6 Signs He’s Fighting His Feelings for You | Jordan Peterson’s Insights
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- Опубликовано: 9 фев 2025
- Does he like you but seem hesitant to show it? Men often struggle with their emotions, especially when they’re trying to resist falling for someone. In this video, we explore Jordan Peterson’s insights on male psychology and the 6 key signs that a man is secretly fighting his feelings for you.
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📌 Timestamps:
0:00 - Introduction
0:50 - Why Men Hide Their Feelings
2:15 - Sign #1: He’s Hot & Cold Around You
3:45 - Sign #2: He Watches You More Than He Speaks
5:10 - Sign #3: He’s Protective but Distant
6:40 - Sign #4: He Gets Jealous but Won’t Admit It
8:05 - Sign #5: He Opens Up, Then Pulls Back
9:30 - Sign #6: He Finds Excuses to Be Around You
11:00 - Final Thoughts
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My sweet hubs told me quickly after starting dating that he’d never marry after a horrific marriage and divorce. He’d been single for 8-9 years by then. When I told him I loved him fairly soon he argued with me! You can’t love me so soon! How do you know you’ll love me in five years? I answered that I didn’t know if I would, but if I didn’t, it didn’t mean I didn’t love him today. We were married less than two years after meeting and lasted 42 years until I lost him. He was an awesome, so loving husband.
I'm sure he cheated atleast once in those 42 years.
@ I’m as sure that he didn’t. We both worked, cared for our combined family, showed love daily and hourly. He was a good, decent man.
@@MsAldilWhy are you sure of that? Just because you've been cheated on doesn't mean all, or most, or even many men are cheaters. If you've been cheated on by so many men that you're convinced all men are cheaters, then maybe the common denominator here you. If the men you're attracted to tend to end up being cheaters, then maybe there's a trait that many cheaters share that you tend to be attracted to. There are plenty of men out there convinced that all women are cheaters too, and I say the same thing to them. Most people are decent, but cheaters tend to get around a lot. A lot of people have been cheated on not because most people are cheaters, but because cheaters have many partners.
@@MsAldilwhat did you hope to achieve by disparaging a deceased man you’ve never met to his widow? Do you feel better about the times you were cheated on now? Do you know that your worth isn’t defined on whether or not you’ve been betrayed. It’s not a reflection of you but the partner you had. No need to project onto a stranger. Not only is it ignorant it’s also highly transparent on your end.
@@MsAldil Hurt people hurt people!! Please heal!
in this chaotic
generation, its .hard
to find ..a good &
healthy relationship..!!❤
That's why they say they have a "friend"!! It's best to process these feelings and do the work to heal now because it ONLY gets worse 🙏🏽. It's best to protect your own heart ❤️
Unfortunately a man who lives in fear is not living at all and the woman who is in love with that man is not living either because it's a war that's inside of that man that will continue but it will a war that he has to face alone ,no one can help him if he doesn't want to help himself..So the woman has to let him go or she could possibly loose the chance of being in a deep connection with a man who isn't afraid..
Been there! After 30 years of emotional abuse, I'm free now.
So true💜I was with a man like this for a year. I left and now he's obsessed with me and wants me back but a man who is not afraid has successfully pursued me. Only 2 months in but we're very happy😊😊.😊
BOOM
i am fighting my emotions for this particular guy. i am fiercely fighting my emotions but i'm losing the fight. i am losing the fight because i want to reveal my feelings for him to him. directly to him. i have been really fighting my motions my feelings for so long. for years and years. i really want to reveal my feelings to him. i have never been in love before. this particular guy. he is my first love.
7:08 this made me cry.
This sounded more like "BOY'S who aren't into you, but lets excuse that behavior and do reverse psychology and say hes doing it because hes fighting feelings for you instead"
🤦♀️
Excuses for bad behavior.
Men & women- if this is you- get off the dating feild and quit wasting people's time.
Thanks- mature population.
Crazy cause some men are so committed so this doesn’t even make sense when you’ve been with someone who can actually provide all of the above. But at the same time I believe it has a lot to do with upbringing and the way he genuinely views women. Because there’s no way they don’t care, they just don’t know how to commit , it’s never been exemplified to them. If that makes sense. An sometimes it’s the type of relationship they had with there own mother and what she showed him a women is has a lot to do with it. Idk
So if he was feeling this push-pull within, so was I. I didnt want to appear weak and vulnerable. We both withheld. Thats why we both ended up having nothing. 😞😢
This is also true for women who are fighting their emotions for another.
he is discribing an avoidant attachement style
women don't do this....
Wow… this explains alot
It’s just bolstering men acting like children and the unspoken expectation that all women he encounters should step into a maternal role. Ain’t nobody has time for this
I reconnected with this wonderful guy I had met online 22 years ago. We never met in person, and only talked for a short period. This time he started it and we talked a lot for about three weeks, and seemed REALLY sure of me, and I started feeling like I was developing real feelings. Then POOF... four days ago he disappeared. Well, he's barely spoken fewer than 10 words to me. I want to ask what's going on, but it's not like we're "together." I don't want to seem desperate or something. He's such a wonderful person. I think he struggles with depression, but why wouldn't he just say that if that's what it is?
Do I just move on? I REALLY don't want to get hurt.
Move on to someone who won’t ghost or emotionally shut down.
Its just an ego trip for him to get u hooked
22 years? You are sooo patient😱
@@MsAldil I think you're right. He does have a MASSIVE ego.
POOF means he’s not mature and can’t communicate
Wow this really spoke to me this morning
This explains a lot .....
i just don't know what to do. i have been fighting my feelings unsuccessfully. i haven't told him because i'm really afraid that he might outright reject me. that he'll reject me. i have been really fighting my emotions my feelings for a really really long time. for years and years. for years and years now. has been years. quite literally. i don't know what to do.
Brilliant. Thank you 😊
How do you overcome this?
How about doing all this then finding someone else that he can be in a relationship with. When stating to him he was in then he was out then he was in then he was out. He said he isn’t doing that now he is all in with her.
This is me- a senior female
So pretty much he's an overthinker like BPD. Do men ever stop this when they're in their 50s/60s?
Not if they haven't embraced healing from their trauma.
As the other one of the relationship, how should we help them?
It's all about connection. If you can get them to the point of true connection then you have succeeded. Key is to connect.
What is true connection? How to get to true connection?
@mingmeichang It is when you not just feel safe with them, you KNOW you are safe and you can trust they will be there for you. Connection is supported by trust. Both of you have to share equal trust. If trust is solid then you have connection and you're safe. If you lose trust in the relationship then you won't have a safe place to land and the connection is broken. Two people must know they are safe because they can trust each other. The result of trust is connection. You will know when you are connected and you will know when the connection is broken. But that is the key in relationships is to connect and stay connected. Be a very good friend to who you choose to love. Actions speak louder than words. The value of building trust through your caring and loving friendship gives you freedom to know you are safe which results in connection. Work at staying connected when you know you have it. Don't allow anything to destroy that trust. True connection is when you both know you are safe because you have proven by your actions that you can be trusted. 🕊 🕊 🕊
Yes please do tell .... Great question.
@@mrsc256 Building trust = knowing you're safe = true connection.
hello,jordan. i want to confess my love and my feelings to this particular guy. i really do. i don't know what to do about it.. i just don't know what to do. this is my dilemma. i just don't know what to do about it. he's divorced. i have such a dilemma.
He's missing out on beautiful blessings!
I lived with this man for nearly 4 years before I walked away. He also had so many narc traits he may have been 1 but I’m not a doctor; that’s the other reason I left him cause he had anger outbursts and was just mean and out tong me down all the time to feel better about himself. I left him and we were co parenting our 3 year old daughter for 2 months before she came home telling me daddy was grooming her for sexual acts and doing things to himself in front of her. What happens to this devil? He got a better attorney than me and got majority custody of our daughter. Classic narcissist spin around in trial. Does this man find deep connection in manipulating his daughter? What ends up happening to this man? He will never have a deep connection with a woman but what about a daughter? He’s always been nurturing and good dad but I didn’t know he had eyes for her sexually. And how this turns out. Any and all advice I’m in the coping phase. Thank you
Ps he loves Jordan Peterson’s work. ❤
this is my dilemma.
hello,jordan how are you doing? how are you doing today? i have a dilemma.
Is this AI voice?
Yeah..he's married!
I would never be in a relationship with a guy unresolved like that…I’m not a psycologist, do not have the patience to deal with other people’s issues. No thank you☺️
U won't even realize ur in it until ur in it!
Oh no, not me trust me. I have enough experience at this point in my life.
@@Laninha8 You're right. There's people smart enough to run on the first red flags. Most of us are fools and stick around.
And men can compartmentalize so much easier than women.