Man Up: Part 1 - What does masculinity mean to modern men? | BBC Sport

Поделиться
HTML-код
  • Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024

Комментарии • 77

  • @BBCSport
    @BBCSport  5 лет назад +15

    What would your advice be to somebody struggling with this?
    Remember to like, subscribe and hit the bell button for notifications 🔔🔔

    • @bengibson969
      @bengibson969 5 лет назад +1

      BBC Sport watch Paul mcgregor on RUclips and possibly nimja hypnosis if you feel you have more deep-rooted problems. They both helped me massively to escape mental health issues. No help was available in the real world, so these 2 channels changed my life.

    • @gethcreator751
      @gethcreator751 5 лет назад +2

      I would tell them to man up

    • @dantaylor7344
      @dantaylor7344 5 лет назад

      My advice is move to a nation that actually cares about it's citizens. Canada, Sweden, Norway, Denmark, Netherlands. Finland, Germany all good options.

    • @christyrrell7565
      @christyrrell7565 4 года назад +1

      It is hard to say, everyone has a story.. The story doesn't matter.. What does matter is that they know they are valued, worthy and that someone actually gives a damn about them.

  • @Thomas_basiv
    @Thomas_basiv 5 лет назад +43

    I wish this got more attention

    • @leelee6000
      @leelee6000 5 лет назад

      It will do its only been uploaded couple days ago

  • @James-ml5xk
    @James-ml5xk 5 лет назад +38

    Class video. Great to see more attention given to this. Well done BBC

  • @sebkennedy7286
    @sebkennedy7286 5 лет назад +15

    Having gone through anorexia in 2014/15 and suffering with depression ever since, I'd just like to say thank you, BBC, for highlighting such an important issue in society that continues to be stigmatised even though 1 in 4 of us throughout our lifetime will suffer from a mental illness

  • @bessdavies6440
    @bessdavies6440 4 года назад +10

    Well done BBC!!! As a straight woman, I want to see men talking about their mental health/body image issues!! It's so important!! Males (especially straight cis males) have always been conditioned to be "tough", hide their emotions because it's "not manly to show your emotions/talk about your feelings". Well done to these guys for opening up about it.

    • @DavidW-ng5zv
      @DavidW-ng5zv 3 года назад +2

      You're not a man, why does it bother you?

  • @yanicerabaini2564
    @yanicerabaini2564 5 лет назад +9

    Very important video, saying out loud what a lot of men think but very few of us can put words on it. Thank you, I hope this goes even deeper !

    • @BBCSport
      @BBCSport  5 лет назад +3

      Thank you for the feedback. We've got more videos in this series going live this week which delves into other subjects around male mental health.

  • @TheHealrod
    @TheHealrod 5 месяцев назад

    @8:32 shoutout to your father, man. When I was living with my parents, I saw my father working hard, coming late at night, travelling around the country (México), being the sole breadwinner. You speak my mind, precisely that «I need to be that. I cannot not be that». Regards from Sydney!

  • @marcfield5262
    @marcfield5262 5 лет назад +7

    Such an important subject and hats off to these guys for standing up and talking about this. No guarantees in life for many of us and this can way heavy on a young person

  • @MattSaysHello
    @MattSaysHello 5 лет назад +6

    Really important video. Great work BBC.

  • @contra_sandinista
    @contra_sandinista 3 года назад +7

    Honestly, I'm not man enough to cry around my friends

  • @naturallygamer956
    @naturallygamer956 5 лет назад +4

    Such a valuable peice, well done lads

  • @sammulemuknen4627
    @sammulemuknen4627 5 лет назад +3

    please do more talk show like this. thanks

  • @sambarker7682
    @sambarker7682 5 лет назад +6

    Host looks like Ruben Neves

  • @catsatwork6502
    @catsatwork6502 3 года назад +1

    great vid hope to see more!

  • @uberlephrad8218
    @uberlephrad8218 3 года назад +4

    more women need to watch this.

    • @uberlephrad8218
      @uberlephrad8218 3 года назад +1

      @@oku12 Women perpetuate this behaviour too. That's why they should watch it too. To generate understanding, compassion and change.

    • @uberlephrad8218
      @uberlephrad8218 3 года назад

      @@oku12 I mean, of course, everyone needs to watch this just that many men who believe in incel ideas will never give it up.

  • @menoyuno8430
    @menoyuno8430 4 года назад

    people like Paul Elam and Tom Golden helped me

  • @nocturnal_avenue
    @nocturnal_avenue 3 года назад +1

    The views and like ratio shows how little society cares about men's feelings or perspectives, or at least that's how it seems.

  • @BBCSport
    @BBCSport  5 лет назад +4

    What does masculinity mean to you?

    • @tritiper4188
      @tritiper4188 3 года назад +1

      Masculinity means showing as man who you truly are.

    • @ilyanemuno5427
      @ilyanemuno5427 3 года назад

      @@tritiper4188 deep.

    • @owen2002
      @owen2002 3 года назад +1

      @@tritiper4188 feeling all your emotions and not being ashamed of them

    • @DavidW-ng5zv
      @DavidW-ng5zv Год назад

      @@owen2002 getting angry means you are weak.

  • @overload406
    @overload406 5 лет назад +4

    Will the BBC heart my comment?

    • @lesreed7943
      @lesreed7943 5 лет назад +2

      Heart my comment? What a childish phrase!

  • @lochan8180
    @lochan8180 2 года назад

    2021 was the hardest, darkest time of my life. I was physically, emotionally, mentally, spiritually BROKEN. But now I feel genuinely GRATEFUL and BLESSED that I had to go through that phase because GOD has graciously REVEALED Himself to me in miraculous ways. I am fortunate that He allowed me to know Him at a very young age, but this year is SPECIAL because of what WE (yes, GOD and me) have been through last year. He showed me how POWERFUL prayers truly are when I started to focus on WHO HE IS rather than who I am, on WHAT HE CAN DO rather than what I deserve. The experience was MAGICAL. He showed up BIG TIME and assured me that HE is indeed a LISTENING and RESPONDING GOD. Oh how my faith has skyrocketed as a result! Now more than ever, I have very bright HOPE for my future because I personally experienced how RELIABLE God is. And for that I will forever be grateful. GLORY BE TO GOD, MY EVER FAITHFUL FATHER. ♥️♥️♥️
    To everyone who's struggling right now, please know that GOD LOVES YOU. He wants to help you and give you peace. Please surrender your burdens to Him and allow Him to move in your life.
    "Because he loves Me,” says the Lord, “I will rescue him; I will protect him, for he acknowledges My Name. He will call on Me, and I will answer him; I will be with him in trouble, I will deliver him and honor him." (Psalm 91:14-15)
    Please hold on to this bible verse because WHATEVER GOD SAYS, HE FULFILLS. 🙏

  • @user-ye5vh9yq5s
    @user-ye5vh9yq5s 2 года назад

    좋아요 up

  • @AONE_.
    @AONE_. 3 года назад

    this is me

  • @danarmitage7106
    @danarmitage7106 4 года назад +1

    check out @_themenscollective_ where we talk about these things in more detail.

  • @everafter2611
    @everafter2611 4 года назад

    I want to cry. But right now I feel too weak to do so.

    • @everafter2611
      @everafter2611 3 года назад +1

      @divyanshu pandey asshole.

    • @everafter2611
      @everafter2611 3 года назад

      @Puja Adhikari I did. Then the feeling came back again.

    • @everafter2611
      @everafter2611 3 года назад

      @Puja Adhikari depression but I'm not even mad anymore

  • @mugodhi
    @mugodhi 5 лет назад +2

    It's only 55 pound for a bottle but I don't wanna buy, I'm looking for a girl but I can't find one

  • @izuanwahab2096
    @izuanwahab2096 4 года назад

    it's time you learned to be a man

  • @lesreed7943
    @lesreed7943 5 лет назад

    Any particular reason to feature predominantly "brown" faces - given the UK population has less than 10% "brown" people?

    • @arthurkemp4494
      @arthurkemp4494 4 года назад +14

      Les Reed who cares? We are all the same underneath, we all feel the same shit.

    • @ilyanemuno5427
      @ilyanemuno5427 3 года назад

      I understand the sentiment, but this may be a specific group talk that gathers moc