The sex is part of marriage ,but the men and women had made this enjoyment task ,it is gifted by God for particular reason only to husband and wife but men and women had made this market
I am blessed to have a strong and honorable lady like Seema Anand, along with the wonderful psycho sexologist Dr. Anvita, who spoke about essential critical topics on interpersonal relationships. Sex is very vital from many facets and not just the need in procreation. This is the core of a successful marriage relationship. Indian couples, both men and women in lieu of being discursive, need to be open and have an in-depth broad-minded discussion about their sexual relationship. I share my deep reverence towards these phenomenon ladies for shining light on the subject in addition to educating about it.
New issues can take birth when the spouse who is going out for sex ends up falling in love... Probably polygamy and polyandry should be made legal too to ensure the person outside marriage doesn't get a raw deal... As a society Indians should probably go back to the roots. Not to miss the point of irresponsible behaviour once a person gets a free pass out of marriage which can lead to transmission of sexually transmitted diseases too. 🤦🏻♀️ Also wasn't marriage supposed to be a solemn vow. Why not start adding to the vows that if it goes sexless, look outside. Rather if anything changes look outside. Why can't we as a society grow up and let marriages which don't work come to a respectable end. Divorce can be both respectful and respectable. People can still be friends/support systems or even live together till they feel like. They are adults after all.
I totally agree with you, there's no Point Doing sex outside Marriage clearly that is counted as cheating, I know Women's pleasure is different from mens,some mens are good at it, some not, doesn't mean that if men is not good u should form a sexual relation with someone else, when u r in a relationship or Marriage u don't allow yourself to See Perfection in someone else in any way, if a women is not satisfied in a Marriage there are only 2 things she should do : ADJUST or DIVORCE that's it, well said sister
@@kailash_6162 in my edits I just added thoughts.. and yes I'm not a psychologist so these are my random thoughts not a proven universal truth... Point being human are diverse beings and we can't really have generalised answers for anyone. I personally believe all one can do is try and live as authentic a life as possible and that doesn't mean strictly go by societal norms. Live true, live well.
personality traits and certain belief systems play a good part in the whole equation.... if it's not natural no point .... making un natural efforts without putting your heart in to it and feelings ... does not make sense .. .. how important is the emotional connect ... because then the physical intimacy is an automatic natural response .... since partners are tuned in to each other ...
The soln of renegotiating sounds ideal, also utopic. Who's going to tell his mother he is ok with the wife finding an option outside of marriage? Or, her father? The soln sd be more universal, given our social demography. Yes, it might work for South Delhi. I wouldn't even try it in Najafgarh
Agree partly but it's also something that only the partners need to renegotiate , their family member need not be consulted. But i still feel it's difficult for such a couple involved.. I really appreciate how the two ladies have handled this delicate and complicated subject
Yes correct, I m a gigolo in Mumbai, and hv certain experiences where they used to call me as the husband doesn't wants to have sex with his wife and I have to fulfill his wife's desire....
Mam , this comment section isn't mature enough for your words . Orthodox puritans and their weightless words ruin any healthy discussion . Nuance is something we Indians aren't good with unfortunately .
Anyway you count, Sex is sacred rituals. It requires love & intimacy. Sex without love is never fulfilling One wishes to give his or her love, physicality of it is not that important.
this is sounding like an exclusive talk about sex... let's say when abuse is there the women are shut emotionally chronically.... without the emotional connect it's a mechanical task.... without mental arousal the after math of the whole act leaves ones more empty and irritated ...... so making adjustment takes all the essence out of love making or kamasutra or sensuality or the beauty of the entire concept
Maam I have a question,though it's not related to the present topic,I do not have your,emaild I'd... But y is sex still a taboo?.... If it is so open and people are talking about it. I mean no one looks at a girl correctly,if she is loosing her verginity early..... Wel I'm 35.... Not married,not in any relationship,but I wonder.... Y is it a taboo? Now at this stage of my life if i plan to go for a live in,I know my parents and my frnds won't accept it . And iv seen men they approach for a multiple partners,even after marriage. Yes if it's a girl .... It's a taboo ....and she is judged....
The day universe accepts women as living being and as same as men these questions won't arise. Women are restricted beyond bedroom including the choice of careers. So when stop giving dam to what the so called society led by men ask them to do they will stop commanding orders. Example women wear Hijab but it was imposed by men debated and decided by men. Every time men get into fight all they speak filthly is about women why because women keeps themselves locked in cage of kitchen.
Then ask you friends and parents to change 😂. They are the reason things are as it is. India has alot of problems to deal with before talking about sex like malnutrition, poverty, lack of education, unemployment, inflation and many more.
I find marriage as contract which backed by law so I don't like to accept it because if it is love why bring in law and God of fire to witness vows? Is my view okie or am I abnormal?😢. Second thing I see love as love which is not like saying "he or she is mine forever" I feel love is being there for each other wishing growth well being of each other not necessarily being together forever. Lust is about attraction I know people hate it because they want emotions in everything but I feel attraction is as much part of universe as emotional connect if two getting purely attracted is it sin???
The sex is part of marriage ,but the men and women had made this enjoyment task ,it is gifted by God for particular reason only to husband and wife but men and women had made this market
Not at all, sex is the most important part to play for a better marriage life than a lesser one.
Agree with you sex is not only physical relationship if u hv a satisfactory sex session it's setisfy ur soul too
Just take divorce then go do what ever u want.
Stay single stay safe guys.... If you love your hardwork and money...
Another tough topic with grey zones but expertly handled and eloquently dealt upon.Much appreciated.
If there is anything more complicated than rocket science ; it’s the human sex encounter ( or the attempt of it)
I am blessed to have a strong and honorable lady like Seema Anand, along with the wonderful psycho sexologist Dr. Anvita, who spoke about essential critical topics on interpersonal relationships. Sex is very vital from many facets and not just the need in procreation. This is the core of a successful marriage relationship. Indian couples, both men and women in lieu of being discursive, need to be open and have an in-depth broad-minded discussion about their sexual relationship. I share my deep reverence towards these phenomenon ladies for shining light on the subject in addition to educating about it.
Oh, then why do u ejacuate semen every time u are done with sex hun?💀
Thank you so much for this video! You've given me new perspectives!
Cheers from Guam! 🇬🇺
So truthful and wide perspective covered with great strength and genuine
Somehow you are doing a great job by educating average couple about sex life.
Again thanks to all of them who's shared it.
New issues can take birth when the spouse who is going out for sex ends up falling in love... Probably polygamy and polyandry should be made legal too to ensure the person outside marriage doesn't get a raw deal...
As a society Indians should probably go back to the roots.
Not to miss the point of irresponsible behaviour once a person gets a free pass out of marriage which can lead to transmission of sexually transmitted diseases too.
🤦🏻♀️
Also wasn't marriage supposed to be a solemn vow. Why not start adding to the vows that if it goes sexless, look outside. Rather if anything changes look outside.
Why can't we as a society grow up and let marriages which don't work come to a respectable end. Divorce can be both respectful and respectable. People can still be friends/support systems or even live together till they feel like. They are adults after all.
Well said n nicely explained 👏
I totally agree with you, there's no Point Doing sex outside Marriage clearly that is counted as cheating, I know Women's pleasure is different from mens,some mens are good at it, some not, doesn't mean that if men is not good u should form a sexual relation with someone else, when u r in a relationship or Marriage u don't allow yourself to See Perfection in someone else in any way, if a women is not satisfied in a Marriage there are only 2 things she should do : ADJUST or DIVORCE that's it, well said sister
@@ishantiwari7090 if the man is not providing sex he should hav a prob her going out, n she is not wrong tjen
Your edited text is suspected and not worthy enough, divorce only leads to a social separation with such reasons.
@@kailash_6162 in my edits I just added thoughts.. and yes I'm not a psychologist so these are my random thoughts not a proven universal truth... Point being human are diverse beings and we can't really have generalised answers for anyone. I personally believe all one can do is try and live as authentic a life as possible and that doesn't mean strictly go by societal norms. Live true, live well.
Thank you so much for this video. This discussion was sooo needed.
Make sure to keep the things intact
U want
@@kanhaiyaa3519 Ladki ka naam dikhai toh excited hogaya banda
@@kanhaiyaa3519 Tu Aisa react ki like a creep ki Tumhe ek ladki kabhi nai mili ya milegi. Bhajrangdal ya shiv sena mei ho Kya?
personality traits and certain belief systems play a good part in the whole equation.... if it's not natural no point .... making un natural efforts without putting your heart in to it and feelings ... does not make sense .. .. how important is the emotional connect ... because then the physical intimacy is an automatic natural response .... since partners are tuned in to each other ...
The soln of renegotiating sounds ideal, also utopic.
Who's going to tell his mother he is ok with the wife finding an option outside of marriage?
Or, her father?
The soln sd be more universal, given our social demography.
Yes, it might work for South Delhi.
I wouldn't even try it in Najafgarh
Agree partly but it's also something that only the partners need to renegotiate , their family member need not be consulted. But i still feel it's difficult for such a couple involved.. I really appreciate how the two ladies have handled this delicate and complicated subject
Satisfaction is the basic needs, that may be of any type.
Satisfaction of any type ?? Even compromising our dignity too.. morals ethics too ??
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What if it is immoral. ??
Yes correct, I m a gigolo in Mumbai, and hv certain experiences where they used to call me as the husband doesn't wants to have sex with his wife and I have to fulfill his wife's desire....
Bhai experience share kar
Mam , this comment section isn't mature enough for your words . Orthodox puritans and their weightless words ruin any healthy discussion . Nuance is something we Indians aren't good with unfortunately .
Anyway you count, Sex is sacred rituals. It requires love & intimacy. Sex without love is never fulfilling
One wishes to give his or her love, physicality of it is not that important.
One of the best conversation I've just saw...So much things to learn about sexual life..My thanks and appreciation.
this is sounding like an exclusive talk about sex... let's say when abuse is there the women are shut emotionally chronically.... without the emotional connect it's a mechanical task.... without mental arousal the after math of the whole act leaves ones more empty and irritated ...... so making adjustment takes all the essence out of love making or kamasutra or sensuality or the beauty of the entire concept
Rght also I think we search outside for a emotional touch frst
Maam I have a question,though it's not related to the present topic,I do not have your,emaild I'd...
But y is sex still a taboo?....
If it is so open and people are talking about it.
I mean no one looks at a girl correctly,if she is loosing her verginity early..... Wel I'm 35.... Not married,not in any relationship,but I wonder.... Y is it a taboo?
Now at this stage of my life if i plan to go for a live in,I know my parents and my frnds won't accept it .
And iv seen men they approach for a multiple partners,even after marriage.
Yes if it's a girl .... It's a taboo ....and she is judged....
The day universe accepts women as living being and as same as men these questions won't arise. Women are restricted beyond bedroom including the choice of careers. So when stop giving dam to what the so called society led by men ask them to do they will stop commanding orders. Example women wear Hijab but it was imposed by men debated and decided by men. Every time men get into fight all they speak filthly is about women why because women keeps themselves locked in cage of kitchen.
Then ask you friends and parents to change 😂. They are the reason things are as it is. India has alot of problems to deal with before talking about sex like malnutrition, poverty, lack of education, unemployment, inflation and many more.
Ma'am don't think about the society u can do whatever u want lots of respect for u
It's a taboo even for guys if they're from conservative homes.
How can I convince my wife as. I feel to go somewhere
Do you know how you make love satisfactory for her ? Are you a giver, or do you just take, take, take, like an inexperienced boy ?
@@Juliasblues That's something most people don't think about. Are they the problem? They won't talk for God's sake.
In married life there is not only sex is important that all are gready for this
It's because of internet people watch rubbish stuffs and try to execute this with their spouses.. they get a big no and destruction begins...
Rght not only but also must
The sex is not market ,but unfortunately men and women had made this market
*@Ranu Jain* Not mén, only wómén like these has made this a market.
@@jaydutta7711 you're sure it's not because of men too lmao? how are most prostitutes women??
@@marjavjain6680 Because they CHASE mén.
@@jaydutta7711 no it's because there's demand... whereas if women were the one chasing ,most prostitutes would be men...
I find marriage as contract which backed by law so I don't like to accept it because if it is love why bring in law and God of fire to witness vows? Is my view okie or am I abnormal?😢. Second thing I see love as love which is not like saying "he or she is mine forever" I feel love is being there for each other wishing growth well being of each other not necessarily being together forever. Lust is about attraction I know people hate it because they want emotions in everything but I feel attraction is as much part of universe as emotional connect if two getting purely attracted is it sin???
All women want to marry for love... then from where this question come
Edit again
great conversation!
Thank you Seema Ji.
Useful information. 👍👍👍🙏🙏🙏 Thanks
If foundation of a marriage is love then is sex, Love?
What is conclusion?
Conclusion is simple..
Destruction nothing else.
Mental anguish
Depression
Mental problems...
Is it wrong to have lots of sex in marriage that you have to go out not to have sex?
what should happen when both partners are willing to have sex but one has lost interest in the body of the other?
spice it up no? if a couple cooks the same food every day it's monotonous..
Madam topic is hearting as
He is gay get out of marriage 😁😁 ur doped girl.. divorce 🙏
Great mam
Yes
U seem much involved in this topic r u satisfied ?
Srry to ask
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Dr. Anvita good hairstyle. Suits you. Seema you touched your hair more than 50x in 40 minutes. It's quite disturbing. Please try and avoid. 🙏
She does it... But it's so sexy.. If u can't enjoy it.. Don't watch