahah they both scream at the same time ; oh but just wait until savy hits about 8 months DOUBLE TROUBLE get ready hahaha so much energy and love over all & shine is so so so smart and parenting speaks for itself ! Love y’all & LOVE seeing these family videos it’s a whole new energy of love ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ until next video !! Blessings ❤️
Happy rainy day to stay home and rest😅 just love Shine he has such a great sense of humor ❤ Rissa and Quan you doing great with two young boys ❤
I love when shine is like this so full of energy and talkative, seeing you from day 1 team rissa and Quan to parents of two handsome boys it's amazing how far you guys come.. God bless you all and may God continue to bless you all ❤❤❤❤
You two are so consistent♥️We appreciate it because wow it doesn’t look easy!!!!
Rissa and Quan are wonderful parents I love watching them as parents ❤️
Saviour is looking at Shine like:"What is brother doing?"😂😂😂I love Shine's energy tho😂😂😍
Rissa and Quan, I love seeing your morning routines and a day in your lives. Rissa, what a way to wake up to a beautiful family. Shine with all that energy and Saviour checking out his surroundings.
Rissa awesome mommy. Quan amazing daddy. The unstoppable and unbreakable family!!!
Quan’s face after saviour spat on him was priceless but I love seeing you guys raised two handsome children together and I’ve been watching you guys since forever and y’all are doing an amazing job parenting
You guys are a good team! it does take a village to raise kids and run a house hold and to keep things in order as the two of you do. I love watching your channel and watching you grow as a family. Keep up the good work. 🙏🙌
I really love seeing y’all as parents 🥹🥹 Sooooo much love in the Roberts home 🤍
Oh no the pancake mix!!😂. We all wish we had shines energy in the morning haha. Quan looking fancy asf haha. You guys are doing such a awesome job! Keep up the hard work! Super parents!💗
i love how yall still try to post a lot out of the week even tho yall have a lot going on with the little ones so proud of yall!! love yall !!🤗
Shine already talking is the cutest thing ever❤❤
‼️‼️Try putting a little Dawn dish detergent in the pan with a little water. Let it warm a few minutes over med/low heat. The burn should wash right out afterwards. You won't even have to scrub it. Love you guys!🥰
Maybe its best to lay saviour a blanket down on the bed when u put him down ,that way u dont have to keep washing your sheets and comforters ,itll come in handy❤
Quan is such a gentleman helping rissa and taking care of family!
Amazing to watch yalls dynamic change now as parents! You guys are doing great. ❤❤
Quan seem real off or stressed! Rissa how you hold it together and keep your calm you deserve a trophie🙌🏼💞💞
Would you guys ever consider braiding Shine’s hair? It’s so long and curly I love it❤
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the best parents. Not everyone is
blessed the way Savior and Shine are
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lf only Rissa knew how she is a huge
inspiration to women, out here, and
quan to many men! Love y'all ❤❤❤
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I love to see this, i think it's important to recognize also that keeping a family strong is also making sure that you have time as a couple, you're kids are apart of you by an extension , but remember, you both created that extension, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE, spend as much quality time with eachother, like "work breaks" lol we hate to see our kids as "work" but the reality is, they are in fact work, and in the learning process, of course work is challenging, so self discipline and teaching a child discipline is important as you guys know- also patience. We can get into automatic mode alot forgetting about ourselves, you're always the hest parents when you take care of yourselves the best you can. I love you guys, the devil is at work on families, and the head of families. Stay strong and prayed up. Unstoppable unbreakable. Bless yall 💚🧡
I love that u guys try to involve shine in everything you do like cooking and cleaning and I love the amount of patience you guys have with the boys
Shine has alot of energy in the morning and he is soooo adorable when he wakes up
And thats tooooo funny😂 how Shine✨✨✨✨ runs around and plays when Rissa brushing her teeth and washing her face but HAS to be right there on the counter when Quan tries 😂😂😂😂
Love seeing how interactive you guys are with your boys 🥺❤️
Rissa and Quan is such a great parents, Shine is such a happy baby and Saviour is growing so cute.sending love to the Robert's family 🙏🙏🙏❤
Hey, Rissa and Quan, thank you for bringing us along with you guys. ❤
Hola Riss and Quan! I been watching your videos with Mr. Shine and I finally subscribed to your channel. I love how u both are as a couple and a familia!
Shine needs to be in commercials with his cute little self 😂❤
First thing first Rissa!! We need a postpartum update soon because mama the tummy is looking flat ok. I keep seeing quans mom in saviour every time he’s sleeping him is so cute hes a lil chocolate drop like his dad. Quans silence spoke volumes when shine knocked over the pancake mix I felt like I was in trouble 😂I had to come run to my RUclips nephew defense he tried to clean it up with the paper towel he didn’t mean it. Thinking back to yall old morning routine things have changed a whole lot lol
I just love how clean and organized you’re family is … it’s refreshing to watch👍
I swear whenever I’m sad I just have to look Shine’s smile and I smile too🥹soooo obsessed with Shine’s smile and Savy is sooo cute omg❤️🫶🏽
Lol it’s the instant healing Shine got when Quan kissed him for me! 🥹 So cute 🥰 #TeamRissQuanShineAndSaviour
I just love seeing Shine grow up and hearing him talk 🥰 he’s so smart! I love see you guys be parents ☺️ you’re doing an amazing job to have 2 under two❤️
Quan looks like he just wants to put a brown paper bag over his head and RUN outta that house 😂🤣😂🤣😂
Daddy Quan, is Beat😂 its okay Quan, dont be afraid to admit it. Parents are entitled to be exhausted🤷🏾♀️
I love you guys with everything in me🤗😍.The consistency is 100% epic. #Riss&Quanforever
shine is so hyped in the morning cuz he loves seeing his family duhhhh i love you guys
You guys were meant to be parents 😍 you are both so gentle and patient. Such an example to follow
Gather here if you’ve been here since Rissa And Quan’s first video ever!
It’s so wholesome to see how these two have grown and come so far to being a family of 4!
Love you both so much 🎉
Blessings to y’all family! 💙
shine is soo adorable in the mornings
Can we just take a moment and appreciate how good shine boy is talking he is growing up so fast
I am so addicted to these type of videos. Rise&Quan are so in their element as mommy&daddy! Love you guys❤
I think they do such a nice job. There's no yelling, no talking down on their children... they literally allow their first born to be his age